I missed you guys so much it feels good to be back and reading all of ur comments/dms! This vlog is very chit chatty cuz i clearly had a lot to say lol but hope y'all enjoy❤
It's really sad that sometimes society puts us in a box and other times we try to put ourselves in one. All this just causes resistance & misery. Once you're open to the idea that not everything needs to be the same for everyone, things start to feel better. So glad you opened up about this. I hope you're doing well now! :)
This mindset is quite dangerous. If someone applies this and they have evil inclinations then according to your interpretation of spirituality, they cannot be held liable even if they were to do something unspeakable. The Creator of all that exists hasn't revealed anything that causes confusion. Saying that there are many paths would lead to utter chaos and that just wouldn't make sense. Furthermore, there can't be multiple truths. Only one. There absolutely is a right and wrong.
@@abukitten you dont know the occult knowledge of spiritually the world is full of good and evil. Is should be negative and positive . Negative doesn’t always mean bad and positive does always mean good..You cant separate the too. Religion is worse
loved that you spoke about spirituality not looking a certain way. there’s really no such thing as right and wrong. following out intuition and living authenticity in everything we do is the truest form of being a spiritual being. we aren’t here to all be the same or be “perfect”, we’re here to experience
Going thru a transitional period of my life too Lynnette! It feels weird but good but shameful cause like “how dare you xyz while xyz”. But it’s life yk. And I love that you’re open w these things cause it helps others to switch their perspectives as well
I’ve been in the same boat where I find myself becoming so compulsive with trying to live within the constraints of a label that I forget to just live and be. It ends up becoming more of a chore than it is therapeutic. Kudos to you for going out and enjoying yourself post-breakup, it was probably the therapy you didn’t even know you needed.
I totally connect with that! spirituality held me back by thinking it had to be a certain way and started making me feel bad about myself, this is the first time ive heard it anywhere else thank you for sharing!
i just got out of my 3 year relationship too and i’m in the phase of unlearning things about myself and the world that were “taught” to me. i get to recreate my world and it’s honestly so lovely
Just got out of a 3 year relationship in July. A lot of healing, growth, and personal development has taken place since then. I want to work on myself as much as possible in this last quarter of 2022.
yess! i think that the whole lesson of spirituality is to ultimately show you that you came here to fully explore the human experience, AS a human. not constantly trying to escape it & get back to whatever you consider”heaven”
I 100% agree with you on being happy or content (at least) throughout your spiritual growth. Being sad, mad, or depressed, or even being alone, is not always the way to go.
im only about 4 mins in, but you talking about how spirituality does not look the same for everyone is such a valid point. this is something that I have been thinking about heavily and im so glad to hear someone else talking about it. I dont believe there is one way to be spiritual. we are all on different journey's and carving different paths for ourselves.
5:16 yes I've seen the isolation topic a lot w spiritual videos. It can be dangerous bc that's how cults like natureboy take over, making ppl feel like they belong since they've felt so alone. We're all living this life & are a lot more alike than we are different. We don't have to heal alone.
I feel like we all went through this spiritual journey together where we were discovering spirituality for the first time in a non-religious sense and getting to know ourselves and healing and now we're all transitioning back into the human experience and embracing our egos and not always trying to transcend our consciousness (balance)
I LOVE how chit chatty this was Lynette! Girl I’m on the same boat as you, my break up happened early July of almost 5 years! Healing is all we can do but you’re such an inspiration. I’m glad I’m not the only one dealing with something like this 😊
I honestly think there is not a lot of talk about the spiritual journey on the other side of depression and sadness is because a lot of us are going through it at the same time 🤣 I feel like after two years I’m finally enjoying life again which was hard to see in the beginning.
I feel that we are all going through that transitonal period. Where we're separating from a old paradigm and shifting into our new paradigm. Also with spirituality it's about balancing your good and bad sides you know. We understadn the flow of life now realizing that those high highs also come with low lows, the difference now is that we can transmute that energy into a higher vibration. I would love to have a deeper conversation wth you feel with coud give each other perspective .. amzing content by the way
Screw guilt! Go out while you can tolerate and enjoy it, because in your 30s you stop wanting to be around 20somethings after 10pm. OR life happens and other responsibilities restrict your freedom to do so as often, life really changes.
