I Catfished as a MAN On TINDER 

Omg I was the first like!

huh

Sorry I'm broke but I'm sure it's good👍

Thanks for the like your the first RU-vidr to like my comment you made me so happy thankyou 😄 And also do you like rugby

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I was thinking the same 😂

I was shouting "CHAD"! Lol.

Christopher

Sameeee

i was thinking the same thing lol

hi

Omg hiii!

Hi Ian!

wait why is eveybody acting like ur famous

@@annleigh_ Well he is that why lol

It's love you 3000 not 3333 🥲

I'm sorry but I'm old and don't understand what "the biggest mood" means. Would u be able to tell me please?

@@mrstupiduniverse731c It means I relate to something, basically. Kinda like "dude I felt that on another level"

@@mrstupiduniverse731c Ooooh man, I felt that, haha

@@wynnwilliams3701 oh cool, thank u for the explanation, i like to stay caught up on this stuff

That's funny, where I'm from (Greece) girls don't seem to care one bit in general. I'm a breath away from 6'3, good shape and my friend who is 5'5 has easily had twice the dates all the time we've known each other and it's a general thing here with all shorter guys. I visit the states often for work and my friends there mention that height is a major standard for women there. I see why it makes sense for women to prefer taller men of course but I didn't know in some countries it was that important for them. It's really interesting to me when taking into account where I grew up.

Whomsoever could salvage something, they did so. For most, it is another source of trauma.

You discovered your market. Congrats! @@constantinesoldatos

Seriously a big discrimination. He is getting rejected for his height, then what? Grow taller? So lucky he met you but there are still plenty more short guys struggling out there...

Stories like this kinda make me wish I was born a woman ngl. I’m 26 and have never had a relationship or even my first kiss. It really sucks. Kinda feel like if I were a woman I’d have a family by now

Dang just roasted the men 😂😂

Nah. That's accurate

@@josiemincey6106 kinda accurate... lol no hate tho

Yes she’s looking beautiful Christian rose

@@josiemincey6106 they ain't wrong tho

Good job

thx for making my day today :)

Kris u were an amazing man 😂💖 edit: KRIS LIKED MY COMMENT! 🤭🫠

I was feeling a bit down today but you made it better! Love you Kris!!💕

I'm a terrible person so it's fine 🙂 I'm terrible at life also I'm bad at speling 🙃 your funny though and so am I so I think we would be friends irl😅

haha fr

It’s because Hannah might be a catfish herself. Makes me wonder how high the share of catfish is on dating websites.

fr

It’s because kris didn’t take the lead and redirect the conversation. That lady wanted her to take control, not lift her up and just talk about her stuff. That would be “clingy” or “too simpy”. The chad would say “no stress about that, I’m so rich you’ll never have to work. Let’s go ride my bike, and you can wrap your arms around my hard abs as we fly along the freeway” 🤦‍♂️💀

@@It-b-Blairwtf are you talking about

im sure you look good to :)

Fr

He probably got ghosted because the girls felt he was out of their league. I’m currently leaving a guy on read who’s really hot because I’m too nervous to continue the conversation, and quite honestly, I’m not sure he’s real. I’m a bit sus that he’s a catfish profile like Louis or a bot. You’ve probably got a better chance being average looking. And your best chance is to be slightly above average. *ALSO, smile with your teeth on your profile pic. That makes you way more attractive for some reason. I’m not joking*

Not with that attitude, you don't! :)

Your names Carl all the the girls HAVE to fall for you 😂

I feel your pain bro.

Hi my name is Louis💅

I got a friend that made one cause she was just curious about what the app was all aboit. She didn't even use any pictures of her face. Used pictures of our town that she took and had a typical, zero thought put into, bio. She would swipe based on her own personal preferences, definitely NOT every person she saw. I watched as she got well over 20 "matches" every day. Almost every person she swiped on swiped back. And conversations could lead her to "whatever she wanted," as she said. a hook up, a date, or a friend. She never did any of it, ofc. Got another buddy that's rather good looking, has a decent bio and some good pictures of him, a group picture and some with his pets. He got like 15 in a month? And most of them were asking him for mass amounts of money for any type of in person interaction even just a simple date. 🙄 Crazy to watch. We were just all bored but it definitely caused us to form opinions on the matter haha

@@dlcdaniel6308 it crazy how that works and that’s also very funny. I’ve been on it just to see what it was all about. Put some effort in nice photos, good bio, and of course show my pride and joy, my puppy. I’ve gotten a handful of matches and a bunch of scammers/ people wanting money. At the end of the day it’s just for giggles but I have very little faith in online dating.

