Yeah. But I think a mother should always choose her kids in every situation regardless. She doesn't even have to tell her mother. Her mother should know naturally.
It's sad that when you speak up you are asked to keep quiet, but when you're silent you'll asked "why didn't you say something" . This is really sad and I hope she'll attend the therapy sessions so she can be a better version of herself
A whole lot we are on our way but some things are deeply rooted and would take abt 3/4 generations to deduce, KNOWLEDGE NEED TO BE APPLIED MORE EVERYDAY
In some families unfortunately this is part of the culture, I mean generational curses. If you take a close look you will see that this has been happening for many generations and people know about it, it’s like a dirty family secret, not saying that it’s the case here but looking at her mum reaction it could be. Sometimes it will happen to many kids in the family sometimes only one is chosen as a sacrifice. And the moment you start talking about it they will make sure everyone turns their back on you even the people you never expected. That’s why her pastor asked her if she is ready for that. I’m so glad she said she prays, nothing is more powerful than a prayer but it’s the moment to pray harder. Just with this video she made a huge impact, it’s also another form of therapy. I wish you all the best baby girl and I pray God heal your heart completely, you deserve it 💕
A mother should be protecting her kids,but it happened otherwise to this precious soul's mother. Owami you are brave enough bbegal...we learn everyday with you😘I raised my own son from the age of 1 and now he's 10 years old...without a father around. Grow big mama Owami we love
💔 mm, I never know that, I'm not the only one who has a cruel Mother, I'm from Durban, ten years ago I moved to PE thank God to my late husband, for me to be here, my story is very similar to this young Girl story 😔
Her mom not supporting her made things worse 😢 what kind of a mother does that, that the least she could have done and the uncle would have been reprimanded or even got arrested. I can tell she has completely lost trust in her mom.
I don’t know who taught black people that SA should be a family secret. I’m glad our generation forces people to take accountability and is more open. May we heal these traumas and be the parents we wished we had when we experienced trauma.
Yes it seems that the perpetrator is being shielded by the entire family in this situation.This uncle is supposed to be arrested.This lady is grown up now she can expose this to the justice to be dealth with.
This was more of a therapy session for our sister,she just needed someone to talk to and Owamie came through as a big sister 🥺❤️love and light for her,may she find healing
I am so sorry you had to go through this. Owamie just so she knows if she wants she can still open a case against him. The mother would probably be charged too.
i wish i spoke too, for me it was not a family member but my priests son at the time. I wish i spoke up. May you heal thank you for your bravery in sharing this. I actually blamed myself cause he made me believe i brought it on myself.
To the extent of proposing to her😢😢, this girl's safety is compromised...danger zone. A prt of me blames ur mom for not protecting atleast ur mental health. Girl hold ur mom accountable though u love her... Blv me u might think ua ok bcz of ur good heart but one day myb 10yrs later..evn as a born again Christian, those traumas can surface n u will be shocked even urself gore aah i thot im ok...n tht season u will be filled with anger... Blazing hot anger towards ur mom for not putting u first... N hvn to deal with emotions of anger is very painful😔🥺...
Yeah ne some Mommy's though..I gone through a lot grew up without my mom I was raped by 4 different men..1I blamed my mom for she left me when I was 3yrs with my dad.. I wished she was there to hold me..but now I think I'm fine..I m 54yrs with my 2kids..I love n protect them so much
All she needed was her mom to acknowledge that the uncle is wrong. Thank God for her dad, May she find peace someday. P.S sometimes allow the guests to speak their language and turn on the subtitles Owamie. Some stories could be nicer in venec maan
sorry about what u went through hun .@ times parent dont see the pain they sometimes put us through at the end they act like they really love us or show us love the tough way kunzima .sorry i wish u get help n heal fromwhat u going through
Soshanguve is in the building popopopopopopopooooopopopooooo 🎉thank you sis Owami for the work you do and may God and keep on blessing our guest 4 today 🙏and give her strength ❤
I'm in a bus to Cape town and I'm crying my eyes out 😭😭😢. This is heavy😭.i pray that you find healing my lady .i can see the pain you're in .I'm so sorry😢
A mother's hug after she listened and understood is a healing on its own. I think her mom is afraid to be rejected by the entire family if she can support her daughter regarding this matter.
Thank you Owamie for pointing out how toxic her mother is. It's not normal or okay for a mother to be more worried about protecting anyone other than her child. As mothers Owamie, we know our children always come first. Her mother may not have assaulted her daughter but she also helped perpetrate the violence against her child by not protecting her out she found out what happened. I'm just happy she has her father. Not all people deserve to be parents.
Her mom’s brother has being poisoned with something by her brother,because there’s no way in hell u can love someone who molest yo kid no way😢or she do the doo with him😢
