How Young College Men Should Handle Women 

Great post. I really thought about this one. It relates to me a lot. I'm a student and I've had women try and talk to me about the money I'll be making when I get my Job say 3 years from now. 'how long till you graduate?' Bitch what about right now? This moment right here? To me, the sooner a woman initiates future money talks, the more awkward I find it. If she wants a business deal she should become a prostitute or an escort and stop wasting time trying to exploit men on their purpose. Men who have direction. I think you are right the more present she is in the moment with who I am the more I feel I can connect with that person. Its almost like the more focused and wooed by my 'career' she is on a superficial level, the more pissed off I get. I hear a lot about women leaving when a mans assets or circumstances decline even only for a period. If I lost my career, does that diminish who I am? No. So why leave a man when the storm gets tough? It must be because they never truly valued who I was. Who I am. My 'being'. difficult circumstances bring out true colours. A woman thats there when it seems there is no light at the end of the tunnel is gold. Stay strapped and wear a rubber guys. Pay attention to actions. Because people, ESPECIALLY females, will say anything.

Much needed video for the young males. I attended an HBCU for 2 years before transferring to a predominately white university. The women at the HBCU gave me no play, they were not serious about dating. They were either dating drug dealers, athletes, or getting smashed by frat boys. I just focused on graduating from college and would date non-college women. I recommend for the young dudes to focus on your education and party some but keep your dating options open. Travel overseas whenever possible; do not wife a girl with a child.

Real talk: Key to succeeding in college/university is ultimately discipline.

Be focus men. Time is limited. Women are there for pleasure and love but don't get it twisted they are bonus not necessary.

Wish I had an uncle Rom before I went to college. Would have saved me so much trouble.

Thank you for this topic Rom. Alot of us young BM in college love watching your videos. We need some of your edification Rom lol

I remember talking to this one girl and notice no attraction between us. Until someone asked me what major I was and I responded "electrical engineer". Suddenly the girl develop a softer tone for me.

Great advice Rom. As a man that went through undergrad at a brick and mortar school that was mostly white I can say a lot of women got Mrs degrees. I dated an AKA as well and she was doing the same. She left me and choose another man but 7 years later it looked like father time is wearing her down and she's getting a divorce to the man she picked. I dodged a bullet with her though. To future men coming in I say concentrate on your purpose like, get your degree and better yourself for the future like Rom said, but if you do find a quality woman then hold on to them.

I got 2 more years left in school, I’m learning more and more how to interact with women before I step into the real world. My experience thus far women hang on to a man who is about his business and focused because they know he is going to prosper in life. Just like in your last video I had women tell me they watched me for months without saying anything and when I meet them I can tell they’ve been observing me based their conversation.

Coming from a young black man almost 2 years out of college I will say this. I had my fair share of hook ups and all kinds of interaction with black women and what I've learned is that they are career oriented and stray away from relationships until they deal with someone who is the direct opposite of them. Aka the thugs in college. But that's just my experience and what I've witnessed.

There's no woman who are trying to build , in general they dont have that long term vision

I enjoy hearing about college and University in America. Its almost as interesting as the teen movies and shows I've watched. Especially Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. Its different here in the UK. Lasting relationships just happen. Women are not planning for future mates. Young Women and men just want to have fun and balance it out with education. However, college and University is where a lot of students get caught up in pregnancies.

Great post uncle Rom, I messed around and got GOT during my early years in college stayed in school though now I only have 1 semester left.

Game level: expert. On this video

You gotta be watchin fo real. Why is she Down? You gotta know that!

Uncle Rom, how should a 33 year old man, with no kids, deal with women?

Damn. As a 27 y/o I wish I hadn't miss out on that college dorm/frat life and. Build more discipline in my life

Thank you Rom. Working college student, I needed this.

This is definitely a good topic to touch on Rom! I can tell you a couple of stories personally about these college women, they can really be a something else when they want to, most of the time they are. I was going to college for a minute! I even had other guys out of their own mouth say how most of these college broads ain't shit at all! Most of them are not going to finish college, they'll start and that's it. What they're hoping while they're there is that they'll bump shoulders with one of those fraternity cats with resources or them athletes, screw them and cling on to them thinking they're on their way to an quick easy come up but in most cases that shit never happens pretty much all cases! These college girls aren't any different than a lot of these girls out on the streets, they're actually worst, they're just educated hoes and some of them don't even become educated! You'll have a few of them that have they heads together and working towards creating a financial future for themselves that'll give you a shot, they don't always be the best looking though but it is what it is! Mainly the attractive ones be on their high horse. So that's why it's best for young men in college to stay focus on their purpose, goals, financial future and don't sidetracked and caught up with these fake gold digging stuck up bougie college rat hoes and complete your mission. Judge Mathis will tell you, he's from my neck of the woods, Detroit who be on T.V! He even said how when he was in college how the women wouldn't give him the time of day, wouldn't even speak to him. As soon as he finished law school, got out and started making money, these same ones who wouldn't give him any play was all up in his face trying to get with him talking about they did they been liking him and he told them hell naw, not literally but he said my wife was with me before any of this and ya'll broads can kick rocks. They still had the audacity to tell him, well your wife don't have to know what's going on with us behind closed doors. Judge Mathis told them broads, I know she don't because it's not going to happen, Bye! That goes to show you how these women are, especially them college ones!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GOTDAMN... Memory lane there. Saw quite a few Brothas get snapped up by the M.R.S. game. Then again I got that struggle love... Lol. Great video as usual

This the video i been looking for!!

One of the comments mentioned HBCUs and everything he said was true. However back when I went we had aol chat MySpace and instead of dealing with the girls going after Greeks and athletes you can be smart and utilize the Internet and capitalize then. Nothing wrong with having women pick you up from college and taking them to their place for action. Lol times have changed lol as that was before DMs and stuff lol

They smart ahaha. Im not in college but this can help though

Thank you Rom, for constantly uploading and giving me game :)

Great video. I think this goes back to a previous point you made about simply valuing yourself

Preciate It Rom! I don’t think I’ve had a better Monday.

thank you for this one now i will be prepared for the future

So right about this video finishing up my grad degree and went through and seen everything you talking about especially the freshmen sophomore freaks turned girlfriend. College is fun as long as you not getting girls pregnant. Also met my girlfriend in undergrad and she’s doing better than me right now.

9:30 groove phi groove. I haven't heard from them in a while.

kirakou is that cartoon in africa with that baby that can run fast that saved his whole village

Exactly so.

14th!

2nd!!

Can u explain to me the saying when a woman says you think to much?

Frist baby wazzam Rom