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Meri life hell ho hai thi iss situation se , meri shaddi ko 1 saal hua tha mere inlaws ke best friends ka all time mujhe cooking karena hota tha , aur last tak aisa ho gaya tha ki husband ke friend aur uski mummy jo meri motherin law ki best friend thi wo rehne lagi thi delhi me humlogo ke sath flat me hell ho gaya tha jeewan mera . Kisi ko bhi nhi samjh aata tha mera wfh hota tha aur ac sirf bedroom me tha sab ac me baithe the maine 3-4 mahine hall me gujare hai phir last me maine apne office se transfer kara liya tha . In sab ko flat me rehne diya maine phir mere jate hi sab chale gaye , Sir apka content ekdum op hai . Loge samjhate nhi h
Bahut acha, mai bhi us stage se gujra tha, chhota tha school padh raha tha. Sikhne ki bahut icha thi nay nayi chije pr pata chala apne hi aapka faayda uthane taiyar baithe hain. Ab mai itna strong bann gya hu ki kya batau. Struggle abhi bhi hai pr life samjh aa rahi hai. Apne raaste acha jee raha. Aap bhi dubara kisi ki gulami mat kariyega unse ladiye mat (asahyog kijye) wo khud ba khud samjh jaynge ki isse faayda nahi nikaal sakte.
No, no we should not stay in relatives house, because they take advantage of you. My uncle force me to stay in his house though I paid him indirectly as gift now he tells everyone that I have put up in his house & he had lot of work
Same trend in kashmir even in villages....... People now rarely stay for a night..... I have made it a rule to never visit relatives for a night stay...... During day it is ok to visit for 2-3 hours though
Absolutely agree. My philosophy since forever. I never stay with any friends or relatives when I travel as I want to enjoy my holiday my way n not their way in their home eating n sleeping their way. N I don’t encourage the same at my place. Thankfully most people understand this in my circle.
मैंने स्वयं बहुत लोगों के लिए किया है और थोड़ी सी भी ( उनके मुताबिक) कमी रह गयी तो बुराई भी झेली है। ये सारी बातें सुन कर लगता है कि मेरी सोच को शब्द मिल गये ( महिला होने के नाते किसी के सामने खुल कर कह नहीं पाती थी, फिर भी अपनी बेटी और पडौसन को लगता है कि आवाज और चेहरा बदल कर मैं फिर से बोलने लगी।
Hamare gaon se USA ghumne ate hain to hamse yeh ummid karte hai ke hum unhe airport lene aye, cousins chach mama masi bua ho toh thik hai woh bhi kar lete. Ab toh hum Uber send karte hain. Aao milo khao, raho bhi 2-3 din we enjoy that but don’t expect me to taxi around, kyu ki ghar ane ke bad toh safsafai bhi khud karni hai, grocery aur khana bhi banana hai. Ek bar toh gav ke kisi ki beti graduation complete karke hamare shahar aa rahi thi, khana vana banake mein ready thi usne kalti mari, kisi aur rishtedar ke pass chali gayi, kuch dino bad phir contact karna chaha mein to avoid kar diya sorry not going to waste my time on these long distance acquaintances.
Ek hack hai... If you stay with your friend who is married, and you're married too, and your friend also wants you as a couple to visit to relive old memories... Itna Gift leke jao jitna aap otherwise hotel me stay karte to wahaa kharcha dete (also assuming dhang dhang ke hotel me stay karte ho), usually koi mind nahi karta, especially jab everyone knows you're very old friends... That's a sad reality after getting married ye sab hacks karne padte hain apne hi dosto se milne ke liye, but theek hai, usually guys understand... 😅
I just want to know your opinion. Is it applied for ladies also? If they will also invite their old friends as a couple to get together... One month wife's friend is coming, then next month husband's friend is coming. Will it be Ok for a family? Then in between family members also visiting.
@@varshasjain9383 Yes it applies to ladies as well in my opinion... But my opinion may differ from someone else's opinion. In my opinion I value my family first, close friends second, relatives third, and other friends last... Everyone values their core family the most (me too), but given a choice between close friends and relatives, I choose close friends...
@@CheckMater007 Bhaut badiya..aapke ghar hamesha aapke aur aapki dharm patni ji ke family members, close friends, relatives, other friends aate jaate rahe.