@@dlcdaniel6308 Same here, I am "decent" looking I'd say, I get like maybe 5-10 matches a month and it's either "Add my private snap!" or has "requirements" to go on dates, meanwhile a friend that is a girl has legitimately gotten about 400 matches in the last few weeks. It's quite frustrating for us guys lol

@@ryanfrisch6175 it can really be a downer for some guys out there. I know someone else that tried using it cause it's known as the "hook up" app around here and he'd just gotten out of a really long serious relationship and just wanted to hook up with someone. Poor guy was on that app for like 6 months nefore delting it and had the same happen to him that happened to kris every time. Just ghosted after a seemingly fine conversation, where both parties mentioned their intentions in the first few messages. So it's not like the guy was chatting for hours and hours just to pop the "yeah I just wanna f*ck" which would never work really anyway lol. Yet any of my gal friends over the last few years in can hop on tinder for an hour or so and have a hook up or date planned and out the door almost guaranteed every time. 🙃

@@ryanfrisch6175 I have no stories of my own experiences. I've been with my girl since before tinder and online dating apps were a huge thing. So I just know what I've seen and heard haha

To be fair, that's what girls expect the average guy to look like!

@@ulizez89 not me I expect them (if I liked men) to look about around 5 foot 4 ft brown shaggy hair and thats it now for girls my type is Red hair Freckles Blue eyes

@@ulizez89nah not all women I have pretty low standards lmao

@@ecat101 Bruhhhh. Dude what the heck. That's not true

i made ur likes to the bad numbers hahahaha

lmao now I feel bad for ghosting 😭😭

@@christinaescobar7255 its always better to just say youre no longer interested in talking! any decent guy will understand :) I dont have any dating or dating app experience but ive talked to a lot of people online (girls included, and anughty stuff included) and getting ghosted SUCKS. Every time someone has said theyre not interested in talking ive greatly appreciated it. I thank them for their time and wish them luck. then im on my way. being respectful is easy and its also easy to not ghost someone. a quick "sorry, I'm not interested in talking anymore" is plenty! some TERRRIBLE guys will not react well to that, but the majority arent like that. And do you *really* want to date someone who cant respect a boundary like that anyway?

@@pvic6959 oh yeah literally a light reason why I always appreciated too, if someone wants to grow, even as basic as "we not really vibing"

*insert he's right you know meme* I stopped relating the moment she got a like before even finishing the profile 😂not to mention matches that message first!! What Marvel universe is this set it?

@@christinaescobar7255 no you dont

Hannah seemed like a party girl that maybe still living with roommates. which is fine but definitely not that attractive after a certain age in my opinion. Unless you are into that type of life I suppose.

Definitely agree

I agree

Spoiler:(

Right but i think if kris was up and answered that 1st girl. She would have tried to meet possibly. She did choose a "normal guy". Lol

Frrrr

agreed, though I wanted to see it play out more. I understand it isn't her fault but i'm happy they didn't get their hearts broken.

NOOT NOOT

They probably did a reverse google image search

they broke hers lmao

That was the joke Sherlock

That was the joke Sherlock

@@atr0stisticbreak991 *(meow)*

Office reference tho

LOL-

i feel that lmao

That's so ture

lol so true

Lmao so true

ikr lmbo

I mean she’s the one who got ghosted by the girls

bro i wanna know if these girls found out lol

@@mathlover5697 same

That was my thought too while watching it!!

FRR

lol

Getting ghosted as Clark Kent is what I could only hope to achieve in my wildest dreams. Dating apps are only for the 1%ers, I swear.

Yeah she threw some pictures of a literal 10/10 dude and thinks she’ll get a normal guy experience. Probably because she knows it’s depressing for an average guy

@@tylersanders2388 I mean it likely wouldn't give her much content for that reason, fair tbvh

@@tylersanders2388 Well, if she'd gone with a picture of an average looking guy, the entire video would just be 15-20 minutes of swiping right on everything in a 100 mile radius, and nothing else...

Even with loaded dice she still managed to get ghosted... twice...

She's lowkey, highkey, a relatable dumpster fire but also entrepreneurial influencer. *tucks hair behind ear*

@@Broxigar07 omg when you said that last part I pictured Kris doing that! 😂

It's a real shot in the dark sometimes. I got lucky and after being on a site for months, my now boyfriend joined the site and I was his first match and we hit it off super duper well. I can't imagine never meeting him.

