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Mocha's Cafe De Paris is a channel based on everyday situations that consist of real talk, genuine wisdom and fundamental topics which I consider as my "recipes"! My topics can range from baby mama drama, marital issues, relationship problems, black women making the worse choices in men, black men no longer being leaders and many other varities of topics that anyone can relate to; regardless of their gender, race, color or culture. my topics are non biased, I am not a feminist, male-basher and nor do I get my jollies off of degrading black women because I am a black woman. However, I do keep it real and speak the raw truth. I am not the bakery so don't expect me to sugar coat anything! On the other hand, the truth that I speak is not out of hate or being judgmental, but of compassion for my sisters and brothers. Unlike most channels, I will always speak on both sides. I believe in balance and being non-biased. I also give advice for anyone that reaches out to me, so you are more than welcome to email me at CafeDeParis79@yahoo.com. Mos likely I will respond through a video (without stating your name or personal information) so that others that are also in your situation; can also receive the information as well. Most cafe's are a laid back atmosphere that consist of good coffee and conversation. That is what Mocha Cafe De Paris delivers!

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@kbell1479 5 лет назад

The only women upset by your portrayal of the bitter baby mama is a bitter baby mama because truth hurts.

@LadyMocha 6 лет назад

If it doesn't apply, you don't have to reply 📌📌📌📌📌

@slyfly4829 Год назад

I've been listening to this every morning on my way to work 45 min drive haha. I've been trying to figure why, after 2.5 years of silence, my baby mom suddenly went off the hook on me. It was a week after I passed my 4th year of school. I tried to take my name off her energy bill, 3 days later I was suddenly arrested n put in jail. She told police I was threatening to shoot my kids with guns. She then ran off with my child for 6 months. Started bashing me online to everyone. Red flagged me in my child's school. Called the police on me again and again. It costed me 60k . I'm still dealing with it. This video gave me a very good perspective. As she original left me for another guy. (Second time she did that to me aswell) . But now it makes sense. She is bitter because she made a choice that she thought would benefit her more in the future. She discarded me because she thought she could do better. N the moment she was gone,I started growing and she tried to destroy me. Well I'm not giving up, and I do believe in karma

@acw079 Год назад

My mum was a baby momma and boy do I have stories to tell. Single motherhood is the worst thing a woman can do to herself. I ain’t ever doing that to my kids. My mum refused me dad to see me all because she left him and got more money and to spite him she told him that since he doesn’t make as much to afford the elite schools she took me too, he can’t be seeing me until he reaches her level. These women don’t respect anyone. My mum also loves to talk shit about my dad yet he settled with another woman, had 2 more kids and they built a house. She herself has never built or owned a home 😂 and spent her best yrs seeking validation from other women talking about “ I don’t need a man”. WELP 🤐 Women pls don’t follow this route.

@tashacoleman1594 4 года назад

Yes, let’s talking about the baby mother’s that is bitter and in denial. Yes, this needs to be talked about more. Preach sister

@iamuniquelylay 4 года назад

I’m not a baby mom or anything but I love this video because you are speaking facts while still uplifting others 🙌🏾

@LadyMocha 6 лет назад

3 thumbs down, 3 bitter baby mama's 😂😂😂

@IamQueenMicayla 4 года назад

Its like you were posting about my fiancé's baby mama.

@thevudolady6775 Год назад

Period my husband BM just texted me about Xmas gifts but we cut her off she keeps threatening us and I had to fight her

@LadyMocha Год назад

@@thevudolady6775 These women are very bitter and vicious. Don't fall into her plan she's miserable.

@tremaynestaples1458 Год назад

Yeah my baby mama put me through hell 3 years straight now that I'm climbing back up to the top I'm working a good job she has nothing but malicious Acts towards me and my family and she's a narcissist I'm really scared for my child!

