I was his punching bag for four years and he tried circumcising me with his teeth- Carole | Tuko TV

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I was his punching bag for four years and he tried circumcising me with his teeth - Carole | Tuko TV
When Carole Maritim eloped with the man she thought was the love of her life at 21, no one would have told her the same "Tall, Dark and Handsome" man as she calls him, would turn heartless and openly beat her mercilessly in front of her children.
At one point, he even wanted to circumcise her using his teeth saying she was not a "proper" woman. But one day she decided enough was enough
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@Tuko 4 года назад

What message do you have for Carole and for anyone in an abusive relationship? If you would like to share your story with us, please send us an email at news@tuko.co.ke , lyn.ngugi@tuko.co.ke or Whatsapp us on 0732482690

@caroleobadha681 4 года назад

Strong girl...it is like she was narrating my story. I left 10 yrs ago and am now happy.

@sarahruth1718 4 года назад

I can Relate at 25 in abusive relationship i looked 50. Left for 20yrs ago. Am Almost 50.. and i look 20. Glory to God

@Fm-MornStar2014 4 года назад

I'm a Sociologist and I can feel & understand this lady very well. This 'soldier-husband' might have some psychological condition resulting from not getting 'war-aftermath' counselling. I wish Tuco could bring the other side of the story.

@christinegakure882 4 года назад

@@Fm-MornStar2014 stop making excuses

@Fm-MornStar2014 4 года назад

@@christinegakure882 re-read my comment. Just a speculation, no bad, that's why I requested to hear from the other side.

@janicerobbie1768 4 года назад

Wale wa Kilimani tuwache like hapa😍she is so pretty

@vitsalu4294 4 года назад

Kerubo Janice tuko hapa 😆

@scholahmghoi5872 4 года назад

I can remember her story in kilimani group ,kudos to her

@salmanamianga9868 4 года назад

Niko hapa

@lizzienabiswa 4 года назад

Very

@tonyamara4563 4 года назад

This channel is brainwashing women into modern feminism. Always painting men in the bad light. We very well know there is always two sides of a story. Women are great liars she will narrate how she was mistreated yet can't say even one thing she did wrong. Ohh so let's assume this lady here is an angel she has never hurt a fly..all this is bullcrap. I was raised by a single mother and I hate my mum for not letting me get fatherly love from my dad. This woman reminds me of my hypocrite mum who used to torture my dad both verbally and mentally till he hit her. My dad once told me my son one day you will be a man and you will know the truth. As we speak I got a job and it's my dad who connected me to it. On the other hand my mum dated many men after my dad and all her relationships failed. She was always sad and miserable always resentful. She tried to poison us into hating my father but deep down I knew she was an evil woman. My dad re married and looks younger than my mum who is still miserable and ill. I was glad to move out of that house it was so toxic all the women who congregated there after my dad left talking I'll about him. I hate AL my aunties from my mums side, my small sis has also moved out of that sad house. I want to tell this to all women,once you leave your husband the happiness will be short-lived all the friends who supported you to leave your marriage will leave you and you will die miserable and alone. KEEP ON WITH YOUR FEMINISM AND DIE ALONE AND MISERABLE

@faithmemo1 4 года назад

Don't misunderstand single mother you don't know what they comes through before they decide to be single

@mwariwanjeri9391 4 года назад

Well said

@judynyambura8889 4 года назад

Kabsa tulipitia mengi

@janenjenga5639 4 года назад

Very true

@hellenahjohnson9661 4 года назад

Tell them ooh

@inspiremotivatekenya2286 4 года назад

True only the wearer of the shoe knows

@thenetwork1045 4 года назад

Lyn kindly be showing people the pictures of those men so that other women would avoid them kama unaagre gonga like apo

@everlynengoto1793 4 года назад

I agree

@joycegatambia5733 4 года назад

It would be unfair bcoz we have not heard the man's side of the story.

@oniekurira6588 4 года назад

Joyce there is really not much to hear from the man really, no excuse whatsoever for bashing your wife, he even was reported to police, he is just a jerk period.

@teshthemjs6554 4 года назад

Yeah I agree with you

@jacobmalova4891 4 года назад

Not really necessary, pple change 'mui hua mwema'...if the man can change then he will be couragious enough to come out & tell the truth

