I Resent My Husband For Letting His Brother Live With Us 

People disregard the huge impact that having a spouse with different culture has when they were in love at first. But once you are married this kind of thing happens and becomes very difficult to handle. Immigrants are always burdened with this kind of responsibility....a family coming to your home and staying for a long while. Very difficult for someone from here. I feel her pain.

Caller.....the three of you need to have a sit-down and formulate a plan that launches your brother-in-law into adulthood. He is young and does not possess the life experience or emotional maturity to recognize what that is. Help him to see that and be very clear in your expectations. He may hate you in the moment but he will thank you in the future, that you cared enough to make hard decisions that benefit his future.

Culture or not, he shouldn't allow someone to come live permanently without a discussion.

Sometimes it's peaceful being single. I know a couple of loved ones married to selfish, foolish men and my heart hurts for them.

I was with her until she said little brother is from another country so the rest of the family is not in states. That's changes things. I feel for her but where the heck would he go at this age? I really feel for her but before kicking someone out, they need to give him at least 6 months notice and prepare him for adulthood. Maybe when he starts college he can leave to go with roommates, etc...

A postpartum mom's recovery comes before the husband's brother. Did she even get enough care she needed after giving birth?

Nothing like having a partner that doesn't ask you what you think about something as monumental as having a family member move in. Poor woman. Dr. Delony tried to tell her that she is worth better than that. I do not think she wants to hear this, and what it means. Because it is unlikely that this happens only with financial decisions AND MAJOR LIFE DECISIONS....

The brother is only 17 !!! Where is he going to go? He is a kid! Unless he causing problems in some way , I think you should let him stay at least until he is 18 . Because he is a kid , I think it is cruel and selfish to throw him out before he is older. In time you will have your own home and privacy.

Call back when the "kid" is 18-19.... at least wait until he's out of high school and equipped to move out on his own whether it's college or setting him up for success as a young adult.

First! I feel bad for the teenager...17 and homeless essentially!

Lack of communication in telling her about the brother moving in is highly disrespectful. A plan needs to be put into the works for this guy to be financially able to fend for himself. Helping his family/blood relatives is important to the husband, but setting BOUNDARIES for a more fulfilling marriage is more important. The higher priority is guarding the marriage. If the man really loves his brother, he will be focused on helping him transition. He will need time before he is capable of moving out and surviving, but let's start this mission

Mad respect to the husband. His 14 year old brother needs a place to stay, no parents around to help, and he steps up without hesitation. That's a dude I want in my corner.

I have 2 older brothers and love both of them dearly but not over My Wife or children.

My heart breaks for people like her. She has one life to live and her very husband put her feelings on the back burner. The brother is also innocent in this but as a husband, your wife, the mother of your children, comes first.

I do understand the importance of privacy. It is just that he is so young and where will he go at 17?

I disagree with John on this one. Throwing your 17 year old brother in law out to the street is selfish. Family is family. You help them out. Oh yeah and the 17 year old is from another country?!? You got to be kidding me.

Being an immigrant, the way she approaches the conversation concerning her minor brother-in-law, with have to be done delicately. At 17, it's impossible to put him out unless he is emancipated. If his citizenship process is complete, maybe he can start researching a branch of the military that can get his life started. If he qualifies, he'll have medical, dental, vision, life insurance, housing, access to skills and technical training, G.I. Bill, retirement, VA loan access and other benefits. This can set him up for a future of success. Otherwise, if there's a local community college, he can check into applying, enrolling, and live in on campus housing. Should his grades be high enough when he graduates, he can earn a transfer scholarship. If he doesn't want to earn a university degree, he could study plumbing, HVAC, process technology, real estate, or another avenue that will prepare him for work, day one after earning an associate's degree or certificate. There are even business courses that offer grants or stipends upon completing the community college program, which could put him on the path to entrepreneurship. In any case, the key is setting him up for success so he has the tools to make it independently. Since he's 17, don't delay having these discussions. Handled correctly, the result can be satisfactory for all involved. Should it be dealt with poorly, resentment could shift from the husband to the wife.

Oh my God 😳 you don’t just invite someone to live long term at your house without your partner agreeing to it first. You deserve better ❤️🧡 YOU are NOT being selfish; your husband is

The cultural part is the kicker, I should know. I come from such a household. My bro in law is 27 yrs old and has taken turns living with every adult sibling. Doesn't pay rent, doesn't contribute otherwise. Thinks he deserves all the help he can get. His family completely enables him, and I dont see any sign of this changing.

