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im 27 years old and im feeling overwhelmed and lost in my life and dont know what to do next i feel as though im going through a midlife crisis

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@idowcare
@idowcare 10 дней назад
Just letting you all know I don’t need medical help and I’m not going to cause my self any harm or anything like that , thankyou for all being genuine I just feel low a lot lately , it will pass… it always does , when I feel better I’ll be doing things to help make my self get back to the old me Thankyou ❤
@charliegogarty516
@charliegogarty516 10 дней назад
Stay strong mate ❤
@brianlawlor4221
@brianlawlor4221 10 дней назад
Man, work less, enjoy more. You can't like your job and it can drag you down! Do you sleep well?? Sleep is so important... I love the "do do" bit, I always say that shit 😂 I think you need to quit your job or work less and start enjoying freedom and life. I know work is needed for cash flow BUT mental health comes first and I'd rather be flat broke and have my mental health. Don't drink alcohol for a while, spend quality time with your mum. It doesn't cost money to go places with ur mum. Honestly you need a life reset!! And trust me seeing improvements to your day/life day by day is actually a great feeling. So reevaluate your life, work less and enjoy life more. Easier said than done but work and lack of sleep can play a role. Maybe I'm wrong but I'm all ears man so don't hesitate to reply mate. From Ireland.
@johnnyjohnstone9125
@johnnyjohnstone9125 10 дней назад
Take it easy bro,life is worth living,it will get better
@HOLLASOUNDS
@HOLLASOUNDS 10 дней назад
You feel like this now, and 10 years later when you're My age it will be the same. This world is for the corrupt and evil to succeed, and the nice guys finish last is just fact so either accept your the nice guy who finish last or be the bad guy who succeed out of other people's failures. When We work at these dead end jobs those CEOs of those brands live like Gods while paying You as little as possible, no matter how hard you work, they will drop You like a bit of rubbish at any moment.
@HOLLASOUNDS
@HOLLASOUNDS 10 дней назад
@@brianlawlor4221 Thats all well and good however your expected to work 40 to 50 hours a week and use the majority of your waking life working or doing work related tasks. Traveling to and from work, washing work cloths, planning free tome around work, then feeling to tired to do anything or think about anything other then work. You want to leave but those bills won't pay them selfs, and good luck getting government benefits. I would never kill My self but the thought regularly crossed My mind because if this is all live is supposed to be I'm not interested in taking part.
@Destiny51090
@Destiny51090 10 дней назад
Takes a real man to admit when he’s feeling down .
@the.deadpoet
@the.deadpoet 9 дней назад
💯 💯💯
@Mick-ke1kv
@Mick-ke1kv 14 дней назад
At 41 im a lot older than you pal. For years i was stuck in a rutt like urself. I had a longing for the enjoyment i used to feel as a carefree teenager. So one day i thought fuck it, i started doing the things i liked when i was young and happy. Got my fishing rod out, bought myself a skateboard and a bmx and im still on them all the time. If people think its a bit weird i don't give a shite because i enjoy it. I know this aint gonna be a solution for everyone but maybe try doing the things you were doing when you last felt happy in life. Kind wishes from ireland
@sikclast
@sikclast 12 дней назад
Did and do enjoy class A’s
@CY-187
@CY-187 12 дней назад
So fucking true mate, you're spot on
@Journey_Awaits
@Journey_Awaits 12 дней назад
I came to the conclusion myself, call it immaturity pride, my only goals now will be to entertain myself and have fun while making enough money to live, ditch the pressure
@folksurvival
@folksurvival 12 дней назад
No family?
@TayWoode
@TayWoode 12 дней назад
Not weird at all. I do similar, I always tell people never to lose your childhood sense of enthusiasm and wonderment otherwise you end up being mentally stagnant and boring
@mrthomas394
@mrthomas394 12 дней назад
Iam in a hospital bed watching this now.... Men go through so much hidden mental health issues and never talk about it... Your video is inspiring men mate thanks for posting this video.... 🙏🙏🙏
@DannyFR30
@DannyFR30 2 дня назад
That's usually where I live! Sick of hospitals. Just wanna be healthy so I can get out and graft 😢 can't even walk atm. Awaiting more surgery. Stay tough, mate 🤟
@mrthomas394
@mrthomas394 2 дня назад
@@DannyFR30 mine was spinal surgery it was very painful and still is but iam getting stronger every day' having full health is the richest you can ever be in life' thanks bud 👍
@kualamercedes1963
@kualamercedes1963 12 дней назад
You may feel lost in life but you will never know how many people you have touched with your sincere heart. This type of video is rare on RU-vid these days.
@MargaretHorridge-fy5bx
@MargaretHorridge-fy5bx 10 дней назад
Absolutely.Does he realise how brave and honest he is to open his heart like that.If I was 40years younger watch out!!!!! Rare person total respect ❤❤❤
@Aaron-fw2xo
@Aaron-fw2xo 10 дней назад
Q
@Aaron-fw2xo
@Aaron-fw2xo 10 дней назад
@@MargaretHorridge-fy5bxq
@user-mu2bj7cf8h
@user-mu2bj7cf8h 8 дней назад
@@Aaron-fw2xo "Q" Meaning?🥴 get off your mommas iPad you dweeb and go to bed lmao
@dessicatedpickles7755
@dessicatedpickles7755 12 дней назад
Mate, I'm a fifty year old man and you have made me cry. We suffer so much for this society we inhabit and there are so many men now coming together. Peace brother
@8NEXTONE8
@8NEXTONE8 8 дней назад
same
@Southboth
@Southboth 6 дней назад
@TheHarlemShow
@TheHarlemShow 4 дня назад
Respect 👊
@MrDannySlade
@MrDannySlade 4 дня назад
What men coming together? Not that case in Uk. No one cares about anyone in this world. I’m about to commit
@ldzmn
@ldzmn 8 дней назад
I felt the same way at 38. I was stuck, no passion, just working a career I fell into for the money that wasn't fulfilling. 15 years deep and actually made me feel sad thinking I'd be doing it for the rest of my life. It was only my family that kept me going. I decided to make a complete career and lifestyle change. I applied to become a Firefighter. I got in after my second try. I'm now neay 40 and not long finished intense training. I'm now on station, out helping people. I cannot put into words how much this has changed my mental and physical wellbeing. I have passion, I have my life back. It has taught me so many lessons. Its never too late to do anything you want to do. Just go for it.
@gigatank1854
@gigatank1854 4 дня назад
I’m 30 and feel exactly as you said before and joining the fire service has been something I’ve been considering more and more but I can never seem to find any roles for full time firefighters. Did you look for roles where you currently lived or across the country?