@dorcuskencey6816 3 года назад

I can relate to you! I was raised with a step mum,dad and my step siblings. I got pregnant at the age of 17, *I admit I made a mistake at that time* my dad didn't want to see me at all,no one wants to defend me or talk on my behalf to my dad so that he could allow me to stay. I ended up marrying the father to my kid who was going on with his studies in high school. At there homestead, I became a maid,I used to work so that I could please everyone....😔, And I learnt how to cook over there..... later as months goes on my kid were also growing up and I decided I'd leave there and better myself.....I didn't want to look like 30's or 40 when I was still under 20's *back then......* Then the worst happened, when the father/that guy forced himself on me,,,😢 they know you have no where to go...... they'll take advantage of you at any given time.......you feel 💔 and down but you have no one to talk with so you just zip it in and eats you up..... *People always ask,how can husband rape his own wife?* They do,I can assure that,I've gone through that and worst... is when you end up getting pregnant from it💔😡 After that,I planned how I could leave that homestead, *I was done with everything,maid thing,being used as garbage pit,* my kids were both walking and I knew it was fine for me to think about myself....but before that I was kind of hesitating many times until we had a fight..... *That fight really OPENED my eyes wide* I left my kids for a year,got stable job and I took my 2 lovely girls who are now teenagers...... since 2007 I have never seen him (the father to my kids) and I'm very much ok with it,,he moved on with his life *(After trying to do the impossible to get me back which it couldn't even happen, I had decided and that was it)* *As single mum of 2 teenage daughters,we are very happy with our 3 family,I work hard for them, pay all bills on my own, both kids are studying in boarding, currently they're being home schooled,I bought a piece of plot in kondele, kisumu,I'm from Western Province,my biggest wish is to see that I've managed to built on it, which I'm planning next year God willingly.* *PROBABLY IF I COULD STILL BE IN THAT STUPID MARRIAGE, I COULDN'T HAVE KNOWN MY OWN WOMAN STRENGTH AND BE ABLE TO BETTER MYSELF THIS FAR*

@onlythebrave4655 3 года назад

Bless you darling

@ngaiziwezebbykatuuo3314 3 года назад

Brave mama

@elizabethmwaura5954 3 года назад

You are a brave woman and you will build and even do more

@inspireasoulchangealife6198 3 года назад

Iron lady! May God keep being present and your biggest support system in life. Congratulations

@Haustine3507 3 года назад

Mungu akulinde

@drazenmusichi4563 4 года назад

Wueh, that guy must be regretting how beautiful she has become after the break up, sahii anatamani re match lkn ataionea Viusasa.

@wanjirukarago9308 4 года назад

She's so beautiful now than when she was in marriage...peace is expensive only you who can go find nobody will bring it for you....she is now at peace one can see .

@janenjenga5639 4 года назад

Kabisa

@sophiespira6367 4 года назад

I hope he doesn't come back to kill her the way soldiers kill their wives and they are never sent into the gallows... They go scot free. Girl should be careful. Praying for her.

@neemakrekamoo4789 4 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@sylviemorgan9770 4 года назад

U notice that too😀👍🏿

@magarematara8919 4 года назад

She looks young and beautiful than when she was in marriage.

@ifgodsayyes.nobodycansayno1796 4 года назад

KABISA UMEGONGA NDIPO

@WanjiruMuya 4 года назад

Nobody talks the pain children go through when their mother decides to stay in a toxic marriage😢😭kids hurts the most💔💔

@nancyruoruo1025 4 года назад

Their mind get destroyed and can affect they future choices

@chocolateblended 4 года назад

Thank you so much for this comment. I grew up in such a home. My dad would beat my mom for no reason. My brother was the one to try and separate them when he was around. My father would beat us kinyama for something so small. When he wasn't around it was like, now we can finally exhale. School was my solace. I hate my father for being abusive and resentful for my mother for never leaving. My older sister is now enamoured by abusive men. No one talks about the kids how it affects us. Living in a house with a terrorist

@princessshamim6539 4 года назад

@@chocolateblended my father was abusive too 😭😭😭

@chocolateblended 4 года назад

@@princessshamim6539 I'm sorry to hear that sis.

@carolinenjoroge9351 4 года назад

@@nancyruoruo1025 am one of those children! I got cptsd! Am 30, my dad is a malignant narcissist

@santakironji9054 4 года назад

It just reminded me of my past.the day i decided to walk out that was the beginning of new things in my life. I was called barren now am a mum to a three yr old handsome boy..Mungu aitwe Mungu..

@isabellakarimiwilke7806 4 года назад

Amen Siz

@santakironji9054 4 года назад

@Cathie Kahura nop

@inspiremotivatekenya2286 4 года назад

Woow congrats

@fabyscarl 4 года назад

Amen 🙏

@marykalondu848 4 года назад

Wow....congrats dear

@masibosvlogmasibos9738 4 года назад

Never be a slave in the name of children

@DK_Burner 4 года назад

You're very right but sometimes it happens and i feel sorry those who"re in that position now and those who were before

@janenjenga5639 4 года назад

Very true

@kinglemuel8241 4 года назад

Kabisa

@dellakenyangirl5271 4 года назад

Agreed

@olivianamureme9363 4 года назад

Amen

@krystynaha2455 4 года назад

I went through the same relationship but I felt guilty coz the guy was an orphan..... mine used to tell me "Beba zako uende kwenu.... I decided to become stupid not until he hit me with a kettle which had hot water that I was boiling to make my kid's porridge , I was lucky that the electricity was deem .... ni mungu tu , sometimes I ask myself what if the water had boiled???? I still stayed while planning to move on until one morning when he slapped me just coz my kid misplaced the remote .... nilitoka bila kurudi nyuma ....am now a happily single mum.

