I bought my own ring, financed our wedding and the marriage is over after 120 days | Lynn Ngugi Show 

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🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Story of my life. These are lessons we cnt learn any other way. Greatful for my past experiences that trained my muscles and taught me to love and be loved better.

This is why Benjamin Zulu is advocating for young ladies to know themselves before marriage 👋👋👋👋👋

Am a father and am teaching my daughter to know that marriage as defined by society is not the sole definition of a woman. You dont have to be married to be complete and this goes to boychild too.

I kept resonating with every bit of June's story, she's so brave and strong. To all ladies, please find a man who is ready to be a leader of his household.

I remember few years ago Solomon's son asking me "babe utanisaidia kukulipia dowry " i laughed so hard and i immediately knew we were heading no where

I love people who own up their mistakes. This lady is a real gem

MARRY YOUR CALIBER........By this I mean, marry someone who is exposed like you in terms of work, emotions and everything in life aspects........and never ignore Red Flags

Marriage doesn't complete a person, you must be completed before marriage. Never force yourself on anyone. Love comes naturally....

I was married for one year but I don't even remember a single day of happiness. I tried so hard to make it work until I couldn't pretend anymore. Things are hard

A wedding is not a solution to the challenges you face in your relationships! These and many more lessons from this episode. I hope to not only hear but practically live the many lessons shared here! Thankyou Ladies💯❤️

All I see is two intelligent women, giving lessons on how to better themselves and our generation of women 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️ love this !!! ❤️❤️

Women of nowadays, pretends to be Bob the Builder, keep on building men instead of your life.

Its Lynn's legs for me..❤❤

When I broke up with the father of my 2 kids, I ran to God/church. I thank God for allowing me into His Kingdom. I had my own plans and desires, But the Lord wanted me to serve Him. I am now happily married, to a God fearing man, and our marriage is meant to glorify and serve our Creator. It is way more than just loving , cuddling and having great time together, although we do have some fun, but God first. Im 34 years old and would advise my younger brothers and sisters to seek God first before they commit to a marriage or anything else in life. Matthew 6:33.

The fact the she's sharing her story,its evidently that's she's at peace and she's begun healing...Am proud of you

This is what I wanted to hear today I walked out of my toxic relationship 3 days ago thanks so much June and lynn

Lynn's hairstyle today Is dope😍.I love it

When she said God was speaking and she wasn't listening. That has resonated so well with me. In every situation in life we have to listen to God first.

I separated last year after 26 yrs. The last 6 yrs was a mess. I'm now free and happy. This thing of endurance is terrible. I'm on the path to divorce now, I filed it. Also did divorce classes. I'm completely healed and free and happy.

The old fashioned ways are best. He is single, asks for permission from her father or male protector to date her, has a proper job and pays for everything. She is chaperoned and doesn’t have sex with him and behaves as a lady should. This all means he is husband material and she is protected if it doesn’t work out. Love from Australia 🇦🇺

Lynn Ngugi, this is the only channel I have ever subscribed to fully... Kindly bring Benjamin Zulu to drill some sense to our generation aki...Pole to the guest

Likes for Lynn's new hair..its superb😍

This interview made me rethink about my life! Every young woman should watch this!!! Marrying wrong and having a child can keep you in poverty! It will cost you your sanity! Utakimbia nje usiku bila nguo ukiokota makaratasi hautaamini babygirl!! It can kill you! Yes it's always about financial security!Marry a man who is as ambitious as you are...One who is willing to sacrifice as much as you do! Love is a very small factor in making that decision. WHO YOU MARRY AND WHO YOU HAVE CHILDREN WITH IS THE MOST IMPORTANT DECISION A WOMAN WILL EVER MAKE IN LIFE!! Don't make that mistake Sis! Thank you Lynn Ngugi for this platform and for the beautiful guest June for sharing her story with us!!

Lynn Ngugi. I'm a Zambian woman. So impressed and slightly obsessed with you and Kenya. ( I've been to Kenya..Love it and the people) Much love. You have more than encouraged me babes

This girl is so honest! May she find all the happiness!

✍Don't get married early ✍Know myself ✍God loves me ✍Be an intentional parent

Almost my story from a single mom to early pregnancy to a miserable marriage . Wedding can't solve problems in relationship. Love from uganda 🇺🇬

Ladies in the house never forces your self in a man

June is so authentic and accountable for her actions. Thank you for being vulnerable in this story. I wish you well!

