You have to admit though the judge was spot on and both were idiots. He tied to push his agenda too and the judge also shut him down. Both of them were more interested in putting each other down than who the baby daddy was. I don't think that little boy needs him in his life either. He needs someone who can teach him sense instead of holding a vendetta. Hopefully the grandmother can teach him how to treat people with respect. She was sensible.
How though when it's his daughter no matter her mouthy ways she didn't lie he was the father after questioning it for 23 years and he's still not in her life. To me he just wanted the $397 he overpaid 😊
I agree! Told my children dad to do it. I know who my child’s father is. He know. But I be wanting the world to know! None of that swing back bull…nah buddy. Anywho… he won’t do it lol
Doubt he'll get money back but the mother will probably get it changed to get death benefits and welfare without having to deal with the man. Honestly it would be in the best interest of all involved because you know that child is seeing that drama too.
Doubt he’ll get the money back because he made himself the legal father when he signed the paternity acknowledgment. Thats why men should make sure it’s their child before they sign it
He needs to get his name off and removed from any child support orders. He should count his blessings ant far away from her. He will not get any money back, if he actually paid anything.
Ridiculous in the first case of the judge to tell the guy who was lied to that he should continue to act like a father. The woman was disgusting, disrespectful and rude. Imagine her continuing to talk like that which she will to this man in front of her son. Demeaning him and no shame. He needs to walk away and not look back. The child will have no respect if the mother doesn’t. But he should be compensated.
and he wasn't? they were 2 peas in a pod. One thing though you are right. He does not need to be in the child's life as someone needs to teach him how to be a decent respectful person. I hope the grandmother can.
I would encourage this young man to move on with his life and look for a young lady who respects him! He has no obligation. I would not encourage him to stick around because these two are TOXIC together and he runs the risk of getting close and creating another paternity issue with this woman. RUN!! Perhaps send the young boy an anonymous gift whenever you think about him.
He can BE there for the boy and STILL NOT BE WITH THE MOTHER. Act like a mentor to the boy that's what i get when Judge Lake him NOT to abandon the INNOCENT boy.🙄❤🇯🇲
Nope, the child has the deceased fathers family now. If he would stick around he can't say anything, the mother is already a mess what you think the family will do to him.@@johnblagrove5177
and as far as I am concerned, I don't think him or her deserves someone better, but they do need to stay away from each other. Maybe the grandmother has a male relative who will mentor that child.@@johnblagrove5177
@@johnblagrove5177 that sounds good and actually would be great, but there are soul ties (spiritual ties) to consider which has a tendency to unlawfully draw people back together. But yes, if he can control himself around her, that would be great! Keep in mind she cried when she found out he wasn’t the father for a reason.
Well dear, it's called putting the child's best interest above your own. She doesn't ask them to be financially involved. She asks them to not walk out on children that they have been emotionally invested in. What's wrong with that? It's called being a responsible adult.
I agree with both sides. If a man doesn't want to stay or doesn't feel guilty, he should decide what's best for him. But, I can understand still being there for the child because he loves the child(ren) or doesn't want the child to have no father.
My abuelita (grandmother) was most of her adult life, a DYFS (CPS) head administrator. My cousin and stepsister, our school was across the street from her job, after school we'd all go there and sometimes even meet & play with the other kids there for ..... different reasons. The kids were always so surprised seeing us and seeing how happy we were, how clean we were, how my abuelita and our parents loved us. And they would always ask to come home with us. All of them saying they hated their parents and foster parents. There was one girl I remember that played with us and when it was time for her to go, she said to her mom "you don't deserve me. I deserve better!" That minute right there, my abuelita made a special report to have them keep coming back for check ups and knew that the "mother" was not as nice as she acted to be. It's easy to know what "patent" doesn't deserve their child! Just ASK THE CHILD. they will always tell you the truth.
the first case! the Judge have loss her mind! thinking this man should hang around, after she called me little one sit down! it's the disrespect for me! I'm out!
