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@shank6455 Год назад

小孩子都比我们想象的坚强送到daycare他会慢慢学会保护自己你在家也要和他说别人打他一定要打回去我女儿性格也是很弱的那种但是我们不可能总在他们身边保护孩子他们要自己学会面对和解决问题最重要的是你不希望儿子变成妈宝男

@mustbebornagain23 Год назад

The problem is you can't shield your son from everything this is the world we live in and this kind of stuff is going to happen we just need to toughen up and teach them the right way to behave because this is going to happen it happens with my daughter and her children at school and the bad thing is they love to blame her children when people make fun of her kids and be mean to them so this is the world we live in it's going to happen it happens to everyone.

@lavendertease Год назад

I feel your pain!!! I remember picking up my daughter from kindergarten. They were all playing outside and a boy pushed her twice. I was so close to climbing over the gate! I’m signing her up for karate at her request.

@celebibi4360 Год назад

I don't mean to be rude. But the reason your son is meek at this age is because he hasn't been socialised properly he's spent most of his life with you and you alone

@rileyrainbow7611 6 месяцев назад

Her son she had stated is growing up with her culture and Chinese language not every daycare speaks Chinese it not fair! That he can’t do his own manage

@Ambi1021 Год назад

You have to teach your son to defend himself. It's never ok for anyone to push/hit him.

@orangeblossom5362 Год назад

He’s a toddler. It’s a parent’s job to to teach their children to respect other kids.

@Ambi1021 Год назад

@Orange Blossom Well, of course. As a toddler, it's Yumis job to defend him (talk to the child's parents about his/her behavior). I'm talking about as he gets older, elementary, middle, high school, etc. If we lived in a perfect world, this wouldn't be an issue. Unfortunately, we don't, and some parents aren't teaching their children how to act in a social setting.

@tikusblue Год назад

@@Ambi1021 I think her son getting upset, then getting up and walking away is actually a pretty good and healthy response and she shouldn't be too worried. At that age they can't really verbally defend themselves yet. Walking away is saying "I don't like this, so I'm going"

@discardedroses Год назад

@@orangeblossom5362 exactly, so many shit parents allow their children to raise hell

@mommaddie4316 Год назад

I feel your pain of being bullied as a kid. Having a child makes us think about our childhood, which can sometimes be hurtful. Your son will be okay at a good quality daycare. Many assistants would watch the kids and teach them right from wrong.

@stephanieduchesne8747 Год назад

Yeah, there are a lot of parents who don't parent any more, which is a shame. Don't allow that to get you down though!! There are still many parents who do teach their children right from wrong. :)

@Justme_247 Год назад

I was bullied too. So ssorry that this is happening. Hopefully things will get better and he will be around nicer people.

@Gigihyrule Год назад

I completely understand your concern. Seeing your kid get bullied is terrible and even worse when the other kids parent doesn’t even bother to correct their child’s behavior or even apologize. There are some daycares that keep the kids in separate playgroups by age. There are also people that do in home daycare but you gotta be careful because some are amazing and others can be neglectful. They are supposed to have certifications to run a daycare in their home. Have you looked for any mommy play groups in your area? You can usually find them on social media like Facebook. It’s a good way to make sure your son can socialize with kids his age with active parents around. Lots of times they like to meet up at playgrounds and such.

@wanyiwei206 Год назад

Before signing up your son to a daycare, request a tour of different daycare to see the environment and get to know the teachers (how they handle incidents, do they do activities with the kids, how they handle kid’s emotional like it’s their first day, etc.). Different daycare have different philosophy, values, etc., get to know those. There are daycares like Kindercare and Merryhill School, each location have different staffing if you have those available to you. Then tour a few that is close to you. Don’t limit yourself to one daycare.

@DarkJanet Год назад

I’m sorry this happened to you. I was bullied since 8th grade. I learned to defend myself from bullies and situations.

@sockmonkeyzruleXD Год назад

hi! I watch your videos on and off, not for many years but am trying to catch up -- as someone with childcare experience, I wanted to say a few things. First off, those rude parents are the reason their kids are rude. That's terrible. And that daycare is probably understaffed and unable to give your kid proper attention. I would worry more about his interactions with kids his age (and even then, like you said, toddlers usually are best with, at best, parallel play; they will have trouble sharing and communicating) and just encourage him to speak up for himself. Teaching him how to communicate and advocate for himself will be powerful in the long run. I would probably try to keep his interactions outside of daycare to kids his age.

