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On Today's Episode:
There are dozens of reasons why dating nowadays is so hard for men and women. While lack of communication seems to be a significant factor, being able to read the people you date is also part of the equation.
Is he asking you out just because he’s interested in sex?
He booked reservations at a high-end restaurant you’ve been wanting to go to, does this mean he’s serious about you?
You’re having a great time together, what will he think if you decide to sleep with him on the first date?
Being able to spot red flags is great, but it helps very little without you being brave enough to address it, ask questions and assess his behavior also.
Stephan Speaks, one of RU-vid’s favorite relationship experts has a straightforward approach and way of helping women (and men) understand and see the challenges everyone is facing. Dating is complicated and there’s a lot of unhelpful advice being shared with both sexes.
This episode is going to help you spot the red flags if he’s only in it for the sex, learn how to better interpret his actions, determine if he’s toxic or just not the guy for you, and figure out how to solve the dating problems keeping you single.
QUOTES:
“The guy that just wants to have sex is trying to get the most for the least effort.”
“I believe that real love, real connection happens extremely fast if not instant.”
“Him chasing you is not always the greatest indicator that he’s serious about you, or that he has genuine interests.”
“It can’t not be true love on my end but true love on your end, it doesn’t work that way, [...] true love requires a flow back and forth.”
“Every woman who dates from now on should give that man permission to be blatantly, brutally honest because it will save her the headache of confusion and his fear of how she’ll receive it.”
“It’s not about what the person does, it's about how they handle your feelings about it.”
“A lot of situations are just symptoms that they’re with the wrong person.”
“Red flags are not see it, run. Red flags are see it, address it, and if it’s not corrected walk away.”
“You either want to be heard or you want to be received.”
“When there is connection, there will be chemistry.”
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@LisaBilyeu
@LisaBilyeu Год назад
WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Год назад
Bring Kev Hick to your show. He's also a relationship coach but actually married and with kids. Has a lot of valuable insight
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 11 месяцев назад
Dates change expectations. Just communicate, talk, discuss life, values, manners, . Be honest. Be real.. Respect first. Stop the ideas of getting instant gratification, flings, affairs, etc.. Make enough TIME to get to know that NEW PERSON. FIRST. ASK QUESTIONS. BE REAL. IS IT POSSIBLE??
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 11 месяцев назад
Men must ask her if it is possible. Ask her. He must Ask her if she is attracted to him.
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 11 месяцев назад
Career style. What are your dreams to how & where She wants to live. ???
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 11 месяцев назад
Stop being desperate in dating..
@GrannyLovesSquares
@GrannyLovesSquares 11 месяцев назад
I simply say: I don't fornicate. I'm not casual, a friend with benefits, a booty call. Not fornicating sends them running but fast! Some say they are cool with it because it comes off as a challenge for their ego. I will be without a man for the rest of my life if I have to be. I will NEVER compromise my standards again for anyone.
@zerotoanime3953
@zerotoanime3953 11 месяцев назад
I am a man and never had premartial sex and dont plan to and I start my relationships with that being said in the first convo. This i massively respect cause I find alot of women are also not comfortable with not having sex until marriage.
@parishers6351
@parishers6351 11 месяцев назад
Agreed.
@NopeNotToday26
@NopeNotToday26 11 месяцев назад
⁠@@zerotoanime3953 I’m glad and relieved you said this. I’m a virgin, and I ain’t compromising for no one. I will stay by myself if I have to..and have been all my life. It don’t make no difference to me at the moment.
@karmahleone1196
@karmahleone1196 11 месяцев назад
Sameeeeeee I can go manless for life a man is honestly a headache
@sinceresong9907
@sinceresong9907 11 месяцев назад
This!!! The peace and self respect is priceless!!
@MonicaGunderson
@MonicaGunderson 7 месяцев назад
When my husband and I were dating, the first time I had my period, and didn't feel like going out, he went by the store, and got me chocolate and provisions, asked if I feel up to hanging out and watching movies. We are still married. 23 years happily married (with work). 💓💓
@andreaIMC
@andreaIMC 6 месяцев назад
@annaisis7510
@annaisis7510 5 месяцев назад
That's something good to start with
@joanofarcxxi
@joanofarcxxi 5 месяцев назад
Things have changed a lot in 23 years. Thanks to Internet and porn. Now, men believe that they have many other easy options so they don't bother committing. I wish you continued happiness and love ❤️❤️
@sharonbraselton4302
@sharonbraselton4302 5 месяцев назад
@@joanofarcxxi yes chef ñot fkeaßh man teçhkgy ribot teçhgy implates called nurliñk like bibke but tyoe 5 ouree gid rebke fool oeiff
@8806Erika
@8806Erika 5 месяцев назад
​@@joanofarcxxinot when its the right man and he really wants you. The man that really wants you will show you 1000 percent
@spiritualvibrations2825
@spiritualvibrations2825 10 месяцев назад
All of these traps and illusions you have to avoid just to have a man around is exhausting. Make peace with being single until you meet a decent man that doesn't play mindgames, games of manipulation.
@sharonbraselton4302
@sharonbraselton4302 5 месяцев назад
wroñg illusions are mag9cal creaters
@Cerez78
@Cerez78 5 месяцев назад
Peace being single 💯🔥
@AngelEyes-xm7el
@AngelEyes-xm7el 19 дней назад
Been waiting 24 years post divorce
@Portia620
@Portia620 8 дней назад
Not always so easy as I married a con man so learning as much as possible
@Portia620
@Portia620 8 дней назад
@@AngelEyes-xm7elthat’s a very long time.
@sheliaestes7478
@sheliaestes7478 9 месяцев назад
I'm a widow now, and have been since 2015 and I don't date because men these days would rather go after women that will have sex with them right off the bat, they don't want to get to know you and it's not just the younger ones the older are worse.
@Ace7of7Cups
@Ace7of7Cups 8 месяцев назад
of course the older are worse. They are usually already stubborn and stuck in their ways
@LuvKitKatt
@LuvKitKatt 7 месяцев назад
@@Ace7of7CupsYESSSSSSS
@carolyndaniels386
@carolyndaniels386 6 месяцев назад
Wise woman.
@coraldownie3899
@coraldownie3899 3 месяца назад
So true
@funnygirlever
@funnygirlever 3 месяца назад
Yup the older ones. They won't change and be fixed. End it and eventually all females will get tired of them and they won't have anyone put up and accept it. They will be lonely and deserve to be alone forever. Maybe they had their prime when they got any females with sweet talks but we females are so much smarter now and know exactly what we want. Females don't put up with bs anymore. We females have so much more power than we know it. We just need to know how and learn to act on it and stand on it. Be firm and willing to walk away and never look back.
@viktoriyaminasova6144
@viktoriyaminasova6144 Год назад
Im so done with dating. Its a mad world out there. Im going to heal and let faith to guide me.
@SkyePhoenix
@SkyePhoenix Год назад
Same
@catherinegorter8211
@catherinegorter8211 Год назад
Me too...
@deenabpeacelovebryant9122
@deenabpeacelovebryant9122 11 месяцев назад
Hey my love what's wrong with dating
@catherinegorter8211
@catherinegorter8211 11 месяцев назад
@@deenabpeacelovebryant9122 Trust issues now. Healing time and trusting that it'll happen when the time is right. Healing and loving ourselves has a lot to do with who we attract to us.
@deenabpeacelovebryant9122
@deenabpeacelovebryant9122 11 месяцев назад
@@catherinegorter8211 I so agree have you ever read this book called trust. It's a great read
@Lin6055m
@Lin6055m 11 месяцев назад
My husband just wanted a fling and I wasn’t really interested in a relationship either. After about 4 weeks we both fell in love with each other. After 10 years of dating, we were married for 35 years. He passed away last year. I miss him terribly
@mmommo-hx4dx
@mmommo-hx4dx 11 месяцев назад
wow
@shannonbeeman8722
@shannonbeeman8722 10 месяцев назад
My deepest condolences.
@cheryljohnson380
@cheryljohnson380 9 месяцев назад
I'm so sorry for your loss.😢
@meli7315
@meli7315 9 месяцев назад
Sending you blessings 🤍🕯️
@K-ONE16
@K-ONE16 9 месяцев назад
My condolences 🙏 This shows that relationships have no laws. Allow God direct you
@kwetsephetla3597
@kwetsephetla3597 9 месяцев назад
I was recently speaking to a guy who was pressuring me about being in a relationship. As soon as I mentioned that I want to wait before we get intimate, he started communicating less. I ignored him, deleted his numbers and moved on with my life.
@hyusuf4280
@hyusuf4280 9 месяцев назад
Good for you. You know your worth. Wish I knew mine before I got intimate w guys and wasted my time with ones who were in it for the sex more than care for me, and weren't worth.
