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That line at the end about why there needs to be pain for any life lesson... Damn. I ask myself that all the time. Some of these life lessons are brutal. Albeit, it's life man. 😥
Always listen to your gut feeling!!! That feeling is never wrong, and I always say if you want to be single so that you can you want mess around with other guys or girls. Don't be in a relationship if you want to have a single life and you can't have your cake and eat it too.
Tripp, You have many stories of being hurt. It is so disturbing to hear how many times your heart has been broken. A heart that appears to be so dedicated to the purpose of making someone that is faithful, happy. It appears you are far more deserving of a true love, one love that only will bring you the comfort, the warmth, and passion and compassion that any human is deserved. Continue to seek your permanent partner and you will be able to taste the sweetness of true love equal to you and the deserving partner. I love you Tripp!!!
That's some real encouragement from one to another. Your post is not just for Tripp but for mankind. Love takes so much energy and deserves to be genuine from all parties involved.
Man sorry you had to go through that. I can only imagine how your were feeling. You didnt deserve that. Someone is really gonna appreciate you one day! That person will be a very lucky person!!
Love how you're able to put your emotions out there, and say I've been/am hurt. I'm slowly, but surely learning to do the same otherwise, I've just shutdown and cutoff the people that have hurt me.
Listen whenTripp gives Stories like this i just wanna hold him and hug him honestly....it's just wow.....it kinda makes me sad when Tripp is sad and it's nothing sexual it's just chaa man you have been hurting so much and you can actually see it.
I’m not sad my guy but thank you. This story happened many years ago. I just emote the feelings I may have felt back then. Can’t smile telling a story that was painful.
Damn Cuz I see that you done slid all up into 16k. Congratulations 👏. And that theme song is a vibe man. Storytime 🔥 as usual. You don't just tell "gay" stories, you tell human stories. How brave of you to open up like this.
Despite going through so much heartbreak in your life, you continue to spread love and light. It’s so admirable. You’re such a sweet guy and you’ll come across someone that will cherish you 💙
Guess what, I needed to hear that. It's unfortunate that in life there will be pain. Due to the pain I've gone through with good-no-good ass niggas. I can now empathize with others and be of some help even if it's just a little help. Thanx so much for being vulnerable and opening up to share you life story. Luv you Tripp.
I read a book a few months back, “Cry Like A Man.” It’s written about seeing our hurts and betrayals, especially as Black men, and how to become whole after the pain. You could’ve written parts of that book through some of your story times. Your strength makes me also want to keep going forward to share what’s really important and giving life.
Just ran across your work like 9 hrs ago and I have been playing catch up. Awesome stories man and I know you telling them brings deeper healing. Thanks for the real laid-back real life stories. Now I feel better that I am not alone outcha being masculine and private and go thru bad dudes experience. Your time will come when all you've been through is incomparable to what now have. Stay strong stay bless Cuzzo💪
Yo.....I really want to pause this video and just hug you bruh. For some reason, I really can identify and understand what you were feeling. Especially about the feeling of being alone during the latter part. But he's loss, is someone else's treasure. You are diamond bruh
@@elmo4729 We missed you El Mo! That's ok. There will be more story times. We'll connect then!! Always wonderful to hear from you cousin! I'll catch you next time! 👍
Ase & Blessings ... Ayo kinfolkz Real talk You deserve sumone who wud jump fences to be with you... Not sumbody who is on the fence about being with you. If they can't realize what a good thing you are. Don't make excuses for them and don't waste your time. Just keep moving forward for the right one will come along and prove themselves.
Hey cuz. Sorry I missed the live. Just finished watching tho. It's unfortunate when you take a leap of faith, uproot yourself, and go be with the person you in a relationship with and they just tear out your heart. Where is the loyalty, commitment, trust, and love. Smh. You did not deserve that. No one deserves that. 💙💙💙💙
Trip I really feel that you are a great man and you give your all to everything that you genuinely love and one of these ole days, you will find them all at the right time with the right people and the Lord will bless you. Stay pressing toward the mark of greatness and you will WIN is my prayer for you and others like you. Prayerfully submitted, your Cousin Ra'Shod P. #GreatnessIsComingYourWaySoon
I had a similar situation like your story that happen to me. It was extremely painful, but God brought me through it and I was stronger afterwards. Also my discernment became sharper and I was able to read people better in the long run!
Hello cousin...sorry you didn't see the sign...was already steppin on the relationship b4 you came to Atlanta...more and more things presented itself to make you really see....but your intuition was spot on..always ack on it...
