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I used to be a successful freelancer before, I gave my 110% in that. Now, I am in depression because I am not doing well at all. I gave my 100% in my first relationship, that ended up in a miserable break-up which affected my mental health tremendously. Guys, never give your 100% in anything, because if that fails, you will suffer 1000%. Important life lesson this is. Thank you Amit Sir.
I completely agree to you Amitji. Better to be Mediocre. Best example is Amir Khan - Amir give 100% to career but other side, He is 2 time divorcee (NOT A GOOD HUSBAND) his daughter is in depression from age 18-24 (amir khan is not aware) - NOT A GOOD FATHER His brother is jobless and mentally tired person because of X reason - NOT A GOOD BROTHER.
You are absolutely correct but very difficult for a working woman in our society. Office mange100/. Husband mange well managed home , mummy jaisa tasty food with cheerful mood. Children need your full attention for their carrier. Elder mother always in bad mood because you are not giving her time. After a certain age your health also need attention. End result you don’t have any time for yourself. 😢
As he said, their expectations will change automatically over time. Yes, they will not like it initially, but will adjust to it. I see this issue very constantly with women in my own house. They want to score 10/10 in all areas. Don't do it. Get time for yourself
Sir, Not only your Videos are awesome, people commenting on your videos with their realisation and their thinking is also enriching. People are calling you guru, Gurudev and other adjectives because they are getting that soul fulfilling solutions through your videos. Keep enlightening our path. I hear you daily.
I agree very much with this. Even as a student, giving just 100 to your acads, you miss out on extra currics, friends, and the overall enjoyment. What use is your 9.5 cpi like this? Attending college everyday and exhausting yourself My overall chill life of getting 8.5-8.8cpi, causally taking holidays if wanted, Kutch Kutch farak nahi padta Overall khushi rehti hai Gg
Excellent video 🙏 I have always argued that nothing is wrong in being mediocre! As long as u r happy doing whatever u r and maintaining a good standard of living why bother about what others say?? Believe me I have fought for such average people all my life ! Some people understood me and many didn't because of social compulsions. I was severely criticized for not being ambitious. But I continued leading a simple and a happy life and my husband too is like me. My son too is not very ambitious but doing well. He too is happy with his wife. No matter what we do we must be happy and contented in life. Otherwise whatever u achieve will be useless. But I know majority is not with me. Most of them want to excel and become number one !!Hope ur video will change their minds!!
👏. nothing is perfect in life..each person has limitations..the final objective is to be happy by balancing and trying to optimize..this lies in the middle path the true concept of Buddhism..excesses lead to imbalance..aim to please the soul more than body for lasting happiness. 🤔
He doesn't say that u don't have to excel as a student....he says once u r a family man u have so many roles to perform. And there occurs conflict....coz here one area can be excelled at the cost of another and that is not advisable, so being a family person one has to take care of many areas at the same time, then we can make an average of our performance in every role and can do justice to many things at the same time without compromising on any area.
You are right I was very ambitious and burned out early only to realise it was waste of life as to excel you need genetic potential, great luck, big contacts and strong finance along with good looks.
i have been thinking the same thing lately ...that being too much ambitious about having a so called perfect life is taking a toll on my happiness n mental peace . thankyou for your reinforcement
People who are watching you in their 20's and 30's are so lucky. They will benefit so much from the wisdom imparted by you I have mostly followed these rules and have been successful.
Acc to charak Samhita The limit for exercise should be below fifty percent of your maximum strength(Bala) I knw guruji is averse to references but i found this reference too relevant to this video so couldn’t resist typing!!!😇
Good video sir Ji.very realistic. My percentage in senior school was 76 and BTech it was 76% 😊. I thoroughly enjoyed studies and landed a good job from campus. In early professional years I was at 95% and less on health and family, but it paid handsomly. Now I have built up good corpus and prefer to go easy at my job. I am focusing in health family sports and finances. In corporate world you might be tagged as laid back but when you are intellectual, financially satisfied, others' perception about you don't matter much. stay humble, keep balance in life. Thank you for wonderful video.
Totally relatable. I have done this for long time. Tried to give 100 percnt every where beyond my capacity and now don't want to continue those things. Thank you for the clarity.
Ok sir bilkul ab poora dhayaan rakkha jayega. 100% nahi dena hai har jagah.. kash ye vdo 10 years pehle aa jata😢. Tab aise samjhane wala koi ni tha.. but ab thik chal rahi h life. Thode hard decision lene pade. Apni happy life k liye.. 😊 thanks a lot 🎉
That's a great video. Managing expectation is very important. I had heard about it in professional life. But I never knew it can be applied to every aspect of life in this way. Set lower expectation, such that people will get a "pleasant surprise" when you give more or perform higher. Giving 100 percent in the first place, getting burn out and despite this, listen to everyone's complaints will get us into a vicious cycle of "burning out" from which there is no escape. We should plan to show some "scope of improvement" in advance.
Sir really loved this video.. Sukoon mila sahi mai isse sun kar.. Aisa maal aapki dukaan pe hi mil skta hai , kahi aur nahi .. Thank u so much ! So mmuch thoughtful and creative ! Salute to you..
🙏🙏🙏 Sir aap mn ki bat jan lete h mai aaj subh hi mhsoos kr rhi thi ki mai ek cheej pe bhut focus kr rhi hu or baki cheeje chhoot rhi h, fir maine sbko balance krne ka socha bt vo aasan nhi lg rha tha, or aapke es video ne meri problem solve kr li thank you sir 🙏
That’s what he said, you can’t give 100% on everything, to cover many thing’s to have fulfilling life, you will be at 75 % but will achive more in life. By expanding horizontally more
सरजी इतने साल कहा थे आप?? बड़ी देर से मिले हो। खैर मिले हो यही बड़ी बात है। हमारे सरजी का चैनल जल्द ही बड़ी ऊंचाई पर जायेगा विश्वास है।। Love you Sirji ❤
Sir , yours videos are always awesome. Life is nothing but managing time & energy between yours family, office, friends , relatives etc and that can only be achieved as effectively explained by yourself @ 75-80%👍👌👏🙏
Sir , you really give the article solutions of the real-life problems. Not only that seeing you I also think to become a counsellor in order to help the world and the people who need some suggestion and are stuck in some dilemma. This is very first time when I really realise that a person can help the word a lot without becoming a doctor or scientist. This is very first time in my life when I have come to know the value of a real counselor. Thanks a lot, sir.
Without putting it this way, I have found to be more successful in endeavours where I chose to operate in the "60-80%" category, with the focus on doing just about enough so I dont hesitate to do it again tomorrow....with consistency, again and again and again. Endeavours where I operated at 90-95%, it was for very short period. Good results in the short time frame, but no magic of compounded efforts over long periods of time.
Sir....u r excellent....can't express 8n words......I felt myself stuck in this big trap and expectations and crisis of how much time n energy to allocate and when to allocate to which area.....it is very clear cut understanding which u give us so easily.....thanks a lot sir !!
Today I completed my search after finding this video as the best advice for me. Definitely I was acting like a sprinter in all the races of life and ultimately realising standing nowhere if analyze from a broader perspective
This video came as a relief! Where we strugglea to become best. I am a mother, running my small business and other things too. I struggle because to make one thing amazing some other thing goes bad and i feel guilty. I am happy that i have to run my own race now. Bahut, clarity mili.
