i bought a pet rat... 

not everyone is equipped to take care of a a pet. Thank you for doing the mature thing of taking Remy back and giving him another chance of a good home.

All jokes aside I couldn’t imagine how much it would hurt to give up Remy, it was the right decision though and he’s happy hanging out with his rat friends.

A few notes (if ben gets more): 1. Get more than one 2. Don’t use saw dust because they are prone to respiratory problems 3. Please cover the stairs and floors as they’re feet could get trapped or it could hurt them (could get bumblefoot) 4. Please don’t take them outside again 😅 If you read my comment, thank you, I am sad that you are sad ☹️ Edit: yes, it is penis (I think) Edit 2: thanks so much for 100 likes Edit 3: thanks so much for 200 likes Edit 4: MUMMY IM FAMOUS

FINALLY SOMEONE WHO DOESNT HATE RATS LIKE OML THEYRE SO CUTE😭

Ben made the right decision to give back Remy. Rats are a lot and need the proper research and care, and him giving Remy back just shows how much he cares. We love you Ben ❤❤

Seeing Ben cry again is just sad, this man should deserve the whole world almost

was not expecting him to cry, bro needs a hug fr

8:55 had my DYING. That was true fear right there. Thank you for taking accountability.

As a previous rat owner, I was ready to type some paragraphs on how to make Remys life safe for a rat but glad you returned him❤

I love how people are commenting how Ben is so funny while meanwhile not even watching the whole video so they don’t even know Ben gets real sad at the end💀 edit: im lowkey probably still gonna get replies like a year from now😭😭😭

like actually seeing Ben cry just makes my heart melt. just know that we love you Ben and you make us happy

You'd be a great rat owner, Ben just do a lot of research about everything first, for example that you can't use wood-chips or anything and they can't be exposed to dust because they are at a super high risk for respiratory infections. If you do research about everything they can and can't have and what they can safely do then you would be a amazing rat dad lol

Seeing Ben, a usually funny and lively type of person cry, is so heartbreaking. I cried immediately when Ben started crying because of Remy. You made the right choice giving back Remy, I know that one day you'll find something that you can take care of. Love you Ben and Remy.

I feel so bad for Ben rn, after he took Remy back I started crying and I still am and it just breaks my heart to see such a happy person break down like that. And I just wish I could give him a hug rn 😭

Imagine the stories he's gonna tell his grandchildren some day (BTW I'm sorry you had to get rid of your rat. I actually cried when I saw you cry.)

When Ben began to cry I began to cry because I have like never EVER seen him cry and it was really sad

Remy was not just a rat, he was a small part of our lives that we will never forget,it was the right thing to do and I'm sure he is safe and thanking you everyday in his little pea brain for making the right decision. It's never easy giving up pets but we will never forget Remy 💙💙

At a rat owner I wasn’t entirely thrilled by this video and your techniques, but the love you had for little Remy was genuine, and I definitely think you’ll be an amazing rat owner after doing some research. Rats are amazing companions, and their little hearts can store an immense amount of love.

I don’t think the cage was busy enough. Rats like a VERY CROWDED home, to hide things, store things, etc. -rat owner of 6 yesrs

You deserve the world, bud. It’s okay, Remy is happy hanging out with his rat friends now.

As a person who owns pet rats I think you made the right decision. Rats are a fun pet to take care of but they can be hard pets to take care of at the same time. Rats might not be for everyone but I know one day you will find the right pet💕🐀🐁

I own rats myself and was quite concerned when I saw the first part of the video for many reasons, one being the cage, the fact there was only one rat. But I'm glad that Ben realised Remy would be better being with other rats and someone who could take better care of Remy. :)

Seeing him be so emotional just made me cry❤😢 safe travels Remi

The “building blocks because I want to teach my rat English” got me rollinggg

You made a very responsible decision. I'm sure giving back a pet that you're attached to is hard but you clearly cared a lot about his safety which shows you have very good intentions. We love you Ben. ❤

That was a really mature and responsible decision considering how hard it can be to let a pet go, even if you've only had them for some time. You'll find the right pet someday!!! 🐁🐀❤️💗

Ben-wears a hazmat suit Also Ben-doesn’t wear a mask

dude the pain in bens voice at the end broke me like im glad he knew he couldnt take care of remy but i felt so bad. ive never seen him cry and i hope he can get some pet soon!

