I'm not like other girls... I read? 

As a child, I was told I was superior because I read books and didn’t act like other kids. However, I see that as harmful now because why does everything have to be in a binary? Why can’t I read books and be a silly child? Also, the elitism when it comes to Reading Circles in Elite Schools is another Video Essay.

I find it weird how people have made reading an "aesthetic". I've been a reader for 10 years and never thought that there is an aesthetic behind it especially because everybody reads. Some people just read more. I also think it is funny when people expect all readers to be the same with the idea of the reader aesthetic.

OK, I squealed seeing this, because Emma Chamberlain said in her architectural digest video something like, “And I mean, who reads these days?” And I was like……. A lot of people?? 😅

the pandemic really made everyone take things they like and turn it into a commodity or aesthetic 🙃 edit: I think people are misunderstanding what i mean. During the pandemic people couldn’t go out, so normal things were heavily romanticized and made into aesthetics by influencers with nothing better to latch on to. this put pressure on normal people who just enjoy things like reading for the pleasure of reading, to then put some sort of flair and image into what they are doing. There is so much pressure to “do it for the gram” rather than just do it because you enjoy it. This has been a problem but it got 1000 times worse in 2020.

i’ll never forget this one new york post article that accused the hadid sisters of using books as accessories because the sisters weren’t at the same intelligence level as emma watson

Seeing reading become cool/trendy is SO weird because I've loved books all my life, but a lot of the other kids I went to school with didn't like reading, and the adults always made it this "special" thing that I loved books, like i was superior or different for enjoying reading. I never felt that way but adults, especially my aunts and uncles, would tell my cousins to read more because I read a lot and for some reason, reading was seen as a "valuable hobby" i guess. I really hate the idea that reading makes you cool or that it's a better hobby than others, cause it's not. like sure, you learn more words and maybe get better at writing but that doesn't make it superior to other activities.

As someone who has been an avid reader since I was a child, seeing reading become 'cool' does't bother me and actually makes me happy. What does frustrate me though is that because reading has become trendy, there is an insurgence of authors who are sweeping the shelves who I wouldn't say are good writers. In reading's development from 'nerdy' to 'cool' there is an obvious gap between those who are well versed in good writing and those who just follow trends. What I hope for the future is that reading continues to stay popular and the more well read people become, the more people start to recognise bad writing from good writing and give actual talented authors a chance.

The good thing to come out of this trend (for me personally) is rediscovering my love for reading. I was that “gifted kid” that loved to read but I think public schools take the fun out of reading. When reading became mandatory, it felt like work. I stopped reading for fun because I had so many books to read for school. One of the downsides of reading becoming trendy is overconsumption. The reading challenges encourage people to buy more and more books & most people aren’t buying local/checking them out at the library. Capitalism doing its thing once again.

Omg that fanfict in the beginning was a STAPLE in my childhood 😂😂 wattpad had me in A CHOKEHOLD as a kid

I think something about books is that you can kind of judge a person based on what they read or based on what people want others to think that they read. So a glance at someone's bookshelf give you slightly curated but genuine idea about them. Nevermind that some people have so many books they don't read. Remember support your local library and bookstore. In the age of Amazon every bit can help.

Omg the Wattpad descriptions gave me violent flashbacks

I think it’s really interesting how we put books morally above other kinds of media. We tend to doubt thing we read online but not the things we read on “paper” and I think it’s important to ask ourselves why? One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned is to loosen the respect for books: anotate them, draw on them, write over them, fold them, lend them and loose them. They should feel more like a conversation instead of a sacred object in my opinion.

i've been working for a library system for about a year now and i've found that patrons who read almost exclusively booktok or bookstagram books refuse to browse. they usually place their item on hold (which can have a wait of upwards of 100+ people on it,) pick it up, and repeat the process. while i am happy people are reading and finding joy in it, i am sad that they are just reading what they are sold and aren't venturing to truly find their own tastes.

Fun fact: the other reason that Alexander the Great's troops would have been shocked by his ability to read silently was that in ancient Greek (and other scripts like Classical Latin) the most common way of writing didn't include spaces between words (scriptio continua) and so it was incredibly difficult to differentiate word endings and beginnings while reading silently.

