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i quit my nyc corporate job & i've never been happier 

Cecilia Fang
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(a cringey visualization of my journal entries from my youtube hiatus these past few months)
I’ve come to the realization I’ve been taking this all too seriously. What it means to document your life, to keep track of the good and bad, and to make sense of it all. Truthfully, I don’t think it’ll ever make sense. Take that picture, film that TikTok, and write that letter you’re never going to send. Don’t think too much about it. Don’t worry about what people will think or how embarrassing it might be. You’ll be happy you did it no matter how or in what way. Do it for you. Do it just for you.
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@re8746
@re8746 9 месяцев назад
I’m 53 and have been in the corporate sales setting since I was 28. After 25 years I am ready to walk away from it and get a less stressful job. Wife and I are debt free which is a huge plus - other than property taxes. I am not spending my last 10 years of working in a high stress, quoted / metric driven job any longer. I’m tired and burnt. Always worried about my job and this is not the way to live your life after 55.
@khoasterful
@khoasterful 9 месяцев назад
Sounds like we have similar thoughts. I worked in corporate at 24 and retired at 55 (retirement just means I'm financially independent and can focus on other things, not sipping mai tais at the beach). The hardest part about retiring early is to convince yourself that's ok to let go of your safety blanket you're used to for so long, and not just your financial numbers supports it. A year later (at 56) and I'm glad I did. If you do retire, give yourself about 6 months to be lazy and do nothing doing this transition period. If you're a performer, you'll probably want to re-purpose yourself doing something else that appeals to you. After hitting in your 50s time becomes a more commodity than money, unless you don't have enough of the later. Good luck.
@nia6747
@nia6747 7 месяцев назад
Same here. I'm 52, been in the same corporate job since 27.
@susanwong6471
@susanwong6471 Месяц назад
I am thinking about getting a less stressful job at 55, thankful no mortgage and great savings
@dudoklasovity2093
@dudoklasovity2093 11 месяцев назад
“Time has slowed down. I feel my senses returning. Ticking of the clock matching my heartbeat.” Beautiful!That’s exactly what stressless freedom feels once you leave job that’d been sucking life out of you.👍 Very well put, you should be a writer, a talent to describe feelings like that!👍👍👍
@Lea-rb9nc
@Lea-rb9nc 9 месяцев назад
It takes courage to follow one's heart instead of the crowd.
@helenjiang8018
@helenjiang8018 11 месяцев назад
"I've been operating and making decisions based off a fear of what could go wrong rather than inspiration over everything that could go right" Such a good video and this was so well written!! I wish you the best of luck going forward :D
@user-mq5os2xk6d
@user-mq5os2xk6d Год назад
this was incredibly written and shot! you are a magnificent storyteller! i’m a new grad and i haven’t been able to shake the feeling that i’ve been going through life in a trance, stuck in free fall by indecision. i’m starting a corporate tech job but i don’t even know if it’s what i want. i’ve worked my whole life toward some arbitrary pinnacle of success, getting into a “top” college, pursuing the interesting, in-demand major, and securing and a coveted job. convention was “easy” to strive toward because i didn’t have to make a commitment to myself. in the process i’ve entirely neglected my wellbeing. i’ve cucooned myself with what is comfortable while avoiding asking myself what i really want, what makes me excited. this video made me feel like i could actually feel alive again. the thought of finally seizing joy is terrifying- but you’ve made me want to try. thank you.
@ceciliafang
@ceciliafang 11 месяцев назад
i love this comment and thank you for your kind words + sharing! Rebuilding a sense of self post-grad is not easy, especially when the 20+ years leading up to that moment feels practically written out for you. It's exactly as you said, seizing joy is TERRIFYING. But little things like connecting with others throughout the journey is what makes you stop and remember "actually, i'm not as alone in this as i think" (and you meet cool people along the way). Thank you for making my day! Rooting for you always 💗
@gretelrue
@gretelrue 11 месяцев назад
“I can hear both my ease and urgency” I’ve never heard anything more accurate as I’ve recently done the same thing and I’ve never been happier
@tshepomasia4627
@tshepomasia4627 2 месяца назад
I needed to hear this, thank you so much Cecilia. I'm 41 and on the brink of quitting my job to follow my dreams and be financially independent, this video will be my soundtrack from now onwards and will listen to it weekly. You have a gift indeed, stay blessed.
