I’m being forced to leave Ghana 

I have 5 suggestions for you. (1) Sell your things in storage. (2) Inform your brother that you must reduce expenditures and that he is only to call once or twice a month for 10 minutes each. (Can you rent your building out in Texas? If so, do so immediately. (4) Let your daughters know that you are on a budget and you will no longer be able to afford their high expenses. (5) Put all your expenditures in writing and then speak with a professional financial manager. Remember you have earned your place in life and everyone else must learn to earn theirs.

hiii daddy !! this is your 14 year old daughter😂. i 100% understand and i feel for you a lot because you have to take care of me and on top of that a 24 year old who DOESN’T LISTEN😤. i don’t want to move to ghana because that’s such a big change for me. i am also willing to move to ghana because i know me living here is a part of the reason my father can’t enjoy himself in his dream home and that really gets to me. so if i have to go i’ll go, but i wouldn’t be the same. i’m praying that whatever happens, things work out for everyone involved in this.

Sell everything that you have in storage that you are not going to need and you can put those storage fees to better use. Tell your brother to call you once a month or he can write you letters. Tell your daughter that she will have to come and live with you in Ghana because its too expensive where she is. She's a minor and the decision as to where she is to live should be yours. I know that you want her to be happy but she needs to understand that Ghana is home for you and when she turns 18 she can decide where she wants to live and work.

My man a prisoner of all his possessions.... 🔥🔥🔥

Amelio, I have two grown sons. I had to put them out due to their lifestyle when they were 20 and 22 years of age. They are now 26 and 32. I gave them everything they needed and wanted when they were home with me. They've been living on their own since then, struggling, but they're making it. I said all of that to tell you that you have done what you needed to do for your children, they are adults; except for your 14 year old. The other 3 need to work and help themselves, that way they will know the value of a dollar instead of asking you for money. Me personally, I had to cut my sons off from asking me for money because I was their crutch to lean on, but I had to show tough love and constantly pray for them and ask Jehovah God to watch over them. I hope this helps and I'm praying for you and your family. ✌🏽❤️🙏🏽

I’m in Houston if you need help with getting your issues together in Huntsville… I will be visiting Ghana in August looking to relocate soon… praying for you brother… I learned my lesson don’t put yourself on the back burner… put you first hun

Consider renting out your Ghana home whilst you are away depending on how long you will be away for. It is a good idea not to leave the house unattended. Good luck to you.

My condolences to you and your daughter on the loss of her mother. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

If all those stored items have been untouched for 7 years you don't need it. Write your brother some emails & letters let him no the phone bill is overwhelming. You are the boss not the 14 yr old she will kick & scream, miss friends then grow to love it like we all do😂. All the rest of the grown folks need to put on notice that you're putting you first.

😂 this is not hard to me. 1. Move your daughter to Ghana, 2. Stop taking calls from your brother until you can afford the calls. Tell your brother you won’t be able to receive any calls for a year and then block him. Also tell him you guys can write letters to each other. If he doesn’t like it, move on with your decisions and be happy. Don’t let people run your life. Be the captain of your ship. Man up!

As an African here in Africa,having lived in the States,you've done one "excellent" thing that I luv,you started your house in Ghana,we all knows America is all about "Bills" and they never stop coming,when you get back to the states,try and make some money,give yourself about a year,and try and get the house completed while the dollar is still strong.I haven't seen the videos of your house,but I can tell you,you have so many money making options once the house is completed. Just let the kids,brother and the rest of the fam know your only staying and busting your behind for a year to finish your project...so ma brother,you still in the game,don't give up,don't throw in the towel,this is a plan for the rest of your life,in Africa you got no mortgages,car payments and at this stage in your life you don't need any of that stress....stay strong💪 ma brothe r, you know deep in your heart Africa's where your heart is.

There is something about Africa that when an African American gets there it feels different, it takes people with deep spiritual connections to understand this! Wishing all the best 🙏🏽

Tough spot brother, family is important and fathers are one of the most important parts. Sorry to hear about the issues but you have a lot going for yourself, you should proud. Passive income, property that you own, no bills. You’re where most of us who feel trapped, wish they could be. Even if you can’t balance your family expenses and need to go back for a short time it’s not an defeat. You still have the pathway you’ve built available anytime your want. Good luck and well done.

