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@Ronkeraji Год назад

I'm not going to lie y'all, thank you so much for embracing me and being able to watch this video! I'm currently trying to reply to as many comments as I can. I truly appreciate all of you, it made me more emotional to read about you guys stories. I love y'all :)

@kuldoxy5637 Год назад

We love u too dear.💕🙂 I wish u well!🙏🏿

@ellanomba9635 Год назад

As i watched you explain the best way you could, I understood you. I'm glad you are getting better. Keep growing and glowing❤️

@favoursamadejor7512 Год назад

I am so grateful that u r back , not just back but stronger and better.🥰🥰 Waiting for birthday content.

@carolyndye2615 Год назад

I am so very proud of you. I found your channel in 2016 after I had a full abdominal hysterectomy, Your laughter and smile helped me come from a dark place dealing with menopausal depression. I'm so very glad you found your way back to you. Because you also helped me find my way back to me.

@lordyoumademe Год назад

Well done, I can’t imagine it’s easy to open up to a world full of strangers. I wish you the very best.

@GrowingWithM Год назад

Your "cancel" experience was one of the most heartbreaking things i've witnessed off social media. I remember the period and how it resonated with Nigerians but also saw first hand how unforgiving a society can be. I would always check your page every couple of months to see how you were faring. Alot has been going on, I admire your strength and your resilience so much. Better days are ahead

@tife5874 Год назад

She actually brought it on herself, that period was really sensitive - now, the past is in the past. Good that she’s realized the order of things & grown/learnt from it. Life isn’t a bed of roses. Popularity won’t shield no one from backlash/criticism.

@vimati_queen Год назад

@@tife5874 will you keep quiet, she brought it upon herself yen yen yen.. you that that is so perfect..I hope you go through some of even worst when you also make mistakes.. so insensitive ans you sound dumb

@purelyable Год назад

@@kikalitebeautyefeyini6333 thank you

@imadobs5626 Год назад

Shut up abeg

@QueenOfTheCoast Год назад

@@kikalitebeautyefeyini6333nah speak for yourself. It’s good that she’s taking accountability but whatever you’re going through … there’s never a reason to be problematic towards other people.. ENDSARS was a huge deal.

@gifty2595 Год назад

This video really liberated me from the clutches of ignorance. Having empathy for others is a part of our humanity. Thanks for being so raw and transparent ❤

@tondaniraluswinga2590 Год назад

It really is. Empathy helps us deal with our own emotions too

@kewlkat5000 Год назад

100%

@thejoyfuladenike Год назад

This got me emotional. I'm so sorry you went through all these Ronke. Thank God you're doing better and you still have a smile on your face. God will keep showing up for you and your kids in Jesus name!!

@Ronkeraji Год назад

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it :)

@gbolajesuamusa Год назад

It’s hurts to go through depression and just when things feels better, you lose your partner. This definitely has been a journey Ronke, & I am glad you’re recovering from it ❤️.

@JoyFay Год назад

This was when he should have been there for her

@favourolakada Год назад

I mean, you would never know how her condition affected him, I just hope his in a better space

@favourolakada Год назад

Ronke please check your Ig, I sent you a message

@fa9183 Год назад

@@JoyFay why are you guys assuming he wasn't there for her? She never said that. So you guys need to stop.

@Ronkeraji Год назад

Thanks so much hun :)

@20abena Год назад

Not saying this is Ronkes case, but Having kids always hard on women. Even if you have a good husband and family around, it has a way of you make feel alone. Motherhood is hard

@catherine__oz Год назад

Tell me about it 😫

@heydaviajay Год назад

Hit the nail on the head!!

@Unique_Debby Год назад

Motherhood is hard oooo. Woman should some times put their self first.

@HealthyKyla Год назад

So true!!

@QueenMufasa552 Год назад

@@Unique_Debby this👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏👏🙏

@Iamdodos Год назад

I’m so proud of you Ronke for sharing your story and also taking back your voice. Love you mama

@Glamrocs Год назад

This is why I’m also writing a book. Life is not always soft life like social media wants you to think. I’m glad you’re feeling better and telling your story.

