Yelsha, Yelsha.......please ignore those social media "experts" over other peoples' lives. You are on your way to recovery and healing. Focus on your life and your little girl's welfare. Forget those women who feel like they own your story just because they "live" in Germany. Everyone's experience in Germany is DIFFERENT. Don't let that DIM your light..
She is justifying herself too much i hope someone advices her to tone down ju watu wa social media those women watafanya achizi and they don't care, so young girl protect your peace please its for your best interests
@stemyyelsha it's so sad that a fellow woman can bring another down ..she is down....be strong girl...your young and you will overcome all this ....all that matters is you and your baby are in peace ...ata don't bother with what people say...live your life....there is a God in heaven who sees and hears.......
You owe them no explanation Charm ❤️ and most importantly it never should even make sense to those that see no sense in everything you say,,you'll most definitely make it big here at home Kenya, We got you and I beg you focus on the people that brings energy that builds you mam,,, Silent treatment is the best remedy for them trashtalkers,, I love youuu,, keep doing Youu🦋🌹❤️
One thing I’ve learned in life,never justify your story! You will always have people who hate and attack you. Wachana na hawa Watu. Your on your next stage of your life,rise even higher 😇💪🏽
Am sorry you experienced that but please just ignore those people who always see negative in everything.. don't give them attention..they didn't deserve it ❤
Your story is yours to tell!!! It doesn't have to make sense to anyone!!! They can go tell their own perfect stories. You're beautiful, good mother and very inspiring. I don't know you but I love your journey. Please keep off negative energy. Don't feed your soul from negative miserable people!!! Misery loves company. I wish I could hug you and tell you that you are enough and you've done your best❤❤
Hugs Stemy! Your story is yours. Own it. Don't worry about all the negativity. You and your child are going places. Keep loving and protecting your baby.
we still love you...and will support you. Dont worry not everyone will love you its part of life, just ignore them. People never know your true pain unless the have worn your shoes. I have been in Cyprus for 4 years i know the struggle, i dint struggle myself but i count myself lucky because i have seen my friends suffer and i couldnt help unfortunately.
I came to understand that even if someone has lived somewhere for years it doesn’t mean they know everything. Where now it is wrong it is when people start assuming that other people are wrong because they are going through something you have no ideas about. This lady and baby needs so much love and support. She was courageous enough to share her story. Maybe that alone is enough to support her for. Yelsha you will overcome this and in the next 6 months you will be better.
Yelsha, I did a video too sharing lesson learned from your story. But you are a strong woman and I told you once and I will say it again. We are blessed differently and I can see you shining in kenya
Stemy the way I root for you dear!! You wouldn't shed a single tear. I looove you, I love your energy, I love your positivity, I love the way you love your baby, giving her the love you did not get yourself. Pleeeease ignore noise and do you! You have ALOT inside you, and the best you can do is to bless this world with your gift. I will root for you to the end Stemy. I love you so much. Don't cry again. ❤
Youre destined for greatness my gal❤. Nobody should trash you❤. You're a rafe 💎. God will always ne there for you and will always protect you against the enemy. May God bless you and increase your boundaries
girl you are strong and you owe no one no explanation those are just bitter women who just pretend to know other pples lives while their own is breaking down
Dear Yelsha, your journey and your experiences are your own, noone elses. You owe nobody any explaination or clarification. It’s your story say it how you feel is right. You are accountable to yourself and to your child only at this point. Please get help on how to cope with online bullying because these platforms (RU-vid, TikTok, Instagram etc) will be your work place and some will want to make money using you by bashing you, others will just want to see you go down because they themselves are down and hurting and want company in that dark corner. Sending you hugs and praying for your healing. I see a young woman who will fight against all odds and one day have an organisation or platform that gives voices to children that were neglected, traumatised. Who will help parents check their parental styles and rectify them …I see a young woman owning an African fashion make up business, African modern unique clothing line, photography company. I see a lot of potential in you. Please begin your healing journey and shut the noise off from people who are giving you negativity… they are all hurting, some are jealous you are getting the help they need and others are jealous you have/had the courage to face your pain and rise from it. Praying for your strength and peace.
Girl .. ignore them ! I’m here , I passed through this … actually have explained a bit about my story too … almost 99% to yours! We all kids who came here with their one parent go through this.. all my friends here have such stories !!!!!! Just let them talk. The thing is we haven’t come out yet and talked, but everything at a time …. !!!! Others have it even worse here… 😊
Don’t let these social media people depress you girl. You’ve been through enough already. You gotta be strong for yourself and your baby. Stay positive. You haven’t reached your destination yet. Greatness is coming your way. Sending you lots of love from Zim 🇿🇼.
