Two years ago I was here listening to this because I've fallen for someone who doesn't love me back. And now I'm here because of the same reason. What a life
Don’t give up brother- love is something you will find. Keep your head up and your eyes higher. in the end, the best relationship you have starts with you. I know it sounds cliche af, but I think Ull find it to be true one day
Damn, I totally understand why you call it a "living coma" when I was stuck living in my coma it felt like I had become a shell of my former self I became apathetic, irritated and snapped at anyone. Everyday getting out of bed in the morning it took me ever fiber in my mind & body to get up and just live life. I personally lived in a "living coma" for a whole four months because I was so in love with one of close friends when they were in a serious relationship and I knew I couldn't say anything cause that would be so fucking selfish, it basically tore me apart in the inside for months cause I couldn't tell anyone. Then I had a sudden epiphany, he had Never Ever thought of me in any shape or form the way I did. So I told myself I wasn't going to be a mopey sad shit about something that never even happened and got over it during the last couple month of school and I haven't even thought of him that way since the day I threw away my mediocre "feelings". And I am so glad I did because it helped me grow and become a more emotionally strong person, The end. :,)
N it’s absolutely destroys you when you feel like the memories are fading away. I don’t wanna forget I wanna experience them again. I feel like I won’t make it
*why does everytime, we have to fall inlove with someone who doesn’t even notice our presence? but when someone loves us, we reject them for this one person.*
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It's actually like a cycle.You love someone else but that person isn't returning the feelings.Just like what you do to the person who likes you.so you're sort of also act like your crush.
I met this one girl in a game once, she has the most beautiful voice i've ever heard, the most beautiful art style i've ever seen, and the most beautiful girl ever. Before i met her she was hanging around with my friends and when i built up the courage to talk to her, my entire world lit up when she said hi back, it felt absolutely great. At that time i lost someone very close to me and i was losing all purpose in life. I didn't do anything but stay in my room for the whole day, just staring at the ceiling. But her talking to me, her saying goodmornings and goodnights, her starting a conversation with me without me starting it first, her talking to me personally about my problems... it was the greatest feeling i've had in so long. I cleaned up my room, started taking showers daily, brushing my teeth, working out, motivated to get through the day, i talk to and about her all day long and fixing my life pretty much. But despite all that, this dark void that i once was in came back to suck me in, and it did. I was back to where i was, it made me feel bad that i might be taking her from my friend, my friends aren't talking to me much, and i lost all contact with my best friend due to other problems that i can't help him with. One night, i was ready to do it, to take my life. I was saying my goodbyes through voice messages, to my friends, to my family, and to her. I was about to finish saying my goodbyes to her, and surprisingly, she messaged me, asking if i was awake that night. It gave me a huge reality check, like hitting the chorus of a beautiful song, all of my problems just suddenly disappeared. She got me through that night. The next day we hanged around, singed a few songs and was playing some games, we talked about things and she told me that she and my friend aren't talking to each other. I'm gonna sound bad but it felt great because i can be a comforting friend to her now, and my friend won't get in the way of us talking. But it made me feel even worse to think about that. I don't deserve her, she's too good for me, we have a lot in common but i'm certain that she was interested in someone else, so i invited my friend to join the game which he did, and i left them alone. The next few weeks, she wasn't talking to me much, not saying goodmornings and goodbyes and wasn't interested in starting a conversation. I always saw her in the group chat talking to my friend or in a vc, i try my best not to join and just leave them alone but i couldn't help it. I couldn't say a thing because my friend kept talking before i could, like he was doing it on purpose so i couldn't talk to her. I couldn't say anything, but it was great hearing her laugh again, even if it wasn't from me that made her laugh. I don't have anything i can give her besides a heart willing to sacrifice itself for her, but i'm certain that's not enough. Yes, i was sad that she's not interested in me anymore, and my friend is starting to dislike me because i was too clingy to her, but despite all that, i'm just glad that she's happy, she's happy where she is with him, and they both already know that they like each other, and i'm very happy for them, i couldn't do as much as he did anyway. Just like the song, i can't make her love me. If you're still