@Ibelieveinmyself100 Год назад

Right !

@Joyiiee Год назад

This is the energy I missed. I genuinely missed you. You may not understand the bond I’ve had with you for so long. I started watching you as a teenager and literally wanted to be like you. Everyone that knows me knows this. Thank God for you Ronke! Good to have you back.

@erinak7008 Год назад

Girl I don’t respond to ppl on socials. They act out of their fears and anxieties especially when it comes to social media, protect your peace and babies mama. Stay strong and blessed!

@vimati_queen Год назад

There were a lot of people I unsubscribed to on RU-vid because of you, Especially when they started talk shii about you on their Channel… I’m not saying you’re perfect.. but then if you love someone you should understand them Expecially people you looked up to. You can’t be a fan for the good days only, sometimes there are bad days and you should also stick with them.. anyways I’m a very big fan and no matter what I’m alway here… I’m glad you’re finally talking about it, I’m glad you’re back.. I LOVE YOU!! ❤❤❤❤

@Ronkeraji Год назад

YESSS! Exactly this, back then one of the thoughts in my head was like wow people really don't know me, I thought they did. It really put things in perspective for me also. Whether good or bad peoples opinions shouldn't have so much weight.

@marleyhill34 Год назад

I went through something similar after age 30 and I didn't have children. I started thinking I have BPD. but took ages to get diagnosed. My former husband couldn't cope and was abusive to me so I had to leave. Come to find out at age 40 that I have autistic traits. so now I'm neurodivergent. It's frustrating because if I had had the right support I would have never gone through that. You are lucky that your village stuck by you.

@marleyhill34 Год назад

@JayanOfAfrica thanks. it is what it is and I survived.

@lola68688 Год назад

BPD is different from Bipolar Disorder

@marleyhill34 Год назад

@@lola68688 Yes I know because I have BPD not Bipolar. which one do you have? Or do you have both because that is a thing too? Are you a mental health professional?

@Ohemaamary Год назад

I too was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 2020 after I had a mental breakdown due to school and other factors. I thought something was wrong with me but didn’t know until my parents sent me to the hospital and I ended up in the psych ward. Tough times is all I can say but I just wanted to say thank you for making this video. It’s helping me process things too.

@Ifeomaa Год назад

Hello Mary, thanks for sharing your experience. How did you feel during the period before you were diagnosed. What was the breakdown like if you feel like sharing.

@Ohemaamary Год назад

@@Ifeomaa I didn’t feel good before my diagnosis. I wasn’t able to sleep at all and I didn’t each much. I remember my mom forced me to eat oatmeal cause I didn’t want to eat. All I did was cry and talk to myself a lot more than I usually do. I was telling people bad things that I’ve done. I should have known something was wrong with me but I didn’t. The last straw was when I didn’t even shower or take care of my appearance. My mom and dad tricked me into going to the hospital cause they knew I wouldn’t go on my own.

@Ohemaamary Год назад

Meant to say eat much

@Ronkeraji Год назад

@@Ohemaamary Oh wow this is exactly what happened to me, the way you described telling people the bad things you did. Exactly that, I really appreciate you sharing this with me. To be honest I didn't eat for like 3 days also I didn't even realize how bad it was. We will all try to stand strong together

@Ohemaamary Год назад

@@Ronkeraji wow it’s crazy that these things happen but I’m glad I got the help I needed. Thank you for being brave enough to tell us your story.

@aishas5690 Год назад

Half of her subscribers came to watch this. I hope you guys continue to support Ronke. She's a lovely person and very admirable. I really do wish you the very best hun!