@thevudolady6775 Год назад

@@tremaynestaples1458 I'm dealing with the same but I'm the wife she's jealous of you

@thaxtonwaters8561 8 месяцев назад

Whew...women will hate you for this one. Sheesh. 100% TRUTH!!!

@GraitBritton 6 лет назад

Man....mmm..mmm...mmm..this video right here..just broke them down to the fraction.. girl you are the shaharazad Ali of our generation.. don't ever let them make you lose your fire to speak this truth... man...just wow.

@D1PwNzUBEETZ 6 лет назад

GraitBritton SPEAK BOSS GAINZZ!

@ebonywinters7658 3 года назад

Our community really needs to get out of this mind frame male & female. We need to stop thinking getting pregnant or making babies is a badge of honor it isn't.

@LadyMocha 3 года назад

Yes you said a mouth full!! I approve of this message!

@archangeltheonetrue6363 5 лет назад

Stop calling these little girls, women. If they want to learn womanhood, they need to listen to you.

@kahlilasson2407 7 месяцев назад

They busy listening to Ms. Sprinkle sprinkle

@ducarmeleloge9223 3 года назад

If you saved one child with this video it was worth it

@doraysmith 8 месяцев назад

This is the best...most accurate video on this subject on the net..I've seen women do this for 50 years now..only the coming fall of the U.S. can change it

@cecilyburro5326 4 года назад

Sound like my husband's baby mama from beginning to END☝🏿

@alerothefire Год назад

How do you deal with her?

@BobbyBillingsley-ei9ie 10 дней назад

This women just made me a subscriber... She just spoke the truth... My baby mother won't let me pick my son-up..

@postman878 3 года назад

My wife showed me this and I'm going thru it miss my kids so much thou it sucks but gotta keep pushing

@robertmarley8852 Год назад

Keep pushing God

@postman878 Год назад

@@robertmarley8852 I’m trying

@Nolaboy17 11 месяцев назад

Same here, bro.. keep on pushing

@sesquipedalianmug8727 5 лет назад

If you wasn't gonna make her a wife then why make her a mother

@angeljosephs30 4 года назад

sesquipedalian mug y did she have a child without being a wife both made bad decisions

@Spokentruths725 4 года назад

angel hopkins true doesnt give her the right to be bitter and act a mess.

@kanyram1711 3 года назад

LUST took over that simple

@kaylam8707 3 года назад

@ALEXIS BOLTON Because you lack boundaries, standards and self respect.

@aginahgohanna8193 4 года назад

She speaks so intelligently!! She makes so much sense!!

@tjeugene577 Год назад

Thank you for this . It feels good I’m not the only Person going through this. I have joint custody of my child and she ignores court order visitations.. haven’t been with her in 2 years, I moved on had another child .. and she still bitter … I felt alone but now I see I’m not .. thank you for this .

@sybilwilliams6937 Год назад

GET ON STAGE WITH THIS AS A MONOLOGUE AND GET PAID!

@kingsolomon0 3 года назад

Thanks for the facts . I strongly recommend this video to any baby mama who is thinking about breaking off from her baby daddy .

@SimplyAdiva 5 лет назад

66k later my husband has custody. Not because he was deadbeat...she was mad because she cheated and he moved on. When it was time for him to do the same she lost her mind. I told him to file for custody of his kid...she gave him hell for 10 years. Multiple evictions and taking his money constantly. If he didn't send a certain amount which was almost 800 a week. She threatened CS or jail. I told him put himself on CS STOP taking this crap. She even went as far as to say...he touched the child. Judge embarrassed the hell out of her. She hates my guts now that we have custody

@SlinkProper 7 месяцев назад

The honesty is felt seesh the thing is everyone can see it but no one says it out loud it's kinda obvious but so refreshing to hear outloud!

@LadyMocha 5 лет назад

For all women that are in relationships or are married to men that have toxic baby mother's, I am doing a live private webinar to give your tips on how to deal with this. $15 per lady that would be interested. $20 if you bring a friend. Be blessed!

