All this happened because of a jealous friend. It's so sad that you trust someone, telling them your deepest, darkest secrets and then they turn around and stab you in the back. This so-called friend didn't even show any remorse for the chaos she created in their marriage. Heck, I don't think she even realizes how much damage she did to the relationship...to be so spiteful to make up stories just because(?). I was thinking she did all that so they would break up and she could swoop in and grab husband, but she didn't even plan that. She just wanted him mad at OP so they would fight(?) HUH...WHY? That's not a friend and never has been!
@@stirrednotshaken4823 yes, I'm aware of what the girlfriend did, but Mr Reditto asked us which part of the story we thought was the worst part,this I felt was the worst part, the husband hurt his pregnant wife and shame on him. This is a very sore spot for me.
He was given overwhelming evidence that she was cheating on him and 100x worse, committing paternity fraud. He wanted that cheater out of the house before he really lost his crap. She refused when he tried to get her out, she struck him. That was an incredibly unwise escalation of the physical encounter. You don't pick a fight you can't win. She was confused and hurt. He was truly enraged and on the verge of completely losing it. If she had any sense at all, she should have gotten out without him getting physical. Instead she provoked him further. He showed far more restraint than plenty of men out there would have.
@@groofromtheup5719 She did not provoke him. The "friend" did. Husband was the first one to escalate the situation by grabbing her arm. She didn't strike him. She pushed him to make him let go of her arm. which he was hurting. That's self defense. He bumped into a table because she was defending herself. Then he followed his first act with grabbing and shaking her. If he can't control his anger enough to not push around a pregnant woman that's on him. Probably hindsight is 20/20 kind of thing and maybe she would have left if she realized he was going to grab her, but I imagine she never thought he would grab her like that to forcibly evict her from their home and that whole mess went quickly. He could have left the house himself to cool off.
If he used violence once, it's a good chance he'll do it again; besides he attacked you first knowing you are pregnant. Get out to protect yourself and your baby!
How dare she fight back when he was hurting her and their baby! What a monster she is! I hope she wises up and gets the heck away from him before something else sets him off.
Well, ex friend did manage to damage OP'S relationship - as did her husband- and I hope he remembers those bruises because their ALL HIS FAULT. However, I'm just wondering what that crazy womans End Game was.
He just grabbed her arms to control her and get her out of the house. She was the one that struck a blow against him. Bruising doesn't mean crap. My wife gets bruises from cat paws (you can actually see the little toe paw pads). I had an idiot run a stop sign and pull out in front of my motorcycle. I dented their car when my body hit it. No bruising visible.
@@michaelkeeler7689 we have a heavily redacted version of her version of the events. There is a mountain of stuff we will never know. He couldn't have been sqeezing that hard if she got free to shove him. Did it cause her pain because of how she fought him? What for some people is unbearable agony, to others is barely noticeable. Do people get a free pass to abuse me because I almost never show a visible bruise and learned to largely ignore pain? Basically I don't default to giving credence to her story of being attacked the way she would have people believe.
@@groofromtheup5719 He was holding her arm hard enough to pull her through the room. He had no right to put his hands on her in anger at all. You're giving the husband a pass for shaking a pregnant woman, because he thought he had a right to be angry. But you aren't as forgiving to OP for not reacting with perfect clarity in the situation. You think should have just known he was going to grab her. Maybe being called a cheater by an angry husband, finding out that her "best friend" had made up disgusting lies about her, and being told to leave her own house was a huge shock.
Honestly I don't blame the husband in this story at all. From the story the friend set up everything perfectly to the point where even the wife would have suspected the cheating is really. Add that with the fact that friend personally added that she drove the OP to hotels and provided an alibi for the affair. At the end of the day this is the harm of gaslighting someone. Personally you can think of this the same as a false pregnancy or at least similar.
@@sashwing7726 they were married for eight years. They dated for a while before that. The husband should have known his wife better than that. He didn't even give her the chance to defend herself.
@@DigitalCowboy000 Thats why it's called gaslighting someone. Even the wife said if she was presented with the evidence she would have believed the evidence as well. Include that with the fact that the friend never indicated that she had romantic interest in the husband and you have this perfect storm.
