I STOOD HIM UP... THEN HE (kind of) DID THE SAME!!? | FIRST DATE GET READY & UNREADY WITH ME #8

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Planning and actually executing a date with one of the guys I'm currently talking to has been quite the struggle... especially in today's dating culture, it's just too easy to make assumptions, cancel last minute, and overall procrastinate new experiences. HOWEVER, he and I were finally able to connect, which means I'm able to present my pre-date jitters and post-dates thoughts with you all ( ᐛ )و
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@emilystrange4694 3 года назад

I don't understand how anyone "feels" anything (other than awkward) when first meeting someone new.

@NiftyGurrl18 3 года назад

Agreed.

@IM26C4UU 3 года назад

too many chick flicks i think

@Saddles_N_Sauvignon 3 года назад

My dad gave me the best advice ever... “Everyone is crazy, pick your crazy.” Or in other words, everyone on this earth has crazy things about them, some crazy is lovable and others is absolutely terrible. So pick the crazy you want to live with the rest of your life. I picked my crazy! Together 12yrs married 5. You’ll find the right one! We met when I was working, I wasn’t even looking to date anyone. I was a bartender in college and he came in with friends to the pub I worked at. So you just never know! Let the universe do its thing!

@samm6114 3 года назад

Love your dad's advice. Glad you found your "crazy".

@myram4818 3 года назад

I did not find my husband attractive when dating, I didnt think he was ugly, just not my type physically. Once I got to know him more that physical attraction slowly came with it and now I am happily married and dont look at other men!

@ukrainianpride100 3 года назад

Same! Mine took me about 4 months of dating. I almost broke it off but glad I didn’t

@mummyminxy 3 года назад

I was exactly the same with mine.. 3yrs later im still with him.. and says something when you can be with someone everyday.. i bet it has tested some relationships with this pandemic.

@chanilin3475 3 года назад

I used to be one of those girls who said "character and personality is the most important, idc about looks". Then a guy told me that i was ugly but i had a great personality and he would love to date me. Ouch. And i was in a relationship for a long time with a guy who didnt think i was very pretty and constantly looked at othet women. I have since changed my mind. I also want my partner to find me at least somewhat good looking and me also finding him attractive. I know it sounds like a bish but constantly hearing from your partner that you are visually not his type etc is super frustrating.

@BRhymesss 3 года назад

Chani Lin it is very strange that they would just tell you that. I think that’s the kind of thing you would keep to yourself until you know if you can get past that or not. I think it is normal to become more attracted to someone the more you get to know them.

@chanilin3475 3 года назад

@@BRhymesss yes that guy clearly missed an opportunity for "when you have nothing nice to say, just say nothing" lol but well he was honest... It still hurts to hear it. I dont need my partner to consider me a topmodel or anything but yes it would be nice if he at least is not ashamed to be seen with me in public and not too disgusted to get physical with me. Thatd why i say now its not just character anymore, the looks need to be okay on both sides

@ashleyrosearc 3 года назад

It was your first date, and it was virtual! Why so much pressure and worry? Talk to him again

@olivialeigh5359 3 года назад

19:25 Aghhh, Cassie! The eye rubbing looks a little too aggressive. I’m sorry, I’m an esthetician. I just want to help. I think if you ditch the Face Halo and just go in with your Drunk Elephant Slaai Cleansing Balm, your skin will be more forgiving later on. Just melt down the makeup with the balm, add water to emulsify, rinse and follow with your cleanser (2nd cleanse).

@37msphoenix 3 года назад

Omg I thought the same, her eye area looked so irritated after. Also not a fan of the Face halo but to each their own

@theyessica1 3 года назад

Yes!!! Listen to her Cassie

@ornelahasa7763 3 года назад

omg yes! I had to look away for a moment. It was so aggressive

@kirasnow4436 3 года назад

Would you say makeup erasers are too rough for the eye area?

@olivialeigh5359 3 года назад

@@kirasnow4436 It depends on how much pressure and tugging is being applied with it. Overall, I’m not a fan. The best way to gently break down eye makeup is with a cleansing balm. Dry application first, then add water. Cleansing balms also contain skin nourishing ingredients. It’s important to be mindful about any skin tugging during cleansing.

