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I Grew My Balding Hair Out And It Changed MY Life 

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I grew out my balding hair to its longest length since I shaved it off almost 3 years ago.
This time having walked the streets with balding and receding hair I learned a very important lesson. I challenge you to also get comfortable with the uncomfortable and see how it can change your life for the better.
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@pumpkinface8151
@pumpkinface8151 4 года назад
Its not the random people you need to fear giving you shit about going bald, it's ironically your friends and family who act bastardly towards it and its those same individuals whose opinion you value the most and that's why it stings initially.
@abdullahsalman4991
@abdullahsalman4991 3 года назад
They call me sunny side up lool
@prettyflacko7470
@prettyflacko7470 3 года назад
@luke !!! so true! That’s why I’m consulting a doctor tmr. I’m only 19
@nikhilrewar1057
@nikhilrewar1057 3 года назад
@@prettyflacko7470 you can watch more plates more dates as well. He gives good advice
@Aiphiae
@Aiphiae 3 года назад
So fucking true.
@MA-nx4md
@MA-nx4md 3 года назад
For real dude
@nazerikson6883
@nazerikson6883 4 года назад
people who don’t experience hair loss will never understand the level of self awareness and insecurity balding men suffer. Thank you for always reminding us that the only opinion about ourselves that matter are our own
@Daniel-uk6yr
@Daniel-uk6yr 4 года назад
@Balding Boulder Well. I'd say men instead of people. Women have a lot of other insecurities they have to deal with from adolescence until they get old. And if you think men are having a hard time dealing with baldness, imagine women with alopecia. My point is just that balding sucks, but people experience other things that make their life miserable too.
@henry12h
@henry12h 4 года назад
Hair loss sucks, especially when in your country hair loss is mainly for elder people.
@vecsec6059
@vecsec6059 4 года назад
I like to be bald, im not bald naturaly but i shave my head :D feels awesome, no problems ! :)
@mannysalguero7331
@mannysalguero7331 4 года назад
Daniel this is towards a specific audience. We know there’s worse things.
@joshgates2671
@joshgates2671 4 года назад
Only opinion? Sounds like he got you thinking only option. Hair system, thin poly all around with lace in the middle. You think your self, well so will the ladies. I made it a reality! Was up! I took back control, and became the lion with his mane, the king with his crown. I am proud for not confirming to society's way of thinking. Baldness is a choice nowadays. Feel my confidence on them just shave it off offers. Now got better hair than them with natural hair, this ain't your grandpas toupee. Its nowadays advanced hair system. WoooOOo, I don't look like the next bald guy or a felon. I was balding, and I took it like Boss on them haters. FLEXIN STRONG AND HARD on me.
@Inf7cted
@Inf7cted 4 года назад
I have massive respect for this man. He is just living his life without regret! This guy is the monk of baldness!
@cartermuniz8244
@cartermuniz8244 4 года назад
I'm 17, I can already see some signs of thinning at my crown and my temples. My dad and uncles are all bald so I knew it would happen to me. I use to look up ways I could fix it and prevent it but after finding your channel, I honestly cannot wait until the balding happens and I can just go through this process because it sounds so freeing. Ive always struggled with self image and the idea of balding has always terrified me until I found out about you and honestly, I'm excited. Maybe I'll be upset when it gets more serious but I can't wait to overcome that and just be ME. Thank you for everything you're doing for people balding and people soon to start, you're amazing.
@TheGlowingOnee
@TheGlowingOnee 2 года назад
Take finasteride to prevent it
@BlackSkyZ2
@BlackSkyZ2 2 года назад
@@TheGlowingOnee it’s like talking to a wall. Is this reply automatic??
@mohammed97x6
@mohammed97x6 2 года назад
I'm almost 17 and my hairline recede to an M shape so im gonna buzz cut it cause i can't handle the anxiety specially i have ocd im literally obsessed with my hair i keep looking at the mirror i can't imma cut it off from now
@prajwalbharambe343
@prajwalbharambe343 2 года назад
@@mohammed97x6 try dutasteride. I was growing hairs long to hide receding hairline and balding spots a year ago. Now only somewhat receded hairline.
@bigrich1356
@bigrich1356 4 года назад
I went the exact opposite way that you went when I started to thin on top, I started growing my hair out, I never told anyone what my plan was, but I decided that I was going to keep growing my hair out as long as possible before it looked really bad. Grew it for 6 years or so, made it halfway down my back, and I donated it to "children with hair loss". Now I don't feel as though I "lost" my hair, I feel as though I "gave" my hair to someone who needed it more than me, and now it feels good to be bald because I helped someone.
@sunitaxtry1086
@sunitaxtry1086 4 года назад
Hy I am from India and my age 26 year old and i am bold bt i have watching your all videos and I have changed my mind and u are my great isperation
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Hey Raj, thank you so much for the support and I'm really happy to hear the videos and stories here on the channel has helped you out. Wish you all the best man 🤝
@sunitaxtry1086
@sunitaxtry1086 4 года назад
U are big inspiration for my life mane thankyou show mach 🙏🙏🙏
@istvankincs632
@istvankincs632 4 года назад
You shouldnt have to worry brother. Bald looks fits so good on brown/black men. Good luck!
@nicksam305
@nicksam305 3 года назад
@@sunitaxtry1086 Abe kaa haal hai takle?