@miramij5876
@miramij5876 Год назад
I made the same decision this year. I quit that stable job everyone looked up to me of having. But, I'd already been thinking about that for a year, so when I quit, I already landed the job where I actually wanted to be. Riskier but bolder, tired but more grateful, scared of the unknown but FREER. If someone dares to do something like what I'd done, it would be better to think of what you actually wanted to do and not neglect the responsibilities you have at the moment. If you don't have anything you want to do in particular, then I think it would be best to prioritize your healing. Yeah, it's a scary move but you honestly have to discuss with yourself why you need to have that change. Also, don't hesitate to express your thoughts to the trusted ones. In the end, you're still the one who should weigh everything before making the move. :')
@mskelsiejanel
@mskelsiejanel Месяц назад
I literally cried watching this video because it was just what I needed and was the answer to the question I had. Thank you for being you!
@ceciliafang
@ceciliafang Месяц назад
😭😭 thank you for watching!!! Wishing you the best 💕
@tralala88
@tralala88 10 месяцев назад
Beautifully said and presented. Thank you for sharing. I feel it in my body that this corporate job is no longer for me. This is a lovely encouragement x
@emmmila
@emmmila Месяц назад
"I'm nobody and everybody, depending on how I'm feeling" - so accurate
@vivianpena5041
@vivianpena5041 9 месяцев назад
You are a poet. Beautiful.
@Waheedalabloomer
@Waheedalabloomer 10 месяцев назад
2 years walking in the same path, I'm so glad I found you! LOVE YOUR NARRATIVE!
@TimTim__
@TimTim__ 10 месяцев назад
You have that creativity to use magic words to articulate what you feel. You’ll do good in this journey. Thank you for being open to us ❤
@JacobPernell
@JacobPernell 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for this honest and vulnerable journal! I loved the messages you reflected on and shared in this video. I just put in my two weeks at my tech industry job after feeling super burnt out and realized it’s not the type of work I want to be doing, so I’m in the process of pivoting to do work that is more creatively and artistically aligned. I’m nervous but excited about the next steps! And doing my best to trust in myself and the process 🙂
@phamyuzu972
@phamyuzu972 Год назад
Thank you for being so brave and inspirational!!!! You got this!
@crocus5632
@crocus5632 4 месяца назад
I'm 45 a I finally quit my job and will be starting my own business! So freeing and exciting! Took me a lot of years and crying to make the decision, but my biggest fear is having to go back yo corporate world. I have 20 more years to work, I cannot spend them in a corporate job , feeling like a slave. I would rather work as a waitress. But I will work on my business - accounting services. I will be the one to make my schedule and I will take time for making sports outside everyday, watching the nature, gardening, and I will decide when I go on vacation, not when my boss lets me go.
@mariedawn-
@mariedawn- 13 дней назад
Sending you luck and happiness on this new path ❤
@sammydavisvintage
@sammydavisvintage 9 месяцев назад
I am 37 and quit my corporate job at 23 as well. In fact I was a little more than 23 1/2. The road hasn’t been easy. And I’m still working on myself and the things / fears that drive me and which I wish didn’t drive me. Finding our authentic selves is life long. You’re going and have embarked on a new journey that there is no roadmap for. Trust yourself and work on yourself so that you are as free as you can be. ❤
@aayushgupta9726
@aayushgupta9726 3 месяца назад
And what do you do for living then? please share 😊
@623pluto
@623pluto Год назад
So proud of you!!!! Just found your channel and I am obsessed!!
