Chiiiiiiile, that cameraman was SHAAAAAAAY-DEEEEEEEEEE at @1:07 up in Jeannie's grill like that. That was palm, oak, maple and willow trees all at once.
He will sweetheart! Just the fact that you're turning to God to guide you to your future husband shows the sincerity and purity of your heart and soul. Never compremise or lower your standards of what a good man should be. You deserve to be treated with love, kindness and respect and make trust and respect the foundation of your relationship rather than lust and see what happends! I truly wish you the best of luck on your journey. Much love.
+CYBER FAGGOT exactly it's not for everyone some people just don't want kids and that's okay as long as you are honest with yourself and the other person and don't do it because your pressured.
+kindacrazyAna14 I dead said the same thing... It shot right her.. More than one lol.. Like Remember America.. She don't want no kids America Remember lol
"HOLD UP... YOU LIED..... hi Logan" so many emotions from Tamar 😂😂 this is why she will be missed, just bringing all the 100s and all the fire every time... 🔥💯 Loni you can try it....
The look on Loni’s face after Tamar says she didn’t want children but vince did and she says hi to Logan, you can tell how much Loni loves kids and cares about their wellbeing
That shade. Omgosh. And Jeannie's face. Wow. She was like "Um..." But Adam's right! Choosing to have kids vs not wanting to is a deal breaker for sure! That's why you need to communicate ALL your needs before you get married. It's not a game. It's a lifetime commitment. Well, it's supposed to be anyway....
the sad thing is they did talk about kids prior to getting married. Jeanie and Freddie both said they didn't want kids, over the years Freddie changed his mind and now they're in this situation.
+Tany Britt happens all the time.its usually one person is on the fence and the other is for sure they do or don't and talk the other into it and it falls apart over time
+Tany Britt I remember she has said that he always wanted kids. But he married her thinking that she would compromise or change her mind on that and she hasn't.
Watching this in 2022 is insane - the fact that the camera went straight to Jeannie while Adam was talking...lol!!! That's crazy. Fast forward she's a whole mom now and married to someone else!
Two divorced on that table and another from Jeanie 😢...god I'm happy to been single all these years😅....just procreation fun with a man ....never get tied down!! People are very unpredictable in recent years it's unbelievable 😱
+Helena idk if it's just me but ever since I found out that Tay Tay is leaving I've been paying attention to Tamera more and I realized she won't hold that left end of the table all by herself lol
+sasukefroupie well they are going through the process of finding a fifth FEMALE host ! because on Tom Joyner they asked Loni if there was a gonna be a male host , and she said " No , there is gonna be a female host , and we will have a fifth host because we want as many opinions & personalities as we can get "
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Did anyone else notice how the camera panned on Jeannie @ 1:06 when Adam was talking about his friends getting divorce about kids....hmm shady cameraman is on "the real" also lol
Jeanie always knew her awkward marriage wasn't going to work out but she spoke of her marriage as if things were ok or she was just reminiscing on the good moments
i think you should ask questions way before we ( the men ) even PROPOSE ! Like with Jeannie & Freddie , J let it known that she did not want to have kids before they got married ! because you wanna know what your dealing with before you even take a further step !
you know something in me tells me that Freddie is going to get lucky one of these days, Jeannie is going to give him that bundle of Joy that he needs❤... I feel it yow!!!!!!!
Jeannie did say that they had an agreement that they weren't going to have kids, but overtime she noticed the look in his eyes when they were around kids or kids were brought up. When women say they don't want to have kids people expect them to change their minds because of the emotional attachment most women get when wanting kids. So Freddie probably thought that in time that would happen for Jeannie.
I believe there are 4 things that should be discussed in this exact order: Sex, Money, Politics, Religion. If a couple can get those things down pact their fundamental basis will be resolutely strong and will have laid the groundwork for a successful marriage.
+blackfemme Yeah, unfortunately life changes people's perspectives. I didn't remember her saying that Freddie didn't want children initially. Hopefully they'll make it together no matter what happens.
When you talk about marriage bring up the topic of money. I told my fiance we couldn't get married cause we wouldn't be able to support ourselves. He tells me that gave him a goal to reach for and now he's driven to do as well as he can. I'm proud of him
My dad told me when I got engaged that you should be able to talk about 2 things in marriage: sex and money. If you can't talk about those, it's gonna be hard to have a happy marriage. I also think you should be on the same page about kids.