@SimplyAdiva 5 лет назад

I'm interested

@candacetorres2066 4 года назад

I missed it

@tamikasalermo3482 4 года назад

I need help are you doing something like this again?

@LadyMocha 4 года назад

@@SimplyAdiva Email me for seminar information @ Cafedeparis79@yahoo.com

@LadyMocha 4 года назад

@love_ Crystal3 Email me for seminar information @ Cafedeparis79@yahoo.com

@justthetruth247 16 дней назад

This is actually real and a different twist on the reality without the emotional outbursts and wrong timing

@KAYTONE1 6 лет назад

Preach💯💛💟😁 lady mocha I went to family court this morning and I figured out the system I told the man I haven't seen my daughter in months and you want me to pay more money to fill out some forms I'm getting the lawyer no more Family Court these are words that I would never hear my child's mother say we're 6 years apart we were together for almost 7 years I had one beautiful little girl almost 7 years ago she brought a jail-bird into our home and destroyed everything she also put me out because my name wasn't on the lease so I was separated from my child I had to fight to get joint custody she kept putting the jailbird and my business involving my child and Karma has been kicking her ass for the last 4 years I've been in my apartment the last 4 years still working doing me and the only ties I have is my little girl but God don't like ugly so mean while I go to work everyday working 50 hours a week and maintaining my bills and what I need to do

@umbeon 6 лет назад

Awesome video, cuts deep. An excellent perspective, men need to heed.

@bougiegal2074 4 года назад

All I can say is wow!! You broke this thing down beautifully Mocha.

@queenfrost9675 6 лет назад

Thankyou for this video. My husband and i have had to deal with bs like this. She isn't happy he moved on, so she keeps his child from him. Trying to stir stuff up showin up at our home. But we ignore the foolishness.

@LadyMocha 5 лет назад

Toxic Baby Mama Drama Webinar Course This Friday July 19th 7:00pm. Course is $25.00 per person. Check out this link for a free sneak peek of what's to come! Be blessed - Mocha. Here's Link to sneak peek: ru-vid.com?o=U&video_id=AxI4cGZitYk

@ASE_Avenue 2 года назад

Exactly

@theolatate7586 2 года назад

Same here... It's hard at times....Just irritating and petty. She divorced him after 3 kids, twins and daughter now she bitter 12 years later which had nothing to do with me.... sick of this crazy lady.

@jamesharvey818 6 лет назад

Mocha you were brilliant! Them haters not gone like this one.👍👍👍👍

@akstylez_ak5037 6 лет назад

Mocha you have 🚨😍OUT DONE YOURSELF WITH THIS VIDEO🚨😍. The child is the leverage. Now let the father have the child and see house much child support she will be willing to pay 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️.

@maryrandolph3500 4 года назад

Damn sis you nailed it on the head just went through this baby momma came for me and he couldn’t put her in her place because she would have taken his daughter away

@kimmielawrence2105 3 месяца назад

This was one of the realist shit I’ve heard in awhile 💯 you was on point this whole video. Thank you!! 👏

@larrywilson5081 4 года назад

Yes sister tell the truth I'm going threw this now she using my kid's now & they hurting & she the one got caught cheating I'm doing great & Happy Thanks sister.

@JimmyBritishBeats 5 лет назад

Your the Realest ever

@tehillahlove 3 месяца назад

The B's is really biting! Lol! Love you sis

@butchblack6045 3 года назад

When my lil brother made his last child support payments thats when the true evil came out. My brother paid his child support but he had hidden income hidden from her and child support department !!! My brother took the small promotions on his job. My brother kept things quiet from baby momma.😁😁😁😁

@c.brownproductions4372 5 лет назад

Preach! Nothing but the damn truth. Can you write a book or teach a class?! I’d pay you good money and send a few women🔥🔥🔥

@LadyMocha 5 лет назад

Working on a book now

@LadyMocha 5 лет назад

@Blessedatalltimes 6 лет назад

Preach preach preach

@ashleysary8096 4 года назад

Oh👏🏽my👏🏽good👏🏽ness!!!!!! I had to create a RU-vid account just so I can comment on your video! THIS IS SO INSIGHTFUL!!! Thank you.