I've always been bookish, to the point that right now I'm doing a Ph.D in English Literature. I've never liked One Direction that much, but one of my best friends in high school actually made me go with her to a One Direction concert. SHOULD I HAVE BROUGHT A BOOK WITH ME, DID I MISS MY CHANCE TO BECOME THE MAIN CHARACTER?

When I was 16 I published my first poetry book, which is a paperback. One of the first things my dad told me was “well a lot of people don’t read paperbacks, it’s all about audiobooks now” which I didn’t believe was true. He also told me to “write something people want to read.” I’m now 21 and published my second poetry book and years later, I always think back to that moment to realize how he couldn’t have been more wrong. Im happy to touch people with what i’ve written so far about relationships, healing, and growth. I hope to reach more people. Books can truly help people feel, reflect, encourage growth, and are just nice to read in general.

Ive always had trouble explaining this “phenomenon” but you capture my thoughts perfectly! It’s interesting how reading has always been tied to social status. I’ve loved reading since I was old enough to pick up a book and it’s been interesting to see how through my generation readers have gone from being seen as nerdy/boring/anti-social to now interesting/cool/enigmatic. I feel like there’s never been a time when reading could just be reading.

Actually, books have been used as a sign of status for a very very long time. Think of those magnificent royal libraries, those full giant noblemen bookshelves, etc. Those were all marks of status. They were here to impress, because 1. books were expensive and 2. books meant you were cultivated. Moreover, they first meant you were educated, as most people weren't capable of reading in the first place. Books lost parts of that status when education became more widespread and also with the rise of paperbacks ("ugh, cheap books ?"/s). But it is still very much present to this day, even if we had a moment where reading wasn't considered "cool" anymore, I do believe it will always come back. But I am also a school librarian so I hope reading stays cool !

I don't think the aesthetisisation or romanticising of books is a bad thing, I think it's the opposite. Sure, there are probably people just collecting people for the image, but certain types of people will always be chasing an 'image' of some type anyway. Rather an 'image' of reading, encouraging a larger number of people to read again than something else! As a big reader, I think it's so exciting that it seems to becoming more cool.

While I think it's wonderful that reading has become this popular, I can't help but feel icky about how commercialised, fast paced and showy even reading has become. As you said, reading was rather a personal thing, you read for you and you usually read what you liked, but now with tik tok, most people only read what's popular, and what their influenced to buy, not venturing into new books to form their own taste, they read what's hot on the app and then move onto the next popular thing, and making sure everyone sees that they're reading. The book stylist is the saddest thing I've ever heard, to use books to appear as a certain person instead of forming your own taste and actually read the books is almost dystopian, it's like nothing can escape this for-the-picture fast paced lifestyle. But still, even with all that said, I think the popularization of reading is a good thing, because I'm sure people will eventually browse books that are not recommended by influencers and find their own taste.

Although I agree with pretty much everything you said in this video, I am actually very happy that reading has become ‘cool’ again. As a young child around 11 or 12, I was obsessed with reading. I read all the time so much that my teacher actually gifted me with a collection of Roald Dahl books. It’s safe to say that I went home that day screaming and crying of happiness. However, as I grew older, I lost my touch with books and stopped reading. It wasn’t until I was 15 and in school I started to study poetry and plays like ‘Macbeth’ and ‘An Inspector Calls”, that my love for reading came back. I fell in love with English literature, and it was all I wanted to do. Hell, I almost even changed my future career path because of this. *oh how I miss gcse English lessons* I recently turned 17 and I started reading again last year, and I don’t regret a thing. Books have always been something that I’ve enjoyed, and a sense of comfort. Although I wish some people wouldn’t read just because of the “trend” or because they think that it’s “cool” and an “aesthetic”, I’m glad people are reading more nowadays. Also, we cannot refuse to ignore what the “trend” of reading has brought. BookTok, and the popularity of books in general has helped save book stores and has changed the book industry. Social media may have its fault, but it has changed and helped the book industry to grow and us as readers are grateful. I’m so sorry for the long comment, but I am very happy that I have rediscovered my love for reading, and I hope new readers find solitude and happiness as they turn the pages of whatever material they read, book after book.

The intro had me cracking up not the green orbs 💀😂

There are two types of people who saw this thumbnail- people who wondered when reading stopped being cool, and people who wondered when it ever was.