@carveylover 3 года назад

I read that they dont put a mirror in so it can be recycled when the palette is done. If they put the mirror in it can not go to a recycling pant. I am not sure if that is Colour pops reasoning but that is why some brands do that.

@theeluannesantos 3 года назад

Yes, I was just going to comment this. It also keeps costs down, but mostly for the recycling

@angelgarlinger6370 3 года назад

I think they leave mirrors out because that makes the palettes cheaper to make.

@lastlove1985 3 года назад

Colourpop is fast makeup I think they dont give af about the environment 😭

@DragonsOfSnow 3 года назад

Exactly. And it just makes it cheaper altogether. Plus I don't need a mirror in every single palette. Most come with them and I rarely ever use them. It's not that difficult to reach for another palette that has a mirror or have a hand held mirror that you like (I have one that I prefer over any of my palette mirrors tbh). Anyway, I just think it's a silly thing to get upset by...most people don't prefer a mirror anyway because they never end up using it.

@carveylover 3 года назад

@@lastlove1985 I wasn't saying they do it for the environment but I know that is why some brands do.

@Haha-hp6bo 3 года назад

Why do you put the foundation all over the eyebrows?

@quackquack185 3 года назад

My ex was 7 years older and acted younger than me. But he was a whole different type of "man" altogether! My current is 3 years older and acts way more mature than the previous. I think it's more about life experiences than age!

@Ani1boo 3 года назад

I met my husband on a blind date and we just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary.

@mybubbles5552 3 года назад

Oh wow! Congrats on your 20th!

@ishtar8725 3 года назад

Well good for you😒

@heatherj9894 3 года назад

These are my favorite kind of videosss, I get so excited when I see the notification 🤗🤗🤗

@ashleyoh9613 3 года назад

Same!!!

@tedoymisojos 3 года назад

I cant with all that rubbing 🥶 I'd suggest you switch to and oil cleanser or balm . Less wrinkles, less irritation

@skaarup33 3 года назад

So she should change her whole routine just because you "can't with all that rubbing"?!?!? You do you and let her do her.

@tedoymisojos 3 года назад

@@skaarup33 It will give her more wrinkles and may cause ingrown hairs. I dont want that for her. But obviously she can do whatever she want 🤷🏽‍♀️ it's obvious, so idk why u expect a comment on that

@alexandram1301 3 года назад

@@skaarup33 stand down this isn’t some slight 🙄 it’s hard to watch her remove her makeup, she is being extremely rough and that contributes to her puffy red eye skin she’s had for years, it’s also prematurely aging her skin, it is hard to watch someone hurt themselves unnecessarily so..

@wendymcmahan1873 3 года назад

I love you Cassie but why oh why are you putting 3 layers of foundation on your forehead?? You don't need that much makeup!

@kateal10 3 года назад

I think she wears way too much of everything. I feel like less would be more in her case. And also it’s soooo pale between the foundation and powder it’s so light

@WeirdMikey 3 года назад

I’ve made this same comment and it falls on deaf ears. I don’t understand how you can test a product fairly when you overuse it to the lengths she does.

@user-vv7nm4le4l 3 года назад

each to their own

@ukrainianpride100 3 года назад

You would understand if you acne, I used to do the same

@kateal10 3 года назад

Juliana B. If you watch any videos with people with acne usually less is more. Caking it on isn’t going to help. You think it does but it makes it look worse. Samantha ravandahl is a perfect example of less is more

@dagmare940 3 года назад

I haven't watched the whole video yet. I want to share that after a few bad experiences and a very bad view on guys, today the guy I met on a dating app asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I don't have many friends who are interested in hearing this so I'll share my joy here. I wish you the same Cassie, and reading the rest of the comments here I'm sure you'll find your mans ❤

@i.cant.sleep.anymore 3 года назад

I love to hear this! Congrats!!!

@KrisyKreme 3 года назад

Aww happy for u 💖

@nelliexlovett 3 года назад

I'm almost 29 and never had a boyfriend. Never had a first anything. Sometimes I feel sad about it, especially during the holidays, but I have a lot of issues to work through, mentally, and I wouldn't want to drag someone I care about through that.

