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I can relate my late dad was discharged from the military in mysterious circumstances and really suffered but he still remains my hero he fought PTSD without any treatment, turned his life around, started a business from scratch and even went ahead to become a church elder. God also heals he died of an accident but he was a changed man. I honor all soldiers and know what PTSD does

KDF Should start a serious counselling hospital... To take care of our soldiers. It's wrong again to discharge soldiers who are suffering from PTSD. take care of our people 😡

Maj kiharangwa wherever you are thank you, you chased me away back in 2010 pale lanet thanks a lot I was very bitter with you but life had a very different thing for me . Wenye mko service Mungu awe nanyi

I know this guy.He was one class ahead of me in high school.He was very bright.Kudos to our soldiers.

This guy is a hero and he will be back on track

My friend Omar Komora, who was a navy officer, immediately after leaving Somalia suffered PTSD in silencer, in a span of 90 days he run mad and until today, he is still a mad man kuokota na kubeba vitu vyake kwa gunia and roaming the streets in Utange Kiembeni area in Mombasa . Our soldiers are suffering.

You can tell someone who has been through the absolute pits, just by their demeanor, their eyes, the non verbal cues, buana, this man has seen some shit. Bless the likes of Major Wairimu, and may John get a sense of normalcy and fruitful rest of his life, thank you for your service.

Thank you Dr King'ori for bringing this issue to light. Our heroes are suffering and there is no one else addressing the issues. Majority of the soldiers will tell you they are trained to fight the enemy, bury the dead but nothing to do with integration back to the society after wars. i just wish there can be a special psychiatric hospital for our men who serve this country with zeal and zest.

We love our soldiers and officers. Let's find ways to support them as society.

2Lt Njoroge, a sharp, selfless, humble and determined officer. 27/1/017 changed everything, we'll live to remember. You are a true hero. salute🎖️

This story is giving me goosebumps manh. Like kwani what kind of a country are we living in bana

Dr Kingori am a neighbour of Mr John Njoroge and currently ( I saw him today 20th Feb) ako ushago very desperate kindly if you can organise help akue psychologically helped.

Kenya should acknowledge their military veterans

This guy is from my place back at home and I tell you he was ruthless as he says 😪

I Know understand why my friend anangojaga tu salary anakunywa yote then waits for another endmonth

@dr kingori let us have his number tumchangie for better health care .. Tunaeza msaidia apate best psychological care, Huyu ndio REAL HEROE

Ee Mungu nguvu yetu Ilete baraka kwetu Haki iwe ngao na mlinzi Natukae na udugu Amani na uhuru Raha tupate na ustawi. Amkeni ndugu zetu Tufanye sote bidii Nasi tujitoe kwa nguvu Nchi yetu ya Kenya Tunayoipenda Tuwe tayari kuilinda Natujenge taifa letu Eeh, ndio wajibu wetu Kenya istahili heshima Tuungane mikono Pamoja kazini Kila siku tuwe na shukrani May we all pray for our children guarding our freedoms. May they find peace. May we all gather the courage to hold our gvt accountable and demand clean and progressive politics from them.

What people forget is that human beings are still animals and only God has the power of separating the two

My brother in law is very ruthless with everything and everyone ,he is a soldier too. May be or just may be he is suffering too.

Dr kingori thanks for show after our Kdf officer and veterans and i just want to say i can attest to everything to they are sharing coz i was raised by a kdf father who is retired right now and i can tell we have been to hell and back especially my mom she has been through alot. And the government should do something about veterans coz it's sad seeing someone you love suffer yet even the pension fund yenye wanapewa is useless

Nice work Dr. Kingori and crew. Sharing these experiences is important. Makes us humanize the KDF and appreciate the fact that we live in peace

My heart goes out for our soldiers ,this sad just listening to this specified in trauma as therapist would like to real work with them,let's have compassion and offer compulsory counselling and mental assessment to our service men.They deserve normal lives and be happy as they serve the country.