I’m a lifelong reader but I’ve definitely gone through phases where I read more than others. It’s been my one consistent hobby- not to be quirky but just because I genuinely enjoy it. I appreciate so many people getting into reading post pandemic because I’m more open to trying different genres now that I know how well loved they are. Power of suggestion I guess. It’s made me get out of my comfort zone.

“his green orbs light up” the way I SCREAMED lmaooo

I was always a big reader, and growing up in a small town people would judge me as "snob" just for reading in my free periods at school, when I was just minding my business lol

i always loved reading and i think the aesthetic posts are cute and introduced me to a lot of good books. i’m kinda glad it’s “cool” again.

Don’t Worry Darling is basically one big “Imagine” by Olivia Wilde

idk why reading was ever not “cool” 😂 books have played a huge role in my development over the years

reading isnct cool- acting like you read to show that you are intelligent and educated is cool

“You have reluctantly agreed to attend because apparently she doesn’t have any other friends” this made me scream laugh 😭

My now wife was originally interested in me because she saw me carrying around Battlefield Earth and wanted to know if I was serious or reading it ironically. If it worked for me, it can work for you.

I actually do like reading becoming aesthetic, I just wish it arrived earlier so I wouldn’t made be made fun of. couple of years of ago when I was in school from middle school to end of high school I was made fun of for reading and ppl said why would you read and made faces at me and would say that they don’t even like reading for school subjects It was the reason I left it and tried to take ‘cooler’ hobbies like dance or swimming, I wish my inner child in those times heard all this so I wouldn’t feel like an outsider or someone weird, it hurts a lot when someone makes fun of what you like when you are a kid.

yay appreciated the inclusion of BookTube in this discussion!! I had no clue about the celebrity book stylist thing 🫢

I literally used to consume books like an addict. I personally love that more people are reading, but it sucks that the new books are so _bad_ and the most generic, problematic trash gets pushed more at bookstores. And yes I have noticed how some of the girlies do wear their typical bookish outfits with the tote bag lol!! Hopefully we can make reading accessible to everyone tho.

'tastyfully well-read' is such a funny phrase to me. the rise of booktube for the past decade basically made reading a way to connect with other readers and the fame that came from it for some folks has definitely been critiqued so it's interesting to see the rise of booktok and just reading being regarded as good. i've always been a reader so it's been interesting to see the waves of reading interest and the influence social media has had on reading patterns too.

i think emma is actually a person who does truly enjoy things like reading, art observing, thrifting etc. her dad is literally an artist and in some of her older videos she would to mention how much he tried to encourage her to read, so it would make sense that she is following suit. i think that she says some of the things that she does partly cause she is a pretty witty sarcastic person, but also because she knows her audience. and making an entire video of what she’s been reading will get backlash from other readers that she is as you said “just following the trend”, and will also get backlash from non readers thats she’s becoming boring and she’s changing. it really is a win loose situation when you have so many people judging your every move.

reading is my favourite hobby but i don’t think partaking in it makes me unique or different. millions of girls read. being on social media has made me realise i’m not as unique as i thought.

it’s really annoying to me how reading became an entire trend tbh. i’ve lovedd reading since elementary school and everyone would always think i was odd because i enjoyed reading. now since the pandemic everyone uses it as an aesthetic. like do you actually enjoy reading? also booktok is so annoying they recommend the most awful books like colleen hoover. horrible writing. and now all these girls at my school suddenly read. ha. but i will say that i like some of the book community because when i was younger i didn’t really have people to talk to about my reading so it’s exciting to also have people to be just excited as me

It’s wild that we’re out here trying to make reading a distinct personality when it’s like??? There are so many kinds of books??? In the world??? Reading any kind of book in general doesn’t say anything about you?? That’s not even touching the weird intellectualism w ppl obsessing over ~tHe CLaSSicS~ oof

This essay was so well done!! I‘m new to your channel and this is one of the best essays I‘ve seen this year. I really loved the little intro and the cohesiveness. Agree with you on everything you said. As someone who also got back into reading (heavily) in 2020, seeing this trend now is definitely an… interesting experience

My favorite kind of books are those written by African authors, I think it’s cause I can easily relate and I’m just so proud of how far we’ve come. I joined bookstagram and I found myself trying to read what everyone is reading, all the romance and fantasy books and it felt bleh, I started to lose my love reading it felt like I was forcing myself. Now I’m saying no more, I’m going to read what I like and not what is trendy on tik tok

Great analysis that put into words a lot of things I was noticing online regarding the surge of interest in reading. As a booktube channel, I (like many) got my start in 2020 when I wanted to do something other than watch youtube and play animal crossing for 8 hours a day. I think it's grown in popularity, in particular the trend of "reading vlogs" comes out of the quarantine era when no one could really do anything besides sit at home, so why not make a video about what you are reading when stuck at home? it seems for many lifestyle vloggers, just another flavor of content that they can add into be multi-faceted. Especially in combination with the "that girl" trend showing how we value people whom read as somehow better than others.