@ajocelynn2860 3 года назад

Mejor solo que mal acompañado💖

@KrisyKreme 3 года назад

Your health & happiness comes first! Don’t worry, your time will come when you’re ready 💖

@GM-xo7yy 3 года назад

Bless you in Jesus' name!

@nowey2251 2 года назад

Sarah same here ! I’m turning 27 and never had a boyfriend and never kissed anyone :( . I’ve had a lot of opportunities and have co workers that have asked me out but one I’m scared because I feel so old too be this inexperienced and I’m afraid of being a bad kissed and doing everything wrong and I’m only getting older 💀 but also I have so much to deal with mental and health wise that I always push every potential partner away. I do want to change that already though I just don’t know how. I wish both of us the best of luck ! And you sharing your comment goes to show that we’re not alone even when we think we are :)

@nowey2251 2 года назад

@@KrisyKreme you’re so nice krystal your comment wasn’t even for me and it made me feel better lol

@Returnofthemackburt 3 года назад

I was so sick and tired of guys my age not having motivation or drive to move forward in their lives and relationships. I happened to meet someone who is 17 years older than me and we hit it off. No games, we motivate each other to reach our goals, both want the same things. Now we’re married and have a little boy. Don’t ever be afraid to step outside of your normal dating preferences, you might be surprised.

@StephieGsrEvolution 3 года назад

My husband is 18yrs older than me. We were acquaintance/buddies for 2yrs before our real 1st date. It's amazing how well it works for us.

@nancyd8031 3 года назад

I totally agree!!!

@lovinglife439 3 года назад

@ Christina Williams My husband is 16 years older than me and we’ve been married over 20 years! He’s my soulmate!!! I’m so blessed. Hang in there, Cassie!

@i.cant.sleep.anymore 3 года назад

@Christina Williams I agree with you.

@StephieGsrEvolution 3 года назад

@Christina Williams it's not for everyone, but love dgaf about age really. As long as it's consenting adults, of course.

@minanna9343 3 года назад

I know it’s a dating vid but the way you treat your eyes 👀 gives me anxiety 😫 I don’t say it to be mean I’m just so concerned with premature wrinkles.

@Crixulescu3 3 года назад

Pleaaaaaaaase stop abusing your eyes 🙈 i get anxiety each time you take makeup off your eyes, it’s way too rough.

@melissanelson1975 3 года назад

I think if you went for a guy in his late thirties early forties you might find a guy with the same wants and needs as you. A guy in his twenties early thirties are usually not looking for serious some are but not many.

@sassynachnicole 3 года назад

I was gonna say the same. Men a little bit older may be more open to something more serious.

@hollywillmsbates7107 3 года назад

Met my husband when he was in his mid 30s. He was the most polite and mature guy I dated. That’s why I kept him :) Met on Match

@878lulu 3 года назад

Yes!! I was going to comment something similar. My husband is 10 years older then me something I never thought I’d go for back in my 20s but it was the best decision ( for me), we had more in common then not and very similar goals in a relationship etc... years later still the best decision I’ve ever made!😊

@Fyrinspector 3 года назад

The first two problems in any relationship are: Miscommunication Lack of discussing financial issues (after dating or getting serious) Two things that totally ruin any relationship. Video chatting does not sound fun at all. It is best to meet in person (when things are better in this world). It is also best to be straightforward honest from the “get go”. The words may sting for a moment or two but they are honest words. The eye makeup removal was painful to watch. Gently treat this tender area a little better Cassie. 😎❤️💄Kathy

@midorisakura1678 3 года назад

About being married and in quarantine .. I think it’s crazy how much I hear about couples realizing how much their significant other drives them crazy and can’t stand to be with them 24/7. I married my best friend, we work together and spend 99% of our time together anyway. 😂 I can’t imagine marrying someone you can’t stand to be around all the time... lol

@k.e.M_ 3 года назад

I agree. I’ve been married for 5 years and 3 kids later, and I love my husband more today than when we first met and fell in love. He always puts me and our kids first and worships the ground I walk on, and that’s how it should be.

@BlindBabeBeth 3 года назад

YES! It really disheartens me to hear about all of these people who can't stand to spend any time with their significant others. I can't imagine not having my boyfriend around all of the time, we enjoy each other's company too much.