Brother I've lived in Ghana for 3 years now. My suggestion is sale everything(Like I did in U.S) and focus on building here. I made a very good salary, big home and to very nice cars(All of wish was still on credit). Then after 5 years get your dual citizenship and move on. As far as family again offer them to stay in Ghana, but let them know (accept for your underage daughter) the rest of your family they must grow up and longer stress you over funds, because you are trying to build something here(Africa) for the generations to come. If they need help you can help finance them if they bring what they have and come to Africa and help you on this mission. That's what I did and I advice you to do also. Yes my home is 90% built and my businesses are doing fine. I hope this help because you will have to let Erica(America) go, because she is like sponge and will continue to suck up all your funds. Also call your brother on what's app on your Ghana phone. If he don't have what's app then demand he get it to save you money.

1. Sell the stuff you have in storage or shipped it to Ghana 2. Write letters to your brother and limit calls 15 - 20 minutes per month - create a budget for the calls 3. Your daughter need to move to Ghana. Since she cannot take care of herself, it is not a choice for her to make. 4. Stay in your happiness! @ your daughter- Life is about change! If you don’t learn how to adapt, you will stop growing

*If you have to buy stuff, to store your stuff, maybe you have too much stuff! A professional organizer wrote this last week! Very much an eye opening moment* ❤

I lived in Ghana for 10 years and I understand how you feel. I had to return in 2010 due to family issues. Now i am living in Mexico. Praying that God will guide you to your best outcome.

It will work out 4 u bro. Stay focused and keep grinding. Hopefully we can link up when u get back 2 Ghana. I'm a brother from Minnesota

This is why the the African Americans moving to Ghana need to invest their money in a business together. Like a liquor store or gas station like QT they all invest, all work it together and earn their once a year profit check. Which could take care of their needs and travel back to the USA. WE HAVE TO UNITE. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU BROTHER.

Brother glad you had the courage to leave the US to Ghana. You are actually living my dream. I wish you the best in your situation and may God continue to look after you and guide you. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

Brother my advice is don't go back to the state you will regret it ! I made the same mistake, I'm from UK moved to the state texas San Antonio in 2013 also lived in Boston Massachusetts I was working and happy making better living but becoming my kids from previous relationship I ended I was forced to come back. But remember kids got their own lives, this might sound mean to any parent, but when kid reaches certain age they won't have time for you, kids in theses countries takes friends more important than family and they won't have time for you after you but friends come firt. And for you will be already left evening you built because of them, I'm in the same situation like you. Do not make the same mistake like I did.

You got me with tears dropping on my face thank you for sharing and by the way you getting younger every day . Bless you and stay safe

I feel you fam, going through that right now I had to get back to America to get some bread. It's stressful, comes with a lot of anxiety especially seeing how those who stay in Africa are doing but in the end everything Gon work out

My Lord You have such a great heart to do what you do. Sell your things in storage or send for them via container. Or get a roommate while in Africa to go towards your expenses.

Awww man! I hope you can stay in Ghana and work things out. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Very sorry about your experiences you are going through. Although you did all your homework as you said, life is not predictable. And life here in Ghana is meanwhile very expensive. Many diasporians seriously under estimate this and just follow all the you tube videos only to notice they were not prepared. It is very good that you share the realistic circumstances so that people get aware. I hope you will find a positive solution for you and your family!!! 👍👍👍

Shout Out from Oceanside, Ca...I feel you bro. We love our family, mother, father, siblings and our children in particular. We hate letting them down or having them feel we do not love them nor care for them. I would've been settled in Africa ten years ago after leaving the military if it were not for my family, daughter in particular who I love and want to ensure is safe and secure before I depart for good. If I was in your shoes i would find a sincere and trustworthy person to handle my business in Ghana while I am gone, then come back to the U,S, and rack-up some fund for myself, And give my daughter one more opportunity to come with me, If she does not wish to then she has plotted her own destiny so I would give her one lump sum of whatever I could afford , a long hug and a see you again soon I pray, then I would stash some money to the side for my brother whose incarcerated and head on back to the motherland. I got four more years to retire from this civilian job that I am working, and I already told them I will not be returning once I leave unless it's an urgency with my children. I am taking care of them now so I will not have to later. You have to let them know that you are putting yourself in a jam maintaining them as adults, offer them what help you can and let them know that after this they're on their own when it comes to progressing.