@guybreaks
@guybreaks 3 года назад
You can't fake that passion. Great content
@bazzinga37
@bazzinga37 4 года назад
I shaved my head last week and it immediately felt like there's nothing left to worry about and a NEW ME. You're a real inspiration. Couldn't have done it without your videos, ngl. 🙌🏼❤️
@Kthomasritchie
@Kthomasritchie 2 года назад
It's liberating. Like that scene in GI Jane when she shaves her head and feels so badass.
@michaelmccalla7360
@michaelmccalla7360 4 года назад
I so get what why you made this video, as I did exactly what you did over 20 years ago and its only now that, I feel comfortable with it as I look great bald but didn't want to have the thinned look, so well done for sharing, it's so refreshing!
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Thank you Michael, wish you all the best.
@Juggler707
@Juggler707 4 года назад
next stage - Trevor from GTA V
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
😆 This has been said a few times 👍
@Zudoarichidoari
@Zudoarichidoari 4 года назад
@@Baldcafe DO IT
@DTOLL9000
@DTOLL9000 4 года назад
Lol that's what I was thinking of when watching this video, Trevor can pull it off, he doesn't give a shit about anything
@The-Esoteric-One
@The-Esoteric-One 3 года назад
Next stage: Devin Townsend's skullet
@bigd1223
@bigd1223 4 года назад
The shaved look looks a lot better than the balding look.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Incoming 👍
@KrisVic91
@KrisVic91 4 года назад
You kinda missed the point of the video bro?
@adelb7897
@adelb7897 4 года назад
Not necessarily, it depends. I think some guys can pull off the balding look and it suits them even better than fully bald. It is subjective though.
@bigd1223
@bigd1223 4 года назад
@@KrisVic91 I didn't miss anything. I'm stating my views on his shaved look vs his balding look.
@KrisVic91
@KrisVic91 4 года назад
@@adelb7897 balding, shaved head with heavy stubble or skin tight bald with a beard. Bruce Willis, Jason Statham versus Kratos, John Travolta. Or whatever makes you happy really.
@MrRyanAlmighty
@MrRyanAlmighty 2 года назад
I've found it's the people you love most that bring it up!! Not the random strangers in the street. You expect the people you love the most to be the most supportive and non caring yet its not and that's what hurts the most! My hair has been thinning over the last few years and my hair line has gotten further backwards in that time.. don't get me wrong it wasn't bad but yet I still received comments from my boys and even my sister mentioned me thinning on top. It's those comments that made me more self conscious and anxious about it. I watched a few of these videos last night and got my fiancè to shave my head last night 😊 I already feel at ease
@stevieG.
@stevieG. 3 года назад
I think the grown out look suits him better !
@Oatmeal_Ghost
@Oatmeal_Ghost 2 года назад
I started thinning around 21, prior to that I had nice wavy medium/long hair. I never really had major insecurities about it, and have been shaving my head for about 10 years now. My wife was in denial a lot longer than me and that gave me more insecurity than anything else. I do miss my long hair though. Shaved is fine, but I’d love to have full long hair again. Oh well.
@Cosmicdonut6764
@Cosmicdonut6764 2 года назад
Are you still with her? Lol
@Lucke189
@Lucke189 3 года назад
There is some stoicism going on here kinda. All about stopping caring about things you can't change, just because you can't change them! Peace of mind
@andrewvillafana4923
@andrewvillafana4923 4 года назад
I started taking dutasteride haven’t lost a hair sense. You might loose the ability to ejaculate but it’s tempoaray in my experience/research. Dht is main cause of hair loss finsteride works people dutasteride works better no reason to be loosing your hair out there anymore. Get on it early just speaking from experience loosing you hair is super depressing I’m glad I stopped it.
@andrewvillafana4923
@andrewvillafana4923 4 года назад
Yes you will shed initially but trust it works
@samuelpersico
@samuelpersico 3 года назад
Shout out to you bro! You made me feel more confident about the change that i took, i shaved my head bald man! Im 24, started balding at 21/22. I live In barcelona so i felt that comment you made about the esspresso hehe! Go bald, go Big!
@extravaganzaxxlvii8255
@extravaganzaxxlvii8255 4 года назад
I started to lose hair when i was 25 and now im 30 and looking older than my age with thinning hair, i don't really mind going bald but its the society who makes me feel low self esteem, especially when i meet an old friends n they laugh n told me to get treatments for my hair, believe me I've done it all n seem nothing works except for the hair transplant which is super expensive and i dont think i need it. I just gonna embrace my balding head from now on thanks dude for makes me confident again
@michaelcritchley8870
@michaelcritchley8870 Год назад
i can relate to this completely, im rocking a shaved head now, but i remember back in my 20s, receding, feeling insecure trying to style my hair to hide it, wearing hats even when it made me feel really hot and uncomfortable, til i finally grabbed the clippers and shaved it all off, some time later starting to use a razor, i feel far better about the way i look now than ever have
@johngotti333
@johngotti333 3 года назад
Greetings from Germany. I'm 20 and shave my head too. I like it very much
@keenangordon3662
@keenangordon3662 3 года назад
I always say if you have one of two things you should be find rocking a shaved/bald head. 1) a good, nearly perfectly shaped head 2) can grow a decent beard/facial hair | if you have both, you won the lottery!
@jameshusentoff2953
@jameshusentoff2953 3 года назад
This convinced me not to wear hair fibers to my new job. Just go in to work balding
@Bevtone
@Bevtone 2 года назад
Best advice I could part onto a young man as someone once parted onto me, keep your hair short don't fight it. I've been balding since about 18 I used to enjoy having long hair and difrent styles but then I started keeping it short and manageable and the transition into fully bald is allot more aesthetically natural looking, you see men with huge comb overs and or long crowning hair but thin on top and you don't want to be that person who's living in denial, some men bald over a fast peroid some it takes decades no matter what just own it keep it short and the transition will be an easier one for you mentally and physically. Just remember physically you're an attractive person whether or not you have hair is just superficial when you carry yourself with assured confidence then your bald head is sexy as fuck trust me.