@karimbrown8593 5 лет назад

I tell sisters your private parts are not the source of your power the love for your man and you to get better is the full power of a woman

@gu2755 2 года назад

Beautiful 🌻🌞🌈🦄

@uncommonsha7013 3 месяца назад

I needed to hear this. Thank you sister

@cynthiagolden7736 3 года назад

It’s a shame that women’s be bitter after a break up then the child suffer which that child ends up Ray Ray or Pookie on the block

@MeetMeOnTheMoon 3 года назад

Wow. Thank you for this video.

@akstylez_ak5037 6 лет назад

I’m writing down some things for our live and I’m glad it will be at 9pm. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@Makeitalifestylenow 11 месяцев назад

Wow 😮 👏

@dmvnative6102 2 года назад

You sound just like my mother before she passed away....she told me these things about my baby mother...great vid

@thereformedrayray Год назад

Thank you for this

@Nolaboy17 11 месяцев назад

Damn, u called 15yrs of my life. We have 4 beautiful girls, including a set of twins. She walked out 9 months ago, and I don't and will not accept her back. I used to always tell her. The ball is in your court. She'll never admit she fkd up. She sunk a ship with her own children aboard. Luckily, I was able to get our 14yro. SUBBED!!!!

@faithfullywatching8746 6 лет назад

All facts!

@MoneybagJimmy 6 месяцев назад

I wasn’t gonna watch this but I did. Thank you for keeping it real my sister. No kids for me yet but I feel for my brothers. I almost got beat down the other day for saying the same thing.

@acemany1126 2 года назад

Thank you for the video baby girl 😘. FACTS!

@keiakeia6182 4 года назад

WOW!!! THAT SOUNDS JUST LIKE HIS BABY MAMA??!!! OMG!! DEEP!!

@KevinGonzalez-vz7rz 2 года назад

POWERFUL TRUTH and very well spoken!! I am not a Father myself but I am the former husband of an abusive ex-wife who left me because she wasn’t patient with me, wanted kids more than she wanted to build a relationship with me, and she married the loser she left me for while she was already pregnant with his kid. This was twenty years ago. If only my loser ex-wife knew I am building a half a million dollar house today……

@808breaksbad. 5 лет назад

I had no idea what a Baby Mama was. I just thought she was a woman who had a baby out of wedlock. Did not know the "baby mama" blames herself but is jealous (of the other woman) at the same time.

@TheOmegaone007 5 лет назад

TOTALLY RAW SUPER REAL EXCELLENT TRUTH !

@ephraimwolobah9152 5 лет назад

I don't know who you are, but I'm glad your video popped up in the related videos

@LadyMocha 5 лет назад

Thanks for viewing

@Alizae144 Год назад

Dang I don’t have kids but this is crazy that people are going through this. I’d be hurt… smh

@divine_godis 6 лет назад

SPEAK THAT TRUTH

@LadyMocha 5 лет назад

@reginaldbrooks245 4 года назад

Appreciate you Lady Mocha

@TheJayKayShow 5 лет назад

Well said! We did "How to Deal With a Bitter Baby Mama" video on our channel and we are recording part 2 tonight. We planned to talk about WHY these women are bitter and you definitely hit it on the nose! The link to our first video is below! I def plan to shout you out in the second one! ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wyFm0F_rS4g.html

@LadyMocha 5 лет назад

4 года назад

This also goes for ex-girlfriends as well.

@TheCreditManX 7 месяцев назад

I respect your honesty I swear I respect you for that!