@jessibaraza9238 4 года назад

Krystynah A pole sana dear 😢

@jacklinendinda6571 4 года назад

Strong woman

@santosodhiambo1240 4 года назад

Pole sana

@cskinny1864 4 года назад

You strong

@beriahbarua2152 4 года назад

Pole sanaa u r a strong lady, u made a good decision by stepping out

@ms.selina65 4 года назад

I saw her on fb and thought it was a scam..I actually thought she was using her mum's pics as her Before...Woi marriage issa scam...She's so pretty

@terrynjamiu908 4 года назад

Parents please accept ur divorce daughters from their marriages.....better divorced than a dead child

@consolatawamatu4549 4 года назад

That's true,

@ceciliakaari782 4 года назад

consolata wamatu but the problem is pressure from the society..the way they view you after you run away from your marital home due to abuses and torture. Some women opt to die at home rather than face the societal pressure.

@consolatawamatu4549 4 года назад

@@ceciliakaari782 do not worry about the society each and everyone has his/her own life. The society will talk where we like it or not, and a time will come they will keep quiet when they see your life has changed to blessing, it's better to quit because that's not the end of the world, go start anew life,

@sharonmakungu9185 4 года назад

@@ceciliakaari782 u didnt get married bcoz of the society.furthermore these things do happen everyday everywhere .so u wont be the first nor the last.rem also if u r killed u will be blamed for staying in that relationship .so its your life and only u know what u going thru.

@terrynjamiu908 4 года назад

@@consolatawamatu4549 pamoja

@motshedisimohlahloe1018 3 года назад

my name is mpho from south africa,im in a process of divorce with my abusive husband,we were married for 7years,the day he broke my nose thats when i started planning to leave him.and i thank God that he blessed me with a job a week after he moved out..he is also a soldier by the way

@nancygatitu7715 3 года назад

Move on dear, God has a good plan for our lives. You will make it, with God all things are possible

@naomiakoth2958 4 года назад

Even me my husband could tell me Sasa wewe ukitoka hapa utaenda wapi, one day I decided to call it quit and here I'm I thank God for this far he has brought me

@carolinenjoroge9351 4 года назад

They're like demons

@lilianchybire9610 4 года назад

Pole Naomi, God is faithful through it all.

@inspiremotivatekenya2286 4 года назад

Pole jaber

@happysoul5356 4 года назад

@simply pash you think everything comes on a silvery Plate

@marylisabobo7113 4 года назад

Please be tagging pictures of those men so that no other woman goes through the same thing

@kisembosafina4209 4 года назад

yrscof course

@damamom6868 4 года назад

Yes

@joanmwangi5624 4 года назад

No need coz some women will say u failed as a woman, n they think they are the best

@jkkamonya 4 года назад

@@joanmwangi5624 thats when you let then go and see if they have the magic wand. They can say you failed; you failed to live your best life, but never failed to save your life. I think thats an great fail Joan, right?

@VanNyaimbo 4 года назад

Marylisa bobo no need, remember he is the father of their children.

@winnieachieng2764 4 года назад

Most women who look aged they r not old at all. Frustration n stress can beat life out of anyone..... People r just breathing... Not living life to the fullest.

@rodahndulu5924 4 года назад

Mother's in law !! Rem that if you have a girl child one day she will get married what u do to ur daughters inlaw expect same to be done to them and may be worse

@maureenmamagift 4 года назад

True

@nyamburamatanda 4 года назад

Sp true look at her before. Two different people!!!!stress huzeesha wamama

@terrynjamiu908 4 года назад

Hapo umenena

@gruendlichmummy4083 4 года назад

Aki you are right I've seen many and when they get comfortable and meet them again you can't believe it

@KidCrowder 4 года назад

Domestic violence should be declared a national disaster in Kenya and dealt with accordingly

@janenjenga5639 4 года назад

Really

@KidCrowder 4 года назад

@@janenjenga5639 Ooh so what happened to her was a good thing? and you hear so many cases like these families fighting and killing each other yet the perpetrators get away with it...

@nm90halisi 4 года назад

How will it be declared when the dimwits are concentrating with bbi

@mariniafrikamashariki5455 4 года назад

@@nm90halisi sad

@tsongamadetheowdenburg3085 4 года назад

KidCrowder Not only in Kenya, in Tanzania and the USA too.

@blatherbosire5638 4 года назад

Lynn you really have good journalism skills, letting someone speak out her heart .

@tedigital6328 4 года назад

True. She doesn't try to outshine the interviewee unlike other socialites. And she is so relatable and empathetic

@Probity100 4 года назад

Best Kenyan tv interviewer. The rest just ask questions then don’t give their guests time to reply and talk over them. Kelele kama empty mikebes. Lynn keep it up.

