truths!!! really enjoyed the video. i lost my virginity to my husband at the age of 29 and i wouldn't change a thing. i was very proud to be a virgin and committed to the Lord! keep up the good work!!
I'm 20 years old, and I'm a virgin too. And I'm so happy to see people who want to please God in every area of their lives. It's absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, and I've most definitely learned that. Thanks for the video! You spoke so much truth!
What you said particularly about turning on the TV and seeing that sex sells, is sooo true! Everything on social media is portrayed sexual these days and it's honestly so annoying and getting old.
Wow! This video is very informative. I am 22 years young and i also am still a virgin. It took me until 2 to 3 years ago to be very comfortable with talking to others about being a virgin. I used to be ashamed to talk about it before I grew a closer relationship to God. Now that I opened up about being a virgin so many young women and even older women have opened up to me as well about being a virgin and admire the fact that I’m waiting until marriage. I made a promise to God, to wait. It’s God that continue to gives me the strength I need everyday. I loveeeeee this video. Lol girl you had me laughing when you said, “oh i never had sex.” Im a virgin, and I’m not ashamed 👏🏾❤️.
Hey, just randomly found your channel! New subbie! 😊 I'm 24 and a virgin as well. Watching this video just made me so happy! You literally said everything I say all the time! Keep up the boldness, love it!
I'm 29 and a virgin as well and I definitely felt like that while being in college as well as the military (majority male population) that I was a weirdo lol. Now I know that the enemy likes to tell us negative lies so that we believe him and act on sins that don't honor God. I've been in situations where the Holy Spirit would prompt me and give me a warning to not entertain the guy and leave. I think because we live in an hyper-sexualized, instant gratification culture, it can take a toll on how we view virginity and celibacy/abstinence. At the end of the day I believe Christians should focus more on our relationship with Jesus more than whether we've had sex or not or even our relationship status. It definitely has not been easy, but I'm waiting till marriage and I thank God for keeping me on this path. I appreciate your boldness and encouragement! Thank you! 😊
I am now 50 ish and proud to be a virgin. Not because I’m ugly or never had opportunity or temptations to lose it.....I thank God for keeping me true to His Word in this matter. I have and continue to have A LOT of negative feedback from friends etc... but I do not mind cause it gives me the chance to speak about God’s truths. I never wanted to be like the men of the world, so I did most things opposite them. Etc. To God Be the Glory. Keep up your videos.
I am a 34-year-old virgin before I got saved I thought it was embarrassing as well. Now that I'm saved (less than 1.5 years) I'm grateful for God's grace. Not that being a virgin makes me better than someone who is not. But that is just one sin issue I don't have to deal with. One less temptation to be tempted by, one less thing that the enemy can't condemn or entice me with.
You're awesome Liz! It's totally not weird that you're a virgin at 24. Bravo, you're staying faithful to God. I'm really encouraged :)) Thank you for this video. God bless you :)))
Shant Y right?! I had never heard that until relatively recently. Waiting for your spouse and honoring the temple in which the Holy Spirit dwells...is honorable. Lol
Its such a special honoring thing it should be given to your special someone.make sure hes that special someone. I gave my virginity to my hi school sweet heart @ 21yrs old.What a mistake its not worth it.and when u give your body your giving your soul.and thats a whoole lot to be giving away.yeah.
Man!!! I tell you this video is, so powerful you really touched my heart while I was watching this video. I'm a 25 year old virgin and not ashamed. It's true what your saying, it's so easy to have sex, but what about trying to settle down and know someone. A man of God as you say won't bring up sex as the first thing on his list to know you and I 100% agree. He will accept for the woman of God that you are as the man of God he is. I am also patiently seeking a wife I'm am in no rush praise be to God. I fully love your video. You consecrate yourself in God first and then you will get the wife or husband eventually. I love your confidence and I share the same sentiments as you. Continue to be blessed girl. 👼🙏❤
Lol yesss "who are you talking to" is great. This has Romans 12:2 written all over it: do not be conformed to behaviors and customs of this world, but be transformed by renewing of mind 👏🏼
I'm a 32 year old virgin and I am saving myself for marriage. I feel very ashamed and embarrassed for still being a virgin. I also feel that I have no support no one to really talk to about it my mom is pressuring me to find a husband as if I am a disappointment because I'm not married. I even had a situation where my coworker asked me in front of other coworkers if I was a virgin this made me feel really bad as if something is wrong with me or do I look like a virgin or maybe it's because I don't discuss who I date with them. I let her know that it was none of her business and she has had an attitude with me ever since. Now when my coworkers talk about inappropriate things they tell me to close my ears as if I am a child and know nothing about sex my job is stressful enough now I have to deal with a personal attack. My coworkers are married with kids and can't seem to wrap ther head around the fact that I am not married with kids anyways. Yes, sometimes I feel like an outcast but I do feel more empowered in knowing that with god I have had the will power to abstain from sex until marriage but sometimes I just wish I had someone I can really talk to without judgement. Also, some encouragement anyways this is long but it good to get this off my chest. Thanks to anyone who read this whole thing.