Dang Dr D is so good...once he started asking questions and probing gently i too heard the hesitation in her voice.

Dr. John has all the empathy in the world for a woman. In one call a guy's wife abandoned the family and children and Dr. John didn't say a bad word about her. When a woman calls, he's SO quick to call the man abusive or controlling or irresponsible. Every single call. He even nudges the women to think of their men that way (the "where else is he like this?" question). Like dude, the kid is 17 in a foreign country. I would hate to be married to someone who wouldn't let me take in an underage family member. That's what family is for.

This is so coincidental to my life at the moment! My name is Joy as well, and my husband's brother from another country is staying with us for several months. There are a couple of differences. Neither my husband or I knew he was planning to stay for months. We thought it was just a short visit, so we were both surprised. We also have kids (who are not in the baby stages anymore), and we have a much larger house and we have been married for 21 years. I think that would be so challenging ina small living space, with young children, and for such an extended period of time. I would maybe say he can sleep on the couch until he is 18, but that he needs to be planning to be on his own or with roommates as soon as he turns 18.

The husband has a lack of respect for his wife. It’s really sad seeing this in marriages. I definitely think she needs to sit down with him and explain how she feels disrespected and unloved by his dismissiveness. I’m sure it’s hard when family is involved and sometimes we feel this need to take care of everyone. That being said your spouse and their comfort comes first.

Can any other family members take him and do their turn? Like gramma and grandpa? Are there any other siblings that can help? I don't think she is selfish at all. Her feelings, wants and needs matter. Not JUST her wants, feelings and emotions but they do count in the whole scheme of things. She should be considered and she wasn't considered when the decision was made to have him move in. 💗♥️ Maybe they can make a compromise and have him stay and when he turns 18 he will need to get some roommates and move out on his own ☺️

27 yes, 17 no. Deal with it.

Of course you have a right to ask your husband anything!!!!! But where is the boy going to go?? Chances are the brother is here to start a new life. Encourage him to finish school and then get a job and move out. Make that a priority. Get him jump started to a life in the US.

The husband is the selfish one, not Joy. That kid can go back to his parents home country. He isn't their responsibility. I can't imagine sending my minor children off to a foreign country to live for years. His parents are nuts.

I disagree here. He’s 17, and it’s great to say that he’s 18 and he can move out and be on his own but that is not reality. Grown adults can’t afford housing in this economy and you expect a kid who likely hasn’t graduated high school to figure it out on his own? Also, he is a part of the family. I think she feels selfish because it is selfish.

There's something she's not saying

If the wife stashed her sister there without telling the husband, we never would have heard a peep. Stop being selfish.

But what about the feelings and the hurt of the 17 year old little brother? What if he was a sister instead?

If the brother was not a minor I would agree 100%, but if I had a brother who was orphaned I would expect my spouse to be willing to accept him. I know that the parent's death is not the case this time. I agree there should have been a discussion but the end would be the same I would not put out the minor child.

I seriously do not understand how people can marry someone and be afraid to speak to them about ANYthing!! I just don't get it. This poor woman has NO voice in her marriage and that is something SHE needs to work on or she is better off single

Dump the husband. He had no right to bring in laws into home without your permission.

Ok the brother is from a different country but we’re still missing how this happened: Where are the parents? Are his mother and father married or separated? Why did the brother come to the US when he was 14? Are there any other siblings in the US?

John is correct with wife not having any choice in husband's rule. She is wrong for not being stronger on that issue. The topic of the brother is secondary. It is her life too. And the husband needs to have his brother exit the home within 40 days. He might want to have him stay but he is NOT his brothers keeper. That is what is meant to grow up or live under a bridge. Same if the brother was his sister.

Can’t abandon a 17 year old who’s here from another country bite the bullet till he goes to college

You are the queen of your home. Your husband and you should make decisions together. Your husband is not your boss.

Wait, she’s talking about a kid?? I imagined a grown man unemployed on the couch. This happened to my best friend. Husband had teenage half siblings who became orphans and he volunteered to take them them in without asking her. They had been married a couple years with a toddler. This almost destroyed the marriage. However now she sees this as a blessing. Siblings are now in college and understand the sacrifice she made, they are all very close. I would suggest speaking to the husband and having some grace. This is a kid who was not welcomed where he used to live, is now in another country and ended up with you. I bet he can’t wait to leave. Set boundaries. He has to be out after high school. Clean up after himself, etc. I feel sorry for the kid, not the lady. She needs a backbone.