@@DigitalCowboy000 not really on the off chance this happens to anyone you can say that but a third party gives you evidence of you wife’s infidelity would draw psome flags. The problem is in this case the poster description of her friend was as someone she would consider a sister to the point where she was the first person she shared information regarding the pregnancy before her husband. Sorry but on the surface 99.9 percent of people would ask why would the friend lie about this information. If you were to include that the friend and the poster knew each other before either of them ever interacted with the husband and the situation becomes even more confusing.
Why does she is responsible for him putting his hands on her. She was trying to protect herself when she pushed her husband. It would take way more than him apologizing and begging.
He was escorting her to the door what was she protecting herself from? If she pushed him after he shook her yeah I’d get that but she wasn’t in any danger period. This is what some people would label mutual at this point.
@@bautistalover he grabbed her with enough force it hurt and left bruising 2 months latter. Stop making excuses for pos that like to use brute force over those that are weaker than them.
When it comes to this situation, here’s what I think. Sure, both the husband and wife are victims of someone trying to ruin their marriage. But if one of them has the ‘evidence’, that spouse is not just the victim, but he/she is mostly the judge. What the husband should’ve done on that very first day he received that ‘evidence’, was to sit down with OP, and ask her about that dating profile. Also, he should’ve hired a PI to look into this as well. And also, if I were OP, I would cut ties with that friend for freaking good. No way she could be trusted ever again if she has the guts to ruin happy marriages.
I mean I feel for the husband in the sense who the hell would ever suspect your spouses bestie would lie on them like that. Like that chick is pure evil all because she couldn’t open her damn mouth and tell OP she was interested in their friend back in the day.
What more could a PI possibly tell him than the evidence already showed? You're monday-morning quarterbacking. He had no indications that the evidence was fraudulent. If I had evidence that my wife was planning to commit paternity fraud against me, I would be completely incapable of a calm discussion about it. He saw the evidence with his own eyes. He was also informed by a long term mutual friend what she was doing. He was probably getting around to meeting with lawyers so he wouldn't get screwed in the divorce. She confronted him before he could get all that taken care of. My thoughts would be going towards suicide, murder and revenge. I would probably be actively planning for for at least one of them, more likely 2 and maybe all 3. There would be zero room for a calm discussion in my mind for the foreseeable future.
@@groofromtheup5719 I agree. It's scary how meticulously the friend planned her deceit. With your understandably extreme hypothetical reaction to the evidence, how would you expect her to react after the reveal of her innocence? Would you expect to be forgiven or would you even think you were in need of forgiveness?
@@mg7094 that would seriously mess with me long term. He was well justified, but she was innocent. I would probably refocus all those turbulent emotions at absolutely ruining the former friend's life, and hope I come to terms with everything before my vengeance is complete. If someone turns me into a monster, they are going to feel the teeth.
@@groofromtheup5719 refocusing on revenge against the friend does not heal the relationship with the wife though. Eventhough the reaction was justified it hit and hurt an innocent person. I would have a very hard time forgiving let alone attempting a reconciliation. I wonder whether a relationship after this disaster is simply doomed.
1. Side thought. I would have filmed her confession. Shared the info with her family, friends and sued. You reacted with his actions. I don't know if it would be a deal breaker or not.
Story 1; She needs to document the bruises. If he was violent once you may be able to overlook it in the circumstances. If he ever shows that tendency again, have the evidence it is repeat behavior and leave him and protect your child
Thank you, everyone here is screaming police or divorce, He grabbed someone who he thought was cheating, I don't excuse it but I think any rational person could make that mistake.
You are excusing it that is exactly what your doing. He lost his temper grabbed and dragged a pregnant woman to the point it hurt. Then shook her leaving bruises for 2 months. Thats assault what happens when he loses his temper with the baby and shakes it. Are you going to excuse that as well.
@@cheekyftoro8962 is the baby going to cheat on him? You seem to be ignoring that this is one of the worst levels of emotional pain one could experience. Ntm OP said she bruises easily so it isn't like he had to be that rough with her.
They need to bring a suit against the "friend". She was malicious and beyond the emotional, there have been and will continue to be significant financial costs. Marriage counselling and lawyer fees aren't cheap.
