I’m done helping people. I’ve been used financially. I will NEVER help anyone again. I’m a single female Jamaican living in the US making over $160,000 and will not help anyone ever again. People will use you. No one will ever get the opportunity to use me again.
She kept saving him fr it because every time he left n karma kick him in da ass she took him back n his karma keeps backfired on her. I hope she learned her lesson n let karma deal with his ass nicely.
Everyone saying karma soon reach people how u don't know is that a fi r karma everyone talking about karma just say a fi her karma that and now karma await on someone else and that the man
Persons saying she should know this and that, failed to understand how this woman was brought up. She is from a christian close-knit family. At 42 years old, she still lived with her parents, and saw her parents still living together, still in love through the ups and downs of life. Her sister and sister's husband were still together. She didn't want to be seen or felt like she failed at marriage. She even didn't want to have a child outside marriage. She was very sheltered and it's not her fault. This is just life and the cards you get to play with. She is a good woman. She tried and did her best. I will not criticize or judge her. She also wanted her son to grow up seeing his mom and dad together, just like she did. She gave it her best shot and she failed, so it's ok. She is now at peace. I hope life will bless her with another partner, regardless of the anger and pain she went through. She should not allow her experience with him, to deny herself happiness with someone who would be sincere and honest with her. She gave her best and should have gotten the returns of her best and labour. I know with time, she will be ok. Her ex husband will regret everything he put her through.
@@SuperLovezone when you are trained or conditioned a particular way, taking alternate routes is never going to be your first choice. I'm sure you have heard "train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. We all have different realities, opinions and things that trigger us. Something that drives someone else insane and to the rubbish bin, won't even give you a headache. You might be strong enough to brush it off and keep moving, and that is your strength. In India, they worship cows. In our culture, we eat cows, and that's because of the culture difference. Are we monsters because we eat cows? I don't think we are. However, someone from India would have a different opinion of us. As i have said, i will not judge her. The greatest thing is that she made it out "alive" and given an opportunity to start over. I respect your opinion.
She tolerated too much from the start and I am sure he was showing signs of his dutty behaviour but she chose to ignore thinking she can change him when he comes to foreign. Utter disrespect he showed her very sad especially now baby involve. Her tears won’t be in vain and karma waiting fi him he is a user. Smh
If love is not in the relationship disrespect comes in. Many of us women sees the red flags and ignore them. And lot of us has low self esteem we do not love or value ourselves and keep compromising, lady I feel bad for you that your baby have to tell you to get a divorce but it's better late than never.
I am not sure why she’s still with him. She could tell from the beginning that he never loved her. love is an action and his action shows her that he doesn’t love her. I have been in the US for 41 years since I was a teenager and I would never ever ever ever married to a Jamaican and bring his ass here to the US as long as I live because they only use you and abuse you 99.9% of the time, if you’re lucky to find a good one that’s a big if you are lucky God bless you but knowing my luck, that’s a chance I would not take.t
I don't think she's slow I think she valued her marriage vows and wanted to ensure she attempted to make it work. Now she can be at peace knowing she tried.
@KimberleeSamuels What I mean is before the marriage, RED FLAGS before he travelled RED FLAGS. I understand some woman trouble with low self-esteem issues, and that was maybe her issue BUT ladies we have to read these RED FLAGS. He never wanted her from the beginning of the story.
He did'nt love her from was he in Jamaica. The red flags was there along time. Some women will always believe that foreign frighten men. They will use you to get where they want to go.
It really is sad that so many people are often to stay single because you have too many bad people out here that do not know how to be respectful, loving, and caring that they end up having a bad life themselves doing too much and she should’ve had enough to know that a man does not want her I mean how many flags did she need
Yes, " packing" the only regret is there must be real men out there! People like him make it bad for the genuine ones who really want to be in a real relationship 💯 😢😢😢😢
@@maxinerichardson1493 I am going to give u a good response love now is for the weak to be lonely u have to be strong people now a days don't care about no one but themselves for example woman want 50/50 equality etc but the way a lot of woman seeing thing kill everything for themselves gentle man is dead etc because a lot woman is living in a delusional world also the man but love is dead tbh honest simps r the one getting Married because woman can control them married is dead no man want to give away 50/50 to a woman that bring nth to the table also the woman etc married is for woman so we. Man see opportunity they take it just that simple u have a lot of traditional woman and also traditional man but u will never know because woman kill that it sounds bad the way I put but it life
Since he did not have his citizenship, I would have reported to immigration and have then pick him up and then you would see how he would act when he get deported back to Jamaica. Some of these women are so needy and slow, there is nothing wrong with being single for some people.
Sometimes, it is not needy. These women are needed. It should not be that way, but sometimes, churches and the way one was raised make these decisions harder for women in married relationships.
Sound advise Jayy! If you were around with your program, it would have made such a difference. Sometimes, it only takes courage and a voice of reason, and you provide that here. Much blessings! You are impacting the lives of so many hurting women and men!
Wow we Jamaican feel the hands of our own Jamaican my God why are they like this I only love my Jamaican because of culture we eat the same food etc.sorry mi good we have to be strong ladies trust God he’ll do the rest karma is real
Don't feel bad honey. Been there. It might teck a while but you will be ok. God made us with excess resilience dear. Pray and trust the process that soon you will laugh at the joker.
It took strength for her to go through so much and not lose it. Some women put up with way more than they should to keep their family together until they realize it's a waste of time.
No karma for the other lady, because she told her the truth she didn’t want to listen because she has a title “wife”. She was in denial because the man didn’t lie to her neither she made her bed 🛌 continue to settle that kind relationshit for so many yrs. It’s no one’s fault but hers she has to take accountability for choices. 🤦🏽♀️
Yes that's the tell tale sign. Outside on phone all the time...phone face down always and when yuh talk the first thing dem seh is yuh wah control dem and nuh wah denm talk to anybody....soooo disrespectful. Yep unfortunately many of us as have gone through it and will continue to . 😢
Unfortunately this is a never ending cycle for both men and women going through the same situation of lending a hand to help someone out to then have them turnaround and disrespect you and make out you did absolutely unequivocally nothing for them. Again not everyone is the same and does not alway’s have unintentional motives. But however it just seem’s to be becoming an ongoing issue more and more . Standing ovation to those who do truly marry for love ❤️ and not just to take advantage of another person’s kindness. Blessings ❤️🙏🏾🧘🏾♀️🇬🇧♒️
We teach people how to treat us... Moral code has to come into play to set LAWS of the relationship..Love is absolutely CONDITIONAL.. From your partner share DNA with another, nothing further to speak on, silence, run him, done him, fuck him, forget him.. Keep your mind and body clean..Leave him in his cave where you found him...If he is NOT your lover, best friend, confidante, favourite human in this world who loves and protects you...He l is someone elses, let him go, heal and wait for your favourite human to find you.. Never give up on what love you have to give ❤ We all go through learning curves of life, some worse than others, believe in the lesson, acknowledge accept accountability for your part played.. Stay strong, motivated and moving to prosperity 🙏🏽
Too much ooman love the 'marrid' status even wen di man a dis dem, embaras dem in public and private an generally treat dem like crap. Dem tek di bad treatment because dem love seh 'mi usban' dis an 'mi usban' dat. Love yourself fus! If im nho respect you, at least respect yourself enough to end it. Your child will be carrying the nasty trauma into his own relationships. Really sad😢😢😢
Mine did the same thing and his mother the enabler fueled his narcissistic supply need. Similar story...wicked serpent dem. I helped mine to buy a vehicle and I told him to sell it when we were getting married. He left it with his woman in Jamaica who is currently driving it right now!!!