Yes it had to date online while me here still single have been cheated once with one relationship before but I divorced, do you care about to chat with me Anthony.

its called your not in the top 20% of males. sorry bud

Aww I’m glad you’ve found someone! Dating apps are shit shows! It’s worth it when you find someone you click with though 😊

Question is, which dating site do you pick? :') There are so many...

LMAO!

Probably.

I think most ppl are just looking to hook up on tinder 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’ve never been on it, but that’s the impression I’ve gotten from ppl I’ve met that use it.... I met 2 girls that used it for free food and hooking up 😂🙄🤦‍♀️

Online datingis a dumpster fire,you like a girl IRL go for it,whats the worst thing it can happen

@@okipo3443 that's true, but if you're gay it's so much harder imo, especially if you're not particularly social

@@wolfzmusic9706 if youre lgbt its among the very few people that don't have any choise but to use online apps

@@okipo3443 ye basically. I'm also too shy to go out and meet people, and I'm definitely not the type of person to enjoy Pride or a gay club etc (which I feel like is the only way to meet people irl if you're gay).

LMAOOOO 😂😂😂

oh my gosh- what the flip thats HILARIOUS

Scammers trying to get you

you should have told them " I'm harry styles. I can get your youtube if I want" anyways, HOW ARE PEOPLE SO DUMB THESE DAYS!?

Gee, you really believed that was a girl you were talking to?

kris can you do a day with nona part 2

Facts!!!!!🥺🥰

Well said 😄

Your* both times

@@evanreloadingbazookagaming1699 I’m Dutch, so sorry for my grammar🥲

Um....she has over a million subscribers.....shes definitely not underrated

@@Devond085 why.... do.... u.... type.....like......... that....

Nearly 7 millions subs! Hardly underrated

@@raynerichThe same reason you spell the word "you" with "u" Because I can. Quit nitpicking....

@Gemiline cause it’s a pet peeve

Yeah, dating sites are a freaking mess. It's like 95% people just looking for hookups and 5% people actually wanting to find a love.

@@brim9961 and out of the 5% looking for love you still have to sift through it to find the one's (normally 1%) that are good. But I mean, I found my current boyfriend on Tinder and we have been officially a couple for 8 months now.

Hey I get what you saying, I just wanted to give you some hope and let you know there are a few good guys out in the world and as a man I'm a shamed there are not more.

Woman want a Chad that makes 150k +, 6 feet tall, 6 inch member, 6 pack, and above 6 in looks. It’s ridiculous

@@jameshusentoff2953 Nah, we just want guys who take care of themselves, aren't assholes or immature, and are respectful and caring. Ofc, the better they look the best, but good looks don't make it up for a bad personality.

I met my husband on Plenty of Fish lol been married just over 5 yrs now! Long back story but I knew on our first date I was gonna marry him, it scared the crap out of me because I was just barely separated from my ex husband and wasn’t ready for anything like that! I basically ghosted him for 5 yrs or so, dated other people, etc etc… He never gave up and over 5 yrs after our first date I finally started talking to him again and we were married 8 months later!

I met my current partner on TikTok lol we haven’t been together that long but we met in person once in Seattle when I was seeing family in Olympia and that’s when I really decided dating them would be cool. I knew I liked them before that but I didn’t want anything long distance unless I’d seen them in person.

That's great. My husband and I met on a blind date. We were set up by my cousin and her husband. That was 23 years ago. 🥰

Maybe they where confused by a guy called aimee

I mean there is a certain type of people who use tinder, quess you arent really one of them u know. From what i have seen there is a lot of poeple who just look for atention or “adult fun time” and thats it. So if you are normal you probably arent what they are looking for. You might get lucky and find someone that you might actually like, but i belive thats really rare. Dont let this get under your skin. Tinder is for people wo look like models, because lets be honest, how you look is probably the most important thing on tinder and with so many options people get really picky.

Dont mention your ex in the beginning.You might mention your ex a bit later in deeper conversations. Iff you mention here emediatly, it means she is on your mind rather than who you chat with! I believe flirting in the conversations is good. First of all: the introduction of you both and so move on with the flow of flirting. I don't know iff this works but for me it seems reasonable.