@kwetsephetla3597
@kwetsephetla3597 9 месяцев назад
@@hyusuf4280 I didn’t always start off this way. Took years to work on it and to realise that I was compromising myself because I was desperately seeking love. Be gentle with yourself, forgive yourself and try again. Eventually setting boundaries and sticking to them will be easier ❤️
@heide-raquelfuss5580
@heide-raquelfuss5580 8 месяцев назад
You did the right thing. You kept your dignity, head up high and valued yourself. No man is worth your body, soul, health to be destroyed. In Irak the family kills the girls when she had sex without a real marriage first. There are males who want just sex and fool her into TEMPIRARY MARRIAGES' where the girls fall into the trap, believing the marriage was a real marriage for life. The males make them believe they love her and want marriage. The paper is worthless and then he leaves her. If the family knows about this and she is not a virgin anymore and no man wants her because she is not virgin and allready USED by a man sexually, they kill her to preserve their honor. A girl there is also to old at 18 years old. No man wants an 18 year old for marriage. They want as young as 9, 19, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16 ( 16 is allready tricky ). This used girls have no option than to flee and become often indeed prostitutes. Men after man using her with tempirary marruages of 1 day, 1 month. She gets pregnant, she is more ruinef. Life is very hard and girls give their body, virginity, soul away and pay ALLWAYS A PRIZE and are ruined. USA and in some countries in Europe are giving bad examples on how to behave and conduct themselves. I see all dressed like easy prostitute- like fashion dolls. Behaving to loose. Its not the fault of women, but the economic life we have to make women objects.
@amazingjane2703
@amazingjane2703 7 месяцев назад
​@@heide-raquelfuss5580so, men could set a woman up to have her killed. So disgusting that men want to have sex with children
@joannap.3473
@joannap.3473 6 месяцев назад
That’s awesome! He wasn’t worth your time.
@JenniferRogers-lk9vg
@JenniferRogers-lk9vg 8 месяцев назад
If a man truly respects you, wants to get to know you because he wants to have something more than just a sexual relationship, he’ll wait. Communication & getting to know someone deeply can be very intimate. You are worth it!
@lebomorake-dj9ro
@lebomorake-dj9ro 4 месяца назад
This days this guy's use money to use woman...
@lorinking972
@lorinking972 Месяц назад
7:36
@Richiko06
@Richiko06 17 дней назад
That’s why I’m engaged to my man ❤
@ADebsLife
@ADebsLife Год назад
Men who are so uncomfortable with women's periods should be avoided in any case.
@scarletsletter4466
@scarletsletter4466 10 месяцев назад
It’s funny that you say this bc I once dated a guy who’d faint at the sight of blood, even when he got tests at drs. It’s a real medical problem but yeah, it was too much for me to deal with 25% of my life 😂
@cynthiasandoval1101
@cynthiasandoval1101 7 месяцев назад
I never met a man that was uncomfortable with periods
@lyvsix
@lyvsix 7 месяцев назад
It's laaighable. That is a kid. Men dont give a fuck aboit periods.
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 7 месяцев назад
As in what
@aditiprakashgaikwad8268
@aditiprakashgaikwad8268 6 месяцев назад
@@scarletsletter4466 a
@haileynichelle8343
@haileynichelle8343 Год назад
Guys trying to have sex with me in exchange for the price of dinner is the exact reason why I don't date. Don't treat me like a cheap whore, or more accurately, a dog who will roll over and let you pet them in exchange for food. I find it SO OFFENSIVE, INSULTING, and SCARY that a man would think I would be willing to give a husband level privilege to a man I've just barely met.
@BLESSFUL-Bliss
@BLESSFUL-Bliss 11 месяцев назад
Don't let a few bad apples spoil the bunch. All due... You sound incredibly damaged to say that you don't date [hard stop], simply because of a few bad experiences. Perhaps, though, that is an indication that you're just not prepared to do so, yet. Wishing you healing, fortitude, a strong voice & personal empowerment, Hailey. 🙏🏽
@cleliamattana6582
@cleliamattana6582 10 месяцев назад
I met this guy at the airport and since he had the same layover as mine (I had a room with 2 beds, he had to sleep on the floor) I told him he could use the spare bed. Long story short. He bought me a Mc Donalds, and we had sex, I had to go back to Mexico where I was living at the time and he had to go back to Europe. Two years later he asked me to marry him. Moral of the story: live freely, have fun, and spontaneous things are the best, not a coincidence that all the guys I slept with "too soon" for many lady's standards, begged me to see each other again. Do you want to be taken seriously? It doesn't matter if you sleep with the guy for 1 hour or 1 month. Be a woman who has other interests in life, real ones, sparkles in your eyes when talking about them, the things that make you a COMPLETE person whether you have a man on your side or not. Men, the good ones, know this, they can smell you do not need them at all and there u go. I never had a one-night stand as they always wanted to see me and ended up in long-term relationships where they were the most attached. Did I meet guys who only wanted sex? sure! But the thing with these guys is not even the red flags, I immediately can't feel any connection. That's my only red flag. Even after 1 hour of talking it becomes very obvious.
@kdphotos4691
@kdphotos4691 10 месяцев назад
@@cleliamattana6582 - How did you actually date the man who asked you to marry him after two years? Did you move to Europe or did he move to Mexico?
@cleliamattana6582
@cleliamattana6582 10 месяцев назад
@@kdphotos4691 I had to go to Europe in Berlin for a conference and we met and it all started. Was crazy and he asked me to give us a try. And I moved back to Europe (I'm from Italy) so a couple of hours away, and it did work as we moved in together pretty quickly and the rest is history. PS, I did NOT give up my life and my dreams for him. I moved a lot and could work from anywhere in the world and he's also working on being able to work remotely as this is also his dream, in the meantime, Covid aside we took adventurous trips and I also traveled solo, so all good, we trust each other :)
@nadiaoak5123
@nadiaoak5123 9 месяцев назад
Or you just ask men out yourself & then they’re not buying you. You don’t have to not date in order to not be used. Just don’t let ppl control you.
@melbaT2770
@melbaT2770 9 месяцев назад
I think dating takes too much energy nowadays because social media and pornography skews ppl’s perceptions of others. Also, many have low EQ’s and can not handle honesty, IMO. It is a different world.
@Trisof88
@Trisof88 9 месяцев назад
A world of hell. A loveless world is hell
@heide-raquelfuss5580
@heide-raquelfuss5580 8 месяцев назад
Low EQ's, low IQ's too and low EVERYTHING.
@patriciahamilton6470
@patriciahamilton6470 7 месяцев назад
​@@Trisof88agree
@krissy.x
@krissy.x Месяц назад
It’s Babylon. That ancient pagan kingdom that just refuses to stay in the pit. This final beast will devour the entire earth and crush it as Daniel said. Then Jesus will finally return when satan proves he can’t make a utopia (return to the garden of eden) without God for the billionth time, and humanity will have a hard lesson to learn when we experience the horrors of tyranny for the trillionth time
@musingwanderer2765
@musingwanderer2765 10 месяцев назад
What u are saying is 100% correct. There was a guy who chased me for a year despite me telling him im wasn’t interested. When I had a low moment in my life, he was there and I was touched and fell for him. Immediately when he got me , he used and dumped me. And cheated on me. I didn’t really understand why since he chased me for a year: then I also come to a realisation I was a checklist he has to achieve and he’s prob taking revenge too. So ladies.. pls open ur eyes and be cautious if a guy chase u for long. It’s not great love or what
@Karsyn_Marie
@Karsyn_Marie 9 месяцев назад
Been through this it’s horrible
@ruffandrelax290
@ruffandrelax290 9 месяцев назад
Yup cause a real man will respect that a woman just don’t want him If he not taking hints Your his agenda
@breonnaalexander4300
@breonnaalexander4300 8 месяцев назад
I think I’m going through this now 😢
@musingwanderer2765
@musingwanderer2765 8 месяцев назад
@@breonnaalexander4300 sorry to hear that. You can break away and heal ❤️
@missmcphee8859
@missmcphee8859 8 месяцев назад
I'm so so sorry, what a bastard, don't worry he'll get what's coming to him. Scum like that always pay in the end
@LaPinturaBella
@LaPinturaBella Год назад
My all-time favorite first date was inexpensive, relaxed, and incredibly creative. We took his mototrcycle all around LA with a bagful of quarters going to every fountain we could find and then making a wish. It was fun, it was imaginative and unique as hell and it gave us time to talk without the pressure of sitting in a restaurant looking for things to talk about. We were on a mutual adventure.
@racheltania2464
@racheltania2464 Год назад
Aww, that does sound really sweet and fun.
@megriley9841
@megriley9841 Год назад
So fun! 🤩
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Год назад
And that never turned into a relationship or it was a short term fling. Because inexpensive motorcycle dates scream playboy
@mjohnson8206
@mjohnson8206 Год назад
@@redleeks6253 right
@ladyofthecentury
@ladyofthecentury Год назад
What a non date. You drove around and tossed quarters in a fountain and he got you to rub up against him. Very unsafe. Nope
@missede96
@missede96 Год назад
Men are such players it’s crazy what lengths they’ll go to sleep with you just to end up alone the next day, repeating the same cycle. Yet we wonder why there are so many broken women who don’t want children. God have mercy on us.
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV Месяц назад
nah..its just that women do not present themselves as wife material...women rule the dating market and go through men like its nothing...these podcasts only keep women delusional
@bigsexy412
@bigsexy412 4 дня назад
You left with a curse and hardship 😢😢😢
@candyxox
@candyxox 10 месяцев назад
I'm over dating and I'm over men. Too much work that I'm tired of doing and getting no results or bad results. I'd rather be alone. I'm happier that way.
@yb6139
@yb6139 10 месяцев назад
Me too...