Tip for those who are thinking of owning rats or already own some: You should have more than one, I recommend two since they like to stay in groups and are very social creatures. Just make sure they are both the same gender so you don't have to worry about them fighting. Also, DO NOT use the bedding that Ben used in the video. Rats have very sensitive noses, so don't use wood chipping. If you would like more tips, let me know! 😊

You did the right thing. My heartbeat stopped when you brought him outside. You’re lucky you even found him.

2:22 *"OOO BAG"*

10:03 BEN NO DONT CRY😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Fun fact: rats didn’t cause the Plague. Yersinia Pestis originated in rat fleas and the rats were just as much a victim of the Plague. Rats groom obsessively and are actually cleaner than cats. I've owned 5 rats and they're total sweethearts.

My rats died last year and I wish I had just one more day with them. Like Ben said, I know there just rats…but they are living, beautiful, intelligent creatures that deserve so much more love and recognition from humanity. You did the right thing giving Remi away and I hope one day, when you’re ready, you can get more rats and experience the wonder that is owning pet rats.

I'm so sorry for you I know it is hard to lose someone that feels like family

ɪғ ᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴡᴀɴᴛɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴏᴡɴ ᴀ ʀᴀᴛ ʜᴇʀᴇ ᴀʀᴇ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴛɪᴘs ʙᴇғᴏʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴀᴅʏ Tip1:rats are very smart and can climb over stuff it's most likely that you get a very big cage or get cages and combine them to make a giant cage for your rat to explore. Tip2:rats are very social so get 2 or more make sure they have lots of toys to play with or they might become depressed. Tip3:NEVER LET YOUR RATS OUTSIDE! They are most likely to escape and might get killed by cats foxes or any other carnivore even with a cage rats can escape and are very fast. that's all the tips I have for now I hope you will be able to take care of a rat better soon. Also don't forget to make sure you change out the beding for the rats cage😊

You did really good as a rat owner, I’ve had a few rats before so I can speak from experience. If you ever want another one then I would get a male as they’re usually more mellow. I would also make sure he’s young so that he has more time to feel comfortable in your care. Having rats is a lot of fun and I’ve never had my rats bite ever which is something beginners often fear

I’m sorry to hear that Ben, when your ready to own another pet I recommend a hamster. Since you seem to be ok with rodents. Not all hamsters are social so you could get a hamster instead so you don’t have to worry about taking care of two rodents. It was very sweet of you to try and make Remy a nice little home but it was for the best, like you said, he’s a social creature. I hope you feel better soon!❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

It’s so cute when Ben has rat as a child 😊

Tough decision but you did the right thing. Like all the other posters are saying, simply make sure you get at least a pair, and just set up the right amount of space for 'em. U clearly are a loving rat person, and they'll pick up on it right away. Don't give up. A few good rats deserve a loving home!

It must hurt to give up a pet, not because it was dangerous, but because u felt like u weren't responsible enough, Remy was an adorable chill rat, and i hope he still is an adorable chill rat, and I hope Remy remembers you.😇

Hey Ben, I know it was difficult for you to give Remy up again but that was probably the most responsible thing you could have done for that little guy. Not many people have the true courage to admit when their home or lifestyle is not fitting for a pet and I really just want to say I am proud of you for taking that essential and responsible step. Use this as a way to learn and treasure the time with him, not as a mistake. Stay strong

“are you a dog person?” ben: no “are you a cat person?” ben: no ben: i’m a rat person

ty 4 being mature by taking remy back, ben. it was the right thing, and we r proud of u. he's havin' the time of his life, it's ok.

For people who are looking to get a rat as a pet here is a helpful tip (from someone who owns multiple rats themselves) when you are looking to buy a new fuzzy friend make sure you buy two or more as rats are pack animals and can get depressed when by themselves. You can tell when your fuzzy friend is loney when they stop eating or drinking. Its a very sad fact but it happened to my friend after one of her rats passed before the other had. I'll let you know though that rats are very clingy, love attention, and live to cuddle with one another! But make sure you do the propper research before purchasing one as it may take you by surprise when half of your closet gets eaten by your new friend...... Its okay though I still love him! (Sometimes) hope this helps!!! (Also I don't think you guys care but my rats names are Remy, and Dedenne (yes after the Pokemon and the movie rat) and the newest one is goop)

seeing a energetic person like ben cry is heartbreaking very sorry for remy

It’s the🗣️OMG BENJAMIN! For me😂😂😂

Ben you are usually in a goofy happy mood when we see you and to see you cry breaks my heart knowing that Remy was apart of your soul.. hey you could always try again!

