"I was raped in my boyfriend's house"-Elvina Ibru |  

She is amazing. We need more like her. Rape victims are survivors. Not embarrassments.

Rape is the most under reported crime so i really appreciate her openness, she is removing the burden of guilt and shame for other survivors.

“Bad things don’t just happen to you when you’re a child of God there has to be a purpose behind it” 👏🏽 👏🏽

I'm surprised... This woman is just too bold! I've got nothing but respect for her, and hope she keeps giving hope to others in such situation.

She sounds humble and sincere despite her beauty and wealthy background

This is a superwoman. She exudes class and intelligence. God bless you Madam

I really love how open she is about this part of her life.

I love your story. I too was raped, I was never ashamed, I just didn't trust myself letting people know. I tried committing suicide but God didn't not allowed me, but thank God I'm whole 🙏 🙌.keep sharing it bring forth healing to so many people

I have always loved this woman. Her mentality and idiology is so open. Being an African woman shouldn't be a curse abeg.

Had the honour of interviewing her once. She is so down to earth and humble!

Jesus christ!! I've never seen a woman speak with so much confidence about being raped. Much respect Ms Ibru

She looks like an Egyptian Princess 👑👑

Incidentally I'm watching her on Netflix at the moment, paused to watch this and I absolutely love her. Thank you Ms Elvina for giving so many women strength to deal with this. God bless you

Today, I was tired like some other days and this has lifted my mood. But no one deserves to be abused, raped, and whatever....thank you and stay healed

I just learnt more about not to be ashamed of what is not your fault ❤️.. Hmmm 🤔 Thanks for sharing your story,This will help /encourage people in such situations .

I like her openness and frankness. My first time of seeing her and hearing of her but I like what she has to say. Well done Elvina for saying it the way it is.

love you Elvina for showing boldness and blazing a trail for other people who are silently dying

The Nigerian or African perspectives of rape needs to change!!! A gurl is beat up by her husband the ask what did you do to make him hit you? A girl gets raped they ask what were you wearing ? A child is abandoned they call him/herr names for something that's not him/herr fault or totally beyond him/her control!!! Things just have to change!!! Fact is its still going on today in Nigerian and unless and until something is done soon things will get worse!!!. Elvina is brave , has always been brave and I just love her

I love the way she talks and also bold enough to share her story on RU-vid

I truly admire her courage. Sometimes we get so scared of talking about our past for fear of what people will do or say. But this is humbling. God bless her boldness. ❤️

This woman is Gold...God bless you for sharing your story.

Wow, she is really an inspiration, you can't miss that face anywhere, the face of the IBRUS. Really like her

I love this actress for being real and down to earth .👍🏽👏👏👏👏

I am so happy to hear a rape incident of a celebrity who still lives years after... and continues to tell her story without being ashamed. Years ago,an NTA newscaster was raped by robbers... she couldn't bear it and went on to commit suicide. I admire your courage...using your testimony to minister to suicidal rape victims !!! God bless you---We live because He lives !!!

Hope it wasn't planned though... I love this woman's perspective on life. It's so beautiful.

I respect you with all of my heart. You are too real!

Elvina Ibru openness is mind blowing, thank you for liberating other women and men out there.

This is a sad story😟 She is a beautiful woman still. I enjoy her acting😍

This lady is doing the Lord's work as Atigbi on Riona. I'm a superfan, uuhummmmmmmm

God knows if he set it up…so sorry this happened hon. Women, please follow your instincts. The only person responsible for a rape is the rapist. Telling my story has helped people. Thank you for sharing your story queen.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Confident and Beautiful, may God continue to use you to bring comfort to abused people. God bless you.

She's bold and liberated. She is a positive force in the lives of the down trodden and a blessing to all.

Bravo bravo to this beautiful woman. I love how she realizes saving another life because of her being open is success. This is the selflessness society needs today, all over the world

I love her on #AMRiona !!!

Still one of the nicest, most talented, most incredible women i ever met. God bless you Elvina.

So beautiful and blunt. People who got raped should speak out, there's no stigma in that

Chai!so painful!!!d boldness you hv now to talk about your painful past is from God alone,use this blessing to help other people who are depressed through the trauma of abuse,may God continue to help and bless you amen

Always amazing to listen Elvina. Intelligence with class.

This is too traumatising, I love her so much, I can’t bear to hear her pain. So I’m gonna press pause. ❤️‍🔥

I love life and I love being friends and listening to peeps who life has thought lessons which they learnt from and they used it to build themselves positively!!! Most times, It's never pride ....." you just have walk in the shoes to understand"

Always admired Elvina. Listened in to a few of her interviews she is down to earth and very human.

