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I Got Married and It Destroyed Me! 

Tess Ogamba
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My marriage destroyed me. I lost myself, my dreams, and the will to live.
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@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
This is one of the hardest videos I have ever made. I really tried to control myself and I hope it shows. This experience wounded me as you can see but it also changed my life completely. What’s one experience that’s impacted your life deeply? Let’s share our stories in the comments. Also, please like the video 👍
@kadzo6614
@kadzo6614 10 дней назад
@@tessogamba One day at a time. You will be fine.🫂
@adelheidamesho4275
@adelheidamesho4275 10 дней назад
Your is just like mine my dear you are strong you can say thank Jesus you back to your country forget every thing start anew life
@abigailmasinga341
@abigailmasinga341 10 дней назад
@@tessogamba it is well, even me today I wanted to tell my Pastor my issues but I was crying alone before I text him,i hope you one day I will share my story
@duskybee1110
@duskybee1110 10 дней назад
@@abigailmasinga341 Typical abused persons behaviour.worrying about others that are either not abused or would rather not smoke out the abusers to avoid more pain or drama that comes with embarrasment or dismisal.
@7jess-h4j
@7jess-h4j 10 дней назад
@@tessogamba thankyou for sharing tess, i can relate to everything you said, in my case my mum was and still is my anchor.
@Chepko-k
@Chepko-k 7 дней назад
Tess you're talking to me right now. I have watched it to the last word. I'm in the process of paying my ticket. Unfortunately for me, I have several brothers and sisters. Just yesterday, my eldest brother told me this is a wrong move and I should reconsider the decision. It has been almost 3 months I'm not working. My visa is now f**k up. I have a baby here as well as in Kenya. At this point, I'm choosing my mental health. At least I have a mum mwenye ameitikia nirudi. Remember me in prayers too.
@Njeri_B
@Njeri_B День назад
@@Chepko-k which country are you in?
@Chepko-k
@Chepko-k День назад
@Njeri_B for personal reasons allow me not to specify.
@kataikesuzan9475
@kataikesuzan9475 10 дней назад
Oh my goodness 😢this is so my situation. I left my toxic marriage in Germany and came back home. It’s hard, no one can understand this but only God.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You’re right, sometimes it feels like only God can understand. Stay strong, and remember you’re not alone in this. 💛
@lesymalerato
@lesymalerato 6 дней назад
I am 8years post abusive marriage and trust me I am still trying to get my life back. The after effects are worse than the abuse. I can relate. With God you will be ok my dear
@theonegrateful-leper
@theonegrateful-leper 10 дней назад
When I see a strong person crying 😭 then I know it hit hard and bad. 😭 Hugs mammie
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
It did hit hard, but sometimes we need to let the tears flow to find healing. Thank you for your support. 💛
@Leniweise
@Leniweise 10 дней назад
Sending you lots of love and strength❤️ Take your time to heal! I know it’s not easy to talk about it, but you are helping so many women and men out there!! I am one of them and I really appreciate you!! You are not alone🫂
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
I appreciate you too, love! ❤️ Thank you for sharing that with me. I’m sending you love and strength on your own journey of healing. 💛 Let’s keep walking this path together.
@Leniweise
@Leniweise 9 дней назад
@@tessogamba❤
@mrsmariamoreme7241
@mrsmariamoreme7241 9 дней назад
🤔🤔
@PeninahKemunto-i4o
@PeninahKemunto-i4o 9 дней назад
Sending love leni ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@rahabpulanemakwala4447
@rahabpulanemakwala4447 6 дней назад
@@Leniweise you're here too
@ebonyatoti
@ebonyatoti 10 дней назад
I watched your videos as you navigated life after your terrible experience. You went through a very difficult time. Your resilience moved me to tears. Give yourself lots of grace as you speak to your soul, find Tess again and rebuild. A day at a time. The Best Is Yet To Come. ❤❤❤
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Your words mean so much to me. Thank you for watching my journey and for your compassion. I’m giving myself grace every day, and I believe the best is yet to come. 💛
@lesymalerato
@lesymalerato 6 дней назад
When they say loose everything but never loose yourself I understood this when it was too late
@anniedeborahchinungo4434
@anniedeborahchinungo4434 10 дней назад
I went through a lot of abuse to before my divorce. I resonate with everything you are saying. I’m still a shell of my self. Lost my identity.
@Preciousbecks
@Preciousbecks 9 дней назад
@@anniedeborahchinungo4434 may God see you through..for my case my biggest comforter was Jesus nobody believes I went through financial and emotional abuse because Jesus wiped it all away..
