I'm a 10 but... | Episode 60 

It's literally almost impossible to not love Murugi. I mean the gentleness and vulnerability and attentiveness as she listens before responding to Lyd is just 🥺. Definitely a 10!

Thank you ladies for being vulnerable with us, Imma share mine too! I'm a 10, but only talk about my issues after I have successfully solved them, I don't like asking for help/being vulnerable. Also a 10, but ghost people when feeling overwhelmed.

Lydia's make-up and entire look is really giving😍!

I totally relate to you in terms of being an emotional wreck and also being afraid of my potential. I am highly intelligent and very much aware of my potential but i self- sabotage from a place of never feeling the need to prove anything to the world. I choose normal and simple because knowing more than others makes you lonely. My general persona and aura attracts and intimidates people without me even trying and i minimize myself alot just to avoid feeling like a threat to others. When it comes to emotions am a rollercoaster, i feel insanely deep it hurts...This episode means alot to me😊

"So attached to the outcome that's why you have to control every present moment.." That hit home

Lydia and Murugi deserve a TV show, If only Kenya could empower its citizens.

You guys are a 10 for providing free therapy. I’m also a task oriented person, I like to get things done yesterday, while my husband is a tomorrow guy. Drove me crazy for a while but we are both finally at today…well most of the time.

This episode was therapy to me (took notes) 🤕. I will definitely come back to watch it again because it's too much to digest in one go. DEEP STUFF! Babes receive your flowers for a job welldone 💐

The talking part is true, I often see women speaking over their men. What I realized with my dad and older brother is that men speak differently than we do. They may start to speak then go silent, not because they are done talking but because they are processing what to say next. At this point, the woman assumes that he is done talking and goes on a rant. Then the poor guy is never actually able to speak his mind. This is one area that we as women need to be very mindful of. Anyway, this was a great video, enjoyed it as always.

In this episode Lydia is actually Murugi's marriage counselor 🤗

First and foremost this was high value episode ❤️❤️rated 100/100. I love real and relatable content and Lydia tried to be slightly open in this episode too so congratulations Lydia👏🎉😂For Murugi real tea is always very expected from her😂😂. Zero filters. Anyway I am not even surprised at your weaknesses because I am rowing in the same damn boat with y'all infact I am the pilot of the boat😂and yho! We shall overcome. Women become better with age just like wine that's why grandmothers have perfect emotions, zero anxiety and everything is possible in their world because they have seen it all. We shall get there too. For now we live in the ghetto one day at a time. For todays TMI it was so triggering😂if my husband makes my life miserable like that after having a baby, I don't know what will become of me. Anyway, we'll cross the bridge when we get there😂 Cheers ladies now I have to wait for next Wednesday again😭

I hope Lydia comes back and watches this episode, she was speaking to her future circumstances without even knowing it, the universe has a way of showing up for you even before time reveals itself.

I feel like Lyd is offering me free counseling session as I listen to her. This episode is both entertaining and enlightening. Ladies, keep the wonderful job! You are both definitely 10s in my books! 🙂

This is the video I never thought I needed. Especially when murugi mentions she's impatient and quick to anger!!! I've been struggling with this for the longest time.

Murugi I'm so happy you mentioned that first point,I'm a ten too but always ready to end it all and I don't recognize how long I took to build it..lol

Lydia is sooo smart ❤️❤️

Hey TMI. It's been a minute. Been offline, reinventing myself. Lyd, your eyes today are an eye sore. Murugi Team, I'm usually cautious when something good is on the horizon.This comes from a place of a lot of let downs&self sabotage. I'm a 10, too nice, self destructive. Especially when I'm at the peak of things. I know I am , but spiralling downhill. Lyd , you got it, BANG.!! That never ending hole.That is filled by just GOD&YOURSELF. You're deeep today. This pod cast is LIT.

Period farts belong to 1000 ways to die 😩 so Murugi it's not strange. We're still a 10 I hope 🥴

So much wisdom here .That 50% mothering thing is my take home for today.

Almost broke my leg running to RU-vid! This episode is not only funny but also brings about the aspect of being self aware

Wow.... I resonated with Lydia when she says she is afraid of her own potential. For me it's not about having fewer pple at the top with me. It's that so much more will be demanded of me. "To whom much is given much is expected". I felt that so deeply. Coz there is so much that God has given to me and placed on my lap and I don't feel worthy of it all. So here I am sitting in self sabotage and imposter syndrome.

Lyd:I am a 10 but I am afraid of my own potential..I can relate 1000% woi kwanza the self sabotage

Im a 10 but lemmie tell you In betweeners , Im always on defence mode. Mimi mtu hawezi niambia anything if I know they're trying to dimine me or bully me ...or trying to come bad to either my sister's or my parents...Im loudest when it comes to fight for my rights...and it's so scary when around matatus or crowd of loud pple too....My mum don't like the character coz she says I might talk back to pple with anger issues and they might hurt me ....I'm working on it slowly thou... I'm I still a 10??