Loyalty is everything,am sorry you felt that, I can't wait for you to find someone on youre level and finally be happy......youre such a inspiration to us all,much much love to ya✝️ God bless you you're a remarkable person inside and out....💯
I love everything ❤ 💗 u put out.the good the bad an even hurt u been though. I can even feel ur pain.then u make me laugh.i 🙏 🤲 u fine that love that u should have.god bless u keep the faith.an keep doing ur thing.Beverly from Newark NJ.love u tripp.
You’re a strong person for how you handled that, real talk. I would’ve blinked and flipped that whole damn house upside down in a blind rage… Just hearing the way you talk about it got me on go FOR you. Sorry you experienced some bullshit like this man I hope these days things a lot better for you🙏🏽 Support from North Carolina Edit: 27:19 🎯🎯
Yeah man, I feel you that does suck. I wish I could have been there for you in that moment cause I know how deep that hurt can go like mentally and spiritually. I hope that you have found your peace with incident and true love and companionship with someone deserving.
wow ... this was an unexpected and very heartbreaking story... and the way it just suddenly ends without your usual outro makes it even more disturbing... i'm sorry this happened to you.
You deserve someone who appreciates the true value of what love means - the pursest gift we were born without conditions. It's because human nature sets conditions and selfishness to love which limits human nature's abilitity to turely embrass the purety of unconditionally love. Relationship or commented togetherness should not be about you and me but us as one. Few know how to recognised that and embrass it because they are no way near that level. Would love to express/share that with you, if given the chance by you. You deserve the journey of true love.
Hey hey hey, this topic was interesting because, when you have a clean heart ❤ and a conscious, God will always show you signs no matter what. And you're right not live with no one because It causes havoc. You are such a good man and I hope you have someone who takes care of you. Much Love ❤ Kiss kiss 💋💋. Oh do you still do music and do you come to New York often ?I do music as well not as big as these big producers lol. You have to follow your heart, the first instinct or first expression is always on point. It was not the other guy fault, you can't blame that person, you blame your partner. He was wrong and he didn't live to far from where his best friend live. And they put you in a spot that makes you wonder what's next. Yes they knew exactly what they were doing..and that's wrong. I am so sorry that this happened to you. People really don't think about the people they love seriously. And then he did care. No, you didn't make a mistake God put you through this for a reason because God knows you have to good heart. You have a right not to hang with them. Karma is a bitch, when God takes to long he sends Miss Karma 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Damn cuzin that's messed. U sound like me kind hearted compassionate n taken for granted. We wear our heart on our sleeve but we strong n will find love be loved n continue to make ourselves happy. U got this it's coming just b more cautious n aware👍🏽😷🙏💖
Cheating has always been a "dealbreaker" for me bc why cheat on someone & cause unnecessary hurt when you can simply express that your unhappy for whatever reason and leave that relationship.💯cheating is so disrespectful like either be committed or be single.. : You deserve better..💛🥺
Sometimes silence is the best way to handle situations like that. The other man may not have know you existed the problem was your lover. Before you pack up and move to a new location with someone get to know them better you would have seen the signs of who he truly is.
@Tripp.... I just started watching this video, and man, at 7:09, I had that same feeling when I first moved to NYC....and even though I had that feeling, plus the constant red flags.... I said I would rock with it and thug it out..... Man, I wish I wouldn't have been so damn stubborn..... but man, I'm so sorry you had to go through that. the fact that you found the douche and rush on the first day after being there, that is the moment it should have ended. You deserve better than that man. He could've at least been man enough to just break up with you and been honest about the long distance relationship. I'm pretty sure that if the tables were turned, he wouldn't have like it if you had done that to him. I'm telling you man, people are so damn selfish....never considerate of others and their feelings, and even just having enough respect for one another....but I tell you, karma is a force to be reckoned with.... and the whole living situation....wow....that's another red flag. It sounds like your ex was lying to you about everything.... it sounds like the guy you was dating was either younger or really just irresponsible and NOT a good person at all... but after hearing this, this makes me want to find the guy that did this to you and beat the s**t of of them....just out of principle. any man that does what they did to you is a fool! This storytime made me sad for you, and mad at your ex man...... But you want to know something, he wasn't the right one for you...and its better the truth came out now, than several years later....especially if you would've decided to marry them.....that would have been a real nightmare situation.... and yea, I wouldn't want to be around anyone that would allow that type of behavior either....so while it sucks you were alone for those holidays, it was probably the best thing you could've done at the time. I will say this, that even though we don't personally know one another....If we would've been close friends during this time, I wouldn't have allowed