Yes, being in America working is straight up slavery. I come to the U.S to work and working is stressing me out. All these bills when I’m home in Nigeria I’m at peace. I’m trying to just get to a point where I make enough in America and never come back to work just to visit children until they finally leave and come back home for good … nothing like being in Africa without all those bills as long as you have a good enough money saved, you own your home in Africa as well

Thank you for being a responsible father to your kids. For your adults kids, let them sort things out for themselves. Your younger one can live with you in GH, then go back in her senior year in high school to be able to get in college. With your brother, you have to set boundaries for him, if not he will milk you dry😅. All the same, you need to go back and solve these issues. Good luck.

Hey there Bro. I definitely feel you. Galveston County, Texas here. I have land there in Ghana also but I am stuck for the moment helping out also. My 3yr old granddaughter needed me and still does. I am ready to hit the eject button. Don't come and get stuck here. I know its hard because it sounds like you were and still are a provider. There is no easy answer. My advice is to come move your things, make sure everyone is good and bounce. As far as mine, I told them that everyone is over 18 and can make their own choices but the 3yr old cant. So, as soon as I can see the light in the door, my ass is gone. They are welcome to come. But dont try to break me just because you dont understand the game being played. Good Luck Brother.

I feel you on that storage, I've been living in the Dominican Republic for 2 years, and that $300 storage bill is becoming a burden. I could have repurchased everything in the storage damn near twice. I know it's extremely hard when you have family to support as well. Personally, I would be trying every hustle there is on RU-vid until 2 or 3 worked, and could be turned into profitable businesses. JT Automatons is a good channel for ideas. Wishing you the best Brotha... I know how rewarding, healthy, and liberating, life outside of AmeriKKKa is. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

Keep building this channel … you just gave a wonderful blueprint on moving abroad .. continue to teach the steps

Damn bro. First time seeing you content. I left the U.S for Brasil back in 2019 so I get what you are going through especially with the storage..etc back in the U.S. It seems like whatever you have going on in the U.S. is stopping u from living your dream. One thing that i've learned for certain is that sometimes you need to cut bait, and start from scratch. It's tough but you shared your issue so here's my 2 cents. You have to set boundaries with your bro them jail calls are super expensive. Limit them. Pens and paper are still around. Hopefully your daughter can live with you. Kids are more adaptable than we give them credit for. She'll get over it, plus she'll treasure the time ya'll are together. She'll be 18/21 soon enough, you'll never get that time back. As far as your storage unit. Unless it's heirloom/legacy stuff, sell or donate it. You can make better use of that money that you are basically giving them. Lastly, sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. I can't imagine how difficult that is. I wish you well in your future. It seems Ghana is slowly becoming more expensive as time goes on, me personally, I'm looking to E. Africa, either way I'm glad you were able to leave the U.S. and master your possibilities elsewhere. Peace.

As long as you have a home paid for in Ghana then you're good. Having a home with no rent or mortgage is a blessing. Group economics is what we need to practice. Move everyone in and everyone needs to have income. I live in Colombia and have expenses in the U.S. too

Don't give up. The more you preserve and commit to Africa, the more attractive your life will be and the more success you will gain and achieve. Your daughter will then want to come join you to experience the same joy. So please keep going? God loves you and your family. Well done. x

Man, I hate to hear this is happening. You have to free yourself of the extra loads by with your family. They have to figure it out as well. I would let them firgure it out. For your child, that was not your choice to move somewhere outstand of there means. they have to take responsiblity for that. You will have to choice between your peace and living in Hell. Once I moved, i never went back to the hell I left no matter who or what it was. I have two children as well a son that is 23 and a daughter that is 17. I provide what they need and nothing more just to maintain what I have.

You must get your house and life in order before you can settle in Ghana. You also need to get rid of the storage units. While you’re in Africa, tell your brother to not call for awhile. If he does call, all he needs to do is say he’s fine and goodbye. You probably need to stay away from women for awhile, they can be trouble and expensive. Focus on getting yourself straightened out and your kids.

