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Hi Friends!
I had an interesting "leveling up", and this is my attempt to explain a subtle yet powerful shift I experienced. Yet this is also about realizing the great value in always continuing to grow and evolve, to be always the student =)
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Комментарии : 52   
@GriffinPetty
@GriffinPetty 2 года назад
The way you described shifting your attention in a playful sense, made perfect sense. Thanks Kenton.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
So glad it did! I was trying to describe how it became less effort-full and more "automatic", but automatic wasn't quite the right way to frame it. Playfulness felt much more like what the shift feels like =)
@sinclickbait6023
@sinclickbait6023 2 года назад
Awesome, the example with your kid's drawing is very helpful. Thank you!
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Glad that made sense! For me, that seems to be a many-times-a-day choice I'm given, and I haven't always made the right choice =)
@sinclickbait6023
@sinclickbait6023 2 года назад
@@ReWildUniversity same here, I was being aware of daily choice with my kids, often failing, and I like the playful approach, because I also see that beating myself up only makes it worse... Thanks again!
@stefm8251
@stefm8251 2 года назад
So happy for you 😁 It's kind of weird how spiritual evolution works, slow over time and some sudden boost sometimes. I am myself very pulled towards this quest of spiritual evolution, especially these last 2 years it became more and more prevalent in my life, and I should thank you for that, I think you are a big part of that shift in my mind and heart. Much love to you all 💕✨
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
And you are a big part of ours as well! We've so enjoyed the connection you've gifted us with, Stephane. So glad to be adventuring with you, even if there's an ocean between us =)
@dont138
@dont138 2 года назад
A change in consciousness! Emmet Fox discusses this in great length. Beautiful to hear your experience.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Emmet Fox! Someone mentioned him long ago, but I haven't yet read any of his works. Another reminder to check him out! =)
@trishchmelik7748
@trishchmelik7748 2 года назад
Just found this today - in perfect timing.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
My dear friend, I love that you've mapped it out on paper -- a deliberate and conscious way to guide our lives! I'm excited to hear how it goes as you put the rumination through the lens of priorities -- for me, it's REALLY tough to just stop a ruminating thought. But when I ask if it's a good priority, it really changes for me -- because I always see something around me that will be more worthy of my attention. Sending you so much love -- excited to see your comment on the book video! Love, Kenton =)
@vulgtmngha3501
@vulgtmngha3501 2 года назад
It's always nice to hear from you, Kenton! I'm glad you're noticing this growth! It's also inspiring to hear that someone like you can still grow! If I can speak in the same language of games as "leveling up" I think it's really inspiring to see someone playing the same dream game of life as me, and even though they appear like a max level player to me that I'd thought hit the level cap already, and to see a message in all chat from them that says "I just leveled up again!" it fills me with the same instinct of congratulating the person who just leveled up as I would have with any other player who just grew in some way, but also fills me with a sense of inspiration since that means there probably isn't any level cap on this game of life. A big reason that's inspiring to me is because it means that no effort that is spent in growing ourselves is ever wasted. No matter how far we've come, there is no peak other than what we decide to stop at. This makes it a lot more viable to do things like multi classing since there isn't a number that you're going to hit that's going to stop the growth of any of the professions or skill trees that you decide to opt into. For example I've been trying to balance the monk class with the mycology skill tree, which is a balance that I think older players during the first shaman expansions might have invested a lot into, but isn't quite explored so much today other than by a few players. I'm finding that it makes a pretty mystical combination, even just learning new ways that life can exist can really stimulate my imagination personally, which keeps my mind open to new possibilities. It's also nice to hear that you've found a way to engage with your mind in a playful way and see more results in directing your focus from doing that. I really liked when you mentioned that playfulness being like otters or foxes. It makes me think back to when people would praise the spirit of these animals, and makes me wonder if this is the same kind of thing those people might have been pointing towards. Not so much the animal itself, but the way the mind of that animal exists. The kinds of traits they display in their way of being. Respecting the animal of course, but observing and learning from these traits. Elements of nature can make better teachers than a lot of humans can, at least in my experience. I can't really remember that much from school or even really college. But I remember everything I've learned from experience and practice.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
So interesting, my friend, that you mention the "game", on the very day when I ordered author copies of my new book which is basically an "instruction manual" for this game we're all playing. I'd love to send you a copy if you like =)
@vulgtmngha3501
@vulgtmngha3501 2 года назад
@@ReWildUniversity That sounds very interesting! I would love a copy, I remember being interested by the idea when you first mentioned it I forget how many months ago. We can sort that out via email. :) Although I have to warn you, I sometimes take a while to get through books. Sometimes it can feel like there's not enough time to sit down and read something, although I have a sneaking suspicion that might mostly be a case of poor time management on my end.