These babes are definitely 10's . Inspired me to start my channel ❤️

Lydia, you are a natural "Therapist" !!!! That answer to Murugu on affirmation is out of this world ! So on point!

When Lydia said she is just waiting for the *pop* I laughed! I know that feeling. After 7 minutes my hips feel dislocated 😂

I feel so good after watching this! You guys are therapy itself 😍😍

Murugi 7 minutes is a lot🙆....teach us your ways babe

Myyyyy GOD. Heeeeeeehhhh. First of all, it's me lying to myself that i'll just watch maybe half the episode as I have my lunch, "when have you been able to do that ma'aaammm? Huuummmhhhh?" Anyway, safe to say, another episode that I thoroughly enjoyed and one that am for sure coming back to at least 3 times. I could relate so much with the "struggles" from both of you goddesses and now I have a date with myself to call me out so that I can actively start working on them. Okay, lemme get back to what I was meant to doing. Love you ladies😍😍

Lydia’s makeup 😍😍😍😍

I’m a 10 but I never sit to celebrate my wins I move on to the next ..but I wobble in my failures…

That starttttt, Lyd you are dramatic😂, We could see how Murugi was clenching. The shock in her eyesssss, yooohhhh. Okay, lemme now go watch the episode. Am sure I will loveeeee it. An avid Queen-betweener here

I am a 10 but I am afraid of my own potential. So relatable and deep. For me, its more of Im a 10 but I am not doing enough to rescue myself from a toxic mentally, and physically draining situation

Who's your therapist Lydia? I really want to start therapy soon. Otherwise an amazing episode as always ❤❤❤

Have been listening through Google podcasts lakini with Murugi's expression lemme switch to RU-vid 🤣🤣

Btw i read somewhere that if you talk too much its the child in you trying to be heard,That means you never had enough attention when you were a child🤯🤯it was mind blowing for me coz its true

Everytime I listen to Lyd, she feels deeper than ever before!

I have never been this consistent. I have never missed an episode. Thank you Murugi and Lydia for sharing your wisdom. Much love and success.

Lyd: I am a 10 but I'm afraid of my own potential",hiyo imeguza ndani ya roho🤦🏿‍♀️. Yes to VALIDATING OURSELVES😍 🔊🔊. Murugi's hair😍🔥

I can relate with Lydia about being sorry for existing, I am working to stop being sorry for everything. Love the conversation .

I agree with Murugi that sometimes periods have an effect on the digestive system.

I'm a 10 but I've actually realized that when my relationship ends I'm always quick to replace him But I'm working on that I'm working on myself , so that I do not have to tolerate bullshit from my next partner More of I'm working on myself , for my future self

They say travel inwards. Dont always blame others..this is easy said than done..am an emotional wreck for sure..small thing am crying all over and my emotions have taken over..i relate with Jo on ending things..am an expert esp in friendships..i am working on it..what an episode

Hi T.M.I, I loved this😊Mine is I'm a 10 but my default answer to any help I'm offered is no thank you, recently a friend kept insisting and it was at that point that it hit me how easily no rolls off my tongue when someone is trying to help. I'm rewiring and going on a challenge the rest of this month to say yes to help I'm offered at the first ask. It is going well so far and it is so interesting for me to catch myself about to say no and switch quickly to a yes please!

About period farts....mine's actually better than the regular farts - less smelly. The killer one for me is the alcohol/ hangover farts...could kill a population 😂😂😂😂 ps. I'm a plus size girl

The moment when Joan asked how can I support you in that 🥺

YOU REALLY BLESS ME.❤❤

I'm a 10 but I live with a mortal fear of running mad and being locked in an asylum

The best notification on Wednesday😍😍

Lydia looking good .please keep your recent make up artist she is doing a good job..and the wig looks so good on you..like an African Goddess

I’m here again😁,my first TMI video and I was hooked. So much love for you ladies ❤🥰

I love how Joan asked Lydia (how can I help) shows that she cares 😊

This is why I have written affirmations on my mirrors and door way,to remind myself of my worth with or without the outsider's say .

I think you should collab with more content creators. Love your content 👍👍👍👍

The part for toning your feminine energy,I really want you to discuss more about it 🥺

Murugi munyi, my period farts and diarrhea are sooo bad you ain't alone

I just voted for you guys in the pulse Kenya awards on the best in RU-vid and Podcast influencers of the year and we are winning 🎉🎉❤️I also voted for Murugi Munyi as the Instagram influencer of the year...na ujibu dm yangu aki

why am i laughing 2min after watching 😂😂...@.Joan ...am with you on this, when you hurt me we deal with that there and then i don't know how to move on...@Lydia have laughed so hard when you said you talk more than a normal person😂😂😂... don't worry gal we are twins sometimes i find have shared what i was not supposed to say🤦...the other day i was thinking maybe am single because i scare men away with my masculinity and this talking too much thing😂😂😂

That moment when they were questioning whether they talk on normal levels 😂😂😂😂.. I know what that feels like…

The episode was 🔥🔥,its the vulnerability and deepness,embracing oneself and looking inwards leads to growth❤️❤️loved it✅

This is my most favourite of Lydia's facebeat 😍😍b This video gives us a moment of self introspection, because we all that a bag of chips a dip on the side. Regardless we learn to accept who are and try to adjust the crown where it can.