@ms.exclusive4076
@ms.exclusive4076 9 месяцев назад
Totally agree ! TOTALLY😮😊
@nyshaiamcmillan-thompson8960
@nyshaiamcmillan-thompson8960 9 месяцев назад
Yea me to I hate men . But that finest mean I’m a lesbian. I hate it all . Relationships are out the window to much drama .
@LN-pm5yl
@LN-pm5yl 9 месяцев назад
Ive been single for 6 years and though I get lonely at times, this has been the most personal growth I’ve ever experienced.
@sweetlikeme
@sweetlikeme 8 месяцев назад
I know that's right
@maryhernandez5090
@maryhernandez5090 7 месяцев назад
I slept with my husband on the first date while he was going thru a divorce and neither of us were looking for a commitment. But we had so much fun with each other and he took me to dinner or a show on every date and always brought me flowers and little gifts on every date, plus called me every night, we fell into love very quickly! So he moved in with me rather quickly and we got married about 5 years later! We were together for over 30 years until he died in 2021. You just can't say that sex on the first date or having a fling will not ever lead to a serious longtime relationship!
@MT-hk9cp
@MT-hk9cp 7 месяцев назад
There are always exceptions, but in the majority of cases, it doesn't lead to marriage
@lala5061
@lala5061 7 месяцев назад
​@@MT-hk9cpfacts it don't
@heyyashleyyy2669
@heyyashleyyy2669 7 месяцев назад
Obviously your case is called the exception to the rule. Don’t you know that?
@nailpolish1493
@nailpolish1493 7 месяцев назад
It’s not typical nine times out of ten it doesn’t lead to marriage.
@MT-hk9cp
@MT-hk9cp 7 месяцев назад
@lala5061 Well, there are always exceptions, and I know two married couples who did sleep together within the first week. And I also know couples where it was months before they had sex, sex after marriage, etc, and there was infidelity, heartache, trials, etc,and one is divorced and the other still married. Let's keep it 💯 most men have the maturity of a 3 year old and a high level of hypocrisy when it comes to a woman having sex quickly with them. You have to move accordingly and do whats right for you! In the words of Samantha Jones from the old "Sex and the City" series. " Reality check. A guy can just as easily dump you if you fuck him on the first date as he can if you wait until the tenth."
@Ruth-vy1qj
@Ruth-vy1qj Год назад
Signs he wants you for sex: 1. You see each other on his terms. 2. He only calls you in the evenings, late, or when it is dark. 3. You never hang out in the daytime he tries to avoid anything that could feel like a date. 4. You never met any of his family or friends. 5. His compliments are based on your appearance. 6. It always gets sexual in every conversation. 7. He never replies to you via text or ignores your calls until he wants something from you. 8. You never go on dates. 9. You feel lonely as soon it is over once the physical intimacy is over. 10. There is no foreplay or it's all about him. 11. He always leaves straight after or starts making excuses to exit. 12. He never asks you about yourself. 13. He is not committed to you. 14. He chats with other women. 15. He checks out other women(look at their body even in front of you) 16. You never have serious conversations. 17. He annoyed if you don't have sex. 18. He told you he doesn't want anything serious. 19. He tells you a lot of people ignore that or don't want to believe that. 20. He expects something in return for taking you out.
@dingling2645
@dingling2645 Год назад
Woah, what a summary!
@jujukashasende4637
@jujukashasende4637 Год назад
Spot on 🔥👍🏾
@merladyneptune3908
@merladyneptune3908 Год назад
Ditto 🔥🔥🔥
@ConArtista
@ConArtista Год назад
Get him in bed, get him just ready. Then jump up and say..." I got to go. I'm meeting my mum for coffee. Bye. Don't call again."
@stacyjaye6350
@stacyjaye6350 Год назад
​@@ConArtista that sounds incredibly dangerous and cruel.
@tracyjae209
@tracyjae209 Год назад
I feel so different about sex. I just CANT do that with someone I’m not in a committed, long term, we’re getting married/ married type relationship. It is so personal and can potentially affect my health if I’m not 1000% sure we are on the same page and want the same things. Now that I’m really thinking about it, I can’t even kiss someone if I don’t feel I’m heading in that direction 🤔 I feel like something is wrong with me, because I look at the germs, who they are, who else has he been kissing let alone the other-ahhhhh! The whole thing just freaks me out!
@haileynichelle8343
@haileynichelle8343 Год назад
ME TOO! I feel the exact same way. I think there are a lot of people who are concerned about germs and STDs, but healthy relationships where you can ask questions like that aren't sensational enough or exciting enough to be part of modern media.
@Jaxmusicgal23
@Jaxmusicgal23 11 месяцев назад
Same!!!
@badger1586
@badger1586 11 месяцев назад
You guys are not alone. I feel the same way.
@parishers6351
@parishers6351 11 месяцев назад
Same here.
@Butterflieslove2
@Butterflieslove2 11 месяцев назад
Hahaha I get you girl 😅😅
@nana73carol46
@nana73carol46 7 месяцев назад
I knew on the first date that I wanted to marry my future husband. I was 15, and he was 17. We married at 18 and 20. We were happily married for 51 years and 4 days. We dated 3 years off and on, on mostly. I believe that you can know without a doubt when your right person shows up in your life. I have been a widow for 7 years. I have dated only a few men a few times with no connection. I met a man 4 months ago and we hit it off with that same intensity as with my sweetheart in my youth. We talk about everything. Right now I pray we are still wanting to be together next year and still growing the relationship.
@user-lg1ye7xo2m
@user-lg1ye7xo2m 6 месяцев назад
That's old school unfortunately men do not do that anymore
@alwaysright5901
@alwaysright5901 6 месяцев назад
Amazing! Pray to our Lord Jesus that if he is for you to bring him closer to you and if he's not for you to push him away from you. God only knows what's best and He's never wrong.
@sharonbraselton4302
@sharonbraselton4302 5 месяцев назад
thats 1970 t8me liñg goid overs
@selenamcqueen3381
@selenamcqueen3381 2 дня назад
There's a certain vintage where people were made of better stuff I believe, like you.
@lisadeav73
@lisadeav73 11 месяцев назад
Watch out for them saying they just want to go with the flow.That's another huge red flag
@priscilagoncalves5341
@priscilagoncalves5341 10 месяцев назад
Why it took me so long to learn this?
@dr.jenniferma3914
@dr.jenniferma3914 9 месяцев назад
That's them saying they already know they won't be falling in love with you.
@LuvKitKatt
@LuvKitKatt 7 месяцев назад
@@dr.jenniferma3914factual
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV Месяц назад
@@dr.jenniferma3914 dudes are not so called 'falling in love' there are zero benefits to be had from the modern woman
@MsOrganicBlack
@MsOrganicBlack 18 дней назад
​@@HolyRollerTV The modern male created the modern woman. You only have yourselves to blame.
@feather99999999
@feather99999999 Год назад
Men should not date if they are not financially prepared. This means his priorities are not straight and he should just focus working or other financial building paths. A meal is not equivalent to sex. It’s totally degenerate.
@joydorsy3341
@joydorsy3341 Год назад
No way A meal will NEVER B EQUAL TO SEX R U KIDDING ME 2023
@maricelperena1644
@maricelperena1644 8 месяцев назад
Very well said.❤
@NatzTalk
@NatzTalk Месяц назад
Thank you💛😍
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV Месяц назад
women are out here in these streets...going out doing drugs drinking, selling sex on only fans, sleeping with multiple men, friendzoning men who are FINACIALLY PREPARED then come to these comment section pretending to be virtuous..men have finally woken up to the BS of the modern woman
@zeldam00n
@zeldam00n Год назад
Everytime i watch these episodes i am terrified of dating
@joydorsy3341
@joydorsy3341 Год назад
Me too
@traceybiles2061
@traceybiles2061 Год назад
I'm done ..fine being alone
@haileynichelle8343
@haileynichelle8343 Год назад
Same, terrified. Infuriated too. Solitude is amazing. No games, manipulation, entitlement, or abuse.
@vickigonya9432
@vickigonya9432 2 месяца назад
Lol yeah, these days I'm not getting in a car and going anywhere with a guy I don't know. I could end up dead. 😮 I'm happy single ☺️ ❤
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV Месяц назад
nope you are terrified of dating dudes who are just average working lcass...high quality dudes are not going for the game women try to run on them
@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven
@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven 3 месяца назад
Im just going to stay home
@thesassyartiststudio3439
@thesassyartiststudio3439 Месяц назад
😂😂😂🎉😢
@viviansan6842
@viviansan6842 8 месяцев назад
I'm Not Compromising, I'm Not Lowering My Standards To Be In A Relationship.... 💯🎯
@zaragray6199
@zaragray6199 6 месяцев назад
Same here...never everrrrrrr
@queenc8280
@queenc8280 5 месяцев назад
don't
@gc2137
@gc2137 Год назад
Honest communication between both parties is so vitally important.
@yolandagrabowski6043
@yolandagrabowski6043 9 месяцев назад
Like Grettle. Put a stick out first to test it.
@lo8496
@lo8496 8 месяцев назад
When there’s nO communication it’s useless💁🏻‍♀️
@n0426
@n0426 6 месяцев назад
If he has bad intentions from the start the honesty is very questionable.
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV Месяц назад
women dont want honesty...