finally somebody who doesn’t hate them with a burning passion ❤️❤️❤️❤️

5:55 Ben looks disgusted, hurt, betrayed, went through 5 stages of grief, the whole package

“I know it’s just a rat” I giggled he sniffled I cried 😢

No, feel bad for you because you had to put back your rat

I can imagine how hard it is giving up on a pet that you love and always wanted Edit: thx for 500 likes i did not except to have that many likes

Many people have mentioned rats needing other rats to bond with, so I'll throw in another small but very useful tip for rat care... hide aways! Rats love hiding places. You should put lots of places for rats to hide in their enclosure, it makes them feel safe and it stimulates their instincts in a fun way going from one hiding spot to another. It's very easy to get creative with them, too! There are specific ones like sputniks(a plastic toy that can stand on the cage floor or hang from bars), hammocks, plastic igloos, ferret tubes, etc.. If you can't access these for whatever reason, that's fine! Your average dollarstore will have lots of things like tiny plastic buckets and such. You can also use small cardboard boxes... if you have a confident rat, you will often see them roaming, but when they wanna nap nothing is cuter than walking by the cage and seeing a couple tails hanging out of a hammock from a rat slumber party.

We all feel bad and started to cry as well when we see Ben cry like 10:11 like we know it’s a rat and most people think that rats are disgusting but really they arnt they should be treated like all of the other animals☹️

"RATA MOSCATA" IS SO FUNNY FOR NO REASON.

do you know whats the most sad thing in life to experience? watching benjamin cry. lietrally breaks my heart since i see him all the time happy and funny

NOOO REMYYY!!!💔 Ben, it’s completely not you’re fault DONT be upset! You did amazing. It’s a first time for everything! I’m sure you’ll be able to take care of something as your own someday,❤️.

Ben you did so good at taking care of Remy we all make mistakes but the fact you cared that much to wait a whole hour for Remy really says something about how you did taking care of him!

seeing him cry is so sad bc he's already a lil messed up like that and plus i love him sm so im cryin too :C

The decision you made was such a mature decision. You didn't feel as if you could provide Remy a proper home, so you brought him back to the person you got him from, knowing that they could probably provide a better environment. My sister just got rats maybe less than a year ago, and they are a huge responsibly. Thank you for making the best decision for you and the rat

I have 7 female rats so I’m glad you decided that you were not ready to take care of one. It’s a LOT of hard work and they are super intelligent and amazing pets!

When he started crying I did too. I can’t stand seeing people that are mostly all fun and full of joy cry, I simply cant take it bro🙁

2:55 I have this exact chew toy for my hamster! Sad thing is, he died just last weekend :(

From a former rat owner: Rats need friends, getting 2 makes them much happier! Rats are also very clean, cleaner than dogs :)

Ben’s chaotic energy is literally introverts when they are alone EDIT: 200 likes in 10 minutes- MOM I AM ALREADY FAMOUS✨

I’m so sorry that you lost remy, you were a good owner and done better than I ever could. I’ve been watching you since 2020 and have laughed at every video you made, RIP remy or wherever you are❤

10:14 i cried watching videos of cute rats the tears these rats cause lmao

Seeing Ben cry is actually so sad , you were a great owner Ben and that rat will forever remember you and you’ll always remember him

As a person with rats. it makes me happy that you did a mature thing and took remy back, hopefully one day you could get pet rats !! You did a great job taking care of him

I’m so sorry that u had to give him back. Hope ur okay and i would recommend (if you do decide to get another rat or a gerbil) letting it run around your room with the door closed. Also if you just got another rat to be his like little buddy you wouldn’t have to give him as much attention and watch his every move because he would have a freind to play with, the cage was probably big enough for quite a few more really. I’d also recommend getting a little bowl or something to fill with dust bath (idk what it’s called ) that you can get at almost any pet shop.

2:14 smooth slap

every day I'm more and more worried about Ben's mental health

Poor Ben he looks so sad and hurt, he deserves better....Remy will always remember you.. Edit: Thx for 140 likes

I hope Remy is enjoying his freedom and one day makes his way back to a wonderful owner like yourself that loves him.

This shows that pets are a commitment. ALWAYS do your fair share of research before buying any animal.