@TheSublimePotter
@TheSublimePotter Год назад
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH! And I’m very excited for you!
@SanjanaGalgalikar
@SanjanaGalgalikar 2 месяца назад
your words are so beautifully written - love this so much!
@Tashas_Travels
@Tashas_Travels 9 месяцев назад
I am also planning to leave my job. But i want to make sure that i have money to fall back on and to make sure my small business is atleast bringing in 10 clients a month to be able to make my salary. Coz i am tired,exhaused,not happy and being treated like a modern day sl*ve.
@mcampos1410
@mcampos1410 7 месяцев назад
Cecilia, this was incredibly well written. I admire your courage and I look forward to following your journey. Subscribed.
@drew_creates
@drew_creates 9 месяцев назад
what a well written journal entry! Subscribed to see where you go with this channel, and Liked because I enjoyed watching the whole video. Excited for you in your life's newest direction. Cheers!
@wildflower8028
@wildflower8028 9 месяцев назад
This was so beautiful and very inspiring. Thank you!
@ahabooable
@ahabooable 9 месяцев назад
I LOVED THIS! AN AMAZING POETIC EXPERIENCE 💛
@annnajx
@annnajx Год назад
happy for you cecilia :,) this is really brave
@_lil_shi_
@_lil_shi_ 10 месяцев назад
I loved this! I am on a similar boat, I left my job recently and you've uttered some golden notes that I have been thinking as well. Bon voyage!
@xjxy1213
@xjxy1213 9 месяцев назад
wow, I wish I had seen something like this 20 years earlier. I want to quit my job now but can’t. I now have too much responsibilities that I can’t afford losing my job. I envy you!
@ampersignia
@ampersignia 5 месяцев назад
Really liked this video. So peaceful. I feel like I have been some kind of living dead too. Just gave notice today. Feels good. I have health problems and I don’t know if today is the easiest day or if there will be even easier days ahead. In case this is the easiest day I’ll have compared to the future, then I can’t waste my time feeling this much dread. Mental affects physical, eventually. I want my job to be a distant memory, something I say “huh, wasn’t that a weird time?” in about 10 yrs.
@ausmo1308
@ausmo1308 8 месяцев назад
Wow! Thank you for sharing your daunting adventure. It really did feel like a journal come to life. Your poetry is also very nice. Please share more, keep us updated, and enjoy the 'not knowing' :)
@gastronomee_
@gastronomee_ 5 месяцев назад
in my 20s. quit everything. Dropped out of school. Started this channel and reflecting on the same things you are. ❤❤ (fyi if you’re in your 20s and also navigating life - would love to see you around).
@miadawn
@miadawn 2 месяца назад
This was so beautiful to watch, I looked for videos to get inspired and this certainly did the trick. Thank you for this :')
@AbdulDahab
@AbdulDahab 2 месяца назад
wow.. this moved me you're such an inspiration
@suy128
@suy128 10 месяцев назад
this is such a beautiful video & piece of art. thank you for sharing. I love it!
@user-ie5tg5fs3m
@user-ie5tg5fs3m 9 месяцев назад
thank goodness you quit. hope you make films and movies. i've only watched 54 seconds and it's like an awesome movie the way it's filmed !!! :)
@goobersims
@goobersims 10 месяцев назад
this is a beautiful vid!!! thank you so much for sharing this :,) can't wait to watch ur YT journey!!
@rikka4u
@rikka4u Месяц назад
This is THE ONLY video I needed ❤🙏🏽
@khansaasakar
@khansaasakar 9 месяцев назад
OMG THE STORY TELLING;THE MESSAGE AWESOME
@fayejiva7565
@fayejiva7565 9 месяцев назад
You looked so happy already. Going the right path🎉❤
@niraj5582
@niraj5582 2 месяца назад
I love your video. It sounds like a poetry where a person is trying to find himself/herself. Also, the music makes it much more great and pleasant.