@midorisakura1678 3 года назад

I’m glad I’m not the only one! Definitely marry / date someone you love being around 24/7 🙌🏻

@zahraakadhem9913 3 года назад

Cass just some skincare advice here: when you're removing your makeup please be much more gentle with the skin near your eyes! It's very thin and sensitive so to rub it like that will cause premature wrinkles and other damage. It might help to simply apply a makeup remover pad on the area and let it soak up the makeup. :)

@deenhak7424 2 года назад

Yes- I always cringe at how rough she is.

@angiej3127 3 года назад

I personally would never do a video chat date. I know I would be awkward. I think it would be much harder to have a connection that way too (if you have never met in person). It just isn't the same.

@daniellethomas3643 3 года назад

I love these videos! We’re all rooting for you to find your person! ❤️ I was almost 29 and was ready to give up until I met mine at the hospital I work at. I look at it as all the bad ones led me to the perfect one! Yours will come I know it! ❤️❤️❤️

@saffrons12 3 года назад

Thank you for a sharing a glimpse into your love life- I can appreciate the courage it takes to be so open and forthright.

@notversatilevicky 3 года назад

I've been dating someone for 9 months now but before that I was dating off and on for over a decade and all of your experiences are SO relatable! This time last year I had given up on dating but my best friend set up an online profile for me. Turns out she knew what I needed better than I did! I'm so grateful to have found a good one but sending you all of the positive vibes while you're in the trenches!

@GabriellaLopezz 3 года назад

I LOVE these videos. Like I want you to find someone who appreciates you and for you to be happy, but this videos are my favorites 💗 you just seem like the sweetest more genuine person. Never change.

@kolby18 3 года назад

Cassie you CRACKED ME UP this video!!! The very end clip, the “THIS ISNT ABOUT YOU PRESTON”, the clip about the puke bucket and glueing flowers on it at your hypothetical wedding, I LOVE U 🧡

@lejla1016 3 года назад

Hey Cass! 30ish year old here, single for 4 years, and recently decided to start dating again during this “love in the time of Covid” craziness. Ive been talking to a guy for the past 1.5 months and we’ve never met in real life yet. He only lives 20mins away and we will meet soon, but we’ve done all our dates via video chat so far. So I can relate. I thought it was pretty sh!tty that this guy stood you up on the 2nd attempt at a video date. I think that the first time the date plan fell thru was a genuine case of miscommunication (although I’m still sorta skeptical as to why this guy didn’t make sure to confirm the date/time 🙄) But the 2nd time when he postponed the date DAY OF because he decided other plans sounded better?! Come on!! First dates are still first dates, even if via video. Would you have accepted him ditching you the day-of your first in-person date because he wanted to go out with friends?? Being treated with respect and setting boundaries SHOULDNT CHANGE JUST BECAUSE OUR DATING LIVES CHANGED MEDIUMS!! Remember your worth, girl!!

@joannej_Youtube 3 года назад

I was thinking the same thing, lol.

@Shay2theT 3 года назад

I mean, it's not cool, but he tried to see if they could reschedule for later. He didn't just bail. I think that's worth something. I highly doubt it crossed his mind she may have gotten ready for the date. Guys just are clueless sometimes. I'm glad she still gave him a chance. 🤷🏼‍♀️

@cgretam1594 3 года назад

Sherry Tiller when are we going to stop saying “guys are clueless” he’s a grown ass man if you scheduled a date you’re going to expect the person you’re going on a date with to get ready

@lejla1016 3 года назад

Greta M I totally agree with you Greta! We need to stop making excuses for these losers and hold them to the standards that we hold ourselves to! This man is in his 30s... by now he should know how to confirm a date (at least the morning-of at the latest!), and he should know that changing plans HOURS before the first date is inexcusable (except for legitimate reasons, like cases of emergency, which last minute plans of whirly-ball or disk-golf or whatever with the buddies doesn’t meet that threshold). The fact that he tried to “reschedule” the date to 10pm that same evening isn’t effort at all... it’s breadcrumbing... it’s selfish and it’s just him putting in the lowest form of effort to ensure he’s staying relevant to Cassie. And if he is a 30 year old “clueless” man (eye roll as I’m saying that), then fine... he should learn to get a clue, but not at another person’s time or expense.