1st case: I don't appreciate the judge encouraging a man to take care of the seed of another man💯 Especially a seed his woman conceived while cheating on him.. that's crazy. And that lady wasn't even remorseful, she was disrespecting him the whole episode... she even said she wished the dead man was the dad. That's crazy!
However, dead man was, as his mother tested as grandmother, and they were related. At least the mother spoke up and admitted it when she saw how the baby looked as he got older. Don't forget neither were faithful. they were never committed. However, they both should have had sense enough to do a DNA test when the baby was born. Not right of him to be upset the baby not being his when for all he knows he has fathered a child with someone else at the same time. too many times on here I have seen men with more than one child that are a few months apart in age. One case the babies were a week apart and the father was so sure the one child was not his with the ex because he had moved on with the other baby mama. Both him and his new girlfriend were upset with that news and the judge had to remind the new girlfriend that that child was HER child's sibling and her child deserved to be able to grow up knowing his sibling.
The judge was so wrong for encouraging him to stay and be the father of this child when the mother is so disrespectful to him. Why didn’t she encourage him to go back to his state and fight to get his name removed from the birth certificate. He needs to leave her little one and little boy in the dust.
WHY TF WOULD THE GUY IN THE FIRST CASE STAY FOR THE CHILD AFTER HES NOT THE FATHER AND THE MOTHER DEGRADES HIM EVERY CHANCE SHE GETS ??? F her & that baby! Judge needs to stop trying to guilt trip the guy into staying. In cases where the guy has cheats and has a baby on his girlfriend or wife i don't see her coming with the same speech for the woman that got cheated on smh. she so trash for that.
Well, to be fair, she wouldn't say that to the woman because the child still has their own mother... but, yes, I agree. He needs to get as far away, as fast as possible from that woman.
Fam did we watch the same show. All she rant and shouting she did on both of the especially her but yall still for the clouds. multiple men that call women hoed all day on this show. SMH
In the first case she knew all the while he wasn't the father and only decided to tell the truth when the father died and she wanted to collect benefits. Shame on her
Yes, but for the sake of both of them, the child and the man, let him ease away slowly so as not to rip a hole in the heart of "his son." It's going to be traumatic and hurtful for both of them. He loves the boy and boy loves him. May the grandmother find joy in her new grandson to make her grief less paining.
@@ashabirich1776 that’s not his son clearly she said he’s not the father so why prolong it some of you women are truly evil as long as you aren’t effected you don’t care about the man that child doesn’t belong to him so he should leave him where is he and MOVE ON TO A REAL WOMAN who doesn’t sleep around
@@ashabirich1776 and you can’t replace your child with someone else that’s not how life works that’s not fair to that child using him as a proxy for her dead son that’s sick
1st case the judge asking the guy to stay in the childs life, no way the way the mother spoke to him let her figure it out herself. And the way the judge just skipped over the mans hurt pffff so one sided.
She called him ‘a little fellow’, disgraceful, gaslighting piece of a person.. u told him he was the father then start to belittle him????? That should be a fraud case
The disrespect in calling that grown man little fella was discouraging. The judge would never all a man to repeatedly call a woman a disrespectful term
Im appauled at the Mother in the 1st case first off. She started the name calling and i agree he shouldnt have done anything back, angry with her or not. The 2nd im more shocked that Judge Lake didnt mention to her about being sorry to the man. She didnt have one ounce of sorry and he was hurt that that boy wasnt his. Wish the heck that grandmother could raise that boy the way she acts. She wont allow that man in his life after getting the news he's not the father. She just got his money for 4 yrs and now get more from the Grandmother as she'll definitly be all over that little boy and understandable with losing her son. Its a shame how these people act and there raising children. All the best
1st case: They are both disrespectful. That said, I wish the norm and law would change. Many times men are lied to, sometimes even end up serving jail time for back child support payments for a child thats is not theres. I respect Judge Lake but hate it when she tries to guilt a man to continue being in the child's life. Let these men decide without any bias seed being planted.