@scott-21-
@scott-21- 3 дня назад
Congratulations on taking the change, I work in an office and I cannot stand it but it pays the mortgage! Maybe one day I can take the leap.
@audiokilla
@audiokilla 6 дней назад
Dude, I’m 38 and I’ve lost a parent, had a divorce, stuck in a job where in spite of putting my best work on recently being completely unappreciated by those up above. I’ve spent many moments feeling sad, lost, lonely, isolated. It’s hard as a man we are supposed to be stoic all the time. There’s so much Joy out there even if you don’t see it right now I promise. Rose tinted days warmed by the sun. You’ve just got to persevere this is your stoicism arch. Be strong bro ❤
@liamcooke1859
@liamcooke1859 День назад
31 and lost my mam last november. I was going through a bad patch anyway but losing my mam has knocked everything out of me
@audiokilla
@audiokilla День назад
@@liamcooke1859Liam, losing a parent is one of the worst things we endure in life. I don’t have all the answers but I do know is this. Is she wouldn’t want you being so hard on yourself. We’ll never get those final words or missed moments back in but we life on in the circumstance and in the paradox of how did this happen to me. It’s so cruel but we won’t be the first people for this to happen to and we won’t be the last. I promise it does get better. Now when I see things that remind me of my dad I laugh and cry. It’s not just tears anymore. It’s like drinking poison and waiting for everyone else to get sick. Be strong my brother ❤
@andybarry3435
@andybarry3435 16 дней назад
I turn 58 this year and have spent the last 40yr working myself into an arthritic cripple. Lost my mother 6yr ago and spent 7yr trying to care for a father with dementia. Last year my daughter had a breakdown and got sectioned. Life's a bitch fella but we just gotta keep going. Try finding some time out for yourself.
@tayclift5322
@tayclift5322 14 дней назад
Have you ever considered that we are actually in hell? Hope your daughter is well now 🙏
@voiletwhitehorse
@voiletwhitehorse 14 дней назад
Yep ,25 years working as a cleaner ,my traps are killing ,constant muscle flares in skull ,vertigo ,pissed right off ,dropped hours ,there's no winning in this matrix
@andybarry3435
@andybarry3435 14 дней назад
@@tayclift5322 Yes she's out and doing fine but medicated. It's a man made hell by deliberate design.
@DazPreston69
@DazPreston69 14 дней назад
One in a million hope your ok ❤ Daz preston69 RU-vid
@barryclegg9961
@barryclegg9961 14 дней назад
​@@tayclift5322 spot on... there must be a heaven because this is hell
@TheYummyMummyChannel
@TheYummyMummyChannel 12 дней назад
Just a quick note, things always feel worse at night. Don’t think at night, think in the day. Keep going, you’d be surprised what’s around the corner x
@user-ld6bb7fi8u
@user-ld6bb7fi8u 11 дней назад
100% mate
@MickBollocks
@MickBollocks 9 дней назад
@jordandunn5834
@jordandunn5834 7 дней назад
How do you stop thinking at night though ? If I had the answer to that my life would be so much better .
@TheYummyMummyChannel
@TheYummyMummyChannel 7 дней назад
@@jordandunn5834well, I try looking at fun RU-vid videos or ASMR or even something to distract my attention. Also, I tell myself that things always seem worse at night and that I promise myself that I will think of it in the day and push it to the back of my mind. It’s nearly perfect for night time relief. It does take some practice though
@DarkWarrior012
@DarkWarrior012 7 дней назад
God is the answer he’s the one that’s always there for us Watching and listening to us so subtlety Turn to him
@murdomcdonald9670
@murdomcdonald9670 6 дней назад
I feel ya mate. I’m 24 and never felt so lost before. Been down a bit lately so don’t feel like you’re alone. Chin up and lets hope things get better🤝
@leebro9286
@leebro9286 6 дней назад
I’m 37 with 3 kids. An am goin thru some tough times with a couple of family members health. When your feeling low try to stay positive and always remember there is alway people out there that have been dealt a shittier hand than you. Stay strong brothers 😢❤💪🏻
@kylebuddo
@kylebuddo 2 дня назад
Hope you guys are feeling better. Therapy helps if you can get it. Just talking to someone you know if you can, share the burden.
@unofficialleeds9084
@unofficialleeds9084 11 дней назад
28 and going through the same feelings. We've got this 👊
@tucson_1
@tucson_1 9 дней назад
same bro #1995kids
@tucson_1
@tucson_1 9 дней назад
Look on the bright side at least we are not Gen Z kids they got it worser than us millennials
@user-nv2wt4hi8t
@user-nv2wt4hi8t 14 дней назад
'So, guys, I'm 27 years old and I feel like I'm go through a mid life crisis. I just finished work and that's why it's so dark' - Bro is literally me.
@AnonymousWaz
@AnonymousWaz 13 дней назад
Just want to thank you for being one of the ever unmentioned folks that actually keep the world turning. Cheers fella
@user-nv2wt4hi8t
@user-nv2wt4hi8t 13 дней назад
@@AnonymousWaz That means more than I can say. If you are one of those who also works in the quiet to keep the world spinning, thank you too. Thank you all the same.
@ElliotsM3
@ElliotsM3 13 дней назад
I had the same when I was 23, this is how I helped myself: I no longer care, I don’t argue, I don’t go looking for trouble, found a girl and do everything for her, learnt to play guitar, picked back up in the gym, changed my job. Little changes/hobbies/interests can change your day/mood massively
@audie-cashstack-uk4881
@audie-cashstack-uk4881 12 дней назад
The last thing you ned ro be doing is telling men happiness is found in females that will be 90z% of them downfall
@harpsailorharp6716gg
@harpsailorharp6716gg 10 дней назад
so true 👍
@Nclchitchat
@Nclchitchat 9 дней назад
Small steps, small positive achievements. Even the longest journeys start with one small step.
@K_____
@K_____ 7 дней назад
Running/gym is so good for your mental state of mind. You’ve got this bro 💪🏻
@Rizmo710
@Rizmo710 5 дней назад
This was me, I done exactly this, 23 year old me with a gf and all, now she’s gone, I’m lost. I have no job, no girlfriend pretty much no life what so ever I’m so stuck and lost in my own fkn head I don’t know what to do anymore
@3secondsago894
@3secondsago894 5 дней назад
A quote stuck with me throughout my life: If you are going through hell, keep going!