Not the camera looking at Jeanie when Adam said if you want kids and they dont they break up.....the camera man was either shady or could see into the future. 🤣🤣
The credit score one is another biggie. You don’t have to be rich to have a good score, but if you are irresponsible and neglectful of your bills, you are the same way in other areas of your life and that is a dealbreaker. My mom had a pretty good credit score and then she married my stepdad and her score plummeted right down along with his.
Jeannie was listening intently when Adam said that his friends broke up over one of them not wanting kids lmao she hoping that don't happen to her and Freddie.
@@fuluify that's just insurance in case she'd ever want to down the line. she did it a while ago. she still says she doesn't want kids. she'd probably be in her mid-40s. she won't be almost 50 having kids and jeezy has enough. i don't think she likes kids that much based on her interactions on the show whenever they're mentioned.
Nowadays I feel like the list of questions is even longer: -DO you have a secret baby? -Have you ever dated another man before? -Are you biologically a male? You wouldn’t believe the kind of crap people hide these days. 👀
NO...before you get through the first 3-5 dates you should be asking these questions so that when the answers don't match up you can break up sooner and not waste each others time.
For some reason I feel like Jeanie never loved Freddie, the way she talks about him and their relationship I never see it as her speaking of love. You can just tell
I think Adam is right when it came to a boy becoming a man at 30 I am 25 I’m young still figuring life out and my man is 29 about to be 30 we talked about kids and like planning EVERYTHING the moment we made it official he showed me EVERYTHING his finances and credit score how much he made and i was like 🤨 I thought he was showing off but then he made him and myself a spreadsheet me and him could edit and it was planning our apartment together our future house what we want to do before we have a baby and I felt better about moving forward and proud to call him my man
Ok I think adam should be the automatic alternate when tamera is not there. I would say he should be tamar's replacement but you can't have both him and tamera on the show at the same time. But adam is so honest and down to earth.
The point is (since you don't know or can't figure it out) that she's on the panel and bc she doesnt want to get married does not mean she doesnt want a relationship wherein there could also be deal breakers. Please. I don't want to have to break this down for you again. Step off and get yourself a life.
OMG here we go with the "you people". You don't know A THING about me. I don't need to watch the whole show to feel free to make a comment on one of the clips. It's a free country... right? I'm free to put my opinion here... right? Now. I'm going to respect your comment and opinion of Loni where you didn't have the same consideration for mine. God bless. Have a good nite. And stop with your own brand of hate"fulness" when someone has an opinion different from your own.
+Naomi Bargnani you are right , I think Loni is the most knowledgable person on global issues and it is evident when the topics arise in the show , even in relationships she does have an input , while I do agree sometimes she tries to bring up the bacon and brown liquor , when she opens up she actually is probably the best contributor on the panel
tbh you have to ask the little questions as well, how often do you shower, morning or evening how often do you talk to your mum?, do you have outstanding loans? could you afford your funeral if you were to die today? but seriously all aside, ask about everything.
Here's how you start the finances talk: "Have you felt like you were starving before?" Maybe they answer something light. You then make the distinction between hunger and starving. Hunger is in the moment, easy to fix. Go to the fridge and make something. Starving is different. Starving, you don't have anything to make in the fridge, and you cant fill it either. Your hunger is constant. Maybe it gets dark. Maybe they admit they have been. Maybe they don't. Maybe they've been lucky, they haven't had to know the pain. That's when you get real, and you lay it out; "I don't wanna starve. And I'm gonna work to make sure I don't. But if you want this to be 'we' then I gotta know you're working with me so we don't starve." and that can open up finances much easier.
Jeanie was so focused and interested in what Adam was saying when he was talking about how he had friends who broke up their marriage or relationship because they couldn't decide wether to have kids or not LOL
I really hope Jeannie works out with Freddie on having kids cause, eventually it will break them apart. Cause I think although Fred knew she didn't want kids he thought she would change her mind at some point.I hope she has at least 1 kid for him.
I been engaged since December after a couple of months 4 months a engagement is seen as a marriage when it comes to common law marriage. You have to claim them on your taxes and job application. Not to mention when you work with your fiance you have give them your code if their getting booked say in music.