I love u guys so much, I look forward to all ur new podcasts, I learn alot ❤️❤️❤️

My therapist had to work me through patience. I hate slow people and that's just me. I hate telling someone something twice. I don't have that grace I really don't. I had an ex who couldn't keep time, at all. We say 5 he comes at 7 ah! Needless to say it ended very badly. I struggle with the same with mum. I tell her if she's going to the market and I am around she should be ready by 5 so we do one round and she should know exactly where we are picking the stuff she needs so I don't have to keep reversing the car and going back. As at now , only God can intervene . Like for me everything has to move by my place ,else get out of the way . Mark you, I'm very fast.

I speak Lydia's baby into existence😂... Got excited for a minute 🤗

We should have a list to check off I feel like I'm 3/4 into the episode band I'm relating to almost everything at this point I'm a negative, also I'm a small butt cheek girl and let me tell you Murugi,.... we should advice murife to run when I fart...I shock thyself... love this episode big sisters everywhere

This felt like a therapy session.😊 Thank you ladies.

I'm a 10 but my anxious attachment style brings me to a 1😭😭.

"The affirmation is amazing when you already know it, but a need if you don't" Lydia the wise one

Murugi seems to be more of an Aries than a Pisces lol. Maybe she’s a Pisces with an Aries cusp or she is an Aries moon or something. Ain’t no way this is Pisces mannerisms lol the impatience, the hot head , short temper , wanting things done exactly when she wants it, confrontational. Sounds very Aries

I really felt Lydia when she said she is afraid of her own potential. I have found myself self sabotaging aloot too....but I'm really learning to get away from that in all aspects of my life.

This was so refreshing to watch!! Both of you are a strong ten!!!!

True Lydia says sorry all the time. For everything and anything. I thought I was the only one who noticed it.

It's so scary how alike I am with Murugi... We are practically twins, apart from the period fart ... Hapo uko peke yako.. 😅😅😅😅

Murugi...it's true I noticed Lydia does that all the time, even to you when you two have opposing points. And you're not disagreeing but just having diabolically opposing views.

To the lady that wrote in about her man sleeping in another room… she needs to get that baby out of the bed. The baby needs to sleep in it’s own room.

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Between all the episodes and all the comments one thing I know is all my emotions and and feelings are valid and it makes me feel safe to see that on this boat I'm not alone!!you are all feeling the same way!!!wow 🥰 I just love this channel!

You guys are just good for my soul..cant wait for the south Africa live podcast tour#manifasting.

This episode was 🔥🔥oh,my God!I love it so much!

Very informative! Just loved this one.

I relate to being a 10 but afraid of my potential. I have this aura in me that gets me stealing the show every damn time I step in a room. There is this meeting I attend every Monday and I normally get lots of compliments. I normally feel bad about the people who come to the meeting and go without a compliment instead of being happy for the achievements I have. It's exhausting. I can't even celebrate my wins in peace

Difference between trauma and intuition. Wow, thanks ladies 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Y'all are a 10🎊🎊🎊💯🔥 top tier content all the time....100k is around the corner

I Love Lydia's makeup😍😍😍😍

Not me blushing and relating 🙄 Good stuff ladies😊

Periods Farts are the worst..😅😅😅and the diarrhoea is crazy!! Sometimes it gets me questioning whether my body is the temble of God 🤣🤣🤣 Wueeh! that smell is BAD.

Am a 10 but am a control freak..it even hurts me sometimes

I'm having my lunch at the office and Mukami is soo dramatic,That starting was everything

The ladies looking absolutely beautiful ❤️😍

This episode was 💯🔥🔥the vulnerability the Connection Gaaadamn you did well TMI enjoyed 🥰

My period farts could be used to take out a small city effectively. 🤢

am a 10 but am fat and too selfish to love my fiancee right because of past trauma and disappointment

I am also a confrontation kind of person,I need everything resolved right away.

Murugi looking beautiful, I like your hair

Ladies this was so refreshing ,,

I've learnt alooooot today...thank you for this episode babes💯

I relate with Lydia so much... mwanzo I'm a ten but I'm afraid of my own potential....I was triggered 😑😑 You two are so cute though 😚

About the difference between the trauma response and intuition, I agree with Lydia. My trauma response paralyzes me... I can't think of a better way to explain it but I can always tell... Intuition on the other hand feels pure...trusting.. I know that I can trust that this is right for me

I am a 10 but I am the most needy person ever. I need my man to "baby" me all the time, give me hugs and kisses and cuddles 24/7, otherwise, I will not feel loved at all. In fact, I will start questioning the whole relationship if he doesn't hold my hand when walking on the street together. My love language is physical touch, but sometimes I take it to the extreme 🤣🤣

I'm a ten but I'm weigh too emotional and moody🤦🏾‍♀️