@@varshasjain9383 Nope, it's just family and close friends, no relatives... And wo bhi kitna hi aate hain... Kabhi aate hain to accha hi lagta hai... I even take a few days off whenever they come...
@@CheckMater007 If with you, your wife and your family also that much cheerful...then it's great. I hope your wife's family and close friends also keep visiting you. I am happy that you can take leave as well.
I agree sir. Very good topic. Full life I saw my mom suffering as visitors kept coming and we ended up doing so much work. Hence my parents taught me not to do so. I don’t stay in any friend or relative house. I only visit my parents yearly holiday. But relatives keep visiting us and there is no way elders will spare us. Career mein bahut disturbance tha.
Very interesting topic. Living with a relative is a nightmare. I dont invite them in the first place, but there are times when you have to bite the bullet and make the most of it. After all, family comes first, but Atithi Devo Bhava is not applicable in today's times. Thank you, guruji 🙏
Please make a video on having to care for difficult , argumentative elderly mother-in-laws who want to stay with you and make your life full of unending drama
@@doncorleone3901 That is exactly what i do . I engage minimum bcoz i want to preserve my peace of mind. But it still irritates having to do this thankless work .
I don't live with even my close friend even if they insist bcoz I don't want their family to adjust bcoz of me. I only live with relatives who are extremely close to me and we visit each other occasionally
Agree with everything but it's mostly the blood relatives and best friends who are the biggest pain! father's brother or mother's brother may not stay for more than a week but their wife or children will stay for months! especially when you live in a big city and they are coming for college or job! and the worse part is even after staying for 6-10 months, they will act like guests to be entertained and catered to everyday, they will not help anyone or do anything in the house! home feels like guest house! Father's friends relatives and friends and their children will come to stay so they can holiday! what about the family! where should they go! they are just thankless parasites! and they won't even keep you nicely for a week if you go to their house!
Another problem is no one really knows what your relatives and their children are upto! they come to your home and could badly influence your children! don't keep anyone at home when you have children.
True sir. It is like slavery for these people. Haan ek pause humhaare bache ke liye bhi nahi dete. Aake 10 samay ka Khaana bhi banana hai aur thaana bhi sunna hai.. Ek thappad dene ko mann kartha tha. Bas ye kabhi nahi mana karthe hai.. So aaj kal me apne se hi boldeti hun. Ghar me jagah hai magar mann me kisi ke liye nahi hai ab
Achanak guest pahuch jate hai, phir ek ko poori khani, 1 ko khichdi khani hai, adjust nhi karne, ya aane se pahle hi bata de oily,nhi khana, sugar free chahiye, local apne khar se kha kar chalna chahite, taki chai par khub charcha ka time mil sake😂, ghar 2 hi log, 1 kitchen me busy, guest bore hote ragte hai, but welcome full hona chahiye.
Humari saas ki sister ki beti and her sons stay so many times due to her compell. Rukne wale to pahle se tayyar. Hume kahti tum mut karo me kar lungi saara kaam, ab batao sharam bhi toaati he na phir aaj unki bahuein online mangwa deti hein ak baar phir manage karo apne aap. Hum to kher jaate nahi. Pahle ye sub bhi to bahut hita tha apne hi to apno k kaam aayega, and bahar rukne ka budget nahi hota tha. Humare jaise log nahi rukte kisi k bhi. Han friends circle me rukte bhi hein to full co operation k saath home task and visit expenses both. Meri bitiya k yahan bahut badhiya system, always send the relatives in hotel either host pay or guest pay but they never disturd house queen and princess. I like it. Amit ji it is good to stay in hotels. Now adays people aatend any marriage they stay in hotel or some aarengements by host in bararghar or hotels.
Everyone comes for work for one or two days. Small 1 or 2 bedroom houses with one bathroom in flat sometimes still people come . It’s so much work and disruption of sleep and other routines. Nobody comes to meet the rishtedar it’s always for some work or something. Sometimes even those people who are not even regularly in touch come unannounced.
Oro k relative samjhe na samjhe, aapke relative to jarur samajh gye honge. Aapke waha bhi bhut guest aate honge tabhi aapne dil se explain Kiya. Ab aapka bhi man halka ho gya hoga😅
So relatable to every wife, I also highly recommend not to entertain unnecessary burden. We had a huge fight on this several times but no means no. We ladies should take a firm stand against these faltu ,jugadu guests or kind of relatives they are kind of energy sucker. Jab hame nai pasand kisike sewa karna toh nai karenge no one should impose their burden on us. THANKS FOR SHARING THIS AMAZING N PRACTICAL VIDEO.
