I'm consistently disappointed in how many people, trying to teach men to be strong, are condescending toward them. He refers to men as wishy-washy, while not acknowledging that women are as bad or worse. Men, you are human beings capable of living happy, fulfilled lives. Unfortunately, most of us are wired -- through biology and socialization -- to seek approval and validation from women. Those women are self centered and fickle. They don't deserve the gifts of presence that you can give, but that is one of the best ways of getting them in your lives. So, build your own life. Be free and have fun. Recognize that women are not the capable and wonderful creatures of our fantasies. You'll do better to think of them as immature. Journal, talk to friends, develop your own sense of self. And to the extent that you want women, learn and practice pickup. And hopefully, some women worth having around will cross your path. Don't hold your breath. How is this sounding? I'm hoping you can read it as coming from a place of care, and respect, for you. And in no way suggesting that women are better, or deserving of anything from you, or that there's anything wrong with you if you don't do well with women, or choose not to even try.
Born of Fire agreed! I almost never say that someone deserves something. Life happens around you, and you deal with it. If someone has done something tangible, then I might say they deserve compensation. But if there isn't an agreement in place, it's still a cap shoot. Especially where getting something from women is involved. Buy her dinner, be there for her.. And she might just put you on the friend zone
THIS! Profound . Nothing is more powerful than silence -- silence to let her talk, express, emote, and silence to let her mind attract herself to you. And, when things are not proceeding to your liking, silence to let her try to figure out why you're not calling, texting, responding, like a splinter in her mind that only you can remove.
From experience I’ve seen and watched and conclude that one’s vibe + looks beats everything even that jacked dude with a lambo, that vibe that just is too natural to learn or develop
Seduction has to be tailor made for each man. Some have to talk to get laid. Others should be more silent. We need mentors to tell us where on the spectrum each one of us are.
With all due respect, women simply have a list subconsciously or consciously. Some women feel extremely uncomfortable with silence others like it.Some women like funny guys, others don't find it attractive. When is this pickup industry going to advocate embracing every man's natural personality instead of telling them to be something they are not? If one has basic social skills and meets a ton of women, he will meet someone who is a match.
Naive blue pilled bs. Lets keep it real. Normal men need regular sex. Women hold the keys to the supply of sex. So what happens between the time u start looking until the time u bump into the "right one" years later? WTF dude? This sounds like the kind of mindless garbage that would be written by a girl. PUA is here simply because there are some cues that will make it more likely that women will want to have sex with you. Seems manipulative? Hell yeah!!!! If you want to see real experts at manipulation, go on ANY dating app and check all of the "strong independent women who don't want to be judged by their looks" taking selfies from above so they can maximize the amount of cleavage in the picture. Or check out the all the overweight women who want men to be honest, but post only pictures of their face so you don't see how fat they are. Women are callous master manipulators. PUA simply gives guys a fighting chance in an environment that is rigged for guys to lose on every level.
Fully agree with your point James. However if you want to progress to a more attractive self, you gotta act (at least at the beginning). And theres no proper acting if you don't believe your shit. Women, besides manipulative, are exceptional emotional readers. So if you don't wanna go through this acting and other self improvement ways, you better just be yourself. As naive as it sounds. It's less exhausting and you will be more likely to find your proper match, as Nikan pointed out in the initial post. However, it's less exciting and you will probably have less abundance along that way. No red and blue pill here. Just a matter of what you feel for with makes for what you will enjoy the most. Nobody knows the final destination, so let's just enjoy our way.
All women want a dominant and grounded man. Even if it makes them feel uncomfortable at times. That is what sparks sexual interest. If a women is looking at man soley for the purpose of sex 9 times out of 10 he needs to be dominant. One trait of dominance is to be able to be silent around women, and build up the tensison. Trust me it almost never fails.
I love this Chanel... But you call this the most powerful technique, and I don't even know what's the point he was trying to make. This video is the proof that Americans don't know shit about seduction... Oh god...
Axcel Black okay... But before I judged the man I listened to what he had to say. And I didn't learn shit from this. Just tell me what's the most powerful technique he was talking about if you can point it out..?
A man You're so right! European men are amazing at seducing women and they do it by using romance not these ridiculous calculated-narcissist methods. American men are clueless when it comes to women.
@A man..Kid, the whole point is lifting your own game up. That's what he said. He could've said some crappy common tricks but he hit the bullseye with the best logic with the best of his intention, that's to educate kids like you to get hold of your life rather than sniff around some mini skirts. And I would love to receive any advice from that 18 year old European kid (that you mentioned) on this coz I like rich people's kids. They're somewhat funny when it comes to this & flushing out dad's money on whores.
This is literally the dumbest thing, guys think they believe you have to be a millionaire or something. Like no one who does not fit in these extreme categories are not in relationships.
Ya and the vast majority of relationships are sick, unhealthy, and miserable. Look at marriage for an example. Half end in divorce, and a giant chunk of the ones that don’t are sexless dead bedroom misery and abuse. 80/20. Better off single than in a shitty relationshit. -ADJ