When we marry outside of our culture these are some of the things that happen everyone is different and their beliefs we need to make sure people believe the way we believe before we marry and have children just my opinion

Had to do something similar with my roommate recently who had his gf round 5 days of the week we fell out for a few days but he got the message and now it’s much better

Family first and he’s family. At his age it would not be long

THE 17 year old KID CAME FROM A FOREIGN COUNTRY. Probably the husband did too. Did the husband marry her fast for a green card? So can this kid actually get a job without a social security number? Too many issues here

I feel like there is something missing from this story.

This lady sounds as if her husband's culture has presented itself in that he doesn't consult her about having someone live in a too small apartment, nor consulting her about money is a major issue if not confronted. She sou ds afraid to broach the subject.

Where else does he do this hit a raw nerve. My ex literally did everything without any discussion or any consideration. It included finance, his parents and family coming, we visiting his family, he taking my child away and a long list of things. Anytime I wanted to be included or atleast consulted or informed , I was told I m selfish bitch in a different or subtle and sometimes not so subtle ways. He is my ex. He is still asshole and continues to disregard where any child related decisions are considered as he goes behind my back. But man my life is way better and less complicated.. girl you need to accept truth and write down number of times you have been let down. It will help put your priorities where they need to be and that is you. You need who prioritizes your needs as a family and not what he wants

I know because I have experienced it. I hear that thing in her voice. I know it and I can hear it.

I missed the reason that the younger brother is living with them. If he has been living with them since he was 14, then there has long been something off in that family dynamic. Where are his parents? But, yeah, definitely not cool that husband doesn't check in before making big decisions that affect everyone.

This is when I am glad i grew up and come from a different part of the world where living with extended family members is not an issue all.

Just for clarification for people saying he is only 17 at the beginning of the call she said they’re moving in a year or 2 he should be 18 by then. It is still hard to be 18 and living on your own but he is officially an adult by law.

It doesn’t matter what picture you paint he won’t get it, he has a mindset that is different than yours, his priorities is different from yours his family comes before his and your family that your trying to build together the more you try to talk to him about this the more he will resent you because your selfish it’s all about his needs not our needs. His idea of our is everybody his mother, his father, his siblings he cannot detach from them in a healthy way sometimes people can be selfless to their own detriment.

The kid is not an orphan! He can always go home and live with his own parents. They have gone way above and beyond for him already considering he was never their responsibility in the first place. I don’t advocate kicking a 17 or even 18 year old out on the street either but if his parents or another relative won’t take him then hopefully he can get some roommates and go to college and they need to steer him in that direction. If all else fails, perhaps he can join the military. They will put a roof over his head, feed him and provide him with a paycheck as well as fully cover him with medical. They will also give him job training he could use towards a career.

Delony knew that the husband kept doing what he wanted to do, once she said she is married to him for 6 years .

There’s something going on here that’s not being spoken. She’s holding things back. I feel fear.

Western obligation and Eastern obligation is so different. I am from Eastern culture my dad would not ask my mum permission if for e.g. my nephew was to move in. However, my mum would not hesitation to tell my dad about expected time frame of my nephew. However, I understand in Western society relationships are partnership. So, her hubby needs to be more accommodating of her wants and needs. In my opinion I highly doubt he will move to the other place without his brother. The obligation we have for our nuclear family in our culture is just as important as the external family. I love Dr Delony, however his advice fell short in that I think his advice was not relevant to the caller because she was not telling the whole truth. She hiding something and therefore Dr Delony couldn't offer a holistic view. I do think her partner is emotionally abusive and she afraid of him.

Wow, abandoning a minor who's lived with you since 14, that's pretty messed up. I wonder if this child is terrible to her? And yet the other kids love him. Otherwise I can't imagine being so callous as to kick him out at such a vulnerable time.