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
I’m so sorry you went through that. I completely understand that feeling of losing yourself. Please know you’re not alone, and I’m here for you as we both rebuild and rediscover ourselves. 💛
@praizdev
@praizdev 9 дней назад
I am going through this phase, I cry to bed everyday. Though what broke me and hurt me differs from yours. I know that this too will pass. It's even worse when you don't even have people to talk to cos you find it hard to trust people. We will all be fine. Sending you love and hugs.
@vickyshikudule1755
@vickyshikudule1755 10 дней назад
Tess! You're such a strong person, and through God's grace all shall be well agin🙏🙏
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you for your faith and encouragement. I believe God’s grace will see me through. 💛
@theZulugoddess
@theZulugoddess 10 дней назад
Dear Tess! No experience is wasted. Without the experiences you went through, your voice would not be as powerful as it is. You did not waste two years, you gained wisdom, and you are so much stronger for it. That relationship has built you into a person who can stand up for herself and as a result, is an example for others in the same situation to put themselves first. Keep telling your story!
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
Thank you for this. 💜 The logical part of me really knows this but sometimes I just can't help but feel like I wasted time nurturing something that would end up destroying me. So this being an experience meant to shape my life for the better is something I have to constantly keep reminding myself when negative thoughts creep in.
@African_Bantu
@African_Bantu 10 дней назад
Aye Tess Ogamba, You are a remarkable, beautiful, educated, vibrant, and energetic woman. Moving on from these challenging experiences won't be easy, and healing will take time. My prayer is that you not only recover but grow stronger through this journey. Life can be incredibly unfair, and the road ahead might seem tough, but take all the time you need to heal, one step at a time. I hope you find a compassionate counsellor or a trusted person to support and walk with you during this difficult period. You don’t have to go through it alone. Believe me, you will emerge even stronger than before. You’ve got this, baby girl. May God's peace, love, and comfort be with you always as you find your way forward. You'll be fine.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Wow, your words touched my heart. Thank you for seeing me, for your prayers, and for the encouragement. I’m taking each day step by step, and with the support of people like you, I know I’ll get stronger. 💛 May God bless you too.
@scolamugi2031
@scolamugi2031 10 дней назад
Proud of you Tess... Add to that list of the positives that: Tess is so pleasant to listen to. Because you are. I love that you're still so authentic and soft spoken despite all that you've been through. Hugs.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your kind words and support. I’m doing my best to stay authentic through it all. Sending you hugs back. 💛
@FaithAchieng-to4ii
@FaithAchieng-to4ii 7 дней назад
Lots of love Tess ❤❤❤
@QueenAlisha-qk4sp
@QueenAlisha-qk4sp 21 час назад
I don't know what to say to you Tess. It breaks my heart whenever I see someone go through trauma or,,i just hate when one has to. Especially trauma that has to do with domestic abuse. Trauma is less talked about. Most people who talk "experts" don't understand it unless they have been victims themselves. If you have been a victim, the rest of the world don't understand you. Its a bad spot to be. Especially the life after traumatic experiences. You can barely control the outside life if the inner is in chaos. And these are chaos nobody else sees. Try to talk about trauma to anybody, and you immediately get avoided. Hard to make friends if you have been through certain things. There is stigma and a lot of misunderstandings. And all of that makes it difficult to become the standard "normal" person. I wish you grace. And if it does help, I like you to know that you are not alone❤
@joeyogutu77
@joeyogutu77 13 часов назад
Just take it one day at a time. Glad you got out sooner rather than later. Love and light to you😘
@adeade71
@adeade71 10 дней назад
I can sense your struggles and knew something was amiss. I wish we could meet in person because I admire your personality, bravery, and hard work, which truly set you apart from many others. Stay strong; we’re here for you, and I appreciate your courage. Remember, is not everybody that values what they have until they lose it. one man's poison is another man's treasure. I hope we can meet someday.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you for such a thoughtful message and for appreciating my journey. It means so much to me. Who knows, maybe one day we will meet! 💛
@ciruwakaranja
@ciruwakaranja 10 дней назад
Tess you are a strong woman. It's okay to cry,it's okay to be emotional, and you sharing this in itself is healing
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you for your kind words. Yes, sometimes crying is part of healing, and I’m grateful I can share this journey with you. 💛
@NewnessLove
@NewnessLove 9 дней назад
Thank God all the time my sister. Most women never survived and you still got your life with you. So meaning there's still a lot of beautiful life God wants you to experience. Be strong and prayerful ❤❤❤