My prayers for you brother. Jah will work it all out one day at a time. Stay focused and bite off bits at a time.

Few suggestions. You can go back to America to regroup. Sort out your kids and pause your brother responsibilities . Sell some of your items in storage or apartments that you do not need (get $). Put the remaining items in your business in Texas. Try to see if you can get a remote job while you’re in usa. You really need two stable businesses to survive in Ghana. You can bring your daughter for visit in Ghana. How old are your kids? Where are they staying? Please don’t make a rush decision. Take few days off and iron things up before traveling. Ghana is your forever home.

I just liked ans subscribed keep pushing forward no matter what. Ypu gotta build a family in Ghana to for youe future blood line to have in the motherland

There were so many great suggestions already given. Definitely get rid of those storages. If you haven’t touched those items in years, you don’t need them. Sell what you can and give away the rest to deserving people or organizations. Consider WhatsApp or zoom for calls with your brother. No more $1 per minute calls. Because you already have a platform on the expat process, maybe you can host fellow Americans by renting out space in your home for visits to Ghana. This will add another stream of income. Bring your daughter to Ghana for the summer and see if she adjusts. It’s an adjustment in regards to living in Ghana, so at least see if she can deal. Best wishes to you brother! Remain in the heights and all will flow as it needs to.

My daughter and I went there and stayed 4 years I loved it

This is heart breaking, family thwarting a good man striving to succeed. Take the advice of commenters below: sell what you can that is in storage, donate what you can't sell. Set up a bank account for your 14 year old and entrust her to a guardian who will look after her as her own child-that is, if she absolutely doesn't want to move to Ghana with you. And tell your brother as someone has suggested already, to call you only once a month for a brief 10 minutes max talk and write letters. Do not give up on the life you have already established in Ghana.

Thats sad.. People are moving there for a better life and better opportunities.😮

I just found your channel but this is a parents fear. I have spoken about something similar to this to my husband because we will be moving to Africa and I said to him that I don't want to leave our children behind because of things like this I have heard more then once. Even when they think they are gone in reality they aren't grown because they still can't take care of themselves and they always come back looking for help from their parents. A lot of times when you tell them you are moving to Africa some of them don't want to go but want to stay in America and they can't afford the lifestyle. I pray it all works out for you.

What’s going on my friend. I hope that you’re getting a better picture on what to do in your situation. You seem like a real genuine, sincere person. Which reminds me of myself. The one mistake I see that you’re putting yourself into is that you’re taking care of everyone except yourself. In order to help everyone, you must first take care of yourself. What I suggest is that you put a halt on everything! Find a quiet time/space and start to reconfigure everything. Your finances, your relationships with others that putting you in this financial bind. You’re going to have to reassess everything, start fresh. From there after recollecting your thought process, you’ll have a clear vision on how to move forward.

"NO! " Enjoy your CREATION by saying "NO!" to people in the u. s. FAMILY Included...

This is such a easy fix. Curtail talks with brother, it’s funny people locked up love to talk on your dime, so limit the calls to what you can afford. If your living in Africa why are you storing furniture. Let it go and move on. It seems you may not have that close connection with your daughter or as you say “That little girl”. Vince why she does not want to come to Africa. I would establish with whomever is taking care of her a set payment you can afford. Her taste of expensive living your not responsible for but providing care that your able to help and still survive is what could be agreed on. If the daughter is yours, your right to raise and take her to Africa should not be challenged. It really seems that as you said your money is very tight and you have no choice but to go back and work to handle your business. Many people are doing that so if it has to be done no need to trip. I hope the best for you but letting go of jail calls and storage fees possibly could go towards your daughters upkeep.

Tell the daughter move to Ghana or pay all of her expensives by herself. Limit the brotherly calls from prison to one day a week for a 10 minute call. Everyone has to adjust and tighten their belts so that you may continue to build a empire. Your legacy will help the family in the long term . Get tough man.!

I can hear the hurt in your voice! I know the feeling of not wanting to come back. You did everything right, but your children are important. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. idk what you have in storage but selling some of it and finding the smallest storage unit possible. Potentially renting out the building you have in the U.S. potentially Air bnb ing your home in Ghana. Working the job for one year and going on a crazy savings spree while you get more passive streams of income flowing. You can still visit Ghana during that year.