you to be by yourself during the holidays....I would have sent you a plane ticket to get out of that mess....and that is real talk. Not to minimize what you went through, so I will say I can relate. I went through a similar situation, where I was dating a very manipulate individual, that lied to me every chance they could, and cheated on me as well, and also tried to send me into financial ruin....and keep me there....as a way to subvert control over me. I can admit that I allowed it to happen for some time because I was genuinely in love with this individual. It sent me into a serious state of depression, to a point where I had even withdrew from my family, and they tried to make me solely dependent on them. I have to say, that if it weren't for a sibling and a really good friend that I kept in contact with over the years, I probably wouldn't be writing this right now. And when I told them everything that I was going through (by actually talking about the horrors that I had experienced), they helped me escape it. I'm saying all this to let you know, that talking about your past pain will help eventually liberate you from that type of situation, and by talking to the right individuals will keep you from falling back into that trap ever again. But Tripp, I just want to encourage you, and let you know that your Mr. Right for Tripp is closer than you think..... Whenever the time is right, he will reveal himself to you, and you'll know it is real....and more importantly, you will be glad that you waited for him. In the meantime, even in this age of Covid, enjoy yourself man.....continue to make these videos....and heal yourself!....or even pick up a new hobby....like video games....it will all help in the healing process..... And speaking of video games, do you have an Xbox One or PS4? if not, I recommend getting one of those....and if you already have one or the other.... Keep your head up high Tripp....and I look forward to your next video man and continue to stay safe out there...
Hey Tripp!..Great video!...ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT!...but you stayed with the guy after this happened? You should have got out immediately. Yes it hurts like hell but I believe when your intuition tell u it ain't right, it's doing that for a reason and to get rid of the waste of space in your life to make way for the right person!
Cuzo!!! This story brought me back into my 20’s and I had a guy that was a dog and didn’t k how to be in a relationship. The last situation with him is when I beat his azz bc it was the same situation that you are talking about in this video cuzo. Plus I was so hurt but I am glad that I am in a great relationship now
You are doing a great thing by preparing yourself for someone great! That person that completes you with out compromising yourself worth and what it YOU want! Stay strong and you will receive that person! God Bless!
Don't let that negativity break your spirit. As a 55 year old man I can tell you this. Always trust your intuition. Move forward with an open mind and an open heart. This situation was definitely heartbreaking but also a chance to learn about what you don't want. I'd advise you to invest in lot's of popcorn & pace yourself. Don't let the negativity of his selfishness & deceitful behavior trouble you. Look into narcissistic abuse Those friends of his are what's known as flying monkeys. Karma will catch up with all of those folks. You may not ever know about their misfortune but trust, they'll get theirs. Feel good about the fact that you took the high road and instead of beating the boy down you educated him as to the character of the wannabe player. You know your worth & let nothing distract you from your path. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Just know that you're not alone and things will get better. Stay Blessed. You bring a lot of joy & knowledge to many people!💞💞💞
That's messed up guys like that makes it hard for another to give them your heart that's why I do distancing love cuz I feel you have time to see warning before things can get too deep I sure hate to hear that but it's real and it happens to people I guess that's life you live and you learn I'm glad you was able to get out of that situation love👍👍❤️
I have a few thoughts about this scenario. The biggest one is that you just RE-confirmed my disinterest in "thugs". You have said several times in other vids that you're attracted to "thugs", that you're a "thug" so I'm assuming he was "thuggish", a "straight appearing"man . When I hear that word used to describe a guy I immediately think of the type of character your BF displayed. Non trustworthy, dishonest not an honorable man. Sorry you had to go through it but that's normally all they have to offer...some lovely words that you'd normally want to hear and some sex. When his friends all laughed at you because of the fleet and rush THAT alone would have probably put me on the track of not being with him for much longer but...we live and we learn. Glad you made it through, hopefully better than ever!!!
Another thing brother it's not the other guys fault it's your boyfriend's fault I would never fight another guy especially if you're boyfriend was cheating on you with him but it's always someone better that will treat you better
Damn... feeling your pain... I definitely can relate to this story... It happened to me... Some dudes in this lifestyle really have no clue what it takes to be in a relationship. A red flag for me now is if I've never met your friends or get to see your private life, I'm out. Sad because a lot of these dudes regret this behavior and lose out on a good thing.
This proves that guys don’t care. How could you cheat on this fine as man?! But, it happens to the best of us. This definitely makes me apprehensive about moving to be with someone. This, then Korea.