Glad your finding your freedom within your spiritual journey. Because that’s exactly what it should be free. Love on yourself, honor yourself, learn and unlearn. It’s all beautiful
I could tell something was wrong, it’s great to hear you say how you’ve been feeling because It’s also important to learn how to open your arms and receive the happiness and joy that you deserve. I also feel the same way with spirituality sometimes. But you deserve it all, and I’m happy to hear you learning to see the world with your own set of eyes as well ❤️
You are speakingg to me omg! I also agree that there was a pretty dark cloud put over spiritually & I believe it’s because as we begin looking deeper into ourselves, we might get too fixated on those unfavorable qualities we notice feeding into those shameful thoughts/feelings you mentioned can arise. We as a collective need to learn and practice giving just as much love, compassion & understanding to our weaknesses as we do our strengths
This raw and wholesome. healing is truly a journey and the path can be challenging but also heavily rewarding. I applaud how vulnerable and wise you are. such a light ✨✨✨
Yessss! Tbh the most freeing perspective I’ve gained is that EVERYTHING is spiritual! Not only when we’re doing these rituals, journaling and meditating in the house right? Dancing, getting lit, playing in your ego & indulging a bit is all part of this life journey and the human experience! I also just put up a video about not feeling pressured to look & do things a certain way because you see all the “spiritual” community doing it. We’re aligned lol At our core, we are pure consciousness and being - when we realize that we are able to detach ourselves from all these external factors and simply allow ourselves to flow in the present moment and play in this life however we see fit.
Exactly spirituality also push you to do a lot of things to be spiritual, to be this and that and we are already spiritual, we are already enough without all the extra stuff, the doing. Is our essence
This was SO real! That full moon came in heavy this time around and as a Cancer I felt it. It's okay to give yourself grace during your transitional period. You'll come out of it so much stronger and better. ✨️
this is exactly what I needed to hear, I’ve been going through the exact same transition period and you being able to put the feeling into words is so helpful!
It’s crazy how much I relate to u in so many ways 😭 I totally feel how u start to pick up on your s.o views in life and it can cloud your views and cause u to suppress your own feelings and latch onto theirs. In some ways it’s positive but when u start to lose yourself it gets so mentally/emotionally draining.
girl I did not know you were part of the 420 friendly gang. why did that literally make me luv you more? I've been following you for about a year now. loved you before I knew you 🌬 but I luv you even more now. I always thought I had to quit but its about managing and prioritizing. I can't thank you enough for all the motivation and inspiration I got from you. You are literally a gem. I hope you know that.
I think she's just beginning to be more open about speaking about it. She got me used to saying plant medicine bc I call it being in the matrix & it sounds weird to use in public lol ..but I love me natural plant medicine! Cannabis & shrooms 🥰
It is medicine babe it was medicine for the indigenous people who used it originally. Just try to purchase some high quality cannabis where you know they care about your health and well being and have high quality plants
with spirituality u need to honor yourself totally. So its okay to go have fun, drink or do whatever. I had 2 drinks tonight so I`m livin on the edge. lol Its not about always meditating, being in silence or in nature or thinking u need to live like a monk with a robe and bowl as your only possessions . If you want to experience luxury go for it or anything material. Honor your hearts desires . Just do things that align with positive karma. your intent and energy behind what u do comes back in like kind, so everything in moderation but if u go over sometimes that`s okay too. Just learn your limits. part of why we`re here is to know ourselves better and experience our desires and self in new ways. even the creator I think looks to experience himself in new ways.
Exactly what I needed to hear. Discovered your channel some times ago and really enjoy hearing about your journey. Really motivating. Thanks for sharing your truth.