@goingdark1916
@goingdark1916 12 дней назад
You are empathetic fella… Some will see this as a sign of weakness and take advantage of you… Don’t let anyone make you feel like you are not worthy of existence let alone you as a person… Stay strong! We are living in very uncertain times whereby greed has taken over and a lot of people are so entrenched in their own selfish cesspool! Thankfully there are many that care! I have endured a lifetime of crap including serious illness… Served my Country in the British Army… Time spent serving within the Fire & Rescue service… Enduring my current battle with cancer… All that being said… Life is good! Turn every negative in to a Positive! Stay strong! Be good and more importantly… Stay safe! 😉
@damonherring136
@damonherring136 10 дней назад
@@goingdark1916 full respect to you serving in the British Army 🪖
@Wayne_jetski
@Wayne_jetski 12 дней назад
41 year old male here. This is something every man goes through, just take note of the fact that every x10 years you become a different person. If you think back x10 years at how you viewed the world and our morals, you will evolve in to a different person. Think of it as living multiple different life’s, one life in your teens, one life in your 20’s, 30’s, 40’s etc etc…. Make small talk with strangers, smile at a cashier, hold he door open for someone, any kind act for a stranger you will receive back from the universe. Try it
@darrenjames5795
@darrenjames5795 10 дней назад
💯 great post so true.
@sparkles1260
@sparkles1260 7 дней назад
That's true - an act of kindness will always make you feel better .
@_Andy_A
@_Andy_A 3 дня назад
Great point, so well put. I've just entered my 40s too, so we'll see where that takes us, been highs and lows each decade so far!
@beomc4539
@beomc4539 16 дней назад
My Mum taught me something too. She said "count your blessings". When you're focused on your blessings, you're not thinking about the problems in life. Problems we all have but blessings are what gets you through. Stay strong brother.
@TheHulksMistress
@TheHulksMistress 13 дней назад
Gratitude really is a life changer. Instead of "I really miss those times" it could be "I'm so grateful I had those times, and I can have better times again". We can put a positive spin on even the most difficult situations.
@NelsonVanDweller
@NelsonVanDweller 12 дней назад
​@@TheHulksMistress humans are wired to be negative. Survival tool. We can try be positive and grateful but our brains will always point out the negative . I think once you learn to accept that, you find life easier. I just let my brain keep moaning but just crack on with life lol.
@carmelaburrone5029
@carmelaburrone5029 12 дней назад
I agree 💯%. Regardless of what you're going through in life, there's always something to be grateful for.
@e2theoc
@e2theoc 5 дней назад
I feel you, 😢 38 and I feel totally lost- randomly stumbled upon your video. You’re not alone too.
@tanthaman
@tanthaman 4 дня назад
Are you male or female
@kevinconway2965
@kevinconway2965 День назад
38 too and the exact same. I feel like I was 21 only yesterday. I just assumed I'd have everything figured out and sorted by this age. I feel like I'm gonna wake up tomorrow and be 58.
@REVONEWS1
@REVONEWS1 6 дней назад
32 ended up with depression at 29 lost my House, job, and willpower, tried to end myself but Jesus saved me started going to church just over a year a go Jesus has given my life purpose and spiritual guidance, depression has no place in me anymore i cannot recommend enough to anyone the power of Jesus Christ.
@nicolahodges2
@nicolahodges2 5 дней назад
Amen 🙏 Jesus saved me too 🙏🙏🙏
@REVONEWS1
@REVONEWS1 5 дней назад
@@nicolahodges2 Amazing 🙏 I never thought I would be this happy and so content With my life, no stress what so ever just give it all up to God.
@Somerandomchristiandude
@Somerandomchristiandude 5 дней назад
Amen, Jesus saved me 23 years ago. I was an addict with no hope, on a path of self destruction. I couldn't save myself but when I heard the gospel I felt the love and power of God, my life began to turn around. I'm so thankful for the salvation that Jesus freely offers us all. Iove my life, thanks to God's mercy.
@kristacharlton13
@kristacharlton13 4 дня назад
I was born knowing and loving my God as I know him & Jesus my family are non believers and a atheist. However my atheist beautiful mummy then become a believer Here to wake up the mass God and Jesus is not a religion Religion is a cult and segregation And judgment God is us And Jesus was sent to wake up the mass as it has been controlled for billions of years Beyond control This is mother gia Not the government Which means mind -control Technology has rocketed through the roof humanity has gone to pot!!! ❤💓🙏❤️⭐️💎🌍🎤👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️❤️🙏
@PaulWilkinson-Wf11
@PaulWilkinson-Wf11 4 дня назад
Amen 🙏🏼
@timothycooke7775
@timothycooke7775 14 дней назад
I very rarely comment on RU-vid, but had to say something. In some ways, it’s almost a breath of fresh air to come across a video like this, I feel like you don’t get many videos on RU-vid like this anymore, the majority of RU-vid is all just about getting likes, views, subscribing and doing shoutouts to sponsors, it’s exhausting, but there’s real humanity behind your video and it’s a brave thing to share it. But I can totally relate to this, I’ve worked in call centres and offices for years and at 27 (32 now) felt like my life was going nowhere, but eventually, got a better office job, felt a little bit happier for a while, but ultimately didn’t feel fulfilled. And the truth is I never really knew what I wanted to do with my life and I believe if you don’t know, life will choose for you. But what I’ve learned was by doing something that I hated doing for a long time, that helped sway me in the direction of doing something that I do love. I eventually did find my dream job, although can longer do it temporarily, but that’s another story. The point is, I believe happiness and fulfilment can be found in the places you least expect it to be, you just have to keep looking and you’ll know when you find it. Hope this helped.
@alanharrison2726
@alanharrison2726 12 дней назад
44 year old buddy , most blokes go through this ,
@dudleyshandmadeshop
@dudleyshandmadeshop 11 дней назад
I was 29 when I lost everything and lost my mum. All my 20s I had to look after my mum.
@sst6358
@sst6358 9 дней назад
I feel lost have done for years 😢 lm a 58 year old female , worked hard all my life .
@SagaciousFrank
@SagaciousFrank 9 дней назад
I went from a quarter life crisis straight into the midlife crisis I'm currently in now. 😂 Working in a repetitive, mind numbing, soul destroying dead-end job around 🔔🔚s doesn't help matters, either. Plus being in a country which is proactively ruining any prospect of building a future through honest hard work, while promoting the opposite.
@frugalhappy9572
@frugalhappy9572 9 дней назад
Including myself...
@Patriot95379
@Patriot95379 11 дней назад
You are a better human being than any of the managing directors, top managers and the money grabbers. Thank god for people like you as you give me the strength to carry on. I’m the excactvsame as you and it’s so refreshing to hear a sensitive, intelligent and caring man talk. Thankyou so much 👍
@pastandcurrent
@pastandcurrent 12 дней назад
Im 43 this year and mate i can relate so much, from the outside i live a perfect life , beautiful wife, 3 kids, i homeschool them so can holiday when i like , no financial worries and no 9-5 job, infact more free time than anybody i know , yet i feel like you i dont know what to do on a day to day basis at all, i feel sad and depressed a lot of the time and the fact i dont trully have a reason only makes me feel worse, 😢 Well done for sharing bro
@jo18533
@jo18533 4 дня назад
How did you land the no 9-5?