@jackierumph2779
@jackierumph2779 Год назад
The truth of the matter is women and men love differently. For, most women she has to feel something for him. In order to sleep with him. Unlike the male. He does NOT have to feel anything for her before he sleeps with her. His emotions are not tied to his body!
@projectacuhope
@projectacuhope 11 месяцев назад
This is true. For most women, there must be a heart connection to activate things "down there". There used to be a thing called romance. I'm old enough to remember it... meaning, seeing it in old movies and such.
@Ace7of7Cups
@Ace7of7Cups 8 месяцев назад
women, females has have to learn at young age to protect themselves from males that only want to use them for sex. Males rare have had this experience or have to learn this lesson when they are growing up that is why this difference exists among other social constructs that female have to contend with that males will never have to. Dont think these ideas are automatic
@projectacuhope
@projectacuhope 8 месяцев назад
@@Ace7of7Cups I suggest that all girls have locks on their bedroom door and sleep in a locked bedroom from their early teens to the time they leave the parental home, and then wherever they go such as college, have locks on their bedroom door. It will help them avoid a lot of potential trauma.
@julesa1754
@julesa1754 2 месяца назад
The absolute fuck?🤦🏽‍♀️ Atp just delete men if they're so dangerous sheesh
@buffchickadee
@buffchickadee 9 месяцев назад
A cheap date can really take off the pressure and help focus on getting to know someone. Went on a coffee date guy made it clear he just wanted sex . It felt so comfortable to walk away and saying good luck with things. No one wasted resources.
@gailainsley6939
@gailainsley6939 9 месяцев назад
Girl please. Whilst you are worried about wasting his resources he had no issue with wasting your time. You might as well have had coffee at home and FaceTimed him. The bar is in he|| sheesh 😅😴
@buffchickadee
@buffchickadee 9 месяцев назад
@@gailainsley6939 well you have to put time into anything you want. every relationship has a beginning you won't know until you put yourself out there to find the right person. trust me it was a very brief coffee date it didn't take long to realize we weren't a good fit. I would rather be told the truth of his intentions instead of a lie. yes he could have just messaged me with out a coffee date and that would have been great.
@LilithTheAquarian369
@LilithTheAquarian369 8 месяцев назад
@@gailainsley6939please preach 💜👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@sandycheeks1580
@sandycheeks1580 7 месяцев назад
😒We already know what’s up with coffee ☕️ & park dates. Thanks 🙏🏾 to the internet every woman can learn how selfish & manipulative these men are.
@LethalWeapon73
@LethalWeapon73 9 дней назад
Great idea
@winning3329
@winning3329 8 месяцев назад
I just want to warn ladies about what has happened to me. I had a couple of men who pretended to be inlove with me and tell me that they wanted a relationship with me and they would fake a whole relationship with me and when they felt things were getting serious like i would ask them that i wanted them to meet my family members then the men would disappear and cut all contract with me. Im warning women to never sleep with a man and make him wait until he marries you. These men can wait until you let them have your body. If i ever meet another man in the future s3x will be off the table. Im not giving wife benefits for a man to turn around and marry another woman.
@abiyubeshah
@abiyubeshah 11 дней назад
Refusal of extra marital sex by women is also good for men. It will help them settle down with one woman than
@kristinej.4182
@kristinej.4182 Год назад
I have to disagree that opposites attract. I really think compatibility and shared values are crucial for a relationship to work long term. I used to be with someone who was the opposite from me and it was such a struggle to get along. He didn’t understand my wants and needs and I couldn’t understand his without making a sacrifice each time we went and did anything together. Now I’m in a relationship with a man who has similar interests, goals and values and that actually ignites our chemistry each day and strengthens our connection. It’s working out beautifully.
@parishers6351
@parishers6351 11 месяцев назад
Right. If you are a clean freak and married to Mac nasty it’s an issue
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 11 месяцев назад
Kristine J thank you!!
@mccainproservices
@mccainproservices 11 месяцев назад
💯
@karenmazzola8758
@karenmazzola8758 11 месяцев назад
@willa1699
@willa1699 11 месяцев назад
@haileynichelle8343
@haileynichelle8343 Год назад
Guys, if you do choose to 'make a sexual move' on a date, please please PLEASE make sure you do it in a time and place where the woman has a safe exit. Make her feel comfortable in saying no if she isn't ready. Example: making a move in a car in an isolated place that is far from her home screams 'he's going to kill me and dump my body in a ditch if I say no'. She will never want to see you ever again. Oppositely, asking in a car when you are about to drop her off at her destination feels much safer (to me) because if she is uncomfortable, she can leave without being stranded in an unknown place. Personally, I think it's disrespectful to ask about sex in the early stages of dating in the first place, but that's me and my high standards.
@kittyb9453
@kittyb9453 11 месяцев назад
Needs more likes❤
@sophies_poppin
@sophies_poppin 11 месяцев назад
Facts💙
@AngM-lu7cb
@AngM-lu7cb 11 месяцев назад
Or they can ask before making a move. That way both people are openly communicating and he's making sure he has her consent. I think men who ask for consent before making a move, even if it's just for a kiss, are gentlemen. I think the same goes for women; better to ask him for his consent too.
@kdphotos4691
@kdphotos4691 10 месяцев назад
It isn't high standards at all. It is normal standards. Men have had centuries to gaslight women into believing their purpose is to be prostituted or used as broodmares. It isn't normal to talk about sex to people you don't know. What is normal is to ask questions about another's life and their hopes and dreams, to find a common ground. Personally, I find it annoying that men can't relax and enjoy themselves without obsessing about sex all the time. It's as if being an adult, you aren't allowed to have fun anymore. You're only allowed to engage in activities that have to do with f*cking. It's exhausting and dull. Where are the men who like to have fun? The ones who like to laugh and enjoy life? The ones who treat women as sisters first?
@AngM-lu7cb
@AngM-lu7cb 10 месяцев назад
@@kdphotos4691 You're right, it's just decent human behaviour to not talk about sex with complete strangers. I'm always immediately turned off by guys who get too sexual in their mannerisms or talk when interacting with me. Like, dude, I don't even know you lol.
@artisticagi
@artisticagi 9 месяцев назад
5:20 No interest if on the period 7:24 Vague intentions 13:00 true love is instant 16:30 differentiation between instant true love and just chemistry or infatuation- they don’t dive deeper. They don’t know that person more. 19:00 the misinterpretation of a man chasing you When you’re really interested you chase as a woman. So you try ink it’s the same when it’s a man chasing May not mean he is actually serious about you 20:25 he chases and now he’s like it’s my turn he chases and the effort stops because he got what he wanted
@SRHisntSilent
@SRHisntSilent 8 месяцев назад
THANK YOUUU
@agnesn3209
@agnesn3209 8 месяцев назад
Well done. Thanks
@dennissmith7214
@dennissmith7214 7 месяцев назад
True love is instant😳😂😂🤦🏽‍♂️, now that’s funny!
@reneewatson582
@reneewatson582 7 месяцев назад
Sometimes a person you have known for years changes in a bad way. It is very alarming and you wonder why has this happened? I have seen this in a few close friends even my husband, so I know this is very true. We have to sometimes Run or keep getting hurt. Just look out for yourself. I hope this helps. God bless us, He always helps us get over it.
@ajr7940
@ajr7940 7 месяцев назад
True love is never instant. Throw that one out it's A LIE
@thenutrientwhisperer3700
@thenutrientwhisperer3700 11 месяцев назад
I once had a man say to me, “I really like the pace of this.” Things were moving slowly. That was code, for let’s keep it casual as it turns out.
@Yahookudi
@Yahookudi Год назад
Honestly, a guy who tries to initiate sex too early is a turn off for most serious women. There are way too many men who are looking for a quick lay and will lie and manipualte as if they are serious to get there. As a man, you don't want to be in the same bucket and viewed as possibly one of those guys so taking time to build attraction, trust and then trying to ahve sex is the right way to go. You can go in for a kiss or if she is DEFINITELY showing signs then yes but sex sex is more.
@heide-raquelfuss5580
@heide-raquelfuss5580 Год назад
In nature sex is making babies. Nowadays, people seem to forget that little 'twist'. Men think sex is for fun, a pass time thing, a thing you just do, a reason to get you laid with lies, manipulation, wrong intentions and so on. After paying you an icecream it seems that making babies is justified and if they do not 'get it' after 1 or 5 dates, or minutes, hours, weeks this men flip into nasty little assh@les. If nature intended NOT TO MAKE BABIES THIS WAY, well...then semen would not be produced every time in that regard. That way sex could potentially mean, it is just for 'some fun' purpose. But men seem to FORGET why sex exist in the first place. Or...they do not care. Which is also a big issue in this society, where babies need to be raised in very complex ways and survival. I think, most men do not want to raise all this babies they are producing while basically having sex with a woman. Women mostly they do not want even to marry... Women who basically are condamned to do it all alone by themselves if we all are honest. The nerves men have to go after sex is just mindblowing! They do nasty if they do not get it and nasty if they get it. Horrible. I know there are some men who are not jerks, but oooh boy...they are in the minority. Sorry if this post is to rough and verbal. Kind regards. It is crazy if you think about it really.
