Hey man, I’ve never commented before but I just wanted to let you know that you gave me the confidence to go and get a hair system. You’re confidence and advice has been invaluable to me. Thank you for everything you do
Thanks for your transparency. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you navigate through this new unexpected journey. I’m new to this channel. I started losing my hair at 16, and I loved my hair. By my senior year it was almost gone. I’ve never known what it’s like to have hair as an adult so I’ve learned to adapt and like myself as I am. It still doesn’t stop me from wondering, what would it be like to have hair? What would I look like? Your channel has been really interesting for me take in an absorb. Thanks for putting it out there and being real.
I'm very familiar with Ayahuasca. I've taken the journey several times. Changed my life. And sounds like the connection may have triggered what's referred to as the "Dark Night of the Soul". Look into it. I've been through the dark night. It's not pleasant. The universe will remove every single thing you were once attached to. It will strip you down and have you feeling like you want to end your life. I almost did. Youll feel like its over. It's teaching you to let go of attachment to people and things.. connect to your true self, and when these doors close, new ones will open. It's a rough journey my friend. For what it's worth. I've watched many of your videos, and I have an appointment in a few days to get fitted for a hair system. After 20 years of shaving my head and wearing hats, I decided to try something new. And without your channel, I'm not sure I would be taking this step. So thank you for that. ✌️
Big love Jake. Great to see you back and being so honest. I’m 11 months out of a 10 year relationship and marriage. It. Is. Hard. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. But it gets better man.
It is really tough. My ex gf of 3 years cheated on me when I was studying abroad. At least she had the guts to tell me, but it was devasting. I should have seen it coming as asked if I would up for an open relationship and I said no.
That female heartbreak is the hardest thing. I've been through it my whole life. Stay strong and thanks for being a true, caring, honest and open individual. You are helping more people than you know. Your great man stay with your path!
Great to see you back here man! Missed you! I´m not wearing systems anymore, but stil like to see ur videos...because it's much more then talking about hair. Stay strong, keep the faith. A big hug too you bro...
To be honest man the girlfriend thing was obvious from when you disappeared. We've all been there, you're still feeling it, maybe for another year, but you'll grow to be better out of it. My ex did the same, she unexpectedly left me immediately for another man and blocked me on every form of media and contact. It almost killed me but I got better. If you're feeling this good after 2.5 months then thats really good progress actually. When you're ready, you'll absolutely kill it at dating, and we'll get a whole new series of videos about how hair systems benefit dating, so i'm looking forward to that.
@@zacw812 Well in my own experience my success is much better with a system. And they don't ever notice it, but sometimes I tell them. Sometimes i even tell them on the first date, they really dont care anymore than you care that a girl has fake eyelashes. If its hot its fine.
Focus man on all the good your channel has done to improve others life, I'm 62 and through watching and learning from you I got a system and it gave me back so much confidence thanks to you. True love will find you, go with your gut and it will all fall into place. Thanks for sharing.
This video spoke so deeply to me. I'm going through a breakup with someone that I thought I was going to spend my life with. Now that it's over I'm trying to figure out how to rebuild myself. I want to become the man I always pictured in my head. I want to learn to have confidence and to have self-love. I want to believe that I deserve to be loved. Life has always been full of doubt put in my head by me, I'm ready to change that.
Sorry man, I know it hurts really bad. The only thing that will help your grief, is time, however, believe it or not, it wasn't meant to be, in time you will meet someone who is the right one just for you. Hang in there it will get better.
It’s so great to see you back Jake!! I hope you’re doing better. You inspired me to get my hair system and I have never been happier. Thank you so much for all you do.
