I'm A Christian...He's A Muslim ..Should We Marry? 

You two are not worshiping the same God though. I married a muslim back in 2018.. and it went up in flames quick.. because I am too passionate about Christ and the truth.. I will just say it's not good to marry someone who doesn't share the same religious/spiritual beliefs as you if you are passionate about God, but hopefully, you are able to reach your fiance/husband by being a godly Christian.

@@vendellawatkins9458 It's an act.. and they are worshiping a false god.

@@spiritualisrael007 True girls like sugarcoating things. There are more important things like child upbringing than food staff

@@spiritualisrael007 I agree

You can't serve both the God at same time

SIESIE CHAMPION same here, makes me think that he didn't truely love me

Univ Fashion not true God jus comes first plain and simple.

@@univfashion9391 And the LORD said to them, “Now listen to what I say: “If there were prophets among you, I the LORD, would reveal myself in visions. I would speak to them in dreams. Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world. By this you know the Spirit of God: every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, and every spirit that does not confess Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you heard was coming and now is in the world already. (1 John 4:1-3) When Mohammed was at the cave of Hira, outside of Mecca, he was alone, when a spirit came and squeezed him, and told him, "Read." He went to this wife scared. And he continued to be in doubt of what happened to him. And one day, his wife Khadijah said to him, "Mohammed, let us put that on a test. When the spirit comes to you, tell me, and we will test if that spirit is really Gabriel the angel, or a bad spirit." He said OK. One day, he was sitting with her, and he said, "Khadijah, the spirit came!" She said, "Come, and sit on my right side." So, he sat on her right side. She said, "Mohammed, do you see the spirit?" He said, "Yes." She said, "Then sit on my left side." So, he switched and he sat on her left side. "Do you see the spirit?"Khadijah asked. "Yes," Mohammed answered. "Then sit on my lap." He sits on her lap. "Do you still see the spirit?" "Yes," Mohammed answered. Then she uncovered herself to show some of her feminine parts of body. And then she said, "Do you see the spirit?" He said, "No." She said, "That spirit is good because he doesn't want to see my feminine part. You are the prophet of God." (And by that he came to be convinced) that that spirit who was talking to him was the angel Gabriel, and a good spirit, because when he saw his wife almost naked, he didn't stay to see. Deuteronomy 16:22 You shall not set up for yourself a sacred pillar which the LORD your God hates. (Kaaba ) The interior contains nothing but the three pillars supporting the roof and a number of suspended silver and gold lamps Leviticus 26:1, “You shall not make idols for yourselves or erect an image or pillar, and you shall not set up a figured stone in your land to bow down to it, for I am the LORD your God." The stone was venerated at the Kaaba in pre-Islamic pagan times. According to Islamic tradition, it was set intact into the Kaaba's wall by the Islamic prophet Muhammad in 605 CE, five years before his first revelation. Since then it has been broken into fragments and is now cemented into a silver frame. Deuteronomy 7:25 You must burn their idols in fire, and you must not covet the silver or gold that covers them. You must not take it or it will become a trap to you, for it is detestable to the LORD your God. Kiswah is the cloth that covers the Kaaba, woven with 120 kg gold and 100 kg silver threads. | www.egypttoday.com/Article/4/73705/History-of-Holy-Kaaba-silver-gold-doors Therefore thus says the Lord of hosts in regard to the false prophets, ‘Behold, I am going to feed them the [bitterness of wormwood] And make them drink the poisonous water [of gall], For from the [counterfeit] prophets of Jerusalem Profaneness and ungodliness have spread into all the land.’” The Prophet in his ailment in which he died, used to say, "O 'Aisha! I still feel the pain caused by the food I ate at Khaibar, and at this time, I feel as if my aorta is being cut from that poison."

I wanna ask .. How do you get married ? Following Islam or Christian way ?

molly211110 I am a believer of God no religious affiliation (grew up Pentecostal) my fiance is Muslim. We are having both we are going to have a Imam marry us at a Mosque perform (nikkah I think it's the name) and then later find a interfaith officiant to marry us by law at our reception venue :)

We had a symbolic Muslim ceremony in his country and then married in the USA the civil way. Not every Muslim Imam will marry Christians and Muslims, it all depends on the country and the kind of Muslims they are.

Vimari Rodriguez is it possible we can have a private chat about this topic? I am in desperate need to talk to someone that went through this successfully.

Vimari Rodriguez pretty sure your children will be rose as Muslims and then after few generation we ll see ur bloodline wearing burkha and killing women who marry non Muslim but still okay for a man to marry non Muslim and have Muslim kids

Georgeous Gail I don't agree with that statement. If you love jesus you shouldn't be marrying a Muslim. Love can be stupid is basically what i believe

Md rezaul karim no akhee no

Than you should stop from your self.

sen bir aptalsin

Omg but it’s so sad going to the church alone.