@sophies_poppin
@sophies_poppin 11 месяцев назад
Facts
@obosuck
@obosuck 11 месяцев назад
Every guy should look up the 12 stages of physical intimacy if he wants to lead properly. Saying "if she is DEFINITELY showing signs" isn't as helpful as "if she wasn't receptive to you putting your arm around her you definitely shouldn't go for a kiss." The only situation where I think serious seekers look like hookup seekers is probably dating apps (and virgins), since texting is such a time wasting activity they often try to get in person quickly which looks like disinterest in conversation. Like I think the real advice is "be respectful of boundaries," men should be escalating toward sex even as serious relationship seekers. Most high quality serious seeking men I know aren't getting passed over due to "appearing like hookup seekers" but because they aren't "chasing" and they also get stuck focusing effort toward situationships/friendzones because they aren't forcing the issue with escalation. Doing match+1 on the physical intimacy scale seems to me to be a no lose strategy: - If the escalation stops at a particular level for more than 1 date she isn't interested and you should discuss it or move on - If you mutually like each other the two of you connect physically faster, she feels chased and desired you get your sexual needs met, win-win - A man with access to sex is not going to jump into relationships solely for intimacy and is actually going to evaluate the relationship - The pace will be what she is comfortable with since you are waiting for her to match before going to the next stage - Respecting boundaries when you hit them has literally never backfired on me, I am still friends with some even if we stopped at 11/12 My hot take is that if you want to avoid hookups dating intentionally by pro-actively asking about their values and relationship goals before they can mirror yours, seeing how they react to boundaries, looking for mismatching words/actions, identifying love-bombing, not interested in dates just wants to go to his/your place, etc. is the best strategy. I am graysexual so sexual compatibility is important to me and I am quite upfront about that which is quite different from a bunch of vague sentiments that someone who is lying about being a LTR seeker gives. The majority of men I know who are focused on meaningless hookups have unresolved mental issues and low emotional intelligence so asking them how they feel in the moment or mentally checking what level of vulnerability they are showing might be an effective strategy.
@winning3329
@winning3329 10 месяцев назад
I had guys fake whole relationships with me. I had a narcissist ex boyfriend who faked a 2 year relationship with me and he went as far as introduce me to his family and friends and even let me live in his house, he played the part very well and faked love. After 2 years he discarded me like I never ment anything to him and with no shame he paraded the woman he was cheating on me with. This man never loved me, he never fell in love with me and he did the same to the other woman. I've seen men married for years who ghost their wives. When are men going to stop this? These men are traumatizing women and building a generation of mistrust and pain.
@madelinebigio7565
@madelinebigio7565 9 месяцев назад
@@winning3329ohh Yessss they have those but now I can spot him immediately
@LonjeMarie7
@LonjeMarie7 Год назад
MANY MEN of character have told me when they REALLY VALUE and like a woman they will WAIT. They see her as a keeper NOT a ‘throwback ‘
@heide-raquelfuss5580
@heide-raquelfuss5580 Год назад
Me too! A man told me one day he was madly truly in love. He did not make any moves to even touch her, pushing her, making sexual remarks, not this and not that, because he said...if i do something innapropiate, stupid i could push her away and lose her! Other women i did not really liked and where he had no feelings for, he would touch them in a few minutes or hours, quickly, being arrogant, cocky, verbally obscene, pushy, easy offended when rejected. But his real love for that girl made him very cautiuos, so she would not get stressed, scared, uncomfortable, rejecting him. Go figure. We women accept so much stress and being tyranized. We should be the ones who push back men very hard at each attempt to run us over and abusing us or disrespecting us. Better, after the first bad sign, run and never engage with that man. Normally your gut tells you...
@n0426
@n0426 11 месяцев назад
@@heide-raquelfuss5580 hell yes they know to do better when they want better. And you definitely deserve better.
@susankarambelas2430
@susankarambelas2430 11 месяцев назад
I hope that is my s. other's reason..
@BLESSFUL-Bliss
@BLESSFUL-Bliss 11 месяцев назад
Of course, they will wait; the alternative is loss...or _rape._ They will also gladly and eagerly engage, if she is willing. That said, never _assume_ that a _patient_ man is inherently a _good_ man. Wellness & Love to you all.🤍
@n0426
@n0426 11 месяцев назад
@@BLESSFUL-Bliss once they know they have you in their hands. They can easily be as disrespectful as a rap*st. And i see no difference between a “husband” and a “rapist” If they both act impulsively and disrespectfully. It matters how fast you get rid of them. Actually. It’s your time that is being wasted not theirs.
@marshapicardo363
@marshapicardo363 10 месяцев назад
Truth. I CANNOT be involved with more than 1 guy. I've TRIED getting involved with 2 simultaneously... It's so NOT IN ME. It was TORTURE for me mentally & emotionally. 😒
@NatzTalk
@NatzTalk Месяц назад
Same
@leanettebailey6785
@leanettebailey6785 Месяц назад
Me too
@angelageathers9754
@angelageathers9754 Месяц назад
Same here! How can I genuinely get to know someone if I’m juggling more than one person. Seems exhausting.
@doloresbrown9661
@doloresbrown9661 19 дней назад
Me too
@caroljenny7701
@caroljenny7701 3 месяца назад
The problem is that he won't just state that he's in it for sex. That's what is disingenuous about it. And lying by omission is still lying. It's still INTENTIONAL misleading someone to get what you want at their detriment.
@krisd6811
@krisd6811 Год назад
Ladies be careful. Men like this don't care and will keep on until you stop it. And if you like him its heartbreaking
@user-xr2lr9wj5s
@user-xr2lr9wj5s 3 месяца назад
Yes.trying to get passed this situation right now Younger man ot hurts worse than I've ever bee. Hurt. Illnever start seeing anyone again. I should have known better. He sorta made it clear at first je didn't want a relationship but then got to close
@mister-zen8491
@mister-zen8491 3 месяца назад
"Creeps" won't respect boundaries.
@mayasheartdesiire
@mayasheartdesiire 3 месяца назад
True 🤧🤧
@lala5061
@lala5061 2 месяца назад
​@user-xr2lr9wj5s I understand 🤗 just remember to listen to what the man is saying and believe it when he says he's not looking for a relationship, u just gotta believe that...u keep the ssme energy he has nothing more...
@HolyRollerTV
@HolyRollerTV Месяц назад
but why you like a dude that doesnt want you, thats not his problem
@sylverngroden8078
@sylverngroden8078 Год назад
A man and a woman will do everything right or wrong and still be or not be for you....only God alone knows men n women real intentions ❤
@patriciasafricanhairbraidi376
I absolutely agree 💯 real talk wisdom from heaven 💯
@Kimberly-up1cb
@Kimberly-up1cb Год назад
Prove it.
@joydorsy3341
@joydorsy3341 Год назад
Only God knows EVERYTHING ABOUT HIS CHILDREN .....GOOD OR BAD 2023
@lorettadavis2195
@lorettadavis2195 11 месяцев назад
Dating is not used for sex it's to get to know someone you interested in and if it doesn't work out move on but if the both of you are compatible it's best to marry.
@smith899
@smith899 8 месяцев назад
20:40 TRUE! All of this is true! I was young and naive while in college. I was dating a guy with whom I worked during the summer in another state. He put the full court press on me, and after a few months, I agreed to get engaged…at which point he stopped. He said something akin to, he caught me, he doesn’t need to do any more work…there was no need to shower me with his attention. (I am NOT talking money! He had none! I was the one who had money to spend. I am talking rubbing my back, holding my hand while watching a movie at home curled up on the couch, taking walks in a park and stopping to watch the t-ball game…) I stayed until the beginning of the next summer, when I fortunately woke up and broke off the engagement. He wasn’t a bad guy, but he wasn’t for me!!! I met my husband 34 years ago, married 32, and he STILL showers me with his love, as I do him.
@shaydeArtell
@shaydeArtell Год назад
So much of this was maddening. Guys need to END relationships themselves instead of putting it on the women to break up, no excuses guys. This is just extremely immature and it is MANIPULATIVE. Grow up and stop making excuses for them it’s disgusting
@nadiaoak5123
@nadiaoak5123 9 месяцев назад
Agreed.
@anotherwarren7994
@anotherwarren7994 Год назад
Huh? Infatuation is instant. Love is what remains beyond infatuation.
@minalpuntambekar1239
@minalpuntambekar1239 3 месяца назад
Exactly
@vitaminhead1465
@vitaminhead1465 7 месяцев назад
If you are dating online, you are playing a dangerous game.
@Randaronii
@Randaronii Месяц назад
💯 I always find the men on apps being recycled because they don’t want to change and won’t fix toxic traits of their personality
@gloriapasewaldt5364
@gloriapasewaldt5364 2 дня назад
Dating is a dangerous game period. No matter where you do it..
@urbanchynadoll
@urbanchynadoll 9 месяцев назад
When he said, "Don't internalize actions." That's hard not to do when communication is not involved. People need to speak up and communicate.
@LuvKitKatt
@LuvKitKatt 7 месяцев назад
EXACTLY
@andriavinithalobo5813
@andriavinithalobo5813 6 месяцев назад
Point
@mayasheartdesiire
@mayasheartdesiire 3 месяца назад
THIS!!!!