@briancerna_
@briancerna_ 2 года назад
That thumbnail reminded me of Tom hardy.
@jdubbleu1011
@jdubbleu1011 4 месяца назад
What if your balding but don’t really care what people think. May as well keep what’s left right? And save all the hassle of shaving every other day etc and razor bumps etc etc.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 месяца назад
Yes. If you are balding but don’t care about it you literally don’t have a problem so do whatever. That’s a win.
@jdubbleu1011
@jdubbleu1011 4 месяца назад
@@Baldcafe I’m a day away from shaving it off. Bought the shaver but can’t bring myself to do it at the moment. Great channel btw. 👍
@Greg87601
@Greg87601 2 года назад
Thank you for making this video.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 2 года назад
My pleasure 🤝
@Skip2105
@Skip2105 4 года назад
6:38 When you’re on vacation and realize you forgot your razor
@mihinduwijayaratne5367
@mihinduwijayaratne5367 3 года назад
the passion is real
@leewightman8001
@leewightman8001 2 года назад
This dude's made me feel better about my Jude law style residing head
@jessiewaynewalker9221
@jessiewaynewalker9221 3 года назад
Thank you for your service
@roystongrasserton5835
@roystongrasserton5835 3 года назад
I have been thinning for years and I just grew in a walnut whip and have found this brown spray paint that is safe for skin and I have never looked back.Im telling you the walnut whip is back to stay
@mtns7036
@mtns7036 Год назад
It's not like your trying to hide anything still. People see it's been buzzed at some stage, if anyone thought anything it would be , here's a guy who has a buzzed/shaved head but just hasn't cut it for a while. The hiding part is moreso the longer stage where people try to comb it over. It still looks fine to me.
@mtns7036
@mtns7036 8 месяцев назад
@maalikserebryakov yes the same way people can tell if you have a full head of hair . The same way people could tell if you fully shave it to the skin. None of that matters in the slightest
@baldbearded9601
@baldbearded9601 2 года назад
Thank you for that video.. really
@jimmyc306
@jimmyc306 3 года назад
I did exactly the same for a few years. Let it grow, took finasteride( private percription) plus, Bio-tin and Sea Kelp. Literally got my hair back. Do it, what's the worse that can happen
@kevincallahan771
@kevincallahan771 3 года назад
Love your channel brother. 👍
@bugrilyus
@bugrilyus 4 года назад
You look good because you are handsome in the face without the hair, too! Not everyone has that. Btw I wonder why you didn't use regaine though?
@coyoteferns
@coyoteferns 3 года назад
The people who bully others are either jealous and/or insecure about the thing they are pointing out.
@rookmaster7502
@rookmaster7502 4 года назад
I find it very sad that so many men are so insecure about going bald. A balding head is not a shameful thing, it is a natural process. I guess all the bombardment of those hair treatment and restoration adverts are really having an impact on how people feel about themselves.
@chansefyffe7162
@chansefyffe7162 3 года назад
I wish more balding men knew how to blend their hair! He could easily rock a full looking buzz cut if he knew how to blend it
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 3 года назад
Not much to blend these days I'm afraid
@Indra50111
@Indra50111 3 года назад
I will try this, i always been afraid growing out my thin hair but now i will give it try, i want to see how i look with long hair. Thank you james
@sonijam
@sonijam 4 года назад
It worked for Brian Eno and he's cooler than either of us.
@HuntersXO
@HuntersXO 3 года назад
I have quite a good head of hair with a slight widows peak but I still enjoy shaving my head once a year to freshen myself up. I usually get a bald fade and quiff the top but I honestly prefer the hassle free no maintenance skinhead for a month. I might just go for the bald look for good.
@Sbstnjb
@Sbstnjb Год назад
It is only hair. I am rocking receiding hair line for years and don't give a single FCK what anybody thinks. I honestly feel sorry for all those people doing hair transplants or hiding... How your hair look does not define you. Be confident and accept yourself.
@johnny5805
@johnny5805 3 года назад
I'm not going bald but i'm tempted to shave my head because he's so passionate.
@edspengeman6781
@edspengeman6781 2 года назад
You look fine now.
@imalex7039
@imalex7039 4 года назад
I could shave my head 1 year ago , instead of that i went to turkey for a hair trasplant it was the best desition in my life.
@vitorpereira5461
@vitorpereira5461 3 года назад
editing skills very high. Any tutorials/programs you could share?
@Theviewerdude
@Theviewerdude 3 года назад
I'm not even balding and this man makes me want to shave my head
@gardini100
@gardini100 3 года назад
all I say if the hair becomes a problem remove the problem or even better just tune it down a little
@mrbig667
@mrbig667 3 года назад
Great video 👍 tracking my own experiance of this as i was inspired!