I am sorry you’re going through this. People are miserable and happy when other are unhappy . Please ignore these miserable people. Trust me l know about Germany, l was stationed in there when l was in the Army 😢. Please take care of your daughter and yourself ❤
Don't cry, expect more from negativity what u need to know is where ur going is far,ur success story is on the way.Stay positive,stay strong let ppl talk,they will always do.Ur beautiful 😍😍
My girl don't mind stupid people who only want down fall of others, you are a queen who went through a lot at your age, so don't let those devils to deem your spirit. We love you so much and may God bless you and your kid. May you never luck baby girl.
don’t cry Sis. You are amazing mom and strong woman, Keep shining , Don't let people's opinions change you. God is in control, trust God. take care of yourself and your Princess focus on what you want in your life. there are no limits and that anything is possible. You can achieve anything if you really want .pray about everything because nothing is impossible to God Keep posting your videos, 🇫🇮💕
Yes truth to be told I'm in 🇺🇸 but depression is real you have one to talk to people go to work every time I understand you girl alot of people don't talk about this depression in this countries but uwezi people suffer so much
Stay strong sweetie ❤ I am rooting for you beautiful one ❤ This too shall pass Stemy😊 You are a very strong person and your princess is lucky to have a loving mom like you sis ❤️
Your story is ONLY YOURS NOBODY ELSE . They make videos but have no experience with what you have gone thru , like siste , your life will be just fine . Sending you positive energy 🤗🤗
For me i just need to be comforted that the Nigerian father is supporting his child by any means necessary. If not doxx his name let us Nigerian men find him. 😂
Not everyone will understand your journey. Whether its true you were a bad child or not, its in the past and everyone has their past. Now focus on betterring yourself and prove them and your family wrong. You'll be fine. God got you girl❤
You owe no one an explanation sister. Stay strong and positive for yourself and the Angel. Can't loose your mind over some cowards hiding behind the keyboards.💪
True true hafai kua anatoa ata receipts ku explain to keyboard warriors who don't even have empathy ataji stress zaidi people out here can drain someones energy kabisa and those are the people she needs to learn to ignore awaache waseme watachoka tu athawise if she let's wat pple say control her feelings then ataishi kuji explain na kulia na kutoa receipts 🧾lol.
i know that door will open for you and you will thrive, i am sure of that. Your RU-vid channel will blow up, you will build something big for yourself and you will be successful. You will meet beautiful people, you will find acceptance and your community. I wish you all the best Yelsha and may God make things easy for you. love you. Never Give Up even if things get tough.
Hey yelsha I love you so much 💯You are really destined for greatness mamaa . Don't let anyone dull your sparkle . You are braver and stronger than you believe . Trust me , this chapter of your life is gonna be so amazing ♥️♥️
I am so sorry that there are people always waiting to hurt people. Girl try to ignore some of those....let them be . Don't respond. YOU ARE THE OWNER OF YOUR STORY. THEY DONT KNOW YOU! OWN YOUR SPACE AND Know that THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER PEOPLE THAT LOVE YOU.
Am so pround of you Baby girl, please don't explain yourself to those evil people. They are not happy seeing you moving on and happy. You are such a brave Genius positive girl. I myself live in Germany Munich, l know the Situation. Stay positive and strong. You have our Support. God bless!
it's alright, Mama Didi. It's your story, and we believe you & that's all that matters. My advice, don't explain to anybody. You are doing great. You are a loving mother. The future belongs to you ❤
I understand your situation and I do empathize with you and the kid, although I have a very well paying job am mentally not stable,I feel drained..... it's just a matter of time before relocation back home.There is so much happiness back home...wish one day I can use your platform and share my experience here....ie I applied for My Aufenthaltstitel in March this year it's out but the pick up date is next year Feb,l had planned for my Dec holiday but can't travel coz of the document..... anyway I want to make your day with a kilo nyama choma for you and your kid and soda for that lady that hosted how.How can I fullfil that?
Don’t let the miserable old women get to you we are a lot of African women raising strong women because their fathers didn’t step up. You’re very talented with everything you show us on your platform. Keep doing it and it will definitely pay off.
