If you commit adultery, do you have to tell your spouse? 

It makes sense

Same

This is me. I was healthy before getting married. I was even put in a special member class by my health insurance after a health exam showed I was in perfect health. After just one year of marriage, everything began falling apart from the stress and his lies. Nine years later, should I numerate my health issues? I have a heart issue from stress, i lost my hearing from stress, i developed diabetes from hormonal problems due to stress, I'm losing my ability to remember and learn which is leading to dementia and it's due to stress.

What kind of health issues?

I disagree

@@strawberriesblueberries2258 I agree. It's taking your own pain and transferring it to someone else who doesn't deserve it. You need to live with the pain of what you’ve done

I AGREE, she denies all, with 2 separate partners, possibly 4 more! She refuses polygraph, so once all 4 kids are over 18, I’m gonna sit her down and ask her all the tuff questions in front of them! I think she will break down 😢, you might be able to lie to your husband and beg for forgiveness, but then lying to your 4 babies too!? Yeah, nahhh… she’ll be cooked!😅

The real trickery is your adultery.

Don't fall for that Narcissist bullcrap. Its victimizing yourself. Just be accountable.

when you get married for better for worse so when someone cheats i would think it would go under worse- death do us part. but most all go for the divorce

Sounds like you are still trying to blame that man for what you did. That's narcissistic. Take accountability and stop blaming others. He may have forgave you but that does not mean he wants to stay with you. Take accountability and do better next time. That's it.

He played a part in what?

He admitted fault, therefore he's not a narcissist. Maybe an a-hole or neglectful or even abusive, but not a narcissist.

Why stay in a separated state for that long? Amd yes. You need to be honest.

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You do realize that's a story about why polygamy is bad, right? 😂

Then you aren’t in covenant, it’s not adultery

So no…

"What if you aren't married *yet*?" Does your future spouse deserve to know? Yes He/she should be given the opportunity to decide if they want to move forward with a lifelong commitment to you having absolute knowledge of the truth. Giving him/her that respect may very likely end the betrothal. However, not confessing for your own personal gain is selfish and deceitful. It WILL negatively impact your partnership and most likely will come out at some point anyway. Better sooner than later. If you genuinely love this person and are committed to being a Godly spouse then repent and live your life accordingly. If you don't, get out of the way of the spouse God has set aside for them to be loved, honored, cherished and protected by. True love is selfless. Secrecy is self centered and self serving.

Then it's the sin of fornication and not adultery. All sex outside of marriage is the sin of fornication.

Any sex outside of marriage is adultery, even if that person is your future spouse.