@Taggiekagbaggie Год назад

Ronke!! I think you are a visual artist and you are one of the most resilient people I’ve encountered online. I watched this video with tears but also felt a sense of pride that you have journeyed to this point and showed such humility in telling us your story so far. Here’s to a phenomenal 32nd year around the sun! We know say the last few years has shown you shege but here’s to rainbows and all the tarpoline and other tools to weather any storm! Go Ronke! ❤🥳

@lateefatsanni542 Год назад

You don’t know how much this video helped me, I went through the exact same thing in 2021 but I wasn’t pregnant. I also got diagnosed with bipolar disorder and also got sectioned in a mental hospital. I still can’t think too much about it cause it’s still so painful for me. Thank you so much for this, having and recovering from manic episodes can be quite isolating

@REACHOUT684 Год назад

*🎉I have a (Mystery Box) package for you,@Ronkeraji gist the above username for acknowledgment.*

@niellaodum Год назад

Hugs and kisses dear. You will be fine 😊

@Mry140717 Год назад

❤❤❤

@soriyazz Год назад

I'm a child rape survivor. I have struggled w,/depression anxiety for a long time. Girl Your story although different resonates within my soul. From the people-pleasing to finding a piece of peace!! I appreciate your story through your journey. I also appreciate the fact that you knew it was time to walk away from the marriage and to free him as well. As long as you and your children are striving and healthy and you keep a balance on your mental health it all will work out. Blessings and peace to you.

@SarahOffisal 8 месяцев назад

This got me emotional because after you shared everything I could see how free you are. How much you appreciate your self for being you.

@lacklandcrystal Год назад

This video is telling me that I should tell my story. I thank you for speaking up Ronke. I live with bipolar disorder and more. I have not been active on my channel for years. So much has happened.

@karimotisiaka6328 Год назад

I'm glad I never judged you. Always rooting for you.

@Lolagbenjo Год назад

I think it’s so crazy how so many of us Nigerian American single moms have very very similar stories. I am so happy for your journey and I’m so glad to see the light back in your eyes

@JustJoia Год назад

Bless you Ronke for surving these last 2 years. Thank you for fearlessly opening up. ❤

@tracybrown7786 Год назад

It's really funny how a woman stinks through thick and thin with a man, even in sickness and in health. But when the table turns, they run to the nxt woman without thinking of the past years together💔 Ronke I am so sorry you went through all this, the fact that u are still here, shows God is not done with you yet. Sending u all the love and light. Stay strong and blessed. We love you so much ❤️ 😍 💖 💕

@Firefly471 Год назад

Is that what she said happened?

@aikaydaniel4817 Год назад

How many men initiate divorce?

@oluwatoyinayeni703 Год назад

@@aikaydaniel4817 How will one wants to end what benefit them more?

@aikaydaniel4817 Год назад

@@oluwatoyinayeni703 you think men have more benefits from marriage? Because I don't see many men enthusiastic about getting married. Less so nowadays

@Amina_mo Год назад

Rooting for you Ronke. I pray for strength for you, healing, and restoration in the most beautiful ways.

@lolafetuga Год назад

"The medication was really kicking my yansh" 😂💀 You are strong and well, All the best Ronkeraji ❤

@Chaitea3800 Год назад

Thank you for your HOT-ness (honesty, openness, transparency). Was getting emotional as you were sharing your MH struggles. Especially as a mom we are so prone to so much distress already then for this to happen to you is heartbreaking. I felt like i was on the brink of something similar during my immediate postpartum period. You are strong, you are resilient, you are committed to improving everyday. As you said you didn’t have to share a thing, but your story has purpose. God is making your life beautiful and I pray for your peace to be protected, and that you’d continue to uncover the God given treasure that is your life. As you said “your life isn’t in your hands” so in your surrender to Him, greater things will come. Continue taking great care of the babies. Waiting for the next makeup tut. Bye for now.

@monicamartey Год назад

Wow, this so thoughtful

@itsasamorse Месяц назад

Firstly, I'm so sorry for all that you went through. Second, I'm glad you survived, and thank you for putting your and your kids' safety first. Third, thank you for being open about your experience with psychosis. My experience with psychosis was similar - I was in the hospital for a month and came out of that mental state because of EMDR. Mental illness is a taboo subject in African communities, especially for African women. There's so much pressure on us to suffer in silence, but we have to find courage in our values. I'm so happy you're in a better space, and I'm excited for your thriving future dear. You deserve it all 💛

@Ohemaa Год назад

Ronkeeeeee I was here and didn’t even understand what was going on. Every week new trend