Hallelujah to you Girlfriend !!! Keep your beautiful gift for the Special Man that God will bring to you. Every word you have spoken is the truth. Don't be confused. As you rightly said you are a beautiful 💎 of God. And the beauty of you Virginity is a beautiful beautiful thing. Those who give away too quickly are not whole and lack self worth. Honour your self...you Go girl🙏🏾👍🏾🙏🏾💎❤️❤️❤️
It's crazy because most people who did not wait wish they had waited...and virgins do have insecurities, especially on not be able to please their mate like others. But like you said, you can form your own Godly soul ties. Being a virgin is honorable, and I've gotten to the point where I can care less about what people say. I'm not missing out on anything and I want to wait until marriage. But great point is that it's not something you mention on the 1st day, or 1st month
Girllll, as I've matured I've come to the understanding that the 'not being able to please their mate,' or the 'try it before you buy it' ideology is actually not that big of a deal. Because if you love your partner, which you should (lol), then not being 'good' at sex is something that you can work on. If you're not 'good' the first, second, fiftieth time, your partner shouldn't suddenly not want to be with you because of that. Just as you grew to love them, you'll learn to grow and please them in other areas as well, whether sexually, mentally, emotionally. It's okay to not be perfect because that's what will make your relationship strong--trusting in each other as you learn each other. But, maybe that's just me? lol
Also which is why I believe we're not supposed to have all these multiple partners because you will always be comparing what she did as opposed to this one, vice versa...whereas if you two are experiencing it for the 1st time then like you said you can learn together. I also believe that a real man will be patient and be willing to teach...
Thanks Liz for speaking up on this topic I am older and a reborn virgin and I must say this walk has drawn me closer to God I pray that other young and seasoned individuals don't look at being virgin in a negative impact but in a positive attitude that brings glory to God.
I don't know if i believe in God or not. But i've always known i don't wanna have sex until marriage, because i don't wanna get hurt by men who just want to have sex and then leave. I do get ashamed of it sometimes, i wanna know it's like but i refuse to give it to time wasters and i don't care anyway lmao
I JOINED RU-vid BECAUSE OF THIS TOPIC, TO LET LADIES KNOW THAT IT'S OKAY TO BE A VIRGIN. GAVE MINE TO MY HUSBAND ON OUR WEDDING NIGHT . LIFE IS SO EASY AND UNCOMPLICATED. THANKS FOR WOMEN LIKE YOU . LET PEOPLE KNOW THAT THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH OUR BODIES, MIND, SPIRIT ... I BELEIVE IN GOD'S PROMISES AND THE BIBLE AND HIS BLESSES THAT FOLLOW EVERY COMMANDMENT.
being a virgin is pretty cool, I lost mine at 18 but if I had a second choice to keep my virginity I would keep it. Look at Jesus He was a virgin and He is Holy, we should definitely want to be like Him. may the Lord bless you.
Please don't be because I'm 16 and I'm only going to lose my virginity when God puts that right man in my life. A lot of these guys think that they can just get anything from certain women. WELL THEY CANT. And don't be ashamed of it either keep doing whats right.
Loved coming across this just now, I guess I'll share a little story before I really devoted my Life to God I always wanted to wait until I met the "right" person and as a guy I received so much slack for it, it never affected me or made me feel pressured it was just annoying hearing about it all the time, however I met this girl when I was 22 I thought she was the one and all of that and funny enough she actually ended up bringing up the whole sex thing and we tried it wasn't happening I should have taken heed of what God was trying to show me eventually it did happen and the relationship actually ended up going downhill and we broke up February this year I'm 24 now and I'm abstaining and celibate until I'm married and I'm working on my relationship with God out body is a temple and we should value it God showed me that I don't need someone else to define me but if I seek him he will answer. Anyone ashamed of being a virgin don't be dismayed if I could have went back I would have ive only been with that one person and I've experienced it and realised that if God is not there regardless how many times you have sex I guarantee there will always be an empty void deep down a feeling of never truly satisfied and if you have to start questioning it I urge you to take 5mins talk to God because that's all he's waiting for that same relationship I was in I can't count on my fingers how much time I wanted to leave it but the devil was trying to keep me there until God interevened and pulled me away and I was with her almost 2years and literally 2 or 3days later I felt like a burden had been lifted and was ready to move on I didn't need weeks or months I just needed to realise God is who I need to truest seek first, if you've managed to read all of this God bless you I'm 24 only been with one girl and I was not missing out on anything except God, wait on the Lord is all I have to say
I don't think being a virgin is shameful but after a certain age it does come off as weird. Its cute to say your waiting for that special moment when your a teenager but when you're an adult it just comes off as odd. Like what are you waiting for?
Its such a special honoring thing it should be given to your special someone.make sure hes that special someone. I gave my virginity to my hi school sweet heart @ 21yrs old.What a mistake its not worth it.and when u give your body your giving your soul.and thats a whoole lot to be giving away.yeah