Beautiful heartfelt content Brethren. Your daughter is very special to understand what her dad is going through. Bring her to Ghana. Sell the items that you can. Come back and live your life. One of the most amazing things a child can see, is their parent living a full happy life. It will overflow to her. Also put your brother of WhatsApp. Thats what its all about. And if you both have Iphones, you can talk facetime with no extra charges. I will be your neighbor soon. Blessings!

Thanks for sharing. You are a smart man, you will figure out what's best to do. Trouble dont last.

I hope you get everything figured out brotha, so that you can go back to ghana and live in peace

Everyone deserves some grace. Just be honest and let each person know what’s up and work it out together. It will work out

Great video, first time seeing you. Firstly my brother you need to bring your 14 year old daughter to Ghana where you are living. Convince her, tell her it’s a holiday and she will end up making friends and enjoying herself, and will want to stay. America just like Europe England, where I’m from is getting ridiculously expensive. You are in the best place, and hope things work out for you 🙏

Well done for asking. Respect!!!

I did something similar with storage fees. You've got to get out from under storage fees. I was paying $333/month for 12 years, and when I hired movers to ship my containers back to me, they stole everything, and between California, North Carolina, Illinois, Maryland and Washington, DC, no jurisdiction would do anything; each claiming that they had no authority. I spent more on storage fees than everything was worth. I know you love your brother, but there's nothing you can do for him. Maybe contribute to his commissary account, but the phone calls have to stop.

Pulling for you bro...been watching your videos for a while. We'll bounce back Im sure....🖤💚💛❤

My brother, it must be a very difficult situation for you right now. Apart from your underage daughter who needs guardian, the others should be able to use the social safety net in the system to help themselves ride through this tough time . The belongings in storage, you can sell to free the resources that you now have to deploy there ,unless they have unbeatable future value, otherwise,sell sell! All said , you’re in the best position to advice yourself on the best course of action to take on current situation, you understand it better. And I don’t believe you can relieve all your family members from their current economic situation by going there to take up residence and employment, your bills may go up and further exacerbate the problem. My thoughts and prayers for your family. Be strong . 🙏

Never Say Die! God will make a way. Keep your head up.

My condolences for you and the family loss. Change is complex. Ghana is where your heart is now. You have moved on but not out. Come back to the US to regroup. Set a time frame and stick to it no matter what. Rent out your house in Ghana or sub lease. Reach out to others with Ghana in mind and exchange ideals. The storage issues +, will have to be settled here in the states. Your daughter may want too travel to Ghana. The trip of a true lifetime. Enlightenment!!! Wishing you the best! You will be fine.

Man that is heavy. You got to let them go. I'm on my own and ain't nobody helping me do nothing. I've been on my own since 12 yrs. old, my mama and daddy left me to be on my own. As of right now I'm starting to learn about how to invest money. I am 56 yrs. old. I know you care about your family, it's time to apply some tough love and let them work out there own problems.😐

You are obligated to care for your 14 year old as she is a minor. Everything else is manageable if you are willing to take the hard stance, issue a little tough love. meelahme has great advice. Your brother needs to limit his calls to no more than twice per month.

Dang.. Sorry to hear of your troubles bro.. Most High's will. It'll all work out for you.. You never know. this could turn out to be a blessing in disguise.

My condolences to you & your daughter . An under- age child can not and should be allowed to make adult decisions . In this case , who is the adult & who is the child ? This is fundamental in parenting and one of the major things that has been lost in our Black community . It is so sad and frightening . But just like the Bible says , you reap what you so & we all have to account for our own actions, whether ther be good or bad .

😢❤so sorry to hear this, praying God will intervene for you.

I say all you need is a 4-year plan. So take the job in Tennessee and keep your house in Ghana (don’t ever sell it) you can visit during vacation While working in TN. Also this buys you time to be able to find ways to improve your business (reduce the slowness). Meanwhile your 14 yo daughter becomes 18. A little retreat to reload is part of the offensive.