I am loving these vlogs. Same reason I love them is why I haven’t started….I wasn’t sure if people cared about spiritually, mental health, curly hair, life, etc….& this is perfect! Everything, including spirituality can be so edited now, it feels…..disconnecting to a certain extent. I’m excited to see what direction you take this new chapter in your life, some moments will have tears, some laughter, some both, however you’ve learned so much and are becoming so self aware, you’ll be able to enjoy and learn in those moments effortlessly. Keep sharing this style and everything your heart desires, niches are great, this authenticity and intimacy you’re able to convey with this style is even better, in my humble opinion. Beautiful gwarl, keep shining, keep growing. Blanca ✨🤙🏽
I loved this talk... I've been feeling the exact same way. I have so much shame for not completely healing from my breakup from a couple months back too. I just have been enjoying going out and I find myself feeling bad for "escaping" but sometimes you're allowed to just have fun. Its summer. Enjoy life!
It’s been interesting to watch you go through a literal spiritual awakening like with us in witness. Yes it’s not easy to be finally be woken up and see the truth, which is usually negative but that doesn’t mean that spirituality has to be lonely, dark and depressing. I’m sure most of us are or have gone through that period of just being sucked in the negative which we also have seen you go through too. Being woke can also mean being happy and enjoying life and allowing things to work out for you. Life doesn’t always have to be about hardships unless that is what we focus on. You have created an amazing community even from the views and comments we have seen that we are just not going through it on our own. I’m excited to see more happy content and see you be even more successful in your life girl.
u are literally a role model i just love that you share your journey you make people feel less alone and it just shows that we are all connected, also its crazy i am in the same situation right now going trough a break up also thinking about if having fun is distracting not “healing” or if it truly is good and a sign of slowly moving on 🥰🤔 and also spirituality doesn’t have a look every journey is valid and beautiful
I've never been depressed about my spirituality. For a time I choose not to use my gifts though. I build my life around my spirituality it's what gives me purpose. I don't think of myself as better than anyone just different.
Yeah it's def a phase I recommend skipping, I think even tho ppl don't mean to they often subconsiously put themselves on a pedestal once they start getting into spirituality
Lynette I just wanted to say thank you for your rants ❤️is so relative to the collective because 10/10 you drop a lot of gems or validate our thoughts and feelings even if we are hard on ourselves.
I like how you said you changed your mind. I think we tend to hold ourselves to something once we say it, but we change and that’s good. It’s okay to change our minds 🙂
Girl you need to loosen up. You’re to young and beautiful to be like that. It’s depressing me and that’s why I try to protect my energy. Start doing hobbies and being social because being isolated isn’t healthy. Being “woke” or “spiritual” should not be an identity or anything. Being honest here, have a drink and loosen up, it’s okay to have fun in this life we have. You cannot escape being human at all we’re in the circle of life. This generation needs to realize there’s much more than acting so restricted like this. It’s crazy how I see so much sadness or depression sometimes from young people. I cannot help but to say this. All that extreme spiritual stuff promotes a lot of narcissists, escapism, and god like complex. You cannot control life because we’re not god. Overthinking and making things super difficult is really damaging to your mental health. I’m aware of the world but I’m not cut off from living life or being in a dark mentality all the time. I want to be happy and just live without all this conviction. Spiritual awakening shouldn’t be like a religion as well. Worrying about conspiracies or such that’s a toxic way to live. It’s not our right to figure out why we here, it’s to embrace your human and live your life the best you could. We got that power to make the life we want not have labels or be under extreme restrictions.
Love your vlogs queen. Feeling positive after a break up ain’t a bad thing, it just means it was right for the both of you❤️ sending you guys love. Thank you for sharing 🫶🏽🙏☀️
5:17 this is so true!! i've been on this spiritual journey for a bit over 2 years now and for so long i thought that i had to be healing every moment and doing shadow work in every decision i made, but that is absolutely not the case (it's something called the healing trap and Activation Vibration made a really helpful video on it). it really made me lose a sense of identity and i'm just so grateful that i'm at the stage now where i know that its okay for me to do things simply because i want to and it feels good. your body tells you things with how it feels and you've GOT to listen to the messages. if something doesn't feel good, you do not have to do it. nothing and nobody can force you to. trust yourself always!!