@Shay2theT 3 года назад

Lejla I totally understand your point with this but it all depends on the kinds of guys you're going for. I've dated a lot of nerdy guys who just aren't experienced daters, not used to receiving much female attention. Some of these guys are the absolute sweetest men ever and will make the right girl super happy but I'm sorry to say, are clueless when it comes to how to impress girls and don't realize how to treat them differently than their bros. It's an immaturity issue for some guys not a deliberate act. Often, they need someone to explain to them how it affects the other person and then they feel like crap. Maybe this guy is a total tool. I'm just saying, I'm glad she didn't write him off immediately because of wanting to do both: talk to her and have fun with his friends.

@alyssajuarez7696 3 года назад

this is a great look!! it came out awesome and your hair looks amazing too!

@kimmikins 3 года назад

I feel you, Cassie. I just haven't bothered with dating apps during this whole pandemic lockdown thing. The dating scene is not what it used to be. Before my ex, dating was easy. And now that I'm back on the market almost 7 years after the breakup, things are way different than what I remember. So, I just keep to myself. The dating world is extremely daunting these days. Maybe once life returns to some semblance of normalcy, I can try dating again.

@nicholechristina9889 3 года назад

Discouraging. That’s the best way to describe these last 8 yrs of dating. I’m burnt out. I don’t invest in anyone anymore. I don’t have much hope left in my reserves to go whole hog in to any single person anymore lol ur not alone tho, it’s frustrating but I keep telling myself - the surest way to end up alone forever is to stop trying.

@sarahstroud6021 3 года назад

Also I had a panic attack and my hubby took me to the hospital on our second date and the next date he had an allergic reaction and broke out in hives😂We laugh so hard about that now!

@roofkorean1 3 года назад

On the second date with my husband I legit broke a tooth and he had to take me to an emergency dentist to get surgery. Talk about mortifying 🤣😂 But here we are 10 years later lol

@kory4579 3 года назад

That sounds like what happened in the movie hitch 😂

@DanielleNicoleMakeup 3 года назад

Haha Sarah, I got food poisoning very early in our relationship. It was awful I literally felt like I was dying on the way to the hospital. Still together and so so happy 15 years later! Talk about breaking the ice lmao!

@ashleyw6457 3 года назад

I love how open and honest you are (and the All-Might shirt. MHA is the best). You’re always so real and I’m so glad that you’re always up front with us. You’re my fave person to watch on RU-vid. Keep your head up! If you ever need to chat I’ve got you girl!

@JenniPowers 3 года назад

Yay I’m happy your going on a date !! But I’m surprised because during your previous live you said you weren’t in the right state of mind to date right now. Has that changed?

@Pandefly 3 года назад

The older I've gotten the more I've dated guys who are younger than me.... my current boyfriend is 2 and a half years younger than me and it's the best relationship I've ever had so age really has nothing to do with compatibility. But the guys who are using a dating app are definitely more likely to fall into stereotypes, I feel.

@xBloodGarnetx 3 года назад

I feel like younger guys get a bad wrap, not all of them are awful and immature, my partner is 4 years younger, we're engaged, have a mortgage and are expecting a bub in October. You just never know.

@RuKi385 3 года назад

Omg this makeup was so beautiful Cassie 😯😯😯 also the half and half?!! Why did this NEVER occur to me?! I'm gonna try this look on myself it looks great 😍

@nickyfransky5443 3 года назад

(Possible) Unpopular opinion: I think your level of emotion and calm is GOOD! Sometimes building up the relationship slowly is better. Less disappointment. My fingers are crossed for you!!!

@katie8099 3 года назад

In my bf’s culture the family like chooses some people and then they can pick from the options. Then there’s like a big family meeting type thing, so yes they meet before. This is in the Middle East. One of my Saudi friend’s sister was secretly involved with someone and she ended up being one of his “options,” so they were able to get married for love but ALSO have it be arranged. The families were NOT happy when they found out after the wedding but since the families approved of them being together, they couldn’t do anything

@ForeverChiTonight 3 года назад

How do you feel about this type of relationships ? I’ve always been curious

@Shay2theT 3 года назад

Haha. That's awesome. Good for them. 😄

@elieve 3 года назад

So sad that these men and families have so much control over women’s love lives. Hope you find happiness and will be able to pick the one you love yourself ❤️

