Ladies, please be financially self sufficient! Whether you are single or married. You are much more protected from a lot when you can 100% provide for yourself & your children
Definitely every woman should aim to be financially independent. When it comes to Promise, the two of you just have different priorities & that's ok. As you said every woman has their own non-negotiables. She has said that she can tolerate cheating & that provision is the most important thing to HER. So she won't stay with a man who doesn't provide. You on the other hand you don't tolerate cheating & will leave but you were able to tolerate a broke man for years & you were the (sole) provider at some point. Different strokes for different folks🤷🏽♀️
Sisi teachings are everywhere, they just dont want to listen. no one will love you more than your soul, Most woman they think its a must to get married and have kids, kanti there's life on focusing on yourself, A man is not everything people... A man is not everything 💯 but you yourself alone you are everything ♥️ Nifunde ukuzithanda bantombazane.🍻
Hi Queen Ninja, black women love struggle love shem 😅. There is no way you can stay in a Relationship with man who is repeatedly cheating on you or a broke man and call that love 🙄.
I have come to the conclusion that a woman will leave her marriage when she has made up her mind and it has nothing to do with her having or not having money or whatever other reason one may come up with. It does not mean she is not aware that she is burning, but the heat is still bearable for her there will be a time where the heat will be too mich for her to handle. There will be an inner voice that will say: come babes its time to move.
A complex topic, you totally making sense but also there's a layer to what Owamie is saying... that a woman must formulate her own decisions and not necessarily be influenced by an influencer😅 that's just me being silly but anyway my own stance on all of this...do you...life works out differently for all of us and izindaba za bantu sometimes tires me because I have my own izindabas to deal with 🫶
I have realized that women can ignore a lot of things in their marriages because they are benefiting more than they are losing. They emotional check out and nothing hurts them anymore because they know what they're gaining until they decide to it's enough.
Until we understand that the internet is nothing but a lie,?😅😅sana, never take anything you hear or see on the internet by heart ❤️ .lana we phusing time for views and following. Nna i love it for her..🎉ngwanyana wa mopedi is content bathong😂😂😂😂.
Leaving a relationship where you are cheated for so many years is hard. I have my own reasons and I pray that I get the financial break through because, when you are the only one taking care of the bills and 4 children late with a receptionist salary........it's hard. This is one of those where u get to understand when u r in the situation. Some of us are not even well educated, can't even find for our studies. Yoh kuningi and once u sit with those that are going through it, then I will understand 💔 it's hard!
@@naledikuse6343 I totally get you, I know she wasn't 😊 I was just trying to say it's hard and like for me, I whole heartedly want to get out and I'm working on it but it's hard also. I know she means well ❤️
You can stay and plan your exit strategy, you got to have a plan babe, you can’t continue hurting yourself for years. And if possible, don’t make more babies in that marriage. If you feel you can stay there for life then it’s okay but no one should be in such a situation.
@@Manifester661 I am working on it, and going through therapy cos I'm scared that I might feel sorry for him and go back again. I just want heal while executing my exip plan.......when I feel ready I'm going to leave. Thank you 😊
Promise has thrown SO Much subliminal shade to Owamie in multiple videos on occasions where it wasn't even relevant or contextual. Promise is the first one to throw shade. She even brought Big Guy on her channel to interview him and of course, she threw so much shade to Owamie in just one video! Owamie was actually respectful and even when she spoke about Promise on the Lungelo KM interview, she said nice things about Promise.
You know ninja i feel like millennials are too far gone they can’t be saved. As long as they are able to say I have a husband they don’t care. As a genzer I am genuinely afraid of men, they endanger us so much ka bofebe ba bona, they will chase you and swear up and down they are single whereas they have a long time partner they haven’t married and their partners are witches. Ke shapo ka banna shem
But if she’s okay with a man cheating, why does she need solo travel to get away from the drama and heartache? I need women to stop lying to themselves
😭😭ey I don’t think I’d stay with a cheating husband ne? But I feel like leaving is not easy so the only reason I would stay is if his cheating hasn’t affected the household dynamics and how the household is ran😭yho but still nka Shwa shame!
I feel like the more women stay and become strong women the shit increases. I used to say the same and say I'll stay as long as money is there and he comes back mara looking at it now absolutely no.Cheating is abuse and hate speech. I'ts evil nje.
Owami, the last time you spoke about this particular person your family secrets were exposed and that wasn't nice. Please leave her alone, the fact that ya'll have blocked each other just let it be. I come in peace ✌️
Just a side note, not all couples want to do every single thing together. Sometimes people enjoy having time alone to do things alone and create their own memories.