Hey Lynette, I enjoyed your vlog. It's nice to see you be human, mindful and introspective. It's also great to see you take time for healing and self reflection after a break up. So many just jump right to the next branch while still holding on to the previous branch. Anyway, keep doing what you do. It's working. Shalom, peace and namaste 🙏 P.o.p.
i absolutely LOVED your chit chat with us. everything you hit on, i’ve found myself coming to similar conclusions. it’s all been very enlightening and affirming in this journey 🧡
I really love you out this out there! Because I have been feeling the same way that spirituality is depressing me and causing low self esteem issues in my inner environment.. Healing comes in so many different forms as long as it’s healthy and balanced ofc! But I am too learning the ways of understanding to brake down that “ positive ego spirituality” mindset! Thank you
I love your content and always enjoy how open you are with your journey. Especially sharing that spirituality is always shown a certain way and as someone who also has been on my own spiritual journey, I've always felt awkward sharing my experience because it doesnt look the same way. The only thing in common is the nature aspect.
I am also learning that being a spiritual person doesn’t mean I have to severely restrict myself from certain things. I don’t comment much at all but I love love love your content. Been rocking with you for 1 years now! I’m proud of you! And thank you for the Raw cones tip because I always get congested. Have you tried mixing 🍃 with spearmint?
Just give yourself grace to learn. I notice when we're going through our twenties we have so many revelations about ourselves and life and we write it off as "this is how it is and this is how it actually should be" when in reality we're still getting to know ourselves so, what may have been IT or THE WAY a few months ago, it may change again because we grow again and learn more about this thing called life. God is HUGE and ENDLESS. So is this life, especially the spiritual one
love ur overzealousness for GOD, when i hear you convey ur life journey a light shines upon you cus GOD is present... i will continue to watch more of ur content and thank GOD for sending me your way!!! let us all come together as ONE
4:35 had me cracking up...girl u can talk with crumbs on ur face, crying & look a hot mess we'll still listen to u! Don't be embarrassed bc u look great & happy Sending u love & extra high vibrations babes 🥰💕 Ps. Just throw ur pipe in a Ziploc with some regular course salt & alcohol & let it sit for a bit & rinse it out. Easy peasy! I use cones too but primarily a pipe bc it's just healthier BUT UR PIPE SHOULD be clean lol
Thank u sooo much for what u said in the beginning about spirituality and feeling like u have to be in this box. I feel like we all needed to hear that. Sadly a lot of us go thru that, including me lol. I was like can I still be spiritual and shake my ass 😂🤪 but shaking ass won’t hurt anybody lol. Everything u said, especially about not being ignorant but still being positive was just perfect, and needed. Thanx mamasita ❤️
I am realizing I’m going through almost the same situations as you almost the same times. I just broke up with my boyfriend, I am also a very independent person, I a m spiritual also and I’m learning to operate my spirituality in public and in different areas in my life. Me and my other significant other were opposite when seeing how life operates and being thankful and kind. He never saw life as a blessing. He never recognized good when good was right in his face.
Women mentally check out of a relationship waaaaay in advanced before we take the actual leap to end it. New journey ahead of you. Spirituality is such a peacocking idea. Especially on the socials! People don’t discuss the uncomfortable and dark aspects of awakening and growth…
Loved this video! Yes those pretzels are bomb and I totally resonate with talking about your room being clean and getting dressed and it looks like a tornado struck it 😕and about being a sim 😂 I get that feeling sometimes.
Omg I swear we’re living the same life. This morning I just had a failed talking stage because I felt I couldn’t commit and I know he wanted more, but I’m so focused on me right now it’s not the right time. So staying single and not looking for anything
Life is like an elevator 🛗 on your way, up You have to let some people off. Your good sis, No more samples. "Ring" Keep getting your bag. Just keep going forward.
It’s so cool how you’re so in tune with who you are or how you feel at a time, and acknowledge & accepts change as or when it happens without hindering it 🤍
I didn't know you and your ex broke up but I kinda figured when you were playing "Eventually" on your Tiktok. Why? Because I'm going through a recent breakup and feeling the same way. Also in an interesting place in my spiritual journey. Your videos keep me motivated.