Anything in storage for eight years is stuff you don't need

My Brother, I ve been following your channel for a while and I know you are Pan Africanist which I am too. I also relocated back to Africa 4 yrs ago. However, if situation demand that you go back to the States to work a little more, pls do that asap. The good thing is that you already built a personal house in Ghana and hoping to complete an additional rental property beside it. Also you are no longer a Newbie in Africa (Ghana) and you also already have friends and associates there, so it's just an added advantage to you. Pls 🙏 Don't panic, it's just a situation that needs urgent action or decisions. Thank God you said you already have a job offer in Tennessee. Pls go back and work just a little bit more in order to push (support) yourself and family further down the stream. You can set a target of say 1 to 2yrs or maybe 3yrs Max. Time goes by fast, you only need to be positive in your mind, in your thinking and action. See it like a vacation. Then you can visit Ghana once or twice a year for the target period you set for yourself. Meanwhile, you need to cut down your brother's call since it's expensive and by the way you shouldn't have been using your USA phone frequently in Africa bcos of Roaming. That's why it's more expensive. You should have bought yourself a separate phone that uses Ghana Sim card. Tell him to only call you maybe once or twice a month and the call should not be too long. That calls for discipline. Alternatively you can both text on WhatsApp but I doubt if Govt allow people in Penitentiary access to texting using WhatsApp. Finally, I tell you going back is an opportunity for you to get rid of your monthly storage payment by putting all your stuff / properties in one place (house) that you already have in Texas. However, I will suggest that you sell off whatever you don't need again and ship the rest down to Ghana when next you are ready to finally move back to the Motherland again. And if you don't want to go through the hassles of shipping you can just sell off everything there in America. By the way, if you presently have a car in Ghana remember to park your car in your compound / garage. Then remove all the 4 tyres inside your building and cover your car body with car cover or tarpauline. I believe you have friends that can help you warm the engine say twice a month. And that may not even be necessary anyway. It's your choice. Trust me you are almost there at the finish line of true freedom once you finish with your next set target that I prescribe above. It might even be an opportunity for you to buy additional land and start another building or you might even be able to start another business entirely like restaurant or automobile parts importation, transportation etc. The list and options are endless. Sieze the opportunity now. I'm praying for your success bro. Wishing you Good luck and God bless. Here's a reference for you.......check out another African American brother called "Zayloc23" on RU-vid. He is also building in Ghana but he goes back and forth between Ghana and America to go Hussle for more Dollars and he's doing fantastically well. He also established a tourism company whereby he brings African Americans down to Ghana whenever he's coming to Ghana. Pls just do a research on him and others like "Jay Cameron"...Maximum impact with Jay Cameron.

Hello I empathize with you tell your brother he may have to slow down on the calls when you don't have it. Your daughter that moved into a new apartment is grown maybe you can help her out to the point that you are able. Let her know my business is slow right now. If there are things in storage you no longer need sell it or give it away to make room for your new life in Africa. Get rid of as much baggage as you can praise the Lord and be happy.😊

Take the job in Tennessee , put together some savings . Move your 14 year old daughter to Ghana. Once she gets there she will love it ! Maybe have the older daughter visit and see how she likes it. The storage stuff if you haven't seen it for ten years are they really things you need to keep? Maybe reevaluate that expense . Have a big garage sale and add to your savings . I am praying for you brother because I can see you are living your best life in Ghana. Just give it some thought, go make some money and I pray everything will work itself out !

Also, go through your belongings in storage and aside from items of great sentimental value, ask yourself "Do I really need this stuff?" Let go of what will only be collecting dust in storage. Sell it or donate it to charity.

We too often take on the responsibiltes that are beyond us. It is our responsibility to take care of the NEEDS of our children...but Not the Wants. We have spoiled our children by giving them too many Wants. Childhood is a time for learning, and learning is not always comfortable, old age is the time for comfort. New boundries with your brother that respect your abilities are important for him as well as you. He needs to face his own consqences. Letters seem best. Sell the stuff you dont use, dont let it keep you in bondage.

Wow I wish I had seen this sooner. Life is full of tough choices. The daughter is young and can have options like coming back to America. Give dad a chance to show you what he can offer as your dad. You can always make changes if need be, however give it a chance and go with an open heart to all sorts of possibilities. Good luck to both of you and God bless!