Healing words from the throne of heaven. You are a life saver. I respect your confidence and sincerity. Remain blessed as always

She's a good person. 100% real.

Nigerians always blaming the victim in every situations. "If you've ever been raped (male or female), it was not your fault". I agree with you 💯

I am in love with this lady already..💪🏾 She is natural and apt.

Respect Ma! what a beauty no shame! Thanks for speaking out. So much going on in Nigeria for women! God bless!

It is always so heartbreaking when women are so judgmental towards other women ......

I respect your charisma when you speak

Wow..she speaks as a real princess...love u more.

Wow. This is powerful. Thanks for sharing your story and being a blessing to many out there. You're phenomenal 🙏❤

Wow!!!!!!!! what a strong beautiful woman, I have nothing but praise and respect for her.

I appreciate the fact that she made mention of boys getting raped as well, I was a victim, mine was with two different women on different occasions , and up until now nobody in my family know about it, not even my mom. Anyway life goes on.

She look so beautiful, I love her character in movies

Victim Shaming is the worst aspect of it all, and it being perpetuated by women is pure insanity. I loved her performance in Bling Lagosian.

Thanks so much Princess! You are a super strong woman and definately uplifting to many despite the horrendous thing that happened to you. May many more like you rise up and create awareness and consciousness of the victims, the perpetrators and those who treat women seeking help with contempt, and yet they are supposed to help💯.

Inspiring. This woman is beautiful!

People from rich homes are always very sweet to hear. She no even care because money Dey. Her family is the 4th richest family in the country

This woman is brave..wow may God grant you everything good.

What an intellectually honest lady!...if she can pay for my bridegroom dowry, I will marry her as my one and only wife...walahi

She is a strong woman! Great job

Whao ! It's not easy o ! What a sad occurrence !

She's an amazing soul met her on set 💗 she was playing with all the upcomers

This was a deep interview wow I luv the film letters to a stranger

It's Chude's humility in this interview for me

Elv ain’t no snub…I worked with her for sometime n she was so amazing with her sisters…lovely people

Great definition of success.

I like her honesty!

You are real and down to earth ma.I like all the role play in movies.

I love this woman!!😍😍 God bless you!♥️

I love this woman, God bless u, Elvina!!!!

No worries there are men in Nigerian that can provide a home like that for you, every thing you said is Valid, i an Glad you didn’t loose your mind and become bitter but went on to share your story to help others heal, God Bless

Much respect for this beautiful woman, very strong and bold.

Someone close to me was raped and got pregnant. And for months we had no idea. And the life and the babys life was at risk, just because she was scared to speak out. Please dont be quite

You are a strong woman. God bless your soul

I'm happy she mentioned boys been raped,in this part of world we always focus on the girl child without knowing what the boys are going through.A lot of boys has been abused and raped but can't speak out becos of shame

Oh my God! I can't stand that word rape. This makes my heart bleed

I love her acting, bling lagos was awesome she did a good job in there.

I love her so honest and authentic 🖤🖤🖤🖤

I love your boldness and excellent spirit. Great Lady. I love you scara.

Wow' this is the kind of life everyone should ever adopt to. If even though she wants to go into politics or whatever today or tomorrow' I believe no one will use this against her for any reason. My sister I pray may the Lord bless 🙏 and strengthen you more and more in protecting other women who's has experience such urggly situation in life.

She is just too real 😇

Elvina is essentially saying there is no hope for Nigeria. But we are not getting it. Rather, we seem distracted by her "Egyptian Princess" looks? She keeps hammering the point that she lives in a fortress? And to be able to date her you too must live in a fortress? And we seemed to have missed that message of total insecurity? A country that is not working? We are still talking about armed robbers freely invading private and public residences, "raping," maiming and killing people? Haba! What type of country is that?

A VERY brave and admirable woman.....she's my heroine!!!! May God bless her all dear to her most mightily iJn-Amen!

Just learnt that the daughter of a relative is pregnant today, she was raped by her friend's brother 4 months ago, no relationship with the guy or anything, she didn't tell anyone and she has been menstruating normally, it took the mother noticing the change in her boobs to find out she is 4 months pregnant! She is 20, but naive, afraid of telling people what the guy did to her

Chude your interview sha....levels dey!