Mhm I get you & your advice is valid, but you could've left Promise out of this since y'all don't get along. Now it looks like you & your followers are keeping tabs on her while yena she hasn't spoken about you in a long time if I'm not mistaken.
Thank you! She could have said whatever she wanted without giving hints about the lady in question. It will end in tears.😢 The last time she spoke about this famous influencer, her family secrets were exposed.😳
Some ninjas are actually Owamie's haters & want her to be in another nasty public beef so bad. No one who really likes you will bring you information about someone you don't like & have blocked. Nayi because she was waiting to have a gotcha moment she entertained it.
Even if she didn't mention the woman in question, we still would have figured out who or what she's reporting on. And this very comment would have shown up in the comments section... "We all know who she's referring to..."
Why are we giving money so much power ?. Deal with your PROBLEMS. Shopping, Travelling etc is the same advice as saying DRINK, Do drugs. As long as your “HAPPY “.. there is no amount of money that can fill that void. Travel all you want . Buy everything but your own MENTAL HAPPINESS is worth more than that. People don’t even have peace of mind, suicidal because we don’t want to deal with our problems. Money isn’t the solution Owamie. You’re also very wrong .. please please stop substituting problems with coping mechanisms. Fix your problems before you BREAK. You’ll die young. Your demons will follow you, spilling into other people’s marriages.. it’s painful that’s why you’ll own up and even accept an unfaithful marriage because you don’t even know what is right anymore.
@@ZeeInterpretationz That mentality is the reason why people don’t have shame/morals anymore. They sleep with married men,older men, ritualisms etc.. living in loveless marriages. Compromising your life for money. It shouldn’t be given that much power. That’s all I’m saying.
It's sad to see 2 Powerful, Content Creators, Beautiful Black Woman, from Limpopo not getting along. The works of the Devil's Division amongst black women 😢
I smell obsession and its getting out of hands,u so obsessed with Promosed,the cheating u talking bwt happend b4 married and during their break up not inside her marriage.she's out der having fun n when u so stressed bwt her happiness.This is not an advise u just here talking bwt Promise and her happiness
One thing, they will not tell us everything. But OWAMIE, OWAMIE & OWAMIE let people live their lives. Certain things they’re not worth a video. You left, she stayed. Let’s move on my sister ❤️❤️. Let’s do entertainment videos and to hell & back. We are happy. Please sesi I beg you 🙏🙏
@@mandisimelaneschaal9823 just because you don’t agree with me doesn’t mean I’m messy. In my opinion you are speaking nonsense, as well. So there’s no need to go left if you’re not agreeing with others. Get some big girl panties grow that peanut mind of yours.
@@Manifester661 I understand the advise is valid, but her obsession with Promise is getting out of hand. Promise is living her best life and she's happy with her life choices. Each to their own honestly. I also don't support cheating but honestly there's no need to ridicule those who don't have a problem with cheating,as long as bale happy hle.
But maybe let’s let these two women be, remember Promise drove all the way to another Province where Owamie’s ex husband lives to interview him so she can know how he details about their marriage which ended, for me, nothing tops that.they are obsessed with each other 😂
Owami I have a story for you. How can I get in touch with you ? How can I report a story . Father neglect his duties and owes me money but claims for protection oder against me and my son
Aowa Owamie, you are literally reaching, a married woman actually needs alone time, it doesn’t mean there was cheating! This microscope you have on her marriage is a bit much, considering you also stayed for many years putting up with crap just that it wasn’t cheating! You’ve totally missed the mark here shem
But when you go out the country as “a break” to herself. All you doing sis is giving him more room to cheat in peace. And collect all kinds of sicknesses to pass to you!! Could never be me but to each their own
But the man has been given a free pass already whether she is in or out of the country he will cheat so she might as well go and explore and in another country.
Promised never said her Husband is cheating,the cheating she was talking about was b4 marriage and all dat break up they had b4 marriage now dat they married she said dat she knows non of him cheating and there are no signs just dat Owami makes it seems like he's cheating even today dts what she wants every one to know n believe
@@NosiphoDlamini-wq5gd Exactly,you are spot on also people are allowed do what they want in their marriage and how they choose to celebrate their birthday it’s not like she is in prison that she can’t go anywhere or leave the country if and when she feels like it.
Ninja I've been following u for years and I love how you always educate us especially about the sexual health. I wish most Christians can gather here. The doctrine of bekezela and pray for your marriage is over preached there, and still being labeled as failures if they divorced.
Ninjas am I the only one who has to keep on pressing sub button because every time I watch this channel it says subscribe although I did the last time I watched the videos on this channel?