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Amen! You’re so right-every day is a blessing, and I’m thankful for the life I still get to live. I’ll keep pushing forward with strength and faith. 💛
@SisTkitchen
@SisTkitchen 10 дней назад
No pain is wasted .. it was necessary and it not ever leave you the same..we all facing the worse my dear be strong and stay the course ❤❤
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you for this powerful reminder. Pain changes us, but it also helps us grow stronger. I’m staying the course, and I appreciate your support. 💛
@abigailmasinga341
@abigailmasinga341 10 дней назад
Don't ever say I hope it won't backfire, you are just doing what the Lord has instructed you, don't be afraid to to something different
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you for the reminder to trust the process and not let fear hold me back. 💛
@HTHTT-k4t
@HTHTT-k4t 8 дней назад
Relatable much, reminds me of myself. I was young and ambitious just like you with a life in Kenya. Then i moved to a foreign country in search of greener pastures and in the name of stupid love. Only to be reduced to a depressed housewife and with no independence whatsoever. They treat you like trash when they know you have nowhere to go, no source of income and no car to move around. You have done what many of us have not been able to do! Although i did not walk out, God gave me an opportunity to build myself, my career in this foreign country and let me tell you the respect i got from that...madharau ziliisha! When they know you can walk out anytime...!!!!
@carolkibue636
@carolkibue636 10 дней назад
You are brave to share your story there are many people going through this and are afraid to speak out… abuse survives in silence and isolation you sharing helps you and others know that it is possible to start again, to leave, to survive and most importantly you are not alone❤ One of my mantras in life is “Every day and in every way you are becoming better and better no negative thoughts or suggestions shall affect me in any level of consciousness!
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
This is so well put and I hope my story gives other people strength to share theirs. Thank you for this piece of encouragement
@junemugoh1579
@junemugoh1579 10 дней назад
Hugs Tess i have followed you for the longest time !!I am heartbroken to hear what you went through but take one take step at a time and i pray God strengthens you and know that He makes beauty for ashes
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
Amen to that and thank you ♥️ I can say now that the worst is over now praying for better days.
@abigailmasinga341
@abigailmasinga341 10 дней назад
This is the beginning of purpose, continue to share
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you for your belief in me! I will definitely keep sharing and walking this path. 💛
@dianakalekye8630
@dianakalekye8630 10 дней назад
Ah Tess with the slow music at the begining had me laughing and sad at the same time. Cudos for the creativity and thank you for sharing. Also a moment of silence for people who go through such abuse as children, it's a double tragedy.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
Was trying to create that dramatic effect 😂😂 thank you for watching and noticing. Oh my God, it must be extremely difficult especially if they’re old enough to remember the details. I pray for them and their sanity.
@Omo-i8z
@Omo-i8z 10 дней назад
It's OK Tess talking about it it's part of healing ❤❤
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Yes, you’re so right. Talking is part of the healing process. Thank you for understanding and supporting me. 💛
@tabywisdom
@tabywisdom 7 дней назад
you are a very strong woman Tess, am sending you lots of hugs and thanking you for speaking up.
@GladysYiga
@GladysYiga 8 дней назад
I understand Tess. May God continue to heal you.
@annengei2814
@annengei2814 9 дней назад
😢😢word of encouragement my sister your strong and you are healed thats why u are talking this today.I went thru what u have gone thru,was left with 1kid 11years ago,i was depressed,stressed n i didnt know where to start in life.But guess what?I gathered the broken pieces and i moved on,i started loving myself more,doing what i loved most,went back to college,got a job and i moved to abroad for greener pastures.Guess what!I thought i couldn't have made it but i did,still single ,37years build myself and .not in a rush to get into marriage,am taking my time .Itsnt too late for you to still make it in life..your beautiful,young and you will go far.God will restore back the wasted years .. Keep pressing❤❤❤❤
@rahabpulanemakwala4447
@rahabpulanemakwala4447 6 дней назад
Hugs and prayers for you Tess❤❤
@Sharon-hn9wn
@Sharon-hn9wn 9 дней назад
The sun 🌞reminds us that every day, we can rise 🌄 . I feel your pain and many others, too, have gone through the same. Be confident, Tes, that the brokenness will heal day by day, and you will look back and say, 'I survived and overcame.' 😊I wish you well. God bless. 🙏 ❤
@margaretwamaitha2766
@margaretwamaitha2766 8 дней назад
Thank you for coming Back ❤
@MelaninVee
@MelaninVee 10 дней назад
Hugs girl❤Always here following your story, and I love how you stand firm and speak about it. Its giving healing🎉
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
Thank you, girlie. ❤️ Comments like these make it easier for me to continue sharing and hopefully helping someone as I heal.