@harrysia93
@harrysia93 8 месяцев назад
i saw all of your films, so impressed
@crownofcrow_
@crownofcrow_ Год назад
Congratulations for making this decision, I wish u the bestest of luck❤
@inez3190
@inez3190 6 месяцев назад
not us having worked in the SAME office building - this inspires me to quit so much more
@hurricanehao
@hurricanehao 9 месяцев назад
This was so moving! Exceptional job 💕
@benwang9745
@benwang9745 10 месяцев назад
Beautifully written and the hard truth. I am on the same journey and I wish you and the rest like us the best luck in finding true happiness.
@juliacardoso7022
@juliacardoso7022 2 месяца назад
beautiful, I needed this!
@jiam.8036
@jiam.8036 9 месяцев назад
Kuddos to you - truest definition of betting on yourself . Lots of talent with this video !!
@_k_real_
@_k_real_ Год назад
This is deep. Go forward. Found your channel couple of days ago
@catie4536
@catie4536 3 месяца назад
this touched my soul, you talking about gaining your senses again... god damn. I want this...
@vincentnnyc
@vincentnnyc Год назад
You have some good writing over here. Keep doing what you are doing. You are young and this is the time to take risk. If you fail, remember the most important lesson is to learn from your failure. Good luck in this new journey of yours.
@heinerrojasmckenzie5081
@heinerrojasmckenzie5081 9 месяцев назад
What a wonderful video and script. You are a real artist and communicator. Greetings from Costa Rica.
@sutejotan5817
@sutejotan5817 9 месяцев назад
all da best in your new journey
@naana-scelyne6370
@naana-scelyne6370 Месяц назад
Such a gifted writer and author. Very skillful in your craft! Good luck in your endeavors
@nuuuuushy
@nuuuuushy 8 месяцев назад
I love this. Thank you!
@Jay-ej5jw
@Jay-ej5jw 6 месяцев назад
thank you for this, very well made. Much love
@fifimimi6834
@fifimimi6834 9 месяцев назад
Thanks for this lovely video. I needed this.
@pawnstorm17
@pawnstorm17 9 месяцев назад
Love you girl!
@nerd26373
@nerd26373 Год назад
We will support this channel. They're the best at what they do.
@victortarroni
@victortarroni 8 месяцев назад
this background track is so British! REALLY LIKED IT.
@itsmepearly607
@itsmepearly607 6 месяцев назад
Aww this is poetry. ❤ love this
@Yoyoadventure
@Yoyoadventure 9 месяцев назад
Love your vids, go for it ! I am 22 and I feel the same I need freedom, I can’t keep up with the corporate world it’s too much !
@hannesRSA
@hannesRSA 8 месяцев назад
How can you not just work hard through suffering at such a young age? It took over a decade to start getting to me. But after the burn outs, I just keep going to pay the bills.
@Yoyoadventure
@Yoyoadventure 6 месяцев назад
@@Melifter yes I am the representative of a whole generation
@robevans2114
@robevans2114 9 месяцев назад
Well done - both your decision and video. You worked is artistic, entertaining, insightful and true.
@fffffashion6155
@fffffashion6155 9 месяцев назад
Beautifully written and said 🤍
@minhngo154
@minhngo154 9 месяцев назад
love it so much! I am learning to trust myself and I am in the process. There is so much wisdom in your words! You are wise, girl! What's next for you?
@David-ey7xx
@David-ey7xx 9 месяцев назад
love this !
@nihedbenmiloud9023
@nihedbenmiloud9023 11 месяцев назад
Thanks u SO MUCH .. this speak a so much to all of us 🙏🙏🙏
@rpking140
@rpking140 2 месяца назад
name's chris, im 30. im quitting the job in my hometown and moving to a city a couple hours over. austin tx. got a job lined up, will be living out my car for awhile. kinda crazy, but my soul's calling for it. took me years to pull the trigger, but i found myself back on this path time after time. id back out, out of fear. but i'm going in this week. you said something in the video about operating out of fear, and it resonated. hope all is well w you now!