I really can understand you. when my ex left was the worst feeling I ever experienced and kept going on for about 6 month before I started feeling better and taking care again of my self. after a year I was like reborn. I can understand that someone was that important to you and how much you loved them but no one is special even if you convinced of that (I was the one who kept saying it over and over, that I will never find someone else), but trust me, after passing the depressive phase you'll be seen her as a normal person who helped you ofc and who've spent a lot of time with you. I know that you'd say that I don't understand you and that your situation is different but it's not. do videos if you think could help you, do sport if you think can makes you better but please don't forget your self just because you're thinking to an other girl. you're a handsome guys, with a beautiful personality, with a great body, with a beautiful face and blue eyes, if you want you could have every girl in the planet. people would pay million's just to be you. so let it hurt you and cry about it, and let it pass away. soon you'll be with other girls, enjoying life and focusing on your goals. don't lose your self mate, keep in mind who you are, don't let the sadness controls your life and decide what you can or cannot do. let feelings hurt you and as soon as you're good, go smash other girls, life is short and our pipi will not work forever
Welcome back man! Was wondering what happened. I thought it was my feed. Hope you doing well man. As well, thank you for sharing this. I been sort of there & it had to do with my hair situation. Was badly bullied for to the point I left my job. I’m looking for a location in Central Fl/ Orlando to get a unit because of you. You are awesome man and got me the spark I needed. I wish you the best in this battle you facing. We all appreciate what you do.
Dude I feel you. Exactly one month ago I lost my job where I worked for 6,5 years. It was so unexpected, we only found out we are going out of business 3 days before shutting whole thing down. I felt so lost and completely devastated only to realize now it's all for better. 6,5 years it's a lot, and to be quite frankly I wasn't happy there. It's the push that I needed. Maybe it's the same with you, maybe all those changes in your life is just a different pattern you were meant to take. Life goes on, and that's what makes our life interesting. After watching your videos you were the one pushed me to get a hair system and Im like 100% happier with it, so I wish you all the best. We, your subscribers are humans too and we understand what you're going through and we are here for you just like you are for us. It's all gonna be great!
Hi Jake, I started watching your channel when I started looking in to hair systems.. and you helped me a great deal. Your channel helped me face my own hair loss, and ways in which I could embrace the new me. You are a very well put together guy and although I don't know you & I've never even left a comment on here previously felt that I needed to reach out. Take one day at a time, week by week and month by month. It is very hard once a relationship ends, believe me I know. One thing that I must encourage you to continue with is talking about feelings, and the fluffy stuff, as I really feel that we need more guys like that in the world. Nothing wrong at all with having feelings and talking about them, it's no longer like it was back in the day. Sending positive vibes
Jake, I have never commented before but have been watching you for a while. So sorry that you have been having a rough time lately especially the unexpected end of your relationship. All I can say is been there and got the t-shirt. It does get better and is not the end just a new beginning. BTW I think that you look amazing and younger than when you went away. Stay safe.
Hope things can start to get better my dude. I myself just lost my job of 7 years a few weeks ago, and have been feeling pretty bleh since. Decided to take all the advice I've gleaned from your videos and today went and got a consultation with a nearby clinic to get measured up for a hairpiece. Sick of looking in the mirror and not seeing myself as myself! Have yet to commit (hair needs to grow longer first to color match), but I have to thank you for giving me the courage to seek this out 🧡🧡✌✌
Love the spiritual side of you. I too can relate in divine timing and higher aspects of Self. You are growing despite how much turmoil you feel. In the end, you’re just going to grow and grow. Asè brother. Focus on Loving You above all else. I remember coming off of an 8 year relationship and even months afterward I was a wreck. I still am hurt and perhaps it has changed how i view about the world. It’s tough man. I completely empathize with you. Aka I’m sure you’ve read Way of The Superior Man. Whatever you said resonated.
I'm so happy to see you back!! I'm really sorry for all the rough things you're going through. You're going to get out of all of this being a very strong man.
Hey Jake, firstly.. don’t apologise for being human, we all go through tough times in life and unfortunately this was yours. That doesn’t mean that you haven’t been there. We still had your content & you had every intention of coming back. Secondly, I appreciate you so much. Especially showing the true man behind the camera. You have created a FAMILY here. YOU done that! You have our love and support, always. Think of the number of people who you have supported through your content without even being aware of it. All of us, watching you are already becoming better men. ♥️
You are inspiration person Jake. Go your way and live your life. I wish you the best health and much power for the next time! Good Regards from Germany.
You don’t sound crazy, you sound like Aubrey Marcus (not a bad thing). That’s really rough bro, a ton for any person to handle and I’m sorry you’re having to deal with it. The timing of it all can’t be coincidental so you have to believe it’s all happening for a reason and gain everything you can from it (easier said than done I know) I know you’re hurting and I’ve been there so I do not want to be disrespectful but I am curious if you know or think that your breakup has anything to do with hair systems?