@claudianyame Год назад

How come I've been watching your videos for years without subscribing? I just did

@Uzzymami Год назад

First of all I’d like to apologize to you for everything that you went through, you didn’t deserve the ‘cancellation’ you got I should have been a better person to not judge you like that. You’re such an amazing person and I pray that life is easy on you ❤❤❤ P.S we need a makeup tutorial ASAP 😍😍

@FoyinOg Год назад

i won’t even lie, i was one of those people who was super disappointed in your content/reactions in october 2020 and i unfollowed because i really didn’t align with your views. but seeing all of the mental health challenges you were going through at the time really provides context and helps me empathize with you. it doesn’t absolve you from your mistakes but i’m glad you learnt and grew from that experience and also got help for your mental health 🤍🤍🤍 i went through something similar last year and i was shocked at how much it truly affected me. i hope you only continue to get better!!

@bisolaakintunde4900 Год назад

How are you able to say all of these without tearing up??? This literally brought tears to my eyes. You are one strong super woman👏

@kingsmbaeze Год назад

I’m so so proud of you Ronke, I feel emotional, I feel happy and I feel proud. All of all go through so much difficult life phases but it’s only the brave ones are able to publicly speak up about it. I love you ❤

@kcdanna Год назад

Had tears in my eyes listening to you. We really know little or nothing about what people are going through in life. We need to do better…I need to also do better in giving people grace, and releasing mercy even when we don’t understand why people do the things they do sometimes especially when it’s out of their character. Keep winning every day of your life, keep showing for yourself and your babies. you are doing great Ronke❤

@theolivia_i Год назад

I’m rooting for you Ronke You’re so strong and I pray it gets better from here

@chinedumudeagbala2658 Год назад

Kindness is just so essential in the world . Sometimes we forget that social content creators are human beings with their own lives and struggles - let’s all endeavour to grace social media with understanding , forgiveness and love ! Stay blessed Ronke : I pray that your light keeps shining bright . May God continue to bless you and your kids enormously . Continue to take care of yourself ❤

@igareesther8810 Год назад

Hey Ronke, thank you for sharing this and it really resonated with me because my sister - inlaw was diagnosed with postpartum psychosis and it was a really difficult time for us since she was unable to cater for her two weeks old baby. Thank God you are doing well now ❤

@SassyFunke Год назад

God is certainly not done with you Ronke. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. People forget that our online presence doesn’t account for even 5% of what we go through as people. We need to have empathy for others and give grace to others as no one knows what others are truly going through. As a person of color, I appreciate you being so transparent with what you have gone through. You are already healing others. Much love to you and the kids Ronke ❤️

@Nell654 Год назад

This is why I say stop judging people. It’s not just fair. It’s not. Show everyone you interact with some grace and mercy.

@Iamthatwoman2024 Год назад

I'm a woman in her 50's and I found the video to be so inspiring! The wisdom that was shared was amazing. To come into the knowledge that what she went through wasnt just for her wasting amazing. Thank you for sharing, I believe this video will be a blessing to and for others years to come! Thanks again for an inspirational and powerful video!

@TolaniAV Год назад

Cheering for you Ronke! Thanks for sharing this with us. I love when you said God is not done with you yet, FULLY agree! ❤❤

@Busayoalic Год назад

I’m sorry about all you went through, more sorry that “Nigeria happened to you”💕 So glad you’re in a better place! Grateful for the boldness it required for you to do this and for doing it as well. Sending you love and hugs x

@vimati_queen Год назад

Yea ooo I pray Nigeria done happen to us.. cos this people would put all their frustrations on you

@alexixblog Год назад

Please don’t blame Nigerians about how they reacted to this issue. A lot of people lost their lives, a lot of us are still traumatized by that event.

@Busayoalic Год назад

@@alexixblog Excuse me? She also lost her 'life'. In this sense, i'm referring to Nigeria as a concept. We are/were all dealing with the trauma, in diverse degrees and dimensions. It shouldn't be anyone's responsibility to make hers heavier because she's a public figure. More so, now knowing what she was dealing with. Above all, we must extend a hand of grace in all our dealings! Let he who is sinless cast the first stone!