Personally I think it would help to really look into the profiles and the bios and find people that like the things you do that others don't typically. It's a great way to start a conversation. Always bare in mind that when your given the opportunity to just talk about something you like with someone who's also actively interested in it you make more progress in a relationship whether it's romantic or not. It's also good to approach these apps with the mentality that you will only make friends, not find your soul mate. Sometimes you gotta let things go slow, if it's loneliness then talk to your friends or family, if it's because your horny then just look for a fling, there's nothing wrong with that because there are so many others out there in the same boat. Way to often we force ourselves to settle while looking for the right one because it feels like it's now or never and that's not true. Most of life's greatest pleasures fall into your lap over time. Stay strong, focus on you, build yourself up and let others see your happy become drawn to it. Good luck friend.

But was she over 6’ tall? 😂

lol

Damn those are the rules? Never been on tinder and now that I know I failed the rules I guess I’ll never be 😅

@@thefollower89 They're the most important rules to follow. Without them you're playing on hard mode.

@@Oakest Is like DarkSouls without dying

Don’t give her ideas 💀

new video: throwing things at people to get their attention

@@morgannotmegan that sounds like a great video idea!😂

I feel like the enbies would be happy to too!

doesnt she literally have a partner already lol

Escalating to meeting in public too early on is also a major turnoff for many women.

@@newera478 Except we don't know when that "too early" is and she is probably chatting with ten other men at the same time. A guy on a dating site has to express interest in taking the next step. Otherwise, the connection fizzles out.

That's why he got ghosted probably. Just chatting like friends and not making any moves, not being assertive at all, not pressing for a date, no innuendo or anything. She was acting like a woman, cause she's a woman, and they're into men *shrug*

@gavinjenkins899 yesssss I’m a woman and WE WANT Y’ALL TO MAKE THE MOVES. As long as you’re not so overpowering cuz then it’s like “ummm so this dude thinks he’s better than me”, than I don’t see a problem :)

@@lioranadel despite describing the situation I think was happening, I don't actually think it's reasonable, though. I would have been happy to make the moves until society also decided to add on "Oh but if she doesn't happen to find you hot when you do, she can interpret it as and say you were a creep, and everyone is supposed to just believe that now without evidence, and you can lose your job, friends, or worse". Yeah nah thanks, I know that's what you WANT but ain't GETTING it from me anymore. I'm waiting for women to make the important moves from now on, or just hanging out with my dog and friends and hobbies til then. Unfortunately, there's no other safe, reasonable option anymore.

​@@gavinjenkins899As a transwoman who has been on both sides of the coin, this is exactly why Kris got ghosted

@@lioranadel it's really better that the women make the moves though like men have such a terrible time on dating apps compared to women.

Always makes my day

It's really cute

She has a name

You no

As a man I would like to formally agree with this dude. Except for me it has allway been the struggle to get invited to a job interview. I have a really close female friend, and we have been open about our tinder experiences. She could get up to 500 likes in a week, while I would count myself freaking lucky getting 2-4 (and to be ghosted by them all) It all lead to me deleting Tinder, and meeting my fiance the old fashioned way :) Allso. Kris got matches cuz the guy in the pictures is ripped and shirtless. Pick more everyday photos, and you will not be as lucky. Love the video tho kris :) Good job

@@liex85 there are other sites or apps that are better, but it is a times the results. Also yes she was choosing the above average or even above above average guy as her photos, when as I said not a lot of men would choose those; and not all of us are ripped. I’ve got muscles, but I don’t got washboard abs; I mean aside from the pandemic messing things up i got a semi lean stomach.

As a woman it still feels like a job interview 🤷🏻‍♀️

@@AmalieManover sure, but not as much as many men. This experiment, and many others shows the differences. Without being too tmi about my life as of recent I’ve only got two hearts/likes, and a friend of mine has a lot more than me; she has a lot of potential people. I’ve gotten a few matches that wasn’t great such as “a non negotiable is that we have get at least 10 dishes to share, and eat”. That’s not great in many senses, I understand from a traditional sense as the man I’d pay for the meal(which I don’t mind); but this gives me the feeling like all you want a free meal instead of getting to know me. Even if we went Dutch or split the bill, to me it doesn’t seem fair. My friend agrees that doesn’t seem right, and she see’s my point.

