Eric has a point, the tone he's using makes it sound toxic, the thing is, there must be a leader in the house, there must be someone who is leading, and showing people the way. Most times it's men, because we normally marry people who are younger than us, people who want to feel secured with you, and people who feel they are comfortable being your support system. Otherwise, you will be in a marriage where people are in "competition."
See you have to lead you old parents and kids there is no need of leading your they are well functioning adult , and if your spouse is not able to lead their self it's your fault that you married someone like that. Marry someone who can take charge of their self
Ukinifungia hivo I just leave and it's good Eric amesema before he dates he gives you an option you either abide or leave...in this case I leave .... suffocation in marriage only leads to depression and unhappy marriages mimi si Kuku ata kuku huwachiliwa jameni .
I think Amerix is right.. women, deep down themselves, know that they need someone to protect and provide for them.. they need an authoritative figure whom they can look up to in their lives.. that's why in most cases, women tend to fall for men who share some traits with their fathers.. from my personal experience, I once found a message from my wife's phone and got mad.. she had to explain and write a message to the guy who I suspected was hitting on her to tell him to stop.. I thought that she would be mad that I was being insecure and not treating her like an adult but alas,,, she was happy to know that I wouldn't want to loose her... So even women who purport to be independent have a man somewhere or wish to find a man who will be above her
If you agree with Amerix on what a man should be like you're more of a baby.. Don't listen to another man telling you what to do. Just be you. I agree with Ras
Wallahi she is your child because you are providing for her I even thought that before Amerix Said It have But It's Either You Change Or Your Perish If you don't want my Kingdom You Can Go✔️
That rasta dude must be have been brought up by a single mum. 🤪😳 The point of my dude with glasses is about leadership in a marriage situation. His argument just flew past rasta man over here. 🙄
The lady was also raped at the age of 15 and faced domestic violence. Just because you cannot stand their point of view so you call them names or put a label on them.
The dreadhead has an opinion and sounds logical but universe is not logical. We were built different. Anita will find a real man and she will submit follow all the rules like a chicken follow and chalk line
Living according to your spouse's rules means sacrificing your dreams and career , hobbies and skills and one will never be able to speak their mind . Always living in fear so much that one day one will start fearing even their own shadow.
@@pratikshatiwari7011 but whenever there is a group of people or more than one person politic life has to come to play, the question is who is the leader?And the leader as to set or work with some rules. But nyote mkijifanya mnajua hakuna mahali wanaenda
@@kingyuaking your spouse is not group of people. Its just one person . And you and your spouse can lead the together the group of people ( kids , parents , challenges etc)
Eric seems like a narcissist and he encourages men to be the same.... In short this was wrong.. Anita is also a feminist the rasta guy has a point.. Live your life. How does you even start listing to lectures on how to run your marriage..
@@chapatimistress6589Both of you are women, you cannot understand the language of men, you will always side with the feminine man but your marriage will never work with a feminine man.
Dating and marrying right makes marriage stress free. If sth doesn't sit right with you, leave before getting into it. To me, marriage is about companionship and friendship, not what Amerix is saying
Huyo jama wa specs, ame tolewa wapi? Siku ata pata mtoi dem, ata nyamaza kimya. Kila mtu yuko na kwao. Two people come together and create their new culture. Budah!
This rasta guy is embarrassing what masculinity really means...... In a marriage u ain't equal and if it was nature would provide a room for sharing pregnancy carrying burden Try and understand your place and leadership will easily follow Eric is right
Someone please give this man the psychological help he so desperately needs to resolve his past trauma - before he inflicts real pain on someone. A dangerous, ill fella