I love booktok and booktube because I'm finally getting the book loving community I wanted so badly when I was younger and didn't know many people who liked to read. I used to have to wait until movie versions of books came out to finally be able to fangirl about them with other people. However I noticed a lot of booktok just zeroes in on one particular author or series, forms an opinion, and that's pretty much the end of the discussion. I wish there was a lil more variety. Also I'm totally on board with reading becoming a ✨️cool✨️ thing. I'm just suffering with the aesthetic bit because I read all my books digitally so instead of looking well read it just looks like I'm vapidly scrolling on my phone forever.

I love that this is a critical analysis of the trend without gatekeeping reading. your videos are great!

Oh wow what a topic. Yeah I think I noticed that shift too. The one for appearance & then anything else that's just that like for (self improvement/good stories,less screen time like choosing apples over chips, etc)

I thought I was the only one who noticed the increasing popularity in reading! I've read all my life for fun, but once I was out of elementary school, telling other people that one of my hobbies was reading would earn me a blank stare. Everyone read in elementary school because of required reading, but continuing it after made people think you were "weird"? But I honestly didn't let that hold me back: I was that one kid that carried a novel in their backpack at all times and I was in a book club with my friends for like 4 years. Because I had a good amount of friends that liked reading too, I never really thought it made me "not like the other girls" I guess. Also, once you really get immersed in a good fantasy, contemporary, or historical fiction, it is basically like watching a movie in your mind. It's entertainment; it's not like you're reading a textbook for fun. Tbh, I can't imagine gatekeeping reading now that it is becoming popular. Like more people are reading? Yay! Although things like BookTok have their issues (like recommending the same books over and over and mislabelling every single book as enemies-to-lovers), I appreciate how they are normalizing/popularizing the reading experience.

Tbh I don’t see a problem about it, and I’m kind of happy that reading is becoming a trend. It’s helping out so many of our local bookstores, and charity shops, as well as the authors. However trends come and go, but this opened up the idea of reading for so many people, especially kids. There’s kids in our school wanting a book club, and I hear so many people saying they’re going to the library now. It’s keeping libraries open, and I’m happy about it. Also, I’d rather have influencers encourage reading, even if they’re doing it for aesthetic. It’s better than most of the ideas they encourage on social media.

I had a huge feeling this type of critique would come up, especially the annotated book aesthetic

“Y slash N, that’s a beautiful name” I CAN’T

Honestly I don’t care if it’s a “trend”, I know how long those tend to last- true enjoyers of books and reading in general will stick with it and maybe many are discovering there love for it once more through this “trend”

i really enjoyed this video essay, so well done and so well-researched! thank you for sharing your thoughts

This was really good video and you have such a calming voice and vibe! It's so interesting to read about people's different experiences of being a kid who loved to read. I've loved reading every since I learn how to but I never felt like it was a unique thing per se. It didn't make me feel different from others and no one really made a big deal out of it - they just knew I loved reading and would gift me books for my bdays 😊 If anything people are more focused on it today and joke about how I spend all my weekends reading, though never in a mean spirited way. Having been an active bookstagrammer before the pandemic, my least favourite thing about the community was the gatekeeping and snobbery around especially classics and books some deemed "better" than others. From what I see online now, it seems like things are getting better the more mainstream reading is becoming again :)

I wonder how audiobooks factor into this? I have gotten into audiobooks more recently because they are more accessible to me than traditional reading, and has made it possible to reconnect with my childhood avid love of reading. It used to be the main thing I did with my time and due to various factors I can't read books the way I used to. I do think about how chronic illness makes it much harder to divest from technology especially given the physical isolation we are still forced to maintain because people are pretending the pandemic is over. I feel shame about my tech use but things like reading (which people tend to point to as an easy alternative to using your phone, a la "get off your phone and read a book") aren't necessarily accessible, and the things that make them accessible REQUIRE tech use.