I wouldn't be surprised if their relationship ended in divorce, they can say they are going back to how it was but it will never be like that again, they both will remember what they both did, said , and thought to themselves
And she'll find out later on that the grass isn't greener on the other side. Nobody wants a single mother! They only want to lay pipe and move on. It's good that she decided to work on their marriage. So many throw it away and regret it later on.
This upsets me . Besides the friend being a total psychopath OP and her husband did not get violent. This man physically assaulted his wife. OP defended herself. She needs to get into counseling fast. She is an abused woman making excuses and blaming herself. There is no marriage to save. It only escalates from here. I'm not a sue happy person but I would sue for intentional emotional harm. She will never get help otherwise. Hubby needs to be dumped and arrested for domestic abuse. I pray OP wakes up before she goes from being a punching bag to a grave .
OP nta. She was never your friend. She only used you to be close to him. Get some therapy and leave her and him in the past. Move far away and make him pay big time child support. If you can sue the so called friend for slander and fraud.
Hi, If she is going to sue she could also make the claim of Identity theft, I think, depending on the rules of the relevant state law. Or does identity theft a be tried in Federal Court, like tampering with mail...? Yours, Ann
The "best friend" was never a friend at all!! If she were, she would have never made up lies about OP!! I would not return to hubby because he put his hands on her out of anger. What if he gets angry at their child and does the same thing? Also wanted to tell Mr. Reddit..... You have a very soothing voice!!
If you wouldn't react better then your a pos abusive ass just like the husband. Most People and men are outraged because their not you need to take a good hard look at yourself. Because it dose not matter how mad you are how wronged you think you are you do not grab and drag or shake a pregnant woman.
right. He showed an incredible level of restraint in that situation. Give any guy with a pregnant wife that level of proof that she is cheating and doesn't know who the father is, but is still planning to commit paternity fraud, and then the wife gets violent with him when he tries to get her out of the house like that. I bet in at the very least, 1 in 10 cases would result in a significant injury or even death. the friend was needs to be behind bars.
The first OP needs to stop making excuses for her husband. He must have been grabbing her very hard to leave bruises that lasted that long. And she defended herself because he was hurting her, that doesn’t make her bad. I guess it’s easier for her to overlook his horrible behaviour than to face leaving him and raising a baby alone. I hope she does sue the hell out of the ex friend for all the trouble she caused.
Basically he could’ve grabbed her with the firmness you would grab a kid and she would’ve bruised. That’s a common issue with people that bruise easily. My mothers the same way, you don’t need much pressure for them to bruise. So him “hurting” her is hard to gage because of the bruising factor. What bruised her may not bruise the ex friend.
One the friend was hoping you two would divorce. 2 it's time to put old devices in a safe. 3. And this is important once physical altercations happen leave the relationship. Once is too many.
1. Who tells their friend enough about their sex life with a partner they can fake conversations between sexual partners? And who fights to stay with someone that would never trust her and physically assaulted her, especially while pregnant? Neither is acceptable, but risking killing the baby is an extra element of horror. OP seems like she over shares and has horrible taste in people. If it's taking several months, then it was far worse than described. She's okay with that though and risking him being as rough with the baby which would kill it. The relationship should die an immediate death for her and her baby's safety. 2. Of course mom and boyfriend can't afford to pay the agreed rent amount when no one else needs to pay rent at all. Thing is if mom's boyfriend was making so much money, they wouldn't need to cut their rent because they couldn't afford it. So he provided two opposing stories for how that situation was.
No they didn't both get violent he got violent and she defended herself grabbing isn't hitting but could easily be a harbinger of it I have a temper generally it's all inward I have a few things that have happened that caused an anger issue when I was young I worked on it and grew mostly out of it but whenever I'm mad now I focus inward still not healthy but it's my best option because I've only ever been in one fight I don't remember because it was a blank and the other kid was laying on the ground crying and I was back and looking at other people for a what happened look so I guess I blank out when that mad and I could never Invision myself doing that again him he deserved it but knowing how bad that instance was he was fine just lots of bruises and it was kind of in self defense still don't want that feeling again.
