Its easy to feel sorry for Mr Msibi when listening to his story. However, we should not lose sight of the fact that this man ruined alot of people's lives 😢 At some point ziyabuya eza zinto
True . Yes he speaks good English but this man has audacity and entitlement forgetting that if he didn't involved crime he would have buried his family now. Broer doesn't even say " to everyone I've wrong I am sorry "
Exactly what I'm thinking. By committing crimes means you forfeit the right to do many things, including attending funerals etc....we understand the deep sense of loss and anger he felt but no man, benintshotsha ,nidubula Abantu and you still expect someone to sympathize with y'all, nah😮
These were his initial interviews. He had not been out of prison for long and emotions were still raw. His interviews now are completely different and he takes full accountability for his actions. His message is very clear about crime now and he has a completely different aura
Behind every mess there is Gods message. You had to go through what you went through so u all alone and understand how Gods loves you. If people would save you. You wouldn’t appreciate that it’s all God trying to use u. Stay strong I’ve been watching all your videos since 11:00 till now. Your mindset is so strong no one or no one can never take away that from you. People will criticize you, mock you, judge you not knowing God wanted to use u to change other people. God was with you strong solider if he wasn’t u would have been dead today. Keep spreading the word. Venting heals.
Once found myself posted something along these lines... Anyone who has direct contact with Oupa Steve K, please hook up this lad with him they could assist with rebuilding of libraries
Grootman you will still rise & be impactfull to our society. God knows what he's been building through all your experiences. Keep the faith in God & keep going. You are a leader in this society inspite of the temporal situation. Great things await you & God's favour is upon you. You are blessed beyond measure.
I didn't want this series to end. Thank you guys, this conversation was very interesting. I wish this guy nothing but success in his second chance in society.
It's also therapeutic for me to listen to you buti. Your self awareness has made me become more honest with myself. And that on its own is healing. Thank you. And all the best in your business, sadly im in no capacity to help as i am struggling currently. I wish you well😊
Am a man that is currently down trying to be on top again, the words you just shared are true, am learning a lot in this phase even though sometimes its hard to believe that one will be on top again but the love of God will and is carrying me and every men out there trying to be on top again. I appreciate you But' oMdala Appreciate you Ndoda.
Xolani Trinity Msibi, thank you so much for the interview, we have watched all of them that have been uploaded. Thank you to Agenda Network once again. Xolani has rehabilitated himself and he’s trying to make something out of him. We are not ignoring the fact that ruined a lot of peoples lives but he’s served his time to become what he is today. Allow him. Help if you can and let him take the necessary steps to get where he wants to be. Thank you Xolani and Agenda Network again.
When he was in Leeukop Prison we went as a singing church choir to worship with them, he was one of the congragates Oh God My Father!!!!! The scriptures,the interpretation this man!!!!
Kuhle nceku you are a living testimony here and out there.Actually you were the one conducting a lesson on the day .I came with a singing group called Vocal Union from Rivonia SDA church then
Thank you son for inspiration even to me as a granny you are blessed you are going to be great in life all that the enemy has stolen from you he is going to pay seven times I love you Jesus loves you more
Haibo what kind of comment is this??😮 ofcos life stops when your child U haven't seen for so long returns back home, no matter what he has done, a mother's love compells U to stops everything for their own child, any sensible mother would not even think twice about this.
He has had multiple points, the way he articulates himself is beautiful. This is 2 paths we as humans have and he recognised the wrongs of his ways, we give our own families multiple chances but can not with others. This is what is wrong with society. A family who is blessed never knows the other side and easily judges, but us who have had the misfortune of being in these shoes realise how easy it would have been to be in his shoes regardless of the gender.
As much as we’ve been enamoured by his story telling, he needs to remember that he is a criminal and there are consequences- the state owes him nothing. He must just reap the seeds of his actions. Especially bad. Askies baba. You are intelligent enough to understand that atleast.
He is not a criminal, he served his sentence and paid for his crimes, he's an ex-con, what you are doing is giving a dog a bad name so you can easily hang it, but my question to you is should we also judge you by all your short coming and the things you've gotten away with some of which maybe even your closest friends/family don't know about? What is the point of prison and serving a sentence if people like you will continue to be bigots, hypocrites and self righteous
All the best my brother, i believe that one day i will meet you brother and see how best we can support you, we need to show up as man for one another and lift each other up. On Rehabilitation : You are rehabilitated, listening from you makes me to conclude that self rehabilitation is key more than what the Institutions of Goverment can ever do, well done on self Mastery.👏 You have found yourself. Society must be on a lookout for a few rehabilitated people like you, you deserve all the support you can possibly get bro. All the best 🖐️
Its easy to say what comes around goes around, but understand that he did not have your life and he made his decisions according to the influences he was born into. If you are one of those people that believes in freewill ask yourself why you speak the language you speak and believe what you believe and you will realise that theres no such thing as freewill, we are all influenced to view life differently. Yes he hurt people, im sure i would hate him too if he hurt me or anyone I loved but the objectivist in me has learnt to realise that choices start well before they are made. The best thing we can do is choose how we influence him which inturn will influence us. While i dont agree with all your beliefs Sir, being from Alex, I respect your hustle... Crime is very attractive when you are in the hood, and being a humble worker feels like you are working backwards. I dont have sympathy for you, but you definitely have my respect for the path you are now taking!