@lizzie7929 Год назад

Sorry about these concerns! 🥹🤍Those people seem to lack parenting! Hope better days come for you and your son!🤍

@alva--._..l-._.-l.._.-- Год назад

Well, in daycare he won't be with children with 7 or 10 years old, they'll be around the same age. That's why pre-school is so important and the sooner the better. As a teacher I recommend that he really should go. At this phase they will be able to learn how to socialize with other children as they grow, to adjust themselves to their environment and learn how to defend themselves. Going to elementary school without any contact with other children and learn how to be friends with, it's a big no. Not just it is a new step in their lives as they are introduced to studies but if they didn't learn to socialize by then, it will be much harder for them to make friends and might be avoided by other children. You can imagine how learning to socialize while being introduced to studies at the same time can be so stressful for a child and his school performance may be impared by it. This is the best moment for your son to start to learn to be around different people. It will help him getting into elementary school with much less stress and be a lot happier at school.

@bonsaibaby8257 Год назад

Why do so many teachers do nothing when a child is being singled out or bullied? I see it all the time! The kid will be bullied and the teacher just watches it happen. Also why don’t teachers intervene when they see a kid sitting alone? Especially a new kid that may be scared to make friends. The teacher could be a very good role model for children that don’t know how to include new students or to students that bully as those kids must have problems at home.

@alva--._..l-._.-l.._.-- Год назад

@@bonsaibaby8257 I honestly don't know and I also don't understand. That never happened on my watch and the other teachers I worked with were the same. The school didn't allow things like that to happen because parents would be called and the kid could face serious consequences. Of course, we had cases where children were neglected or lived in a messed up environment but we tried to turn things around for them so they could feel there was someone who cared, helped them to see the right from wrong and motivate them to do better. It's not these kids fault for they have no one to guide them on their daily lives so, of course, we tried to do the best we could. But in general all the kids were really sweet and cared about their classmates. If they saw someone from another class picking up on one of their friends they would promptly defend them and others would call an adult to assess the situation. We could also see in a classroom if a child was more fragile so, we teachers, would also ask their classmates to be attentive for their well-being during the breaks, without the child in question knowing so they wouldn't feel embarrassed or on the spotlight. Also I would ask older students who had been my students in previous years to take care of a younger student in case the child was upset due to some occurrence. They were very caring amazing children. But I'm not from the US, I'm European, so I really don't know what those type of educators have in their heads. Probably not a screening and evaluation done properly if the candidates are actually suitable for being educators, since that job is not for everyone.

@PastPresentNow Год назад

I worked at a day care and we had kids organized by age groups. And the teachers were very good about helping the kids learn to play together and process emotions. If kids were misbehaving, it was addressed and worked on with the parents. Alot of care went into helping the kids develop. It was pretty amazing. I understand being nervous, hopefully you can find childcare that makes you and your son happy.

@pamfreel8983 Год назад

Yumi, you are correct to be concerned.

@jo-annliew5426 Год назад

I'm sorry about your son but you are a good mom, you never thought your son to be like that boy, I got my experience with my old kindergarten and my mom was so pissed when they treated me like that. So my mom finds another kindergarten that has more discipline and doesn't teach children to push each other. I hope your kindergarten will teach students not to hurt each other

@rogerparker4727 Год назад

There is no excuse for bullying. Every one should respect each other's Civil Rights. Daycares and schools should be teaching this. I am sure that there are some. Try to find a Friends School. I think they have daycares too.

@analea6531 Год назад

You don’t need no reasons to decide to not send your son to daycare. Any reason is valid since parenting is a spectrum there is no specific good ways to do it. And quite frankly I’ve heard so many horrible stories about daycare that I’m here being childless but paranoid already

@tikusblue Год назад

Yes it's definitely a scary thing to send you kid who's only been with you and they're family every day, to be with strangers. Most people are good and will take good care of the kids. But there's always the risk that you end up with the wrong person watching them. Someone who's neglectful or abusive or even some kind of deranged predator.

@cjo4210 Год назад

When you get more financially stable, consider enrolling your son in Jujitsu for good self defense techniques.

@nexx1 Год назад

I was sent to preschool, and the kids were separated by age. I was bullied very badly in elementary school.😢

@MyMooCowz1 Год назад

I have family that works in daycare/childcare. Children are separated by age. It goes like 0-1, 2-4, 5-7, 7-9, and 10-12. Also, there are usually 2 to 3 people assigned to look after a group and prevent things like hitting and pushing. In the morning there are the younger children and the older children (5+) come after school. I understand being worried, but if you find a good daycare with trained professionals, he'll be okay. Sometimes they even have lessons to get kids a headstart on reading, counting, and teamwork.

@ThePomelo94 Год назад

Children can be so mean! Hope your son is doing well at daycare❤️

@bonsaibaby8257 Год назад

Valid concern. Your son will get bullied no matter where you send him to daycare or school. As you can tell by the dad that did nothing about his own child being mean. These kids that bully are unhappy and are getting bullied by other kids or at home. Best thing to do is to have him involved in a lot of group activities like sports, clubs, music, etc. The more people he is around the better he will be able to handle the bullies. I told my son if someone is bullying him to first ignore it. If they keep on then tell them to stop, if they still won’t stop tell an adult. I also told him if someone hits him to hurt him he should tell the teacher. If the bully doesn’t stop after you told them to and they hit you again to hit them back! I told him if he gets suspended for sticking up for himself then we will just go on a short vacation!😂 Ofcourse after I talk with the school about why he hit back.