As long as you are very upfront with her about what you expect regarding children, work, dress, ethics, behaviors and so forth it might be ok. Although I will tell you it is a lot of work and very hard.

Are you telling the truth? or this is a kind of "TOQIA" you know what I mean.

Well, I'm not sure what that abbreviation means. I am, however, telling the truth. A Muslim-Christian marriage is a lot of work. Any relationship takes an investment, but in my experience an inter-faith and inter-culture marriage starts out with a need for more investment right from the get-go. If you guys make sure to have open communication and take the time to really talk about what you want and need before you get married, it will help you a lot.

Christine Gresh of course I believe you madame... my comment was directed to gilbert Anecete‏ who said that he won't force his christian partner to convert to Islam... because I know -as you know too- that for muslims it is a MUST to try converting anybody to Islam ... for that I cannot believe him... all my respect to you... by the way "TOQIA' means that the muslim can tell lies just to achieve what he wants.. it is a wide branch in the Islamic Law.

gilbert Anecete .. wow! ure such an inspiration... :) I just wanna share mine. I just converted into Muslim.. and I've been with my boyfriend for about 4yrs..it is hard for me to let go of someone I cherished for long.. But they said..it's haram .. what should I do..could u pls give me a piece of advice...he he thank you. :)

Amen

Very misleading. Liberaly right. But biblically wrong

go marry christ

I'll just assume you dont read.

Do what ur heart tells you. If he is kind and good then go for it why not! Religion shouldn't separate you.💜

if you are not becoming Muslim you should leave him. Because he won't be happy knowing his wife is going to hell

Hi Laura, If it feels right between the two of you keep on going! My boyfriend and I are together for 5 years now, he is a Muslim an I am a Christian. We talk a lot about the difference in our faith and respect each other for those things. It took my family some time to get used to the idea. At first they were worried I would become a Muslim bus i'm NOT and I never will. I love my faith and I think it is so so so important to show the world it can be done. I do want to say don't push one another in choosing an other religion ore anything, let time do it's work and keep on learning from each other. I wish you two all the best.

Carry on with him if he's good with you, and Allah will guide you inshallah :)

That is because in islam it is allowed for a muslem man to marry a christian or jewish woman (women of the book). It is however not allowed in islam for a muslem woman to marry a christian or jewish man. Talk about why is that. Why muslem men have far more rights that muslem women. Talk about how muhammed was a pedophile according to the hadith of Bukhari. Trust me. your love will disappear like snow for the sun.

A Muslim is not a Muslim if he or she doesn't believe in Jesus. Moses, Jesus and Muhammad Prayed to the same GOD. Peace Be Upon Them

s2nunn77 you do not belive in the same Jesus, do you?

s2nunn77 But they don;t believe in the divinity of Jesus, so they basically believe in a different person. If I told you I know Barack Obama, and he was a short, fat, racist white man who believed in free market healthcare you would say "You don't know Barack Obama". Same thing. They may know a Jesus, but it is not the true Jesus.

James Brown amen. you cant choose 2 masters for your family

thanks for this.this helped me a lot.

I really like this girl, she's my best friend and I talk to her about everything. I feel like she has feelings for me and I think that she knows that I have feelings for her. I'm Christian but she is Muslim, I'm scared that if I ask her she will say no because her parents would be hella mad at me and her, and my parents would beef with me.

I'm only 13 and I love this muslim girl and she loved me so without anyone know her and I been dating for a long time...

***** Peace Be Upon You. Jesus Prayed To GOD.

***** No Offense Bro, The Laws were given to Moses. The Lord Your GOD Is One GOD.Moses, Jesus and Muhammad Peace Be Upon Them. They were Messengers Of GOD And Prayed To The Same GOD. Who Did Jesus Pray To ( GOD ).JESUS SAID HE DID NOT COME CHANGE THE LAW BUT FULIFILL WHAT WAS RIDDEN IN THE LAW

Same situation I am in

That’s not the whole truth.

Thank you so much for posting this. Please know that you saying this is making a difference for me... I fell in love with a Muslim man and I came here looking for answers... I know that I have to break it off with him and turn this ship around... If you are reading this in 2018, please pray for me. I need God to give me strength to walk in faith and say no to fear. Thank you...

Maggie's Diary Christians don't believe that Jesus and God are the same

+Younas hussain Jesus never said I am a prophet in the Qur'an. So why do you believe he is a prophet?