reading this far, i'll tell you about my experiences at the present time if it helps, because right now, i'm not with the person i want to be with, but i'm still here being happy. This happiness i have came with a price, everything that i went through is all to build up who i am now, just make the most of where you are now instead of where you'd rather be. You don't like your room? Clean it, make the most out of it and you'll see how great it can be. You will learn how to pick yourself up after falling, but you can kickstart this new life by cleaning your room. I'm gonna sound like an old person talking to kids about depression not knowing shit about it, but the best advice i can give is just be as positive as can be, you'll never know how great you are if you just keep being silent and by yourself all the time. Depression, it sucks but don't let it grow on you, grow on it. Anxiety, a little more understandable, but just be yourself, i know that's what a lot of people say, even to me, i've tried my best trying to be normal and fit in that i don't even know who "myself" truly is. Just keeping a positive vibe is enough to give everyone a positive vibe, like her, she kept being positive despite what she's going through and i will repay that positivity by being positive myself and spreading out my experience just for people to know that no matter how low you can be, you can still be happy. You will find this happiness someday, i know you will, just take your time and it will eventually arrive. Just remember, you are someone's reason to smile :>
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We have the same story. I was also depressed but this sweet girl in my class saved me. She would talk with me for hours, i would try to make her laugh, whenever our eyes met she would wink at me and this made me fall in love with her. But nowadays she is literally ignoring me and i really don't know why she is doing that. She always talks with my best friend and I have a feeling she likes him. But I guess this is life
I'm so fucking disappointed in myself for letting myself fall in love with someone who didn't feel a connection towards me and now here I am crying. I've always seen love as a monster waiting to just back-stab me.
Love is Beauty worth holding and letting go because as you let go, it travels on where it is needed. A place you can't imagine because it's dark but when Love reaches this place it lights a latern for someone who is holding onto to dear Life itself 💖🙏Then...it was all worth it because someone recieved what you had to let go👍🙏❤️
Maybe you just gotta be lil practical and be conscious of whome you let your heart to aftreall it's a one special special place to let someone fit in just don't let just anyone who can't see the real light in it ruin it's light
Sigh*** I’m just gonna sit in the corner of the room and stare to that man. To that man I can’t tell anyone that I want him,I can’t tell everybody because my bestfriend likes her too. Damn. Martyr exists guysss
why not go for it? If that’s what you truly want. I have and yea it’s been a struggle and it is right now but if it’s meant to be it will be and i think it’s meant to be and so does she it’s weird how things work out in life. Make your priorities your Top goal and work to those goals you will be surprised by what you can achieve.
@@hazimrahim2188 I'm sorry, I know there's nothing I can do to change that. But for the record, I love you, random person on the internet that I have never met. You matter and I know that you have done bad things but people will look past that, just like I have done. For me, try not to hate yourself because if you do, that would make me sad and I really hope you don't want me to be sad. Like I said before, I love you. Never forget that
You ever looked at someone and think “it’s gonna hurts when you leave” ? Edit: 15:51 Tuesday 15 June 2021, over one year later: I’m over him. I’m totally over him and I don’t love him anymore. I’m so glad the universe got me moving on, because I’m so much happier now than ever. I love myself and I see the world as the most beautiful thing that can ever exist. I love flowers, animals, colors. Trust me, it gets better. If he/she doesn’t love you, let them go. Because you can’t make someone love you if they don’t
Breakup + rejection hurts like hell.. i can tell u from my own experience being dumped by someone u love even begged for their forgiveness yet rejected by them again and now they just see u as a devalued person, want to talk to them but your courage is now gone long ago
Facts my man straight up there’s this chick I’ve been trying at for years stopped texting her because she blocked me back in highschool but tried again went well then she stopped texting back while she dated some toxic guy and I’m here trying to give her the world and I don’t get anything back
That’s so true. I’m thinking about my mom. I’m also thinking about my husband. I know he loves me but our culture is so different and sometimes I feel so alone. I have myself and my son and Allah. I guess I should be content
I'm literally sitting here crying over someone who I've hardly talked to. Im so fucking lonely I get attached to the smallest amount of attention but once it stops I die a little inside.