@der-star Год назад

When you say "Nigeria happened to her", do you mean Nigerians were wrong in telling her the truth about her comments during that time?. I understand she was going through a lot then, but that doesn't make the comments about her position back then wrong. If it was wrong, she wouldn't be here explaining why she did what she now thinks is wrong. It's ok to say "people wouldn't have judged her as much or even paid attention to her if they knew what she was facing back then", but it is never ok to say they judged her harshly or wrongly. After all she was. Afterall she was lucid enough to type all she did and even replied people who disagreed with her back then. If you wouldn't judge her, then do not judge the Nigerians that disagreed with her. They were also going through a lot back then. "Nigeria didn't happen to her", Life happened to her.

@vimati_queen Год назад

@@der-star well Nigerians took it too far my dear. Whether you like it or not sometimes Nigerians want to just pour their frustration on people ok.. they over did abeg.. like she’s going to solv the problem, nobody is saying she’s perfect but then. Nigerias overdid too..

@Nelegance_beauty Год назад

Hi Ronke thank you so much for this, i experienced same thing and i hope someday i am able to talk about it. My marriage did not survive my breakdown that i had twice in one year as i was in africa and family members assumed hubby was doing some ritual evil stuff as it happened barely 6months after marriage. I am still here healthy happier and happy. Hubby and i are separated hopefully we will get it right someday ❤❤🧡🧡🧡

@vjdaraa Год назад

My whole thought throughout this video, God is definitely not done with you yet! All my love to you and your kids Ronke 💙💙

@akposivwodoreseroghene7087 Год назад

I hardly comment on RU-vid but I have to do this. I’m so proud of you Ronkeeeeeeeee You are so strong and resilient and I love it for you. Thank you for being an inspiration to us. It’s only going to be sweet memories from now Amen!!

@mokwenajanet3375 Год назад

My younger sister is going through the same thing for the second time and it's still going on . The first time it happened in less than two months after giving birth to her first born child...now it started again 3+ after giving birth to her second child...its so heartbreaking to see really and this time it has taken longer than before coz its almost 5 or 6 months...she couldn't recognize me, her children, her husband, my mum, our sisters...its a lot to deal with honestly...and I feel a lot better after watching this video just seeing you explain it like that....thank you so much may God bless you.

@shelequethompson7618 Год назад

I'm going through this same thing currently triggered in November admitted to a hospital due to my second pregnancy. And I just got diagnosed with bipolar depression . It's deep . Respect

@jasminelanett1 Год назад

It’s impressive how you were able to summon the strength to make this video. We’re so so proud of you. I’ve been following you for so many years now (don’t know how many 😂 but waaaay before you got married) and it’s amazing how far you have come and much you have grown. What you said about being "true to self" is 💯 truth! And is such a massive doorway to knowing thyself better, and being more self aware which all contributed to rapid self growth and love. You are amazing!!!! Looking forward to Ronke 32.0!!!!! ❤❤❤

@FeliciaBeee Год назад

I'm so glad you can smile after everything that has happened, I can imagine the relief after filming. Well done on sharing your experience. Sorry about all that's happened. Depression is real, and I'm still dealing with mine after having my baby, I'm gradually recovering. Stay safe. You got this.

@REACHOUT684 Год назад

*🎉I have a (Mystery Box) package for you,@Ronkeraji gist the above username for acknowledgment*

@rotienoxoxo Год назад

Hi dear - your story is extremely powerful!! I admire you for sharing about your mental health challenges. You really inspired me and reminded me how liberating storytelling is. You are going to change lives with your testimony! 💕

@dr.rebeccajohnson Год назад

I remember watching my first video of yours years ago and remember really loving your spirit. I’m sorry to hear about the struggles you went through recently. Thank God you made it through and are doing better now. As someone in mental health, it can be a true struggle and certainly can be hard to explain to others what you went through. Thank you for sharing your story and bringing light to such an important topic (especially in our community where this is not discussed enough)! Wishing you nothing but good health and happiness from here on out!

