I’m Warning You | Cuffing Season Vol 2 | Part 3 | Jerry Flowers I Kings 11:1-2 What are you in love with that’s turning your heart? FATHER, OPEN MY EYES AND GIVE ME THE HUMILITY TO SEE YOUR WARNINGS AND ACT ACCORDINGLY Trust God so much that when he says no, wait, I have better, I trust Him If I don’t take heed to the wisdom and warnings of God, I won’t be in position to receive the rewarding of God and causes us to miss unnecessary pain, wounds & seasons. God doesn’t have to use pain to teach us but for some of us, that’s the only way we learn. It’s going to be hard to hear the warnings if God when you already decided what you want God to say. Wounds become potters, personality, views on church, pastors, relationships, perspective, and how you respond. Healed people respond different. Wounded response out of 1.) Depending me 2.) My insecurity 3.) Fear that you will do the exact same thing to me that they did You fear repeated pain. You cannot force yourself not to talk about it and label it as healing. I tell you that I’m good but my pillow cases catch my tears or I’m venting on social media. Walling my heart has imprisoned my emotions. Guards job is to screen and evaluate. Holy Spirit - Spiritual TSA ❤️ You can’t board the flight ✈️ of love until this has been thrown away. It’s not conducive to what I’m trying take you on. Access granted or access denied. A wall no one can get in and you can’t get out. Cell mates are your real emotions but everyone thinks you’re good because of your fake emotions. When you’re healed, you don’t have to be verbally abusive respectfully without being violent. We could be the red flag 🚩 Don’t be a walking red flag labeling everyone as a counterfeit. 1.) The wrong one have to walk out so the right one can walk in 🥺 Endings are married to send. Some things can’t be sent until some things have went. 2.) Someone not being interested in me is not a reflection of my value Marriage is not proof of God’s goodness because God by himself is internally good Good is His attribute. He’s good when life isn’t. The lack of somebody not being able to discern what you carry is not the receipt 🧾 of your value. Your discernment issue is not my identification issue. Man this is hitting tonight. Marriage does not eliminate, it illuminates. Don’t see the red flag in a blur. Or wanted it so and it wasn’t heard because already knew what wanted God to say. Proverbs 22:3 You can’t be spirit led and serial date at the same time. God isn’t giving you multiple hearts to break. God sends kingdom, not parasite. It will drain you, your hope, and compromise. You won’t be able to identify a King/Queen if you’re not following kingdom principles. The lack of kingdom principles being applied to my life is the catalyst to how I keep getting deceived by their life. When it’s kingdom, the king leads (follows), establishes (disrupts) order, and regulates (births) chaos. God will not send something that takes you further from him. When you’re used to breathing chaos, order will feel like you’re suffocating. God is not the order of confusion. Don’t be confused on who you’re with. If it’s for your life, God aligns kingdom men go to discover helpmates not rescues damsels in distress. That’s Jesus Job. 🥺 He will make sure paths cross & meet. Being a male is a state of birth, being a man is a choice. The sign 🪧 of putting away selfishness, fits of rage 😤 😡 entitlement. Wife - title. Helpmate - function. Husband - title. Leader - function. Do you really want an individual who makes sure you put God first? Myths of marriage that could be warnings 1.) Marriage does not cure lust or is it a safe house for those who are horny. The single space is so imperative to unlearn, detox, become prepared for the function. 2.) Marriage will not complete you, it exposes you, your loneliness. It doesn’t fix it. People do not fulfill your loneliness, purpose does. The cure for loneliness is not company, it’s calling. 3.) We love each other, that’s all that matters. You can love the wrong one. What makes thing works is purpose, calling, destiny. Have more in common beside the bedroom, laughing, recreational activities, and history. 4.) Difficulty does not mean divorce. Marriage will still be hard. Dying to your self is a beast. A covenant is die to self, give God a glory. Multiple breakups classically conditions your heart to quit. 5.) Marriage is not a confirmation that you have value. Marriage is for the glory of God, live for Christ, serve one another sacrificially. 6.) We just click. You can click with a demon, a counterfeit. 7.) Marriage is not for everybody. Just because you don’t desire marriage or to be with somebody, don’t allow culture to make you believe you’re gay or like the same sex. I Kings 11:4-8 God will allow you to have free will but he will also give indicators, warnings, and signs 🪧 1.) He will give you an unsettling. When God sends a moment of unsettling, it never stops. God’s way of warning this is not me. 2.) God warns through repetition 3.) God warns in dreams. Pray on these if this is God warning you to do something. 4.) God gives warnings in vessels. 5.) God gives you a warning by a close call. This life you’re living is dangerous terrain. Make the next exit, and uturn the lane of repentance. 6.) God gives warnings through third party observations. Look at how her life came because she settled or he didn’t listen. This is tugging at me. Jesus 🥺
Lool , for real. Some sermons he's preached, I've almost tuned off , or I've looked at him funny only to hear him say "why you looking at me like that?" 😂😅 Holy Spirit knows what we need to hear vs what we want to hear
Ohhhh lawddd!!! Not the damsel in distress 😫 God I don’t mean to be crazy 🤦🏽♀️ real talk, this ain’t nothing but confirmation…I need to accept responsibility in the part that I played in that marriage and that situationship. Lord thank you for your discipline, your removal, and renewal. I repent. I humbly submit myself to you. Continue to heal my open wounds. Amen.