@@bautistalover that is the stupid thing I've ever heard. Actually I'll add one to the sentence as in one of the stupidest things I've ever heard because I assume you'll top yourself.
@@bautistalover grabbing is abuse if the pressure is enough to hurt. Think about this if i grabbed you by the testicles and squeezed pretty sure 20+ years working with tools have given me the grip strength to give you a childfree lifestyle. And before you jump in to defend someone look at the whole story he grabbed and dragged a pregnant woman enough to hurt her and grabbed her again and shook her to the point she was bruised 2 months later. That is not lightly grabbing and holding onto someone preventing them from walking away. That's assault that's losing your temper and wanting to hurt someone.
Violence has a definition. It includes as part of the defination, the intent to cause harm. The initial grab was likely not Violence. The shove she answered with was Violence. Like the shake was too, but it could very well have been an attempt to break her out of her own rage. You don't pick a fight you can't win and a good mother wouldn't endanger her child by escalating the situation the way she did. Women expect men to play by women's rules. Men will only take it so long before something primal emerges. When women get physical, it's hair pulling and scratching. When men get physical, often an ambulance is called for in the aftermath. Ladies, for everyone's sake, please don't play those games. I am a very controlled person, but such a situation would push a Saint to his limits. You may get the punch you were hoping for, to screw him over in court. You may get a whole lot more.
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Just wait until the FIL and sister come back with "that's not fair that mom and boyfriend get to stay in the guest house while you kicked us out!" How do you come across as not playing favorites when you let one stay but the others have to leave? Yes, I know they are in a separate house, but if you are gonna kick out people, they all need to go just to avoid problems (face palm)
@@Mr.Reddito Yeah, for me, I was a young adult, early to mid 20’s, so still young but completely devastating. Unfortunately, some women can be very vindictive when jealous. Most aren’t lucky enough to have the other woman admit to her misdeeds. You have to dig and gather proof yourself…
@@Mr.Reddito by the way, just happened to stumble across your channel and really enjoy your content, you seem like a great kid (I’m a grandmother so I can call you a kid). Keep at it!!
Story 1: If your husband could so easily believe your “best friend” over his own wife, and then physically kick you out of the house, and grab you the way that he did, while you are PREGNANT, then what else is he potentially going to believe and do the same thing?
A lot of people are throwing the "lose his temper" here thing, but all the husband did was grab her arm, yes he was anrgy but OP said she bruises easilly. Ntm this wasn't a "i was angry" moment, there was indisputable proof sbe cheated and she wouldn't leave, I think any rational person would be beyond frustrated there.
2nd story: tell your family you have used up all of your savings by housing and feeding them. There's no choice on moving out because your going to start missing mortgage payments soon.
OP and her husband and story one can make it through in their marriage. And if anything, a defamation lawsuit needs to be made against her supposed "best friend". And maybe a trip to the Looney bin too.
In the first story I agree with the OP that counseling alone isn't the answer. She needs to call the police und have her husband charged with domestic violence. Und the now ex-best friend as an acomplish as *IF* not for her actions it wouldn't have happened. The ex-best friend also needs to be charged with theft of the OP's pictures, forgery for opening the account in the OP's name, defamation of character und anything else. Also what kind of a husband (or wife) isn't going to listen to their wife (or husband)? Why would a previously non-violent person suddenly resort to violence? When was the OP supposedly meeting up with the other man? Was it at times that the OP und her husband were together?
No one is going to think rationally when they feel that betrayed by their spouse. If your spouse's best friend (whom you also trust) presented you with this evidence, can you say you would be calm when you confront your spouse months later with this buildup of resentment? He had no reason to not believe the friend and every reason to believe he was being cheated on given the evidence. This is very much a case of brain not working and he just snapped. I'm grateful it wasn't any worse than it could have been (Chris Watts comes to mind). I would seriously consider what I could sue the friend for.
That’s not domestic violence people take shit out of context all the time. Grabbing someone’s arm isn’t abuse, giving someone a little shake isn’t abuse. Just because she got bruises doesn’t make it abuse either. If that’s the case all the women that grab their men when they try to leave should they be labeled abusers too? It makes no sense. They are doing the right thing going to counseling and working on themselves individually and as a couple.