@shaunsteele8244
@shaunsteele8244 2 года назад
my hair is almost exactly the same as his, except it's blonde so it looks even more bald on my head lol
@roryslaine7896
@roryslaine7896 2 года назад
I'm 31, and I started balding at about 25. It was quite gradual and I'm still not fully bald. Like I still grow normal hair on the back and sides but I'm bald on top. I used to be crazy about haircuts or the lack thereof. I used to have hair down to my shoulders and I looked like a rocker. When I started going bald I cut it down and tried to hide it by doing shitty comb-overs and the like. Thinking back it was SO cringe because I constantly had to mess with my hair and people knew I was going bald. One day I just decided fuck it, and shaved it all off. Best decision I ever made. Coincidentally I couldn't grow a proper beard until my head started going bald, so I started shaving my head and stopped shaving my face. It's kinda funny because when I had the long hair and couldn't grow a beard people thought I was like 6 years younger than I actually am. Having the skinhead and a long beard actually made people respect me more because they thought I was older.
@GBooneoh
@GBooneoh 3 года назад
im not balding but your talk was very motavational! new sub.. oh and kevin durant brought me here.
@stevenkilleen8149
@stevenkilleen8149 3 года назад
I'd def get hair system would look awesome
@stuartosborn4785
@stuartosborn4785 3 года назад
Strimming my hair off plus scalp micropigmentation absolutely changed my life. I wish I'd done it years ago
@sumitwadhwa6071
@sumitwadhwa6071 3 года назад
Hahaha.. Love your passion bro while you speak..
@chadpickens9929
@chadpickens9929 2 года назад
Where’d u get your gold wedding band ? It’s very yellow , my brother has one like that it’s soft gold bc it is make from 24 kt gold from a celebrity’s daughter that recycles gold and gives extra to like different causes and foundations
@rtSfe67
@rtSfe67 3 года назад
Honestly. If he got on finasteride now and 1 year later got a hair transplant he MIGHT be able to restore his hair.
@exist0rman
@exist0rman 4 года назад
You were on the wrong side of the car!!
@phoenixv.1044
@phoenixv.1044 3 года назад
Went years depressed about my hair, always hiding it under hats, always wondering if people were looking at my hair......but boy's today was the day I drew the line. I just shaved my hair off 10 min ago and I feel amazing!!!! Glad to be a new bald Man member! Super grateful for this community it paved me to finally shave it all off!
@chottabeamm
@chottabeamm 3 года назад
I don't know why, but it honestly makes me happy to see this comment, you rock man!
@themondoshow
@themondoshow 3 года назад
Let’s GO KING
@Leispada
@Leispada 3 года назад
you legend. be free!
@frankstucatz3270
@frankstucatz3270 3 года назад
I bought a Nioxin shampoo kit, 3 months of Rogaine and Biotin about 3 weeks ago. I'm fed up, mine is all coming off tomorrow! Lmfao
@phoenixv.1044
@phoenixv.1044 3 года назад
@@frankstucatz3270 I was using the same Nioxin shampoo, all it does it keep what you have and make you think your hair is one day going to come back sadly. Go for it man shave it off I'm 1 week in and loving it.
@NorsePJ
@NorsePJ 2 года назад
It's kind of like the five stages of grief: Denial. Anger. Bargaining. Depression. Acceptance. Once you get to the acceptance stage it's like you're finally free and the world is yours again. It's simply just a case of "Don't let your hair or no hair define you. Love begins with yourself." Cheers from Down Under!
@hughg.rection7208
@hughg.rection7208 2 года назад
Does down under mean Australia cause I hear that so much and I literally have no idea, I’m American tho so don’t roast
@NorsePJ
@NorsePJ 2 года назад
@@hughg.rection7208 Yes. Cheers mate!
@jessegarrett6343
@jessegarrett6343 4 года назад
That espresso must have been hitting.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Hit so good 💯
@JH-cv3mm
@JH-cv3mm 4 года назад
Hard!
@cui.cui.
@cui.cui. 4 года назад
Hahahaha
@morningstar5071
@morningstar5071 4 года назад
@@Baldcafe Maxixes,com Maxixes cured hair loss ^^
@soultanaltarjamey7670
@soultanaltarjamey7670 4 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Haters will say "he's obsessed with his hair" The real ones know its about self awareness. If you want to skip to the important point that I learned through growing out my hair this time you can skip to 08:52. Thanks for watching guys. You rock! ✊ ps I absolutely go in and the espresso hits at 10:00.
@karapto
@karapto 4 года назад
amazing video man!! always throwing gems
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Thank you!
@arunbhardwaj7339
@arunbhardwaj7339 4 года назад
There are no haters brwwww
@samuelesquivel6202
@samuelesquivel6202 4 года назад
Thanks fo ur words bro 💪, keep inspiring us ✊
@subsonix_
@subsonix_ 4 года назад
You Rock!, with the help of you guys, i did it last month :) Thank you. and i rocked the thinning look for years, just couldn't bring myself to do it. You sir are a legend. Big love :)
@ScottWilder
@ScottWilder 3 года назад
Realizing what you said, that absolutely no one gives a crap. Any decent human being immediately grasps that hair loss is perfectly natural. And then here's the mind blowing moment: When you do meet those people who judge you based on your hair (and they are out there) you finally realize that they're the crappy human beings. Not you.