@charlenemarilyns
@charlenemarilyns 9 месяцев назад
This is really inspiring! Thank u
@danielabeck8366
@danielabeck8366 9 месяцев назад
Love this! Exactly the reason why I make my job work for me and not vice-versa. Been to over 60 countries at 24, ready to buy my first piece of real estate, and going for my graduate degrees (first in the family).
@hannesRSA
@hannesRSA 8 месяцев назад
Doesn't make sense. Onlyfans or someone else's money.
@Melifter
@Melifter 6 месяцев назад
Graduate “degrees?” How many graduate degrees do you need?
@ashleymyers3100
@ashleymyers3100 9 месяцев назад
I quit my job last Fall & at first it was scary. It was hard taking that leap/1st step. Looking back i was so unhappy & 20 lbs heavier. I was using my degree but at what cost? My own mental health. Now i work in a factory & make $9 grand less per year, but the health insurance is way better than old job & I clock in & clock out. I loved your quote: " dont confine yourself to one path because you are capable of so much more", couldnt have said it better myself. Was using my Apparel Design degree & now I'm welding! Ive always loved working with my hands & would hate a desk job. I'm curious what job you had that was killing your soul, what are u doing now? 🤔
@alunanfatimah
@alunanfatimah 10 месяцев назад
You describe everything perfectly
@khoasterful
@khoasterful 9 месяцев назад
I love this narrative. I'm quite a bit older now, but thought I share some experience life points. - With a lot of young adults, we were often steered into getting a higher education for a better future, or NOT. I'll leave the or NOT for another discussion. If you're not sure with what to do after high school, most will take the safer path, higher education, kicking that "what am I going to do with my life" can down the road, if the financial cost supports it. - Once you completed higher education, it's freaking scary to be released into the world and be self sustaining. Been there, done that. One is essentially trying to trade time for money, leveraging that college degree you earned for a good job potential. Time, at this point, is relatively cheap and money has a higher value because most don't have a lot of it. - If you are at a cross road here, where you're not happy with your career choices, and want a more carefree life, you maybe in trouble. It's ok to take risks and fail (you'll have time to recover), try new things, take a sabbatical, but don't leave things to fate. ALWAYS have a backup plan. - If you work hard to raise that initial "seed" money, invest wisely, you're setting future self up in a good place. - Fast forward (10, 15, 20 years), once you have enough "seed money" and investing, you'll let money work for you (instead of you working for money). Time becomes more precious and a career job making money becomes less important. You'll have *choices* for more work/life balance and less stress. - My own life path was I put my head down and work hard at an initial high stress job for about 10 years, knowing I had an exit strategy. After that, I was in a much better position for work/life balance, and ultimately, retired early. Retire early just means you're financially independent and can do pretty much what you want to do, not sitting around sipping Mai Tai =). Good luck to our Gen Z and wish you the best with success and happiness in life.
@Yoyoadventure
@Yoyoadventure 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for that, adulthood looks so scary but it’s also a new adventure!
@hannesRSA
@hannesRSA 8 месяцев назад
Summary: you were fortunate to have a starting high salary (people used to have to work decades to get there) and extracted the benefit from it to retire early.
@matthewcosta6227
@matthewcosta6227 2 месяца назад
34, IT manager. Your video brought tears to my eyes. Thank you.
@importantguycommenting8156
@importantguycommenting8156 9 месяцев назад
Eat, Pray, Love
@chocolatetaste4245
@chocolatetaste4245 9 месяцев назад
Incredibile words, thank you!
