i didnt like his smug attitude and avoiding the question in the clip, men that feel emasculated are the prime culprits of extra maritalaffairs cause the new chick has no idea what a lazya**clown.com he is. He needs validation cause the wife is not treating him like a "man" because he doesnt act like one.
Wow, any man who can think that every man would rather be sleeping with another woman is really immature. I don't always know whats in my mans head, but I know what's in my mans heart. Not every man wants someone else, that was a cold and heartless thing to say.
pfft Andre is a trip. stop smackin on that food (that you're not paying for) and ask the manager of that restaurant for a JOB. I wonder why he doesn't like his mother? Towanda deserves better than someone who not only doesn't have a job, but they feel like they can sleep with whoever they want AND ride her coattail 24/7 it's called baggage...LET IT GO.
Naw, she's right. If writing books is his thing...he needs to be out SELLING THEM!! She needs her man to step up and provide for HIS HOUSEHOLD....and the reason why he's comparing her to his mother is because SHE'S TAKING CARE OF HIM....
she need to get it together! he is not the one! wack, broke, and crazy... a book writer.. she shouldnt have even said that! as her sister would say "hotmess.com"
This stereotype that her husband stated "What man couldn't see himself liking somebody else? If he doesn't then he's lying." This is his way of keeping her around to make Towanda believe that all men are like this, so she should stay with him (Not True). She knows she needs to let him go...period. Just off that statement he's made, she will bring insecurities towards the next relationship. She wants Toni to date, she needs to take her own advice.
+TezzyDarling: Reading your comment made me realize Andre is a Michael Braxton, Sr. student! 😔 Also, Towanda came from a broken family (although she was an adult) & she doesn't want her kids to be in one. (Her kids are in an emotionally broken home, tho. It's collateral/residual damage here.)
He would have been gone asap! Don't try to make me feel bad about being disappointed about him not making a strong effort to provide. I might have hoped across the table about that "like somebody else" comment.
It amazes me how people know they don't like each other, but marry anyways feeling like they rather be with the one they hate instead of being alone...that really shows low self-esteem towards both sides. Now they're just wasting each other's time with pointless arguments. Either you love one another or not. If not, break up.
@zunidoll2 CONTD: So, I agree with you, but I don't. I think it depends on the situation. However, in general, I think it's OK to expect the "man of the house" to take care of his family. My dad did it, and he survived...LOL Also, women tend to have this thing where they think they can change somebody. They know from the beginning that they should've never messed with him...but somewhere, deep down, they feel that they can "mold" the guy into the perfect guy...BS ..They aren't gonna change...
@zunidoll2 Yes that's what tradition states, and that's how it should be. Children are MEANT to have a mother, and a father providing for them. Sure, women don't have to stay home all day taking care of the home, but I think it's better when the man works, and the mother raises HER children instead of relying on other people to do so. In general, expecting a man to take care of his children isn't a bad thing, the problem comes when women have children by men they KNOW won't do right by them...
girls, if you listen to a guy that he didnt like the woman that raise him up, its a HUGE sign to stay away from that guy, its a big NO!!! and also think 4 times before getting married!!!
I dont give a damn what nobody say he using her. Its one thing to support someones dreams, but to sit and let him write books that hes not even trying to sell, and bring in xtra money for the household is just plain stupidity
Towanda used to be on the self?spirit show "Starting Over" and one of her issues was with men including her dad and husband. Her husband even made an appearance on the show. She should have divorced him then and not went on to have two kids with now she is stuck with him literally for the rest of her LIFE!
If another woman walked into his life or between them, all I can say he be staring at that other woman. I heard words like "I don't like my mother". What kind of man is 40 or 50 years old growing back to a little boy?
@respjames I respect your opinion, but I do disagree. A happy man can enjoy one hot pocket, and although there might be tempting thoughts and fantasy, like a woman would have, would still be satisfied with the one hot-pocket. I don't have a problem with stay at home dads, but I think it seriously sets the man up for a low self esteem and the woman up for a motherly attitude against him. I think it's going to take a long time for society to accept those rolls being swapped without resentment.
@zunidoll2 Yes. I know about that, but a lot of those realtionships don't last to begin with. The people in those relationsips tend to not be committed to one another. If they were, they'd make their relationship legal, and they'd know who fathered their children. LOL
@blacknuticecream I dont think so, I think it fits perfectly..why doesnt he get that book into some stores. He's already dating outside the marriage. He doesnt need "Man-a-mony"..he acts like a kid
@DoomCity202 I would love to know where you get your lack of statistics from. I know more black couples that have been married for longer periods of time than other races of people. My cousin's fiance's parents have been married for almost 70 years, my Uncle & his wife were married for over 80 years (they're bothe deceased), my former pastor has been married for over 60 years, my uncle for almost 40 years, and my folks have been together since the beginning of time!! LOL
@honeebunni1 lmao I concur 100% U got kids out here that can get a work permit at 14! why the hell can't he get some kind of job & start helping out, so maybe Towanda doesn't have to be Toni's assistant 24/7 & she can spend more time with the kids. She says he's a great dad but I'll be damned if I'm gonna be the sole provider & you can see other people & I have to work so much that I can't see our kids & when we have 2 make serious decisions, U lokkin' at me like U don't have a brain #yeahright
This was sooooo stupid I had to watch it again. SOOOO if she divorces him....Good luck tryin to collect child support. Maybe then He would have to get a real job. Did he Have a job while you two were making "kids" hope not more than 2 kids otherwise you'll have to pay for childcare while you BOTH work. What a shame.
@jpm8921 Apparently tradition states that men are supposed to take care of the woman. But now a days WOMEN have the power to TAKE CONTROL of their lives. Which means that if they EXPECT a man to take care of them then they also need to know if the man they want will fulfill their every wish and desire. I am not saying that this guy is right, but yet if women are "intuitative" then they need to go with their first gut feeling of the guy they are dating to see if he will be the "one for her".
@jpm8921 You made good points and every situation is different. Just find someone you agree with instead of how good in bed they are or if they are going to be a "trophy" partner.
@binnie333servant Gee, isn't that saying cute? Sorry if you had a bad relationship with someone, but not every one does. But that's OK, everyone who does can justify their bad time by saying those who don't must just be in denial.
@jpm8921 HER CHILDREN?????? Didn't the guy have SOMETHING to do with the creation of that child? WHY should he not have half custody and access to that child except when MOMMY WANTS child support?
She wants a PROVIDER? If he takes care of the household and the kids, what's she complaining about? I know a woman whose husband makes $800,000 a year and they live in a huge McMansion. Every time they disagree, he'll say "look dear, these are the hands that keep you in Versace underwear!" If you want a "provider" chances are he'll also be incredibly CONCEITED.
@TezzyDarling Any woman that doesn't think all guys want more than just one hot pocket is living in a fantasy world. Women say they want equality but they don't. This guy stays home and takes care of the kids and she pays the bills. Yet all she can do is insult and demean him.