@sigmasustainability9117
@sigmasustainability9117 2 года назад
you manifested your superpower! it is fantastic to see how life can still surprise us, great journey! I have the feeling that there will be a huge challange where we need all our powers, but now i am looking forward to this!
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Challenges ahead or peaceful times, I'm glad to be on this journey with you. Hopefully we can use our powers to bring good whatever the situation we're facing. Thanks, my friend =)
@sigmasustainability9117
@sigmasustainability9117 2 года назад
@@ReWildUniversity so am I!
@danielhill7149
@danielhill7149 2 года назад
This is amazing! Thank you for sharing this with us! It's difficult to see our day to day changes but there's an old Chinese proverb "No man walks through the same river twice. For he is not the same man, nor it the same river." Most of our changes are small but constant and seeing those changes in ourselves I think is important. Love to you my friend 🙂💚
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing that proverb! I love it! What a great reminder of the ever-changing nature of our experience =) We're all sending you love!!!
@DoktorKorv
@DoktorKorv 2 года назад
Since i added yoga before meditation i have made a huge progress. Before i just got very restless and unmindfulness was a better description of my state of mind after three minutes. Yoga is mind body and soul connecting... for me. So i am still learning. Thank you for sharing your wisdom :)
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
I love yoga -- for me, it's a bridge between meditation and all-around mindfulness, in that it challenges us to keep a meditative mindset even when our body is in various "tensions", whether that is stretching, using our muscles, or trying to balance in an asana =)
@alexschmidt1351
@alexschmidt1351 2 года назад
yeah maaaaaaan =)))) lets do this deeper and deeper love youuuuuuu maybe the more intensity is added the faster the progress time seems relative ^^
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Woohooo! Love you too, Alex! And good thought about the relativity of time aspect. I hadn't thought of that!
@butchmetzger7023
@butchmetzger7023 2 года назад
I'm glad for your leap forward to better focus and controlling your thoughts. Seems like I've been struggling to stay focused at all lately. Wrecked my car after the tranny went out of my daughter's car. So hubby's work truck is now her kids school transportation and her work transportation and.... Listening to you again I feel better than the first time thru this video when the helpless and stupid thoughts and feelings threatened to get the better of me. How can I be playful in the middle of this mess? I think I need to hunt for some of your videos where you have mentioned some of those zen stories. Even trying to recall some of the twists in those stories helps me get out of the mood I find myself sinking into.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Hi Maude, Uugh. Yes, those are the toughest times to find that "playful nature". Here's that video if you haven't found it yet: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-8hfz76qSKx4.html Keep me updated. I know this isn't fun, but I also know you well enough by now to know you'll find a way to "find your play"! =) Love, Kenton
@JadeDragon407
@JadeDragon407 2 года назад
Welcome to 🐉 level, friend. But yes, It's tough to measure mental/emotional progress like you can the tangible, although even with the tangible (like weight loss), one can get so wrapped up in metrics that they lose sight of the goal. Trying too hard can hinder; one can get lost in repetitive motion/ritual, and potentially end up down a road akin to the "crystalline ego" analogy, so perhaps there is a blessing in progress that can't be mapped out on a graph. What you truly stand for is the best tool, it's going to inherently manifest itself [good or bad], even if you fall away from the path time to time. I can't say that we should avoid negative thoughts/emotions, but it's important that we know when to hold them or fold them, when to walk away and when to run. Some things, even the bad, require our attention, but we can remain in control and determine when/where energy into those is appropriate, and not let those harm our enjoyment of the good things.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
What an important observation. Those metrics can indeed be blinding. I used to work as a personal trainer, and would try to help people see that how they FELT in their bodies was vastly more important than any numbers we were measuring. Yet there is such cultural emphasis on those numbers. Thanks for this great reminder =)
@traceuse13
@traceuse13 2 года назад