@katie8099 3 года назад

ForeverChiTonight I genuinely think it’s wrong despite understanding the rationale for it. My bf defends it but their culture has a different conception of love than ours. To them, love is more about stability, support, and strengthening family relations. There isn’t much “romantic love” and people don’t date unless they secretly date when they’re international students. It’s so odd to me that his parents were arranged, but they’re somehow so happy together

@csvega 3 года назад

Just focus on you and getting in shape and stuff. I did that for a while and the relationship stuff kinda fell into place

@alexandram1301 3 года назад

I wish she would take this advice

@sd8004 3 года назад

Hi Cassie!! These videos are so fun to watch, it's like I am with a friend💕

@gailfrohnert4230 3 года назад

I’m one of your older viewers... and am in awe of your beautiful makeup talents! Any chance you have videos to show us older ladies how to pull off a similar, but more subtle, look?? I’m “makeup challenged” and need help!!

@joysjourney8013 3 года назад

I zoned out and was thinking about how you were flicking us off when putting your concealer on 😂

@isabelasuhan 3 года назад

You got the best video idea! I LOVEEEE this series 🥰🥰

@toxingreen 3 года назад

You have such a beautiful smile, Cassie! It looks lovely. And despite all the comments on your foundation.. do what you love and do a lot of it. And if that means you love a lot of foundation on you face, then that's totally fine! Stay as you are and don't change for anyone. 💛 Love from Germany!

@d.415y 3 года назад

i luv ur date grwm and i luv gettin ready with u 😭😭 feels like i have a girl to just chill with ❤️

@Birk4me 3 года назад

I would not limit yourself to an age. 40 seems good in my opinion for you. What if the man of your dream is 39 and you are missing him because of a filter?

@sharroon7574 3 года назад

I thought the same thing.

@donnaspell8260 3 года назад

I’m 65 and retired. Married 10 months now & it’s so much better than I imagined. Great guy I’d known a few years but it’s like we suddenly connected. Was alone many years, raised my family after a divorce years ago. So glad I waited.

@Katop1hr 3 года назад

Girlllllll I feel you. I was feelin pretty good about my world up until recently. Great bf, still have a job, etc... turns out my “great bf” of a year and a half.... has been cheating on me the entire time. So here I am, single again.

@SabrinaHawk 3 года назад

I love how these videos end in your bed, I feel like we are at a sleep over dishing out all the 411 on what’s going on and such

@MissNicoleee20 3 года назад

I came for the makeup on her channel a year ago but now I love watching her dating chronicles little mini series 😂

@salem5953 3 года назад

I physically cringed at that amount of foundation

@dadaeueu6076 3 года назад

oh yeah same

@B12AE 3 года назад

Me too and its too pale

@skaarup33 3 года назад

@@B12AE she is pale to start with.

@skaarup33 3 года назад

Criticize much?!?!?

@salem5953 3 года назад

@@skaarup33 There is nothing wrong with critic as long as it's not vicious.

@samanthafriend1925 3 года назад

Oh yay I love these get ready with me 🥰🥰🥰

@alejandraanguiano8172 3 года назад

Cassie uploads always make my day! 🤗

@fortytwocrayons3485 3 года назад

These colors are amazing on you!!

@fortytwocrayons3485 3 года назад

Actually I think its good you said you didn’t want to talk later than originally planned. I don’t like that he tried to squeeze your video date in after his friends. Keep doing what you do and things fall into place 🌟✨🌟

@megtcollins 3 года назад

I like the half and half (brown to black) liner! Perhaps you've done that before, but I haven't been watching long. You have great eyeshadow skills and I enjoy listening to you talk. Hope you find your person soon.

@theeluannesantos 3 года назад

I love the eye look you did! I’m going to have to steal it from you 🤣 I don’t use the So Jaded palette enough, it’s gorgeous! I’ll use it the next time I do my makeup. Unfortunately it’s not very often these days.

@leeannhales7222 3 года назад

I met my now hubby on plenty of fish 9 years ago! He was actually the only guy I met in person! 9 years later, married with 3 babies! He's out there girl, I promise you! You deserve all the happiness in the world! Love your videos and you!💕

@jolex8131 3 года назад

I also met mine On POF, We just celebrated our 7th Anniversary ♥️ Congrats !!