@monicagambino318
@monicagambino318 2 года назад
Exactly
@st420nerr4
@st420nerr4 4 года назад
I started losing my hair when I was 16,now I'm 19 and my hair is long gone Life isn't fair😭
@chiyumisaki1665
@chiyumisaki1665 4 года назад
Life never fair.. Lot of ppl richer, good looking, got lot of girl/man and so on but if u grateful with what u got, believe me u won't give a shit
@felipehamm6522
@felipehamm6522 4 года назад
Me too brother =/
@atonukabir7126
@atonukabir7126 4 года назад
I can feel you my brother 😭😭
@xeyepatchh6429
@xeyepatchh6429 4 года назад
Same shit dude, I noticed I was balding when I was 16 and a half. Fast forward some months, and now I'm already a Norwood 2.5 Lmao. I don't even know if I'll still have them by next year
@yashkulshrestha4931
@yashkulshrestha4931 4 года назад
Same bro
@farhaansyed8739
@farhaansyed8739 4 года назад
Going to shave my head today, nervous but it's now or never.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
You got this man ✊
@rajdesai94
@rajdesai94 4 года назад
I'll join you
@jorgeanibal8834
@jorgeanibal8834 4 года назад
do it my man. come back and let us know how it went
@ramzis4157
@ramzis4157 4 года назад
I just did it on Sunday. Immediately i thought to myself what have I done? Fast forward 24 hours later and I am very happy with my decision. Do it and don’t look back no matter how much fear you have!
@nakkadu
@nakkadu 4 года назад
I did it beginning of lockdown after a few beers....woke up and could t believe it but it looked and felt good. Grown it back now but keeping it really short so much better!
@LemonPuf
@LemonPuf 2 года назад
My sons 19 and has been losing his hair since aged 15. The affect on his mental health is so overwhelming and his confidence is rock bottom. He’s started Finasteride microdosing, microneedling, fibres, baseball caps…I’m sure all your subscribers know the routine. Heartbreaking as a mum to watch, knowing his hair is affecting his WHOLE life.
@guyfriedman295
@guyfriedman295 2 года назад
Unpopular opinion, but maybe buy him some of "the rock", jason Statham, vin diesel etc posters? They are all completely bald men and no one is questioning their looks
@ricky4898
@ricky4898 2 года назад
Go bald, better than hormone altering drugs for a teenager
@donalddavid8199
@donalddavid8199 2 года назад
Bald men rule the world
@signoguns8501
@signoguns8501 2 года назад
Yeah, that sounds brutal. Poor kid. It's one thing to lose your hair when youre 35. It's another thing entirely to lose it when you're a teenager. I can't imagine what that must be like for him. It must be genuinely traumatic. I had a few friends who lost their hair at 20/21. They are 38 now and they have gotten over it completely. They both have shaved heads, are in happy relationships with kids and a mortgage etc. So tell him that it does get easier. Soon, his friends will start losing their hair too. He won't be the only one. That will make it a little bit easier to cope with. Also, I would strongly suggest that you try to get him off of finasteride and minoxidil ASAP! They can have devastating lifelong consequences, including permanent erectile dysfunction and infertility, as well as depression and suicidality. There is a whole slew of negative side effects associated with those drugs. They are incredibly dangerous, especially for someone as young as him. It's just not worth the risk to his long-term health. Try to persuade him to shave it all off. And when he does, TELL HIM HOW GREAT HE LOOKS! Reassure him. Do it all the time. Do it randomly throughout the day. Drop lots of little compliments. Stuff like "oh, that actually really suits you" or "that looks so much better" or "I really like that look" Constant reassurance. Good luck with everything. And remember that it will get better. He will get over it. If you have any questions or need advice, feel free to ask. Ive been through it, too.
@nibbax7772
@nibbax7772 2 года назад
@@signoguns8501 don’t forget he has to hit the gym that’s most important if he’s in shape, growing a beard is a plus but he better bulk and beef up
@petertran5876
@petertran5876 4 года назад
Love the balding community it is one of the strongest brotherhoods and we don’t hate each other like brothers do because we all feel the same way and all want to improve ourselves and ultimately make the best out of ourselves during the process :)
@alde1611
@alde1611 4 года назад
I just love that you said " balding community" hahaha fkn brilliant. I feel a part of something!!
@rajanloyolite
@rajanloyolite 4 года назад
Yeah, You can form a bald community village ...
@godshelter211
@godshelter211 4 года назад
I'm new member to this community, I must say these videos are really helping me get thru this🙂
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Brave Heart welcome! 🤝
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
100% there is something in it. You nailed it. There is some serious strength in positivity and luckily this channel and the comments are full of decent, stand up positive guys that can recognise the struggle and look to bring others up and through it. Its one of the best things to come out of me uploading videos.
@davidalvarez389
@davidalvarez389 4 года назад
You look really wise with that hair on top, literally Socrates
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
😆 I love this one 👍 Thank you
@davidalvarez389
@davidalvarez389 4 года назад
@@Baldcafe anytime bro, it's good you're legitimately wise too. It fits the look so well
@Wawawalulu
@Wawawalulu 3 года назад
Rock it. Like Dan Snaith. Tho bald still looks better!
@tommak6516
@tommak6516 3 года назад
The guy who made this video seems to be overly focused on his hair. Doesn't he have anything more important to worry about? After watching this I am not even sure what point he is trying to make, if anyone knows please enlighten me.
@jeanpierrepolnareff9919
@jeanpierrepolnareff9919 3 года назад
@@tommak6516 1st world problems
@marcustard6971
@marcustard6971 4 года назад
I ain't even bald or balding but this is a good life lesson of over coming your fears thankyou bro
@bow-wow31
@bow-wow31 3 года назад
Same it's a good lesson
@awacruizer
@awacruizer 3 года назад
If you're teacher, the kids will let you know all the time. Little Bastards! LOL
@UchihaITACHI-jq8bn
@UchihaITACHI-jq8bn 3 года назад
😂😅🤣
@TheArmaan81
@TheArmaan81 3 года назад
Heisenberg
@jason258
@jason258 4 года назад
I looked in the mirror today while putting in hair fiber. My balding is simply too much and the fiber is starting to look bad. I told my wife about my decision to finally shave it and she sent me this video. It's tough being 29 and going through hair loss for the last 4 years is hard. Thanks for giving me confidence.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
You have a great Wife and everything you need to move past this once and for all. Wish you nothing but the best. You got this ✊
@RK-xe3tw
@RK-xe3tw 4 года назад
Yeah man I agree so much. I also have problems with that and I'm fucking 18 years old only.
