A friend once told me when I asked her how do someone handle the feeling of being left behind. Her answer was "You are racing with yourself, slow down and look around you. There are a lot things worth enjoying and stopping by, than constantly looking at the fancy cars ahead of you."
@@yohan433 Yeah, it was really hard shifting my mindset and I'm glad I did though slowly. Competition is good as it bring the best in us but you really can't compete with everybody. Somebody out there will just be better than you.
I can relate to this. Back in college most of the time I am the highest in our exams. And even when we took the board, I almost landed in the top ten. Ngayon yung mga batchmates ko either managers na or already have their own firms tapos ako eto rank and file pa din and yung sinusweldo ko every month eh sakto lang talaga. Pero one thing I learned in life is to enjoy my current situation and make the most out of it. Narealize ko din na ang buhay eh hindi naman payamanan o pagalingan o pasikatan, kung yun yung goal mo sa buhay eh you'll never achieve it because there is always someone out there that is much better than you in different aspects of life.
It's easy to get caught up in comparing ourselves to others and feeling like we're not where we should be in life. But it's important to remember that everyone's journey is different and there's no right or wrong way to go about things. 💜
I agree! We often compare ourselves to our friends or colleagues, but we shouldn't be doing that, instead we should view it as a motivation or like the quote that i saw on facebook it says something like "ill keep clapping for others' achievements while waiting for mine" I think this mindset is healthy because we won't feel any pressure.
This will just be a phase in everyone’s life. I agree with you and just to add, I often think that other’s situation is not same especially with priorities in their lives.
Love listening to your podcast and watching your vlogs while doing my remote work. Feels like I am listening to my friends while I am working plus, I am getting a lot of insights. Go go! Please don't get tired in making podcast and vlogs!
Super relate kay letter sender. 😢 Maybe you can take time to pray every night .. kase eto ginagawa ko para maovercome yung feeling na left behind ako. Sabihin mo na thank you lord kasi nagawa ko yung ganito, nakapagpundar ako ng ganto ganyan .. then marerealize mo after na maybe yung ibang tao have so much and seems to be ahead in life, pero ikaw marami ka na rin namang nagawang accomplishments na hindi nagawa ng iba at the age of 25, you have done so many great things in life na. And iba iba talaga tayo ng situation sa buhay. Iba iba ng values & priorities, magkakaiba tayo ng environment, kaya natural lang din na our lives will be different from others. Maybe yung iba kaya sila nakakapagtravel, reaching their goals kasi hindi sila breadwinner. Magkaiba ang buhay natin sa iba pero it doesnt mean na may nauuna or nahuhuli sa atin.
I can relate to the sender. These days kase parang I always feel left out and feeling ko lahat ng ginagawa ko is kulang. I am an OFW for almost a decade pero may mga times talaga na feeling ko di sapat yung nagagawa at nabibigay ko. May mga naachieve at napundar naman na ko na konti, pero may mga times talaga na i feel so down and kulang. Thank you Skyfam!
To hardworking daughter and a sister your season will come and while waiting enjoy and appreciate every single thing that you have right now, and i know he is just preparing you for the best season of your life. Cheer up, same vibes here hehe
Lovely conversation, sobrang nakakainlove yung samahan nilang dalawa. Inspiring yung content na meron sila, and it's not just a "content" iba yung tama kapag sila na ang mag kausap
It is really about understanding about your partners point in view in things, kase we are different in ways just have to understand each others feelings.
Lagi kong pinapanood episodes ng skypod. At bilang walang Spotify, nakakabitin tlga. I love how Slater and Kryz talks about the subject. 💙 Huhu sana may video version tlga ung skypod.
Hi to both of you, I just want to let you know that super helpful po kayo sa akin, especially when I am in the office, while working i keep on listening to your podcast ❤
Relate much but you know what I think ok lang yung ganto tayo i mean for now ha. Hindi nman sa hindi natin deserve of course deserve natin mag travel pero you know what just think about it, ikaw may ipon marami kang gnagawa. Isipin mo nlang later on, soooon, puhooon ma eexperience mo rin yan pag nakapag extra extra kana. Isipin mo nalang wala kang maiipon kapag gala ka ng gala unless sobrang laki ng sahod mo at ikaw lang alone sa buhay. It depends din nman hehe its a case to case scenario 😊 Sakin kase ok lang nman atleast I have iniipon na materials for our house soon, I have cow haha I have business, ok lang gumala mnsan.
I agree on this especially kapag parang single parent ka and nakaka konsensya kapag gagastos ng sa "wants" lang and not on needs. Soon all the "tiis-tiis muna" will eventually pay off.
Same po! Daming napupulot na aral and napakainspiring nila as a couple. They have a lot of nice things to share and I always look forward na manood sa videos/podcasts nila! :D
Hmmm suite to for me i dnt know Nagsikap naman ako i try my best work to get my goal to reach my Plan but i dont know Iam still here but ok now i understand now
Hi po. I would like to hear an advice coming from you about my situation. I'm living my life alone now, away from my mother, as in literally alone,by myself. I thought it would be as good as I'll gonna have my time and freedom but as of now, i am struggling emotionally due to finances, really. Is it natural?? Like i can't even asked for help because i have my pride. But i cannot bear it anymore.
Same!! I'm on my early 20's na and I keep on seeing my peers on social media living their life, successful and contented. Hindi ko mapigilang ma-feel na napagiiwanan na ako pero I think that's life! Kanya-kanyang pace sa buhay and eventually mararating din natin yung "success" na gusto natin basta we stick to our values, feet on the ground, and keep on working hard for ourselves. :>
Yes, pero tapos na ko sa stage na yan sa ngayon ang nararamdaman ko na lang ay "proud" para sa mga friends ko and I take that as a motivation na din for myself same tayo this happens in my early 20's 😁
Same here! Sobrang relate ako sa topic nila dito, especially dun sa part na mafifeel mong napag iiwanan kana ng mga friends mo, naranasan ko din yan last year, and those advice na binigay nila, I wish na mas marami pang makapanood neto bago sila tumungtong sa ganyang point para maging aware na din sila.
I think without Jesus in your life you will really fall into depression I couldn't imagine without God in my life. I have mental health issues and it's really brutal and many times I feel like it's the end of Me. I cannot survive anymore. This is it. But everytime I remember oh there's Jesus (because at times even if you are religious you forget about your faith when you faced hard trials) I get motivated again to bounce back.