I thought I was the only one! Only difference is I didn't go ahead with the wedding. A last minute clarity of mind saved me from a disastrous life. I bought my own ring, he almost made me pay for his ring and I was to fully finance the wedding despite him having worked way longer than I had. He said he had no money and yet insisted on inviting many people to the wedding. The guest list was 80% his friends and family and he kept adding more and more names. Bullet dodged.

Ladies marry someone who will help you to achieve your goals ..but not one who will pull your dreams down

Never give excuses for a man who does not step up to their responsibilities. It's only gonna get worse!!!!

Eti "we are not judging "😅 Sometimes being naive leads many people to so much regrets in life.... We learn through our own mistakes....salute to her for her boldness 👌

Her childhood traumas was pushing her to seek love in that rship. So she was really not to blame. Girl you are 💪

I love Kenyan women, I my next life I wanna be born in Kenya. I wish one day I can set my foot in Kenyan land in this life. 🇿🇦 🇨🇦

God hates divorce yes but he doesn't hate the divorcée ☺️☺️

Ladles see when you are empowered you can never settle for less ...you will differentiate being loved and being taken for granted

I ran away from this shit the moment I realized this man was ok taking money from me 🌝

As a man, it hurts when such good women get to fall in love with the bad guys!😑😔

Don't be desperate for marriage it's not an achievement

Married for 4 months only and divorced? And I'm here ashamed of telling people my 3 years marriage has end 😅🙆‍♀️ Tuachane na watoto ya watu tutafute pesa pole sis

She is completely healed, that's why she can speak up purely no emotions❣️

How come Lynn dsn't have 1M followers? This show is just the best

I love the fact that people can share their pain and experiences.. Absolutely amazing

Wonderful conversations! Thank you for sharing June! Lynn thanks for this platform! Wueh! This is the situation with many ladies unfortunately!

"I had given my life to Christ"! This is the best statement ever!

It's her confidence for me.. ladies let's normalize dating people with the same IQ levels..

Unfortunately I got my story here😭😭and that’s why am in Saudi Arabia trying to forget everything,, I wish to tell my story one day waaah!

I enjoyed watching this topic. I’m Nigerian and wish I understood everything spoken as the video was bilingual; however the message was not lost. June, you are always a winner and your outspoken strength will bring realization to many confused women who think that their identity is lost outside of a marriage even though it’s a marriage that depletes their human potentials. I’ve been told I’m strong because I took a similar stance as you 11 years ago. I’ve singly mothered my kids in all this time and for me too, many blessings came flooding in. I single-handedly relocated myself and my kids to Canada where I knew no one at all. I get told I’m strong but life has thought me that we all have innate strength; otherwise, I would have underestimated myself. Thanks for being vulnerable and sacrificial enough to share your story.

Unfortunately, I know EXACTLY what she experienced....because the same thing happened to me. Except it happened in the US with an African American man and it only lasted 1 yr!

My heart goes out to every broke dude trying to love a woman. May all your broken wounds be healed and you spring up to be a complete man. God loves you bro

An Abuse that is always not seen as abuse is emotional abuse!! Sometimes it's the worst🙌

This reminds me of someone I know! Women do strange things in search of love and acceptance. At the time of doing it it seems normal, but looking back you wonder what you were thinking. Thanks for sharing your story.

I’m getting into marriage with an extra piece of wisdom,thank you June and Lynn

you know your are healed when you can laugh openly at your mistakes......i love this lady....

When something or someone is not right for you. God will make that person hurt you so hard, that the only option you have is letting go. Men and women don't ignore the signs.

God kama hajasema ..ata ufanye nini it wont work...sorry mamaa..u such acool lady...

If a lady has to do all that, then it's not a relationship. It's a parasite-host situation. Ladies, let's save our coins, enjoy ourselves, and continue waiting on Jesus Christ. God bless.

I love this woman’s TRANSPARENCY and SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY especially her mode of COMMUNICATION without CONDEMNATION of her ex or painting him totally evil. God bless and strengthen you Sis

That was too desperate. When you value yourself based on getting married by any means necessary, it makes you an easy target. Be loving and supportive but do not give too much expecting to keep a man. Most often, they are not even worth the sacrifice.

God hates divorce. The foundation also matters. Many times we bring God in our own messes while we didn’t seek His will when started something

This video is so timely. Kiherehere nimeacha😂😂😂

Who is following the cycle and patterns repeating themselves in this story?

Write a book, do a book tour and be a counselor. You have lived it all. Great story for a lesson.

We are only as sick as our secrets, well done for sharing. Looking for love in all the wrong places, let us develop self love in all Africans.