@crystalagha8498 Год назад

I am happy that you are in a better place. You are so resilient! Like you said, God’s not done with you yet. Thank you for your openness ❤

@ChubbyAfrodite Год назад

I’m so proud of you for making it to this point in your journey, Ronke! ❤

@Fiolayemii Год назад

I’m so sorry you had to go through all of this 😢 Sending you prayers and virtual hugs It takes courage starting over again .I pray life only gets easier for you from here🥺❤️

@Wendy12841 Год назад

I’m glad you finally speak up. I haven’t watched any of your videos since the #ENDSARS saga. I unsubscribe and unfollowed you on every social media platform. Omo, I cancelled Ronke everywhere that year ooo. Good thing she's talking about it now everything makes sense. I'm subscription back to the channel.

@KemiKnowsTravel Год назад

Sooo proud of you Ronke! Battling a new mental health issue at a later stage in your life isn’t easy. Wishing you loads of success on this journey 🎉

@sandrabassey_ Год назад

Your life is a testimony. I am so happy you’re happy now. May your testimony be permanent and may God guide your path and make things easy for your and yours ❤️

@Mry140717 Год назад

Hi ❤, I’ve been watching you for years, and I just wanted to say thank you for sharing, I had a close family member go through a similar experience and i myself struggle with depression and it’s just nice to hear that there will always be light at the end of the tunnel. God bless you sister for sharing your story. You got me crying over here. Praying for you and your new journey and beautiful children. ❤

@cheffeteskerry Год назад

You’re a strong woman Ronke. I am sorry you went through all this. God Will keep giving you the strength to overcome whatever obstacles come your way❤️

@sirristyles Год назад

I flew here too😂 I’m so glad you shared this and I could see how liberated you felt while talking. I pray you continue to get all the strength you need ❤

@Emelade Год назад

Nobody deserves to go through this . I pray for strength for you. ❤

@anitadavid-akoro250 Год назад

Omo x 100. E for energy!!! I appreciate you for being so honest and truly, it is liberating. Thank God for your life and I know things are only going to get better for you. Stay close to God too and watch how you'll soar. Cheers

@astoldbysua Год назад

I’m so pleased to see you be able to speak about your story with so much poise, bravery, vulnerability and strength especially with things being relatively so recent. I don’t know you personally & actually just grateful a friend shared ur video with me. It took me nearly a decade to come out about my mental health disorder so to see you with such a large platform and voice share your story I know it will bless others. I know I felt so exposed when I finally shared my story. Those butterflies and cringe moments like did I really post that lolz lean into it. You did amazing! Keep going.

@Keesha Год назад

Wow….. girl, thank you for sharing. Can’t speak for everyone but many women are aware something is wrong, and they self diagnose and they feel like I’m strong I will be ok. You describing your diagnosis really hit home for me.

@InemShina Год назад

This is a reminder to be kind to people because no one knows what they’re dealing with

@ADJonah Год назад

I missed you You remain the queen mostly a standard Permit me to say you’ve been ordained a vessel (channel) for the generation behind you Greatness is in your path I’ve waited and I’ll wait for you to send us the light you have to share to the world

@kikalitebeautyefeyini6333 Год назад

I am going to put this out here for everyone to read especially FEMALES. please and please think of what you say or reply to people online. if you are the one receiving it. you never know what one might be going through in that space of time, people handle bashing, and criticism differently. I remember that cancel case and how they came for her (Ronke) from her Twitter page to ig, guess how I knew, it was from a Mua (makeup artist) page. a lady for that matter. not knowing what Ronke was going through in her space. hmm watching this video, I pray that you receive Restoration on all sides. you have been a long-standing and one of the pioneers of female black influencers. God is not finished with you sis.

@MONailsNDesigns Год назад

First I want to say Happy International Women Day! I met you at my SIL makeup seminar years ago b4 you even got married and thought you were and are down to earth person. I'm sorry you went through a tough time, but I'll say it didn't break you. You fight to the last during your journey and you're still standing. God has so much more for you in store. May you continue to inspire and be a becon of light to many. Look forward to more of your videos etc. One ❤️

@lolao6005 Год назад

Ronke thanks for sharing. I can resonate and this is liberating for me. Happy for your growth and for where you are today. God will help you navigate through it all. Love and light.

