Ib Leeg Tub Hlub Cuag Huab Tais Thaum Kawg Tau Tub Plab Zais 6/09/24 

Story like this dont make me pity those OG traditional hmong parents (then and now) and their parenting style.

I have six girls and two boys but I don’t treat my son any different now a days they all grew up they love me the same way never treated any kids different

Another story too familiar in the Hmong community, in my own family even.

You reap what you sow.

You reap what you sow!

We have a similar story. It’s the parents fault for creating a monster.

Koom koj nawb❤❤❤❤❤❤

Yog kawg peb hmoob ces thaum ub tej laus yeej hlub thiab cia siab rau cov tub nkaus xwb niam no los tseem muaj ib cov coj tus cwj pwm no thiab os. Tab sis thaum laus ces yeej yog cov ntxhais yog cov hlub xwb.

qhuav ntxim qhuav ntxim uas hlub2 tub tab tom qhuav ntxim.

Nyob zoo os tuaj koom koj os

Peb cov niam thiab txiv hmoob no mas lawv muab lawv cov tub hlub dhau lawm os es tsim txhua txoj hauv kev lwj siab tu siab rau peb cov ua ntxhais no li os! 😢

It's your parents fault.

Typical parents treatment. I was a maum khuag, too. My childhood was sad.

Peb cov txivneej Hmoob mas feemcoob tsis yog lawv tsis txawj tsis ntse. Vim yog peb cov niam/txiv muab lawv yug cob tiam cuag li ib tug Huabtais puag thaum yug poob-nthav kiag los lawm. Es cia li zooli niag ruam lawm thaum lawv loj hlob los.

Wow, i am 34 years old and i already accomplished so much in life. I just can't image someone my age with no ambition and no life goals, still needing mommy and daddy.

Me ntxhai aws hai txog cov niag niamtxiv cuamcuam npab npab nauj es lawv hlub lawv cov tub cai npho cov me ntxhai mas tub siab tshaj plawg lis kuv twb yog ib tus ntxhai es tseem raug txoj kev tsim txom heev tshaj koj hai kos thiab os me ntxhai twb yog tim cov niag lau ruam txoj niag kev ruam qhuab qhias tej me nyuam xwb tiag kuv niam thiab kuv txiv nkawm niag tub thab niam yuav nkawm rau yav lau ce nkawm txom txom nyem kawg lis xwb tiag ..

Ab cas kuv muaj 1 tug xwb los kuj kawm ntawv tag 4 xyoos los them Car paymemt rau kuv tsav thiab as nyom Ntawm tus me nyuam tab sis kuv ces kuv pab 1 yam xwb tsuas yog kuv tseg nyiaj yuav nyab rau xwb as

Lol😂😂😂😂...this is what you get for spoiling your kids...😂😂😂😂😂

25 xyoo yog lub noob nyoog uas tus neeg ntawd yuav ua neeg tsim txiaj los sis yuav ua neeg liam mus, tej neeg txawj ntse hais li ntawd nej xav seb puas yog.

Instructions on how to raise a narcissist.

Tim koj txiv tib leeg xwb.

Koj txiv nkawv siab phem2 g hlub nej pab ntxhais kev npam thiaj raws cuag nkawv.koj niam los txhob liam tej no rau koj txiv thiab yog tias koj txiv g hlub los tsim nyog koj niam hlub nej koj niam tseem nrog koj txiv ua rau nej cov viv ncaus tu siab tshaj os.

They don't deserve anything

I don't feel sorry for your parent's at all!!!!

Your parents got what they wanted. I don’t feel sorry for them, they taught him laziness.

Tus txiv tus niam ntse ces lawv muaj tib tug xwb los lawv cob qhia kom ntse kom txawj kom siab loj saib zoo kom keej kom paub. Tus niam tus txiv ruam ces kws kom tau nom los rau nkawv yug txog hnub nkawd tuag li no ntag😂

Koj niam koj txiv tsis txawj cob qhia mi nyuam . Hmoob ruam hmoob tseem coj tus cwj pwm yav thaum 75 . Hmoob have to change or learn the way new generation Hmoob got to learn

Tim neb ob niag laus xwb neb twb hlub hlub NWS ce niam no neb yuav tau yug NWS rau yav laus thiab tiag kuv paub hai tia cov niag hmoo

Your parents are horrible parents all-around: unfair treatment of the daughters and spoiling rotten their one and only son. They set their son up for failure through their own actions when he was young so now they have no one to blame but themselves for creating a lazy, no good son! If my parents were like yours, there's no way I am going out of my way to do anything special for them! The fact that you and your sisters are throwing a retirement party for your horrible dad tells me all of you sisters are still looking for validation from him! Kinda sad, really. Your parents may have regrets that their son didn't turn out the way they wanted, but I guarantee you that they don't regret loving him more than you daughters! There's nothing you girls can ever do to change that fact because to them, a son is more important than a daughter (old world thinking, but it's true of your parents)! To you and your sisters: stop looking for validation from them, and just live your life; after all, you now have your own family to care for, so save your energy for them instead.

Koj txiv mas siab phem tshaj nej cov ntxhais g txhob hlub ib leej txiv dev siab nyoos. Twb g yog nyob nplog teb ua cas tseem muaj tej niam tej txiv coj li yav thaum phem tiag2 ntse nkawv yuav tau zoo heev os. Ntse koj txiv leej tub yuav ciaj hauv tais os..😂😂😂