@pastandcurrent
@pastandcurrent 4 дня назад
@jo18533 thinking outside the box .. I make a lot of money online , loads of ways to make good money these days pal just gotta take advantage of the modern world
@pastandcurrent
@pastandcurrent 4 дня назад
Having said that the fact of don't really have to do very much is I think part of the problem.. So it doesn't lead to happiness having money and not needing to work I can assure you of that.
@harryl9yearsago788
@harryl9yearsago788 14 дней назад
Its actually nice to here someone being truley honest, takes a man to do that. We are all in the same boat mate it all makes us stronger
@AmbientShores
@AmbientShores 10 дней назад
Best profile image ever.
@silverdale3207
@silverdale3207 16 дней назад
As a 59 year old who like you struggled in my 20s, I've just got one thing to say "when you're going through hell, keep going". You'll eventually find your place in life where you're happy, just takes some of us longer than others.
@andresmontana4466
@andresmontana4466 12 дней назад
I was completely lost at yor age. Dont have parents I am bonded with. Both are nuts. Felt soon lost and alone for 15 years. Married now to my best mate and have 2 great kids. Life is fucking hard. Good luck.
@HOLLASOUNDS
@HOLLASOUNDS 10 дней назад
Dont sell people pipe dreams.
@MickBollocks
@MickBollocks 9 дней назад
I’m 54 and it’s got gradually worse over 30 years..I have had a terrible life and I’m totally isolated..10 years of total isolation will break any man as it just makes you sad..I can’t open up to strangers or professionals about what I’m going through and most nights I ask god to take me out my misery as I’m too cowardly to take my own life..Sending love from Leeds England ❤
@andresmontana4466
@andresmontana4466 8 дней назад
@MickBollocks Been there brother. Hope things improve for you asap
@choleyhaslam101
@choleyhaslam101 6 дней назад
What a sweetheart I’m crying at the lovely story about your mum.
@RidingThroughGrief
@RidingThroughGrief 9 дней назад
Hi there - genuine and honest video. Men’s mental health is often over-looked. I’m 51 and recently lost my wife, the love of my life, and my life has been devastated. You will go through times where you don’t know what’s going on, or you can’t see a way forward or what purpose your life has, it’s normal and lots of people have been through the same thing. You are most definitely not alone in feeling the way you do, we all feel lost at times. Like you I’ve turned to this platform to try and come to terms with grief, a different thing, I know, but I feel lost too so there’s definitely things you’ve said that resonate with me. Good luck my friend, you are fortunate to be a young guy, take care :)
@kateyoung2913
@kateyoung2913 12 дней назад
Bless you. This video just appeared on my RU-vid feed. Hope you had a good sleep and thank you for your honesty. You never know what’s around the corner. Stay strong 😊
@grandpre9442
@grandpre9442 14 дней назад
At 45 years old all i can offer is this... I honestly think there are whispers or signs along our own journey. Be aware of your surroundings, if something happens out of the ordinary take note of it. Look into dream meanings, they are accurate in what you're going through at any given piont in your life. When you think you are shrinking, even if its confidence, remember; everday you are stronger never weaker, because even when you was at the most confident time of your life, that you had never seen the things the 'you of today has seen' Also, follow and understand all the clichés! They are so true. My own top three are .. Everyone's perception is their own reality. A Picture paints a thousand words. Never let someone mistake your fairness for weakness. One more... Never a truer word said than in jest. Best of luck in your own journey, youll have good days youll have bad ones, just keep doing your best to improve, Oh, one last thing. Never look down on anyone unless your trying to help them back up. Next homeless person you see, Offer them a bite to eat or drink and you'll be glad you did. All the Best Grand
@richardjones8684
@richardjones8684 10 дней назад
Fair play mate … just genuine straight from the heart . Shame not more people like this. Keep fighting the good fight
@remekster
@remekster День назад
Love this brother, thanks for your words! Keep going
@squareapples5118
@squareapples5118 16 дней назад
Don't worry and never be pressurized by society to believe that you should have everything figured out by late 20s or even 30s. It took me 40 years to get my act together. Almost gave up on life at your age, and again several times into my 30s. Things get better and breakthroughs often tend to happen when least expected.. I used to work alternating days and nights too.. This probably sounds like a cliche, but the rough patches are what build character and wisdom, so that you can play it forward later in life and help some other people going through similar stuff at a later stage.
@1greenMitsi
@1greenMitsi 15 дней назад
Yup, if you can just work hard and get used to saving a little bit of coin and even begin investing in your 20s, youll be ahead of me and most ppl
@not2longnow
@not2longnow 14 дней назад
+1 on the original post. I've also been so much shit in the last 5 years. I turn 40 in September. People have really shown their true colours too. It's been eye opening for various reasons. Please look up Jason fox. His books are amazing and will help you focus in life. I am personally ex military and emergency services. I have had to course-correct many times, there is no shame in that. "If your going through hell, just keep going". Your not alone lad. Look at where you want to be in life and get amongst it. Discipline is very important. You got this.
@richardadkin7226
@richardadkin7226 14 дней назад
I feel the same at 48 It is so hard to pull yourself out of it. You're not alone. Sending a big hug 🙌
@justinwatson6932
@justinwatson6932 18 часов назад
Hey mate! We're all here for ya! I was brought up by my single mother and she is my rock, it is great to see a young lad that cares so damn much! Much love from Australia! ❤
@redhead13001
@redhead13001 День назад
You're a legend man keep your head up. Everything you said about your mam resonated with me deeply. You have me in tears here, my mam is the best person I know and also the reason that I'm still here. I went through a major depression when I was 24 and did not think I'd get through the other side. All things must pass, love from Ireland
@hollycook1024
@hollycook1024 12 дней назад
Your experiencing an awakening, its all good..Thankyou for being honest,now its time to change your life...put yourself first
@Farfromweak12345
@Farfromweak12345 16 дней назад
I empathise with you because i really really understand what your going throug. Getting in shape and doing mindfulness meditation is a good way to look after your mental/physical health so it's worth looking into that. I'm here for you man, sending a lot of love ❤️
@del7330
@del7330 5 дней назад
Very well done matey, good on you for saying how you feel. No judgment here. Only compassion. ❤
@shaquellervn655
@shaquellervn655 3 дня назад
I’m not sure why the universe (or the algorithm) brought your video to my feed but I appreciate that it did because I feel like this has pretty much summed up how I’ve felt the last few years tbh! Not quite a midlife crisis but I do feel like I’ve lived a thousand different lives! Good on you for being honest and speaking out, it will do wonders for you down the line and with a bit of time and patience things will fall into place exactly how they are meant to!
