It happened to me, my husband refused me to do any work. After 12 years in Europe with three kids, I fought really hard that it almost ended the relationship. I went back to school, and he came up with every excuse in the book, to get me . I had a set of twins on my final year, that did not stop me as I was determined to complete my study, got myself a good job after completion. Few years after I established myself, my husband passed on. Just imagine if I have listened to him and stayed as a full time house wife with five children!! All my kids are all graduates and all in fulltime employment now and we are fine. Women, earn your money, you never can tell, what tomorrow holds for you.
Working and making your own money as a woman will not only sharpen you mentally but will also add value and respect to you. It is very good to be an independent/working woman
You are a very good husband. I am so proud of you. 'The best woman in the world!!!' I love how you take care of your wife. Some husbands will expect her to start serving as soon as she walks through the door. Thank God for your understanding. God bless your family. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Your husband just Answered the question Some men has Inferiority complex expecially some of our Igbo brothers don't like their wife to work. This is very educating Well done sir/Ma 👏 Welcome back Sis.Flo.
You are really a brave woman Sister Chinyere! Thank you for sharing your life and career worthy of emulation,this is a sensitive issue and should be discussed thoroughly before marriage 🙏😊👍
Flo thank you and your husband for handling this sensitive topic for my Nigerian folks. Your husband is very supportive. Women during courtship discuss with your prospective husbands about career in marriage ❤ E get why.
Great lady & my mentor is back.❤ Thank God for your life & journey mercy. Great God created you to be Great.🎉 🙏May God continue to bless you, your supportive husband & children in Jesus Name Amen.
Working and making your own money as a woman will not sharpen you mentally, but will also add value and respect to you. It is very good to be an independent/ working woman
This one Oga is doing voice over, its about to be special. Just finished watching, A+ video. I was afraid it was ur oga asking you to stop. You guys are couple goals.
Even if the woman is not earning much, she should still be encouraged to work. I encouraged my wife to work even when they were paying her N40k as a Teacher. She was the only staff that goes to work with her own car. Today, we are both in the UK and I can say she earns more than me here. She is still a teacher in the UK while I work from home. We now share the bills here unlike when I paid for everything in Nigeria. We are both happy. With the low amount she earned in Nigeria she did her post graduate in Unilag. She also did another post graduate in the UK. I am happy she is a high flier
Nne, I missed you so much. I presumed you were out working. Welcome back. Enough gidigba for bedroom. I hold front for my family and proud of that. Hubby is 1000% supportive
This is an example of a successful Igbo marriage. They communicate, respect and complement each other. Marriages should be between the IGBOS. They are awesome couple!
I could not help but laugh listening to your husband's voice you can tell that he has put in so much work into this video kudos to him. Let's keep the fire burning for long marriages
Aaaaaaawwwwww, how beautiful, loving and sweet! Well done, hubby! What God has joined together, let no man put asunder!!!! Amen and Amen!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Love you guys!!!
My dear sister, I'm very proud of you and oga for your pratical live style. You are an inspiration and verybgood example to family. May God Almigthy bless you richly.
This video is just very educative, I entered a vessel today ma at apapa Lagos,once i entered there and went to their kitchen,i remembered you 😂, I really appreciate your videos, I have learnt a lot Cooking Family values Good grammar Social etiquette etc Thank you for showing up for us and me specifically
Florence, your husband is an inspiration, he should hold some speaker series for his fellow men. The truth is that times have changed and women can take only a bit. Good discussion.
The first day I met my husband, I told him straight that I cannot marry a man who will not allow me to practice my career and I meant everything I said. (I studied really hard to earn my Engineering degree ) My husband said that was the first thing that attracted him to me.
Exactly, that should be part of thh attraction rather than something to suppress. Suffer to graduate with good grades to position myself for a good career and you come and say no work for me, worse when I already got the job and you say I must stop ... mgbo, mgbo, piafukwa the person isi. 😂
@ Yesoo I worked really hard When I say that I mean it There are days I don’t sleep at night because I am studying. I can’t trade my career for anyone. Even my late father will wake up from the grave and use cane to chase me out of the marriage 😀
I would think that inferiority complex would be the only reason a man would ask his working class wife to become a stay at home mom! God forbid! I don’t think I would want to be with a stay at home wife if my wife decides to stay at home. Amaechi did an amazing job welcoming you back home ❤! Thanks for sharing.