@pimpisal8290
@pimpisal8290 Год назад
Some folks might not agree and want to encourage me to keep looking for the one, but I've quit trying(and dating). Don't get me wrong, I don't think all men are jerks. But I'm just fed up with weeding out jerks, being manipulated, and getting dissapointed. There're things in life we're not good at no matter how hard we try, and I guess for me it's relationship. But it's ok though. I can still find happiness and pleasure in other aspects of life. Sex toys are diversified too.
@geraldasinois4204
@geraldasinois4204 Год назад
I'm with you on that because the guy i am dealing with right now is only here for the sex
@crazycatlady312
@crazycatlady312 Год назад
Date women 🩷
@blicket
@blicket Год назад
Ha! You think that makes a difference.
@pimpisal8290
@pimpisal8290 Год назад
@@blicket Yeah, because atleast I don't have to deal with jerks anymore.
@Houseitch
@Houseitch Год назад
Love yourself first!
@elusivebeauty711
@elusivebeauty711 Год назад
The 1st hour of conversation saddens me and confirms what I’ve seen just in the last 1 1/2 years of being in the dating world post divorce. It’s also the reason I stopped dating casually. The whole premise that dating is to find a person to sleep with is just disrespectful to real commitment. I’m convinced there needs to be a “casual hookup” pool and a “serious commitment” pool. The first encounter with someone should not be transactional to the point of us sniffing each other out for intercourse. It should be for genuine getting to know them and gauging compatibility or connection. There should not be expectations to get sex just because a guy pays for dinner or any other activity. Every time Stephan referenced “letting a guy know you’re on your period” statements I cringed. Nobody needs to know your biological functions unless you have made it clear mutually that that is what the encounter could lead to. All of these unspoken expectations lead to people feeling used or taken advantage of on both sides. This narrative has to change somewhere.
@Corrans
@Corrans Год назад
I agree....its NOT his business whether you're on your period or not. I also cringed.
@AndiAlexander1
@AndiAlexander1 Год назад
I wondered why there was no mention of a man who is serious about a relationship being fine with period sex. Stephan has clearly never been married. Mature, married men aren’t squeamish about blood, and will ask their partner if they’d rather snuggle on the couch watching a movie, or have sex, and be fine with whichever makes her feel best.
@janereinhardt4715
@janereinhardt4715 Год назад
​@@AndiAlexander1 Stephan has been married once, a long time ago. I remember him mentioning it in one of his videos. I have only watched a handful of them.
@AndiAlexander1
@AndiAlexander1 Год назад
@@janereinhardt4715 maybe being squeamish about woman things hastened the end of it?
@janereinhardt4715
@janereinhardt4715 Год назад
@@AndiAlexander1 Maybe- who knows.
@EllieM_Travels
@EllieM_Travels 8 месяцев назад
This is great! My man respected that I wouldn’t jump into bed with him. We had that connection the moment we met and I felt so at ease with him, it was like I had known him forever. He kept asking me out and he’d say, “Hug? Hugs are nice, we should hug.” It was so sweet and really gave us time to get to know each other. Eight years and going strong.
@lmlacuff1
@lmlacuff1 7 месяцев назад
Who is the girl? Is she the hostess? Because this is definitely not an interview or a conversation because he's talking the whole time so I'm curious.
@sexylexie
@sexylexie 7 месяцев назад
@IDT- I’m sorry but I’m an older woman, 8 years is far too long to date the same man without a commitment. Young women please stop wasting all your youth 9n a man that can’t commit you you. Why buy the cow when he’s getting the milk for free. I truly hope you get what your looking for because you didn’t state you’re engaged..Access your relationship please and see who’s getting the short end of the stick.
@sexyminababy
@sexyminababy 6 месяцев назад
​@@sexylexieright 😂 like that literally made no Sense to me. That's way too long I'm sorry
@carolejackson8357
@carolejackson8357 9 месяцев назад
I've met plenty of people who jumps into relationships based on infactution aka "love" at first sight. Regardless of how the relationship turns out, they took a high risk. There is no way to really know a person without spending time in many situations.
@Corrans
@Corrans Год назад
Subtle distinction about the chasing. When a man is serious about you, he will pursue you. Simple as that. If he's too hurt from previous relationships, then he needs therapy for that and you can't fix that and shouldn't try. In my humble experience, if a man likes a woman, no matter what, he will call, ask her out, etc. BUT there is a distinction between chasing her relentlessly and proper, respectful pursuit.
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer Год назад
Yes, but sometimes they are reeling from the chance of a new opportunity and have to get their conviction completely in order. They have to actually make high-level decisions about life and what they want and consider her and what would be only fair to ask from her.
@SoloCityTravels
@SoloCityTravels 11 месяцев назад
YES! Thank you for saying that! I understand some people may be hurt from their past, but the result of talking to someone hurt from the past and someone who is a player is the same. You feel alone, ignored, and there is no relationship. They need healing
@IVvOOvVI
@IVvOOvVI 11 месяцев назад
True, I agree, but some men nowadays just will not ask a woman for their phone number because they would rather that she call the number on his business card.
@BLESSFUL-Bliss
@BLESSFUL-Bliss 11 месяцев назад
@@IVvOOvVI Yes, *_far too many_** feminine, beta, and/or non-initiating males exist today.* *Personally, I could never bother with those types; but, to each- her own.*
@BLESSFUL-Bliss
@BLESSFUL-Bliss 11 месяцев назад
TBF- it's not always pain/hurt, not always that deep. Many times, it is simple *_insecurity._* Sometimes, that is because he knows that she is too far out of his league.
@married2purpose
@married2purpose Год назад
2:04:00 is triggering. Basically men will know from the beginning they do not want a future with a woman (well before intimacy) and still stay with her to reap the benefits of being with her. How cowardly. I can never get on board with a man choosing conveniently to disclose that a woman is not the one once he has extracted as much as possible. I see why more women are murdering their romantic partners these days. It's unfortunate. Lack of transparency, discipline and accountability of men is harmful to women.
@SkyePhoenix
@SkyePhoenix Год назад
Agreed. Well said.
@sharon901
@sharon901 Год назад
It happened to me… when he couldn’t get more out of me then he bounced. Malignant narcissist
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Год назад
@@sharon901 That's not what a malignant narcisist is. Thats just a man and the one talking on the show is one himself.
@sharon901
@sharon901 Год назад
Oh thanks for clarifying what I went through….as if you had any idea.
@camellia8625
@camellia8625 Год назад
It is despicable behaviour
@kindlevarela8120
@kindlevarela8120 11 месяцев назад
imagine telling the guy ur dating ur on ur period hoping they get you chocolate and they tell u not to come over instead
@Ace7of7Cups
@Ace7of7Cups 8 месяцев назад
or a man not understanding how uncomfortable having a period can be. He gets upset because you feel icky so you are not feeling up for physical intimacy. Or he can't cant even understand how painful it is.
@NatzTalk
@NatzTalk Месяц назад
Tbh I never expect men to do this but do expect them to not be squeamish about my period.
@joanofarcxxi
@joanofarcxxi 9 месяцев назад
I wish men were blatantly and brutally honest. I give plenty of permission and ask vehemently for it, but they lie anyway. From begining to end it only games and lies. My boundaries are strong and my standards are high, so I stay single. Dating now is like the freakin twilight zone. Nothing is real, and I mean nothing.
@sanjuchaudhary9359
@sanjuchaudhary9359 6 месяцев назад
So true I don't understand why they have to lie when we women are happy to accept the truth
@sharonbraselton4302
@sharonbraselton4302 5 месяцев назад
date a gid
@percha099
@percha099 Год назад
A wealthy woman would never waste their time only for a ´´free meal´´ .I´m super hegemonic and wealthy, of course, I wouldn´t accept a meal from a guy that does not like me, because that would be eating in front an ugly man, responding to answers, investing in dress, make-up, hair, for one meal? No thank you... I rather go alone to eat like Meelena from Mortal Kombat, with any man watching with lust at me while I eat my pizza. If a man can´t afford a meal, well... he is not even ready to date, or starting a family...sorry .. but´s a big red flag
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Год назад
This Lisa keep bringing 'male dating coaches' to a podcast called 'women of impact'. They have no credentials. Why doesn't she bring female dating coaches who know the game? Just because women listen better if its a man telling them?
@honeydove_4844
@honeydove_4844 Год назад
Same here..I dodge alot of dates if i"m not really interested. I dont waste my time, not even for a free meal.
@catamish9338
@catamish9338 11 месяцев назад
Trust your gut. If you think something is off, slow the relationship down or end it. I had a date and never felt his name was right when I said it. I soon found out he was a classA player/narc. Dumped.
@CoCo-eu1hg
@CoCo-eu1hg 6 месяцев назад
I got love bombed first time ever. I had just got out of a 16 year relationship and wanted to take things slow. He was calling, texting me, i was too, i will take accountability. Right after we alept together he compltely changed, said lets take things slow now. Found out he was back on the dating website within hours. My friend told me, I was so upset, called him out on it. He blamed me and said the last date was so weird and it was because he told me on Valentines Day he still had feelings for his ex which btw I had asked him on 4 different dates are you looking for something serious and do you still have feelings for someone? He said once we slept together the closer we got the more I reminded him of her. I was so mad at myself, for believing that bullshit. If men could juat be honest and say 'hey, I am just looking to have sex'. It would be so much easier but no, they have to lie constantly. I am.done dating.