Keep trying don’t give up you’ll find the right one that you just connect with. But you will have to fail a lot and get hurt but you will get through it if you don’t quit.
Oh my god. Same. In the beginning I was alright, but I fell deeper and deeper into attachment. Now that I don't feel it being reciprocated, I feel so abandoned. Like maybe it's just me and I got too attached again to a person who doesn't need me in tbe first place. But then again, maybe it's also him really not wanting me anymore.. and here i am, fading away.
Thanks for being so open minded. Thanks for sharing your feelings. I just found out that it's important to know, why I fell in love (so often) with someone who isn't reachable. This insight can't heal your pain but maybe it can make you stronger in the future. Much love from Germany 💙
I appreciate every single comment under this song. This comment section has the group of few people who actually feels and are not scared to express. Good luck guys! May the things you are imagining happens in real. ♥️
Hope you doing good now and moved forward. I'm just in my process of getting over the memories of my best friend. I hurt her a lot and she forgave me too but there are past memories that still lingers around me and make me sad all the time.
It's called love. When you don't even care about your own feelings. What's important is that he's happy, even if that happiness means not being with you.
Projecting the love you want reciprocated onto an emotionally available person because fear of vulnerability or subconscious beliefs of low self worth tbh
because that’s how we, human beings, work. We tend to give too much, without realising that some people don’t give that much back. also maybe because we’re blind because of something. the person might blind us with doing so much, and then we give more and more and at the end, we sometimes realise it’s not even worth it. that’s just how it works.. sadly
@Emma Demeter i hope you're doing better now... it'll be hard but i hope you'll meet someone who wants you and doesnt see you as a second option. For the mean time, please give yourself the love you deserve 😊
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Something I learned through my few years of existence, is that that person you think will make you whole, weather it be a friend, Parent, or special other won’t fill that empty space in you. Believe it or not, it’s you. Only you can do a little better tomorrow. You got this champ. You mean more to someone than you’ll ever know.
The comment section is a magical place to be You can tell stories that you can't tell personally You can say you miss someone without being judge You can get advice from those people who are in the same situation as you
Reading the comments make me feel like i want to talk personally with all of you :( we all suffered from one sided love and it hurts so bad i know you know it too .
Never lose hope! I use to listen to this song almost 3 years ago. Little did I know that he had a crush on me too. We have now been together for 2 years! I had a crush on him for 4 years before ever getting the chance to make a move. You never know they might like you back.😊
Im here because I want to cry out loud. Thank you kath for giving us peace. I know how hard this for you but you deserve to love yourself because you don’t deserve the way he treated you off cam and behind your back.
To the person who read this : You are beautiful You are amazing You deserve everything you have You deserve love I know it's hard sometimes, but things would be dull if it was easy to have it I know it's hard sometimes, but you have to keep fighting, to keep getting up every single time And do you know why ? Because one day, you will have it too. The true love. The one which makes you happier day by day The one which makes you feel so sad and angry sometimes The one which makes you feel the luckiest person on Earth The one which makes you feel so alive The one which you want it to never stop I promise you. Life can be rude sometimes, but it's just to make you love and enjoy even more every single happy moment. I know that now you feel hurt, sad, empty or even depressed. But you know what ? Time is your best enemy but also your best friend. I told you, you are amazing, and you deserve it. All you have to do is to remember it every time life is rude with you. And also remember this text when you will find the one with who you'll be for life, because you will find this person. It's a promise. ❤ (Sorry if my english is not perfect, I'm French :) )
Your words are totally true, thank you. You make me cry of happy for first time in months. Thank you so much :) And i'm sorry for my English too, I'm Mexican 😅
@@crunchy_juulpod257some persons don't mean to stay with us for long time 😭 m also going through this hard phase of my life ... Need a person who really understands me what m i feeling now ... would u be my friend please ??
It’s sad when you know there’s no universe in which you can be with them….and that they could never attempt to have the same feelings you have for them.
it truly sucks when ur with someone for almost a year and you fall so in love with them and they walk away like it was so easy and they pretend like breaking up was best for you when in reality it was what they probably wanted all along
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And yet we still miss the mark when it comes to humanity. We don't think of someone different, but rather what we are willing to do for others. Goodwill to all humans, may we find our peace and purpose! Let's take fantasy and become a reality! We are a capable species!