@freestaressymusic 4 года назад

She must have done some Counselling...

@LeshaoL 4 года назад

I agree .. her skills are out of this world .. so humble

@keyjoh2971 4 года назад

This should be a tv station....we should have our own citizen tv

@yeawhatever6178 4 года назад

And there are people out there who judge single mothers...

@achatwithgoitse 4 года назад

At least now things are coming into the open. We must really TAKE OUR TIME to get married like she said, and never be desperate for it. Amen

@marisafaith9975 4 года назад

Mostly a hidden form of misogyny always the women's fault. Don't listen to those guys they just have issues with their mom it's quite funny. Instead of moving on, here they are....

@gracekuria5053 4 года назад

God, you look old caro while you were in that marriage ,but now it's like you are on early 20s. Wacha Mungu aitwe Mungu

@janenjenga5639 4 года назад

Very true

@muiruridayo 4 года назад

that is what stress does to people.

@derrickakala802 4 года назад

Na shetani aitwe shetani

@veronicahkelvins1137 4 года назад

I remember wangu pia aliniwekea 1k kwa meza ati niede but sikueda hio siku vile alirudi akaniuliza sasa wewe unaweza eda wapi Lakini siku moja nikasema enough is enough Since 2006 hadi leo tuko poa na waschana wangu wawili I thank God

@abdullmalik7847 4 года назад

Wapuzi sana wana ume

@dorcuskencey6816 3 года назад

Hata mimi since 2006,I've never seen my kids father,my girls wako poa sahii they're teenagers.

@eunicendungu8868 2 месяца назад

Huggs mami

@eunicevwamula8545 4 года назад

I was also a punching bag for 11yrs before i opened my eyes. In the name of my kids and what society will say

@cskinny1864 4 года назад

Sorry, stay strong dear

@MM-gv3dz 4 года назад

Your kids will thank you for having the courage to leave an abusive marriage. I always wished that mother would have left my dad. And society can go to hell.

@kevinwachira4617 4 года назад

Real men don't hit women that man was a coward.

@Godschild1277 4 года назад

Very true... We need more men like you Kevin... Big up...

@winfredwanjiru4638 4 года назад

True just look at the way she is beautiful aki,that guy lost a gem

@nanimkenya1015 4 года назад

it depends

@mimsbaibe6mimsgul737 4 года назад

Double sure

@nancyruoruo1025 4 года назад

Wachira big up

@roseletsworkinpjs1427 4 года назад

Aki she looks so happy and confident now. Plus she looks much younger.

@Michaeljj2 4 года назад

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-rYH-4_9Dq9g.html check this one

@berylmoige4521 4 года назад

She is the reason why am still strong today, I love you my friend, So sweet,so pretty amd intelligent, wishing you all the love and hugs. WOMAN OF STEEL

@nyarombejoan2600 4 года назад

That marriage was toxic she looked so old but now she looks so young and beautiful

@rechoshaby3843 4 года назад

Hahahaha

@nm90halisi 4 года назад

25:39 never rush into marriage. The wisest statement ever made. I always hate how the society keeps forcing people into marriage as if it is the paramount thing.

@nampijjanazifah6358 3 года назад

No one forced her but just she go a wrong person. I have seen those who marry at 30+ but still divorce... so it's about who you meet. Am happy she moved out that hell.

@ibraqhimosman8670 4 года назад

Those people in the comment section saying aty she must have deserved what she got I say shameee on youuuu There is no reason to raise a hand on a woman No excuse for domestic violence

@muthoniwanjohi1842 4 года назад

Nani hao aki.. I've come to learn of the power of the toungue. Some things you don't speak about aimlessly coz you attract them.... Have empathy

@rahmamohamed1253 4 года назад

Very true

@A28CB 3 года назад

Many of these individuals are victims of domestic violence or they are the abusers. They don't know any better.

@zoey2635 4 года назад

"Curse is a man beating his wife daytime and at night wanting to sleep with her" prophet Mohamad

@zoey2635 4 года назад

@T C goes either ways

@marjorierushie7737 4 года назад

And on the other hand he married a child. Hmmm......

@zoey2635 4 года назад

@@marjorierushie7737 so

@mariniafrikamashariki5455 4 года назад

@@zoey2635 he was a fool

@amiinanas8120 4 года назад

Pbuh

@BillysFamily 4 года назад

That mother in law will reap what she did . May the Lord give you a heart to bless them . Even though they did you wrong . Thank you for so much inspiration

@Ijusthavequestions 4 года назад

Billy's Family I was looking for someone else who was going to comment about that part. Phew! I just needed one person to mention that lol.Thank you. I was hoping I wasn't the only one who considered that angle of her story because that aspect is an underlying trend with many domestic abuse stories that I have heard.