@@Remi1532 it does not matter how mad you get how wronged you think you have been you do not shake a pregnant women. There is no excuse he was entitled to be mad he was entitled to believe the evidence. But he lost his temper and took it out on her he made the choice not to walk away he instead chose to hurt her. Thats not ok. What happens when the baby wont stop crying he has been only getting a couple of broken hours of sleep a night for weeks and he loses his temper and shakes the child.
@@bautistalover I volunteered for years at a family outreach centre that deels with many cases of domestic violence and one of the few that helps regardless of gender. Your spreading toxic dangerous misinformation that can get people hurt. Grabbing someone's arm can very much be abuse depending on the pressure. Enough pressure to cause pain means abuse. Grabbing someone and holding them from moving does less damage than dragging them i have seen kid with a dislocated arm because a parent dragged them by the arm. And its only you that described it as a little shake . You have no idea how big of a shake it was but given that he was griping her hard enough to hurt and leave bruises 2 months later it was probably more than a little shake. What do you think will happen if he gives the baby a little shake.
What upsets me the most about this story is the fact that, she keeps making mention of how they “hurt each other physically.” When in reality, he got physical with her and, she defended herself which, he became angry with the fact that she had the audacity to defend herself and, he hurt her some more, even though she’s pregnant. Second to that is the fact that, he refused to give her ANY benefit of the doubt even though he supposedly knows her so well.
Story 1. I hope OP sued that ex bff of hers both criminally and civilly. That friend need to be incarcerated for every harm and damages she caused. Most women blame the husband for being violent but who, in his right mind, wouldn't react the same way he did faced with so much "evidence". He was emotionally charged in the first place. He was duped into believing that OP has been cheating. At least, as a man, I can understand the husband. Ir was an "outburst of passion" and obfuscated his judgment.
Most men wouldn't. Most men would get mad most men would believe the evidence. But most men are not abusive assholes and can control their temper. Most men have self control and would never shake a pregnant woman no matter what. Most men would choose to walk away from the situation instead of choosing to hurt someone. If you cant behave better than the husband your no man your a pathetic weak willed little boy .
Toss any non-violent man into that situation and his reaction would probably be about average. My guess is 10-20% would cause a significant injury on the wife and probably somewhere about the same, would pull a suicide attempt. Unlike women, men usually get-r-done. The "friend" needs to be behind bars.
I don't understand why the comments are screaming physical abuse. Did I miss something? He only dragged her in his anger by the arm, no attacks, OP even said she bruises easilly and it stays a long time, he wasn't trying to harm her, he wanted a cheater out of his house.
While I appreciate the effort put into the animation I usually listen to these stories as if they were a podcast and only glance at the screen if I want to double check some wording to make sure I heard it correctly. If RU-vid still allows polls perhaps Mr. Redditto would employ them in future videos to see how others interact with these videos and possibly save on cost & headaches from implementing appropriate animations. I enjoy these videos either way and always look forward to the new stories 😀.
Story 1 is why friends should not tell friends their secrets. The couple should divorce because too much was said and done to forget and forgive. The friend is a total psycho.
Yeah OP was guilty of TMI and the friend stored all that extra info to undoubtedly spin a juicy and believable story for her husband to believe. Especially if bestie was the cover for the cheating.
That "friend" did her job very well in convincing the husband that OP cheated. She should massage those bruises, they will go away faster with massage. There is no way I would have let someone who is actively using to live in my house. I'd tell sister to either get clean or leave w/o her kids. Addicts can't be good parents no matter how much they delude themselves. And there is no way I would contribute any money to a drug addict. If they need food, go buy groceries. Needs a bill paid? Pay it directly for them. Otherwise, your money will go to drugs. I won't pay for someone's addiction.
Actually, it seems to have worked out really well for all parties. If mom and her boyfriend support the guest house, that will really help. Fewer people will also reduce the stress on water, power and groceries for the main house.
He grabbed and dragged her with enough force to leave bruising for 2 months. He also shook her. Their is no fixing this she was pregnant. He shook a pregnant woman because he couldn't control his temper you cant Let someone like that around a child.