@rabbitlove1785 Год назад

I would just check that the daycare separates the children by age groups. They usually do because older kids are rougher when they play and yes it is normal that they push when they get upset, but that's where the guardian is supposed to come in and intervene, a good daycare will usually be extra careful in supervising the little ones because if they get hurt on their watch they could be sued. Not every daycare is equal, and I would read reviews, ask around, and do a bit of research so you can feel confident in leaving your child in their care. It's also good to ask the daycare workers whatever questions you have regarding their protocol for injuries or emergencies, how they handle the children, what they will be doing while you're gone, and get to know the people in charge of caring for your child.

@nightshadegiggle Год назад

No one deserves to be bullied, have a talk with the people in charge of the daycare

@70n24 Год назад

Kids are mean to kids smaller than them, it's the best if you can stay near him every time, not like by his side 24/7 just near and let him know whatever happens you're right there, this will build his confidence and even if things go bad with other kids he'll be ok afterwards.

@glowithchrici6053 Год назад

👍🏾

@claudiathesleeper1465 Год назад

Hi Yumi , I’m a kindergarten teacher. Don’t worry too much, just because your son was pushed a few times doesn’t mean that he’s going to be bullied at school. It’s a part of growing up experience, I witness it at work every day. As teachers we always implement kid appropriate consequences and always make the kid say “sorry”, however not all environments are that way. You have to understand that some children grow up without any rules at school. The best you can do is to teach your son to stand up for himself, and to not engage in physical fights. As I said, don’t worry too much, just let the day care center know that you’re worried about him being picked on and they will monitor the situation. But honestly, try to keep him around same age group and you’ll see that he’ll make plenty of friends 😊

@claudiathesleeper1465 Год назад

As I’m writing this I’m actually at work in the kindergarten. I just wanted to let you know also that the best way you can improve your sons confidence is to have him around kids of his own age, and an extra class or day care would be great. Kids at the kindergarten level don’t “bully” consciously, it’s a behavior that indicates kids anxieties and difficulties at home. Please don’t think that at the age of 2 years old your kid will be bullied. It’s not going to be the case, trust that kindergarten teachers will do their best to support him. Just find the right placement 😊 sending hugs

@reaganshields28 Год назад

❤💓💕💗💞

@mykso69 Год назад

Why are your videos so short? You could record yourself talking more than just mentioning some things. Those are interesting stories and we could all learn. Kisses!

@marianthompson2005 Год назад

Maybe when your at the daycare you can talk to the head bas about it

@MrRellic Год назад

Yeah I was bullied by the older kids in daycare, school was more reasonable in comparison

@blingeffect_ Год назад

Hi Yumi! Well your concern is valid. I think he will face it progressively everyday and you can talk to him and the teacher. It's difficult but he will talk for himself! He has an amazing strong mom who will stay with him. Usually toddlers play alone in small groups so don't panick he will be safe. A lot of daycares have a separation between ages. We adults want to prevent every sad or dangerous situation, but kids grown from experience. Be brave, you two can do it! Also I would like to listen your bullying story, I was a victim too when I was a child and sadly in my teenage.

@kattjones8021 Год назад

I have been bullied for my whole life as well, & different ppl will do it more harshly than others.... I would voice my concerns about it to teachers and other adults who have worked in the buildings but barely anything changes..... many r like the man u tried talking to, rude & nor helpful in telling kids to b nice.... More ppl need to b more concerned with hoe their kids treat others! I fear that if it keeps up, more kids will pick up the bad behavior and the future generations of the world will follow & make human beings more cruel in life... So i would make sure if he goes to headstart and such, that the teachers & staff will be watchful of other kids & ur son to be sure he's never hurt! Best of luck!

@chanisebailey2790 Год назад

yumi be careful with pre school and daycare for your son if he is the quiet type watch him and ask him a lot of questions because people out there are wicked and evil and do things to children and convince them to keep silent or manipulate them and the abuse keeps happening under your own nose be safe

@feministmermaid4769 Год назад

I'm surprised at how many kids behaved badly towards your son 😤 is too many!

@xoltacueponi Год назад

kinda fecked up that these kids are so mean probably because that's what they see/are treated at home.

@pineappletea9063 Год назад

I think babies reaction make sense, it's not like he can beat them up

@Raevyn20 Год назад

It's important to remind your son that when people are mean to him it's not about him and it's not his fault. Those kids who are being assholes are probably having issues of their own at home and they take it out on other people who can't stick up for themselves. As kids get older it's not a bad thing to teach them to stick up for themselves either. Fuck being the "bigger person" that never does the victim any favors. Getting into fights or whatever isn't necessary but neither is being a doormat. Start small by telling the teacher or whoever's on charge and go from there.