@judymwende6712 4 года назад

Mashetani za watu

@nimoras 4 года назад

I faced the same for 3yrs but when I made the decision I applied for passport n came to gulf n tht how I was able to heal 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿I remember he helped pack my things n told me that najua utarudi tu 😢 but I thank God hady WA Leo 7 yrs down the line am stronger everyday

@marggiewangigi7811 4 года назад

Keep strong dea💪💪🔥🔥👌👌 hugs from Qatar.

@richmontanna7934 4 года назад

I really hate my fellow men when they torture a woman, ts hard n tough to stay in such relationship. Poleni wanawake

@nimoras 4 года назад

@@marggiewangigi7811 thank swthrt ❤️

@nimoras 4 года назад

@@richmontanna7934 thank you 🙏🏿

@westheraystar589 4 года назад

Mamake ras..ata mimi nlisaidiwa kupack thinking i will come back crawling..never looked back

@lizziepalmers7561 4 года назад

This reminds me of my ex boyfriend, abusive, violent, rude 😂😂😂i had to quit though bado ananifuata na matusi ndogo ndogo..... Currently I'm happy

@immahnyambuh9244 4 года назад

Same here

@henryzayef9650 3 года назад

Ati bado anakufuata. Mbona unamuachia mamba yako.

@nancygatitu7715 3 года назад

Stay happy Liz

@fabuloussham1139 4 года назад

Ladies in abusive relationships please after watching carol's story pack your bags and leave, there's a huge difference now btn a married carol of those days and the single carol now. Its a pity and pain for what men do to people's young beautiful daughters.

@sankarakabala74 4 года назад

🤣🤣🤣😁😀😀😀😀😀

@marisafaith9975 4 года назад

@@sankarakabala74??

@nicholasotieno4666 4 года назад

my mum always reminds me when I decide to marry never in my life lift my hand on a woman but when frustrated take a walk, find your space and cool down when you get back assume nothing happened, this will always leave the woman with lots of guilt, s that she learnt this from late dad for the 45 yrs they stayed together.

@wangash6144 4 года назад

Same here Mimi husema My son ntamshow Mwanamke hapigwi na kiboko, cz I know the pain nishai chapwa mbele ya side chick so painful

@nicholasotieno4666 4 года назад

@@wangash6144 bitter truth dear.

@Ijusthavequestions 4 года назад

Nick Niick please elaborate. What if you the guy/man/husband was on the wrong? Should she feel guilty for your mistakes as well or just hers? How is this effective in conflict resolution?

@nicholasotieno4666 4 года назад

@@Ijusthavequestions for sure it cost nothing to say am sorry that it won't happen again , any human being with sense will understand this.

@Ijusthavequestions 4 года назад

Nick Niick I know and got what you meant from the first comment. Was just curious to see if it's a balanced system of conflict resolution and not just one sided.

@heartsatry4280 4 года назад

I started a group on marital rape on Facebook didn't get a good feed back so I went m.I.a the courage she has of telling her story is incredible,most of us just sink into depression and later die

@achiengcaroline5920 4 года назад

Kenyan women still suffer in silence just to stay in marriage.

@lornawamuyu7603 4 года назад

Don't give up, maybe someone was encouraged or related to your story. I pray you find your healing 😊

@easeuprelaxationmusic4590 2 года назад

What's the name of the page I join

@constantdealeu2862 4 года назад

I am really sad, how did women circumcision becomes a culture in Africa.

@yvonnegoodgridge6693 4 года назад

MOST OF THESE PEOPLE ARE BACK WARDS EVEN WITH SCHOOLING AND EDUCATION THEY STILL LIVE BACKNIN TIMES. THEY WILL DO ANYTHING TO MAKE A WOMAN AND KIDS LIVE IN FEAR . THE MOTHER IN LAWS AND FAMILY MEMBERS ARE 12 TIMES AS BAD. RELIGION AND SOME CULTURES ARE THE DEVIL SATAN

@achatwithgoitse 4 года назад

@@yvonnegoodgridge6693 looks like this narcisism thing runs in families

@lmashua 4 года назад

C C D it originated from Egypt Pharoah used it as a way of punishing women and controlling their sexuality

@jeicollins1673 4 года назад

@@yvonnegoodgridge6693 BS.. take your medications..

@jeicollins1673 4 года назад

it has been a culture for centuries just like any other culture out there..it had a reason and a purpose but in modern times its not useful. some cultures still do it, for their own reasons.

@nancyruoruo1025 4 года назад

Navumilia juu ya watoto😭😭😭......he use to mistreats me to because I was an orphan to😭😭😭😭😭but orphans is better tujikubali in any situation comes in our lives

@Tuko 4 года назад

I was his punching bag for four years and he tried circumcising me with his teeth - Carole | Tuko TV

@giftdandb8463 4 года назад

Nice story but it would have been more interesting if only she could explain more in English for easy understanding.