@rayt.7128
@rayt.7128 3 года назад
@@RK-xe3tw take finasteride and watch Kevin Mann channel
@Jared_Reacts
@Jared_Reacts 3 года назад
29 myself and mine started at 25 brother. I feel your pain. My twin and I are about to make the decision to shave ourselves.
@JR-un7uj
@JR-un7uj 3 года назад
I'm with you bro i shaved it all off and surprisingly i bagged one of the hottest chicks I've ever been with, i got with a 23 year old drop dead gorgeous co worker and I'm 29 .. i should have shaved it earlier lmao
@watson_parker
@watson_parker 2 года назад
I honestly never thought thinning/receding hair looked bad; it's manly and distinguished. Not giving a fuck when people make fun of you for balding is the ultimate flex.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 2 года назад
I’m with you 💯
@deanslife1
@deanslife1 2 года назад
Yeah, I've had randoms on nights out make fun of my receeding hair at the front....Sometimes I'll tell them they are insecure but other times I've just ignored it but it's not nice at all.
@soumyasankarchowdhury9276
@soumyasankarchowdhury9276 2 года назад
@@Baldcafe bro you still can get a pretty good hair transplant
@jakay637
@jakay637 2 года назад
Guys confident in going bald and letting their hair grow out is a rarity which makes it even hotter. Bald/balding guys are the best
@midwestent.7010
@midwestent.7010 2 года назад
Exactly I'm 32 been dealing with blading for about 10 now ppl love to tell me just shave it off I like rocking the little hair i do have confidently is just another way of accepting it just as if I shave it off
@musicismyreligion8199
@musicismyreligion8199 4 года назад
I'm guessing that Espresso really kicked in when he got to the beach!? You were jumping around like someone put a quarter in you! :)
@perry92964
@perry92964 3 года назад
his motovational education really kicked in, he kept saying the same thing over and ove, i was skipping ahead and he was still saying it
@kandacenoire
@kandacenoire 3 года назад
Kinda like Gordon Ramsey
@Ruby-xk8kn
@Ruby-xk8kn 4 года назад
As a woman this is really interesting, i honestly did not know men had such issues over balding or aging, or i never even thought about it, but it seems the problems men have with aging isn't as spoken about, i think you are all kings, bald heads and beards are a super handsome combo.
@JokinJoe
@JokinJoe 3 года назад
If only everyone thought like you
@toneojly1249
@toneojly1249 3 года назад
Women love to talk too much unlike men, but I like them because of that. huh weird right? what I was trying to say ?
@Ruby-xk8kn
@Ruby-xk8kn 3 года назад
@@toneojly1249i mean i do talk a lot... online that is. I forget how speak out loud these days haha.
@englishexperts1974
@englishexperts1974 3 года назад
@@JokinJoe they do, we feel pussy since we look for pussy. Women don’t
@masterexploder9668
@masterexploder9668 3 года назад
It's actually pretty simple @Ruby , balding is a sign of aging and a pretty obvious one. In today's culture obsessing about enjoying life and striving to be good looking, you get models of both sexes looking like absolute peak humans you can ever find. No wrinkles, no cellulit, no balding etc. When you get reminded of your own imperfections and mortality from one side, and assaulted from cultural wave which is shaming imperfections in our bodies, the result is this.
@eccehomo1218
@eccehomo1218 4 года назад
Shaved my hair today with 20. Best decision ever. Closed this chapter finally.
@PhoenixRising166
@PhoenixRising166 4 года назад
Might do the same too. Stay strong, mate!
@matthieudelarte3914
@matthieudelarte3914 4 года назад
I find that shaving is not a solution because in reality by shaving you don't accept your baldness, on the contrary you hide it. You shave twice a week it's hyper constraining. The goal is to accept yourself even if you have holes on your head or little hair.
@deennrap
@deennrap 3 года назад
@@matthieudelarte3914 well i guess it your choice to look ugly so go for it, i like my head shaved
@MrDavidinho96
@MrDavidinho96 3 года назад
@@matthieudelarte3914 how do you do that?
@dylandrabsch1318
@dylandrabsch1318 3 года назад
Just did the same, time to stop worrying about it because whether others care about it or not it's you that has to be the confident one
@twynzdouble6270
@twynzdouble6270 4 года назад
Keep this channel going- it’s niche nobody else on RU-vid has anything so positive for men dealing with hair loss 👍🏼
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Thank you man. I certainly will. It will always be about what it's about now with some extras here and there to keep people interested but always with the same great message 🙏
@twynzdouble6270
@twynzdouble6270 4 года назад
Baldcafe I have to be honest this current video made me miss the U.K. I moved to Texas last year and the footage of the beach and landscape even the costa coffee makes me home sick...loving the in car commentary from the mk2 also 🤘🏻
@orlandodanao371
@orlandodanao371 3 года назад
I'm 39. Losing hair since my 17. Did hair transplant when I was 32 but 7 years later almost nothing left. I shaved it all yesterday night after watching a few of your videos. Thank you buddy for giving me the strength to get it done for good. Such a great relief !!