@justthetruth247 16 дней назад

It's wild out here

@Mahdlusiba 4 года назад

Thanks so much for this wonderful information

@steveaustin8802 5 лет назад

Nice head piece wow this channel should be the t.v. show

@zoekingofficialblessmusik8276 Год назад

That’s crazy 😢 you said what I am going through and that should be illegal she told me pay will look for you when he’s 18 am sending the check that woman use to verbally abuse me think God I am not suicidal that woman was the devil heartless I am just praying 🙏🏾 for my son and keep getting successful o have a new son one more one on the way I am so bless as soon I left her things started happening for me

@HermitGod369 7 месяцев назад

Thank you. It's been a year and she seems to be consistent with this bitterness. She thought I cheated but I feel it's because of her insecurities. Been going thru therapy to understand.

@user-qr8jt9mj7d 6 месяцев назад

U on point sister

@WhichTheChickenOrTheEgg 3 месяца назад

It's wild bc if half that energy was speant on their own healing and growth they'd feel better about their circumstances and choices Nome of these feelings are logical

@LadyMocha 3 месяца назад

I agree

@TessieDobey 2 года назад

TELL THEM SIS!!!!

@DJRTP Месяц назад

facts!

@aprilhurd8677 3 года назад

Yes. Girl.. Speak.... Speak.. They need to blame themselves... You said it perfectly.. .....ooh well ooh well...

@vegastribeofjudah2083 3 года назад

Just beautiful....I literally haven't heard wise words like this from woman since my grandmother passed.

@jaredbostick6149 5 месяцев назад

This is true. I have court tomm. Jesus will bring us all thru

@mustbherpersonality 2 года назад

From start to finish…. I just keep praying things get better.

@johnabel5078 2 года назад

I'm starting to notice alot of woman aren't married, and I look down on them because of it, 😂

@josegrullon024 3 года назад

Omg I have been going through baby moma drama for 5 years now. Regardless of child support paid and her going through boyfriends like the weekdays lol. She still makes it hard for me to see my kid or just get along period. Its just crazy because she made her decision when we were together to step out the relationship. I just simply left upon getting the information, took it my lost and kept pushing. I never understood how someone could still hold a grudge for so long yet alone for something I didn't do 🤷🏾‍♂️. But I def needed to hear these words. For a moment there some lines you mentioned cut very deep. Thank you so much for this videos and let's all prey for the children affected in the process. Love from boogie bx NY. 💪

@macadon041 6 лет назад

You are amazing

@aginahgohanna8193 3 года назад

Thanks for responding to me!! Hi Miss Mocha!!

@CornellG 6 лет назад

So glad I found your channel

@LadyMocha 6 лет назад

Cornell Ginger thank you and you are welcome to email me if needed. Info in link

@CornellG 6 лет назад

I will be shortly!

@miraclegrandberry3357 5 лет назад

The Jay&Kay Show!!!! I’m here because I have a boyfriend who has a bitter babymom. I been in his life for two years and I haven’t meet his kids mother . I would like to meet her because i am the woman who is around his children. The kids are below 10 years of age and they don’t know what’s going on. He is not on child support at all and he takes care of his children when we get them. When they are with us they be telling both us we don’t want to go back to my mommy house we want to live with u. Because of how she be treating them. And I feel bad for them that they have to go through this😭,because they told me that they love me and they always want to be around me but they cannot because of their mother. The reason why she won’t let the kids come and see their father because she is angry that they’re not together anymore and she be using the kids against him. “For example, can you send me some money for my car it’s not working”. This situation hurts me because I can’t do anything about and they are attached to me but their mother is putting them through a situation where they don’t have to be in.

@lywnnjohnson6130 2 года назад

Protect your peace and heart.

