Girl Chat: First Dates, and Unattractive Mates 

Yes

Yes but shes clearly much healthier and happier now.

Things happen when you get divorced. The divorce process for most people gets messy. Keep in mind. Also she had a better attitude initially, and then as the divorce progress her feelings got more negative.

That's why I don't pay attention to people's relationships bcuz she acted like he was so great look at them now

Right!!! I was like um how did I accidentally choose an old episode but they uploaded it recently wtf why so out of order

Ebonee May 😂🙌👍

Ebonee May Agreed. I don’t have a TV so this is all I watch!

Agreed 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

Preach honey 🙌

That's sweet

Thts so fucking cuteeeee

Awww :)))

Awwwww how sweet🥰🥰😍😍

Sierra Johnson j no.

Sierra Johnson day th

Sarah for real. Every comment is like “they shading her” blah blah like damn chill out

She'd never be uploaded if that's the case 😂😂😂😂😂

Perfect point Sarah!

Lmfao!!!! 😂🤣 good point

Perfect example referring to Tamera!

And they are just ignorant. Being from Africa and seeing how guys even have no idea whether it's a continent is just..I'm even speechless

And I bet most of them are from the south smh. My parents and I always knew it was a continent.

I love the real !!!the girls are awesome they are all Gorgeous !!

People just forget sometimes, I don’t think it’s very embarrassing

Lauren J People just forget that Africa is continent? Like they don’t know what a continent is or they actually think their is a single country out there called Africa? The US education system is failing.

I agree with u 💯

The physical initially pulls u in. The sexual gives you a good time & the emotional keeps you going. U right.

@@memshinlamed9079 perhaps God would give you children who are "ugly" and that will teach you to be humble and realise when you calling someone physical looks ugly you are insulting the Creator that gave them that look. Not only that, atleast he can have surgery (Not that he needs it. He is beautiful) but it's a shame u can't change ur ugly personality.

Michelle Moulton 💀💀💀

Stop lying LANI, you said there's no racist agenda against black men and black women and that where on the same boat with whites and asians, first get your facts straight before you come to an conclusion. If that's true why are laws more stricter in the black community than white communities, why are black babies being cared for and not dying as much by black doctors compared to white doctors, ya search for a video a white doctor was arrested for illegally selling black baby parts, and what about over 23 black missing children found on a truck kidnapped by white men in atlanta why aren't you talking about why isn't that in the media or even ellin on her show naming her wayfair pillow line after black missing children, why are cops, politicians and courts being more protective of white communities when gun violence happens. They say we need to protect our schools when black people been saying the same thing years back, why are black neighborhoods full of abortion centers which science has proven that abortions causes breast cancer, why are our streets being filled with liquor stores and strip clubs on just about every block, but when it happens to white neighborhoods all of a sudden the law makers wants to stop it. I could go on and on but it seems to me every since you'll got with that white guy you've changed, No not all white people are bad but that changes nothing about the distrefences all black people are facing with a globalized system built on white privilege and racism full of money, greed and racial supremacy. We can march with them, have them as friends, etc. but that changes nothing about them repping the benefits knowing or unknowingly. Where not on the same boat.... you can't deny that if we where we'd be free to travel any where we want without worrying about being discriminated against or even lynched because of the system set in place. I almost forgot a black man was electrocuted in alabama even after proven innocent for a crime he didn't commit against police, talk about that. Amber Guyger given 5 years compared to a black male police officer who almost did the same thing which he was given life in prison, talk about that. A homeless black women given 50 years in prison for trying to feed her children talk about that. Are we really on the same boat, are we, should us black people really be upset, yes because it's happening to us not them !

@Luísa Pinto Exactly my point, I mean I don't expect people to know everything about Africa but atleast what I've mentioned above. My 9 year old cousin knows the 7 different continents by heart. 😑😒

💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾I’m African btw

Preach. It automatically turns me off when someone is ignorant enough to not know if Africa is a continent. It shows how dumb someone is.

Someone recently asked me what the African flag is and I was like wtf

Luísa Pinto we know what the higher ups allow us to know about Africa . Forgive our ignorance a lot of us honestly don’t know (I did tho lol)

Right?! #petty!

She said her husband of 10 years, aren't they divorced?

Yes! That’s not cool!

Riiigghhttt?? So shaddy..

Joseph Guardado yes! This is an a clip

Changu Selemi IM SAYIN! It’s because in America, when people are talking about how they visited a nation in Africa, rather than saying “I once took a trip to Senegal,” they’ll say “I once took a trip to Africa.” They’ve been doing it for years and it’s really annoying.🙄

Changu Selemi so what?!