Jeshua ben Yoseph was NOT Muslim he was raised in the Jewish tradition.

Younas hussain let me shake your world and tell you that Jesus Christ from the bible is not the same as Esa from the quran. Second Allah and Yahweh are not the same we both have totally different religion. So don’t worry about our lord Jesus, follow the rules that Allah gave you don’t worry about christians.

wisdom...

Thanks for the comment and sorry for your loss

Your both soooo beautiful!! GOD BLESS

Sherene Rodney This comment is exactly the spirit which we should guard against. The inability to make room for more than one way and more than one path is rigid.

Ofcourse it will be a problem bec the kids will later on be confused which way to follow.

Relationship Advice with Ayize and Aiyana Maat To be honest.....if she is saved, filled with the Holy Spirit then she knows what the truth is. The Bible clearly states that there is only 1 way and that is through Jesus Christ. The only Spirit here is the Holy Spirit! If she truly loves him then bring it to the Lord who can work anything and every thing out but he should seek God first for himself. Believe me...making a decision based off an emotion isnt a solid foundation to begin with and God isn't the author of confusion. There is ALWAYS a peace inside of every decision where God leads us no matter how chaotic things may be......and she isn't at peace! Your children will grow up confused and you will later regret not obeying his Word. Do not be unqually yoked. God loves us ALL and sent his only Son to die on the Cross. Trust in the Lord girl and he will lead and guide you. Be careful about getting Wordly advice....they can only give advice based on what they know. Those that have eyes let them see and those that have ears let them ear. Our Father is a good good father...Trust in the Lord with ALL thine heart, lean not unto your own understanding. Pray to God about it and even fast if you must for clear direction. One thing for sure though....God doesn't go against his Word. Love you Sis and be encouraged.

The Qur'an clearly shows and states Jesus as messiah. Islam and Christianity both believe this to be truth and that he will return. There are no real conflicts except unclear perception, if this were made more clear and both religions would ever come to the table and see that there's no difference in the God that is being worshipped, so many people would see more clearly. Muhammad is only referenced as the prophet chosen to write the Qur'an, he is not asked nor did he ask to be worshipped. Allah, which is Islam's name for the one God that we all call God, is the one who should be worshipped. Muhammad just as Moses, David, Elijah, and John is a prophet. Jesus is a prophetic role in Islam but is truly believed just as Christianity believes to be the Messiah who is to return. He and Mary are mentioned more in the Qur'an than the writer of the Qur'an itself. You can have the same faith and be in different religions/disciplines.

I'm a Muslim and I say don't marry him. He is not a true Muslim anyway, no where in Islam does it say to stop your non-Muslim spouse going to church. He is not right for you. Also, don't take him as an example for all Muslims if you find another Muslim man and he is a nice person do marry him. I had a terrible experience with a Christian woman not too long ago, she was a nasty piece of work but that won't stop me getting into a relationship with another Christian woman if I ever do find one that I like.

TriumphantToufik this I what I like to see I love what you are saying.

NAZRR DEEN Thank you :)

Not even a question, get out of the relationship. Jesus is number one period. Noone else takes priority.

Do not marry him. This actually goes against what he believes as a Muslim as well. They are not supposed to control you like that, they are supposed to allow you to believe in and participate in your religious activities. Any children you have won't be able to participate in your religion, but that doesn't mean you can't. Learn about Islam so you can see that your bf isn't acting accordingly, or respectfully. He already sounds controlling which will lead to all kinds of problems, the worst one being a loss of your sense of self. I am speaking from experience. Do not marry him.

Krista x Thanks Krista : )

So if you have children will they be forced to do ramadan? In islam the children belong to the father and not the mother.

@@stevansocial7980 Oh no. I hate my father, he looks at me like a rapist. I swear he is one, I didnt know I belong to him. Fuck.

@@stevansocial7980 So when muslim follow their beliefs they are "forced" and when Christian follow theirs they are free supposedly?

I think people should step on stand on their feet and give right advice. You can't have both. How are you going to raise your children, family. The other things are less important like food choices but beliefs are critical.