Man, I don't think you realise how much of a positive impact you have been on us guys, you've opened the door for us guys to walk through and be proud, not embarrassed about having a hair system, no one bats an eye lid when a woman has any cosmetic enhancements. Good on you for leading the way. You'll meet someone who deserves you. Focus on you and the rest will follow. Respect.
"One thing i've leaned in the past eight months is that life is too f short to do anything besides give your best and show up exactly who you want to be in this world". Yeah man that's the spirit !!! There are so many people who love your channel and you especially as a human being. And i'm sure that making other videos, other than hair systems, will also be received in a positive way! Love you man
So I found you while researching the possibility of using a hair system. I enjoyed your tips and positive thoughts and it's contributed to my decision to move forward. I found a salon who has ordered a custom system to start at a reasonable cost and I'm currently waiting for it to come in so she can cut it in and fit me with it. I ultimately want to do more of a DIY thing as much as I can but wanted to get started on the right foot. That said the last couple of videos have really touched me. Being totally up front I'm a gay male and you being attractive didn't hurt your cause when I was watching/listening/reading your hair system tips! 😂 But I want you to know this is 100% genuinely me saying I like the person you're presenting right now. I have many straight male friends that I have a close relationship with so please know I'm not some letch here. LOL. I feel what you've been through and I am sorry that life takes us down these paths sometimes but I believe with all that I am they are just opportunities to learn and grow. From what I can tell, maybe it's pushing you passed a place you were comfortable and into the space you want to be in. I love your cause and your purpose and if you can be this open and vulnerable I truly believe you can help other men work through their emotions and work on themselves to be better. It's not easy for a man to do, even a gay man. Keep pursuing this path you're on. I think it's the right one for you. Oh, and please don't forget about us guys diving in the hair systems! 😂 But I get it, if this is your calling then go for it. I hit subscribe and I'm going to do something I don't do, I'm hitting notifications too. I want to continue to follow you. Thank you. Hugs to you my friend, I wish you a much happier tomorrow.
Thanks for sharing your perspective. As someone who walks with God, I agree that nothing is by coincidence or happenstance. Really appreciate your being open, honest, and forthright. Months-long watcher, subscribed today. Peace!
Thank you for sharing your pain and hardships with us. Take all the time you need to grieve and heal and we'll be here for you when you're ready...after all, you've provided us with invaluable advice, hope and inspiration all this time.
Hey Jake! I think I'm commenting for the first time even though I've been watching you for a while but I just wanted to say that while I don't know you personally, obviously.. I truly believe that you're a genuinely good person judging by what you say and preach and I have tons of respect for what you're doing. You're also very well-spoken and intelligent, it's always such a pleasure to listen to you as I pretty much always agree with you since we have a very similar worldview. Thank you for being you. I wish you all the best in your endeavors and sending you virtual hugs man!
Jake, no need to apologize. Thank you for sharing what you’ve been going through these past couple months. Despite your trials and tribulations, you’re making the decision to persevere and leave anger behind, choosing instead to lead your life with strength and love. It still fkn hurts, I know, but with time you’ll come out of this chapter of your life with resiliency and fulfillment. You’ve built a motivational and supportive community, and the sub has been slowly growing in members and thriving. Take things one day at a time as you ease back into a routine - no rush. Keep pushing forward man. Looking forward to your content as always
well done for bringing such honesty to your channel. What you're going through is all part of the journey to being a better man. The learning and experience from our bad times are what makes us who we are. Wishing you all the best
Nothing to add, you said it all. Continue the path of healing, loving, working. You will regain, replace, renew and grow. A lot of good is ahead of you. We can do nothing without the help of God and others. When I lost everything and started to come back, I began to realize that all I had and was came from God, what I lost was of my own making. God owns everything so now I submit and depend on Him. He is my singular most important relationship. I am married for 32 years now and had my career. All has worked out and I am retired now and on to the next thing. Could not have made it without God. Thank you Jesus. He builds men.