I know how Op feels, I was taking care of 10 people in a 3-bedroom 3-bathroom house 3 had to sleep in the basement, I was going to Mortuary college and I was the sole provider, my husband did finally tell them they were going to have to start contributing to the house expenses, his brother, wife and daughter moved out because my brother-in-law got very mad because he thought since he was my brother in law he should live with us for free, our middle daughter and her husband had saved enough money to get their own place, it's been 8 years but my brother-in-law still refuses to speak to us, we haven't lost any sleep over it lol
It is likely more of a reminder of what he probably almost did more than what he did. Some women bruise very easily (my wife gets paw print bruises from cats). Getting someone that wronged you to that level out of your house is not violence. fighting them, striking them, pushing them into objects is. I could see that level of betrayal (The betrayal was 100% proven to the husband, even the wife agrees with that), then the physical escalation she caused, would lead to homicide in a not insignificant amount instances. Her friend may have very well become a murderer legally and morally for her "little joke". A good man is one capable of great violence, but keeps it under control. He kept his violent urges under control in the most provoking of situations.
@@groofromtheup5719 that may be, but he didn't fully keep them under control. I also see a man who flees from his feelings. That's makes him dangerous.
@@tamoeri either way, nobody should ever be in that situation. Both parties in an argument are responsible for de-escalating it. She should have left when the friend tossed her under the bus instead of forcing him into violence to get her out. You don't provoke someone that righteously enraged. You don't pick a fight you can't win and if you are that stupid, you should accept what you got. sounds like she is accepting her culpability to some extent at least. He wouldn't be going to counselling if he was fleeing from his feelings. It would be one hell of thing to get that close to killing someone you love like that. That would probably break me honestly. I am a very controlled person. Having that control shattered would not be an easy thing. Knowing I could hate someone I love like he must have in that moment would take things to the next level. I would probably not do well after that. She should get some loose fitting light blouses for the sanity of someone she loves.
@@groofromtheup5719 you're forgetting one thing. She was in the right, from the very beginning. She only believed he was truly fooled after seeing the evidence after the bitch of a friend told the truth. And even if both parties are responsible for de-escalating, he is responsible to not use physical violence. He could've left the house with a notice she had te be gone the next day, instead of being so enraged he resorted to violence.
@@tamoeri she is also responsible for not using physical force. The shove was an inherently more violent act than the grab. She escalated the physical confrontation at every step. All anyone seems to care about are the bruises. Bruises don't matter. She was rightfully confused. He was rightfully enraged. He was planning a divorce. He had probably done enough reading by that point that he knew he would be screwed if he left the house. Besides, she had another guys arms to land in and he probably paid for most or all of the house. It may have even been his from before the marriage. that part wasn't discussed in the post, so pure conjecture. If it was truly "her" house, then yes, he should have left, but that doesn't sound like the case here. Her parents' house was probably the best possible place for her to be in that situation.
Story 1: It's hard coming back from physical abuse. OP you moved back in way too soon. You and your husband need time to heal from this separately. Also he needs anger management classes. If he got that angry with you that he shook you, how well will he deal with an infant crying none stop? I do understand no one is rational when in the midst of cheating allegations, however you have a baby to think about now too. I wish you both healing and a much stronger, happier, and more healthy relationships no matter what kind they are and no matter what you choose.
Story 1: OP’s husband should have done some digging before believing all that. I can easily understand being uncertain and suspicious with that level of faked evidence staring at you. But he should have tried to locate the “other man” via social media and the phone number/screen name he used. The fact that all of this came from a tip from the unfriend should have rang a few alarm bells in the husband’s head. She even told him the specific device to check. THAT was very suspicious. But he’d have been well within bounds to investigate. Regardless, NEVER lay hands on a spouse in anger. That’s a hard limit in my life, and should be in everyone’s lives. There’s no place for violence in a marriage.
