Sorry, my inclination is to disbelieve Tom's sob story. I hope OP leaves him behind in a cloud of dust as it all seems too coincidental, and the lying Tom is manipulating her, probably with the intention of getting money from her.
WTH! Why was Cat even allowed in the school? She is not staff, has not had any background checks. This is a safe-guarding issue. Tom should have been fired!
Yep. He's a thief and a drug addict. I'm sure he was trying to get more money out of OP. The guy embezzled money from a special needs school for crying out loud. He is the lowest of the low. If I was in her position, I'd have tipped the school off about his drug use. They would have performed a "random" drug test, and then she could have used that as evidence in the divorce. She should have taken him to the cleaners for spending her money on furniture for his affair partner. OP went too easy on him. She should have gone scorched earth.
@ervinrobinson6711 not really. Question If he hadn't caught lupus and if his enabler hadn't gotten into an accident would he still be using? I get he is sick now and he is making amends. Most ppl don't or get to,
When I was just starting out and had barely a penny to my name even a thrift store seemed like luxury until I was able to buy better each are different
I realize luxury is a relative term however anytime you buy furniture that has to be assembled using an Allen key it will never be described as luxury and that's OK.
Thank you for the new story Mr. Reddito! You and everyone else involved in making these videos keep up the great work! I hope everyone is having a great day/afternoon/night! Peace ☮️, hugs 🤗 and love 😘!
That's a good thing. The original poster's friend that worked at the school alongside her ex-husband Tom thankfully did the right thing by convincing the school to drop his ass because in all honesty kids don't need to be exposed to somebody like Tom because one minute they go from being drug addicts to being predators which is a thing that's been known to happen sometimes with drug addicts that those start targeting underage children that's in their care that way they can start trying to use them to get more drug money even to the point where they'll try getting them hooked on the drugs that way they can start passing them off to other drug dealers for sex it is change for free drugs
I know a 14 year old girl here where I live that got with an older guy (you know the type of girl with a single mom who works and leaves her kid unattended a lot with no friends outside of the internet type) and he convinced her to run away with him (he was like 21-23) took her from NC all the way to TX, he got her hooked on a cocktail of drugs and pimped her out at a Wal-Mart up until one of those charity anti-child traffickers noticed her and scared off the dude, told her to call her mom because her mom loved her (the 14 girl was always told her mom didnt love her from this dude and that's what got her to run away) and she got ahold of her mom who was so relieved to find her (was like 4-5 months since she disappeared) and flew all the way to TX to get her.
I would not have met with Tom. I would not have trusted his intentions. Drug addicts rarely change. She is lucky he didn't physically attack her and steal from her. Lupus is not normally a quickly deteriorating illness. And is treatable. I have close family with addictions. Awful having to deal with them, since few want to quit.
My first thought is that Cat and Tom are doing crack together. Now I'll listen to the rest of the story. Tom brought everything on himself. Drugs definitely change a person. But only they can take the first step to helping themselves.
I feel for 0p, her father, and Tom. The girlfriend, not so much. I wish her no harm though. Or anybody else for that matter. Anyways, seems like Op had a good father. Going to Tom telling him his thoughts. Sounds level headed. Sorry for her loss. And for Tom. He's facing death. The awakening of Life. He's got to decide on what he is going to do. Try to make it right, or not. I think he did the best he could do. I wish you happiness Op. Have a good life. Mr. Reddito, you tell a good story.
Wait minute…I thought her friend got him fired! Plus I thought she didn’t tell her friend anything about the reason of divorce. Confusing on those parts. I love how OP father handled the situation. Am glad OP went to see ex hubby! Mr. Reddito is talking a whole more in his latest videos. I the the animated videos the best. Thanks for entertaining me daily! 💕💕💕💕💕
She said her friend could have had him fired if she told her about him him being a drug user. That does seem a no brainer, he works in a school. He actually got fired because someone figured out he was embezzling money from the special needs school. They could have caught him way earlier if she had told the school he was using. One simple drug test, and he'd be out the door. Instead, he kept his job for longer and stole more money. She covered for his sorry butt and all her former colleagues and students were kept in the dark.
Is definitely time to confront him about it a gift is one thing but continuously swiping the card and if you haven't been able to find that he can't find it darling it's gone you need to call it in as stolen
If i was OP i would not have gone to see him. Seems like ex just wanted sympathy from OP. If he wanted to apologize hr could have just written her a letter.
FYI Lupus doesn’t require a donor to get better. I have Lupus so he was lying to OP. You don’t catch Lupus it’s like diabetes, heart disease or cancer. It’s an autoimmune disease that is just a part of you. I have heard that silicone breast implants that leaked can cause you have a Lupus response but that’s the only thing I’ve heard that can cause it, kinda. It’s rare for men to have it and the life span is greatly reduced in men when they do have it. It’s a very sucky disease and can be deadly. There are medications that help it and can help you live close to a normal life depending on what organs it affects. But Tom telling her that he has no donor is completely incorrect for Lupus. He’s lying.
Ladies and gents DONT ever share ur accounts with your partners/husband and or wife. Even married this is unacceptable because when it ends or when they cheat they will rob u blind.
I'm not going to lie I'm pretty sure that little time Tom didn't prison wasn't gentle because in all honesty just want to let you know people like him don't make it in the prison system people like him end up having a train ran on them to save their own booty cheeks from other gang members from neither killing them or turning them into a potential sex-toy so prove it back so sometimes they'll just say screw it I'm either going to have to blow some dude or take one up the butt from a bunch of other guys that will be willing to protect me I also feel that the one thing that needs to be passed as a law that nobody can bail you out once you've been sentence for a certain amount of years maybe if you're found innocent that's a different story
The majority of people with lupus can expect a normal or near-normal life expectancy. Research has shown that many people with a lupus diagnosis have been living with the disease for up to 40 years. However, the most common cause of death is kidney failure. And though Tom had a rash that doesn't mean that he actual had lupus. Just saying this story tried to make it sound a if lupus was a death sentence, which is far from the truth.
You didn't even tell your dad and maybe he can help you can at least help you you are not responsible for what he is done he is an adult but you need to make sure your finances separate from his immediately and get a new account and only your name
Not exactly "a lot of work" when all of a person's posts are on the "posts" section of their Reddit profile page, and all of their comments are under the "comments" section of said page. 🙄
Lupus depends on what organs are involved as to whether it’s life threatening or not. But Lupus does not involve donors at all. That’s what told me Tom was lying. I’ve been living with Lupus for over 35 years but I know several people who’ve died from Lupus.
Honestly, karma is a bitch... and Honestly I think the only thing that might be a positive is there was some redemption and recognition of what was caused by his actions. Who know... Mayhaps Kat/Cat/Kattie may never get that chance, as ..... it does get denied by life. Gotta say though.... Meh least OP got out decently enough... and gets serious closure on an emotional past most couldn't get through & would never get the chance to put to rest in a real way. That said though..... Never forget what we often percieve as 'chance', just isn't and that Just because most people are good at the core... doesn't mean most will do good, and that at times one acts to punish themselves, and We just don't really understand just exactly how 'chance events' happens, even if they aren't by chance really. Square ya shit up before you force yourself to square it up or accept a terrible nature.