I could say the same. America is a continent not a country 😂

Vangie Nickens so you are dumbass

@@Di_777 Agreed! America isn't a continent. The Americas are two seperate continents. North and South. Central America is not a continent but a number of countries. I hate when people say america is a continent. It's not. the United States of America is a country in North America. But because it has America in the name people think it is a continent But back to the overall thing, I think ita juag because when schools talk about Africa they never talk about individual countries. Except for world history in the 7th grade where they talked about ancient Egypt. They really don't talk about Africa much. The education system in the U.S focuses mostly on western Europe and the USA. Not even neighboring countries get much attention. I dont know anything about Canada and most people here don't know that Mexico has states. It's just a lack of emphasis on history and current event. They have been trying to fix it in the educational system for years now but it is hard since so much power still remains at the local level (not even the state). Most kids take geography in middle school although now it is supposed to be spread out over the years, so really it makes sense that people wouldn't have much knowledge about Africa unless they are taught at home (either by parents or through their own reading, watching, etc) or have family from those areas.

They might needs non European's geography knowledge.

Ashley Gibson such a shame

A lot of black Americans claim to have no connection with Africa so this doesn’t shock me at all.

well i have to say that a lot of americans dont really recognise countrys from Europa that well after they are out of School from my experience geography isnt a priority for them@@LoveGod1987

@@roses6821 I agreed. I noticed geography is really not priority in school. I wonder if that's why most Americans are only English speaker due to not being culturally expose more. Then again I dont know

I feel the same, I have family and friends from different countries in Africa (Togo, Ghana, South Africa, etc.), I hate when people equate Africa to a country.

It's a continent they don't get that

I feel the same way then them say america is a country, im from costa rica! AMERICA IS A CONTINENT! god...

They need to go back to primary school ......😂😂

That's because bitches are retarded

facts

Well put 🤔

C R Very well SAID!!!!!

Wrd

Stop lying LANI, you said there's no racist agenda against black men and black women and that where on the same boat with whites and asians, first get your facts straight before you come to an conclusion. If that's true why are laws more stricter in the black community than white communities, why are black babies being cared for and not dying as much by black doctors compared to white doctors, ya search for a video a white doctor was arrested for illegally selling black baby parts, and what about over 23 black missing children found on a truck kidnapped by white men in atlanta why aren't you talking about why isn't that in the media or even ellin on her show naming her wayfair pillow line after black missing children, why are cops, politicians and courts being more protective of white communities when gun violence happens. They say we need to protect our schools when black people been saying the same thing years back, why are black neighborhoods full of abortion centers which science has proven that abortions causes breast cancer, why are our streets being filled with liquor stores and strip clubs on just about every block, but when it happens to white neighborhoods all of a sudden the law makers wants to stop it. I could go on and on but it seems to me every since you'll got with that white guy you've changed, No not all white people are bad but that changes nothing about the distrefences all black people are facing with a globalized system built on white privilege and racism full of money, greed and racial supremacy. We can march with them, have them as friends, etc. but that changes nothing about them repping the benefits knowing or unknowingly. Where not on the same boat.... you can't deny that if we where we'd be free to travel any where we want without worrying about being discriminated against or even lynched because of the system set in place. I almost forgot a black man was electrocuted in alabama even after proven innocent for a crime he didn't commit against police, talk about that. Amber Guyger given 5 years compared to a black male police officer who almost did the same thing which he was given life in prison, talk about that. A homeless black women given 50 years in prison for trying to feed her children talk about that. Are we really on the same boat, are we, should us black people really be upset, yes because it's happening to us not them !

I am European and I am offended too😂

Continent

@@nl9343 lol

Of course it is a continent. Oh but is it ? Is it not a country?!... Ok girl let's have a vote, oh yeah, we got it, it is a continent! This show is so inspirational, brings tears to my eyes every time.

Found it offensive actually 🙄

Anne 😍😍😍

Nice say my dear

Exactly 💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

Save me like this is the only way I can watch The Real

Mrs Norman And newer ones😤

You’re going to have to change your class schedule ... priorities 😂

Black in school? Wtf it ain’t got shyt to do w race and here come yu🙄

@@chardonnayred7607 she said being *back* in school not *black* in school

Exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

I know all those silk worms make beautiful things...your not vegan then?

Eyebrows lmao😂

B B negative and a little self hating. Keep an eye on that. Hard to be w someone that won’t let you pursue them. It’s exhausting

Yes now I know he really never gave a damn about me .I wouldn’t make someone I love feel bad about themselves . It’s done and I’m glad I’ve moved on from that situation. I will let God handle him.

Wow. Dang

She's a jumper

Exactly, so sad.

Nyce Queen they show old clips for ppl like me who just started watching the show...

Rim_su yesssss

Right

gvidalq posting a clip as a throwback where she MENTIONS him isn't shade... it's apart of her life and she talked about him on this show for 4 seasons straight and they are good ! She wishes him the best and they both moved on

It’s not like they don’t read the continuous comments of this

That's why it's the real....something real and happening

@@MajesticMyronn I get the one where she mentions him but vids like these where she's celebrating coming up on 10 years and was so excited when we know the reality can feel to intentionally ironic to be accidental.

Simphiwe Hlatshwayo honestly physical attraction is very important too

Physical attraction does play a part to an extent. If your partner is extremely attractive but has a shitty personality, it makes you unattractive to me, regardless of how they look. Having a good personality makes you 10x more attractive imo.

@@alex_n215 exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