Going to give my advice bcs I had in-laws live with us the majority of my marriage…for 7 years. We started out in a 2 bedroom condo (3 adults and 2 kids, but up to as many as 5 adults and 2 kids at a time bcs my parents in-laws would come for a few months also). And then we moved to a slightly bigger home, in which case my sister-in-law and her husband and son, my husband and I and our son, and my parent-in-laws. Then I had another child and my sister-in-law had another child so that was 10 people living in a very small 3 bedroom town house. Throughout all those years of living together I told my husband those exact words….I feel like a stranger in my own home. This doesn’t feel like my home. I don’t feel happy when I come home. I should say that in my marriage there is a culture difference also….although in his family they did not fully practice everyone living together as one big giant family, but it was his culture and more so than that, they are very close to their siblings and have this strong urge to make sure they have a decent life. Very close knit. Americans in their views are a little ‘cold’ to their family….too distant. They frequently call each other, everyday sometimes and have long chats. Do I do that with my family? No. My husband finds that strange. So…I will point it out…you have a cultural clash that you somehow need to work through where both parties feel okay rather than ‘give me what I want’. I understand the frustration of space. My biggest complaint was lack of space and privacy. My husband did not really want to live without them but he understood the space issue bcs he was feeling it too. My in-laws understood the space issue bcs they were also feeling it (so I can assure you your brother-in-law probably feels that also…it’s not 1-sided). In the end we settled on we would work towards getting a bigger home. 4 bedrooms at least and if it had a second kitchen, great! But bigger home with more space so I could have privacy and space outside of my bedroom (usually I went in our closet with the door shut and sat alone when I became overwhelmed, bcs otherwise I had kids or my husband in the bedroom also). Now, I will say this. For 5 years or so of this living with in-laws, I felt bitter. I felt bitter and resentful…at my in-laws and at my husband. Over time I actually grew to kind of like it. My son had a playmate…my daughter had other people to play with besides me or her brother…I didn’t have to cook all the time and sometimes, the company (even if we did not talk) felt nice. Eventually my sister-in-law was going to have a third baby so at that point she and her husband ended up renting a home that is a 2 minute walk away, so they are still close by if we need them or they us. Often times my sister-in-laws brings food over for us that she cooked. I will say there was an adjustment at first. It felt odd to finally have more space…less noise in the house. I actually kinda missed living with them and I think they had a similar adjustment. The good news is, your brother-in-law is approaching college age. Maybe at that point you can move him to a dorm. But at this age there is no way my husband would have ‘kicked hime out’. It’s not acceptable in their culture and they view it as extremely disrespectful to ever do it. I don’t think this is a life sentence for you….I don’t think your brother-in-law will want to live with you forever. If your husband insists that be the case, maybe you can find something else to help you manage. Maybe you go out more…maybe your husband can have his brother in a hotel for a night…try to think outside the box. Either way you will be okay! I promise! It’s difficult and extremely frustrating but there will be an end one day!

Her best bet is to figure out if he wants to go to college or what he wants to do for work before kicking him out. If she were to do that without taking into consideration his feelings then he’s essentially doomed. She won’t forgive herself if something were to happen to him. Welcome to POC life. You don’t get to always choose what happens, you just have to go with it.

So he has a brother who is a child (under 18) and she wants to put the child on the street. Is it possible that the dude just assumed that a normal compassionate wife would love his young (child brother) and understand the dude responsibility? I think this woman is selfish. Personally I had a 14 year old family member that wasn't safe with her mother and she needed a home. I asked my wife and she agreed, but my wife resented it and treated my family member like crap. Eventually my wife left. It is literally the job of a man to provide a safe home for his family.

To the caller- once you mentioned all the young kiddos, I’m thinking maybe you’ll regret getting rid of Fun Uncle. Built-in childcare Yo!

Her brother in law is 17 in a different country with only his brother as family. It would be cruel to put him out. He does need his own space… she needs to talk to her husband. He isn’t listening to her.

She's not understanding safety of this kid. He mostly likely Can't go back to his country.

This can be avoided by seeing if you are working together while you’re still dating. If your bf or gf just does major things that involve both without talking to you first, fix that if it can be before marriage and kids. I know love is blind but sometimes it’s amazing to me how people make it this far with something so fundamental to a relationship flawed.

We got like a Third of the full story. The backstory could have been for his generation to thrive in America and this is how it turned out. He might not make rash decisions like that, but in this particular case he did for his 14 year old brother. She might feel lonely because of the normal struggle of surviving with young children. Her emotions are valid, but don’t immediately demonize the guy.