Jake hang in there Bro relationships take a lot of work by both parties I’m sorry you had such a hard experience but I like the way you’re thinking and growing as a stronger man from your experience I’ll pray for your continued healing be safe brother 🤘😎🤘❤️
I’m glad you made it out on the other side, Jake. Those kinds of losses will never be easy, ever. But it speaks volumes of your character for you to recognize that you need to step away and focus & work on yourself while also keeping it real with your fan base. These losses do not make you any less of a man and this will only transform you into a stronger version of yourself. I fell out of a serious relationship at the beginning of this year in January and it was brutal. I started questioning my worth, I became bitter, I stopped seeing friends, and I cried a few times in the beginning. Just like you, it was hard to breathe and the air around just felt like a cage. But I had to let myself feel those emotions in order for me to grow. In May, I started feeling more like myself again and started hitting the gym and started doubling down on my passions and hobbies. Fast forward to September, I’m now dating someone who’s 100x better for me, I broke into a field I always wanted to work in, and I’m now in terrific shape. Never give up, Jake. The best medicine is time and personal milestones. Your true fans will always be here for you if you ever need to take a break
Hey Jack I've never commented on you before but I just want to tell you that I appreciate your sincerity and that I really enjoy watching your channel and yes I like to hear you talk about relationships and feelings with much as hair systems though you didn't talk me into doing that and I'm in the process of getting one right now good luck
What a fantastic video Jake! I'm wishing you the strength and perseverance. You have a right to be angry. What happened to you is no joke, but I'm really glad you chose not to hang on to it. Looking forward to the future of you and your channel!
Her loss man, you're a great man inside out don't let a past relationship bring you down, in the future you'll see that everything happens for a reason so take your time to heal and just know that you have us here if you need any help :)
Hey Jake. I respect what you do and I thank you for your efforts. I'm sorry about your breakup. You've probably heard this before and I know it's easier said than done but here it goes: Only you are responsible for your happiness and you decide to be happy or not. Shit happens and it's all part of living, learning and growing. Take care. Stay close to God. That's who helps me through all difficulties in life.
Im in kinda on same position in some parts as you was in the last couple years im so lost in my purpose on this world i was so lost about what business to open but in the last months im about to establish a solid idea and this is in the bueaty skin care etch nieche specifically hair replacement systems for begining. I hope i can make it and not think to start something else because i was in the mind MIST FOG whatever you can name it my mind was like a jungle literaly i had so low attention span and this was unproductive for me. Then i spoked with a person who told me dont overthink because overthinking making you be paralyzed and not do anything at all. Many times our brain will try to put unreasonable limitations but we have to fight it Its YOU VS YOUR OLD SELF. MUCH LOVE BROTHER
When my partner left me 3 years ago it was the hardest thing i had to dealt with. Took me 2 years to survive alone and heal from it. I finally started moving forward and dating but we now live in a different generation where relationship is not existence. Im old school and love having a partner. But if it was ment for me i came to the sense it will come. But i feel you bro
@@JakeKent Went through a similar scenario except she was my fiance who I was with for 4.5 years before she broke off with me. I feel your pain and struggle, and if you need anyone to speak to, I am also here for you.
Hello Jake, thank you for the videos. They are great and you are extremely dedicated and committed to sharing as much information and personal experience s you can regarding HS, which I appreciate. I have a question. In your videos your hair appears to have a lot of red in it, as does your beard. I am a ginger, albeit darker in the winter and more chestnut and more like yours in the summer. Is it difficult to obtain Hs for redheads? Also, I’m curly. Is your HS curled or stock? Thanks again for all your time.
I usually don’t comment in your vids but just wanted to let you know that you are an inspiration man. I have also been in dark places after a break up. Sometimes it feels it won’t get better but it really does brother. I am engaged and happier than ever. Looking back I am so happy we broke up because I got to meet the person I am with now. Take all the time you need we will be here waiting for your content.