@Savedbygrace_awareofthenarc
@Savedbygrace_awareofthenarc 7 месяцев назад
It's all about communication. All this trying to figure this and that out is just too complicated. No one is a mind reader. Honest communication is the key.
@sharonbraselton4302
@sharonbraselton4302 5 месяцев назад
mond readibg dev8ces ex8st lie deteorrz ec8st
@naturelover1284
@naturelover1284 Год назад
they talk about marriage right away and you just met...they make sexual innuendos constantly, don't giggle it reinforces the disrespect
@n0426
@n0426 11 месяцев назад
Narcissistic bast*rds.
@cisgietm8998
@cisgietm8998 Год назад
What is missing in the first 30 min is the importance of open transparant respectful communication. Men and woman are no mind readers and we schould not spent our precious life energy on guessing what the other person is meaning to say.
@arwenperea
@arwenperea 8 месяцев назад
He lost me multiple times with the double standards, but listening to this while sleeping helped me absorb the reality that engaging in relationships is a giant waste of energy.
@catcat9582
@catcat9582 7 месяцев назад
Literally same... also falling asleep and it all just feels moot. I can't handle all of this.
@LuvKitKatt
@LuvKitKatt 7 месяцев назад
What double standards..?
@Loverofartsandmusic
@Loverofartsandmusic 9 месяцев назад
This conversation gave me a different perspective. People are complicated, holding back something good because of fear. As for me, expressing my honesty is what I'm comfortable with and it's up to the person if he will reciprocate and I'm fine otherwise. Hope we find what we're looking for.
@leighatkins22
@leighatkins22 8 месяцев назад
Hahaha love your username...
@Name-sb1fr
@Name-sb1fr 7 месяцев назад
Sounds like you'll be waiting a long time.
@zeldam00n
@zeldam00n Год назад
I think youre talking about attraction, not love. Love is actions that are consistent over time
@LuvKitKatt
@LuvKitKatt 7 месяцев назад
Word
@xoTeaBellox
@xoTeaBellox 11 месяцев назад
Some will say they want something serious to get you trapped so they can abuse you.
@vanessaacosta17
@vanessaacosta17 7 месяцев назад
GOD knows how grateful I am to have come across this video!!! God bless everyone tuning in! @Lisa and Stephen are amazing for this !!
@dr.jenniferma3914
@dr.jenniferma3914 9 месяцев назад
His most astute point was the reference to connection going "BOTH WAYS" and that if you think you're into someone but they aren't into you there is no connection. You are in lust. You are being hopeful, wishful, living in fantasy. You don't have a genuine connection with the person. So if he ghosts you, disappears after sex, talks about not wanting something serious etc, just take this as the knowledge that you were wrong about your own feelings. You mislabeled something lustful as genuine connection. This will help you move along faster. I've had what I thought were connections with men who ended up being totally full of it. They would demonstrate the truth of it and once I see it I kindly move on. Don't think about him. Don't wonder. Don't worry. Just let whatever image of him you have in your mind go and realized that he discovered the truth before you.
@hyusuf4280
@hyusuf4280 9 месяцев назад
Well said. Wish I knew all this 20 years ago.
@TiaraonCamera
@TiaraonCamera 7 месяцев назад
Damn that was kinda tough to swallow but thanks
@Maria-mq8pe
@Maria-mq8pe 11 месяцев назад
I do not have sex just for having sex ~ when he dumped me I finally woke up it deeply hurt but it was a lesson learned ~ I have not been interested in relationship and I don't need the B S ~ Thank you Jesus
@babou5694
@babou5694 Год назад
Main reason why I don’t date and stay single.
@hyusuf4280
@hyusuf4280 9 месяцев назад
Same here. 😆
@florencia2771
@florencia2771 11 месяцев назад
I went on a date with a guy, and he said is going with the flow. Well, I'm letting FLOW freely 😂😂😂😂
@Joy-mm3cz
@Joy-mm3cz 7 месяцев назад
Great reminders. My ideal first date: A Sunday afternoon, walking in a park or bike path. Then a snack or ice cream. This way, there is NO expectation of Dinner & sex, or me going back to your place. I let it be known PRIOR to seeing each other in person that I DONT kiss on the first date. Took pressure off & we can just focus on getting to know each other. I knew if they didn’t try to kiss me until date 3 or 4 that they really LIKED me for me and we could actually build a good foundation that’s required.
@thanksmuch8547
@thanksmuch8547 Год назад
When you say no sex before marriage, it weeds out all the unfaithful men & women. When you date a man he is one way. When you move in with that same man he changes & becomes different. When you marry that same man he is different again. If you base your marriage on sex & then one of you gets sick, or has an accident or becomes crippled, or she later has baby after baby, the sex changes or is not there for 2 years! He leaves because he's not use to that.
@n0426
@n0426 11 месяцев назад
He played the long game just to get what he wants. Marriage doesn’t mean love it means he can get what he wants without feeling shamed in his community. That’s why they never care about the pregnancy period or raising the child.
@mikemaryniuk571
@mikemaryniuk571 2 месяца назад
You made a lot of assumptions here. Please don't put ALL men in the same box please.
@haileynichelle8343
@haileynichelle8343 Год назад
I hate him each time he says, "What women don't understand is..." You know what some men don't understand? THAT YOU MUST ASK FOR CONSENT BEFORE MAKING A MOVE. There needs to be a clear, continuous, and vocal "YES" from the woman. STOP ASSUMING THAT XYZ FACTORS (LIKE KISSING LATE AT NIGHT) IS AUTOMATIC CONFIRMATION OF HER CONSENT. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
@mister-zen8491
@mister-zen8491 3 месяца назад
Newsflash: jerks don't respect boundaries or consent. You get what you often choose.
@mayasheartdesiire
@mayasheartdesiire 3 месяца назад
THIS! Bc sexual coercion is a crime
@kayyy.beeeee6173
@kayyy.beeeee6173 4 месяца назад
I love this. I’ve realized that if I really like I man, I would be 100% ok with just a walk in the park. If I’m not sure I like a man, it means I probably don’t like him
@mishaanton5436
@mishaanton5436 7 месяцев назад
At 67 out of dating pool. But this man has understanding of men & women down and what works as well as I've ever heard or read.
@laurendilaurentis6467
@laurendilaurentis6467 Год назад
2:03:55 Umm what? If a man stops putting effort into a relationship with a woman because he's no longer intereste BUT continues to be intimate with her, IS USING. His excuse for men being "scared to hurt a woman's feelings" is a cop out and so stupid. A man doesn’t want to her a girls feelings by being honest but will continuously disrespect her? Like 💀
@nadiaoak5123
@nadiaoak5123 9 месяцев назад
Yup it’s ridiculous & I can’t believe he is wiling to say that with a straight face publicly. Can’t take him seriously talking that way.
@Ace7of7Cups
@Ace7of7Cups 8 месяцев назад
One of the worst cop-outs is them requesting is a "Break" and many of them get attached to a fantasy idea of you. Then when they learn more about you, they aren"t mature enough to handle grey areas or imperfections. Being in a relationship requires more active participation than the friendships which some of them have not learned either.
@katieraehiphiphooray
@katieraehiphiphooray 3 месяца назад
Lots of men will say they are looking for serious or marriage to get you to move faster. It happens more and more now.
@ebonyphoenixrising6094
@ebonyphoenixrising6094 6 месяцев назад
Just started dating a guy. Told him for religious reasons I don't have sex before commitment. Date number 3 after verbally saying he was okay with it, he continued to talk with me sexually. I refused sex again on the 3rd date, he's now ghosted me. Sigh oh well
@carolejackson8357
@carolejackson8357 9 месяцев назад
It's easier to feel like you have not been played if you didn't give your all. Sex is for marriage. It is made to be a bonding act.
@sharonbraselton4302
@sharonbraselton4302 5 месяцев назад
nit 1980 toó 2009
@QueenBee-fg1iz
@QueenBee-fg1iz Год назад
Thanks to you and your channel I can no longer be f***ed with. He’s never going to get help, so I’m gone for good. He can play his games with her, his children, and their moms. 💪🏻
@susanlindsay7970
@susanlindsay7970 6 месяцев назад
I had the same thing happen as Lisa and her husband. They came in with a fling but my relationship came in with just a conversation with neither of us looking or wanting a relationship. The connection was clear during the 3rd conversation and we both felt it. OMG We were very serious in 30 days. So fast. That was 90 days ago. Oh, by the way we are 80 yrs old.
@JustMe-ki3ce
@JustMe-ki3ce 5 месяцев назад
@sharonbraselton4302
@sharonbraselton4302 5 месяцев назад
hooy beep shiit ood livee bes8des 1980
@Elsie144k
@Elsie144k 9 месяцев назад
I can understand women being drawn to this man and thinking they have a connection with him. It’s because he is so authentic that you feel you know him and can trust him. When a man has true genuine integrity, authenticity, and respect within himself, it allows women that sense of safety and security that is so lacking from many relationships today.
@carolejackson8357
@carolejackson8357 9 месяцев назад
My "nice guy" fiance slipped me a marijuana laced brownie two weeks before our wedding. No he doesn't tell the story that way; I overheard him twisting the story on the phone. Totally against my personal values. Deal breaker. We were never able to recover from that. Once he was no longer trying to impress me, he became his true self. People who knew us discerned something was hidden. But they never saw anything concrete. They prayed for the hidden to be revealed. Bam. I was fully in love w him. I said let's wait ... He said, "It now or never." Revealing. I chose never. That was 1983. I have had a wonderfully adventurous life. Best choice made.