+Relationship Advice with Ayize and Aiyana Maat Bullshit!!!!!!......That PC crap ain;t gonna fly. ONLY Jesus is the way. He said it plain and simple.You don;t like it? Argue with him. You people are so high and mighty on yourselves... BUT International Standard Version You belong to your father the devil, and you want to carry out the desires of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning and has never stood for truth, since there is no truth in him. Whenever he tells a lie, he speaks in character, because he is a liar and the father of lies. John 8;44 International Standard Version Jesus told him,;I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6 Marry a muslim man and be miserable

yes yes there 're different kinds of Moslems and different kinds of Christians

JESUS CHRIST is the Way the Truth and the Life , no one can come unto a father except by him , see JOHN 14:6 . That is not my opinion , those are the words of JESUS CHRIST . Unlike you , I am not giving my own opinion , I am simply stating the FACTS . Being a CHRISTIAN , is to be a follower of CHRIST , and his commands . That women needs to read the HOLY BIBLE , and not walk in the council of the ungodly , that only offer opinions and philosophy"s of men , see Psalm 1:1 . If she is truly BORN AGAIN , she has no business being with an idolater , see 2nd. Corinthians 6:15 .

God knows all languages. He is not confined to Arabic or Aramaic. So whatever language you speak, he can understand.

Wow I think you guys really need to look hard on your Christianity walk with God. You've probably have herd of (Pastor Charles Lawson) if you haven't listen to his preaching he's a no nonsense pastor and tells it like it is. I'll pray for you guys.

And you know that how exactly?

Amor Cantimbuhan you should do what is in your capacity. Start praying, fasting, giving charity ect. these are the pillars of Islam. these are matters that strengthen your relationship with god. once you are close to god, he will guide your every affair. Quran 39:62 - Allah is the Creator of all things, and He is, over all things, Disposer of affairs.

Amor Cantimbuhan Believing women cannot stay married to unbeliever. If he won't convert...then divorce...you want your kids to learn your faith and not get confused.

+Molly landkammer Than tell him to convert to christianity

+Stevan Social I'm not going to force him to do anything.

+Molly landkammer Your choice, but at least talk about it. Find out how strongly he feels about islam. Call his prophet a peadophile as stated by Bukhari in the hadith. See how he reacts. If he is true muslem your relationship is bound to end in disaster. Believe me I have seen it happen in my family even many times. Or maybe you don't care about being christian? According to the bible the islamic allah is the devil. Not the same god as they like you to believe.

Aya Saee there are guidelines

If you find it easy to have a life partner, who doesn't serve Jesus, you're probably not a Christian, sorry. James 2:18 "You have faith and I have works, show me your faith apart from your works and I will show you my faith by my works." Your faith will be reflected in the way you live your life. Look at yourself, does your life reflect your stated "beliefs"?

I believe in Jesus and Jehovah, but also mindful that we should all be able to worship in the way we see fit. No one has the right to judge anyone because of their religious beliefs.

John 14:6. Jesus says there is only one way to God. He doesn't way "everyone can believe in whatever God they want to".

That's your opinion. But no one has the right to tell anyone they are wrong because of their beliefs.

Maggie Gilmore Well, it's not just "my opinion", it's also the word of Jesus Christ, and of God. And didn't you say you believed in God and in Jesus? Because they say it's not okay to have other Gods. Sorry if I sound unpleasant, but it's the truth.

I don't think it will work, the children will suffer as they grow older and we will suffer as well. In my situation my husband will allow them to do family gatherings with me as he also celebrates with me family dinners and Christmas, but he said they will have to be Muslim and have Muslim names, he says he don't want his children going to school and eat pork because they have a common name and are not recognize as Muslim, I think is all too much. I be honest and tell you I do not have children yet, and I can say few days im happy but some days I just want to leave the relationship

LaMary heart It sounds like you are really struggling and I'm sorry that you are. I know what it feels like to be wondering if these types of things are going to work for you. It seems very one sided doesn't it? Not to get to have a say in what name your baby will have, what school they will go to, what they will eat, or what they will wear. The man in a Muslim-Christian marriage seems to overpower the relationship. If the Christian woman wants it to work, it seems like she has to sacrifice a lot. Did you and your husband talk about this before you got married, or did he give you the impression that all would be well and that you would have more of a say in how your children would be raised?

LaMary heart I am struggling with anger because I wasn't told about the conditions of having children, I was under the impression that we would have a mutually accepting relationship; one in which decisions would be made with mutual agreement and compromise when necessary. My husband told me that he didn't think that it was important to talk about how to raise children until we had them. This wouldn't be necessary if all parties knew the conditions, but not being a Muslim, I feel as though he should have explained the conditions to me. To Muslim men who are considering marrying a Christian women - give her all the details because she probably doesn't have them. Explain things to her that you probably wouldn't have to explain to a Muslim woman. This way she can make the best decision for herself before she becomes bound to you by marriage, the sacred bond that is not easily broken.

They're a lot of muslim names that are also Christian names, like Adam Jamal breanna etc.

You shouldn't have married a muslim at all.