@kholofeloseerane Год назад

Thank you for your honesty and transparency. You are truly going to help a lot of people. Giving birth is no child’s-play to affects every part of your life.

@AyanaAjomi Год назад

Ronke! I had postpartum psychosis as well! I remember when you initially posted about it and I sent you a DM. It's not easy and it's soooo rarely talked about!! I feel like it takes a part of feeling like "you" away. Thank you for sharing your story 💖 Continue to do everything you can to show up for yourself, love yourself, and love your babies 💕 You absolutely can do this! Xoxo

@ImaniTN Год назад

This is very emotional , people do not understand this things . I had a trauma birth last year , was in icu for 3weeks fighting for my life … I have never been officially diagnosed but I have been so depressed , lashing out alot . I am happy to see you back . I hope one day I will have enough strength to make a video like this to help birth trauma mums 🥰🥰.

@efomosarahosa Год назад

Congratulations Ronke, that's it... Congratulations, you're just so dear to God and I'm grateful to him for holding you through this journey.

@brianaandrews8899 10 месяцев назад

What a story ❤ you are so strong and beautiful for standing in your truth and being vulnerable. None of us are exempt from hard times, shame and having to start over, there’s strength and beauty in embracing this part of the journey !! We are humans and real and influencers should be more raw/transparent. May God bless you !! You should consider writing a book one day

@sasantew5010 Год назад

I don’t know why but I just started crying when you spoke of your psychosis and postpartum depression 26:21. You are doing great. You have been through a lot. Keep pushing. Take one step at a time and just do you. We love you

@xxxtacy Год назад

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️ I am glad you are here. Life has so many turns. You have survived. ❤️❤️❤️

@ruthanyasi8290 Год назад

Hi Ronke. I'm glad you're okay now. Having good mental health is really important. I've always loved you and I've been riding with you since day one. You're my one and only natural hair super hero. When you were 'canceled', I was heartbroken. I had to settle for rewatching your old videos (I binge watched like 3 different times, lol). I'm sorry about you and Banji.

@MyFragranceTrail 11 месяцев назад

We never know what people are going through, behind closed doors. Thank you for bringing Brave and Vulnerable.

@bomaogan-abu586 Год назад

God is good, am thankful for your life Ronke🙏🏾 Your right "God is not done with you"🙏🏾🙌🏾 May God continue to heal you and bless you and your family. Happy mothers day in advance. You're doing great.🤗

@kuldoxy5637 Год назад

Oh mine! I literally asked myself if u were ok after I saw that u cut ur beautiful gorgeous hair. I'm so sorry this happened, but these things had to happen 4 you to go to the next step, and I'm glad u survived it. Shout out 2 u girl!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Keep being you!🙌🏿💕

@bolawhaley3725 Год назад

So, I am only about 8 minutes in and I had to pause the video. I have watched you skirt about this topic in the past,and I am so proud of you for confronting it head on. I know this has to be incredibly hard to share with your subscribers, but I believe you will be stronger for it. We as Nigerians aren't encouraged to bare our emotions so I completely understand how brave you are.

@oreoluwaayeni2372 6 месяцев назад

i hate social media man. the way they will turn on you for shit that’s not even your business is ridiculous 😕

@lolashittu4444 Год назад

Omg! I’m so sorry Ronke. You can never be cancelled. You’re stronger than you think. I’m happy you’re in a better space and getting better. Wishing you the best always❤

@dawoduomolola3672 Год назад

Ronke. I watched this a second time. Shout out to you for your courage and bravery to speak on your experience and all the roller-coaster. I'm happy youre in a better place 💛

@tolu_matilda7077 Год назад

I remembered that time so well , I remembered fighting for you then and been dragged on Twitter, I honestly don't think you deserved what people did then, I watched that video and there was absolutely nothing wrong with it for me. I'm glad you are finally talking about it. You're strengthened in Jesus name

@chetaobika Год назад

Ronke, I am sorry you have to go through this! May God continue to strengthen you and give you peace, comfort and restoration! I knew something was wrong when you weren't on social media. May this journey of re-discovering your self be more amazing.

