Thanks once again for bringing issues like this up. The situation is quite simple. Once she decides to keep the baby for whatever reason, after delivery let her go for a DNA. Then she would be able to ascertain the actual owner of the child.
Arnold it's a difficult citation. I suggest she keep the child, After giving birth to the baby, she can then run a test to know whom the child belongs to.
No be juju be that ashawo woman think about your future life is better then sleeping around for money because this is not love we know what is love may God help us from this kind of women in future life
I can stop crying inside me😭😭you see how this life is going she loves her boyfriend friend more than her boyfriend;God;😭😭and she doesn't tell him;she just with him for the money;god exposed anybody that those not love he/her Partner😭
My Dear keep the child, try to pray also for forgiveness to Allah! And let kama take it's course. Remember what goes around must surely come around so don't add more sin to it but pray and wait for Allah to give you solution, till that time you have to suffer and take care of the child because you are the author of your problems!!! Leave all of them for now and face your problems. One day you need to come out also with the truth but for now concentrate on you becoming a mother that is more important. There are a lot of women out there who raised a child without the father but Allah provided for them. MashAllah 🙏🏼 all the best.
@@Inner_Siren you sound strong;but you know this days is very hard;your advice i recommend it; but for the other hand she is in big trouble right now three men and the same location;she don know who is the father,what is she going to tell her child when he or she grow up;i think the best way to know who is the father she should Convince her boyfriend for them to take a DNA test;she should say something that will convince her boyfriend,the way he can not Suspect her;ok if the test come the boyfriend then OK;if it those not come out her boyfriend;then her boyfriend friend have to be tested too for DNA if the test is still not the friend child ;then is for the old man; she should keep that man secret for her boyfriend and his friend;she should play two of them for DNA test that is how she will know who is the father;very bad to born a child that you don know who is the father;she have to be very smart know who is the father,she may have mental problem if that baby is born;anytime she see the baby she will start crying because she doesn't know who is his /her father you know;for me is very important to know who is the father!
She shouldn't be scared, she isn't the first to do this, many married women are doing the same, some children are not for their husbands. She should keep the pregnancy and ask for forgiveness from God and let her boyfriend know it. I hope he will forgive her.
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We have lived through this very same experience of a homewrecker who slept with a married man, his brother and her own brother in law. The child that was born - now a man with children - only found out at nearly the age of 40 years that 2 of the 3 men she was sleeping with are not his father. And the mother - now in her 60s - is still too cruel a coward to tell the boy who his real father is. The confusion and burden on the boy makes him vulnerable to a lot of things even as a grown man. Best things this guest in this clip can do is to tell all the 3 men, get them ready for a DNA test when the child is born and cut off sexual relations with all the 3 men. She needs to prepare to be a mother, concentrate on raising her child alone. Let the mother sort her own psyche issues out before she can be ready to be in a healthy relationship again, a relationship in which a grown man can he a husband to her and a father to her child. First is she needs to cut off sexual relations from all the 3 men she is sleeping with now, for her sake, the sake of her child and their future.
Thank you our daughter for coming out. Its better to be strong and expose what's disturbing us. Others can learn from you and avoid the mistakes. You are good. Plan to keep the child, it will be difficult but that's the way. Keep your child. Then, the actual boyfriend should be responsible for now. God will open away for you, even in difficult times. Forgive yourself for what you have done. Your problems could be family tree challenge not you. Jesus loves you so much your sins will be forgiven
Well lets apply mathematics here, considering the Venn diagram, the lady is the universal set then we have the 3 sets, 1. The boyfriend set 2. The boyfriend's father set 3. The boyfriends friend set Now looking at the intersection, "the boyfriend" appears in all the 3 sets, so let give the pregnancy to the boyfriend, period. Note this is one benefit of learning Venn diagram in school, do not come here and ask what is the essence of learning Venn diagram in sch.
good questioning,think she should take the bull by the horn by telling the boy friend the whole truth then a medical check up follows to determine who the real father is then things start up from there.She should be ready to take up any challenges as she was the drummer so as to be the denser to her own tune and a life lesson for her.
Yeah ,…. Like I could see there a lot to say Coz as she went to the house and slept with her boy friend dad and later they went there , she could’ve knew the house and not only the pic in the house And where is the borga now ?
The pregnancy belonged to the father. She has been in relationship with the boyfriend and his friend for sometimes without being pregnant but the day she slept with the boyfriend's father, she noticed that something changed in her. The baby might belonged to the father.
Let's her do DNA so everything will come and other will learn from her story and she will have a new start in life.Her past will not hurt her but I believe if his boyfriend is the father, he will look after her never mind he will get hurt, of the boyfriend friend or dad one of them will be responsible for the child upkeep, that will become a lesson for her and others.