Can i give u advice my beautiful potato?? I think that maybe you should just stop thinking about that person and focus on something else, I know it's hard but it's worth to try it, missing someone can cuz numb in the heart ily
I feel that. I'm going through that right now. But hey all we can do is stay strong and keep our heads up and think in the end was it worth it. We also have each other
I'm in this situation in two weeks and counting already. I gave all the support, understanding, patience he wants but he still ended our relationship. We're in the same circle of friends and I feel that they have more care in my ex. No one asks me if I'm okay sincerely. There is one of our friend that already setting him up to other girls. I feel betrayed. I can't open up to my family because I don't want to add another stress to them. I just don't know what to do. He's my pillar of strength but he left me hanging.
Prencess Gallivo What might help, find happiness within yourself, if you base happiness on yourself you won’t have the loss of someone who creates your happiness. To truly be happy, is to be happy with yourself ❤️it can be a rough journey, but that’s what makes it so rewarding
@@agneurbontaityte9229 yea ur right, it hurt me pretty badly, but once i got over it it woke me up, but now i almost had another chance and i screwed it up again, just risk it if u think its worth it
@@dovahking6514 that person rejekted you, and you still trying to be with him? I know its hard to let go, but if that person doesnt love you, than you cant make him fall in love with you, you cant give orders to somones heart just like you cant change the world
I liked this boy for 4 years (my entire high school experience) he was a random guy to a classmate. I developed the biggest crush on him, but I always ignored it because we never talked. He saw me as the quiet, lonely, nice guy that sat in the back when I saw him as the most beautiful and nice guy ever. In my senior year, I decided to let my feelings consume me and try to make him notice me to see if he liked me back. A friend asked him what he thought of me. He said that I wasn’t his type. That hurt like hell. Four words destroyed the end of my school year. I fell into a big depression. I lost my appetite, wasn’t enjoying the things I loved, listened to the same 3 sad songs, and even considered harming myself, and I imagined how would the people close to me react when I left. I did all that to myself when he was out there living his life not knowing what I was going through. Later, I found out that he had a girlfriend all this time. That broke my heart even more. Scenarios I imagined and countless dreams I had of him every day meant nothing. My subconscious was happy and I was alone. I finally graduated and I won the battle against depression. Forgetting about him was the best option. Even though I loved him for four years. I still dream of him once in a while. It makes me remember the time I let myself fall in love with someone who just said one word to me. I don’t know if he one day finds and reads this. If it happens, It feels good to let it out. We shared the same name, but not the same feelings. He should know by that detail.
for everyone that doesn’t have the someone to love them back, i love you edit: you’ll get through this, keep going, i’m thinking about every single one of you 🖤
Lol, i drove across the country for one person only to have her not give me the time of day after we had been best friends for 6 years and a little more for a while. The country was Canada
Cyrus Sehgal it’s okay, i wasn’t expecting too much, she’s going away to the UK for school for a year this Fall, but i never expected her to 180 on me without a warning or any consideration for me because i thought she genuinely cared about me, but all you can do is keep chuggin through life
Never give your all to anyone but yourself. The right person wouldn't ask for you to give anything but a shard of your heart, and your loyalty. Our hearts have enough love for everyone, and if you give it all to one, you have nothing for anyone else.
-close lights -look out the window -breath the fresh air -look at the moon -volume up -listen clear -close eyes -imagine the memories -tears rolling across my face -foolishly smiling -fall a sleep -dream about it -woke up -still night -feel the rain drops -smell the soil wet Edit:thx for the likes and hope you feel better sooner or later 😘❤️ Edit:it’s DEC 5 2020 and I hope you are doing great and just remember you’re worthy of love ❤️ dun let anyone put u down :) it’s been 1 year and here I am still sad about what happened but it’s gonna get better because I learned that being single means you get to focus on yourself and your goals 🥳 love yourself.... ALWAYS
Yes… He doesn’t call or text like he used to and I need to be the one who stands up and text him, I know we’re still young and that he still can’t get over her- but I do really really love him and I want to be with him and I’m being patient but he is way to busy to text me first It can pass weeks and I have to say something or I don’t exist for him anymore, looks like he have better people to spend his time with, it hurts that he just kinda ignores me.