Um, yeah, there's a lot going on here, and I feel for her that her husband isn't more communicative with her, but his brother is only 17, and kicking him out to be in his own is just wrong. He's going to have to pull up those britches and become an adult quickly, but you don't just kick him out because you're tired of living like that. Get a bigger place, better job, everyone working and saving and make a better life happen.

We don't know what people's situations are. The brother might not have anywhere else to go. Broken family, etc.

5 people one house no biggie. When the Arabs started moving here in Northern Ohio, they'd have like 10 in a house. They were becoming notorious for it

The husband's main commitment needs to be to his wife & kids. Sounds like he didn't give her ANY consideration & probably won't. There was no mention of why his brother had to leave his parent's home when he was 14. The husband grew up with the brother so he's comfortable living with him. The wife just wants her own place where she can "walk around her own home without a bra on" or "walk to the kitchen in her underwear". She wants to feel free at home. Seems like since he's been in the US for a few years so maybe they can set him so that after high school he go AWAY to college or the military or get a regular job so he can live on his own. He can make a choice for his future but those should be presented as his ONLY options. As a future adult, what other choices are there? Adulthood is around the corner.

Thats pretty ridiculous. Family is family.

I moved in with my ex. who had an 11-year-old son. He moved in with us as his birth mother didn't want him. I didn't realise that my boyfriend at the time let the 11 year old run his life to make up for the birth mother not being interested in spending time with her son. Everyone's private life is different in private. I feel for this woman because I think it took alot for her to call and she's probably not going to get a good reception from her husband when she expresses her feelings to move the brother out of her home. People can be so stupid and think that their issues are the most important issues to everyone around them.

I have asked my husband if someone could move in. But when it came to kids I have made a rule that I will raise my siblings kids if their parents were to ever pass before they are adults. My husband agreed. Part of me thinks it's because he knows I would do it no matter what.

Poor woman

Heard about a min of the call and immediately thought - I wonder if husband and wife are of different cultural backgrounds. This is either a difference in CULTURE or VALUES. For the husband - that's his brother and that's the end of the story. He doesn't have to ask because that's his brother, his family and there is only ONE option available to him which is to help his brother. For the wife - she views the nuclear family as the priority and there is no obligation to help siblings or other family members. This is a big distinction between other cultures vs. Western culture and it is unfortunately something she will have to deal with for the rest of her life because she's married to someone outside of her culture. My mother is from another country and my siblings and I are American. The cultural gap is a constant and daily battle.

Brother needs to go. It would be down to it’s him or me. You TELL him brother us not moving with you. Ok wait he’s a minor? Ok once he turns 18 he needs a plan.

When you move to another country you start life over ( generally) unless you are in a niche field of work or a multi millionaire. It takes a year just to learn the language, culture, and systems to the extent to be functional.

It really comes down to communication and different values. Husband needed to communicate this and set up a plan for how long they could take the brother and rules agreed with the wife, then communicate it to the brother. It needs to factor all the parties and done with compassion for this tough situation. On some level though I think it comes does to different values though. If they had similar values it would be a non issue. I don’t think enough people in the comments empathise with the fact the wife also lives in that home and likely pays for it so it should be enjoyable for her too. Raising a child is a HUGE commitment. While he can’t be kicked out they need a plan in place which is discussed in advance and is manageable for all parties! It’s tough.

Woman, you have a frickn townhouse with 6 people. Your BIL is almost a man. Time for baby bird to fly

I’m sorry, but this is the first time I’m disagreeing with John. This isn’t a 35 year old man who is living on their couch and freeloading. This was a 15 year old child who came to live with his big brother (who seems to be his closest/only family in this country)… and now he is a 17 year old kid who she is trying to kick out of her house. If this was me and my husband, and he was trying to kick my little, teenage brother out, I wouldn’t be having it..

people…stop marrying people from other cultures without educating yourselves. This is awful…ridiculous… there are so many benefits to keeping loving family close and to being a resource to the people you love. There are thousands of people online bawling their eyes out about not being able to afford anything in the current climate. I’ve NEVER had that problem and my kids will NEVER have that problem because family is scaffolding and everyone holds up the other. We have a whole bunch of houses with some in one persons name and others in joint names just depending on where the house is. You want to adopt hairstyles from other cultures but not positive values. Feeling uncomfortable with family around is a mindset, a choice.

The husband was wrong to do this to her but it would be very difficult for him to go out on his own at 17. Maybe he can dorm at college and stay with them until this time.