@mohammedqamar7942
@mohammedqamar7942 16 дней назад
We're all in the same boat. Going through our own individual daily struggles. You're not alone. Stay strong and keep moving forward. Things do get better with time my friend.
@chokethewoke746
@chokethewoke746 16 дней назад
Or worse.
@luke7144
@luke7144 11 дней назад
​@@chokethewoke746they certainly can mate, but then they can get better after that. Perception and mindset and support network are huge. And hobbies.
@dilysjenkinson1168
@dilysjenkinson1168 16 дней назад
ive lost my mum, and yet i came through it, didnt think i had it in me
@Haabsa22024
@Haabsa22024 3 дня назад
Damn that was such refreshing honesty. I was literally glued to what you were saying. I think your mum would be very proud. Seems like she raised a very decent son. WIth that attitude you will go far in life in any discipline. Guess you just need to find what's fulfilling for you and go for it.
@terryknight2048
@terryknight2048 4 дня назад
Thank you for making this video… I have felt and feel very much the same!! I feel in a rut and can’t do anything right without upsetting others in the process. Feel like I never have time for myself!! My life just feels like Groundhog Day… I feel so so lonely… I’m fed up of always feeling so lonely.. Anyway I just want to say thank u for sharing your video.. Tezza xx
@charliegistmusic
@charliegistmusic 16 дней назад
It’s a crazy internal battle. Our flesh makes us feel like we are failing and on the other hand our spirit is calling us for breakthrough. I’m 26 and feel the same as you. Your not alone
@harpsailorharp6716gg
@harpsailorharp6716gg 10 дней назад
Good words here 👏 ❤❤
@Amy-yc6rt
@Amy-yc6rt 9 дней назад
The Holy Spirit brings a peace in your heart like no other 🙏🏻♥️
@scousepie2
@scousepie2 16 дней назад
I was the same as you, I felt I never fitted in had a major inferiority complex. My Life started after 30. Met the right woman. We had 3 children and that kept us busy. I think it's worse now with social media and the financial pressures on the population.... And I always say, Look behind the curtain. Try and understand what's happening out there. I question everything and Believe nobody. My Tip: Never live beyond your means. Never get in to Debt as this is a killer for your mental health. And just be the best person that you can. I know we are all different. I hope you feel better and live each moment as if it's your last - tomorrow is promised to no body .!!
@sharpy182
@sharpy182 9 дней назад
Subbed. Glad you made this post, and you were able to put it into words, where most people struggle. feeling lost and not being able to verbally communicate it just brings more frustration to the situation, but you manage to do it. There will be a lot of us out there that will benefit from hearing those words to explain how we feel. thank you.
@dannybowden5296
@dannybowden5296 11 дней назад
Good on you for sharing with us; it's very much appreciated. It's my first time watching one of your videos so I don't know the context of why you feel lost in life but, know this, most people are winging it, blagging it, faking it 'til they make it etc. I turned 42 this year and have had around 70 jobs, have 3 diplomas and I've still got no idea what I want to do in life really. Some things I have found over the years though is that there's sunshine after the rain, calm after the storm and, maybe more pertinent to your situation, working nights is not good for our health, both mental and physical. The good news is, you're working and have a purpose, and it's always better starting from that position than having no purpose or income, you have a mother who loves you dearly, as you do her, which is worth it's weight in gold many times over (my mother is also my hero-ine) and you're mobile, which opens up so many doors in terms of seeing new places, doing new things, trying new forms of employment, meeting new people etc. It's often hard to gain a fresh perspective on your own life, but like many have said below, a good way is to count your blessings, be thankful for what you do have, what you experience and who you share those experiences with. On an evening before bed, and at points through the day, I give thanks for mother nature, the Universe, my parents, my dog, my friends, my workshop and anything that has happened that day that I appreciate and am grateful for. It helps to change the mindset, one step at a time. Sending love to you and your mother, and all the very best wishes to you both. Take care pal, and thanks again for sharing.
@danweiser5247
@danweiser5247 13 дней назад
Thanks for sharing dude. You're not alone. Im 43, and completely confused with life. As the years pass, the burden gets heavier. I hope you find some clarity in the time ahead. Love the part about your mum. That resonates.
@marthacunningham2028
@marthacunningham2028 12 дней назад
@@danweiser5247 But you have a life and you should make the most of it because none of us know how long we have
@MichelleB44
@MichelleB44 15 дней назад
I'm training to be a counsellor. You are absolutely doing the right thing talking. I felt really lost a few years after having my children. I didn't know who I was other than being a mum. You can break the rut you feel in. Try one new thing, even if you go on a nice holiday with your mum. Mum's are awesome. So glad you have her support. I'm sure she loves you as much as you love her. So refreshing seeing a man, who is so self aware. Which is a really positive quality you have there.
@USAF-NGAD
@USAF-NGAD 11 дней назад
Your video randomly just popped up in my feed, much love from America. I’m about the same age as you and feel the same way, lotta younger people are feeling a bit lost in this world rn, but WE GOT THIS KING 👑.
@seanpedrosa
@seanpedrosa День назад
Really respect you for being so honest and open. Keep talking, keep being brave and I feel like good things will come your way. I really wish good things for you ❤
@brybry2104
@brybry2104 13 дней назад
Think you’re an intelligent lad. You speak well and in a world full of shit heads it’s refreshing to hear. You’ve probably done more for people in this video than you’d ever know. I was so lucky to have the best mam. Most selfless loving person and would have done anything for her kids. She died in 2020 but one of the last things she did for me has really given me a real chance. The only problem i have is she seen the years of grief I caused but never got to see me now when I m in my best place I ve ever been. Cherish the moment and just know everything works out. Keep a hold everyone
@BrianVanClough
@BrianVanClough 10 дней назад
She'll be watching over you mate
@RickyB464
@RickyB464 14 дней назад
Me too. I'm 27 and feel exactly the same. I've been going through a 'mid-life crisis' the past two years. I've been completely on my arse but getting there slowly. You aren't alone.
@user-gj4bn9sr9l
@user-gj4bn9sr9l 13 дней назад
U planning on dying at 55 that’s abit early could live to 80
@RickyB464
@RickyB464 13 дней назад
@@user-gj4bn9sr9l Yes. 31/02/2052 is the day. Everything is set.