@Tropicana323
@Tropicana323 7 месяцев назад
Omg I’m in the process of leaving my narcissistic husband and it sounds scary out there ! But if I’m being honest , I’ll take my chances 🗣️OUTSIDE ! 🤣 sounds safer then the current situation.
@kimcurtis1943
@kimcurtis1943 3 месяца назад
Whatever you lead with, be it money or sex, don't be upset that the person expects the follow through.
@billie-ocean8286
@billie-ocean8286 9 месяцев назад
I don't tell men I'm on my period it's nobody's business
@azucarmorena5000
@azucarmorena5000 Год назад
I’m only an 1 1/2 in. How is this 3 hours? He’s not giving real scenarios. I’m sure he means well but he goes too far to make men sound like these innocent, confused, shy victims.
@elusivebeauty711
@elusivebeauty711 Год назад
2hrs in and it’s a lot circular discussion and mansplaining around why men don’t want to put real effort into courting/dating you properly. (I.e., not having the money to date multiple people, not feeling like the woman wants them sexually immediately, scared of being used/hurt, etc.)
@Adhara740
@Adhara740 Год назад
He is giving good insight what are you talking about. Open your ears.
@Camillyahreal
@Camillyahreal Год назад
The comment I was looking for he’s not being realistic he’s playing it safe
@Camillyahreal
@Camillyahreal Год назад
@@Adhara740 it’s regurgitated in for three hours. That’s what he did.
@mindyann8903
@mindyann8903 Год назад
Just watch Tony Gaskins sis - this dude isn’t it. Within the First 10 minutes of him talking about “you should tell a guy your on your period and ask if that’s ok “ lost me. 🚮
@tonyale7204
@tonyale7204 7 месяцев назад
It's so hard to find serious people these days and learning how to date again after you decided to be on tour own for a while is even more frustrating 😢
@bigsexy412
@bigsexy412 4 дня назад
They are broke and average
@phoebeblyinmaine
@phoebeblyinmaine 11 месяцев назад
That beard looks glued on😆
@lauracuell1526
@lauracuell1526 Месяц назад
The part about women's intuition is so validating. I've followed my intuition many times and second guessed myself, or been questioned by others and told I was making a mistake. But I knew.
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 11 месяцев назад
Communication is 🔑 key. Examine that male . Is he marriage materials, skilled, mild tempered, gentle behaviors, etc.
@sweetpea3599
@sweetpea3599 Год назад
That’s so great you mentioned you fall in love right away instead of love happening over time. That’s what happened with my bf and I . We met . Felt an instant connection . We both felt like we always known each other forever but obviously we just met. We for about 8 hours straight the first day. Then everyday after ever since. But we both knew right away. We knew within the first few days in the first week. I tired to talk myself out of what I felt for him and he thought he was just as crazy for feeling in love too. We are way past our high school days . Both have kids that are in their 20’s so we thought this is just crazy . The connection was so strong between us immediately . It was actually really sweet , cute and funny that we both thought we must be crazy for both of us knowing this is the one right away . I thought ok I’m in love but this is just way too soon . He told me he loved me within the first 2 weeks. He said he just knew right away after we met . The funny part is I never told him that I knew right way too and tried to talk myself out of it thinking this is just crazy . He never told me he was thinking the same thing about himself. We both had that conversation a about knowing right away few months later . It’s been two years now that we’ve been together . We both want to spend our lives with each other. We had conversations about the fact we never thought something like this would ever happen like it did. Where you meet , have an intense deep connection and fall in love that quick . But it did. Stephen ,You are 100 percent correct about how real love works . It is right away .
@susankarambelas2430
@susankarambelas2430 11 месяцев назад
Sounds like me and someone I met...
@passionflower522
@passionflower522 11 месяцев назад
If it was so intense, why haven't you married? It's been 2 yrs. After 2 weeks he told you he loved you, and you commented like you've won the lottery.....and your not children....so why aren't you married?
@soiledskin
@soiledskin 11 месяцев назад
💯 Absolutely, such a wonderful feeling! Hoping that you both have an amazing future together.✨️
@IVvOOvVI
@IVvOOvVI 11 месяцев назад
@@passionflower522 she probably is rejoicing over his potential and not the true him. She is still in her feelings are not in her right mind.only time will tell if marriage is in the cards.
@BLESSFUL-Bliss
@BLESSFUL-Bliss 11 месяцев назад
@@passionflower522 *Valid points; good question.*
@JulianaBenner
@JulianaBenner 11 месяцев назад
Did they address each partner getting an STD check before they choose to have sex??
@shybunnie2259
@shybunnie2259 10 месяцев назад
I have learned so many lessons watching this. Just saw a post where a man asked a woman out for ice cream & she turned him down. I say that was a gentleman gesture. She thought he was being cheap.
@miriamcollins7587
@miriamcollins7587 Год назад
1.) He doesn’t want to take you anywhere. He wants the most for the least effort. Only their house or your house or a hotel room all the time. 2.) He doesn’t respect your desire to want to wait for sex. You shouldn’t need to give him a deadline (3 weeks, 3 months etc)…just off the table until you know each other. Establish this early and see who stays and still shows up in all the real ways. If he says yes but he’s pressuring you or pushing it or trying to get you drunk and have sex…then that’s a red flag…. 3.) He doesn’t want to see you when you’re on your period. Keep in mind men have a hard time rejecting offers, so just see if he stops inviting you out if you are on your period. Ps….who tells dates they’re on their period?????😂😂😂😂 that’s none of their business????? Wow. Times have changed. 4.) Never expresses intentions toward you. When you ask, “what are we,” they say things like “let’s go with the flow…” or other such vagueness…. He doesn’t want you to place any expectations on him. There’s no rush to make it exclusive…. He’s not worried someone else will date you. 5.) He chases, he gets you, and then the effort stops…or they expect you to start chasing them now. Avoid the chasers. It should be mutual interest. I stopped watching 23minutes in, but this is what I got.
@elusivebeauty711
@elusivebeauty711 Год назад
You recapped perfectly for that timestamp. #3 and 4 are dead giveaways that the game is indeed different these days. I don’t recall ever telling a man I was on my period. I guess unless sex is on the table immediately, you can expect #4 to be vaguely discussed. Most guys can’t see themselves stating anything intentionally if they haven’t gotten you on your back. It’s a new age…
@rina908
@rina908 Год назад
I AGREE WITH WHAT HE SAYING FOR THE MOST PART, BUT WHAT HES MISSING IS MEN SHOULD COMMUNICATE when HE realizes he don't want her but like he said most men don't because they still want to use the girl for sex. AND THAT'S when it falls on he guy HE IS COMPLETELY WRONG FOR THAT.
@nekiaglenn9880
@nekiaglenn9880 7 месяцев назад
This is so true! I’m experiencing this right now. If all the conversations end up sexually or there is constant pressure even after you’ve made your position to not have sex abundantly clear….drop him like he’s hot! What these males need to realize is what you’re offering is NOT in high demand. Any woman can find a dude to have sex with if they just want that, there will NEVER be a shortage of that. You have to be bringing way more to the table don’t be a a mindless mimbo (male bimbo)!
@TruthFinder7839
@TruthFinder7839 7 месяцев назад
Talk about it before you order food, good communication is the key. Dating is so easy, all your doing is trying to get to know each other and share some time together and be friends first. Stop listening to coaches and online instructors, act normal and be yourself.
@lala5061
@lala5061 3 месяца назад
Facts...that's what I say forget what everyone talking about and these lists...if u just be yourself and other people just be themselves it would be so easy to pick someone u really can be with for real 🤦🏽‍♀️
@dominiquemathews8617
@dominiquemathews8617 Год назад
This is good information. Honesty is necessary. Brutal honesty is something different and can be disrespectful or abusive. Brutal honesty is not needed.
@carolclarke1122
@carolclarke1122 Год назад
Exactly. You can be perfectly honest, but no need to be brutal about it.
@AngM-lu7cb
@AngM-lu7cb 11 месяцев назад
This! I absolutely hate when brutally honest people are like "But I'm just being real and honest." No, they're being an ass by not considering the other person's feelings. There is a way to be both kind and honest.
@colleen9220
@colleen9220 11 месяцев назад
Talking about men, but I am not sure a man would internalise a women not ready to settle down and heading off to sleep around and come back to you later. Crazy. If they go, no matter the connection. They should keep walking. Because someone that loves you. Is not going leave. People in love are scared to lose what they love. So men leaving are just not interested. They come back when they find out they made a mistake. That's the reason. So internalise be angry for being treated bad. They don't deserve you if they can't see the goodness in you,
@katlegokelesitse7106
@katlegokelesitse7106 3 месяца назад
I stayed with my ex for a year he never took me anywhere, never celebrated my birthday or said happy birthday to me , emotionally abused me , when I needed him he abandoned me I had a court case and he never asked me what was going on yet we slept together when i tried to communicate he told me to shut up . I moved out and healed my self still single not looking I think that was my last relationship 🙏
@hopi9761
@hopi9761 8 месяцев назад
I really appreciate this presenter. So genuine. His face is so sincere. Very grounded. Thank you 🙏
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