Yeh cheeze abhi recently meri bhua ji aayi thi Ghar pe tab hamne face Kari thii😂😂😂 Jaise ek ex meri bhua subha aa gyi thi mera exam tha mein exam Dene gya vapis ayaa so gya utha tab mujhe dhyan hii nahi or utne mein bhua ji mujhe 3 baar dekh ke chali gyi ke mein aa rakhi hoon or isko koi kadar hii nahi meri😂😂😂raat ko Tamasha kia unne papa ke saamne in baaton ka
Mujhe bachpan me lagta tha mera khaandaan bahut acha hai. 17 ki umar me hi pata chal gaya mai bilkul akela hu. Ab isi ko apni taakat bana raha hu. Jindagi ko samjhunga aur kuch acha karke jaunga.
Ek ghar se dusre ghar me ja kar band, ye kounsa holiday picnic hai😂😂😂jana hai dono family city se bahar jao na, ek ki holiday enjoy karne ke liye hai, Bahu ki holiday double kitchen work, double expenses 😂
Same prblm…..relative aa jate ha aur mko room shodna ldta ha ….aur dikat hote ha coz sara sman hota ha room me mera personal bathroom ha 😏😏aur 5….5din Rhege fir…..hr mnth koi na koi aa he jata ha
Mere papa hame jabardasti relatives ke yaha ek do mahine summers me le jate the aur hum 6 members hai.. I hated it bt dad said culture pata hona chahiye kyuki hum dusre state me rehte the.. i cant imagine relatives ki halat.. aur hamari bi kyuki hum introvert hai aur hated going there
Mere chacha chachi har saal aate the 1 mahine k liye par hamne kabhi unka ghar nahi dekha vo invite bhi nahi karte the kabhi. Mere ek ainty 2/3 saal mai ek baar aate the par achha khasa rukte the. Jab ham unke ghar ek hi baar gaye unka behavior sahi nahi tha phir hum kabhi nahi gaye. Halaki vo to 15 din rukte the hum 3/4 din mai nikal liye vanha se😂uske baad bhi vo kabhi kabar aate hai 1/2 din k liye hum nahi jaate kabhi bhi. Ek baar kisike ghar jao to pata chale unka behavior. Ese hi gadhamazduri mehmaan navaazi nahi karni chahiye. Mere chacha to sari shopping bhi mere papa k peso se karte the. Aur mere papa kanhi friend se maang k pese late the phir us friend ko salary aane par vapis dete the. Log kitne selfish hote hai.
So true sir. I am Genz and I don't allow any relatives to stay at my home. My parents don't consider this concept so i fight with them. Many relatives even Abuse me and my siblings.. so relatives and friends are the worst in this world...
very true, my father never stayed at anyone's house even if people insisted. He didn't like to inconvenience anyone and also a person can have more freedom and privacy when they stay in a hotel.
My mama lives in Mumbai my mom always force me to stay or meet them i always denied because i know my mami even they have big house but still i don't want disturb her.
Hum bhi stay kiya hai...jub chote thee parents ne yhi sikhya tha ...lakin ab samjh aaya ko nhi krna chaiye tha....😢😢 relatives ko disturb...but kuch relatives bhi family ki domination ke liye stay krwalete stay apne ghro me ... unki tareef hogi society me ye soch kr... but ulta hi ho jaata hai...
Dear Amit ji. Your suggestion for people is very easy in these day. Most middle class people earns quite well and they can easily opt staying in guest houses/ hotels instead anchoring at a friend's and relatives place. 👍👍
मैं और मेरे पति आपके सभी वीडियो देखते हैं बहुत सीखने को मिलता और बच्चो के जरूर ⭐ लगा के भेजती चाहे देखे ना देखे बच्चे बोलते आप के फेवरेट बेटा बेटी तो देखते पर बहु दामाद कम पसंद आते आपके वीडियो पर सहमत ना हो तो हॉट डिक्शन होता
Mere yahan to sas sasur devar nanad sab rahte the aayedin kabhi kisi ka exam hai koi bimar koi ghoomne aaya hai sab thus jate the rishtedar ke alawa sab ke dost bhi mai woking hoon mere bachche rote rahte the aur udhar timardari me lage raho bahut chidh machati thi