Hugs dear and sorry for that...never mind those who speak ill upon u....they will never understand the struggles and the pain...it shall b well with u...may God do u great
Why are people so hurtless? I couldn't hold my tears when I was listening to her story and I related it with one of my cousin who was deported from Germany after been depressed, guys these things are real, kama mtu alienda Europe na maisha yake ikashine sio ya kila mtu itashine😢😢😢😢
Sorry for all your going through . Word of caution. Dont tell people your problems.80% dont care,20 % are glad about what you are going through. You should also demand consent before those people you have told your story monitize your suffering.
My Sister ignore those useless people and Carry on with your life, those people are only interested in views, thats Social media, too many negative folks ...Keep it up genuine people understand your Situation and keep the positive vibes, you are a real Strong Woman
Live in Germany. Did the job you talk about, now working. I m depressed, but i m stuck. I dont know what to do next. The tweet is very true. I saw your video few days ago and totally agree. Don't explain yourself to people who didn't live your experience. They will never understand.
You are young!! We love you and you will understand life better with time. And your Mum is the only person who will stand by you after all this is over. Kenya is not a joke. Uta miss hio job that you could not do then. Safe this message ❤. Beautiful girl.❤
Yelsha take heart ,i know its not easy and not many would understand how you feel...iam in that Platz you were and iam fighting on for residence. You will go far..those who mock you are just preparing blessings for you dear...more grace more blessings
I agree with you am a mother and am in Europe and I brought my daughter here and she didn't like she is in Kenya and she's doing good what I can tell you don't give them your eyes we love you 😍
Stemy everything happens with purpose,were it not against your wish to come back it's the law.You are strong continue facing each day with pride and do what you treasure most.Thats just a tide passing by preparing you for greater days ahead.
My dear don’t waste your energy and time on negative people who wants to bring you down, keep on striving you will succeed in life so longer you’re healthy and alive.❤
Am glad you addressed this clout chaser but don't allow them to affect you emotionally. You're strong and you will excel in life, you're blessed and your daughter is blessed and highly favored
Pole mtoto wetu achana na wao ,ni vile hawaelewi yale umepitia ukiwa na umri mdogo, there just toking, atherwis your strong girl, hata wasuchana wake hawawexi kuwa strong kama wewe
Young lady, my advice to you is you don't need to express yourself to anyone, it's your life stay away from negativity. Expressing your thoughts makes the enemies day. No one should put you down. Stay strong and move on.
Let those that wants to be there for you be there for you and those who just wanna leave go,dont stress Sweetie everything will be okay,prove them wrong
Don't give up mama ...❤❤...I just love you ❤from the day I saw you 💞.....u will never suffer ....God will always be with you either physically or mentally ❤....I will pray for you....dnt get triggered by social media..... social media is a fake life .....make ur self happy coz let me tell you wen u are happy then ur child is also happy ❤...May God be always on ur ways...Amen❤
You are already blessed in Jesus name! Ignore those empty debes... Rem this.. God only knows our destinies and once he says Yes to you that's it...He has already said a Yes to you my dear
My dearest girl,focus ahead....leave them behind... together with your past...your pain belongs to the past...now it's the future future and only...and no...dont say "let me suffer"why should you jinx yourself?The future is all you.... positive affirmations only....we love you
Lynn you are of great service 🙏all those stories on your platform.. I know that Yelsha is truthful about her story for in Europe there is a crisis ' those kinds of jobs that even natives don't want to do & then they try to push immigrants into that.. ( When our young lacks support or information they are forced into a space which is leading them to depression... (Her story is shading light on when we try to explain to people Africa is much better, coz for starters if you wish to study, nobody 'll deny you an Academican-status claiming you aren't smart enough and then pushing you into jobs that natives 'll not even do.. (you need a very strong mind to go against it and even if you win., i have seen many turn around and go home to find support & happiness.. I believe that this case was the best for her to go home.. she fought hard and if things are not working why go against the current just find the flow.. Kenya is a beautiful country with nice weather and beautiful friendly hospitable people.. most young Germans have a backbone with alot of support & advice which clearly Yelsha lacked.. I wish her the best 🙏
I love u gal❤❤don't stress yourself with negativity,things will be fine,ushafika nyumbani Kenya is best despite our poor economic but but we love it here,much love from me
I understand you, don't let them destroy your mental health. Hata mimi niko Germany but nilishidwa kufanya Altenpfleger because am not strong enough mentally for that. But am doing other job.
Mammi,take heart and you don't owe anyone any explanation ,you don't have to prove anything to anyone ,do you and be you and continue being strong for your baby girl 😊