Hmm he physically attacked her. OP should leave him. If he did it once he’d do it again. As for the friend it’s sad to see she didn’t really suffer any repercussions even after nearly causing OP to miscarriage
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Story 2: sounds like right off the bat you need eviction papers for atleast 3 parties. Tell anyone that has a problem....tell them "whhaaaa get out" After udate: sounds like a positive situation
Story one I'm glad she's no longer friends with this girl and I hope she dissolved her business with her too because if she don't she's going to see herself in future problems
Story 1 Ive heard this one before. The husband is justified in not believing her because the evidence were concrete. But he went to far when he put his hands on her. He visibly injured her.
@@DigitalCowboy000 OP even said that the evidence was convincing. Everything looked real. If he believed his wife and she was in fact cheating everyone would be calling him stupid for allowing her to manipulate him like that. He shouldn’t have put his hands on her at all.
@@DigitalCowboy000 There was, what seemed to be indisputable evidence, a cheater is going to lie, it wasn't a situation one could really make the right choice in.
@@DigitalCowboy000 the wife said that it was so good that even she would have believed it if it were turned around. That is truly psychotic to go that far, that it's such a good fake, that no one can dispute it.
Oh I can relate to the fake friend story!! My husband and I had one of those toxic friends in our life for the first few years of our marriage. She had been my friend since middle school and even though she had done some shady things in the past I always forgave her. She finally went too far when she tried to start an affair with my husband (he wasn't interested) she got offended so told HER husband, who was really good friends with mine, that my husband had came onto HER! Her husband didn't buy it because this wasn't the first time she's accused one of his friends of this but it ruined our friendship!! I was done!! She's crazy as a sprayed cockroach!!
How psychotic is it that she did this because "he didn't pay as much attention to her" like God forbid he use all his attention on his wife and child. Like she's acting like he was her bf or something. I'm surprised she even saw reason to tell the truth. I wonder what the end game was. It clearly wasn't to bed him cause she wouldn't have come clean if it was and she even stated she thought he'd forgive her. Besides if he wasn't interested in her back then I doubt he would be even if his marriage fell apart.
Wondered if the house was in both of their names when he kicked her out. OP needs to take steps in case the husband decides to believe someone else later. She needs to protect herself and child by stashing cash in a different bank.
IN story 1.. OP.. you should have gotten a lawyer. Your friend just made your husband VIOLENT. Get out of there NOW. Then Sue your husband and your exfriend. With a jealous friend exposing your husband in the worst way possible, who can you trust?
Unpopular opinions here but i don’t thing the husband in story one should be labeled as an abuser. I mean she had been the one to do it to him would everyone still been up in arms? I think they were both in the wrong for not walking away once it got to the point of yelling. Also as someone very pale busies can stick around for a long while. I once accidentally smacked my leg in to a table it took three months for that sucker to heal.
my wife literally gets paw print bruises from cats. If I show a bruise there is significant damage done. I was thrown into a car (from a highsided motorcycle) hard enough to cause a major dent with my body, and did not bruise.
Story 1: OP, why would you want your relationship to go back to where it was before the distrust. You want it better because you both would have learned something hopefully about trust and keeping hands off one another. Don't forget to put great distance from friend.
Story 2: This would be hard for me, because I don't know if I would let my mom or sister and kids stay. I the mom's boyfriend have a good job now and she is working they should be good. Sister on the other hand with three kids, would be harder for me. But I'm glad OP got his house back.
OP should’ve gone to the police for identity theft, libel/slander, and emotional harassment for the damages done because of the actions of whoever (her best friend) made the dating pages.
In story 2 the OP should kick everyone out of the house but offer the sister to leave her kids if Op/wife are alright with taking care of the kids. He has given them all plenty of time to try to make arrangements to figure out a better option for themselves and to be able to be in a better position themselves after basically living rent free for 2 plus years.
Story 2: NTAH. The family is taking advantage of OP because they are not offering financial tribute. Best wishes for a harmonious house in the future ❤️☺️
The 1st time I ever heard the last story was on a different channel on a different channel that does something similar.. I wanted to listen to it again but but it did not include the total conclusion of this story......iirc they ended up doing marriage counseling but the wife initially didn't think she could continue being with a man who would not believe her so easily, she left for a long while and wasn't sure they'd reunite. They eventually did Edit: thx for the ❤️ Mr. Reddito, I'm a night nurse and listen to your videos on the way to work each day, love what you're doin🙂🙂thank u!
