i just recently cut my parents off due to their toxicity and narcism 🤧 it’s a sad life but it is what it is and i’m sm more happy without them…. for the first time since i was 6 i’m not suicidal
I cut my mother off when I was 19 because I wasn't living in her house anymore. I would have done it sooner otherwise. She still has a victim mentality towards anything and anybody in the world since she has always believed that everything is about her and for her. I hear you, happiest choice!!!
@@nothingheard my biological father was extremely abusive, he not only physically and sexually abused me but he would beat on my brothers as well as substance abuse, when i told my mom she thought it was the perfect story to spread to EVERYONE everyone knew i was molested 🤦🏻♀️ when i was 16 she encouraged me to smoke weed, i got into a horrible habit to the point where i was smoking a blunt a day… not only did she mentally abuse me she also physically was abusive at times and by far the most was verbally, she said the nastiest things, she’s brag about her and my stepdads physical abuse (it was sick) throughout my life we’ve been living in houses infested with mice and roaches (or homeless couch hopping) she’d deprive us of food, she had an eating disorder and constantly assumed i had one (i was the child to pin it on just like she pinned parenting on my older siblings the only ones who cleaned and cooked CHILDREN THEMSELVES) finally it was my chance to go off to college and i had so much fun up until winter break when i was gonna go home… everytime i’d spend a week or more away from my mom i’d miss tf outta my family even tho it was toxic (my brother would also scream at me terrible things like to kill myself or that i was fat but he was very manic and i forgive him for it bit she did nothing) when i got there after about 8 days my mom berated me calling me a whore and types of things. she’s very bipolar so one minute she’ll love me the next she’s berating me and belittling me as a human being. the final straw was 3 days before i was supposed to go back to school (she was paying for my school by cheatinf the government out of money collecting disability but also working under the table for big money i’m talking BIG) i asked if i could iver night my things back to my college but she didn’t like my tone she started putting her hands on me screaming digging her nails into me because she wanted to take my phone but i’m a 19 year old who’s been an adult since she was 13 i said no she stole my stuff kicked me out and said if i left she’d called the police (make up your mind) i left to my sisters in another state she sent some terrible messages but i’ve blocked her and all my family rhag condones that behavior and said good riddance, i’m living happily… i can remember laying im bed at 6 praying to be dead now i’m 19 loving free making money and i have good credit i’m not in debt (i was also paying payment on my school stuff myself) i’m proud of you for cutting them off i did it and so can you!!!
@@tzizzleWow that was a long read hahh... but I'm so proud of you for getting out of that toxic environment. I can't imagine how awful it feels to be a victim and then be put to shame for it and its consequences. It's even harder to make sure we don't end up like them, so keep going strong in all aspects of your life. You're doing amazing already!!! 🤍🤎
I can only Imagine if the husband can’t even sacrifice not cooking meat When it comes to something more serious he probably won’t sacrifice for that either. His logic is terrifying too.
and you guys are 100% right, the guy in the second scenario is the a hole for sure like you could go and eat meat outside ur home why does he need to cook each of his meals at home 💀😭
Not gon cap, it dosent matter how grown you are having sex when your parents stay at can be a boundary violation for sure. The father def does not want to hear that shit 🤷🏿♂️
first one is not the asshole. i think you guys are speaking from privilege when you said how can you give up your child and to figure it out. this happens a lot to people who aren't fortunate enough to support their family so they need to give up their children. they may live in a country that doesn't have universal health care so i understand a big sacrifice, giving your kid up to care full time for a sick child. the unforgivable part is acting like the son doesn't exist. nothing was stopping them from visiting him and being in their son's life emotionally at least. i know they were going through a lot caring for their daughter but they should've reached out, explained it to their son and kept in touch so he knows he's loved and still their son. i'm glad the son has a strong support system with his grandparents and adoptive parents.
I think it's like you said in the end there. You can be empathetic to parents who are struggling and cannot take care of their second child, but what's unforgivable is not even trying to contact them, and only reaching out when your first child is gone.
Close your legs if you can’t care for your child, yall are ridiculous just handing out babies to strangers or random family members they’re your responsibility
2nd scenario: this is why most relationships end after childbirth. Men can’t handle the symptoms/emotions that women have during postpartum… let alone during a pregnancy 🤦🏽♀️