COME ON HOLY SPIRIT. KEEP THROUGH YOUR HUMBLE VESSEL, SERVANT, TEACHER, PASTOR, HUSBAND AND MAN OF GOD IN THE MIGHTY AND MATCHLESS NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN.
Ps thank you for always taking hed from the holy spirit because many churches are not doing this talking about relationships and marriages that are not from God ,thank you for the encouragement for me to do better
Great word Pastor Flowers. I definitely receive it. Relevant and one time word for my life and I'm on a journey of becoming better and making better choices.
This is a powerful message. This makes me more confident in my singleness. When you're in your early 30s, its easy to question yourself and ask god why marriage hasn't happened yet. But what Jerry Flowers Jr is saying is so true. Some habe settled for marriages god hasnt ordained or where chaos prospered. We never know what goes on in a closed home. "God sends Kingdom, not parasites."
FATHER OPEN MY EYES AND GIVE ME THE HUMILITY TO SEE YOUR WARNINGS AND ACT ACCORDINGLY IN THE MIGHTY AND MATCHLESS NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN. 🤍💛💙💚💜💜🩵🤎🩶🧡🩷❤💕💞💓💗💖💝
So, this is REALLY interesting. The Holy Spirit led me to share something with some individuals. Then, right after I came out of that teaching, I noticed that HE had this other young lady teaching on this subject matter. Then HE brought this message to my attention and was urging me to listen to it. Thank you, LORD JESUS FOR THIS MESSAGE, WORD, AND BIBLE STUDY IN THE MIGHTY AND MATCHLESS OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.
For real! I love his messages. He's someone I listen to in addition to my pastor here in Canada. I enjoy his delivery of the word. He's very serious about giving the word too. He wants people set free in Jesus' name. You can tell by the way he preaches, and his transparency.
FATHER OPEN MY EYES, AND GIVE THE HUMILITY, TO SEE THE WARNING, AND ACT ACCORDINGLY. I really want and only want a godly relationship 🥰🙏🏾🥰 a Kingdom Man but aint in no rush.
I'M READY!!! I AM WARNING YOU!!! FATHER OPEN MY EYES AND GIVE ME THE HUMILITY TO SEE YOUR WARNINGS AND ACT ACCORDINGLY!!!! Unnecessary pain.. .. yep, thank you Jesus!!! Thank you so much for being God's vessel.
@@irishbenton9194 girl I'm glad u did. I wasted to many yrs trying to avoid those flags n more just kept coming out. May God continue to reveal them to you and give you the strength to stay away from anyone who isn't sent by him.
5:05 You said my name and I stopped in my tracks!! This word was already speaking to me but wow!! Yes!! I am interested in the wrong men, Lord You go before me!! 🙏
This message hit home. So grateful to my Abba Father for his "no!" ***God will not send someone who takes you further from him*** I can't even imagine how much more horrible life would have been had I stayed! And it was awful enough! Thank you, Lord!!! ***I trust you, even if it costs me what I really want***
Father, open my eyes and give me the humility to see your warnings and act accordingly FATHER, OPEN MY EYES AND GIVE ME THE HUMILITY TO SEE YOUR WARNINGS AND ACT ACCORDINGLY.
I SAID IF WE JUST WAIT HE WILL SHOW YOU ALLL!! BOO BEE TRAPS !!! SO YOU CAN GO THROUGH EASY AND THE TREASURE GOD HAS IN STORE FOR YOU!!!! AMEN!!! 😁😊🤗🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
The part about the God's wisdom and warning will cause us to miss unnecessary seasons. Made me wish last month I didn't allow myself to really think i could date my co worker. Like I went through a whole unnecessary season just because I decided that me and him could start something all because I liked him alot. He's not even saved and I knew that but I still wanted. After he ghosted me I was disappointed and hurt I wont lie but I guess I shouldve been asked God for discernment or shoot just tell him I'm not interested. I allowed loneliness to get the best of me. Thank God I'm no longer mad about it. This message really showed me alot about myself!
Y'all uncle Jerry done came for the throat in this message i had to make sure I had a neck after this one 😂😂 Wooo thank you Holy Spirit for speaking through Mr.Flowers. God bless you.
SUCH AN AWESOME AND HOLY SPIRIT FILLED WORD PASTOR!!! IT WAS WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR AND ALSO A CONFIRMATION IN A LOT OF AREAS IN MY LIFE!!!!! I KNOW THAT THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS A PROBLEM LESS LIFE BUT THERE IS A LIFE WITH LESS PROBLEMS!!!! SO THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN PASTOR FOR OPENING MY SPIRITUAL EYES AND HELPING WITH DISCERNMENT!!!! I PRAY GOD CONTINUES TO USE YOU TO REACH OUT TO THOSE WHO ARE LOST AND BLESS YOU MORE THAN YOUR HEART DESIRES IN JESUS NAME!!!!!!!