@leeannhales7222 3 года назад

@@jolex8131 that's so awesome! Thank you and Congrats to you as well!💕😀

@beckymarie8720 3 года назад

Ive taken a break from dating during this whole quarentine. I'm old fashioned I want to date in person face to face on our first date. great video girl!

@juanitawinter7319 3 года назад

Your match is out there. Like you said, just keep an open mind and see how things play out! Love you gorgeous!!😉

@invisible3972 3 года назад

I'm just 22 and since some years ago I feel like I'm unable to love anyone or anything. It's really weird to remember how I used to be someone so passionate and all the beatiful things I was able to do thanks to it, but after a tremendous loss it's like my heart has become an iceberg. I'm not desperate to date (loneliness isn't a problem for me) but I really do miss the past me because I used to be so alive... Sometimes I think about the possibility of a special someone "resurecting" myself but since I can't even feel atraction I don't wanna try and hurt somebody innocent. It is normal to feel this way?

@shopdreamyhaven 3 года назад

I love these first date videos! I binged watched all of them a few weeks ago when I was about to go on my second first date ever (and the first one in years) because I was soo nervous and it was comforting watching you be nervous too haha! As far as bad dates that turn into something good go - my co worker had dated a guy and their second date went sooo bad (turns out his belt broke mid date and he was trying to hold his pants up the whole time omg) and she wouldn't have gone on another date with him had her mom not convinced her to give him another chance. 5 years later they're married! :)

@annamwhitney 3 года назад

These are my favvvvv videos thank you for sharing ❤️

@dindaire 3 года назад

AHHHHH, I'm so excited for you Cassie!

@thriftthick 3 года назад

lol don't get too excited until you've seen the whole video.... but thank you!!

@ashleymarissa9875 3 года назад

Ahhh yayyy!! I loveeee these types of videos 🥰🥰😊 you’re beautiful ☺️

@user-id7mx6fh3n 3 года назад

Honestly, I am super glad I have my husband to go through this weird time together. And I’ve been loving the extra time we get to spend together, I will definitely miss that part when it’s all over.

@RhondaBlanchard 3 года назад

Your first make up look was gorgeous!! ♥️

@diakim753 3 года назад

i love these videos of yours

@Eyviee 3 года назад

Me and my boyfriend met through playing World of Warcraft together. First time we met late December last year. He lives in the UK and I'm in Sweden so you can imagine it hasn't been easy during this pandemic. We didn't see each other for 4 months. Now I'm planning on moving there. I'm so excited. Never been this sure before in my life. He really is my person :>

@heidimarie6312 3 года назад

I haven't dated in over 16 years so I can't even imagine how hard it is these days. I love that you don't settle for less than you want or deserve. Also, broaden your horizons and try seeing what the older men have to offer. I'd suspect that an older man might be a good fit for you. You are an old soul and an older man can appreciate that. Good luck, girl! XOXO.

@jmelynn87 3 года назад

Love first day get ready/unready videos. I’m officially single as I broke up with my bf of 5 years, no worries I’m ok with it but we still live together so no dating for me til we have our separate places and I’m ok with that. I am more focused on me for once, and I’m definitely looking forward to just working on myself. I’m sorry this date didn’t go as well, hopefully the next one is better! 😊

@avocadoesque 3 года назад

I love these videos! Thank you for sharing your Bumble journey with us! lol

@j9email73 3 года назад

Oops...woke up the husband from laughing, "This isn't about YOU PRESTON!". Girl, you're always cracking me up!! 😄😅🤭❤💕💕

@megindoee9073 3 года назад

I love you so much Cassie. My love story- We knew eachother in High school, I never felt those special feelings towards him, then we reconnected after high school about 10 years later and we've been together almost 3 years now, sometimes you don't feel those feels at first. I do hope the best for you, you deserve love and happiness

@hannahsmith6366 3 года назад

I know you said you’re iffy about a 10 year age difference but my man and I are 10 years apart (I’m 22 and he’s 32) and it’s the best, healthiest, happiest relationship we’ve both ever been in! You never know until you try :)

@shannonk9435 3 года назад

Always a fun video! Dating during this time must be so weird! You looked beautiful!