@giftdandb8463 4 года назад

Or better still subtitle the part she speak in ur native language

@jeicollins1673 4 года назад

@@giftdandb8463 in kenya, swahili is national language and english becomes optional

@phylliswangechi9003 3 года назад

Hatutaki hio music

@KKE1978 4 года назад

She aged really well even though she has gone through hell. She is gorgeous. Good for her.

@Tuko 4 года назад

When Carole Maritim eloped with the man she thought was the love of her life at 21, no one would have told her the same "Tall, Dark and Handsome" man as she calls him, would turn heartless and openly beat her mercilessly in front of her children. At one point, he even wanted to circumcise her using his teeth saying she was not a "proper" woman. But one day she decided enough was enough

@yvonnegoodgridge6693 4 года назад

God bless and protect her and the kids

@kelvinmarsh2249 4 года назад

some men though the photos shows like she is 100yrs, kuna mdada fulani alipitishwa manyanyaso akiwa 23 alikuwa anakaa 70, men lets change.

@anastasiamainaministries2700 4 года назад

That's me 🤫

@kelvinmarsh2249 4 года назад

Anastacia Maina if it's true then am sorry on behalf of that person who did that.

@dianaamojong7191 4 года назад

Me here 😭😭😭 but I thank God for everything

@dolphinakinyi9511 3 года назад

😂😂

@blackbeargrace9286 4 года назад

I really Like Lynn Ngugi ❤️❤️💪🏽 as a host She gat those vibes

@jayblac8280 4 года назад

It has come to my realisation that every total orphan passes through all this just because they don't have anyone to lean on...so sad 😭😭😭😭I have been through this too.

@ruthmusau3997 4 года назад

jayne blac may God remember you,He is the father to the fatherless.

@mbabazimichelle5155 4 года назад

I think I need to become a beautician in future. She really looks good.

@mariniafrikamashariki5455 4 года назад

I wish you well

@ednahkemunto5086 4 года назад

Carole... I purely agree with you This Counselors who tell you about reconcile with a violent man ARE VERY SICK. Walla.... Congratulations dear, you made the right choice

@raychelleinjete4024 4 года назад

I've enjoyed this interview. .Carol is a fighter. .I like the way she says "nilimuama". . "tulichapana". Carol is smart, strong and articulate...She's a strong woman... doing well to help other hurting women. .

@janewanjiru715 4 года назад

I thought ni jokes vile niliona kilimani but thnkx God u are now a new lady .aki heri kuishi single forever

@magnumquantana2223 4 года назад

What most women/ladies pass through in this world 😭😭😭oooh God ni machungu mno woii!what an inspiration story dear,God bless you n ur kids

@rehemaogweno7013 4 года назад

Lynn your so polite and professional. Good listening skills and very empathetic for your guest. Keep it up.

@reginawambua7433 4 года назад

This is what I went through in marriage but thanks to God am out and I live a very peaceful life with my son,my bby daddy was very worse ,hakuna kitu sikuwa naambiwa and that moment u have no home to go and no one to fight for u ,its only u and God

@ericndungu3216 4 года назад

Umenkumbusha mbali,I used to be abit violent on my wife after we had our son.unfortunately we parted.thanks be to God I matured up.Av neva done so again.Nothing justifies violence against women.100%respect.

@Honest_Man 3 года назад

Are you taking care of your son?

@truezladye1893 4 года назад

Thanks for telling your story so eloquently. Your natural beauty shines through. If anyone knows someone going through pain and violence speak up and help especially if there are children involved.

@violetmageto7134 4 года назад

I went through the same i wanted to stay because of My kids but one day I was taken to the chief's office that have stolen the certificate of mechanics of my husband.... Nilienda kama ambulance I thank God they prophecied for me I went back to college and now am raising my two kids it is a point of no return🖐️🖐️🖐️🖐️🖐️

@millyadhiambo238 4 года назад

I love when u allow God to move,He's the God of the 11th hr,marital violence is real,especially physcically. The first miracle is to 4give n move on completely .

@anneanji4818 4 года назад

Milly Adiambo please ..I've been looking for you..

@millyadhiambo238 4 года назад

@@anneanji4818 Tell me my dear?

@molynenyanchama1437 4 года назад

Have really loved this story"transformation"today many realized I was not old but because of hard life.

@TREASUREZION8 4 года назад

Very inspiring thanks a lot for sharing your story Domestic violence has destroyed many lives ....women don't die in the name of marriage seek help😍😍😍

@ingazi4588 4 года назад

Please have tissues whenever you are having the coz most of the time the conversation is so emotional. Otherwise you are doing the great work. Love from Rwanda

@happyumurungi9314 4 года назад

Hey aba bantu barafasha. Ninaha iwacu ibi bintu birahaba

@jackiekeya123 4 года назад

Wanakilimani are you there?

@SuperKwame1 4 года назад

Here is a lesson here to be learnt. I once had a girl, who told I was boring to her. Married to this sick guy with fancy car, and she went through this sick life. I had to go outside Usa to go and rescued her after three kids.