I hate that Judge Lake will try to guilt these men into being in these children life ! You know these women are cheaters and liars. Wonder if she will instruct her children to do this if this were to happen
The judge needs to stop guilting these men to stay in these kids lives that aren’t there’s. They deserve to find a woman and have their own family. She kills me with that
The first case the judge let the name calling go on for to long. She was calling him 'little one' multiple times and he didnt disrespect her until after multiple times of her calling little one, and little fella, etc.
This judge is just as much a mess as the woman in the court. She jumps on this man with both feet but allow the woman to totally degrade and disrespect the man. It's ridiculous that a judge uses her courtroom in such a manner. The mother should be locked up because she knew she was with someone else. And now the judge wants the man to take care of someone else's child. Please
As many of these recordings are about 8-10 years old, I wonder what these couples feel like when they see them today. Is it shame, embarrassment or have they just not grown up any more in the intervening years. What about the children in these cases, all old enough to watch and understand everything that is going on here. How does it affect them?
Most especially for those children who were rejected and the results came out that they are their biological dads, these women and men talk alot of bad words feeling sorry for the kids
My sister's and I have this trait from our father. Some of us have 1 hole in 1 ear and some of us have 1 hole in each ear. I have a hole in each ear. My son.s doesn't have this trait
In the second case, it took him to realize, only after the DNA test, that he and the baby had the EXACT same nose. I noticed the similarities halfway through their case.
No, he already noticed it, that's why he commented on it so quickly. I think he thought it was a strong possibility the whole time. That's why he kept calling him handsome (though he is). But it's not just his nose, he just looks like him...
Calling him little fella is so degrading. Wish the Judge would have called her out. Had he calling her a name related to her size he would have been corrected
So you don't see a child as an individual person? They are an extension of their parents? So if you don't like or hate a child's parent, you would treat their child the same way? You don't have to financially support a child but you can continue to love them as they love you.
The 1st case that lady needs to grow up she was the one clowning calling him little but you were with him smh. She is very disrespectful..clapping and looking around (like I know she’s not talking to me) while Judge Lake was addressing her. Also that man needs to run it’s unfortunate the dad passed but he doesn’t have to stick around because of that.
Ist case: The man stepped up to be the child's father even though he felt like he was not the father. All for him to get told he is not the father and get guilt tripped by the Judge telling him he should continue to be there for a child that is not his and a woman he cannot stand!!! Here is a clear example of why so many men do not step up until they find out if the child is theirs or not for sure!!! The Judge was wrong for guilt tripping him. That girl is all kinds of crazy and the child that is not mine would not be enough to keep many men around!! I could understand if they were in a relationship or married!!!🙄
AMEN! Now you said it best! Before they're allowed to sign a Birth Certificate, you're right, a DNA Test should be mandatory! That would put a stop to a whole lot of this mess! If I were a Man, I wish ANYBODY would approach me, talking about me taking care of a Child that has been proven not to be mine! Over my dead body!! And just being honest, I would love to know just how quickly the Judge would have her Son, or her Husband take care of a Child that a Woman is saying one of them is the Father of, without any proof? I'm not saying that, being funny or disrespectful, but it can happen to anybody! These days, they're doing so much laying around, they'll say somebody's the Father that has never even touched them!! You said it perfectly and I've been saying it, so I definitely agree with you!!
The mother of the decreased young man in the first case was a breath of fresh air. Thank God for her, regardless of any results. Carolina Cheryl aka FoogleFan
The guy in the first case should petition for his name to be removed from the birth certificate and run away from this lady. Let her find a man she can respect so he can act like a father figure.
This is a prime example of why she should be off the television.... No sympathy for this man whatsoever after it turns out not to be his child it's like he's forgotten smfh
That DNA is not accurate I don't believe it. They need to really start working harder with better documents. This man is the child father they look exactly the same. That's reallly painful for both the child and the living boyfriend.