I felt so understood when you mentioned the fear of short term memory/attention span... I started to read a year ago (bc I never really cared and never was able to read) because of my English lessons, my teacher bought us Fahrenheit 451 and we read it together. Thru this book I understood the importance of books.. and bc books started to become popular again I got a lot of videos recommended about books.. I was really scared how fast the world was spinning and how my attention span made everything a little problematic so my goal was to read a lot of books, finde fun in it, learn more and being entertained with slower past things.. thanks for the video

absolutely loved this video queen

Don’t have time to watch right now, but that is a 100% thumbnail face, excellent!👌

I am gen Y I used to read all the time when I was younger, fell into the same screen time issue, it really makes you feel sluggish like you're only eating junk food. Completely agree reading feels like you're eating a salad after eating nothing but fast food, it's really refreshing especially reading in the morning.

the book obsession is great in that small authors are being recognized but books are becoming extremely expensive and those who struggle financially might not be able to afford them. we also now have people buying 60+ books to stick them in a TBR pile to never be touched again. the capitalism of it all is ridiculous. as someone who read all the time as a kid, i can’t help but miss the times when reading was not a competition and more of a past time.

This video was incredibly well researched and left me with a lot of reflections. Thanks for making it!

Highest of compliments to you and your videos Amanda! I found your channel sometime during the first lockdown and your videos are always really well-researched and get me thinking about recent developments/trends I've seen on social media or among my friend group. I'm currently writing a term paper on cottagecore as part of my masters degree in English and American Literature and the idea came to me due to your video on cottagecore :) My friends and I frequently discuss the points you make in your videos and it has made me a lot more aware of the performativity of social media and how this has affected my teenage years and still affects my mental health now in my early twenties. So once more: thank you so much for these great videos and the amount of preparation and research you put into them! Love listening to your thoughts and opinions.

Thank you for covering this topic!

I kind of enjoy the romanticization of reading and books, it has allowed me to reconnect with my love of reading I lost when I got to my senior year of high school. I’ve been introduced to many different types of books and new ways to enjoy books (such as annotating). It’s helped me to branch out with reading and I think that’s awesome.

I love how thoroughly researched this is! I have added 'The Shallows' to my reading list. Also, go off Ms. Reese Witherspoon!!!!

I was wondering about this today. I got into reading really early (kindergarten lol). When my little hobby became too apparent, it was weird to see adults make it into some phenomenal thing, 'KidS DonT ReAlLY rEaD ThEse DaYS'. I didn't think much of it because reading was as fun as playing video games. It was even weirder to see people my age associate reading with being uncool. It was like an unsaid rule. I personally stopped mentioning reading as a hobby. Then suddenly, there was this revolution and reading became 'cool' again. Because aesthetics.

Idk how to say this in English so it makes sense but you're so well articulated and you speak so well, the way you express ideas and get to the point of them has such a nice pace, and your contextualisation of 2012 made me so nostalgic, I was 15 back then and living my best life as a directioner/Tumblr user/avid reader/not like other girls girl

I love that’s it’s become more of a social topic as well. When I see my friends or sisters after a while we all like to discuss what books we’ve been reading.

I think reading fulfills two purposes. One is learning, which is not just learning about facts and theories from non-fiction, but also about the lives of others from fiction. The second is the practice of reading itself. Taking your time and concentrating on something for an hour or longer, appreciating the usage of language, using your own imagination, thinking about what you have read. Some people claim that it doesn't matter what you are reading, as long as you are reading, but I don't agree with that. Different types of book have a different type of effect on us. There are books that are ingeniously written, books that tell incredible stories and books that really make us think. You won't find this type of value in just any book you pick up. I am not saying that some books are worth less than others, but to truly get the value out of reading, I think diversity is very important in the material we choose to read. Try to read a little bit of everything. Naturally some types of books will attract us more than others, but I think it is very much worth it to see what is out there

As someone who loved books before I knew how to read myself but hadn’t actually read a book outside of school for years because of burnout and terrible phone addiction, the romanticization of reading helped me find books that piqued my interests and get me back in to reading. In all four years of college I think I read one book that wasn’t assigned for class, and this year I’ve read 22 books so far because I was genuine excited about them. I think reading being performative is in the same way social media in general is- everything we’re posting is specifically curated to say something about us just like the music we listen to, the movies we watch, and clothes we wear all signifiers of what we like and who we are. I think one the reason we view performative reading as especially frustrating is because we tend to hold literature to a higher degree than we do other media.