@Ohhheyy Год назад

Typical example of you never know what anybody is going through. I am sorry you went through that and I am glad you are doing better.

@Oluafeyijimi Год назад

This revelation is incredible. Proud of you Sis!

@belindadei8852 Год назад

OmG it saddens me so much when a long time couple suddenly can’t continue anymore

@jordanalston3506 Год назад

Thank you so much for sharing your story. That takes a lot of courage. & I personally appreciate it because I’ve been battling depression for years now and finally decided to take the steps to better my mental health. Its not easy. I’m proud of you!! Also, I love your makeup videos! ❤

@thesifon130 Год назад

First time on your channel and I’m proud of you for sharing this. Women go through so much! Went through something close to this in 2016 after my second child and it was hell. May the Joy of the Lord fill your heart and May you find peace💖💖💖💖💖🌚

@gratiapurple Год назад

Thank you so much for sharing, Ronke. Thank God you are much better. Thank God you are in a better place. Thankful for people who supported you during your struggles. You are more than you imagine. Keep shining, keep winning. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors and happy birthday in advance. You are AMAZING, Ronke.

@EbunoluwaTheCommentator Год назад

Thank God you are back.”When there is life, there is hope” So I thank God that you are alive to tell your story. To everyone struggling with MH, just know that you will get out of it, God will help and strengthen you. Kudos to you Ronke. Afflictions will not rise again in Jesus name

@Krinique Год назад

Honesty I am so happy you are able to speak your truth I say a big congratulations to just making it to this point❤. I noticed his absence more with some of your portraits with your kids but when you told us in IG about your BPD diagnosis I realized it must have been related to that. My aunt literally went and is going through the same thing but has not allowed herself to acknowledge her diagnosis and to see her partner is not right for her and is actually not supportive in her mental health recovery. I’m definitely gonna rewatch this with her

@sarahmadondo1222 Год назад

Thanks for sharing Ronke. God has a plan and purpose for you, glad to see you back at what you are called to do. You were missed and glad to have you back 👌🏿💕

@vimati_queen Год назад

I’m so glad you talked about it.. you actually inspired me into starting my RU-vid.. I’ve followed your journey from the very beginning.. I know how it all happened I know what it feels like to have your life all figured out and see everything crumble before you this happened to me too I was so depressed, I have also been going through a very low time and I’m finally getting out of it.. I’m glad you shared your story and trust me it misntered to me, it helps me to know I can also be back and better too.. RONKE YOUR SO BEAUTIFUL AND YOURE A BLESSING TO THIS WORLD DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE ❤️

@Ronkeraji Год назад

aw thank you my love! YESS share your story its what you were born to do, your story can help so many people you never know!

@vickyd9584 Год назад

Aries are very sensitive and caring people hence we tend to go through a lot of “pain” more than “other” people. I nearly went mad after having my third child😭 It is not easy. I am on meds now and I am doing well. Please seek help if you need help with your mental health. Don’t just pray and expect an instant healing…yes I am a Christian . God put doctors on earth to help with our ailments.

@shavonwoods Год назад

Thank you for being transparent and for your strength. I too know the struggle of depression and being a single mother after being with someone for 18 years. Keep the faith and keep pushing. Don't give up! You got this! Sending prayers and love your way

@moji1466 Год назад

Wow .. I’m so sorry for everything you’ve been through! So happy you’re alive. I wasn’t a fan before so here’s to new fans! You’re amazing and you’re doing great

@pearlrosenwuke5029 Год назад

Thank you for telling your story. You went through a lot and I’m happy you’re doing so much better!

@gothfairy5393 Год назад

I must applaud the degree of bravery. 👏knowing it’s rare especially for us Nigerians(plus influencers) to get this vulnerable. I am rooting for you Ronke. ❤ Signed: A mental health expert.