This song hits different when you just want to be alone walking along the shoreline with square waves come crashing by plus a great view of full moon above
i’m not here because my hearts is broken for a guy who doesn’t like me back, i’m here because i’m all alone, i have no friends, no one i can talk with. And that makes me really sad. This is happening with me since last year, i don’t have any reason to keep here
It really hurts when you love someone and that person don’t feel the same towards you but we all got to deal with it and just move on at some point. Eventually we will find the right person for us
I’m so sick of that stupid ass thing that everyone says. “You’ll find the right person.” No, I won’t. Life isn’t a fairytale and not everyone finds love, it’s the truth. It just makes you feel worse that no one understands. Most people leave eventually, so why bother?
Hurts when you fall for someone who can never love you. I’ve accepted that we can’t be together, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt. Maybe I’ll find someone else one day but I don’t want too, I’m scared....
I really really tried to be better for him, but I think he wants the perfect. Talked to you yesterday and I can really feel that you don't want me, you want me to stay away, you ignored me, i'll give it to you. Those 5 years I spent, until now, waiting for you, I don't regret it but if you, wanting me to stay away, i'll do it. Just give me a little time, and I will give it all up. If you read this, I can't make you love me, so i'll give it all up.
Hey, I don't really know you but I wanted to tell you, you are not alone in this everything and everyone is part of us and our life but they are not us. I know any advice is not capable to heal anything. So I just want to say this time will pass away🥺
Maybe in another life when we will be born again I can meet you again In a different situation and we can be together happily. I promise u , i will find u again and again just not in this life. I luv u .
it hurts really bad. i miss everything we had and i want it all back. i miss your voice, your smile and your interest in me. i wish we could start over. i hate that you are from me thousands kilometres away. i freaking miss ya, so much.
You don‘t know but .. I love you. I always imagine us being together, that’s when I’m the happiest. We may never be a couple but as long as you’re happy, so am I.
@@ares972 yes you "exactaly" feel like that, happiness dependent on someone who's happy with his boyfriend/girlfriend or anyone, sounds really dumb, i mean you could just be happy about little things or love the things you have now, you lil frozen ungrateful chicken
So I lived in FL all my life and then suddenly moved to Massachusetts for three months then moved again to a small town In new Hampshire after that. So this past year I attended three different schools in one semester. People were not very expecting to the "Florida kid". I made close to zero friends in half a year with everyone being so rude and other people not wanting to be seen talking to me. This was also me coming from being one of the most popular people in Florida and not popular like it is in the movies where I walk down the hall with my squad but I had so many friends. Then by the time that summer rolls around I have 2 friends, Elise and Owen and we go to a summer camp. And I met this girl Lizzy she's so nice and so pretty, she doesn't care that I am not a usual face but is so nice and accepting of who I am. I started falling for here right away. At the end of camp I get her number and immediately text her. I realize that we have something in common that we can relate about I'm not going to say what it is but it really affected both of are lives. We talked for a while and then we went to the beach together and we had so much fun. We go to the beach multiple times and then she invites me to her house for dinner. And I think that I made it she texts me all the time starting conversations without me initiating them. And I'm so happy so I started writing a song for her and that's how I was planning on asking her out. But before I ask her out with this grand jester I ask her friend if she likes me and she says no. I was devastated i was so crushed. And then she stops talking to me how she used to I started every conversation and she was short with me every once in a while I would ask her how her day was then she randomly says that she has something to talk to me about and says to me that she doesn't like me and wants me to know that. And that she needs some space. I of course said as respectfully as possible that I will back off. I am now deviated being rejected twice the one person I thought I really connected with. Turns out it was just one sided. hopefully I will find love some day. Keep smiling my guys it hurts but one day we will find our forever partner. 🥲
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