@hannahmarie7486 3 года назад

I love these videos! I’m single and I’ve tried the dating apps and I just can’t get into it. I find it so weird and unnatural to me..I dont know why?? but I’m at the point where I’m basically done with the apps and if I find someone one day in life I would be happy either way. I get teased at work for it but I’m happy single and being an independent woman. 💁🏼‍♀️🤍

@MaricaIvica 3 года назад

what are you going to do in daily life, to meet more men?

@sarahrose9142 3 года назад

I totally feel you Cassie, the age thing is so weird! My boyfriend is 6 years older than me (He's 31 and I'm 25) but yet EVERYTHING about him seems younger! At first I was looking forward to dating an older guy, but after I met him I realized how goofy and youthful he is; it's crazy! I love him so much but geez, I think what they say about the maturity level of guys is true! 😂💞

@IamCatharineStevens 3 года назад

10pm to chat is too late. Cmon Cassie

@23456JY 3 года назад

Hi Cassy! I also am dating but using the CMB app here in Singapore! Technically, while in dating phase we say it is different from going steady. Once going steady then when both breakup, we call it “breakup”. If dating phase, technically “breakup” I think we say it as “no longer meeting”

@underthemooon 3 года назад

I lol'd when you told your pillow Preston off, so thanks for that

@daddyshrek9711 3 года назад

I hope these dudes learn how to appreciate you more❤️ you’re beautiful

@mikaylavelasquez8379 3 года назад

I love these videos so much

@joannesouthern5171 3 года назад

I really couldn't help but laugh when it cut to you singing Another One Bites The Dust lol.. joke to oneside, hope you find all you want in life, you're an awesome person xx

@ameesully3673 3 года назад

Cassie, will you review the Nars Soft Matte foundation if you haven’t already? Really curious to see what you think!

@reananclark 3 года назад

As an Aussie, it’s hilarious to hear you discussing that train wreak!

@papermoonchild 3 года назад

In some cultures, families do let their betrothed children meet first in their getting to know phase. Usually with both families present. Which there will be the courtship phase as well, the guy bringing gifts, and other things to impress not just the girl but also the girl's family. In other cultures, the bride and groom do not see each other until the actual wedding ceremony or even their wedding night. The courtship was conducted by the respective families. So it varies.

@sarahp8937 3 года назад

Ugh the way we do ‘dating’ now with apps and such.. we have more options than ever but seems difficult to meet people. Especially now with social distancing! I feel for anyone trying to connect to people in these strange times ❤️

@zoezalich1472 3 года назад

I love all of your videos!

@Oh-us9tm 3 года назад

These are my fav videos of yours ☺️

@jess-tu6jc 3 года назад

Yeah, I was pretty positive my first date with my husband was a one night stand but now we're married and expecting our first baby 🤷‍♀️

@theresamahle6018 3 года назад

What was that eye makeup removal creme you used? And the face round?

@KuwaitiHabibi 3 года назад

In Kuwait “arranged couples” are engaged for three months to one year max and then they get married if they like each other.

@CurliesCuriosites 3 года назад

Don't give up! I met my hubby when I was anti relationship and we just had our 11 year anniversary. Off topic question, we have such similar hair have you ever considered doing the curly girl method?

@newlife8610 3 года назад

I AM in the same situation as you are!! Trust me, dating after 55 is nothing but a shot in the dark & not in a good way. 🙃🙃🙃

@claireisacamel 3 года назад

My hubs got deployed the day after Valentine’s Day, so I anticipated “being alone” for the most part this year anyway, then the pandemic happened haha it was actually a kind of blessing in disguise, because I didn’t have to deal with quite as much social obligation when I actually just wanted to spend time alone haha

@brynb1325 3 года назад

Well.....the eye look was absolutely stunning

@chantefuller6665 3 года назад

What do you use to remove your eye makeup?

@leahmcintosh8557 3 года назад

Dying about the mafs aus reference 🤤🤤

@larissahostetter2335 3 года назад

Sometimes the physical attraction can grow when his personality shines, but yeah there was a couple times I gave someone a chance, cause thats who I am, and it just didn't click. Well my attraction to the 2 guys didn't click. You try, but sometimes it just doesn't happen. And no I just said I wasn't ready yet and missed my single life.