As the child grows older they will get confused because they want the truth. Which religion is the truth? Catholicism

I definitely know I have test his beliefs as I read many writings of the Quran, I asks questions as who wrote it and why and I question Mohamed's ways and I confront him with facts, he is becoming more flexible since Im standing by my beliefs he knows is either us or the his religion. Thanks for the advise

I will look into it..

I am also married to a Muslim and learning a lot of things. Muslim men have an obligation to try to convert you, they believe that God requires this from them and if they don't try than they may be judged by God for it after they die. Fear of the judgement of God is the motivator here. Open conversations about beliefs are very hard because the motivation is not to get to know one another; on the side of the Muslim the motivation is to change the other. We know that you should never marry someone with the intention of changing something you don't like about them. Call it rescuing, missionary dating or whatever have you, it is very hard for the person feeling pressured to change what they believe in.

+Tom Brutis it hasnt been.. itll br fulfilled during the 2nd coming of the messiah go back and research

I think so. The contradictions would probably turn the child away from religion all together.

Ok, if she is a Sunni Muslim 1) she did something that is considered "haram" by having kids with you. But we know God is full of grace and she should know this from Islam as well and 2) in Islam she isn't allowed to marry a non-Muslim man. Having said that, and I am not judging you guys I'm just telling you what I know about Islam, God is full of grace and you guys have a responsibility to your kids. I would suggest professional counseling to discuss things and get on the same page as far as raising the kids. Work to work together.

If i can ask you....in islam womens cant marry is noto allowed only mens can sorry if you be muslim you can

@A M Then that means they were not a true Christian to begin with. The wise are not going to throw away their spiritual inheritance for counterfeit. And even though Christianity is classified by worldview as a religion it actually is a safe that pledges allegiance to a LORD and Savior who died and rose again with all power which no other faith can boast that claim. The wise will always keep their ears as well as their heart open to the truth of the Lord.

@A M on the contrary these kind of videos make me angry they don't make me scared. I got into a debate with a so-called Nigerian female Christian who could justify her friend who was a Christian left the faith to marry a Muslim man and become a Muslim She didn't like it when I posted under the thread that this person who left the Christian faith threw away their inheritance. So we had a debate how she was not a true Christian to begin with are we wouldn't have been even having a debate she would have been trying to save her friend from making such a horrible mistake. This fake Christian was going to tell me that Islam had Bible verses similar to the Christian Bible I told her she was quite ignorant and didn't understand that everything that Islam had in their Holy Quran they had copied it and twisted it from the Bible and that Christianity existed 600 years before Islam was even on the scene. I start quoting scriptures and I told her one important fact I see you will not find it in the Holy Quran that Jesus is Lord and Savior. Muslims only think of him as a mere prophet a mere man with no power. I see you won't see John 3:16 quoted in the Holy Quran for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whom shall ever believe in him should not perish but will have everlasting life. The word of our Lord and Savior is sharper than any two edged sword , and I meant to cut her with the word and I did just that. It's nothing worse than to see someone who calls themselves a Christian act so far removed from it's truth My last statement to her was that she should never call herself a Christian because she certainly didn't know the truth about the Lord Jesus Christ .She's just playing. As a Christian I feel that it's my responsibility to take a stand and defend the faith and to call out these false so-called Christians. These are nothing more than enemies of God

@A M I am so thankful that you stood up for the faith. We have a faith that will not disappoint. And I will keep praying for your strength and you keep praying for mine. The Lord will help us as we grow in him and if you like to hear more from me I actually have a RU-vid channel where I talk about Africa's vital role and Christianity. We have a growing segment of black millennials who believes that Christianity belongs solely to the white man and this is ministry that I have taken up to provide the evidence that Christianity had its early beginnings in Africa as well as Israel and Christ died for all men not just one particular group of people. I decided to commit myself to this cause because it is grievous that they're throwing away their inheritance because of satanic blindness. Therefore I am very very committed to this ministry. And just like you I had a Muslim man that was interested in me but I would only be a friend and some of these same experiences that you had I had with him and also where he thought that we could combine our faith but I told him that the king of Israel does not allow us to do that. He thought if we even decided to take our relationship further and get married that he could come to the church and I could attend the mosque and I told him that was no way that I was able to do such things. He was a very nice person but we cannot become unevenly yoked with those who are outside of the Orthodox Christian faith. That would include Jehovah's witnesses, Mormons, and there's many more. I would never allow myself to get involved with the two I just mentioned along with the Muslims. I am committed to Elohim, Jesus, the Christ

@A M Ancient African Christianity Kathy Lucas

Exactly.👏👏👏

Train up a child in the way that he should go , an when he is old he will not depart from it , see Proverbs 22:6 .