Hmmm, my focus has been very bad lately. I multitask a lot and for some reason don't want to stop. I think I still have lots of learn but I want to try your playful approach. This reminds me of Lila (however it's spelled), aka Divine Play. Thank you for your work and thoughtful videos.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Wow, how interesting! I was just talking with Rebecca a few days about about Lila, and how we wanted to wake up that next morning and embody it. You read our minds! =)
@AndrewCastellanoReal
@AndrewCastellanoReal 2 года назад
Thanks for the encouraging story
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Absolutely, Andrew. Thanks for making us part of your journey =)
@Godisfirst21
@Godisfirst21 2 года назад
Very interesting! I'm had some amazing spiritual experiences. Even when I level up, I can't stay there forever. Sometimes it will last a day.....a week, but rarely a month. Yes, your daughters drawing is very important. I'm now an empty nester and those drawings are magical. My two girls are 28 and 21.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Sometimes I try, when I might feel the beginnings of frustration with them, to imagine that they are in their twenties, and to think of how precious this moment of their youth is. So cool about your spiritual experiences! It would be fun to hear more about them someday if you want to share! Love, Kenton
@Godisfirst21
@Godisfirst21 2 года назад
@@ReWildUniversity Okay, I'll share one spiritual experience I had a few weeks ago. This is how many of them happen for me, but not always. They sometimes occur in happy moments as well.....however this last one....was during a breakdown. My 21 year old was preparing to move out and I was so overwhelmed with helping her and all we had to do and I had been feeling very overwhelmed and tired and even though I knew she was moving out on April 1st, I couldn't see that far ahead in my mind. I was just crashing....with work and life and my daughters, etc. I cried out and I weeped like a child. I booked a night away at a hotel that had a swimming pool and as I'm swimming, I start singing this song......a song that came to me. It was so beautiful and angelic and I felt so loved and so peaceful. I knew I wasn't alone.....I'm never alone. I had what I would describe as an hour or a bit longer of complete love and peace. As I left the pool, I told myself to write down the song because I knew my mind was going to forget it. I wrote it on a kleenex box when I got back to my hotel room. Now, that was 3 weeks ago, but I have been in a completely different state of mind since then. I went from lost, confused, depressed and overwhelmed, to feeling loved and held and comforted. Yes, I was surrounded by what I can't explain. Here is a verse I sang over and over again in the pool. I wish you could have heard it. It didn't even sound like me. I could sing it in a way that I could only sing it on that day. I was so deeply touched. I know a place where we can escape. I call it heaven in your warm embrace. It feels like I am home.....when I'm with you. I had two near death experiences. One as a 10 year old child where I was drowning and one as an adult, where I always got crushed between 2 trucks when I was riding my bike to work. It was the best day I ever had at work in my life. I'll never forget the feeling of being so grateful to be alive. My daughters were little at that time.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
THANK YOU for sharing, Sherri. I too wish I could hear that song, flowing from your voice. Seems like a moment when the whole of beauty of the world shone through you, became you, and you it. I feel like those are moments when we see who we really are =) What a beautiful thing! Thank you for sharing those words. I will hold them in my heart. Sending you so much love!
@pigscanfly522
@pigscanfly522 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing, Kenton. I think some Zen Master or another said there are a million satoris. Thanks for the inspiration; I have felt recently like my practice is just "doing my time." Love, Jimmy
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Ah yes -- it's definitely felt that way to me, despite those moments when I was sure I "got it" =)
@pacificpermaculture
@pacificpermaculture 2 года назад
I have tried getting into meditation several times,and it doesn't work for me.I have found that looking for the bright side of whatever is going on helps.Yesterday someone asked me how I was doing,and my reply was "I can't complain ",and I didn't.The practice of not complaining,can be a good tool,to building a good life.Surely if I wanted,there could something for me or anyone to complain about.The question is "does complaining improve the situation " ??? Most likely not.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Great point -- and a reminder that meditation may not be for everyone. There are many ways to cultivate more awareness and consciousness in regards to our mindset, and a focus on not complaining (with the self-responsibility and having to look creatively at situations instead of just focusing on the problems) is a wonderful one!