@truphosaagwanda89
@truphosaagwanda89 10 дней назад
Well done Tess. You are strong! ❤
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
Thank you 🙏
@ruthmagiroi3896
@ruthmagiroi3896 13 часов назад
The victory is in walking away and reinventing yourself Tess.You are not a victim but a beautiful victorious and blessed lady.
@lauraprecious4258
@lauraprecious4258 6 дней назад
Tess I’m in your shoes right now. Omg it was helllll!!!!!
@gladodadishwavinya5826
@gladodadishwavinya5826 9 дней назад
Insightful and relatable Tess your background playing instrumental music is loud!
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you so much for the feedback! I appreciate you letting me know about the music-I'll make sure to adjust it in future videos. 💛
@cherylakoth473
@cherylakoth473 10 дней назад
Tess, its okay to cry. lia itoke yote kwa roho and you'll feel much lighter. I know exactly what you are going through coz I went through it for more than 10 years. Now, Im picking up the pieces polepole but the PEACE I feel in my heart, is beyond words.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Asante sana! Yes, sometimes you just have to let it out. I’m so happy to hear that you’ve found peace after so long. 💛 Sending you lots of love and strength on your healing journey.
@ThePerpectual
@ThePerpectual 9 дней назад
Guyssss you see Tesss.. is a real definition of a strong woman... Tess been watching you since ukinitrain transcription ya verbit. And ghurrll.. you gat this and im super proud of you loves❤... You are a winner.
@mildredsimiyu5843
@mildredsimiyu5843 8 дней назад
Donnot worry. Keep strong. It's just the beginning. Love fe is hard to navigate . Just work.on your life and find a good friend to comfort you
@lydiatinega3781
@lydiatinega3781 9 дней назад
Big ups girl! So far so good, you’ll finally get over everything , look back & just thank God. I know it ain’t easy but eventually, you find meaning in all of it.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you! You’re right, one day I’ll look back and see how far I’ve come. It’s all part of the journey, and I’m grateful for every bit of progress. 🙏
@Tiana_Fits
@Tiana_Fits 9 дней назад
This is so emotional. I'm at that point when I just feel like giving up already. Hope it gets better with time. Hugs
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Sending you the biggest hug right now. Please don’t give up. Healing takes time, and I’m here to remind you that things do get better. We’ll get through this together, one step at a time. 💛
@Tiana_Fits
@Tiana_Fits 9 дней назад
@@tessogamba thanks for this. I hope it does.
@duskybee1110
@duskybee1110 10 дней назад
OMG! I dont know how landed here.I just know that i can relate . Abuse and healing thereof is in whichever form or for whatever reason; the worst and most difficult part of healing that gets ignored by both the abused and those that are responsible for the abuse. A bandage wrapped around a wound just covers the wound. A wound may leave a scar, but it heals better and faster if allowed to stay open and dry for purporse of healing. This video is in my perception another selfless act to guide or help others heal, avoid or be aware of abuse and abuse traps. Im so proud of you for the courage to use yourself as a the bridge for others to heal.But, i feel like we the abused need to stop making it better for others and instead start talking to others about us and why we need to be ok in oder tomake it good or better for them.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you so much for your insightful and kind words. Healing is indeed a long and challenging process, but you’re right, we need to talk about ourselves and prioritize our own healing. I’m proud to be part of this conversation. 💛
@olivemutha2022int
@olivemutha2022int 10 дней назад
I think Jesus deserve the praise to got your back 😊 and loves you so much
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Amen! I’m grateful for His grace and love. Thank you for the reminder. 💛
@mercymuriithi1581
@mercymuriithi1581 9 дней назад
Please talk about it I feel like I've lost 15yrs of my life I am in and out devastating moments, I feel broken I've lost alot.😢
@valentinemulamba3760
@valentinemulamba3760 10 дней назад
You are now here ...just live a day at a time.... forget the past momma😘
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
The past should not be forgotten we’re meant to learn from it and use it to be better
@liserorose4713
@liserorose4713 9 дней назад
Hugs Tess. one day at a time.❤
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you for the hug and the reminder. Yes, one day at a time. 💛
@FelicityGillian-bf8uy
@FelicityGillian-bf8uy 10 дней назад
You inspire me soo much Tess. Thank you
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
I'm so glad!