@RickyB464
@RickyB464 13 дней назад
​@@user-gj4bn9sr9l Yes. 31/02/2052 is the day. Everything is set.
@chanelgez2146
@chanelgez2146 13 дней назад
same as me 🙁
@shaunmacready701
@shaunmacready701 13 дней назад
What makes you think it's a mid life crisis? I've been through one but I sometimes think people label situations because it's easier to say "it's a mid life crisis" 33 isn't old, but the males in my family don't live past 62 my father out of 7 being the oldest to pass. So 33 isn't that unrealistic. I plan on going to my 80s aslong as I'm happy and health is good. I've changed alot of things rhat can put me in a grave earlier. But as grand mother told me. ( she was 96 ) everyone is born with a number and when it's up its up. Healthy people drop dead, while abusers live longer. I have 1 best mate, I have 6 friends I'm not really in touch with for long time but all their fathers died before 60, youngest being 42 like I'm two year off that. Wild to me,
@ellamcewens
@ellamcewens 4 дня назад
Such a sweet video! It's amazing and brave that you've found RU-vid works for you as a platform for getting your truth out. However hard things get, remember you can use this profile as a personal journal to achieve all your dreams. May your life be blessed with love and everything you want to achieve. Go for it!!! You deserve it!! :)
@LTMMH
@LTMMH 8 дней назад
Thank you for speaking up! We hope you get better soon. Best wishes from Let's Talk Men's Mental Health.
@VFX_My_Life
@VFX_My_Life 18 дней назад
37 man, my perspective is you're noticing you are starting to want more out of life. it is all about slowly adding it as you improve your surroundings. We live in a world of near instant gratification, and the things that really matter in the long run are the things that take time. You've got this, channel is off to a great start, keep at it mate.
@bgeorgek1977
@bgeorgek1977 13 дней назад
Thanks for your honesty. We all need to open up a little more. All the best and hope you felt better in the morning 👊
@hididdlydee
@hididdlydee День назад
Big respect you and your lovely mum mate. God bless x
@dan.c9008
@dan.c9008 16 часов назад
Appreciate that you share this with us. Life can come with ups and downs. You young healthy and all the future in front of you. Don’t try to make others like you because people comes and goes, that’s what I learned. Do what you like, whatever makes you happy. Speak with mom, go out with friends, go gym, etc. I lost my father when I was 15 and mom 24, so I had to guide my life by myself and I can tell you it has not been easy. Keep your chin up lad, and like you said don’t let small things take over the emotions. Life is short and we must make the best of it. All the best for you mate.
@Franko-Gaming
@Franko-Gaming 12 дней назад
100 per cent agree, my friend. I've been at the same job for about 8 years now, and it was meant to be a stepping stone. Iv recently started up RU-vid and it's given me a hobby to focus on. My little girl gives me the purpose I need, tho thankfully. Keep pushing and find a hobby if you don't hit the gym, try it it's incredible for your mental health.
@leerammer2342
@leerammer2342 14 дней назад
Keep your head up mate. I relate to this alot. You seem like a top lad, and I believe good things will come to good people eventually. just dont give up and keep being you💪🏼🙌
@rusticramble
@rusticramble 7 дней назад
Just subscribed , glad you have a great Mum ! Hope you feel better in yourself soon and my goodness I am sure you are good at lots of things . You have 3k subs on RU-vid, that is amazing ! Looking forward to watching more of your content !
@Thomaas-sk6sj
@Thomaas-sk6sj 3 дня назад
Big up to you brother I’m 27 a chef and I feel exactly as you are explaining 👊
@AidanLonergan-bz1cp
@AidanLonergan-bz1cp 13 дней назад
Same with me and my mum. She will get you through mate, and you have to return the favour. Better days lie ahead
@mokolbokeoko5026
@mokolbokeoko5026 16 дней назад
You are evolving and learning. Life is a trial, and control is elusive. At 29, I suffered a deep depression which was exacerbated by events in the former yugoslavia. Life seemed pointless. The world was cruel. No energy. Listlessness set in. I'm 59 now, and I still don't know the meaning of life, but I do know that if you spend 2 minutes first thing when you wake up, thinking of 5 things that you are truly blessed with, (health, family, friends, shelter, food, options, etc.)instead of allowing your mind to restart the same stress-thought pattern, -it can truly change your mood and outlook. Stay strong, do the right things by yourself and those you meet, be mindful, and things will get better. Life evolves. Time happens. At 29, I was living in London. Now, I'm nearly 60. I have a wonderful 22 year old daughter. I live in Galway. I have a dog. At 52, I met the love of my life. I suppose I'm trying explain that no matter your circumstances, things always change, (the future is not written!) and you can facilitate this by injecting a small amount of positivity, at the right time. Respect.
@leonsmith6144
@leonsmith6144 16 дней назад
👏 👏
@JasonMurphy-d2w
@JasonMurphy-d2w 15 дней назад
Jesus changed my life from phyc wards to prison from drugs woman and money to a completely new person born again loved accepted
@Amy-yc6rt
@Amy-yc6rt 9 дней назад
​@@JasonMurphy-d2whe is the way, the truth the life🙏🏻 I wish more young people would encounter Jesus. I've only just found him due to him changing me at 27. It's a shame media are so happy encouraging binge drinking drugs etc but refuse to encourage the truth!
@dalew.7926
@dalew.7926 5 дней назад
Hi mate, I'm 30 and feel lost all the time. Quarter life crises are definitely a thing. Hang in there mate sending love from Germany. This too shall pass 💪 Bless you and your supportive mum ❤
@arranmacdonald6897
@arranmacdonald6897 17 часов назад
Great video mate. I'm in the same situation myself. Really related to what you say. Hope you're all good
@d99mc33
@d99mc33 8 дней назад
Thanks for sharing this mate I’m 25 and going through a rough few days and this just appeared on my feed now i feel a little less alone in this fight
@kevinconway2965
@kevinconway2965 День назад
I'm 38 now and it felt like only yesterday I was 25. Make your years count, brother. All the best.
@d99mc33
@d99mc33 23 часа назад
@@kevinconway2965 thanks kev 🙏
@Relaxwithnomes
@Relaxwithnomes 16 дней назад
I'm a mum to a 9 year old boy, who's being awfully bullied ... In school and also on the street I live in .. but don't know how to help him other than kicking the living daylights out of these kids parents ..and I can't do that... Don't get yourself down lad!!! .. I'm hoping my boy doesn't feel bad..I'm trying to get him to stick up for himself... For some reason you made me think of my son... You're lovely 🇬🇧❤️🇬🇧
@idowcare
@idowcare 16 дней назад
@@Relaxwithnomes thankyou I hope your boys ok , if you want me to come deal with the bullies I will!!