Ok this lady is a vibe! I am so loving this new content. Don’t get me wrong. I enjoy the food content as well, but this content is so enjoyable and informative. Your husband is such a great person. I wish most Nigerian men would be like him. I’m not married, but I wish to get married soon, and I would love to hear those questions you asked your husband before you got married. thank you for taking the time out to bring this wonderful contents to the public. God bless you,Love you.❤
Aunty Flo anytime I watch you and your husband, I know that my standards are not too high but actually very realistic. May your family continue to be blessed!
Welcome back! God bless your husband, ma❤ someone once asked my husband why he "allowed" me to work, and he said, "because it makes her happy." Wives are also human, and husbands should encourage them to live their best lives. Marriage should add value to both husband and wife and make both persons fluorish together, not one person making strides in career and business at the expense of the other person's life and happiness. Thank you for your funny stories and amazing recipes. May God bless and keep you all in peace and good health 🙏
Both of you are meant for each other. I thank God for causing your paths to cross. It wouldn't have been better with any other match on both sides. I will be like you when I grow up.
Totally on the same page with you. My husband totally agrees with your viewpoint, and he will be worried if i stopped working. My massive income is not a threat and shouldn't be a threat for any well-meaning man. Dalu Flo
Welcome back and thank you both for the insightful video. To be honest I don't think women should be a stay at home wives in this age and time, especially now technology has made things easier with lots of digital skills and remote work options. I had a conversation with one bro recently, his excuse of not wanting his wife to work was that she won't have time to take care of the family, to groom and nurture the kids, that he'd be preparing to rush to work and she'd be doing the same and he doesn't want that. Okay I got to see a neighbour who was a victim of stay at home wife when I was growing up. The husband died suddenly in an accident and she had to start all over again from scratch with nothing. I say again women empowerment is very essential at home.
Asim ya dikwara unu na mma🤲 onye ji gi gi something worth more than gold mama Flo, i have learnt alot from this video and I am motivated, beautiful video Ezinne 😍 ❤️
Wow❤ I love your family. May the lord bless you, your husband and children. More heavenly blessings and love upon your family in Jesus name. Honestly speaking I've missed you a lot Aunty Flo
After watching that your video of you been on the Shore, I had a dream that my husband got work in the same company 😂🤣. I sha know that it was because of the video 😁. I and my husband has been watching for video for long 🥰 We love you ma.
Awwwwwn, not me screaming awwwwwn all through: why did I not watch this since. In fact the moment I heard your husband voice behind the voice over, I say na me and this video this morning. Make i rush go show my husband. Your husband is a strongman. In this Tinubu era we are facing inside this obodo oyibo! We need the 2 Source of income abeg. Congrats to you and your hubby. Permission to plagiarise this video abeg our original Flo❤
Perfect 👍👍 When I wanted to start up my business some of hubby's friends were against it some even advice him to use the money and open a new shop get another nwa-boi he refused .
Good reason for working and it's a perfect reason for both of you to support financially, to take care of the home, not every woman want to spend their money for their home even if they work or make more, sis Flo is an asset so she is different, why are you guys acting as if you don't know about Nigeria women on having money just for their personal needs? ( my money is my money and my husband money is our money)most Nigerian women are not like sis Flo and it's getting worse with this new generation. You kind of painting an ideal and perfect reasons for women to work, men are not stupid if they find an asset they'll love her to work, but most Naija women don't have the mindset of supporting financially or paying bills, all bills waits for the guy as they believe is a man's duty/responsibility while they can do nothing irresponsibly, even if the woman works. So WHAT ABOUT THAT MINDSET? Some women also are so lazy they just don't want to take care of nothing, househelp does everything and her work is more like an escape and that is the same kind that will contribute nothing even she works or make more, all she does is take take take, you guys are painting perfect reasons although that's your reality not for most people! Also there's need to stay at home to take care of the kids if they're too tender. Most Nigerian women doesn't like contributing financially even if they work, their money is theirs alone. You guys should always see things from other perspective most of these women are selfish they don't reason like sis Flo ❤
Most nigerian women are actually like her.dont generalize.except you are the type of man that eants the woman to spend all her money on the family while you keep yours.there is no how the woman wont support you when things gets tough for you.infact so many Nigerian men are the ones spending their wife"s money.the me will use one cunning way or the other to collect the money once they know you have the money.i know of so many so many women that supports their husbands with their earnings without any complaints
Love Nwantinti!!😊 Oga bu Agu nwoke. His type is a blessing. I believe men who stop their wives do so for selfish reasons and really all hands should be on deck to raise a family. I also think some women when they earn more than the man tend to not respect their spouse which should not be as men have the natural male ego. Like rightly pointed, this matter should be discussed. The videos you will do will be of great assistance to a great number of people. Jisike!!