@kageyamaduaa3514
@kageyamaduaa3514 3 месяца назад
Needed this
@garyfong6806
@garyfong6806 10 месяцев назад
Great story! Do what excites! Best of luck in your next chapter! I’m sure you’ll do great Cecilia ! Keep in touch Gary Fong ❤️❤️❤️🤩👍👍
@heppifactory
@heppifactory Год назад
OK CECI! ❤🎉❤🎉
@TheSarahStemen
@TheSarahStemen 9 месяцев назад
Same 😂I just can’t even stop watching these videos
@littleliezelle
@littleliezelle Год назад
LETS GO 🫶🏼🫶🏼 SUPPORTING YOU ALWAYS BB
@ash155
@ash155 8 месяцев назад
Why am i crying 🥹🥺😭
@milesmercado7752
@milesmercado7752 3 месяца назад
I am currently a graduating marketing student. I really dont like the idea of having a 9-5 job, I experienced it during my internship and I really feel like I am dying, I typically can only function in certain times of the day and more or less accomplish 1-2 tasks for that day. I also have adhd therefore I create some work that arent from my current tasks just to supplement my brain for some dopamine. Is it really okay to think like this, to go independent after graduating? or should I just dive in to the 9-5 until I burn my soul off?
@ManofSigmaMindset
@ManofSigmaMindset 5 месяцев назад
Help! I feel like I'm starting losing my mind. I quit my last job since it was a disaster. And now I'm in the new one and it is even worse. The anxiety and depression I've had since the last job got even more stack up wit the new ones. I was so good at my job and I was thriving back in 2021. Now, I often do mistakes at my work and then my boss starting to annoy me. Then I got anxious and do more mistakes. And it becomes a never ending spiral and now my boss seems to hate me. I end up anxious and depress now. I tried therapy and still can't happy. Because of what happen in lately, I also lost my 2 best friends. I don't even know what is happening to me. I have no wins. not even a tiny one.
@esdurr4056
@esdurr4056 9 месяцев назад
I love this video 😊
@worldview730
@worldview730 2 месяца назад
Kudos to your hard choices
@mateopuna98
@mateopuna98 9 месяцев назад
You are such a beautiful & brave human being, this is really inspiring to me as a 24 year old. I am planning to do the same when I get some savings that can last some time. +100 points for the Minecraft font
@shakenbacon-vm4eu
@shakenbacon-vm4eu 9 месяцев назад
So this is gonna happen to millennial doctors. I don’t know a single fellow doc around my age who is not burned out, angry, and borderline depressed. I think we are all saving money, investing, and lowering lifestyles. Which means in 10-15 years, there’s gonna be a gigantic plummet in doctors and the US is gonna be fucked. When it’s an abusive finance job and everyone quits, society is gonna be more or less ok. When an entire generation of doctors quits? Be careful, don’t slip on that rock, maybe wear a mask everywhere. Cuz the safety net is gonna disappear.
@emmmila
@emmmila Месяц назад
Your writing is amazing! I love this video. Do you have any advice to be a better writer?
@choosetoshine2610
@choosetoshine2610 3 месяца назад
Excellent content and so encouraging! Keep going! New subscriber. ❤️ 🎉❤
@JGTrolls-xp5qm
@JGTrolls-xp5qm 10 месяцев назад
Such a. Brave story all the best
@annalnmc6602
@annalnmc6602 9 месяцев назад
Crying 😭
@meghrajghatole7045
@meghrajghatole7045 11 месяцев назад
All the best👍💯
@chueyv9080
@chueyv9080 3 месяца назад
“Grinning” 😁
@mgersiani7311
@mgersiani7311 9 месяцев назад
What camera do u use? It is so clear
@anthis4297
@anthis4297 9 месяцев назад
No comment... 🙏🙏🙏 Respect. Wonderful video!
@cristenh7677
@cristenh7677 11 месяцев назад
how will u keep urself afloat while having no job?
@bArda26
@bArda26 10 месяцев назад
damn that's some story telling
@qicai3682
@qicai3682 8 месяцев назад
Oh my goodness. I’ve been unemployed for over a year now. I feel like I am a corpse amongst livings. 😊
@IlikepoolbutImbadatit
@IlikepoolbutImbadatit 9 месяцев назад
thank you : ^ )
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