@@AmalieManover just because I feel like it another video that gives similar results ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-DZTIbHIsIYw.html

For real

I was literally doing this not even two minutes ago had ramen and hot chocolate

👍😇

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Stop bc I literally just cried cuz kris saw my comment

nah most people use tinder for hook ups lmao

Welp then I'm fucked xD it takes me ages to be comfortable with people so I can't meet up instantly

@@wolfzmusic9706 I always try to meet up fast just go for a drink see if it clicks you know but that also doesn't work

@@bolttanker9190 if I can't be 100% myself tho then how will I click with them? It takes me a while to be comfortable round people so there would be no clicking, even if we did get along really well down the line

​@@wolfzmusic9706 Hmm, seems tough. Not sure what advice to give without knowing you a bit more. At first I also had a hard time even texting with someone. Asking anyone out was out of the question. From my experience what I needed first was to be truthful to myself from the get go. Not trying to impress, not trying to bend my character or just showing parts of me I thought she may like. So the first task for myself was to get comfortable with who I am. This step took me a few matches (maybe 20), but in the end I'm quite comfortable just texting with someone now. Somewhere in the middle of the process I started asking some girls out. First few dates I was really anxious. But also with each date it was less and less bad. Every time you return from the date (even bad one) remember that you survived, you just got some experience and next time it will be better. The thing that I suggest is to meet up and do something you like. For me it was board games. Playing board games is my element, so when I was explaing the rules and playing I got more comfortable and after 1 hour of playing I felt better to just chat.

For real

@Don't read profile photo ok

Same!

Always on fleek mine is always⬆️⬅️➡️↘️↖️⤴️⤵️↩️↪️🔀

i think this is such good advice especially for the next generation with all the tech we have, it makes it hard to talk to someone face to face without being on your phone the whole time. love the Ted talk it was fantastic :)

a little? im not even sure if there are atoms in my body

Yup, and basically explained all the ripptitude with 'home workouts, because introvert'

Agreed

True that

Why can't they just communicate that or simply say they're not interested? Ghosting is rude, and as a girl if I was not interested in somebody, I would just tell them that politely.

Great advice👍

@@wolfzmusic9706 because people who know how to properly communicate aren't on tinder

I tried tinder once and was attracted to like none of the guys in my area lol. I also accidentally ghosted one when I forgot to reply to his message and then it had been too long and I haven't been back since.

Ahhh the quest for connection... good luck mate! 👍

It’s the same for the females

ur matching with the wrong women ma dude🙌 and remember, its so much better to get ghosted after a few days than after u catch feelings. u’ll find the right one some day🫶

while i get the struggle of carrying conversations and women ghosting over average looks, I don't think calling them "females" is doing you any favours

You are right Michelle nice meeting you here.

Got any tips? I haven’t had any matches sadly

@@Randy-us1uf Hm. Rebecca is a woman's name. Randy seems like a man's name. Change sex, and you'll have a shot! I got 1300-1500 matches on Tinder, I can't get a single date from Tinder in a year despite that. So, you're basically screwed. Reality is way better if you're a guy. Tinder is total crap.

@@Randy-us1uf Well for one...I wouldn't use Tinder as the person above mentioned. One thing I noticed about a lot of guys was their profiles didn't showcase who they were and what they looked like clearly. When it comes to photos, make them interesting and show a variety (close up, full body, doing something fun or cool etc). While attraction is an obvious factor, women also want to see effort put into a page or else you may not seem serious. The same goes for the bio. Share your interests and core beliefs. Especially the core beliefs! The other thing is don't sound bitter, hopeless or uninterested in your bio. I've seen that a lot too and even if the guy was attractive, I would pass. When it comes to conversation, pay attention to what the girl has on her page and talk about some of those things or mutual interest. Don't ever answer with simple one-three word responses. If you're interested, show that by keeping the conversation going. Don't go straight to compliments on appearance either, notice accomplishments or interests first. Don't take too long to try and meet up. After about 3 days-week ask her out to a public place in the daytime. I wouldn't stay texting too long. I know that was a lot, but those were the type of guys I would date. The main thing is to know what you want, be patient and kind and show genuine interest.

@@Randy-us1uf If you're a man, don't bother. Women only swipe right on the 1/20 best looking men. If you're anywhere near average looking, you don't stand a fusking chance. Don't bother.

Your grandmother is a legend 😌

Watch me be like her in 60 years

I wish my grandmother was as excited about a RU-vidr as yiurs

Your grandmother is a legend!

Your grandmother is a blessing honestly💕 And I don't blame her lol. Kris is great 😁

10:11 but the hoimes got you

I'm usually quite pessimistic when it comes to dating apps, but my best friend pushed me at least try once. And I must say "planty of Fish" is quite nice, there are some lovely guys, I went on date with few. Tinder although I'm quite sure is for who wants to sleep with no strings attached.

Welcome to the world every guy experiences on dating apps 😂 it’s actually soul destroying

the apps are pure poison. You gotta get out there and meet real people, sad to say.

Yeah I agree. It's a good thing.