10:25 is honestly the saddest part

Seeing someone as funny,happy, and energetic most of the time like ben cry makes me want to cry aswell

The ending, your little speech had me crying

REMY'S SO CUTE I LOVE HIM

He isn’t just a rat, we will always remember him❤❤❤❤🐀🐀🐀🐀

Honestly I have never seen Ben this sad we hope you feel better Ben ❤

Warning ⚠️ big idea : the closest thing to a rat that ur roommate is going to agree with is a pet hamster and it is more easier to buy like for example I have a hamster called Lola and the best thing bout her is she… ummm… she can crawl around and poop everywhere…. And …. She can be allowed to walk out more and top tip if getting a hamster DON’T TAKE UR EYES OF OF THEM OR ELSE UR GOING TO BE LIKE ME FOR EXAMPLE I WAS HOLDING MY HAMSTER OF MY BED AND I DROPPED HER AND IT LANDED IN A BAG AND SHE NEARLY DIED ⚠️⚠️. 🫲😖🫱😭

Im a first time rat owner, and dude i did NOT expect it to be more than what it is. Its more work than you think. But theyre do precious. He should get some more after reading up on it

9:02 IM CRYINGG😭😭😭😭

I feel so bad for Ben he was so happy at the beginning when he got him. Even tho it was just a rat Ben actually felt a concert between then and it's pretty obvious that he liked the rat And it was really difficult for him to let him go. I really hope you are doing okay Ben

I feel so bad. Ben deserves the whole world. Seeing him made me feel like I was gonna die inside.

Seeing him cry is heartbreaking.

Ben you have never been this emotional before ur so funny and energetic all the time so if ur not feeling good it’s ok to express yourself to others and i hope Remy has a great life ❤

I actually feel bad for Ben, the pain in his voice at the end though.

Omg no seeing Ben cry just makes me cry too. He deserves everything that he desires❤

Those are his balls. All rodent males have huge balls, usually as big as their heads. I had a pet rat named Blondie, she was as smart as any dog, loved us all. They are one of the few rodents who have attachments to their human, love to be tickled, even come when you call them. But their pee smells horrible, their bedding etc is the most important thing to them. Feathering their nest and finding stuff (like clothes) to break down into fluff to pad their nest is important to them. The 'rats nest' so to speak, what they truly love. Mine would watch the curtains blow near her cage, she would constantly try to grab it. She had a 3 story pen, which was on its own shelf. Once she got use to us, I left the top of cage open and she would climb up and out and sit at the end of that shelf to watch her "Fam." One time she slipped and fell off and I didn't know it, she saw me and climbed on my shoeless foot to see "Ma" me... I didn't know it was her, and flew her in the air. She forgave me. She did get those curtains one time, and was heading to her nest with them in her mouth. I said "Drop it!" And she did! They eat anything, will even eat wet or dry cat food, but not good to give them meat. Makes them stink more. Seeds, all sorts of foods they will grab from your hand. They are truly remarkable, smart, will love you till the day they die. Which unfortunately is only 3 or so years. Blondie lived 4 years, they get tumors all the time which have to be removed by understanding Vet. The last huge one was a mess, and she had to be put to sleep because of it. Otherwise, she was truly a beautiful souled 'dog rat' and a learning experience. "Rumors of a maligned creature are not true. They have a beautiful soul, and will love you till the day they die."

He made the right choice, it’s hard a lot of the time and I’m so selfish I’d never let him go, you did what’s best for remy and that’s more than some of us can image, I can’t describe how much I love that you did what you thought was right even if it meant you’d be sad ❤

i started sobbing in the end this man was mature enough to do the right thing but seeing him so upset made me feel bad for him :( i love ben sm and im glad he did the right thing

Ben its okay to make mistakes! When i first became a hamster owner i made tons of mistakes like introducing her to my dig but those are things that happen! It was your first time taking care of something and you cant just be great at it instantly, you have to do research and learn simultaneously.

“i just wanted something to take care of” absolutely fucking BROKE my heart

dude I don't know whether to feel horrible for you or laugh hysterically 😭💀

I get that feeling dude. You will be okay and I’m sure your a responsible guy. If you want another pet just prepare a whole lot with a lot of research. Animals can be great additions to your life

Even though this was a while ago you should still be told this. As a rat owner myself, you did a really good job. Even though you had a scary moment you still stayed there and protected Remy when you only wanted him to see cool stuff. You are a good rat dude or rat dad or whatever you wanna be. 🐀

I know it’s sad, but sometimes it’s for the best. Personally, I would get something like a guinea pig because they are easier to handle and spot. Rats, or any kind of small animal in that matter, can be hard to take care of.