Wow! Thanks for this frank talk

Thank you for the message. So touching

Thank you for saying this words sis I was there n ashamed at times no one in my family or friends knows I wish I can tell someone close maybe my husband one day,

God bless you madam for your courage. One thing I know for free is that rapists never go unpunished, Whether the law catches up with them or not , there's always a natural punishment (curses) for them. Poverty, disappointments, and never do well is always their portion. Progress in life is always far from. When you see them you will pity them. I did a little survey on rapists Those were my findings. Except there was a genuine change or repentance that was accepted by God's mercy otherwise that's what they pass through. May the wrath of God continue to fall upon them until they change their evil ways. Wicked people that doesn't know that women are special people and also our mothers that needs to be respected.

She is amazing.

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God bless this woman for her honesty humility and inspiration ❤️🙏🏽❤️

I respect you for your boldness! you're a Princess indeed

It's sad to watch this interview but those rapist will burn in hell. I'm from Benin too attended school in Victoria Island in the 80s only recently have visited Abule Egba, Ikpaja boy e be like war zone for me she was too brave to sleep in those areas . God bless her for the courage to talk and have learnt a lot from this video.my spirit never agree with visiting my girlfriend in that area.

I love her! Thank you Elvina, you are a true heroine. The victim should never feel shame. The criminal should be the one scorned and shamed by us all.

Waooo I respect you Elvira may you continue to grow from glory to glory in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🏿

I just love this woman's ideology

That's sad. I had an experience too with a man. I was 16, he was 18. He's half dutch and half Asian. I'm an Asian. He was so tall if you compare it with Asian. He was my senior in high school. We both joined basketball club. Everything felt normal before. It began when my team on training, he throwed basketball to my head, I passed out. I thought it was just an accident. He took responsibility for me like bring me to the healthcare place at school, bought me soft drinks and food, and bring me back to my house. Normal right? But days after it, he still bring me drinks and foods, and bring me home from school. He said it was his responsibility. Until my crush (he was my classmate) holding my hands while he walked me home. I rejected my senior's offer to bring me back home with his care so I can be with my crush longer. My crush also liked me from what he did to me. He was very gentle and kind hearted man. My senior, let's call him Alex. Alex become weird the next day after it. He asked me who the guy that walked me home. And he also stated that he can walked me home today, he don't bring car, etc. I said thank you to him and he should stop taking responsibilities to me because I already forgive him and I'm recovered. He insisted that he wanted to walk me home. At the time, my crush was sick, so I just said yes. On the way to home, he forced me to his car near a supermarket. I said I don't want but he forced my body to go in and locked the car. I'm screaming but nobody heard it. He told me to shut up and he drove the car to his home. No one on the house. Strangely, his house is big and the neighbour very far. I was scared he will kill me. He made food and drink, and then told me to move to his house. I explained it is impossible because on Asia, different genders can only live together with someone who you married and I don't love him. He talked on English with angry voice. He said he would marry me after ge graduated from high school. I refused. He dragged me to his room. It was dark and large. He chained my hands to his bed. I rebel with my feet but no use. He took of his shirt and naked then proceed to do that to me. He raped me until midnight. I was crying all the time he raped me. The weird thing was he turn on when I cried. That's really disgusting. I was disgusted when he tried to lick my tears. He released me the next day, but before he released me, he raped me in his car. My mom was angry to me why I didn't go to home. I lied to her, I told her I was with my female friends. I was scared of him. I stopped being a basketball team because there was him on there. But, he didn't stop bother me. He forced me to do s*x with him on the toilet before I went home with him or in his house everyday. His parents and people thought I'm in relationship with him and some said that I'm lucky to get him because his dad is a foreigner and wealthy. No one would understand or believe me if I tell them that he r*ped me all the times. My school was an internasional school. I got enough when he refused to use condom and said he wanted to be a dad. I didn't want it. He procceed to tell me if we have kids, I wouldn't leave him and dependent to him. That's sick. I didn't consider we were together, that's him threatening me with our s*x tape he recorded, so I said yes everytime he wanted to bang me. He was very loyal to me. It was 1 month before his graduation, I move to another school on another city, deleted my contacts, and went to boarding house. My friends dm me and commented on my instagram that he is deprresed and they told me to go back and to contact him. I just pretended that I didn't use the Account anymore. I'm safe now. He went mad and terrors me, but I told my mom that it was over and he's abusive. My mom protected me from him. I'm on college now. He is joining army, so I'm veru safe.

This woman is so beautiful

Yes and Amen🙌🏾🙏🏾 I really like this African Queen👸🏽♥️