Just think, you do what my favorite show has taught me. After life w/Ricky Gervais: When you feel like theres nothing left or really matters, you just have to BE good to people and help them to find purpose in the way and recover 👏
Welcome back brother! Shit happens you'll get thru it and probably come out stronger. I thought you got locked up, so on the upside you still have your freedom and health
Hi Jake! I'm reaIIy gIad to know you are okay, you've helped me a Iot during the Iast coupIe of years, remember, we Iearn more about our faiIures than from our successes, take your time you're doing great ! it gets better after 6 months or so, and yes Iife is too short not to take advantage of it, surrender and enjoy the ride
Brother Jake, I know you can't comprehend this, but I've been where you were in the Underworld because of a woman. Please hear me out: this happened when I was 39, and the breakup was devastating... But I realized after two months, that for every one woman, there are countless others, women who are more physically exciting... You'll see.... Good thing too, you're a bit young, because from my experience, couples married in their twenties are bored in their marriages by their 40s.... Godspeed.
Take care of yourself first and foremost. The BEST is yet to come. A kick in the gut NOW, will make u PREPARED for the next part of the journey. These relationships were lessons, preparing you for the LIFE YOU ARE BUILT FOR !
Because I don’t know what the true definition of “being a man” actually is, I always struggle when you speak of “being a better man” . Being a better person, that I can get my head around. Anyway, on a positive note, your hair is looking good!
You struggle with that idea because of the sickness and decadence of post modernism that has blurred the de facto biological and psychological distinctions between men and women. I don't aspire to act like some chick, but like a Man, and if you're confused about what that means, read Homer, or watch the film 300.
My understanding of what it means to be a man is simply deciding what you want and stopping at nothing to get it. For me that means a relationship with God, being fit, success in my business, getting myself a girl, and finding a long term solution to my hair loss (hence why I am here). So what I hear when I think being a better man is gaining courage to continue striving toward your goals in the face of adversity, or setting worthwhile goals in the first place.
@@gregoryaisemberg2037 Thanks, but I think you missed my point. I don't struggle with being who I am and that happens to be a man. I struggle with there being a definitive concept of what a man is. As far as I can see, we're all people and individuals and being the best person I can be makes sense. But I think its divisive to attempt to be a 'better man' if that involves unnaturally conforming to someone else's version of what that is.
@@stevenbuttice3442 Thats great, but all of that could equally apply to a woman. You've listed the things that are important to you, but none of it is tethered to a specific gender. If a woman had more or less those same goals, it wouldn't make her manly. Likewise, a male that was confident and content within himself and didn't feel the need to be ruthlessly ambitious, isn't less of a man.
thats in fact the thing - being a man isnt about conforming to anyones standards. its setting your own, and living YOUR Purpose. but the whole "what does it mean to be a man thing is both a cultural, historical, evolutionary, spiritual, and energetic question. we must also look at both masculine and feminine energies. men and women both can embody both of these energies, and need to balance them. all in all, its a long conversation.
Katy Perry's music is the answer jake!!! :P i had a rough breakup but came out of it a better man in every sense. All of us love you so chill! Still waitting for that long awaited snowboarding video!
My experience is Not to give 110% in a Relantionship. Give 80-90% and not expect more, expect less so if I do get something, I appreciate it even more! Cheers!
that's a pretty horrible approach to relationships, why even commit if you're not fully invested in it? I mean if that works for you and your partner that's fine I guess but this doesn't look like a healthy and fulfilling relationship model to me personally.
@@RonaldoFan-zz9rk that’s a pretty simp way of thinking you got there, that’s exactly why such men will always suffer and be left for the “better” Alfa ones by women
We miss you out here bro, hope you’re doing ok. We really do need you in the “manosphere” for lack of better term; you fill an important void and I do think you have the potential to be WAY more than just hair systems. There’s a bit of a war going on against masculinity (for anyone that hasn’t noticed) and I think you’re a positive voice for positive non toxic masculinity and we as a people need as much of that as we can get right now. You still may not be able to see that your ex is not the one but she’s not, you deserve better and will get better no doubt. Hope to see you soon bro
You explained in the video that "the Plugged was pulled on you". So my previous question has been answered. Also the other question was on your girlfriend and you also touched on that.
You’ll get through this. This is just the beginning. There is much you are learning and much you have yet to learn. And that’s okay. It’s a process. Women do not love the way men do. Men love sacrificially and project onto women their love, expecting women to love sacrificially too. But they don’t. They love pragmatically. The Greeks called this female love “pragma” love, whereas the sacrificial love men have is “agape” love. Most men do not find this out until they go through a few serious relationships. It’s a process we have to go through. It’s a learning and growing experience. Once we understand this about women, it becomes easier to understand, eventually.