@misoihildah1254
@misoihildah1254 День назад
Tess your always the sweetest person on Earth ❤❤❤
@nylayziyagil8777
@nylayziyagil8777 9 дней назад
Im praying sister🙏🏼
@MillicentWanja_92
@MillicentWanja_92 9 дней назад
I know abuse, maybe not as much, but the dust my step dad or rather, my mom's ex husband showed me, i have been figuring myself for as long as i can remember 😢 I became afraid, quiet and confused. I got to a point where all i wanted was cry
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
I’m so sorry you went through that. It’s heartbreaking how abuse leaves such a deep mark. I hope you continue to find healing, and never forget it’s okay to cry and take time for yourself. Sending you a big hug. 💛
@leshlymelamu5520
@leshlymelamu5520 9 дней назад
Sorry Ms Ogamba.Love and light❤️❣️❣️
@BJJONNESWAJESUS
@BJJONNESWAJESUS 8 дней назад
God is great be strong darling ❤️ ♥️ 💖
@earthgoddess_66
@earthgoddess_66 10 дней назад
You are a survivor🎉. For you to be able to share your story, is so powerful‼ You're stronger and more powerful than you'll ever give yourself credit.💜 (don't forget to use (purple) shampoo and conditioner for blonde hair to prevent yellowing. Steam, condition and moisturize to preserve your hair's integrity.❤)
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
Thank you for your kind words 💜 For the hair, I have purple shampoo, steaming is what I don't do. I will definitely look into it.
@chelseacherotich1764
@chelseacherotich1764 9 дней назад
Sorry you went through such a traumatic experience . Glad you made it through and healing. Sending love to you ❤❤. Glad you are back , being home always heals
@rosemakena8267
@rosemakena8267 9 дней назад
Hugs girl ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Big hugs back to you! Thank you for the love and support-it means the world to me. 💛
@elizabethmwalo8424
@elizabethmwalo8424 10 дней назад
Tess just forgive him and forget, after sharing this testimony! God will bless you with a God fearing person. Just pray and trust in Him.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you for your advice. Forgiveness is a journey, and I’m taking things one step at a time. Trusting in God’s plan. 💛
@Carol-om5wx
@Carol-om5wx 9 дней назад
This sounds like narcissistic abuse its a ride through hell. It shall be well, the pain will pass too. Listen to others who have gone through it and are thriving on RU-vid and if possible get counselling.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
You’re absolutely right-it does feel like a ride through hell. Thank you for the reminder and advice. I’m focusing on healing every day, and sharing my journey is helping me connect with others who’ve been through the same. 🙏
@richeninvestments4012
@richeninvestments4012 9 дней назад
I pray that you get over it as the saying goes,time is a healer,it shall be well @Tess Ogamba
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you for your prayers and kind words. Time does heal, and I’m taking it one step at a time. 💛
@TRUTH240
@TRUTH240 5 дней назад
Tell God thank You because you had no child or children together.
@susanmuraguri8564
@susanmuraguri8564 10 дней назад
Aaaaai, mresh....imeisha aje kimandazimandazi hivyo?....😂....anyhu, as I was saying, don't give up yet juu you still have a long way to go and life still has more beautiful and fulfilling surprises ahead....trust me.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
You joined the stream when it was almost over 😀 Thank you very much girl, that is very encouraging. ❤️
@susanmuraguri8564
@susanmuraguri8564 10 дней назад
@@tessogamba Understood na karibu sana....🙂
@itsemmanuella2021
@itsemmanuella2021 6 дней назад
Wait so you went through all these things while creating content for us?? Oh noo 😭😭😭 thank God you aren't in this situation right now. Thank you Jesus. This happened to me 2 years ago but it was more of emotional abuse. Nobody told me, I packed my bags and ran for my life. Please be around people that have positive attitude or people that will make you laugh until you pee on yourself 😂😂. These worked for me so much. God bless you dear❤. You're doing great 😊
@Absolutely_Adira
@Absolutely_Adira 10 дней назад
Hugs tess❤
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Sending hugs back to you! 💛
@tech_chiamaka-eze
@tech_chiamaka-eze 9 дней назад
Please talk about rebuilding yourself back.