@lywnnjohnson6130 2 года назад

To all the bmb's,go invest in your self get a trade or education. This too will pass. If a man has moved on, go get your child support. Don't push his obligations about the child on him.Karma has no expiration date, and revenge is the Lord's. Love yourself, you are enough. Maybe not for him but for someone else. Dont waste time being bitter, use that energy to move on to a better path. God works in mysterious ways. Trust him.He's already working it out for you and your child. Be encouraged. Do your best for the children and yourself. Let this experience be a teaching moment. Get the ring beforehand.

@cloudair4154 6 лет назад

this is really good.. i don't have a baby mama but this reminds me of my ex g/f 100% ...you have some great videos

@friendly-ghost1115 4 года назад

Six bitter baby mama's thumbs down because it's hard to face the facts.

@MoneybagJimmy 6 месяцев назад

Us as black folks gotta learn that we on the same team and that when we say these type of things it’s not to bash or put down but just to acknowledge and grow from it. Blaming other people for mistakes won’t get us nowhere

@kadiva3429 3 года назад

Truly appericate this video and WELL SAID LOVE XOXOXOXOXOX

@MoneybagJimmy 6 месяцев назад

24k likes so you know it was a lot of women who thought u was gonna do the typical and say because men ain’t shi. Thank you sis I’m so tired of the same old blame the man narrative

@JessB08 2 года назад

Hahahahahahah I WISH THIS WAS MY CAAAASE!!

@candacetyndall6142 Год назад

Hi! RU-vidr DeeDee is reacting to your "Bitter Baby Mama Needs To Get It Together".

@LadyMocha Год назад

Heyyyyy Candace

@sidellesydney2192 2 года назад

Damn this sound like a Def Poetry Slam!!!

@someonereal7580 11 месяцев назад

Lool

@beanthasavage7882 Год назад

Once that child turns 18 and they graduate from school…what they gone do when it’s over…

@yahsun100yah3 3 года назад

If woman talked just how you're spreaking right now to their men that they claim they're with, the Lord and his Son would bless them with what they want. But when she becomes the teacher over him, it's over.. just say what's going on with you,

@laytonadupree1992 6 месяцев назад

Ma'am I hope this does not apply for all women?? Because as a single mother coming from a toxic marriage, I don't feel this. We were not good for each other but better for and to others.. I can't agree or relate.. Some of us are doing better since the separation...

@BluefaceTrice-jo8vr 4 месяца назад

If so why you feel like you got to air it. If it’s not you and you can’t relate no need to respond.

@Malcombmbmusic 4 года назад

Thank you very much madame🌍👌🤔

@tamekaadell5136 2 года назад

My situation is a little different my daughter father moved out and I got my own place as well but I never call him I try to move on but he calls me every week to hang out he is concerned who I am dating he never calls me to talk about our daughter he calls to ask me to come over his place to hang out he texts me calls it’s so crazy he moved out it’s been a few years and he stills calls me all the time and doesn’t care when he deals with another women but he won’t leave me alone smh I am not bitter but it’s like if you moved on and happy I don’t see why he stills act like we together when we not I have tried to block him he just calls my daughter phone looking for me 🤦🏽‍♀️ and told me no matter who I deal with he will always be around. and I am dating trying to move on

@robertmarley8852 Год назад

You reap what you sow ...he love his kids ...that's a good thing

@kanyram1711 3 года назад

This is sooooo true

@conniepinkston5951 4 года назад

Could you do one that is based on bitter baby daddies I recently got out of an abusive relationship with the father of my child do that one

@LadyMocha 4 года назад

Yes I can and I will

@davontebeard6071 4 года назад

I’m going the this right now 😞 my first child at 27 years old

@cecilyburro5326 4 года назад

FACTS 🏌🏾‍♀️🏌🏾‍♀️🏌🏾‍♀️🏌🏾‍♀️

@riseupmusicgroup 2 года назад

How did you do this so ACCURATELY??? 🥴 you gotta have a home girl or cousin that’s a bitter baby mama cause I feel like you know my BM 😂🤦🏾‍♂️ sound just like mine word for mf word!