Let's hope the first boyfriend is still not aware of her escapades. The guy is really into her since he's comfortable having sex with her with the pregnancy. I wish she could just stay with this guy for the baby to have a family. However, the baby may have a very striking resemblance of one of the suspected trio after birth.
Unfortunately for the 3 guys one, might be the father thru DNA, as for this case she has to live with the guilty for the rest of her, none of the guys will marry her, Unfortunately
She should give birth to the child and after they do DNA test to see whether it's for her boyfriend, or her boyfriend's friend if two prove wrong ..then, she will know who the father is in my opinion
Omooo she say her boyfriend friend he doesn't have money to take care of the baby;and it seems very shame to go for DNA test Imagine she slept with her boyfriend and still go behind and slept with his friend;still again she when and slept with another man which she doesn't know that is her boyfriend;father friend you have to understand my English,seems some how; and her boyfriend doesn't know anything like that is going on wance he knows this she is finish even if the DNA test come out her boyfriend the guy will not want her again and she will loose but 3 men the one she love he will not want her again guy is some how but you make sense but is some how!
She should take life seriously it is her own fault life is not a picnic almighty God created you for purpose not the way you want one day you will realise and cry tears of blood. As forgiveness with Jesus Christ he is merciful and lead a good life sister,
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Some woman going through a lot. My half sister slept with my man and said she was pregnant. So that is a nasty life to sleep around within your lover circle. I don’t trust nobody but God.
Hmmmmm,Arnold said "Don't laugh,it is a serious matter ".Hahahahahahaah,well my dear keep the pregnancy and after do DNA .Oh God, give her the wisdom to handle the situation wisely 🙏
Mr. Arnold this lady know what she was doing sleeping around unprotected she need to do her self a favor and tell the boy friend and stop making this shameful behavior.
Not in this kind of messy situation. It's possible the one she even thinks is the father could be impotent. Only a dna test can tell in this situation.
Hello Everyone! This is a terrible mistake this lady made by sleeping around with 3 different men. But the answer is simple. SHE SHOULD TELL ONE OF THE GUYS THAT SHE IS PREGNANT AND THAT GUY SUPPOSED TO BE THE ONE THAT SHE LOVES AMONG THE THREE. NO TEST NO NOTHING ELSE AND STICK WITH THAT MAN FROM NOW MOVING FORWARD.
5months without telling your boyfriend that you are pregnant? my advice, keep the pregnancy, inform your boyfriend then get ready to handle the DNA triangle.
Arnold, 🤣🤣When she was busily climbing the Mango trees and enjoying the fruits on it did she ask for advice? 🤣🤣 That's just by the way. My advice to her is that she should keep the pregnancy for herself since she is not sure who is responsible. Caution! Don't ever think of ABORTING that innocent child. Because you wouldn't know what he or she will become in life. Caution!! Abortion can claim your life
My Dear keep the child, try to pray also for forgiveness to Allah! And let kama take it's course. Remember what goes around must surely come around so don't add more sin to it but pray and wait for Allah to give you solution, till that time you have to suffer and take care of the child because you are the author of your problems!!! Leave all of them for now and face your problems. One day you need to come out also with the truth but for now concentrate on you becoming a mother that is more important. There are a lot of women out there who raised a child without the father but Allah provided for them. MashAllah 🙏🏼 all the best.
why do this to yourself ? stick to one man this child will just suffer for how her mother choices on how she walked iits very bad but once again only lord whom have a last say who are we to judge her ,, stay strong baby gurl
Let go of all the three Men.. have a new beginning alone.. don't lie or insist the child is either one of them without proof (DNA test).. learn from this situation and don't repeat it again. Stay faithful.
She can keep it to yourself and if any question from the baby father then if she can are can't keep a secret keep it to her self anyway you didn't disguise her voice so her man might just know everything.
She should keep the child 👶 But, let her carry out a DNA 🧬 test and then give the child to the rightful father. But after that, she needs to confess to the boyfriend and apologize to and ask for his forgiveness.
How am I finding it hard to believe the burger man story. I think she is losse and decided to knack her boyfrienda father either becos he is handsome or has money to throw around. The deed is already done
Bro this is not a mistake because she sleep with them intentionally and my advice to her is that she have to swallow shame and face the consequence at once by telling her true boyfriend the truth , i pray not to meet such lady like this in my life, women are very dangerous , i'm Nigeria guy live somewhere in Asia
Nawaooo something is happening in this world, anyway am not surprised to hear that, girls of nawadays i wonder, is this type of girl you can marry and leave her to abroad for 6 months,
I guess the boyfriend is still chopping her, so she should let him know about the pregnancy. She should not think of abortion at all. The boy must accept responsibility and do the needful.
The lady no try at all. What she just narrated is killing the youth of nowadays ooo. "Alorkplii" It's is bad. Two friends and the father of one sleeping with the same lady and they are not even aware of it. It is very dangerous.