Plot twist the 17 year old saves her life

Why do people keep having kids when they shouldn't

lol and all the immigrant families are like… what’s everyone so upset for? Maaan first world problems… Sorry John typically agree with you but your opinion comes from a position of safety and privilege.. Family is family, if my little brother needed my help this would be a non-discussion

While I am grasping all of this of what she is saying and feeling, and Dr J’s thoughts, but I was expecting this to be a 30 year old drinker deadbeat. This boys age is more like having a foster or adopted child. If they move away the boy will be alone since his mother is in another country. I’d say let him go with and help him get on his feet where they go. Maybe he can earn enough to buy a small trailer he lives in in their back or side yard?!?

I don’t think she will win on this because where will the brother live if his parents are in another country? Unless they pay for him to have an apartment. But he will still be at their house to visit all the time because his other family is not in the country. The husband desire to reunify with his family maybe equal or larger than his marriage to be honest. That’s one of the sacrifices immigrants make to reunify because it takes a while to adjust to a new country so you need support. He might divorce her before kicking the brother out. Maybe she should start using the brother like a family member Eg he has to do chores to earn his living Eg babysitting for them while they does other things. And they need to orient him towards moving out Eg discussing his plans, college etc

I feel like he is biased towards women, and why as soon as she said culture differences he asked her if she was safe? I understand how uncomfortable she may feel but that child has been with her since he was 14 she should of had this conversation years ago and not want to throw out a 17 year old child to the streets, she’s a mom she should have the feeling of wanting to protect him and find solutions it seems she wants him out and that’s it. Did she not form a bond with that kid in all these years? I don’t know there family life but this seemed so off to me.

Doesn’t sound like there is a solution at this time. He’s 17. I guessing he’s in school. And can’t work full time. Until he’s 18 she’s stuck with him.

I don't know..I don't agree with most. My in laws aren't necessarily my fav people...but I would never get mad or ok I would get mad...but I'd take a few hours and think about it. I would understand that they are my husband's family and I h ave to deal with them..period. And the brother is not even 18 and she's mad? That's ridiculous to me but I'm sure someone will say I'm being ridiculous . I'm on the husband's side on this one.

John is pretty much telling her to kick a minor out. This conversation should have been about making a plan to set him up for success on his own.

The comments in this section confuse "brother" and "sister-in-law" for "daddy" and "mommy". That is crazy. His brother needs to go.

communication goes a long way - there has to be an ultimatum at some point no? Maybe help this kid until he's 18th and make sure he has somewhere to go and has a job. Idk, prob easier said than done right.

*at what point can a man make all the decisions? Like if I come to the marriage will 10 million dollars and she has 0 and I want my brother to live with me. Does she have say? It’s easier to replace woman when your alpha male*

Brother should enroll in military.

Weird reach starting at 7:26

There is no universe where entertaining kicking out her immigrant brother who has lived and been part of the family for three years as a minor is ethical. I would be disgusted at my wife is she recommended that he leave. He is SO off base on this one. She’s kicking out her functional child of three years?!?!. GTFO. Disgusting Caucasian culture treating this as even a possibility.

Any man who would abandon his flesh and blood teenage sibling because he's a burden to his life will eventually do the same to his spouse when she becomes a burden to his life. Any woman who would insist that her husband abandon his teenage sibling deserves the man she married.

This dude. Yeah it’s wrong but give a timeline when he has to leave. He always backs up the woman in any situation very biased opinion. Not saying it’s right but she never opened her mouth that’s her fault too. How about give him till the move date to find a place. Then discuss the respect with her husband and decision making. I won’t let a bum sleep at my place family or not but a kid cmon my girls family as well. Same rules, either school/work and respect my gf and our home or ur on the street that day. 3yrs and she never said anything she’s at fault too now it can turn into a major issue w the husband. Not every man commits domestic violence, very sexist toward men, she called for him to move her brother in law out not that she’s in danger. Smh. Exploitation.

Let's see... who said to help the unfortunate? JESUS??? Hummm... you think? Delany, u are pandering.

Since when did it become HER issue that he’s only 17 ! The comments below are absurd… someone else has to be help as well not just them ! They’ve taken this on for 3 years it’s time her kids get a room and they get privacy ! someone else in the fam needs to steps up! Where are his parents !

Wahmen straight selfish. RP LIFE no marriage