@jaumet679
@jaumet679 3 года назад
Fuss or Fue?
@orlandodanao371
@orlandodanao371 3 года назад
Fue
@deanslife1
@deanslife1 2 года назад
@@orlandodanao371 nothing left? Aren't you supposed to keep your donor hair?
@ScreamingEagleFTW
@ScreamingEagleFTW 2 года назад
hair transplant $$$$$ and its gone now???!!!!
@JoshA0669
@JoshA0669 2 года назад
Hair transplant didn't work?
@robertyoung406
@robertyoung406 3 года назад
Dude, you're a fking beast. Max respect to you for admitting this part of yourself, regrowing your hair, and facing your fears head-on. Not a lot of people (myself included) can do that. This is inspiring though, thanks for sharing.
@peterbattle5702
@peterbattle5702 4 года назад
I’m digging your message man, never be afraid to crush.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Thank you Peter. You are spot on 👌
@CatonsvilleCentralRwy
@CatonsvilleCentralRwy 4 года назад
You're onto something that goes so far beyond just the struggle of hair loss. It covers virtually every area in which we face fears in life. Getting a hair treatment, shaving it off, wearing a hat...they're all dealing with the symptoms of the problem, not the root. The root is self-confidence. And the only way to build self-confidence is to put your faith in - and to base your happiness of off - something other than your own self-image. Building self-confidence is about, paradoxically, worrying less about yourself and turning yourself outwards to be more concerned with other people and less concerned with how you think others see you and (more to the point) how you see yourself. The only way to "beat balding", as I think you're discovering and explaining so well, is to deal with the root problem head-on. Once that's beat, you're truly free. At the point if you want to go for the hair treatment, or shave it off, or just go au naturel, it's entirely up to you, but your coming from a place of freedom, not enslavement to fear. Great video and thanks for all you do.
@MrDavidinho96
@MrDavidinho96 4 года назад
wow, great comment man, beautifully explained
@chrismellor1606
@chrismellor1606 4 года назад
Well said👏👏👏👏
@dtosmanm4743
@dtosmanm4743 3 года назад
Yeah sure and then just say the typical "looks don't matter" while every study and life experience proves it wrong
@CatonsvilleCentralRwy
@CatonsvilleCentralRwy 3 года назад
@@dtosmanm4743 Not at all. Looks help a lot. Lacking exceptional looks can almost be thought of as a “handicap” almost like living with a physical disability in a sense. Life is not fair at all, but it’s all about doing what you can with what you got. One might possibly have been be able to go further in life if they had looks on their side, but if they didn’t, they didn’t. They still only have one shot at life and they might as well make the most of it as they have literally nothing to lose. I believe the studies though, but the studies don’t prove the reason for the results. Could it be that most people who lack the best of looks are troubled by self confidence, and thus become a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy? All I can say is that I know plenty of great guys personally who have taken a shot and landed way “out of their league” successfully. One other point that took me a while to fully realize as a guy: your value as a human being is not in how many sexual partners you’ve had. A massive portion of our society has fallen for that lie, and so we do see the ramifications of that, like it or not, but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s not true.
@dtosmanm4743
@dtosmanm4743 3 года назад
@@CatonsvilleCentralRwy I am just pointing out that this guy thinks he is like the prophet of bald guys when in reality he has it better than most. So yes he can get away with being bald and still have a fulfilling life(mostyl sex life, because you can have a nice life in other aspects being unattractive). But most men cannot go bald because they look like shit so they should look into other options(now if the guy wants to go bald, no problem). The thing is this dude is making it seem it is not a big deal when in reality it is. Not every high value male has to have a lot of sexual partners, but every high value male has the ability to do it if he wants.
@25inspector
@25inspector 3 года назад
Back in 1999 I buzzed all my hair off for charity when I was 35. I had a receding hairline for years before that. I loved the way it looked and so did many of my family and friends...so I kept it. It gave me freedom and one less worry.
@fvw1187
@fvw1187 3 года назад
I am not balding but I really like this content. As a consequence google advertises hella anti balding stuff and I get the picture of the desperation these sugar pills feed on. Man that sucks. I hope if I bald in the future I can have the attitude of a lot of the people shown on this channel.
@fvw1187
@fvw1187 3 года назад
@Gorgeous George naw I watch videos on people who take PEDs and a large part of their content is dealing with hair loss associated with taking steroids. Ergo this channel was recommended. Although you did get me thinking and my grandpas brother on my moms side is bald. I don’t think that makes me vulnerable but idk. No hair loss yet.
@RajShekhar-jy2zi
@RajShekhar-jy2zi 3 года назад
Same
@Mclearmountain
@Mclearmountain 4 года назад
Real positive energy in this video. It is a sight to see.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
Appreciate that thank you. A healthy dose of coffee and a subject I could talk about forever go well together. this stuff needs to be said. 🤝
@blahqwe
@blahqwe 4 года назад
This is like a TED talk......with more enthusiasm.
@amirmehdirajabzadeh1389
@amirmehdirajabzadeh1389 4 года назад
Yeahh exactly himym 😂
@rstorey
@rstorey 4 года назад
I’m envious of guys that have shaved their heads and owned it. I’m balding but use fibres but it’s holding me back in enjoying life to the full because of people noticing. Going to get an electric shaver for that time I finally do it. Thanks for the videos.
@SteveWKk
@SteveWKk 4 года назад
Sprinking fake hair on your head? Damn man.......stop doing that. Accept who you are and buzz that shit off. Trust me, life and confidence only gets better and better.