@jdbruiser
@jdbruiser 15 дней назад
That's dreadful. I think that kids get bullies because they're singled out and those bullies are hurt themselves because they can't accept other kids for the way they are. I think you should tell your son that these bullies are weak-minded and I think he should be surrounded by mates who look out for him. If teachers do naff all, then your son really could benefit from being in a group of reliable mates.
@chris12carp
@chris12carp 14 дней назад
Get him to a boxing/mma gym. Some of the nicest blokes going there and he can feel apart of something.
@Relaxwithnomes
@Relaxwithnomes 14 дней назад
@@idowcare 💕
@mpat100
@mpat100 14 дней назад
Blessings for your son and you also❤❤
@scubadee100
@scubadee100 2 дня назад
Came across your video just by chance but your not the only person thinking this, I’m 57 and have thought about taking my life ,I feel there’s nothing to enjoy in life anymore, no purpose thank you for sharing
@KnightedBean
@KnightedBean 5 дней назад
You're a beautifully knitted soul, brother! Your Mum should be proud! This feeling of emptiness was not as common as it is today. As a society, we've recently forgotten the person who walked with us. Man needs fire 🔥 Thanks for sharing. Love and prayers brother ❤
@WesleyIsThatYou
@WesleyIsThatYou 12 дней назад
I’m 29, abit younger than some of the guys commenting on here. I understand about the repetitive life, especially working at my job for 8 years. I’ve progressed through my job and done some pretty cool things but it’s got to the point where I needed change after doing near enough the same thing daily. Life is very demanding, as I’ve gotten older my circle of friendship is non existent but i go to the gym a lot and my social life there is great. I myself at times feel abit lost, not knowing the direction my life is going but the things that keep me sane are things that interest me and hobbies. I’m happy a lot of the time with my own company, put to much effort into people that didn’t really care unless it was beneficial for them. one piece of advice I’d give you is to go and do the things that make you happy, things will fall into place. The most important thing in life is yourself and your well being. We are in this journey together brother
@Stevo-klo45453
@Stevo-klo45453 15 дней назад
It’s ok mate! It happens, I went thru this at 26/29 then things became better until 34, now at 35 I’m back to a crappy place mate. I went thru this at 13, 17 and also at 21. My dad used to always say to me, you can always trust your mother. After watching you explain her to us, you can definitely trust your mother.
@SmittyD2047
@SmittyD2047 4 дня назад
This is a great energy to put out into the world! Keep being honest my guy, love and blessings!
@CTMUSIC70
@CTMUSIC70 День назад
Your honesty is so commendable. Life’s shit when it wants to be and can last for a long time. I can empathise, I really can. Good luck mate, whatever you do.
@Holcroft1969
@Holcroft1969 16 дней назад
Mate, you are growing up in crazy times and I really don't envy you. That said, just remember that you are at still an age where your life's journey is in its early stages and that means you have a massive great big blank canvas that needs to be filled up. I'm glad you have recognised that your Mum is your main Allie too because when life seems like shit, then Mum will always have your back. Also don't sweat the small stuff because it ain't worth it, you'll be just fine.
@bigmaguire9714
@bigmaguire9714 13 дней назад
I'm also 27 and feel similar quite alot. I'm autistic (not fully but on the spectrum), I train full time (competive powerlifter) with no paying job. I feel this external pressure from society to do things but just don't want to alot of the time. Getting a 9-5 job for the next 40 years of my life is scary. That's why I don't think I will ever work full time as I just don't think I could live my life like that. Also social media is a cancer that slowly rots my brain. I see people I barely know on instagram etc doing things I think I want to do and being successful in society and then I get down about it and it's a never ending cycle. Thanks for sharing your experiences, you've earned a sub 👍
@sheriff8530
@sheriff8530 12 дней назад
Everyone’s path looks different mate ❤
@Tech87-7
@Tech87-7 День назад
I know these feelings all too well, nice to see you putting it out there bud. Look after yourself, it'll get better, thats what i keep telling myself 💜
@markwilliambarton1284
@markwilliambarton1284 День назад
Your a brave man for putting up a video about such a personal struggle im 39 and have feelings of being worthless and unwanted and just hating myself my mother died when she was 47 my father was never involved and my grandparents who I loved are gone too only for my dog and partner I don't think I could go on I hide away from the world and then I get positive the spark of hope comes to me and I feel better there is always something in life to grab on to and aim for not to be patronising your young but I think feeling low and stuck and depressed hits everyone on whatever stage you are in life loads of people are out there feeling the same just press on you will be cool again ❤❤❤
@dannipuckeridge6847
@dannipuckeridge6847 15 дней назад
Mums are the best sweetheart💕
@jamie-hb8gy
@jamie-hb8gy 14 дней назад
Cherish every second with ya mum pal,Mine was taken suddenly a couple of years ago and i still can't get over it.Get off nights as well i did nights for 18 years 15 of them as a class 1 driver and it's screwed me up mentally and physically.
@stitchlover633
@stitchlover633 12 дней назад
my mum use to call it the graveyard shift
@alanminnock8040
@alanminnock8040 6 дней назад
Hey mate, well done for speaking up. you're doing amazing
@user-jp8ro9bh3c
@user-jp8ro9bh3c 5 дней назад
I’m 28 and completely get what it’s like to be stuck in a rut and feeling down. Please know if there is anything I have found it’s that life changes so quickly it’s mad! I have MS ( diagnosed this year) after finally finding a job I love. I was deviated! I was finally getting out of my own rut. But now i do everything to better my life and health and can’t believe how quick things change! You have got so much going for you! It takes time to see it sometimes but you seem like a really lovely really sweet and cool guy! You’ve absolutely got this and remember you are incredible! And so is life, as mad as it can feel.
@IrishHypno
@IrishHypno 16 дней назад
Fair play lad for making a video like this , takes guts. I feel your pain on the night shifts, I do them also and they are destroying me slowly but I know I'll be finished them very soon. I'm also a clinical hypnotherapist and would gladly love to help you with some , free of charge , if that's something you'd be interested in. Chin up mate and hit me up if you do.
@human1066
@human1066 16 дней назад
Stop working nights, we aren't nocturnal and it's extremely bad for your health. Get outside often and above all exercise and eat well.
@thesaint5619
@thesaint5619 14 дней назад
I work nights and love it maybe it's not for you though, I'm quite happy alone putting a few quid away each week then booking concerts to go to and abroad next year. Try saving money nothing makes me feel better than growing a little savings I feel so secure now I have a bit of security behind me
@williammayer7199
@williammayer7199 14 дней назад
💯
@colin6673
@colin6673 13 дней назад
That's actually not true. From an evolutionary perspective, at least one person would stay up at night to protect the tribe.