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
I’ll definitely be sharing more about rebuilding myself in upcoming videos! It’s a journey, and I want to take you all along as I rise from the ashes. Stay tuned! 💛
@naomichesang145
@naomichesang145 9 дней назад
I love you Tess ❤❤
@gofgan
@gofgan 8 дней назад
U dont hv to apologise for being human... Cry as much as u can.
@iamelizah888
@iamelizah888 9 дней назад
Emotional abuse is so real
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
It really is, and I’m grateful we can talk about it. It’s important to raise awareness. 💛
@iamelizah888
@iamelizah888 9 дней назад
@@tessogamba very true
@sharonaruka6423
@sharonaruka6423 6 дней назад
Hugs 🫂
@shemgituki7060
@shemgituki7060 9 дней назад
Psalms 80:14 Turn again o God of hosts look down from heaven and see :have regard for this vine,the stock which thy right hand planted
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Amen! Thank you for sharing this verse. 🙏 It’s a beautiful reminder of strength and faith during tough times.
@sahotamarie71
@sahotamarie71 9 дней назад
Tess is a survivor
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
Thank you! It’s a tough journey, but I’m pushing through. 💛
@sahotamarie71
@sahotamarie71 9 дней назад
@@tessogamba I feel the pain of BETRAYAL and abuse from the very source who was suppose to give you support, love and cherish you for the person you are, come to India, I'm here until the new year
@SeniorRifumoMahlangu
@SeniorRifumoMahlangu 10 дней назад
Thank you so much my sister, thanks for sharing, i was also abused in relationships, i can relate ❤. girl i think African men are worse though.Maybe is because i have never dated another race
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Abuse knows no race, and it’s heartbreaking when it happens. I hope you find healing and peace, my sister. 💛
@violetajiambo6947
@violetajiambo6947 10 дней назад
Hugs Tessy
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
Thank you 💜
@FikileSkosana
@FikileSkosana 6 дней назад
❤❤❤❤❤
@debieharobed
@debieharobed 7 дней назад
❤❤❤❤
@TalesofAfrika638
@TalesofAfrika638 10 дней назад
Your apartment is nice🎉🎉🎉🎉
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
Thank you 😊
@TalesofAfrika638
@TalesofAfrika638 10 дней назад
@@tessogamba what are the price ranges for most apartments that side
@olivernyange2349
@olivernyange2349 7 дней назад
Tess if you could speak out what he did to you l would tell you something,if your saved,did you know spiritual husband are cause of breaking marriage its a lot
@marjorievuyiswa5350
@marjorievuyiswa5350 10 дней назад
((HUGS))
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
♥️
@SylviaOwusu-d3q
@SylviaOwusu-d3q 10 дней назад
You're in Ghana?
@mercie-k
@mercie-k 10 дней назад
Kenya
@tracieluck9449
@tracieluck9449 10 дней назад
🥰♥️🙏🏾
@Story_Val
@Story_Val 9 дней назад
@Tess Ogamba can I be Ur true friend?
@kadzo6614
@kadzo6614 10 дней назад
*I miss you in dreadlocks* 😭😭
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 10 дней назад
Aaaww I look better with short hair though, don't you think.
@kadzo6614
@kadzo6614 10 дней назад
@@tessogamba Yes you do. Still very gorgeous.💕💕 I'm just biased because I love locs 🫣
@samkaybeauty2862
@samkaybeauty2862 8 дней назад
@@tessogamba Keep the short hair, I love it, you look good 😍
@dikolizaskk5847
@dikolizaskk5847 7 дней назад
I will come back the day you detail what exactly happened to you, in your abus#ive marriage, for it really not saying anything
@daudioti5372
@daudioti5372 9 дней назад
This man was a Brit?
@tessogamba
@tessogamba 9 дней назад
No, he was not British. Sharing my experience has been part of my healing journey, and I appreciate you for listening. 💛
@SylviaOwusu-d3q
@SylviaOwusu-d3q 10 дней назад
Was your husband Ghananian?
@mercie-k
@mercie-k 10 дней назад
@@SylviaOwusu-d3q no he was a white from UK
@SylviaOwusu-d3q
@SylviaOwusu-d3q 10 дней назад
@@mercie-k That's messed up. Very sorry about that experience
@lifelessordinary4me
@lifelessordinary4me 7 дней назад
@@mercie-k she said he wasn’t British but lived in Britain
@syekonyonthiwa9587
@syekonyonthiwa9587 7 дней назад
so sorry take carriage.
@kanairogossip8848
@kanairogossip8848 8 дней назад
I'm proud of you for leaving 🤍 ❤️ ❤
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