@winfredwanjiru4638 4 года назад

What a story,very touching,you are in deed a strong Lady, God bless you.I love the transformation

@worldpetscocktails 4 года назад

Lynn Ngugi is a great journalist

@Mdalasini 4 года назад

Very patient, empathetic....Simply great

@lynnkesh254 4 года назад

Most soldiers who have gone to war come back with PTSD and are usually abusive...Even after counselling

@mionrugheart2340 4 года назад

Some take advantage of the situation and do such things....

@tedigital6328 4 года назад

Eeeh most Kenyan men are just like this. Hakuna PTSD hapa bwana....hii ni ujinga

@wanjirukarago9308 4 года назад

True

@Fm-MornStar2014 4 года назад

@@tedigital6328 how many men? Kenya compared to where? I think even 60% of the cases can't justify all. It's just a matter of dealing with particular cases, otherwise we'll be comiting the Fallacy of Generalization.

@tedigital6328 4 года назад

@@Fm-MornStar2014 The key word was MOST not ALL. SO 60 percent is MOST. So what's your point again?

@joycewambuikiongojoyful3973 4 года назад

It remained me of my late Mum. She was a punching bag for many years. From when I was in standard 7 to four 4 I did witness alot. But one day she walked away and never returned back. You are a brave beautiful lady and may the Lord expand your horizons in Jesus mighty name Amen.

@hudsonanika6114 4 года назад

Very moving story, thank you Carol for sharing, there are no dry eyes here- just so emotional !! God bless you and the Kids and everyone who has helped and supported you.

@fatmamacharia3593 4 года назад

I went through this for 3 years and I decided to came to saudi am a happy woman taking care of my 3kids, sahii naona inbox zake na mblock, juu alisema nakumiza usiwahii tamaniwa na mwanaume Alhamdulillah Mungu niwetu sote

@mibeychepkemoi1663 4 года назад

1998 ,already done with the high school, fantastic @''''', she looks young. whoops by then i wasn't even know how to put on my chupi, and am already finished. Baby girl ,God loves you. Some of us we are younger than your first bone ,na tumachapa tayari.

@lisakanyambuu5550 3 года назад

I remember this lady trending on Facebook. She is beautiful n talented and the most beautiful thing in all this stories is that everyone is rising from situations of failure and re inventing themselves. Thanks lynn

@noxolosakang6547 3 года назад

I liked it when she said marriage is not a solution, one has to fix herself first of all the baggage before engaging with someone. A successful marriage is made of two emotional successful individuals.

@golichadidjattani3202 4 года назад

Sorry for what happened to you. You are beautiful, eloquent and intelligent woman. I believe you can make a very good company in life. According to your story, the man was unable to manage his love for you. Its good you have made it in life. Carry on.

@marblenana462 3 года назад

I can feel u swry 70% of marriage in Africa is a living hell

@tidittii4383 3 года назад

Not really

@bancynthei4301 4 года назад

Wow from kilimani udaku zone to tuko

@jaccyfigure8845 4 года назад

Ndani kabisa😂😂😂😂

@josphinesherry5511 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂 kilimani

@conversationwithanna 4 года назад

Kilimani ndani kabisa... pls support my channel wanakilimani💃💃 subscribe

@eunicewairimu5015 4 года назад

Kmdu is everything

@agneswanjihia1383 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@amirenemwinzi8315 4 года назад

The strength of a single mother. I respect them, they have a story behind their singleness

@ericmwendwa5257 4 года назад

Sad but real - when you are "in the water" and cannot feel the bottom, the extended hand of your abuser can be very inviting.

@andesoleonidah8589 4 года назад

ooh so this is true....i thought it was one of the making fun pics in kilimani....a strong woman u r

@carolinecongo1179 4 года назад

What a small world that she met someone who reconnected her to her maternal uncle and thanks to her mother for hearing her cry ! Inspiring story indeed.

@ahmedjartu1131 3 года назад

I wanted to listen to her story, how and why her husband tried to circumcise her, but I can't understand her language she speaks, I wish she could have continue speaking in English.

@chepkemoijoyline358 4 года назад

Caro I saw your post on Kilimani, I am happy for you. you looking good my dear.

@kevohwapipelinetransami4351 4 года назад

The best channel ever changing many lifes of us and bringing different stories.. thank you #TUKONEWS

@nonenone5247 4 года назад

Lord does this lady know how beautiful she is? stay strong sisi you are enough. and you made it out in one piece also your beautiful babies.

@missnellytv2149 4 года назад

what a story dear thanks for sharing i believe many people will be informed of domestic violence and how to love themselfs tothe fullest

@marggiewangigi7811 4 года назад

So sad how human beings treat others haki, the first time a man lay his hands on u,just walk away,that is enough sign that u got married to a killer,a beast a murderer. Violence should stop.