The thing is that the books that are trending these days are mostly filled with p*rnograpic scenes rather than an actual good story.

I did not expect a full on fanfic as the intro

This feeling that reading is a chore, not something done for fun, man... I loved reading sci-fi and fantasy as a child and teen, but then as an adult I became mentally ill and my concentration does not work well with reading anymore, and I feel guilty. Feeling like I have to read only made it worse. Its slowly getting better again now, but still it sucks, and I heard I was not the only one

Let’s just appreciate how much of the hard work has been put into making this video!!👏🏻

the beginning got me bout to go watch the After series rn... u forced my hand

17:50 the flute(?) that starts playing in the background at this timestamp is just amazing to me for some reason. Suddenly, it feels like you're talking about a magical world.

i am sorry but you just have such a cute and positive vibe around you, I immediately followed^^ + elaborating and discussing these topics, I am such a sucker for "podcast"like youtubers like you; love that I found you :D

Love that lamp omg !!

It's honestly always been like that. In my country in the past, people used to buy books just to put them on their shelves because not having books in your home meant you were poor and/or uneducated. Now, you are considered "cool" for having books on your pictures. I don't think it's that bad, the worst thing that can happen is that some people pretend to read, but I think that's a much better alternative than reading being seen as nerdy or for it to be looked down upon, so even if someone, especially a child, wants to read they feel bad for doing it..

i'm a book historian and curated shelves of beautiful books that the owner never reads are a thing since around the 15th century (though even before when books were copied by hand and cost a fortune they still meant that the owner not only had money but was smart). books have really always represented Something, be it magic (for example cursed books!) or intelligence (such as happened after printing and once literacy became more widespread). it's very interesting and definitely not a new thing, so i wonder if it will ever go away. probably not, especially if you pair it with what amanda mentions in the video, online social awareness. i do think reading is very important even if the reader's intentions are showing off on social media. maybe something will stick! also the idea of reading at a concert is hilarious, but having a book around for when you're bored is sooo helpful, i try to do that instead of staring at my phone. it does make me sad that people with books at random places may look like they want attention though.

Love your thoughts as always, and thanks for the 1D lore lmao I had no idea. I really like reading a lot, but I must say pretty shelves have become a nice result. I can imagine why someone only aesthetically interested would want that, my book shelves and plants together cheer me up lol. I do feel like modern fiction is doing a good job with the "look". It's kinda amusing, and I certainly don't believe there's some imparted nobility to it, but imo it's a net positive if aestheticising books gets people to give reading something they end up valuing a lot personally. Especially if they might not have otherwise...Then maybe they'd just be on their phone when Harry styles etc... Tragic

I've always loved reading (I was hyperlexic as a kid due to autism) but I fell off it too once I got on social media. I used to not only eat my way through massively long series but I would read them over and over again too. I read so much that my parents would often take my books off me at night so I would go to sleep (anyone else?). I was still somehow labeled a huge reader even when I hadn't read a book in years. I'm pretty happy about reading becoming "cool" again as it got me back on the bandwagon (even if I was heading in that direction anyway since I was about 15/16), though I didn't realize it was "cool" until earlier this year. I'm liking how easy it is to find good recommendations lately as I was stuck in a rut before of exclusively YA contemporary romance - Adam Silvera, Becky Albertalli etc - before Tiktok happened. It's still true that reading is not super common but loads of people now are reading when they didn't before - and I think that's great. My only issue is that when a book gets popular on Tiktok, it's suddenly kind of ruined - you can't find it in a store anywhere, it gets a bunch of negative reviews because it's been hyped so much, and you can't talk about it without being labeled cringe or basic. I'm getting sick of the viral popularity that is Tiktok, but I've always loved books and I'm happy now that I have more people to share them with than ever before.