Remember their crime back then was "we still from the rich of which rich being whites" and he was eating with them he didn't become selfish. I mean he even built rooms and took his younger brother to tertiary.
But when the chips were up you were busy eating the money with him, all of a sudden wena U can't celebrate a person coming from jail🙄🙄. Twisted society indeed
Mr Msibi, one way I can help you is to say, Today you gave me some insight into your heart. Of all the episodes your were featured on this is the only one where you complained from second one to the end. NO ONE WILL HELP YOU MY BROTHER guluva forr himself in this world. That is what I have learned very hard myself.
This guy has highlighted the most important parts and how marginalized we are and how we impose marginalization on others. Regardless of knowing exactly what you want to do the systems are put in place for you not to succeed. Let alone that he is an ex-offender. The so called funding agency does nothing for people. It's funny how as black people we have the word "Ubuntu" but we are the least race that helps one another. This guy can easily go back to crime and thrive and content to cause damage he chooses an honest living and still be oppressed. You can have all the brain power you need and extra, but no one will help you, but they are too quick to charge you for tax.
From owing millions to selling muffins 💔 He ruined many people's lives but atleast he's not a murderer. All the best Trinity. I hope your business succeeds. ❤
@ex2con Thank you for taking us through your journey. Have spent weeks glued to the channel waiting for another one of your videos. Wish you very well.
Absolutely! I lived your story as you told it. It's been important to learn from another perspective as it challenged my mind to not even take this specific video with offence but rather with understanding and empathy. You've won hearts of many and I know you'll come out alright.
Ay gette maaan.... put the drinks up. I drank massively to his series, great deliverance and what more can/do I need to say. Thank you so much lads, keep going!!!!
You can't expect life to stop just because you come from prison. Once released enjoy that moment of freedom then focus on your life and how to move forward. Being sore because people don't want to put they life on hold won't assist your progression in life. My dear brother you have been through a lot, now its time to transform life for the better!
The level of entitlement and grandiosity this man has, he forgets that he committed crimes against so many people. Keeps on telling us that he had a right to go bury his mother but someone refused him that opportunity when in actual fact he is to blame. Can you imagine if all prisioners could go bury their loved ones...at who's expense? I am so annoyed with him you did the crime deal with the consequences. Makes you wonder if he is repetant.
I understand your cry against entitlement and the need for accountability, but a rehabilitating institution surely must know what makes humans to grow in their journey to 'correction', what solidifies them in their decision to reform, surely being arrogantly denied an opportunity to bury a loved does not endear you to associating the institution with rehabilitation.
When growing up.. my mother used to say ""INTO ENTLE OKANYE EMBI OYENZAYO. UYAZENZELA"........... it was till I was older that I understood the depth of those words...... we suffer the consequences of our own actions... so choose how you treat ppl because it always comes back 10folds.............
Grootman I feel your pain but you must understand we as a society can't just allow you back, especially your family. You shamed us, you caused pain, the people you harmed are still traumatized. I feel you razo kodwa futsek you still a criminal. People will defend you until it happens to them or their family
Thanks for sharing your story, you managed to capture my attention with you eloquent ability to narrate your story, may the God you serve grant you the peace you seek and the desires of your heart
It's easy to judge from a belly that is well fed, and it is also easy to say he had a choice but majority of the criticism is coming from ladies who benefit from boyfriends who do crime. I am not opening a window for personal attacks, When someone comes to the forth and speaks about their struggle without filter we judge they alter/Sugar coat their story we judge again. 75% of people got jobs through connections which is another form of criminality but we all suffer a belief of my crime is better syndrome. He also has a right to say at least i wasn't a hitman but after watching most of his videos he survived the way he saw fit. We are dangerous creatures and practice evil in different forms.😊
@20:00 Kendrick Lamar - Father Time. This brother touches on an important subject that needs to be addressed in our community. Men got daddy issues too. & for as long as fathers fail on this basic responsibility, compounded with modern day’s society of disregarding the importance of a family unit…we’ll keep going down a slippery slope. “…egotistic, zero given f*** and to be specific, I need assistance with the way that I grew up, What’s the difference when your heart is made of stone, and your mind is made of gold, And your tongue is made of sword, but it may weaken your soul, My n*** ain’t got no daddy, grow up overcompensating, Learned s*** about being a man and disguised it as being gangster.. …and to my partnas that figured it out without a father, I salute you, may your blessings be neutral to your toddlers…”
@@ex2con thank you for sharing your story brother. Your natural wisdom & exceptional articulation is more precious than gold…& your new outlook on life is inspirational. I wish to meet and just engage in dialogue with you one day.
Thank you so mch my brother n u made mistakes n we know u leaned from them i wish bele ryt those people tht u wronged bt we appreciate u we learned a lot fom u i wish ur things comes ryt tht u trying 2 do God bless.
I don't feel sorry for him. He is an adult and he knows his actions have consequences. So he must work harder for a society he destroyed. So if he wants to open that business he must prove himself to society again.