@susuilu 3 года назад

Emotional abuse and lies should always be a red flag too

@KK-itiswell 4 года назад

He sounds like a narcisstist.. we need to not just run away from physical abuse but also other forms of abuse- psychological, emotional, verbal, financial etc. If after many attempts the relationship does not improve, please walk away. They are equally damaging.

@easeuprelaxationmusic4590 2 года назад

Very damaging been through all physical,emotional n verbal...

@julicenyabaro5291 2 года назад

Waa so it's 99%of women who have gone through severe violence, I used to think it's only mum and I. God fight for us 🙏🙏🙏. Such stories are a support group. Thank you tuko talks

@maureenjagona8138 4 года назад

He never used to drink. I always say men who don't drink alcohol drink women

@alicenyambura1130 4 года назад

What a beautiful gal!! It's good you left that miserable man! Someday you will get your match.

@silvershsadow2045 3 года назад

For all its worth I can never thank Lynn Ngugi and Tuko Talks enough, from my Ugandan viewpoint , for the great exposure and transformation work she does , because these are real daily issues many of us ordinary people go through but have no platform to admit because we self blame (our culture) and so too shy to disclose cause others call you a failure . Lynn has made us realise that these things are not only common but also not ashaming to disclose and even escape from . Its not a prison for us to suffer in silence . Its especially harder for us men to admit but happens to many of us .

@amiejobe7010 4 года назад

I’m gold she’s fine and well now, no now deserves a violence relationship. We most learn to protect ourselves. Bless her and her children 🙏🏿❤️

@fabriziammanuli1672 4 года назад

Amazing! I love Carol's transformation, She's more beautiful than she were. God bless you. Lynn,Good Job.

@janiceshariffa1973 4 года назад

What ladies go through only God knows 😭

@evalineakumu1851 4 года назад

🤔🤔 I always wonder what men really want,she is beautiful,jovial and much more......and after that unapata single mothers wanadharauliwa tu bure na haujui ni yapi walipitia ndo watoke kwa ndoa zao,waheshimiwe jameni

@yahhabib3019 3 года назад

These stories are amazing, i just wish most of them were in English. It's so hard to follow some of the stories because they switch to Swahili so often. Just started following the channel. Great Job

@hildanabuya9765 4 года назад

Omg carol? I know this lady!! I love you gurl 💋💋💋 And thank you for being strong and sharing your story with the world. Also, you’re so beautiful!

@MwariwaMukurino 4 года назад

Ngai!!u look more gorgeous kuliko wakati ilikuwa na huyo mnyama

@sarahruth1718 4 года назад

Wau a lesson to women, dont allow a man to put his hands on you

@justmo6896 4 года назад

Oooh boy cannot believe she is the one😱she is really beautiful👍thank you Jesus for saving her.....so many people going through this,may God help them🙏

@yamab5723 4 года назад

Am so proud of her for up lifting women, thank you for sharing your story by the way I like her hair.such a great transformation🙏🙏🙏💕

@carolinenjoroge9351 4 года назад

He is a malignant narcissist. He found a very good candidate in you, looking at how you were raised and also been young and naive, you suffered from codependency and also trauma bonding. He's family is also dysfunctional and pretty much narcissistic and that's where he got it from. You're so great now. My dad is also a malignant narcissist and my mom never ran away, I am his scapegoat. He abused me for 2 decades. My brain struc changed, am here at 30 learning the science behind my predicarments. My mom never defended me, I hope I heel as have come to realize being raised by a narcissist makes you a good target for narcissist in adult life, that coupled with chronic illnesses as well as mental illnesses is one sad painful life. Thank you for taking your children out of pain and thank you for sharing your story. On this comment section there are a few narcissists looking for supply from comments, leave them alone these humans thrive on the energy of innocent beings.

@luckydubebello1131 4 года назад

Wah sorry my friend I passed the same thing I'm a orphan too I used to receive beating kunyongwa matusi naambiwa nikafufue wazazi wangu this happens for the whole of 2014 one day I received a punch ya masikio nikazirai before niamke nilipata hio nugu haiko.nilikonda mpaka watu wakasema niko na ukimwi I used to b beaten everyday but I thank God I'm ok ikifika mahali mtoi akimuona Analia tu only God knows my life ile nilipitia na my neighbour Mike mwangi mungu akusaidie

@shaikhazowayed2534 4 года назад

Ghaai athuri amwe ni gute waede kuzimu.

@inspiremotivatekenya2286 4 года назад

Waaa..yaani this things truely happen aki

@abdullmalik7847 4 года назад

Pole xana dadangu

@Justbarbara.B 4 года назад

I'm sorry, I hope you healing

@nancykimani8427 3 года назад

Carol's story is the story of many women & I'm happy for her that she was able to leave and avoid the pain & trauma for her and her kids. And she is now doing well for herself. Kudos girl. And may the Lord bless you and your children