Is this a real story!? That’s some heartbreaking shit. I would’ve been on edge and ready to move back home to New York when they all laughed at your pain, and he took absolutely no accountability. Then all them grown men living in one place together .. that’s a no go!
It crazy how u moved to Atlanta for him and he was messing around with other guys I’ve been in that situation before and it was bad like when I found out I was ready to fight cuz u wasn’t going to play me for a fool like I was stupid
Man, I felt let you were an actor telling my story which also included Atlanta and New York but in reverse. I'm sorry that happened to you, but never underestimate thick skin, it will protect you and make you strong. Be good
But if the guy was lied to by your friend why were you mad and ready to fight him. He wasn’t committed to you. People usually get mad at the new person and not their partner
your stories are amazing. but at some point, you got to look inward and ask why you keep getting with these bums. I have three non-negotiables I look forward, and while dating, I look for signs that they may or may not align with them. Also, take your time opening up with men. After bum after bum I realized I had a love addiction. I was so excited about that new love feeling I would jump in quick with men.
Birds of a feather flock together that’s all it comes down to 💯 it’s messed up that this dude had you leave everything behind in NY you’ve made so many sacrifices & compromised so much to move to GA to be with him and that’s how he repaid you smh it’s sad yo....... He will get his cousin Tripp no worries 🙌🏽 from the beginning of the video I knew things were gonna be crazy between ya’ll in GA. He knew the day you were coming to town he should have made it his business to come pick you up from the airport and for some reason something is telling me that his so called best friend that picked you up from the airport was messing with him too I could be wrong that’s just my opinion. It’s crazy the things we’re willing to do when we’re in love with someone only to end up being played @ the end...... I’ve been through so much in terms of relationships that I’m back to savage mode 💯 as soon as anyone mentions the term “relationship” I run or they don’t really hear from me anymore. Your a great dude and you’ve been through so much in terms of relationships you will find a good dude @ some point that will cherish you,love you and treat you right if you haven’t already found one. Great video cousin; thanks for sharing don’t ever change cousin Tripp !!!!!!
Cuzzin Tripp, that's some fuckshit...I can imagine the feelin...but ATL is a cesspool to me..u are so honest & transparent, he certainly didn't deserve someone as special as u...ur gonna find that certain someone who is worthy of ur brand of love
you are a fine brotha. how on earth can someone take u for granted?anyways dont worry. i can tell u a good guy and u will definitely find the one for u
You have hade soooo much pain in your life so have I but the that first love pain was enough for me I have never allowed anyone that close to me to Hurt me that way again
Wow...I'm sorry that happened to you! He sounds like trash and his friends trash. Birds of a feather flock together. This story sounds just like my ex. His friends knew his dirt and of course their loyalty was with him so I had to find out things on my own as well. Glad you let that person go!! I guess we have that virgo intuition.
hey tripper I am so sry you had to deal with another issue with someone you loved. I always thought the problems I had with guys it was because I wasn't supposed to be dealing with them, so I took a long break from guys because I could see me hurting someone for breakin my heart. where have you been all my life. I just want to meet someone that I can love and to love me back. I don't sleep around but some ppl always have to find other ppl to get off with just sad and nasty
Bro sorry u had to go through so much bs for nothing. Trust ur gut, if shit doesn't ad up just a judge have to figure out who's lying and who's telling the truth, then bolt the f out of there. Don't fall in love so easily. Peace
Cuz, we all have made that sacrifice for someone we loved and come to find out he/ she was bad news. But the best things in life doesn't always come easy. Therefore we have to go the trials to receive it.
We all learn from our mistakes bro but never let that be the only reason to move far out just to be with some guy let it be more of a reason to want to move to another state my brother not just for a man but for your own place in another state because if shit turn left you got your own place down there
Yo I just wanna say that those were some shady niggas that was your boi's friend!! So Glad you stopped hanging around them and stopped messing with the boi!! So Crazy,! Another good Video thanks!!
I just want to say thank u for sharing your story mane ...I support you all the way my nigga.....period ...LGBT Quick question are you gay or bisexual 😀 Thank u for giving me tips and ideas... As a gay person ...thank u so much... Lot of love... Long life
I know i am very late on this topic, dont mind me watching past videos. I have always felt it was a bad idea to move in the name of love. I had a cousin who left her kids with her sister in Brooklyn to meet up with some guy in south Carolina. Quit her waitress job and had only had enough money to travel by bus there. Long story short the guy was a cheater. Sister had to pay her way back of course. Sister never got any money for babysitting for 3 months for 2 kids.