I would sell that stuff in storage if have not needed it in years you don't need it, if the 14 year old mother passed apply for SSI, that will take care of her and brother should get about $200 per year heeds to make that work, they email in prisons now

I’m very proud of you. You are a responsible man. Taking hits only because of your family! You will rise again to not be bothered or inconvenienced In Shaa Allah, but for a man, the call of duty to his family is of the utmost importance. Continue helping them, and in the end, they will all join you in the house you built by sweat in Ghana. Sounds of contentment and joy will be within your compound. You sound like a firstborn or family head. God bless you.

A 14yr old daughter Bro!!! Seems like you have responsibility in U.S.

It is what it is. An error in judgment. You were not ready to move to Ghana, but you learned from the experience.

Do not let your family destroy your life. You need a strong woman by your side. PEACE.

I would bring my youngest daughter to Ghana, pawn off everything in storage and send my brother a year supply of international postage stamps and tell him to write and we will talk once every 2 weeks for 10 minutes.

Go back and regroup and come back in about 6-1yr

Don't make a mistake to leave Ghana. Ghana is good and a lovely country, The people are just like you and we love you. We will treat you as our own brother and Ghana is proper place to up bring a Child we also good education system here so bring your daughter to and enroll her in to one of the best schools in Ghana.

Please talk to some more repats and find an alternative brother. Would hate to see you go!

So sorry, brother. I know how good we got it over here. Handle your business and come back home when the time is right.

I shipped my things to Ghana and sold whatever else before I moved. I got custom furniture when I arrived here. Perhaps you can go and work for a few months to boost your savings back up and put money into your project. Perhaps you can negotiate how much you can contribute for your daughter each month. Can your brother use email? Is there any other way to communicate with him? #Afrikansuperstar

Wow You are a very good brotha A heart of gold you have I know exactly the problem, but you probably won't listen. 1. Make a list of your problems 2. Get your feelings and emotions totally out of your decisions 3. Do the opposite of what you're doing. CHANGE 4. Sometimes your loved ones are liabilities not assets 5. Cut bait/ ties or fail 6. Do a go fund me to have people help you. You seem to help everyone else. Time for them to help you. Best wishes. I'll join you some day soon. Keep in touch. I'll contribute to the fund raiser for you. God bless

I would SELL everything in the storage because obviously you don’t need it for your day to day,So just get rid of that expense right there and limit the calls with your brother to like once a month for a few minutes.

You have built a foundation and they have some choices to make. They are all living in the richest country in the world.i can relate to what you are going through. You've made it all the way back to the mother land don't let negative forces bring you back to the plantation when we were brought here we left relatives and friends behind and we are going to have to do the same thing going back home. Stay strong and let me know how I can help you

Brother respect!!!put all your faith and trust in the most high YAHUSHA 🙌 HALLELUJAH hallelujah all praises to you 🕎 and family ❤

I’m going to pray for you brother. But I’m the end God always works it out.

Wow, that's a difficult situation you are in. Be encouraged that things will work out for the best.

In my case, I had to cut off all of those who needed financial help. It was difficult, at first. But it helped a great deal. Once I focused on my situation, events fell into place, properly.

Hang in there my Brother ❤..see if there are any online remote employment opportunities and I would tell my Brother that you just can't have those costly calls unfortunately.

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That's all easy let all that go. Your. Brother will be out soon he can join you or live his own life. By the time he gets out you should have it made there. Don't be paying bills in two places make choices if your happy plan to stay and live out your dream. God Bless you brother!

What an amazing story! Thank you for sharing. I would kindly suggest selling off as much as you can from your storage units and your brother and you should write to each more and limit the calls. You are doing a lot and I commend you and pray that all goes well.

Opened up by saying you did everything right and all I hear is mistakes by not squaring away liabilities before you made the move bro.

Awwww you are such a great man!!!!

Enjoying ur content fam. If U don't stay and keep establishing in the Land. People w foresight having been escaping the Matrix.

1. Your 14 year old daughter must follow your instruction 2. Sell items in storage period 3. Stop taking calls from your brother it’s unnecessary write a letter. I’ll tell you what my 16 yr old son told me when he was in Juvie; “mom don’t come or call I did this I’ll do the time for this is my sentence not yours” he said he need me more when he get out not while he’s in lockup. 4. Budget your money your time and your life. 5. Keep your head up and make decisions realistically on what you can do period.