Great video girl, subscribed!

such a great video amanda, thank you for posting!! it definitely sparked a lot of thoughts. i think the criticism of aesthetic book display/decor kinda echoes the 2012-era gatekeeping of rock n roll t shirts. it's giving "name 5 albums". if girlies are allowed to wear a guns n roses t shirt bc it's a well-designed piece of clothing, i think they should be allowed to use a book as decor if it's a well-designed cover. (the covers are art pieces in themselves!) i think perhaps the reason there's more backlash about posting about books/reading than with other hobbies is that, like you said, it's an innately solitary practice. it seems antithetical to social media. but i think the problem at large is the modern feeling that if you don't post about something, it's not real, and now ALL our hobbies have to be broadcast via yoga time lapses, cooking tiktoks, and pottery etsy shops. when the criticism shifts only to reading, it gives off hints of gatekeeping and whiffs of misogyny to me. i'll be thinking about this video for a while. thank you again!

ive found i have a similar issue to what you mentioned, i used to read books so often when i was younger, i could sit and spend my whole day reading and do it 3 days in a row. ive noticed in the past few years i have barely read any books, and most of the time when i try, i struggle to just sit and read it all (or most of it) in one go like i used to. most of the books i have read recently have been read over the span of months, something that a few years ago i would have never done. i was just wondering how you managed to stop spending so much time on the internet and get back into reading? i have been trying to for the past month but i keep choosing tv, youtube, tik tok, etc over a book, even if they are books that im sure i will enjoy. if anyone has any suggestions or advice i would love to hear it as i really want to get back into reading! also yet another great video!

girl you really need a podcast 💗

for me booktube pushed me back into reading because it helped me navigate what books to read i had just always felt so overwhelmed when going into bookstores and didn’t know where to even start so booktube really help me navigate through that

the intro really got me

What a high caliber British accent. No joke, it was like Harry styles was in the room with me

Okay I love reading always and I'm happy to see people getting excited about it and sharing recs. The performative nature is frustrating but I think you're right that there are worse things. But side note....are the book stylists hiring 😹 I wouldnt love the dubious nature of the job but it would be fun!

Enjoyed the video! Also like your background 🛋

I love your videos!! you make me laugh and think at the same time

That Polyvore reference took me back in time so violently I almost got whiplash. Well done!!

sally rooney has some really interesting interviews about marxism and books and how buying books is like buying yourself a place in a social class of people who read books.

So glad you included Emma Chamberlain's comment in the Architectural Digest video because I saw that and was like, what? but I couldn't find a comment under the video addressing it :D

That expositonal fanfic was pretty good. And now I know that imagines are not what one calls fans of Imagine Dragons, but a specific type of fanfic pertaining to the group One Direction. I only listen to music occasionally, so please forgive me😅

to be honest i find it really cute, like yes i wanna read your annotated pages! like people just wanna show the world what they enjoy doing. its cute. let them. and if it becomes an aesthetic who cares, everything will be an aesthetic one day and everyone will be mad about that too.

omg i love this setting

I would die for a part 2 to this video talking about the influencer books like all the Colleen Hoover type books

that was a fascinating video! I’m glad I found your channel. One of my thoughts is that I’m happy more people on the whole have discovered books and bookstores are more filled now… but I do think losing the authenticity of reading and book choices is a tragedy. Reading is far more profound than a so-called “hobby for the elite”; book choices can show a deep part of a person otherwise unknown. they show what the person is willing to spend time in- whether that be a kind of book they’ve always read, or it shows they are open to new things when they explore different genres. a bookshelf should be a reflection of a person’s life, their contemplation, what they enjoy, all the people who’ve impacted them… and etc. Making that contrived by “professional library curations” and the such is so sad (btw: I’ve been a reader for my whole life)

I love the conclusion. Some of us don't use social media. The only form of social media I use consistently is RU-vid. Its basically television for me. Yet, I am someone who fits the asethetics* of social media influencers. I literally have one follower on my Insta and its a private account. So, the point I'm getting to is that sometimes we are interested by things in our own ways (and not because of the influence of what's trending). It wouldn't be right if I stopped by hobbies which help me with sobriety and other goals I'm upholding rn because of what is trending or what makes me seem like a poser or a pick me kind of guy. I think this assuredness in myself is reinforced by my lack of interest in social media. Do whatever you like and is cool to you if its healthy. You can paint without trying to be famous for it, its good to express yourself. You can play guitar or any other instrument without feeling the need to share it with the world. But its okay if you do want to share it with the world.