@DaveScamullo89
@DaveScamullo89 2 года назад
I found intersting that you didn't just train your mind like a muscle so you can move the weight of your attention faster, but you stopped pulling that weight and just turn your mind. I don't fully understand what this means, but i had a feeling that this particular is very important. Thanks for sharing
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Dave, that's been such a huge part of this whole journey for me. Yes, I spend a lot of time building up my "mind muscle", and often forcing things mentally/emotionally in the way that I'd force a kettlebell above my head. That does seem to give benefits. Yet the truly powerful method to "move my mind" seems to have nothing to do with force, but instead with something else that our language doesn't have a word for, and our culture doesn't seem to have a concept for. I remember, once, standing in the woods, wondering what the trees experience. Not being a tree, I had no way of knowing. But my cultural training, at least, had taught me that trees have no consciousness or thinking in the way we humans do. And I wondered, how do they seem to go about all the business of growing, "deciding" which way to sprout a branch or where to allocate leaves, and they do it all without "brain"? Since then, I've come to think of consciousness and trees differently, but for me it was good at the time for me to think of them as "non-thinking" beings, because somehow they moved through life just fine without all the thinking and analyzing and mental willpower I was always employing. If trees could do that, maybe I could too? And since then, I've come to be convinced that we humans have a thinking mind, but also a "being mind" -- a mind that is fully capable of moving through 99% of life without thinking or acting from a "me" sense. It's that "being mind" that I'm always questing for -- perhaps what the Japanese warriors meant by "mushin", what the Taoists meant by "we wei", what the Christian mystics meant by "faith", and what I'm clumsily calling "playfulness" here =) Love, Kenton
@soccer2themax
@soccer2themax 2 года назад
Felt moved to share Byron Katie and her simple process of thought investigation. Her website has a great how to section, and her books are really good as well. This process has helped me "level up" many times over the years when the questioning comes alive again inside me.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Thanks for bringing Byron Katie up! I've actually never read any of her works, but have heard good things about her from a few friends. I'm always appreciative when someone shares a person/method/etc. that has really worked for them! =)
@paulbeck71
@paulbeck71 2 года назад
I'm glad for you, Kenton.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Thank you Paul!
@jonnywick4611
@jonnywick4611 2 года назад
thank you brother always a relief to hear your wise words can’t wait for the new season
@nordicclimber1090
@nordicclimber1090 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing. This channel is very inspiring, your videos makes me happy everytime i watch them 😊
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Wow, thanks for letting me know! Makes my day =)
@terryfinley7760
@terryfinley7760 2 года назад
I like how you talk about thinking you have mastered, or understand something only to find that you did not. I think we never learn everything. We learn until we die. That’s kind of disappointing to me to realize that I will never be fully enlightened but, at the same time if you look at it differently, you can say that you will always be improving.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
Totally agree, Terry. A lifelong adventure =)
@hikertrashpt
@hikertrashpt 2 года назад
I too, have a tendency to ruminate in ways that elevate my stress level to an extent that's generally unhealthy, but have used meditation to progress my ability to shift my attention away from rumination. I recently had an opportunity to see the value of this ability: I suffered a blow to the head and it was pretty clear that I had a minor concussion. I have enough medical training to know that mental and physical exertion can get in the way of healing after a concussion, so I used my meditation practice to sidestep rumination and be present in the moment in order keep my mental exertion and stress level at a minimum. I wouldn't say that the experience allowed me to "level up", but it did illustrate the value of having a meditation practice (even an admittedly imperfect practice) that I could fall back on in order to deal with a stressful situation.
@ReWildUniversity
@ReWildUniversity 2 года назад
The fruits of your efforts paying off! Awesome! I think it's especially difficult to exercise that mindfulness when we're injured, and head injuries especially -- it's an injury that that can easily invoke fears. Well done, my friend =)