@human1066
@human1066 13 дней назад
@@colin6673 if that was true from an "evolutionary perspective" humans would be able to see in the dark. It's more likely true from a "things Colin made up today" perspective.
@diegoarmando8795
@diegoarmando8795 13 дней назад
Not working nights will not solve all your problems but working nights is definitely not good for your health that's a fact.
@joshjosh2922
@joshjosh2922 6 дней назад
I feel the same mate, this has really helped me out and I’m glad someone’s actually spoken up abt this as not many people do, your absolutely that guy that everyone would want as a friend in there life, carry on posting stuff like this we need more of these positive videos!
@aliciawilkins6951
@aliciawilkins6951 2 дня назад
I’m from Walsall, moved to Leeds last year and it’s so nice to just hear a voice from home 🏡 keep your head up, your 20s are mad and you can’t truly rely on anyone. Get out there and do some things to make you happy, forget about who else it’s good or not good for. Book yourself a nice trip or experience, give yourself a break ❤ also, look up the burnt toast theory!! You got this. 💪
@dominickmitchell7261
@dominickmitchell7261 16 дней назад
Del amertri, had a song years ago called..nothing ever happens nothing happens at all..the needle returns to the start of the song and we all sing aline like before.
@leewilliamholmes
@leewilliamholmes 16 дней назад
i feel so lost aswell mate
@vfaded1134
@vfaded1134 5 дней назад
feel this way now at just barely 20, opportunity and experience is all around me and yet I'm so overwhelmed with choice and have no real confidence for where I want to go - time flies bye, "but you're young" is what I'm told, so much contradiction from my peers and older generations. Live in the moment or plan for your future, a bit of both? No - that's too stressful and I shouldn't worry (Yet...). It's a weird world and we all feel lost sometimes, the comfort in it is that we are all just as lost, I hope something sticks for you and you make it through this rough patch. thanks for a real insight into your life and opening a place for this conversation.
@markdoherty4273
@markdoherty4273 12 дней назад
Serious man, you are winning! Getting up and going to work and slogging through is an absolute win. Find yourself a good woman who appreciates your hard work and work for her. Start a family and provide protect for them. Your Mum’s job is to love you unconditionally, but you need to break free from that and take on more responsibility. It’ll seem hard at first and your Mum will probably fight it, but I swear your relationship will get better afterwards. Good luck brother, and keep going.
@AsharpVocalAcademy
@AsharpVocalAcademy 16 дней назад
It can be an incredible thing to be where you’re at my friend. I was there for years. And tried everything I could. I even quit my job out of thin air and traveled around the world to look for just something of substance that was REAL. I was done with everything. I was done with fake. Just over 2yrs ago now, I encountered Him for myself. I physically felt my entire body light up, as if I was being re-wired. From that day onwards I have never felt the way I used to, ever. Looking back at it now, I know that all those years feeling beyond lost was leading me, not to find a building, not to find a bunch of rules on paper, but to find the one who truly has the power to change my life. Every part of my life is incredible now. I hope you take what I’ve said seriously, because I had tried and searched for everything, searched and searched until I found Jesus, (not dead religion), and now I’m found. :)
@greenjewel509
@greenjewel509 15 дней назад
Amen!!! I agree with everything you said!!! Aged 29, l was feeling really broken. Thought the God squad were a bunch of lunatics. I admitted to myself that I needed supernatural help to move forward in life. I knew that no ordinary person could save me, so concluded that it would take a supernatural person to intervene. I had heard that "Jesus is the way, the truth and the life". Called out to Him, immediately felt a powerful presence surrounding me. Could not open my eyes for several minutes. He has given me purpose and meaning. This is what you need. Jesus is the answer.🙏
@AsharpVocalAcademy
@AsharpVocalAcademy 15 дней назад
@@greenjewel509Yes!! I hated hearing anything to do with religion or “God” my whole life. Even the idea that people believed in a magical invisible man somewhere in the sky that lets all this evil happen, then judged me for not wanting to be a part of it, made me sick. But when I encountered him, he was nothing like I’d be told about. I thought he was some pasty white pushover weakling, if he even existed at all. But the power surging from him when he walked to me made my whole body basically paralysed. He knew that I was a foul mouthed mechanic and had done every immoral thing or drug known to man, but he didn’t condemn me at all. He told me the people he had a problem with when he was on earth were the religious ones. Not the “rough” or broken people. He’s cool as haha
@MonkeyHunch1
@MonkeyHunch1 10 дней назад
@@greenjewel509 what a load of shit
@bradleymcglynn5219
@bradleymcglynn5219 2 дня назад
You’re not alone brother we all go through it at some point !! 💪🏻
@eppityrrell8236
@eppityrrell8236 11 дней назад
Its so sad how so many people feel this way including myself id prefer not to be here but id only upset my son and acquaintances h9pe you feel better soon ✨
@chrisbee487
@chrisbee487 14 дней назад
38 year old ex drug addict. I lived a pointless existence for 15 years stuck in the same place doing the same thing day in day out. Almost 4 years clean. Amd my life is amazing today ✨️. There is always a way out I'm living proof of that. And also my mum stood by me through the worst. She always told me she new I could get clean. She never turned her back on me. Even though I did her. I'm happy to say today I love my life. Bit I relate to people that are struggling. But just no it gets better.
@chrisbee487
@chrisbee487 13 дней назад
​@JohnSander-dg1rbyeah mate feel brand new 👌 ❤
@lukerussell1858
@lukerussell1858 5 дней назад
God is on your side brother, there’s a great purpose for you once you are able to give your heart to it, I will keep you in my prayers tonight man, God bless🙏
@Nickydo111
@Nickydo111 День назад
Bless you mate, at 51 myself i have been through very similair low preiods in life. It's only when you come out the other side you realise how down you were. As you say, it will pass mate. You have support on here too, and like others have said, it takes a huge amount of courage to speak up about your own struggles.
@stevo6891
@stevo6891 14 дней назад
Same here, never really had a woman that truly loved me.. I get frustrated with jobs.. Sometimes I wish I was gone!!
@chanelgez2146
@chanelgez2146 13 дней назад
i feel the same
@greenkitty82
@greenkitty82 11 дней назад
She's the wrong woman. Do what you can to be your best self possible. You are unique and there will never be another one of you again ever.
@angelface889
@angelface889 11 дней назад
We are all lost because this isn’t home !!! Jesus is the only way to feel joy again and return home ❤ God bless everyone 🙏
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