Well if his life of his life leaves him then maybe he’s not that much of a dope 🤷 we don’t know whether or not he’s actually “dope” as we don’t see him personally we don’t know him what he’s like in real life, only the closest people could describe is wants we really are like our partners, parents etc
Be strong brother! Don't let one woman destroy you, there will be plenty of other fishes in the sea. Focus on your goals and your passion and everything else will come together.
I can honestly say that I’ve seen the growth and focus from you over the last few months and I’m glad you’re sharing your desire to help build better men. Way to go sharing a bit of your life here, brother. Let’s goooo!
Hello Jake Kent. Your hair system looks amazing on u. U should open up a Hair System Business. To help men who are suffering from Male Pattern Baldness.
Take the pain as a blessing, it will make you the strong person that you will be. When you'll get there you'll look back and not give two fucks. Keep going your way dude
Hi Jake 👋 I was in a relationship with my girlfriend for 9 years and about 20 days ago she left me. It was the hardest thing I think I have ever been through. She said God told her to talk to this guy and then she started seeing him. It literally felt like my heart was gouged out of my chest. I cried day and night. I couldn't sleep. My eyes felt swollen. I lost over 15lbs. I felt like a was on a roller coaster of emotions. I put my whole life into her and was trying to become a better version of myself for her, but she didn't want to have me anymore. I cherished the friendship more than my words can describe. I am a Christian too so loyalty and all that means so much to me. I have never broken up with anyone. I always try to love the best I can. My ex helped me decide to get a hair system and it was your videos that also motivated me. I am also a RU-vidr that focuses on helping others become healthy. I have 5k subscribers so not as much as you. I took a long break from RU-vid after I met her 9 years ago because I was so happy with her and spent most of my time with her. She helped me find the right color, size, and all of that. She also helped me install it which was very awesome. When she broke up with me I became terrified because the hair is now part of my identity. She told me she would still help me with it because she knew it was part of my identity and that it would be very hard for me. I am at least grateful she was thoughtful about that. It was a big change in my life to get the hair system. Most of my RU-vid career has been about stopping hair loss through diet and supplements. The good news is that I have a family member who helps me with it now so I can continue to wear it. It has greatly increased my confidence and my attractiveness. It is also nice not wearing a hat 24/7 anymore when I go out. Today I am doing a lot better. Like you, I really started to focus inward and on myself. I started going to church again. I joined a gym with my friend. I started to eat really healthy. I'm being a lot more vulnerable and just putting myself out there. I was at the gym the other day and a really cute girl came up to me and said she liked my hair. That was so awesome Jake and made me feel attractive and loved. I am a bit on the shy side and so I didn't approach her and introduce myself, but if I see her next time I want to. This has encouraged me so much and I really believe I will be with someone again who will love me and want to have a family. We're both in this together Jake and I have a pretty good idea how you feel. As Johnny says in Cobra Kai, We got to be bad ass lol! Never give up! Never surrender! 😁
Honestly, she did you a favor. She should not have to stay in a relationship that wasn't the one for her just to spare you pain. That's not a reason to stay with someone. On the bright side... the absolute perfect person for you is out there waiting for you to get it together and enter their life. I guarantee you that is true. Zero doubt in my mind. Life will kick you in teeth without a second of notice. When you get knocked down, get back up. You may have to crawl a bit to get back up, but get back up. That's what a man does... speaking of being an authentic man.
Have to agree. We don’t know their relationship. Just cause she left doesn’t automatically make her a horrible person. But if she cheated or started talking to another guy during the relationship, then that’s beyond fkd up. It sounded like she got with another guy immediately after. Maybe she ended the relationship in a really cold manner, no compassion. Regardless, it still fkn hurts, especially when you’ve been with that person for so long and really saw a future with them. That kind of experience can really destroy a person. The amount of effort it takes to pick yourself back up after heartbreak just to return to any semblance of normalcy in your life can be excruciating. But through resiliency and perseverance, you can channel that pain and anger into something far greater for yourself
@@TehxHope well don’t wanna be rude or anything but that’s kinda very simp way of thinking, and yeah it did sound like she left him for another dude just like that out of the blue