June, You are a beautiful, hardworking and independent woman. I like how you became honest to yourself. A woman who wants nothing deserves the whole world. May love locate you in abundance.

The reasons I find myself hard to sponsor a man maybe kubuy food I can ie if am capable the rest afanye akishindwa atembeze kiatu

Many people are suffering, they are reaping the fruits planted by their ancestors. Nothing is new under the ☀️. God says we His children are perishing for lack of knowledge.

Thank you for being able to share so openly that on its own is therapeutic. Ladies, some of these things happen because we don't love and appreciate ourselves enough first. Then that causes desperation. You don't need a man to validate you. You don't need a man to make you complete. If you already feel incomplete, you're going into marriage with all those inferiority vibes. Which means, that as it is, you're already carrying baggage with you into a new marriage. Remember, Christian or no Christian, the laws of life will handle you because they are universal. A desperate and insecure person also attracts the same type of partner. Believe in yourself,and believe that you deserve the best. A person who loves and respects herself will also attract a similar partner. Desperation breeds contempt which leads to death. Wearing a ring means totally nothing if there's no love in the marriage. God is God of a second chance, so we also learn to forgive ourselves when we make mistakes and let go of the past so that we're able to move on without 'extra baggage'

When a man loves you ,you will never have to question whether he does or not..

Mi Ile character development nimepata acha tu ninyamaze

Thank you so much Lynn for bringing June on🙏🏾❤️🤩 Please may I “borrow” her off of ya show! I need her to share her story and wisdom and deliver some singles on my series: The Joys & Woes of Singlehood 🔥🔥🔥

The fact that she owns up is my take home .No blame games

Her story really resonates so much with my life.and because of that,I now know what to do in terms of healing.thanks June for sharing.

This lady was very right. The guy will come to regret one fine day. He could have dropped his ego, pride and pick up pieces and make his marriage work. This lady is a true wife material. And if she get a right man, they will go far. @Lyn, a woman can support a man for a period of time, when he needs to get up. Thanks June and Lyn.

Benjamin Zulu always say pre25 relationship/marriage is a no go zone for you.

June has a ministry of restoration of the broken hearted people. Blessings ❤️❤️

When I listen to this stories najiambia tano tena kwa singleness

Wow! What a story. Thank you Lord that even when we make mistakes out of our shortsightedness, YOU STILL LOVE US!

This is soo touching and helpful to me as a man who is divorced. This is so informative. Glad i stumbled into this story/testimony.

Character development tuko wengi

This lady has my life in the whole story I thank God I discovered myself before it's was too late...ii social media should be paid for we still learning 🙏🙌

June, the fact that you own up to your mistakes and say sorry when you are about to say something private about someone says a lot about you. You are a agood woman. God bless you and baby

mnafanya niogope nyinyi . this what you people go through waaa , me am talkative i let it go.

Ladies, and mostly those who call themselves independant women, as I used to call myself. Paying for your ring and paying for your wedding is an indicator of your man character. So let him pay for it!!

Things we do for love,b4 we get character developed...amazing story🙌🥳

Lyne kindly maintain the likes of the hair style you have today its so lovely and make you look pretty and younger sweetheart please on a lighter note though. You always look smart

Am loving her English 😘

There is life after divorce ! A very inspiring story like Sarah Jakes Roberts!

Wow. It's so very important for our children to see us in healthy relationships so that they know what real love looks like. And you can only know how to love someone else after you learn how to properly respect and love yourself first.

Her step dad was a Liberian.....wonderful! I'm a Liberian too.

So sorry June for all you've gone through. I feel you so much, a man who only takes and takes without giving is a pain in the wrong place. I thank God for giving you the courage to move out. He would have wasted you mercilessly. You are young, God will will bring you the right person. Keep strong!

A divorce is better than death, I don't support divorce but ikikataa better to separate and pray God to forgive you and move on

I love how she acknowledges her mistakes. That is very bold. So many lessons to learn from this. Thank you.

Dear, you’re a veteran compared to me! Mine lasted 87 days! 7 yrs later, I am still paying the price for marrying a man from hell!!

We learn from our mistakes. Proud of you June

In a marriage if the man has not burdened himself in doing what it means until the two are in marriage ,he will never feel that pain of loosing the wife and so ladies if a man loves you and wants you in marriage let him burden himself and account that cost .

I love how she isn't playing victim, so sweet

Even though I only understood the english parts I appreciate this story and I love the depth and reflection it has brought.