I also know of three KDF officers who have done three tours of Somalia and they are still serving the nation... Pole kwa huyu ndugu yetu na wengineo kwa yale wamepitia

What kind of country are we living in? This is a big shame to the KDF. I never knew things were this bad.

Maximum respects to our men in uniform .Maximum respects for always being on the frontline for our sake...defending our country....

Thank you for bringing this conversation. Growing up I remember my father who was in the military had anger management issues and we could never understand why. He was very harsh and it became worse as years went on. An year before his retirement his marriage of 30 years with my mum ended . Now we understand all his issues was ptsd. We all need to be sensitive about this

I just hope this conversation won't stop until it reaches the highest office in the Kenya. I pray for John and all retired soldier's not to give up and keep pressing on in his journey to recovery. Kudos to Major wairimu for being there for them.

A great deservice to these warriors by the government for not taking care of them after bravely serving the country.

God bless our kdf forces my brother was in the army and was very brutal at home and I now understand PTSD symptoms one being violent towards family members. Great show Dr kingori and let us continue educating the public and society and families on how to help the suffering veterans who gaurd our country jelously with their body mind and soul while we sleep at peace. We can form a charity organization to Help them cope with PTSD and family struggles. 📖🙋🙌🏽🛐🙏🏽🛐🛐🙋🙋

It is sad that KDF fires such kind of soldiers instead of taking care of them

I really pitty this guy, he deserves another chance. You and energetic. I can see he still not well recovered.

This is probably my best episode big up Kingori great content.

Thank you Major Mukuria for bringing this discussion to the mainstream

It's even tough being the wife .. u can't even sleep😭 it's a tough world

Can we also talk about the rate of suicide in the disciplined forces? The recent statistics are depressing.

Their is a bill set to be introduced in Parliament about veterans by Mr kimunya I hope it'll address such issues through proper ammendments because what I read on newspaper today will not be of much service to the army veterans

It's good someone just said something because I lived contemplating this issue cause I saw this people and what they went through after the mission. I thank God that it has been revealed because I thought nobody cared.

I Eagerly waited for this episode.. thank you our laughter doctor.

Afande Mwangi was my guy back in Kenyatta barracks Gilgil

I wish my dad could come and tell he's story , he served for 35 years won several wars as a troop leader just to end up in upcountry with nothing ... he's a leged who deserved to be known

Oh my God. Thank for your service Sir. I can't believe this is what veterans go through.

This is my first time to comment on a RU-vid video, and I must admit that the forces NEED a programme in place to support the integration of these service men and women, back to the society. This is like a pandemic.

People go through alot.... our society need such information... like dealing with PTSD

My love and prayers goes to you and all the officers guarding our lovely country Kenya

Thanks for this conversation now I understand why my friend doesn't talk much even am scared

This Kenya is so so corrupt, when the big kids wants a position... they don't care what happens to people is none of their business.... you are still a hero to us,may God see you through tough times.

This is so sad...... this was a school mate of mine .. am glad he is getting counselling and he is recovering... 💕

I thank God I never made it to KDF even after the numerous attempts...However I wish the officers well as they recover from PTSD.

So sad, I feel for our veterans

We always romanticize war and being in the military. But on the real, these people go through so much. Please take care of our veterans.

Therapy should be mandatory for those in the army and police force. Many people don't come out to talk about their PTSD unless they're pushed to seek therapy and it's always too late when we realise they need the help. I feel like it should just be part of the job. It would help a lot from an early stage.

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Such an interesting story More Eps to come

May the Lord heal him and help him adjust in the civilian world. The way he was dismissed is very unfair, but there is hope.

We celebrate you bro. You are our hero

This is a calling to our President something must be done and be done with immediate effect to our loveable Veterans.

Amazing job Dr King'ori

Its a crazy job. The Commander in Chief forgot this part of his job description.

I have a friend a former kdf and he is messed up. Right from somalia

Waaah this touched me ,, The gvt should do something after seeing this , these people need help

You're content is exceptional.

