I’m so proud of you Britty Boy! We waited to tell you because we didn’t want it to be a crutch, they said you would never speak, you write for the newspaper and you work at the radio station and you are a great singer! I loved this video!🥰😘 thanks for the globe shoutout 😂
“You know what, I’m okay with who I am.” Amen!!! This was an uplifting vid to watch, and your openness and honesty is a great breath of fresh air. Keep doing you!!
Britton! My booktube little brother. What a wonderfully amazing, incredible, courageous, brave, and inspirational person you are! I already have such a tremendous amount of respect and admiration for you and this video only increased that respect and admiration. I can only imagine the fear and apprehension you had to overcome to be so honest and I truly appreciate it. Thank you for allowing us to see a little more into you, because you are a great person to get to know. Love you bro and so proud of you!
Darko, you are too kind my friend. I was admittedly nervous about doing this video, because I didn't know if I would do it justice. Glad you enjoyed it. :)
Thanks for being open with your experience, Britton! I think that Allen (and the other booktubers who have been open with their diagnoses or struggles) did the book community a huge favor by opening the door for these discussions.
Indeed, I knew when Allen put out the stream. I had to make a video discussing some of my own experiences. I hoped it could reach people. Thank you for your comment Tori.
Great job with this video! I have worked with many Asperger's kids in the classroom over the years & you hit on many characteristics, struggles, and victories. Whenever people speak out honestly & openly, it helps so many others. Thanks for this. I don't know you , yet I am proud of you!
Content comes first and tweaks for quality follow when possible, so no worries! Both of my sons are on the spectrum as well, it can definitely be a challenge. As parents, it hurts to not see our kids go out and have the same experiences that other kids are having or at least ones we did as kids. It takes time to figure out that it's okay, but you should still try to expose them to as many things as possible and work on expanding their comfort zones as possible, at least that's our philosophy. My oldest son is effected enough that he needs medication to help level him out during the day, but my youngest seems to be getting by well enough through other methods. As parents, you also start recognizing that you exhibit some behaviors as well and likely have a touch of it. Every kid and family dynamic is different, so there's a broad range of when and how you talk to your kid about having it. It sounds like your parents have been supportive and were trying to make it not be a label for you as much as it's just something you have. To me, that's the most important part. We have the same worries for our sons that you are expressing for yourself, so I hope you're able to work through those as much as you feel appropriate and achieve those goals.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment Chris. I don’t know what it’s like being a parent of autistic children. But I do know what it’s like to be parented as an autistic child. It’s not easy knowing you feel different from other people, but I was lucky to be around two loving parents who support me in everything I do. I am blessed for sure. Shower them with love is my recommendation. :)
Brave video, mate. Proud of you for getting past whatever shame, embarrassment, etc. is there, and doing something towards reducing the stigma of autism. See you in the Pub! 🙂🍻
Nephew I found this moving and courageous and I cannot thank you enough for sharing. Love you too my friend. We are all more than OK with who you are as well. A victory indeed!
I have some form of ASD, although the details are a bit vague as I'm too poor for the full adult diagnosis process. But it's pretty clear now that it's more of a conversation than it was when I was a kid. I think it's important for people to talk about their experiences, especially with "invisible disabilities" (not that I love that term) since people don't always know and it helps when people recognize that we don't all think the same.
Indeed, the conversations have changed even since I was a kid, because we have a better understanding of what it is. I'm glad you liked the video. I really appreciate it.
Great video. I was diagnosed as an adult, I would have prefer to know it early so I can understand that you were upset when they didnt tell you even though their intentions were good. It helps to understand why you are they way you are instead of walking around feeling different without knowing why. Hugs!
Indeed, it hasn't been easy. I should note that I'm not mad that my parents didn't tell me anymore. I know why they did it, and I've come to peace with it now. I hope your journey results in growth. Thank you for your comment.
I’m a dad of a severe and profound boy, and I wouldn’t trade him for anything. I’ve been told a lot lately that I should consider being screened too. Thank you for sharing who you are and helping remove the stigma for those who are ignorant of awesome folks like you.
You are definitely inspirational Britton, thank you so much for letting us see a bit more of you. We really need to open up more discussions about this, and other mental health issues. Thank you for being open!
Thank you for sharing this video Britton! Must have taken a lot of courage to share a personal part of yourself and it’s a powerful way to raise awareness and understanding on an important topic. It’s great to hear that you’ve built a good life and I know that this won’t hold you back in life or love. The right people appreciate us for who we are, and anyone else isn’t worth your time. We’re lucky to have you in our community. All the best!
Hey man, I really appreciate the video. I myself have autism, I was diagnosed when I was 3, it was quite severe and it was assumed I would have to go out of mainstream school and basically never have any semblance of a normal life. I was so lucky that my parents fought for me to stay in “normal” school, they got me speech and language therapy which helped a lot and I don’t know where I would be if I didn’t have that. I’ve never talked about this, not because I was embarrassed or wanted to hide it, I just never really seen it as relevant in any of my videos. As I’ve got older I feel like I’ve truly accepted that I am a bit different to most people and that’s ok, (I thought I had when I was a teen but of course that was BS, I hadn’t lol) it’s part of who I am, I also see the world differently and that’s ok too. Anyway, apologies for the long comment, didn’t think I’d ramble for that long. Keep being you man! 👊
Hi Britton. Hey RJ. I’m so proud of both of you! I have PTSD and related illnesses that follow that. I have grown daughters and granddaughters so you definitely can make it! Keep up the good work!
Love this video my man. You should love who you are because you’re a great person and I know for certain I’m better off for having gotten to meet you on our journey. Keep being you and making content and doing what makes you happy. You’re an amazing part of our community!
I didn’t get notified you’d posted Britton so I’m sorry I’ve watched this late You know I’ve said you’re like my surrogate son 🥰 and feel a great deal of pride watching you talk about autism, and that you’d mention me. I mean the fact that I helped in anyway fills me with pride I’m here for you as you know You’re amazing remember that and I love you and I feel blessed I know you ❤ AMAZING! 😉