@guksack
@guksack 4 года назад
I was doing the same. Was nervous about an impending trip of a lifetime, being able to swim etc. Shaved it before I went and it was a revelation. Huge release of stress I didn’t know I had.
@zes793
@zes793 4 года назад
Take the plunge brother. My MPB first appeared in high school (age 15) and it took me until 17 to shave it all off. I did it reluctantly, but it turned out to be a major blessing in disguise. I'm 27 now (a decade of clean shaven) and it's the shit. Once you're on the other side you'll realise how much of a burden your hair really was. Having to style it, trying to conceal the balding, having it cut, and all the other stressors and maintenance involved. When you're ready to chop it - you'll look better, feel better, life is easier and more. Balding guys are beta asf and everyone feels bad for them. *Bald guys* are peak masculinity. Not only will you get less negative attention, you'll actually get more positive attention than when you had a full head of hair. People respect it, and women are attracted to it.
@amirmehdirajabzadeh1389
@amirmehdirajabzadeh1389 4 года назад
Go for it mate and never look back
@SteveWKk
@SteveWKk 4 года назад
@@zes793 Most guys don't realize this....but it's true. When you confidently shave your head, you stand out and it draws a lot of good attention;)
@terrasai2857
@terrasai2857 2 года назад
Videos like this remind me that everyone has their own problems. I’m a man who is blessed with thick curly hair and no one in my family is bald but I suffer from severe mental illness to the point where I’m bedridden and suicidal. I’ve just been trying to be grateful to even be alive.
@wandamiancrucifixplate568
@wandamiancrucifixplate568 4 года назад
You're telling my story. Confidence went through the roof when I finally shaved my head, started losing hair at 18. But didn't really feel comfortable til I was able to grow it out a bit, confront it, see how much it doesn't matter and feel better.
@unm0vedm0ver
@unm0vedm0ver 2 года назад
This video is so necessary, man. I never even realized this, having been shaving my head bald a few years after noticing my own balding at around 24 (now 32). But honestly it makes me uncomfortable not having my head shaved completely and I never thought twice about that, I'd just wear a hat if I was too lazy to shave. You made real, solid points here for me to reflect on. My next journey is to not shave my head and be OK with it. Thank you for this passionate video.
@Kthomasritchie
@Kthomasritchie 2 года назад
When I shave my head with a razor, I feel super confident. If I skip a day, I feel vulnerable.
@Kriti98
@Kriti98 4 года назад
No one said anything because you're a handsome dude buddy.
@slowfade7664
@slowfade7664 3 года назад
The shaipe of his head is good and he has a green eye, only his beard is not that great, but his eyes makes him look really good!
@Ihaveausernametoo
@Ihaveausernametoo 3 года назад
@@slowfade7664 Huh? Ain't that subjective. I think his beard is beautiful.
@jameswasilchen7903
@jameswasilchen7903 3 года назад
Having hair should not be hard work. We've got better things to do with our time. Vanity can kick one's ass.
@gmeister3022
@gmeister3022 4 года назад
I see a lot of growth in you. A year/two years ago, you covered ways to look better with a bald head such as getting a better jawline and shit. But now you let it grow, and you feel freeer than before. Guess everybody should try it too.
@Baldcafe
@Baldcafe 4 года назад
It’s certainly been a journey or discovery and I’m happy to share these revolutions as they arise. Thanks for being a long term supporter of the channel 👍 🤝
@benyvmin_
@benyvmin_ 4 года назад
The message is 10/10 as per
@josht2454
@josht2454 4 года назад
that looks completely normal i wouldn't even bat an eye lid, look like a normal man to me
@Skiptondesigns
@Skiptondesigns 4 года назад
That's why men who are balding grow a big beard...it's to balance out the lack of hair on top of their head with a nest of hair below.
@slowfade7664
@slowfade7664 3 года назад
Because bald look better with a good beard!
@josephpeters7076
@josephpeters7076 3 года назад
@@slowfade7664 stubble is the way to go
@kaydeear
@kaydeear 3 года назад
I am not balding but have shaved my head many times, it's a wonderful way to live. I absolutely love what you do and I have told all my mates with balding about your channel. Your words of self-awareness and confidence help me with my image even though my hair is long. Keep it up man.
@steelethescene
@steelethescene 3 года назад
i can relate on a different level as a female who grayed very young and covered it with color for many years. pandemic forced me to grow it out. still not sure how i feel about it but i keep reminding myself that people pay for this color. there has never been a better time in history to be bald for men and gray for women.
@Timmay-yy6ej
@Timmay-yy6ej 2 года назад
This channel is slowly helping me gear up mentally for the shave. It’s the initial ‘shock’ to other people of the change. I’m combing over to hide it and my hair is pretty long. I’m anxious about day one and the comments but yeah this is helping. You’re a legend mate.
@Boomtendo4tw
@Boomtendo4tw 2 года назад
Just trim it short. Shaved isn't comfortable. Feels weird to touch
@feedapony
@feedapony Год назад
Cut your hair shorter each month until you shave it off be less of a shock and will ease your anxiety over it
@SweetNessTM
@SweetNessTM 3 года назад
All of this is because you got that huge beard and look older, try walking around campus with a baby face but with hair like this lmao
@pgl79
@pgl79 3 года назад
I'm 41 and my hair has really started thinning over the last couple of years, but my dad was bald by the time he was 20 so I've had a good run!
@dboss3585
@dboss3585 2 года назад
What is youre secret ?
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