This is so touching man

God bless you bro for making these voices that have been silenced for long to be heard. I have been in their shoes before, though am from another service. Luckily, I have a very supportive family- especially my mom. Am still in service and the govt is trying to help members of the service with mental health in general. Where the govt is failing though, is how to prepare members of service to transform into civilian life. Very many veterans either take their lives or sometimes along with the lives of their loved ones once outside service because of how the govt fail to take care of them. The burden of their service is not proportional to the send off packages in place now- especially those that get discharged before their retirement and this hero is just an example. #ALL_GAVE_SOME_BUT_SOME_GAVE_ALL

This is a lot of information 💯, says alot about what really goes on with these resilient men

The Gvt should do something Manze. This is bad. How do you defend your country with your life and end up being just let go. Just like that. Like you did nothing. I might not be able to understand the depth but I believe things can be done to be changed. My prayers are with the Troups in he battle field and those out. My God bless our Troups and Change this Country's Gvt systems.

This is so sad to listen. In Britain most soldiers end up being homeless because they refuse or are not able to adopt to civilian life.

I really wanted the soldier's job real bad, but after seeing this... wacha nikue traffic niokote mamia huku kwa matatu

Take your time this is quite touching

It's really petty with how Kenya is understood in EAC I can't believe kama kenya this happen.sincerly government has to do something

It's time that our country puts in pace a mechanism to evaluate and monitor our service men and women mental health. Thank you for bringing this to light

Much respect to our solders

Waah.. Story like mine ..... All is OK ... Bro kudoz never give up ..let your destiny difine u ...😢😢😢😢

Oiye may God help him and make a way for him and give him peace.... Oiye I feal bad

They need support morally, spiritually and psychologically and financially because they live the things they have witnessed in war zones and affect them

Am sorry commander....may God open up your ways

This is so a scary story,and it raises so many questions,This our brothers and sisters need a lot of physiological assistance,It’s so very scary.

First, Love you dr.

Kenya is a cruel country. You take a poor but bright boy from University, give him some training and ship him to war in Somalia. When he comes back and needs the country to stand with him for what he has gone through, you dismiss him from the job.

I think this guy was a cube mate Nyandarua high school room 5 Tana in 2009...

The government should do sth about our Veterans and deal with PTSD to a certain level. Also I am so proud of our military ❤️ after watching this. Yaani hawa wasee ni war machines. Their career imefanya Akili idefault vita kama reality yao. Eeh!

Much love 💛

God have mercy, this is so touching and sad

Imagine experiencing war then coming back and seeing people throw away the freedom that has costed them their lives🤔

It's so heartbreaking, I lost my husband coz of this, he went through so much after Somali just like Mwangi, he is now gone forever(passed away) and maybe he could have been helped

I was waiting for this... Thanks our laughter doctor 💯

They break you down for the military but forget to make you whole after service.

The same thing happened to My dad in 2002 till now He has never recovereed from that tumor #exsoldierslifematter alot

Woooiye! Such people need help 😭😭😭😭😭 God watch over our soldiers pls

Very important point to note.."they don't know how to spend life out here",they need counselling ....

Kali sana

My good friend and classmate whom we used to compete in school is still undergoing the same. I feel for them.

And when words mean nothing😢.......u can always tell it by the looks. ......... This man has seen real darkness. ........ He knows things we don't 😢 salute to all Veterans 🙏

Much love from LAMU-MPEKETONI.

I have listened to Rtd Major Mukuria a lot, she has a good intention but a wrong approach. In all her interviews instead of telling us how to overcome stress. She parades ex KDF soldiers who had bad time in the military. We civilians also face mental health issues. We need her to tell us how to overcome stress rather than telling us what she used to do in the military

Hapo Kwa Nyeri kuna stories within the story

Hey, classmate. I remember you vividly, Nyandarua High School.

That camp at Kipini saved the Senior Principal Magistrate Garsen this year, if it were not for them, they would have died.

I now understand why some of our parents are reluctant for their sons and daughters kuenda jeshi

Through their painful stories, these brave men are helping many tormented souls.

Men i feel you bro … serving ain’t easy go through the same shit in army